Pingree v. Cossette , 424 P.3d 371 ( 2018 )


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    THE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF ALASKA
    BETH PINGREE,                                      )
    )    Supreme Court No. S-16763
    Appellant,                   )
    )    Superior Court No. 3KO-15-00276 CI
    v.                                           )
    )    OPINION
    ANDRE COSSETTE,                                    )
    )    No. 7263 – July 27, 2018
    Appellee.                    )
    )
    Appeal from the Superior Court of the State of Alaska, Third
    Judicial District, Kodiak, Pat L. Douglass and William F.
    Morse, Judges.
    Appearances: Melvin M. Stephens, II, Kodiak, for Appellant.
    Jill C. Wittenbrader, Law Office of Jill Wittenbrader, LLC,
    Kodiak, for Appellee.
    Before: Stowers, Chief Justice, Winfree, Maassen, and
    Carney, Justices. [Bolger, Justice, not participating.]
    WINFREE, Justice.
    I.    INTRODUCTION
    A couple had a daughter together and then separated while she was still
    very young. The parents lived in different towns and alternated physical custody of the
    daughter. After they were unable to agree on a permanent arrangement for shared
    custody, the mother filed a complaint for primary physical custody and the father
    counterclaimed for the same. Both parents wanted primary physical custody during the
    school year; the father, a commercial fisherman, was unavailable for two to three summer
    months each year. The superior court found that equal custody time was appropriate but
    impossible given the separate domicile locations, and also that minimal custodial time
    with the father would be harmful to the daughter. The court therefore awarded primary
    physical custody to the father, so long as the parents continue to live in separate
    locations. The mother appeals. Seeing no reversible error in the court’s evidentiary
    decisions, factual findings, or discretionary decisions, we affirm the superior court’s
    custody decree.
    II.   FACTS AND PROCEEDINGS
    Beth Pingree and Andre Cossette lived together in Kodiak; in August 2013
    Beth gave birth to their daughter. Their daughter lived with Beth and Andre in the
    Kodiak home or at the Pingree family lodge near Uganik. Beth was with their daughter
    most of the time, and Andre was with the two of them when not commercial fishing.
    Beth and Andre separated in February 2015, when Beth ended the
    relationship and permanently moved to Uganik, taking their daughter with her. Andre
    remained in contact with their daughter when Beth traveled to Kodiak and when he
    visited Uganik. In October Beth and their daughter visited Andre in Kodiak to discuss
    a custody plan, but discussions broke down and Beth and their daughter returned to
    Uganik. Beth then emailed Andre, telling him that she would not return to Kodiak with
    their daughter, that he was not welcome in Uganik, and that she did not want him to
    contact her. Andre responded through counsel by proposing a week-on, week-off
    custody plan, to which Beth eventually agreed.
    In November Beth filed a custody complaint, requesting primary physical
    custody and joint legal custody. Andre answered and counterclaimed for primary
    physical custody. The superior court held an interim custody hearing in mid-February
    2016 and found that the statutory best interests factors were either inapplicable, weighed
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    equally for both parents, or weighed equally against both parents. The court concluded
    that equal time with both parents was in their daughter’s best interests and ordered the
    week-on, week-off schedule to continue.
    The court appointed a custody investigator to assess the case. The week-on,
    week-off schedule continued during the investigation until August, when Beth moved
    to Soldotna to pursue Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) training. Andre then
    moved for custody modification, arguing that weekly travel from Kodiak to Soldotna
    was prohibitively expensive. The court found the move was a substantial change in
    circumstances and modified the interim custody arrangement to a month-on, month-off
    schedule to reduce transitions. Beth later moved to Homer, working as a volunteer
    firefighter/EMT with the goal of permanent employment at the local fire station. The
    move to Homer did not affect the month-on, month-off schedule.
    The case was reassigned to another superior court judge in February 2017,
    who presided over a two-day hearing on March 15 and May 2. Beth and Andre agreed
    on joint legal custody, but each sought primary physical custody; both parents wanted
    physical custody during the school year.
    Beth testified about background information and discussed her life in
    Homer. Beth also testified that their daughter’s first years had been primarily lived with
    Beth and that she had tried to facilitate their daughter’s relationship with Andre. Beth
    and her supporting witnesses testified about the daughter’s emotional distress at leaving
    Beth and the daughter’s changed behavior while with Andre. They reported that she
    regressed in potty-training, wet herself repeatedly, could no longer sleep without milk,
    refused to let Beth leave her sight, became remote and brooding, and had repeated
    nightmares. Beth reported one especially troubling incident when their daughter returned
    from Kodiak and made several statements suggesting sexual abuse. Beth took their
    daughter to have medical exams twice, but neither exam could be completed because the
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    daughter refused to let a practitioner examine her below the waist. An Office of
    Children’s Services (OCS) social worker who worked with the family to respond to the
    incident testified that OCS investigated, but, after concluding that it was being drawn
    into a custody battle, it closed the case. A retired judge from Minnesota who regularly
    visited the Pingree lodge testified that the daughter was exhibiting extreme behavior, and
    he opined that Beth should receive primary custody.
    Beth also sought to introduce into evidence four questionnaires submitted
    by her witnesses to the custody investigator. Andre objected that the questionnaires
    “contain[ed] a lot of hearsay statements” and the superior court excluded all four.
    Andre testified about his own view of the background information and
    described his caring for their daughter as a baby and pre-separation. He also testified
    about their daughter’s life in Kodiak, the enrichment activities he provided her, and how
    he had not noticed any behavioral distress while she was with him. Andre testified that
    he fished or worked various jobs throughout the year but that he was guaranteed to be
    salmon fishing in Bristol Bay every June and July. Andre’s friends and family supported
    his testimony that the daughter was happy and thriving when with him, as did Sun’aq
    tribal workers who provided him parenting classes. A pilot who facilitated some of the
    transitions between Uganik and Kodiak testified that he did not notice anything unusual
    at transitions like the distress Beth was reporting.
    Throughout the hearing there was evidence that Beth used corporal
    punishment on the daughter by switching her with an alder twig. The superior court
    made three comments suggesting its disapproval of the practice, including that it would
    order Beth to stop the switching because it was close to a criminal act. But the court
    apparently did not issue such an order.
    The superior court entered a custody order in June, awarding joint legal
    custody and primary physical custody to Andre. The custody order began with a case
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    synopsis and fact summary. The court summarized each party’s evidence, the daughter’s
    behavioral issues, and the issue of potential sexual abuse. The court attributed the
    daughter’s behavioral difficulties to the on-off transitions, finding that her behavior
    subsided after the change to a month-on, month-off schedule, and it did not make any
    findings about sexual abuse. The court also noted, without further analysis, that Beth
    used a switch and that she did not think it was inappropriate. The court then found that
    none of the witnesses were lying and that all of the testimony “was basically true.” But
    the court also found the retired judge was unnecessarily “eager[] to express his opinion,”
    and it disregarded his testimony. The custody order did not refer to the custody
    investigation report or custody investigator’s testimony in any way.
    The custody order then set forth the court’s analysis. The custody order
    contained a general analysis of the daughter’s best interests roughly corresponding to the
    statutory best interests factors.1 The court found that: the daughter had the usual needs
    of a three-year-old child and her only special needs were caused by her parents living
    apart; both parents were capable, could care for their daughter, and did care for her; the
    daughter was too young to have a parental preference; both parents loved their daughter
    and their daughter loved them; the daughter spent most of her young life with Beth but
    the daughter’s life with Andre was “impress[ive],” and she should continue having “as
    close to equal time with each parent” as possible; Beth was resistant to letting Andre play
    an equal role in their daughter’s life; there was no evidence of domestic violence; and
    there was no evidence of substance abuse.
    The court found that having equal time with each parent would not be
    possible unless the parents lived in the same community. The court then found that
    1
    See AS 25.24.150(c) (“The court shall determine custody in accordance
    with the best interests of the child . . . . In determining the best interests of the child the
    court shall consider [eight factors plus any other relevant factors].”).
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    giving Beth primary physical custody would be harmful to the daughter because she
    would only see Andre for four weeks a year, as he would be fishing during his summer
    custody. The court therefore gave Andre primary physical custody beginning when
    school started, with Beth having summer visitation, contingent on the parents continuing
    to live in different towns.
    Beth appeals.
    III.   STANDARD OF REVIEW
    Superior courts are vested with “broad discretion” in making child custody
    decisions.2 “We will reverse a trial court’s resolution of custody issues only if . . .
    convinced that the record shows an abuse of discretion or if controlling factual findings
    are clearly erroneous.”3 The superior court abuses its discretion when it assigns too
    much weight to some factors while ignoring others,4 fails to consider statutorily
    mandated factors,5 elevates the parents’ interests above the child’s,6 or considers
    impermissible factors.7 A fact finding is clearly erroneous when our “review of the entire
    2
    Vachon v. Pugliese, 
    931 P.2d 371
    , 375 (Alaska 1996).
    3
    
    Id. (quoting Gratrix
    v. Gratrix, 
    652 P.2d 76
    , 79-80 (Alaska 1982)).
    4
    
    Id. (quoting Gratrix
    , 652 P.2d at 80).
    5
    Chesser v. Chesser-Witmer, 
    178 P.3d 1154
    , 1157 (Alaska 2008) (quoting
    J.L.P. v. V.L.A., 
    30 P.3d 590
    , 594 (Alaska 2001)).
    6
    
    Vachon, 931 P.2d at 375
    (quoting 
    Gratrix, 652 P.2d at 80
    ).
    7
    Carle v. Carle, 
    503 P.2d 1050
    , 1055 (Alaska 1972), superseded on other
    grounds by statute, ch. 63, § 30, SLA 1977. Whether a factor itself is permissible or
    impermissible, however, we decide using our independent judgment. See 
    id. (“We think
    it is not permissible, in a bicultural context, to decide a child’s custody on the hypothesis
    that it is necessary to facilitate the child’s adjustment to what is believed to be the
    dominant culture. Such judgments are, in our view, not relevant to the determination of
    (continued...)
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    record leaves us ‘with a definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made.’ ”8
    “The trial court’s factual findings enjoy particular deference when they are based
    ‘primarily on oral testimony, because the trial court, not this court, judges the credibility
    of witnesses and weighs conflicting evidence.’ ”9 Clearly erroneous fact findings are
    reversible error when they are “controlling,” but not if they are immaterial.10 The
    superior court’s evidentiary decisions are reviewed for abuse of discretion.11
    IV.	   DISCUSSION
    Beth argues that the superior court erred in evidentiary decisions, factual
    findings, and the ultimate custody decision. We address each of her arguments in turn.
    A.	    The Custody Order Is Not Legally Flawed By Erroneous
    Consideration Of The Evidence.
    Beth argues that the final custody order is “flawed by an inappropriately
    selective consideration and discussion of the evidence.” She contends the superior court
    erred by: (1) failing to discuss the custody investigation report; (2) excluding four
    questionnaires that informed the custody investigator’s report; and (3) disregarding the
    retired judge’s testimony. We see no error.
    7
    (...continued)
    custody issues.”).
    8
    Millette v. Millette, 
    177 P.3d 258
    , 261 (Alaska 2008) (quoting Dingeman
    v. Dingeman, 
    865 P.2d 94
    , 96 (Alaska 1993)).
    9
    Sheffield v. Sheffield, 
    265 P.3d 332
    , 335 (Alaska 2011) (quoting Josephine
    B. v. State, Dep’t of Health & Soc. Servs., Office of Children’s Servs., 
    174 P.3d 217
    , 222
    (Alaska 2007)).
    10
    See 
    Vachon, 931 P.2d at 375
    (“We will reverse a trial court’s resolution of
    custody issues only if . . . convinced that . . . controlling factual findings are clearly
    erroneous.” (emphasis added) (quoting 
    Gratrix, 652 P.2d at 79-80
    )).
    11
    Marron v. Stromstad, 
    123 P.3d 992
    , 998 (Alaska 2005).
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    First, Beth argues that “the trial judge . . . should not be permitted to ignore
    the custody investigator’s input without comment,” or, alternatively, that failing to do so
    was an abuse of discretion “on the facts of this case.” But we addressed and rejected
    identical arguments in Chase v. Chase.12 In that case a parent argued that the superior
    court abused its discretion because it “simply ignored the custody investigator’s report
    without explaining why the court chose to disregard the report.”13 We rejected that
    argument, holding that “the trial court is not obligated to adopt a custody investigator’s
    recommendations” and “is under no obligation to make specific findings regarding the
    report as long as the court considers the appropriate statutory factors.”14
    To the extent Beth wants a per se rule that a court must at least discuss a
    custody investigator’s report when it disagrees with the custody investigator, that rule
    was considered and rejected in Chase.15 To the extent Beth is arguing only that it was
    an abuse of discretion not to discuss the custody investigator’s report in this case, this
    case is indistinguishable from Chase.16 We therefore hold that the superior court did not
    abuse its discretion by failing to discuss the custody investigator’s report.
    12
    
    109 P.3d 942
    , 945-46 (Alaska 2005).
    13
    
    Id. at 945.
           14
    
    Id. at 945-46.
           15
    See 
    id. 16 See
    id. Though Beth 
    does not attempt to distinguish Chase on this ground,
    the custody investigator apparently did not testify in that case. But the difference does
    not affect our analysis; “the court ordinarily has no obligation to accept expert testimony
    when it finds other evidence more persuasive; nor is the court bound to favor the
    testimony of an ostensibly neutral witness who is unconvincing over that of a witness
    who testifies convincingly despite circumstances suggesting potential bias.” 
    Id. at 946
    (quoting Evans v. Evans, 
    869 P.2d 478
    , 480 (Alaska 1994)).
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    Second, Beth argues that the superior court should not have excluded each
    questionnaire in its entirety simply because it contained hearsay statements and that the
    questionnaires themselves (which obviously are hearsay17) are admissible under the rule
    of completeness, Alaska Evidence Rule 106, to complete the custody investigation.18 We
    find Beth’s rule-of-completeness argument unpersuasive.19 Rule 106 provides: “When
    a writing or recorded statement or part thereof is introduced by a party, an adverse party
    may require the introduction at that time of any other part or any other writing or
    recorded statement which ought in fairness to be considered contemporaneously with it.”
    The questionnaires are not admissible under this Rule. Rule 106 was adopted to prevent
    a party from creating a “misleading impression . . . by taking matters out of context.”20
    17
    See Alaska R. Evid. 801(c) (“Hearsay is a statement, other than one made
    by the declarant while testifying at the trial or hearing, offered in evidence to prove the
    truth of the matter asserted.”). Statements under this rule include writings, like the
    questionnaires. See Alaska R. Evid. 801(a) (“A statement is . . . an oral or written
    assertion . . . .”).
    18
    Beth cursorily mentions the common law rule of completeness and Alaska
    Evidence Rule 803(6) or (8) as alternative reasons for admission. But these passing
    references are undeveloped and are therefore abandoned. See Adamson v. Univ. of
    Alaska, 
    819 P.2d 886
    , 889 n.3 (Alaska 1991) (“[W]here a point is given only a cursory
    statement in the argument portion of a brief, the point will not be considered on
    appeal.”).
    19
    We do not address Beth’s argument that the superior court should not have
    excluded the questionnaires in their entirety simply because they contained some hearsay
    statements, because the questionnaires themselves were inadmissible hearsay.
    20
    See Fed. R. Evid. 106 advisory committee’s note to 1972 proposed rule
    (commenting on substantively identical federal rule). The Alaska Supreme Court
    Committee on Rules of Evidence voted to adopt the federal advisory committee’s
    commentary on Rule 106 as the commentary to Alaska Evidence Rule 106. Alaska R.
    Evid. 106 cmt.; see also Marron v. Stromstad, 
    123 P.3d 992
    , 1004 (Alaska 2005);
    (continued...)
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    Beth’s argument that the questionnaires were admissible as “source material” for the
    custody investigator does not fit within the scenario Rule 106 was designed to prevent;
    Beth points to no misleading impression that stemmed from considering only the custody
    investigator’s report.
    Beth’s “source material” argument strongly resembles an argument for
    disclosure under Alaska Evidence Rule 705. Custody investigators, as a type of expert,
    do not have to rely only on admissible evidence in forming their opinion, and evidence
    they rely on may be disclosed during the investigator’s testimony.21 But even if this Rule
    could have been the evidentiary basis for Beth’s proffer of the questionnaires, the record
    shows that Beth offered each witness’s questionnaire while that witness was on the stand
    to bolster that witness’s testimony, rather than to explain the custody investigator’s
    testimony.    The superior court did not abuse its discretion by excluding the
    questionnaires on a hearsay basis.
    Third, Beth argues that the retired judge’s testimony was no different from
    the other witnesses and that a retired judge serving as a fact witness should not be
    subjected to heightened credibility standards. But the issue here is not heightened
    credibility; the superior court simply weighed the judge’s testimony as it would that of
    any other witness, and it found that the judge’s “eagerness to express his opinion
    20
    (...continued)
    (“Alaska’s rules of evidence are similar to, and were modeled after the Federal Rules of
    Evidence.”); Estate of Arrowwood ex rel. Loeb v. State, 
    894 P.2d 642
    , 647 & n.24
    (Alaska 1995) (relying on advisory committee’s note to federal rules to interpret Alaska
    Rules of Evidence).
    21
    See Alaska R. Evid. 703 (“Facts or data need not be admissible in
    evidence, but must be of a type reasonably relied upon by experts in the particular field
    in forming opinions or inferences upon the subject.”); Alaska R. Evid. 705(a) (“The
    expert may in any event disclose on direct examination, or be required to disclose on
    cross-examination, the underlying facts or data . . . .”).
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    undercut[] the neutrality of his reported observations.” “[T]he trial court, not this court,
    judges the credibility of witnesses.”22 The superior court reasonably discounted the
    judge’s testimony based on his unnecessary attempts to bolster his opinion and the
    court’s firsthand view of all the evidence.
    We therefore find no reversible error in the superior court’s consideration
    of the evidence.
    B.	    Controlling Factual Findings Are Not Clearly Erroneous.
    Beth next argues that the superior court made five clearly erroneous factual
    findings to support its decision. Because controlling factual findings are supported by
    the record, we see no reversible error.
    1.	    The superior court’s finding that it asked Beth if Andre had
    behaved inappropriately is clearly erroneous but immaterial.
    Beth first argues that the superior court clearly erred when it noted: “At the
    hearing the [c]ourt asked [Beth] if she suspected [Andre] had done something
    unacceptable. She said no.” Beth argues that, because this interaction never occurred,
    we must be wary of all of the superior court’s findings. Beth also intimates that she may
    have said something different if actually asked this question.
    Beth appears to be correct that the superior court clearly erred by making
    this finding. We have not been able to find, nor has Andre pointed us toward, any record
    evidence that this interaction occurred. The superior court likely was referring to the
    following question between Beth and her counsel:
    Q:	    In regards to the OCS incident, you heard testimony
    today that indicated there was some sort of an
    accusation or implication that Andre was the
    22
    Sheffield v. Sheffield, 
    265 P.3d 332
    , 335 (Alaska 2011) (quoting Josephine
    B. v. State, Dep’t of Health & Soc. Servs., Office of Children’s Servs., 
    174 P.3d 217
    , 222
    (Alaska 2007)).
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    perpetrator — and I hate — that word just doesn’t
    seem right — but was the perpetrator. Did you ever
    accuse Andre of doing this?
    A:	    No.
    Q:	    And was it your intent to convey that he had done
    something?
    A:	    No.
    Even if clear error, this was not a “controlling factual finding” and therefore
    not reversible error.23 Beth’s counsel’s question was substantially similar to the court’s
    memory, and Beth has not argued here that Andre committed an act of domestic violence
    or child abuse that requires a different weighing of the best interests factors.24 The
    erroneous finding is immaterial.
    2.	    The finding that Andre could spend only four weeks a year with
    their daughter if he did not receive primary physical custody is
    not clearly erroneous.
    Beth next argues that the superior court clearly erred by finding that Andre
    could remain involved in their daughter’s life for only four weeks per year if Beth had
    primary physical custody. Beth argues that the hearing testimony and our judicial notice
    of the Homer school calendar would show that Andre could be meaningfully involved
    and have at least six weeks of guaranteed visitation each summer, plus an additional two
    weeks during school year breaks.
    23
    See supra note 10 and accompanying text.
    24
    See AS 25.24.150(c)(6) (directing court to disregard parent’s willingness
    to facilitate close relationship between other parent and child if “one parent shows that
    the other parent has sexually assaulted or engaged in domestic violence against the parent
    or a child, and that a continuing relationship with the other parent will endanger the
    health or safety of either the parent or the child”); AS 25.24.150(c)(7) (directing court
    to consider “any evidence of domestic violence, child abuse, or child neglect”).
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    The superior court did not clearly err. Beth argues on appeal that the
    Homer school calendar shows the first day of school is the day after Labor Day, which
    means Andre could have six weeks of physical custody each summer if she has primary
    custody. But Beth never presented this calendar to the superior court, and, when the
    court asked when their daughter would see Andre, Beth expressly agreed with the court
    that it would be two to four weeks. In this posture, the propriety of this court taking
    judicial notice of the Homer school calendar for the first time on appeal is questionable
    at best.
    First, taking judicial notice of a fact not presented below presents serious
    fairness concerns to the opposing party. The case was litigated on the joint assumption
    that Andre would have limited time during the summer. Second, taking judicial notice
    of a fact not presented below presents serious judicial economy concerns. Even if Beth
    did not actually do so in this case, she could have strategically withheld this information
    to bolster her appeal to require a remand, delaying finality and expending more court
    resources. Third, taking judicial notice of a school calendar is unwieldy. School
    calendars may be generally stable, but there is no guarantee that school will also start in
    September next year, or the year after that, or any of the following years that their
    daughter will be school age. Finding clear error based solely on this year’s calendar is
    in the nature of speculation.
    We thus decline to take judicial notice in this case.25 Without such notice,
    the evidence before the superior court (and Beth and her counsel’s own representations)
    25
    See Dault v. Shaw, 
    322 P.3d 84
    , 97 n.5 (Alaska 2013) (Winfree, J.,
    dissenting) (“[W]hether an appellate court will for the first time take judicial notice of
    a judicially notable fact rests largely in its own discretion.” (quoting Mills v. Denver
    Tramway Corp., 
    155 F.2d 808
    , 812 (10th Cir. 1946))).
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    supports its finding of four weeks’ physical custody. We are not left “with a definite and
    firm conviction that a mistake has been made.”26
    3.	     The finding that the daughter should have as close to equal time
    with each parent as possible is not clearly erroneous.
    Beth next challenges the superior court’s finding that the daughter should
    have as close to equal time with each parent as their schedules permit. Beth argues that
    the finding is not supported by the record and is therefore “a statement of judicial
    preference and . . . a non-statutory legal standard.”
    Although Beth is correct that a judicial preference to equalize parenting
    time without regard to the daughter’s best interests would be error,27 we are not
    persuaded that the superior court’s finding was a statement of judicial preference rather
    than a true fact finding of what was important to the daughter based on the record. The
    court expressly noted that “it is important that [the daughter] have as close to equal time”
    with her parents as possible. This reference to importance to the daughter was
    immediately followed by the statement that “[b]oth have much to offer” her. And the
    record is replete with evidence that Beth and Andre were both supportive parents from
    whom their daughter benefitted: Beth primarily cared for their daughter for the first two
    26
    See Millette v. Millette, 
    177 P.3d 258
    , 261 (Alaska 2008) (quoting
    Dingeman v. Dingeman, 
    865 P.2d 94
    , 96 (Alaska 1993)). Even if we were to take
    judicial notice, Beth has not presented a convincing argument that this was a
    “controlling” fact finding. See supra note 10. The superior court reasoned that “it is
    important that [their daughter] have as close to equal time with each parent as their
    schedules permit” and that being in Andre’s care for only four weeks a year “would be
    harmful to her.” The difference between four weeks and eight weeks, or a 92/8 split and
    85/15 split, likely would have made no difference to the superior court’s decision.
    27
    See Vachon v. Pugliese, 
    931 P.2d 371
    , 375 (Alaska 1996) (“On review we
    must determine whether that discretion has been abused, . . . perhaps by elevating the
    interests of one of the parties to the dispute above that of the child . . . .” (quoting Gratrix
    v. Gratrix, 
    652 P.2d 76
    , 79-80 (Alaska 1982))).
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    years of her life; Andre shared in parenting duties when their daughter was a baby; Beth
    kept a stable routine in Uganik; Andre has a weekly enrichment schedule with
    educational, physical, and cultural activities; Beth ensures their daughter has friends and
    play dates; Andre ensures she has a friend group her age; Beth has provided her
    healthcare and daycare; and Andre has enrolled in parenting classes through the Sun’aq
    tribe of Kodiak. When the record contains such evidence, equal custody time certainly
    is not inappropriate.28 We are not left with a “definite and firm conviction that a mistake
    has been made.”29
    4.	    The finding that the daughter’s distress lessened after switching
    to a month-on, month-off schedule is not clearly erroneous.
    Beth next challenges the superior court’s finding that the daughter’s
    emotional distress grew “less severe after the alternate month schedule began.” Beth
    argues that the superior court clearly erred because she and her mother testified the
    daughter’s distress was growing worse and there is no evidence to the contrary.
    Although the superior court may have clearly erred if Beth’s assertions
    about the record were necessarily true, they are not. The custody investigator testified
    that “it sounds like she’s adapted to this alternating month schedule.” And Beth herself
    testified:
    Q:	    When the month-on/month-off visits started, did you
    notice a difference . . . compared to the week-on/week­
    off visits?
    28
    See Faulkner v. Goldfuss, 
    46 P.3d 993
    , 999 (Alaska 2002) (“The legislature
    has stated that ‘it is generally desirable to assure a minor child frequent and continuing
    contact with both parents after the parents have separated . . . .’ ” (quoting ch. 88, § 1(a),
    SLA 1982)).
    29
    See 
    Millette, 177 P.3d at 261
    (quoting 
    Dingeman, 865 P.2d at 96
    ).
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    A:	    Compared to the week-on and week-off visits, she still
    continues to have potty accidents for, like, the week
    after she comes. I think the difference is that she has
    enough time to actually get settled in a household. We
    have — the first week she gets there is usually —
    again, it’s — there’s potty accidents. She’s got
    massive anxieties about, you know, me leaving, don’t
    go out of my sight.
    Usually about the second week she finally settles down
    a little bit. The potty accidents stop. Her anxiety
    levels seem to drop a little bit. I can safely go to the
    bathroom or carry a grocery bag in from the car
    without her completely freaking out.
    That usually — she seems to settle in and be
    comfortable for about two weeks, until she knows that
    she’s getting ready to leave again. (Emphases added.)
    Beth’s own testimony thus supports the superior court’s finding that the disruptions as
    a whole were “less severe,” even if the transition periods themselves remained difficult.
    We are not left with a “definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made.”30
    5.	    The finding that Beth is resistant to letting Andre play an equal
    role in the daughter’s life is not clearly erroneous.
    Beth finally argues that the superior court clearly erred by finding that she
    is “resistant to having [Andre] play an equal role in [the daughter]’s life, despite her
    articulations to the contrary.” Beth argues that the record cannot support this finding
    unless we accept the superior court’s reasoning, which uses Beth’s petition for primary
    30
    See id. (quoting 
    Dingeman, 865 P.2d at 96
    ). We recognize that Beth
    testified that the transitions themselves remained difficult, and we understand her
    concerns. But we do not read the final custody order as finding that the difficulties had
    disappeared, only lessened. To the extent Beth is challenging the superior court’s failure
    to award her primary physical custody because the transitions themselves remain
    difficult, we address that issue infra at p. 19.
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    physical custody as some evidence that she does not want Andre in their daughter’s life.
    Beth argues that using her desire for primary physical custody is wholly inappropriate,
    “erroneous being something of an understatement.”
    “[T]he trial court, not this court, judges the credibility of witnesses and
    weighs conflicting evidence.”31 And there is “conflicting evidence” that supports the
    superior court’s finding, including Andre’s testimony that Beth will not faciliate co-
    parenting with him and is rude and cold at exchanges, Beth’s testimony that she had not
    considered when their daughter would see Andre under her custody plan, and Beth’s
    testimony that she had not been courteous to Andre’s family at exchanges. Once more,
    we are not left with a “definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made.”32
    Beth’s argument that the superior court erred by referencing her custody
    petition as evidence presents a closer question. When parents live in separate locations,
    a parent’s desire to have primary physical custody should not be weighed against that
    parent absent additional facts indicating unwillingness to facilitate the other parent’s
    relationship. But it is not so clear that the superior court was referring to the bare fact
    that Beth filed her custody petition, instead of the practical effect of her legal requests
    on her daughter. And, as we have noted, here there was plentiful other evidence
    supporting the superior court’s finding, and the order makes clear that the court would
    order a 50/50 split if either parent moved close enough to the other to make shared
    custody feasible. Because there is other evidence in the record to support the superior
    court’s finding, that finding is not clearly erroneous.
    31
    Sheffield v. Sheffield, 
    265 P.3d 332
    , 335 (Alaska 2011) (quoting Josephine
    B. v. State, Dep’t of Health & Soc. Servs., Office of Children’s Servs., 
    174 P.3d 217
    , 222
    (Alaska 2007)).
    32
    
    Millette, 177 P.3d at 261
    (quoting 
    Dingeman, 865 P.2d at 96
    ).
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    C.	    The Superior Court Did Not Abuse Its Discretion By Awarding Andre
    Primary Physical Custody.
    Beth argues that the superior court abused its discretion in four ways:
    equalizing parenting time at the expense of the daughter’s best interests; attaching not
    enough weight to Beth’s ability to meet the daughter’s needs and too much weight to the
    daughter’s and Andre’s love and affection for each other; impermissibly considering
    Beth’s corporal punishment practices without finding harm; and failing to give
    symmetric consideration to the daughter’s detriment from living with Andre compared
    to living with Beth. We perceive no abuse of discretion in the final custody decision.
    1.	    The superior court did not equalize parenting time at the
    expense of the daughter’s best interests.
    Beth’s first argument is that the superior court abused its discretion by
    “prioritizing the importance of equality of parental access to [the daughter] at the
    expense of her best interests.” Beth argues that allowing the court’s decision to stand
    paves the way for any parent who fishes during summers to automatically obtain primary
    physical custody.
    We reject Beth’s argument because it depends on our concluding that the
    superior court clearly erred by finding that equal time with both parents is important to
    their daughter. For the reasons discussed above, there was no clear error. As a whole
    the court’s order reflects its finding that the parents should have equal physical custody
    based on the best interests factors. In other words, Andre did not receive primary
    physical custody automatically because he fishes during the summers; he received
    primary physical custody because awarding one parent roughly 90% and the other only
    10% custody time would be harmful, and this was the only workable option. Given the
    court’s findings of the importance of equal time and the harm and benefit to the daughter,
    there was no abuse of discretion.
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    2.	    The superior court did not misweigh the daughter’s need for her
    mother and father.
    Beth next argues that the daughter’s distress shows that her need for
    stability, continuity, and emotional care will all be better served by Beth. Beth argues
    that the superior court created a “false equivalence” between the daughter’s happiness
    while in Andre’s care and her distress while in Beth’s.
    Beth’s argument overstates our role on review. “Custody disputes are
    among the most difficult matters which confront a trial judge. As a consequence, [we
    have] often noted that trial courts enjoy wide discretion in resolving custody disputes.”33
    When we do reverse a superior court’s decision for misweighing the custody factors, we
    do so because the weight the superior court accorded a factor is not supported by the
    record.34 This case does not present such a custody decision.
    First, as to Beth’s argument that the superior court did not give enough
    weight to the daughter’s emotional and social needs, the court’s decision shows that it
    did consider the daughter’s needs. The court noted that it was “concerned” by Beth’s
    testimony about the daughter’s reluctance to be with Andre but that “equally powerful
    and convincing testimony . . . caused the [c]ourt to question its initial impressions.” The
    court also found that the daughter’s emotional difficulties were caused by her “different
    experiences in the environments each parent offered,” that the constant transitions were
    a likely source of the difficulties, and that Andre was able to meet the daughter’s special
    needs caused by the difficulty of transitions, along with all of her other needs, once she
    33
    Craig v. McBride, 
    639 P.2d 303
    , 304 (Alaska 1982).
    34
    See Rego v. Rego, 
    259 P.3d 447
    , 459-60 (Alaska 2011) (affirming custody
    order because evidence was not out of step with weight given to factors); West v. West,
    
    21 P.3d 838
    , 843 (Alaska 2001) (reversing custody order because weight was based on
    assumptions and not evidence).
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    was in his care. As we explained above, the court’s finding that the daughter’s distress
    lessened was not clearly erroneous because the evidence shows she tended to improve
    once she was in one parent’s care for a longer period. The court properly considered this
    in its order and concluded that the daughter’s needs could be met if Andre had primary
    physical custody. Given this record, the court did not underweigh Beth’s argument that
    she was better able to meet the daughter’s needs.
    Second, as to Beth’s argument that the superior court gave too much weight
    to Andre’s and their daughter’s love and affection for each other, the evidence is not
    dramatically out of step with the weight the court gave to testimony about the daughter’s
    life with Andre. Beth argues that “[t]estimony that [their daughter] was genuinely happy
    when [in Andre’s care] simply does not address the plethora of evidence that [she] was
    emotionally distraught on multiple occasions when she was told she would have to leave
    her mother.” But the court’s analysis on this point was about whether Andre could meet
    the daughter’s needs, and the court was not unreasonable in concluding that the
    daughter’s happiness in Andre’s care rebutted testimony that she was not. Given the lack
    of a dramatic disparity between the evidence and the weight given it by the court, we are
    not persuaded that the daughter’s distress at leaving Beth required Beth to have primary
    physical custody.
    3.	    The superior court’s views on corporal punishment did not
    affect its final custody order.
    Beth argues that the superior court’s repeated comments expressing
    disapproval of her disciplinary practices show a “deeply seated aversion” to corporal
    punishment that “casts an unacceptable shadow upon the validity of [its] ruling.” Beth
    argues that the court’s personal views on corporal punishment are irrelevant unless the
    court found that her discipline was “excessive or harmful.”
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    Beth is correct that courts may not consider “impermissible factors” in the
    best interests analysis or “decide the custody issue on the basis of cultural assumptions
    which are not borne out by the record.”35 Though courts have broad discretion to
    consider any “factors that the court considers pertinent” when making custody
    determinations,36 this discretion is not unlimited. Evidence of a parent’s “lifestyle,
    habits, or character” is generally irrelevant.37 For instance, we have vacated custody
    determinations that considered the desirability of a Native child assimilating to white
    culture,38 a parent’s having children out of wedlock,39 a parent’s sexual conduct,40 a
    parent’s sexual orientation,41 a parent’s mental health,42 and the “tender years” doctrine.43
    The general rule for these impermissible factors is strict: “To avoid even
    the suggestion that a custody award stems from a life style conflict between a trial judge
    and a parent, . . . trial courts must scrupulously avoid reference to such factors . . . .”44
    35
    Carle v. Carle, 
    503 P.2d 1050
    , 1055 (Alaska 1972).
    36
    See AS 25.24.150(c)(9).
    37
    Britt v. Britt, 
    567 P.2d 308
    , 311 (Alaska 1977).
    38
    See 
    Carle, 503 P.2d at 1054-55
    .
    39
    See Craig v. McBride, 
    639 P.2d 303
    , 305-06 (Alaska 1982).
    40
    See Bonjour v. Bonjour, 
    566 P.2d 667
    , 669 (Alaska 1977).
    41
    See S.N.E. v. R.L.B., 
    699 P.2d 875
    , 879 (Alaska 1985).
    42
    See Morel v. Morel, 
    647 P.2d 605
    , 608 (Alaska 1982).
    43
    See Johnson v. Johnson, 
    564 P.2d 71
    , 74 (Alaska 1977). The tender years
    doctrine presumes that awarding maternal custody of a young child is in the child’s best
    interests. 
    Id. 44 Craig,
    639 P.2d at 306.
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    But certain lifestyle evidence, though generally impermissible, may properly be
    considered if grounded in the child’s best interests.45 For instance, courts may properly
    consider the sexual conduct of a parent when there is “evidence of an adverse effect to
    the parent-child relationship.”46 Thus, the rule is that courts may consider otherwise
    impermissible factors when there is “evidence of an adverse effect”47 on the parent-child
    relationship as opposed to “cultural assumptions which are not borne out by the
    record.”48
    There is no evidence in the record that Beth’s switching adversely affected
    the parent-child relationship, so our analysis is confined to whether differing views on
    corporal punishment present “a life style conflict between a trial judge and a parent.”49
    If they do, the superior court’s comments would have been improper. But if not, the
    comments could reflect a legitimate consideration of the daughter’s best interests under
    the catch-all provision of AS 25.24.150(c).50
    We conclude that differing views on corporal punishment present a lifestyle
    conflict between trial judge and parent. Our decision on this issue has ultimately been
    made for us; the legislature crafted the best interests standard, and the legislature has
    45
    
    Id. at 305.
          46
    
    Id. at 306.
          47
    See 
    id. 48 See
    Carle v. Carle, 
    503 P.2d 1050
    , 1055 (Alaska 1972).
    49
    See 
    Craig, 639 P.2d at 306
    .
    50
    See AS 25.24.150(c)(9) (“[T]he court shall consider . . . other factors that
    the court considers pertinent.”).
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    determined that corporal punishment can be in a child’s best interests.51 It was therefore
    inappropriate for the superior court to comment on Beth’s practice in a way that
    suggested disapproval without first finding harm to the child.52
    In this case, however, the potential error did not affect the superior court’s
    disposition. The court did not order Beth to stop using corporal punishment, and it did
    not tie corporal punishment into its best interests analysis. The court explicitly noted that
    it would order a 50/50 custody split if the parents lived in the same locality, despite its
    comments about corporal punishment. Given these facts, it is clear the court did not rely
    on Beth’s corporal punishment to reach its child custody decision.53
    4.	    The court superior did not violate the “symmetric
    consideration” rule or penalize Beth for moving to Homer.
    We previously have ruled that superior courts must consider the best
    interests of the child when a parent intends to move by considering consequences to the
    child with both the moving parent and non-moving parent.54 Beth argues that the court
    violated this “symmetric consideration” rule by considering only their daughter’s
    51
    See AS 11.81.430(a)(1) (“The use of force . . . is justified . . . [w]hen and
    to the extent reasonably necessary and appropriate to promote the welfare of the child
    . . . , a parent . . . use[s] reasonable and appropriate nondeadly force on that child.”).
    52
    We remind trial judges that comments indicating extrajudicial preferences
    must be scrupulously avoided, to avoid even the appearance of impropriety. Especially
    in family law matters, a trial judge’s personal preferences must be kept separate from the
    legal considerations. Craig v. McBride, 
    639 P.2d 303
    , 306 (Alaska 1982) (“[W]e
    reiterate that trial courts must scrupulously avoid reference to [impermissible] factors
    absent evidence of an adverse effect to the parent-child relationship.”).
    53
    Cf. S.N.E. v. R.L.B., 
    699 P.2d 875
    , 879 (Alaska 1985) (“Since the lower
    court’s findings were impermissibly tainted by reliance in part on the fact that Mother
    is a lesbian, we remand this case to the superior court . . . .” (emphasis added)).
    54
    Moeller-Prokosch v. Prokosch, 
    99 P.3d 531
    , 535-36 (Alaska 2004).
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    detriment from living with Beth, not her detriment from living with Andre. Beth also
    argues that the court impermissibly “punished” her for moving to Homer by attempting
    to coerce her to move to Kodiak.
    Beth’s symmetric consideration argument misunderstands the purpose of
    the rule. The symmetric consideration test ensures that courts weigh costs and benefits
    to a child when one parent asks for a custody order reflecting their plan to move.55 But
    it does not apply when the parents already live in separate locations at the time of the
    evidentiary hearing and the court hears evidence about the child’s environment in both
    locations.56 Here Beth had already moved to Homer and the court was able to weigh the
    evidence of stability in both Homer and Kodiak.
    Beth’s punishment argument is also faulty. Beth argues that the superior
    court erred when it included the following footnote in its custody order: “If both parties
    lived in the same town, say Kodiak, then the [c]ourt would craft a shared physical
    custody schedule during the school year.” But this footnote does not show any desire
    by the court to punish Beth; it is simply another instance of the court’s oft-repeated
    statement that a 50/50 custody split was in their daughter’s best interests but was
    impossible because of the parent’s living situations.57 And the court aimed this criticism
    equally at both Beth and Andre:
    [T]here’s another factor, which is if the two of you choose to
    live in separate locations, there’s a tremendous impact on this
    55
    Van Sickle v. McGraw, 
    134 P.3d 338
    , 342 (Alaska 2006).
    56
    
    Id. 57 Cf.
    Rego v. Rego, 
    259 P.3d 447
    , 455 (Alaska 2011) (“We [have] scrutinized
    the record before us in this case. We conclude that [Appellant]’s position [that the
    superior court was impermissibly punishing Appellant] is not supported by the record
    and would require us to apply undue skepticism to the superior court’s decision.”).
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    child. So someone has to make a decision about either you
    returning to Kodiak or you moving to Homer. I mean, that’s
    what responsible parents do. They sacrifice for their
    children.
    We therefore perceive no abuse of discretion in the final custody order.
    V.    CONCLUSION
    The superior court’s custody order is AFFIRMED.
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