Tyeisha Antoinette Thrasher v. Newport News Department of Human Services ( 2018 )


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  •                                                COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA
    Present: Judges Russell, AtLee and Malveaux
    UNPUBLISHED
    TYEISHA ANTOINETTE THRASHER
    MEMORANDUM OPINION* BY
    v.       Record No. 1323-17-1                               JUDGE MARY BENNETT MALVEAUX
    AUGUST 14, 2018
    NEWPORT NEWS DEPARTMENT OF
    HUMAN SERVICES
    FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE CITY OF NEWPORT NEWS
    Bryant L. Sugg, Judge
    (Joshua A. Goff; Goff Voltin, PLLC, on brief), for appellant.
    Appellant submitting on brief.
    (Shannon M. Manning, Senior Assistant City Attorney; Gary S.
    Nachman, Guardian ad litem for the minor children; Sarfan &
    Nachman, LLC, on brief), for appellee. Appellee and Guardian ad
    litem submitting on brief.
    The Newport News Circuit Court (“circuit court”) entered orders terminating the residual
    parental rights of Tyeisha Antoinette Thrasher (“mother”) to two of her children, pursuant to Code
    § 16.1-283(C)(2). She appeals those orders, arguing that the circuit court erred in denying her
    motion to strike and terminating her rights because the Newport News Department of Human
    Services (“DHS”) failed to prove, by clear and convincing evidence, that the termination criteria set
    forth in Code § 16.1-283(C) had been satisfied. For the reasons that follow, we affirm the circuit
    court.
    *
    Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication.
    I. BACKGROUND
    We review the evidence in the light most favorable to DHS, the party that prevailed
    below, affording it all inferences that are fairly deducible from this evidence. See Bristol Dep’t
    of Soc. Servs. v. Welch, 
    64 Va. App. 34
    , 40, 
    764 S.E.2d 284
    , 287 (2014).
    Events Prior to Termination Proceedings
    Mother and Carl Allen (“father”) married in 2015 and had twin girls, C.A. and C.J., in
    November of that year. In February 2016, C.J. was admitted to the hospital for failure to thrive.
    While there, she received a chest x-ray that indicated rib fractures. Further tests revealed that
    C.J. suffered from a “pull and bend” fracture of her left leg, as well as old and new subdural
    hematomas. A physician indicated that these injuries were non-accidental, and on March 10,
    2016, DHS received a referral alleging that C.J. had been abused.
    The following day, DHS interviewed mother and father. Neither parent could explain
    C.J.’s injuries, and both denied causing them. Mother insisted that she was her children’s
    primary caretaker and responsible for all of their care.
    On March 15, 2016, C.A. visited the hospital for a complete body scan. That scan
    revealed healing humerus and rib fractures. The physician who conducted the scan reported that
    C.A.’s injuries were indicative of child abuse. DHS took the twins into custody and filed
    emergency removal petitions on their behalf. Those petitions stated that C.J. and C.A. had
    “multiple serious injuries that have been noted by the physicians . . . to be non-accidental. The
    parents cannot provide an explanation for these injuries.” On March 16, the Newport News
    Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court (“J&DR court”) entered emergency removal
    orders for C.J. and C.A.
    Following a May 10, 2016 hearing, the J&DR court entered adjudicatory orders finding
    that C.J. and C.A. were abused or neglected as defined in Code § 16.1-228(1). The J&DR court
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    also entered dispositional orders which transferred custody of the children to DHS and approved
    initial foster care service plans with the goals of returning C.J. and C.A. to their home, with a
    concurrent goal of relative placement. The plans called for the parents to maintain stable
    employment and housing, complete parental capacity evaluations, participate in individual and
    family therapy, and take parenting classes. Father was also required to undergo a psychiatric
    evaluation, seek substance abuse treatment and medication management, and avoid criminal
    activity that would jeopardize his probation.
    Dr. Jennifer Gildea, a licensed clinical psychologist, performed psychological and
    parenting capacity evaluations of mother and father on June 14, 2016. During mother’s
    evaluation, mother revealed that she “felt [that] another family member [had] injured [the
    children].” Dr. Gildea recommended that mother receive parenting education to “improve her
    awareness of developmentally appropriate disciplinary techniques and non-corporal discipline
    techniques.” She also recommended that both parents receive marital and family therapy and
    parenting coaching during any supervised contact with C.J. and C.A. Dr. Gildea specifically
    noted that if either parent “cannot be ruled out as an abuser, [their] contact with the children
    should remain supervised.” At the conclusion of her evaluations, Dr. Gildea also stated that
    “[i]deally, it is recommended that polygraph testing of both parents be conducted in order to help
    gain further clarity about events leading up to the children’s injuries, so that more pointed safety
    planning and placement decisions may be made for this family.” Mother’s evaluation concluded
    that she had “demonstrated a consistent pattern of failing to maintain stability and function with
    the addition of life stressors.” Further, “[t]he ongoing risks of her inability to protect her
    children are considered very high, while her prognosis for sustained stability over an extended
    period of time is considered very low.” DHS provided copies of Dr. Gildea’s evaluations to
    mother and father and reviewed her recommendations with them.
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    An initial foster care review hearing occurred on August 5, 2016. Following the hearing,
    the J&DR court entered orders continuing the goals of returning the children to their home,
    concurrent with relative placement. However, relative placement efforts were unsuccessful and
    mother and father were unable to provide the names of additional placement candidates.
    During the summer and fall of 2016, mother, who was serving in the United States Navy,
    received and completed parenting classes through the military. Father received and completed
    individual therapy through the military, and both mother and father received structural family
    therapy through DHS. Neither parent participated in the polygraph testing recommended by
    Dr. Gildea. Father did not complete his psychiatric evaluation, assessment for medication
    management, drug treatment, or regular drug screenings. He was not forthcoming with DHS
    about his drug use and criminal activities, and was only intermittently employed. DHS did not
    offer parenting coaching to mother and father during this time, because parenting coaching was
    an in-home service and matters had not progressed sufficiently for C.J. and C.A. to return home.
    DHS conducted a number of supervised visitations, during which mother was the main caretaker
    for the children. DHS asked mother and father whether C.J. and C.A. were ever alone with other
    individuals during the period when their injuries occurred. The parents indicated they were their
    children’s main caretakers, and father never admitted to third parties being with the children.
    DHS also provided structural family therapy to mother and father. During this therapy,
    mother did not deny that C.A. and C.J. had suffered abuse or mistreatment. She also stated she
    did not believe she was responsible for it. Father never admitted any responsibility for the abuse.
    The foster care social worker assigned to C.A. and C.J. also discussed the children’s injuries with
    mother and father, and they were unable to offer her a reasonable explanation of their daughters’
    injuries. Neither parent indicated that the other parent was responsible for the injuries, and
    although they said that when they visited relatives in Maryland they “felt like something had
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    happened . . . , they weren’t sure.” Neither mother nor father ever provided DHS with
    information about the possible source or sources of the injuries which DHS could investigate.
    Termination Proceedings and Subsequent Events
    On December 2, 2016, DHS filed petitions for permanency planning hearings and new
    foster care service plans for C.A. and C.J. Those documents reflected new goals of adoption for
    the twins, and noted that while mother had made “some progress,” she also “ha[d] been
    challenged with engaging in her services.” Further, during visitations, she would frequently
    “daydream and have a flat affect.” In recommending that the goals for C.J. and C.A. be changed
    to adoption, DHS noted “several contributing factors to include parents’ lack of sufficient
    progress with their service plan responsibilities, housing and employment stability, and viable
    relative placement options.” In particular, DHS stated its “great concern for the children’s safety
    and well-being due to the parents’ . . . lack of honesty regarding the abuse the children
    experienced” prior to their removal. Mother had denied she was responsible for the injuries to
    her children and told Dr. Gildea she felt that another family member was the abuser, but “has
    kept that person a secret” and “not held that family member responsible.” DHS concluded that
    “[d]ue to this, [mother] has not shown the agency that she can prevent and protect her children
    from bodily harm,” and there remained “a great concern on [sic] whether or not [mother] will be
    able to protect her children from neglect and abuse in the near future.” On December 6, 2016,
    DHS filed petitions to terminate mother’s residual parental rights to C.J. and C.A.
    Also in December, mother left the Navy at the conclusion of her enlistment. Rasheena
    Harris, a family engagement worker with DHS, noted that around that time, mother began
    experiencing difficulty maintaining stable housing, employment, and transportation. Father told
    Harris “there [were] some disputes between himself and [mother] which caused the housing
    folks to force them to leave” their apartment, and mother and father began living with relatives in
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    Norfolk. Mother had lost her vehicle, and both mother and father began to miss scheduled
    visitations, or to arrive late or cancel them at the last minute. Mother was expecting another
    child, and moved to Baltimore for family support. Harris noted that mother’s relocation made it
    difficult to coordinate visitations, and communication with her became “very sporadic.” Further,
    “[a] lot of the ongoing services were difficult to follow-up on or to continue” because mother
    was in another state. Father’s whereabouts were frequently unknown, and Harris often
    experienced difficulty contacting him. Both parents ceased participating in structured family
    therapy around January 2017, after mother relocated and the therapist lost contact with mother
    and father. However, mother began calling the therapist occasionally for “telephone therapy,”
    “just to check in and kind of get some focus.”
    A permanency planning hearing, initially scheduled for January 3, 2017, was continued
    numerous times until March 16. Neither mother nor father attended the hearing. On May 30,
    2017, the J&DR court entered permanency planning orders approving the new goals of adoption
    for C.A. and C.J. and orders terminating the residual parental rights of mother and father,
    pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(C)(1). Mother and father appealed to the circuit court.
    The circuit court conducted a hearing on the matter on August 14, 2017. Harris testified
    that DHS changed the goals for the children to adoption “due to the lack of progress that was
    being made . . . and the length of stay that the children had been in care.” Specifically, DHS was
    unable to address “why the children came into care because of unexplained non-accidental
    injuries . . . . We were not able to remedy that. That was the top reason they came into care.”
    Ivy Cherry, the children’s foster care social worker, testified that DHS changed its goals for C.A.
    and C.J. because they felt it was best for the children, given the limited progress being made
    towards the goals identified for the parents. Specifically, “we weren’t able to get towards
    parenting [coaching]. We needed to get to a point that we could have unsupervised visits.”
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    Linda Meyers, the children’s foster parent from the time DHS took them into care,
    testified that C.J. and C.A. were developing perfectly well and their initial medical problems had
    been resolved. After their placement with Meyers, C.J. and C.A. received regular physical and
    occupational therapy and were walking, crawling, running, and climbing stairs. The frequency
    of the children’s “night terrors”—“screaming, not a baby cry but a scream”—had also declined.
    Meyers’ extended family and other children in the household had become very involved with the
    twins. Meyers stated that she and her husband were interested in adopting the two girls.
    Mother moved to strike DHS’s evidence, and the circuit court denied the motion. Mother
    then testified that after she moved to Baltimore in late 2016, she was depressed,
    “house-hopping,” and unemployed. However, in June, 2017, she found regular work in a
    warehouse. Although she still lacked her own transportation, mother secured an apartment and
    in August 2017 was living with father and their youngest child, who was born the previous
    spring. She acknowledged that C.J. and C.A. were removed from her care because they had
    sustained serious physical injuries. However, mother denied that she or father had caused those
    injuries, although she agreed that she and father were the children’s caretakers and no one else
    was in a position to harm them. Mother also admitted that since C.J. and C.A. had been removed
    by DHS, she had attempted to get a protective order against father for domestic violence.
    Mother expressed willingness to take the polygraph test suggested by Dr. Gildea.
    Mother renewed her motion to strike. In ruling from the bench, the circuit court noted
    that “the problem in this case is the serious bodily injury to both of the children” and the need to
    address that issue. The court discussed Dr. Gildea’s recommendations, including that mother
    and father take polygraph tests “that would potentially root out who was responsible,” so that
    “the Court . . . could set up guidelines” to prevent such abuse in the future. However, the court
    noted that more than a year had passed since C.A. and C.J. were taken into care, and “the
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    problem, be it the parents or somebody that the parents allowed [to have] access to the children,”
    had not been identified so that the children could be “place[d] . . . into circumstances that would
    . . . eliminate that problem.” Based on these circumstances, the circuit court found it was in the
    best interests of C.J. and C.A. to terminate their parents’ residual parental rights. The court
    granted the termination petitions and approved the new foster care service plans with goals of
    adoption, and, on September 8, 2017, entered new permanency planning orders and orders
    terminating mother’s residual parental rights, pursuant to Code § 16.1-283(C)(2). This appeal
    followed.
    II. ANALYSIS
    After a child is “placed in foster care as a result of court commitment,” a court may
    terminate a parent’s residual parental rights if it makes certain findings. Code § 16.1-283(C).
    First, the court must find that termination of the parent’s rights “is in the best interests of the
    child.” 
    Id. The court
    must also find either that the parent failed to maintain contact with and to
    provide or plan for the child’s future for six months after the child was placed in foster care, see
    Code § 16.1-283(C)(1), or that the parent failed to remedy the circumstances that led to or
    required the continuation of the child’s placement into foster care, see Code § 16.1-283(C)(2).
    Specifically, before parental rights may be terminated under subsection (C)(2), the court must
    find that the parent, “without good cause, ha[s] been unwilling or unable within a reasonable
    period of time not to exceed 12 months from the date the child was placed in foster care to
    remedy substantially the conditions which led to or required continuation of the child’s foster
    care placement . . . .” Code § 16.1-283(C)(2). The court also must find that the relevant
    agencies made “reasonable and appropriate efforts” to help the parent remedy those conditions.
    
    Id. All of
    these findings must be “based upon clear and convincing evidence.” Code
    § 16.1-283(C). Such evidence is “intermediate, being more than a mere preponderance, but not
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    to the extent of such certainty as is required beyond a reasonable doubt as in criminal cases. It
    does not mean clear and unequivocal.” Dep’t of Soc. Servs., Div. of Child Support Enf’t ex rel.
    Comptroller v. Flaneary, 
    22 Va. App. 293
    , 304, 
    469 S.E.2d 79
    , 84 (1996) (quoting Martin v.
    Pittsylvania Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    3 Va. App. 15
    , 21, 
    348 S.E.2d 13
    , 16 (1986)).
    We traditionally have “acknowledge[d] that ‘termination of . . . parental rights is a grave,
    drastic and irreversible action.’” Farrell v. Warren Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    59 Va. App. 375
    ,
    400, 
    719 S.E.2d 329
    , 341 (2012) (quoting Helen W. v. Fairfax Cty. Dep’t of Human Dev., 
    12 Va. App. 877
    , 883, 
    407 S.E.2d 25
    , 28-29 (1991)). Nevertheless, we also must “presume that the
    trial court ‘thoroughly weighed all the evidence, considered the statutory requirements, and made
    its determination based on the child’s [or children’s] best interests.’” 
    Id. (alteration in
    original)
    (quoting Fields v. Dinwiddie Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    46 Va. App. 1
    , 7, 
    614 S.E.2d 656
    , 659
    (2005)). Consequently, “[w]here, as here, the court hears the evidence ore tenus, its finding is
    entitled to the same weight accorded a jury verdict, and it will not be disturbed on appeal unless
    plainly wrong or without evidence to support it.” 
    Welch, 64 Va. App. at 44
    , 764 S.E.2d at 289
    (quoting 
    Martin, 3 Va. App. at 20
    , 348 S.E.2d at 16).
    Mother assigns error to the circuit court for denying her motion to strike and terminating
    her residual parental rights to C.J. and C.A., contending that the evidence presented by DHS
    failed to establish that the criteria for termination under Code § 16.1-283(C) had been satisfied.1
    We address each of the requirements for termination in turn.
    1
    Although mother assigns error to the circuit court for finding sufficient evidence to
    terminate her residual parental rights under the criteria “set forth in . . . Code § 16.1-283(C),” we
    note that the circuit court terminated her rights under the specific provisions of subsection (C)(2).
    Thus, we confine our analysis to the circuit court’s “best interests of the child” determination and
    its further findings under Code § 16.1-283(C)(2), and do not consider the sufficiency of the
    evidence to terminate residual parental rights under Code § 16.1-283(C)(1).
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    A. Best Interests of the Children
    Mother argues that the circuit court’s finding that it was in the best interests of C.J. and
    C.A. for her residual parental rights to be terminated is not supported by clear and convincing
    evidence. We find no merit to this argument.
    This Court has previously noted that “‘there is no simple, mechanical, “cut and dried”
    way’ to apply the best interests of the child standard.” 
    Welch, 64 Va. App. at 48
    , 764 S.E.2d at
    291 (quoting Peple v. Peple, 
    5 Va. App. 414
    , 422, 
    364 S.E.2d 232
    , 237 (1988)). Rather, a child’s
    best interests must be determined “in light of the facts of each case.” Eaton v. Wash. Cty. Dep’t
    of Soc. Servs., 
    66 Va. App. 317
    , 331, 
    785 S.E.2d 231
    , 239 (2016) (quoting Toombs v.
    Lynchburg Div. of Soc. Servs., 
    223 Va. 225
    , 230, 
    288 S.E.2d 405
    , 407 (1982)). In making such
    a determination, a court “must evaluate and consider many factors,” including “the age and
    physical and mental condition of the child,” the child’s needs, the role the “parent has played . . .
    in the upbringing and care of the child,” and any other necessary factors. 
    Id. (quoting Harrison
    v. Tazewell Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    42 Va. App. 149
    , 161, 
    590 S.E.2d 575
    , 581-82 (2004)).
    “The best interests of the child are to be determined at the time of the termination hearing.”
    Akers v. Fauquier Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    44 Va. App. 247
    , 259, 
    604 S.E.2d 737
    , 742 (2004).
    In the instant case, the circuit court’s best interests determination relied heavily upon two
    factors: the need to protect C.J. and C.A. from further abuse and injury, and the passage of more
    than a year since the children were placed in foster care. Mother acknowledged that her children
    were removed from her care because they had sustained serious physical injuries. She also
    claimed that she and father were the children’s caretakers and that no one else had been in a
    position to harm C.J. and C.A. She denied that she had caused the children’s injuries, and stated
    that she felt another family member was responsible, but would not identify that person. Neither
    mother nor father ever provided DHS with information about the person or persons possibly
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    responsible for the injuries which DHS could investigate. Mother had sought a protective order
    against father for domestic violence, and was living with him at the time of the circuit court
    proceedings. Under these facts and circumstances, it was impossible for DHS to eliminate
    mother or father as possible sources of the abuse, and thus impossible for DHS to consider
    potentially exposing C.J. and C.A. to further physical harm by returning them to mother’s
    unsupervised care.
    Further, while additional information indicating who was responsible for the abuse might
    eventually have come to light, thus enabling the circuit court to establish guidelines to prevent
    further abuse, seventeen months had passed since C.J. and C.A. were placed in foster care. Code
    § 16.1-283(C)(2) establishes a twelve-month time limit for substantial remediation of the
    conditions which led to a child’s placement in foster care, and this time limit “was designed to
    prevent an indeterminate state of foster care ‘drift’ and to encourage timeliness . . . in addressing
    the circumstances that resulted in the foster care placement.” Thach v. Arlington Cty. Dep’t of
    Hum. Servs., 6
    3 Va. App. 15
    7, 171, 
    754 S.E.2d 922
    , 928-29 (2014) (quoting L.G. v. Amherst
    Cty Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    41 Va. App. 51
    , 56, 
    581 S.E.2d 886
    , 889 (2003)). If those
    circumstances are not addressed within the statutory time frame, “the court may act to prevent
    the child from lingering in foster care,” 
    L.G., 41 Va. App. at 57
    , 581 S.E.2d at 889, since “[i]t is
    clearly not in the best interests of a child to spend a lengthy period of time waiting to find out
    when, or even if, a parent will be capable of resuming [her] responsibilities,” Tackett v.
    Arlington Cty. Dep’t of Hum. Servs., 
    62 Va. App. 296
    , 322, 
    746 S.E.2d 509
    , 522 (2013)
    (quoting Kaywood v. Halifax Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    10 Va. App. 535
    , 540, 
    394 S.E.2d 492
    ,
    495 (1990)). In light of these facts and circumstances, the circuit court reasonably determined it
    was not in the best interests of C.J. and C.A. to remain indefinitely in foster care, in the hope that
    their abuser might someday be revealed or discovered to be someone other than a parent.
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    Further, the evidence supports that C.J. and C.A. were thriving in the care of a foster
    parent who hoped to adopt them. C.J. had been hospitalized for failure to thrive prior to her
    removal by DHS, but she and C.A. had seen their medical issues resolved and remediated by
    therapy in their foster home. The twins were experiencing night terrors less frequently, and had
    developed supportive relationships with their foster parent’s other children and family members.
    C.J. and C.A. had spent all but the first four months of their twenty-one months of life with their
    foster parent, who, with her husband, now wished to give them a permanent home.
    Based upon these facts and circumstances, we are satisfied that clear and convincing
    evidence supports the circuit court’s best interests determination. We therefore cannot say that
    its best interests finding was plainly wrong.
    B. Failure to Substantially Remedy Conditions within Twelve Months
    Mother also argues that the circuit court’s finding that she was unwilling or unable,
    without good cause and within a reasonable period of time, to substantially remedy the
    conditions which led to her children’s foster care placement is not supported by clear and
    convincing evidence. She contends the evidence in fact proves the opposite, for two reasons.
    First, mother argues she substantially remedied the conditions at issue when she complied
    with DHS recommendations by completing parenting classes, participating in structured family
    therapy and regular visitations, submitting to a psychological and parenting capacity evaluation,
    and finding steady employment and stable housing after she moved to Baltimore. Mother
    maintains that only by declining to undergo a polygraph test did she fail to comply with DHS
    recommendations and that this was no basis for terminating her residual parental rights because
    polygraph testing was suggested, not required, such tests are scientifically unreliable and
    untrustworthy, their results are inadmissible during revocation or other court proceedings, and
    evidence of a person’s unwillingness to submit to such a test is also inadmissible.
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    We find no merit to mother’s argument that the evidence proves she substantially
    remedied conditions by complying with DHS recommendations. While DHS acknowledged, in
    its December 2016 foster care service plan submissions to the J&DR court, that mother had made
    “some progress” toward achieving the return home of C.J. and C.A., it also noted that she had
    been “challenged in engaging with her services.” Mother completed parenting classes, but her
    participation in structured family therapy gradually decreased and then ceased in 2017, except
    for occasional one-on-one telephone calls to “check in” with her therapist and “kind of get some
    focus.” Mother also missed a number of scheduled, supervised visitations, or cancelled them at
    the last minute. When she did attend, she at times appeared disengaged and exhibited a flat
    affect. Mother did find stable employment and housing after moving to Baltimore, but only after
    an extended period of unemployment and housing instability. Prior to her relocation, she was
    unemployed after leaving the Navy and had lost her apartment when disputes with father caused
    the housing authorities to force them to leave. Mother did complete a psychological and
    parenting capacity evaluation with Dr. Gildea, but that June 2016 evaluation indicated challenges
    that would continue to prove problematic for mother over the following year. Dr. Gildea noted
    mother’s “consistent pattern of failing to maintain stability and function with the addition of life
    stressors,” and when mother ceased her service with the Navy, lost her housing, and again
    became pregnant in late 2016, an extended period of instability and reduced function followed.
    During this period, mother’s communication with DHS became “very sporadic.” Thus, the
    evidence contradicts mother’s argument and supports DHS’s conclusion that even without C.J.
    and C.A. back in her care, mother demonstrated an inability to navigate life stressors and a lack
    of sufficient progress with her service plan goals. Lastly, while Dr. Gildea did suggest that
    mother and father submit to polygraph tests to help clarify the events that preceded their
    children’s injuries, and while both mother and father initially refused those tests, each later
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    testified in circuit court that they would agree to take such a test. Thus, contrary to mother’s
    implication, the circuit court could not have relied upon mother’s initial refusal to take a
    polygraph test as a basis for terminating her residual parental rights.
    Second, mother argues she substantially remedied the conditions at issue by
    acknowledging the seriousness of her children’s injuries and determining to be vigilant, so that
    C.J. and C.A. are protected and do not suffer intentional injuries again. Mother contends that her
    inability to explain how C.J. and C.A. suffered their injuries did not justify terminating her
    parental rights under Code § 16.1-283(C), because the statute does not require her to confess
    having caused her children’s injuries, or to explain how or by whom the injuries were inflicted.
    We find this argument without merit. Mere acknowledgement of the seriousness of the
    abuse found by the J&DR court, and of the necessity of protecting C.J. and C.A. from abuse,
    does not remedy the condition which led to the children’s foster care placement—i.e., their
    exposure to non-accidental injury at the hands of an unknown party or parties, where neither
    mother nor father could be excluded from culpability. Determining to be vigilant and protect
    one’s children also falls short of remedying that condition. These alleged proofs of substantial
    remediation are no more than acknowledgements and expressions of the duties owed by every
    parent to their children. See Barrett v. Commonwealth, 
    268 Va. 170
    , 184-86, 
    597 S.E.2d 104
    ,
    111-12 (2004) (discussing, in the context of convictions for criminal neglect in violation of Code
    § 18.2-371.1(A) and (B), a parent’s duty of injury prevention and protection). Further, with
    respect to mother’s contention that Code § 16.1-283(C) did not require her to explain how or by
    whom her children were abused, we note this Court’s previous observation that termination
    decisions under Code § 16.1-283(C)(2) “hinge . . . on the demonstrated failure of the parent to
    make reasonable changes,” thus “requir[ing] the court to determine whether the parent has been
    unwilling or unable to remedy the problems.” 
    Thach, 63 Va. App. at 170
    , 754 S.E.2d at 928
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    (second alteration in original) (quoting Toms v. Hanover Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 
    46 Va. App. 257
    ,
    271, 
    616 S.E.2d 765
    , 772 (2005)). Here, fourteen months before the circuit court terminated
    mother’s residual parental rights, mother told Dr. Gildea that she felt a family member was
    responsible for the children’s injuries. However, mother kept the individual’s identity secret.
    Mother’s ongoing refusal to identify the suspected abuser of her children, long after she revealed
    her suspicion and longer still after C.J. and C.A. were placed in foster care, was a demonstrated
    failure of mother to make a reasonable change in her behavior—a change which would have
    helped remedy the conditions which led to foster care placement by assisting, or even resolving,
    DHS’s efforts to establish culpability for the abuse.
    We are satisfied that clear and convincing evidence supports the circuit court’s finding
    that mother was unwilling or unable, without good cause and within a reasonable period of time,
    to substantially remedy the conditions which led to foster care placement for C.J. and C.A. The
    children were taken into care because they had been physically abused by an unknown person or
    persons, and neither parent could be excluded from responsibility for that abuse. Mother and
    father each maintained they were innocent of the abuse, and each insisted the other was innocent.
    Both indicated they were the children’s main caretakers, and mother insisted she was the primary
    caretaker, responsible for all the care of C.J. and C.A. Mother testified that only she and father
    were in a position to harm the children, and father never admitted to third parties being with the
    children during the time when the injuries occurred. Thus, neither mother nor father could
    provide an explanation for their children’s non-accidental injuries, since by their accounts, they
    were not responsible for the injuries and no one else could have been responsible. While mother
    did express suspicion that a family member was at fault, she would not divulge the family
    member’s name. In light of these circumstances, neither mother nor father could be excluded as
    a potential abuser, and DHS was unable to address why the children came into foster care or to
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    return them to their parents. Nor could DHS progress with the children’s service plans, because
    they could not allow unsupervised visits or provide in-home parenting coaching. Further, mother
    had sought a protective order against father, alleging domestic violence, yet continued to live
    with him at the time of the termination hearing. A reasonable fact finder could have concluded
    from this evidence that mother was, without good cause, unwilling or unable to take the steps
    necessary to substantially remedy the conditions at issue, by being forthcoming with DHS and
    assisting their efforts to ensure the children could safely return home. That fact finder could also
    have concluded that the seventeen months between the children’s foster care placement and the
    circuit court’s termination of mother’s residual parental rights was a more than reasonable time
    for mother to substantially remedy conditions, and well in excess of the twelve-month statutory
    period prescribed by Code § 16.1-283(C)(2). Thus, we cannot say the circuit court was plainly
    wrong in reaching the same conclusions.
    C. Reasonable and Appropriate Agency Efforts
    Mother also argues that the circuit court’s finding that DHS made reasonable and
    appropriate efforts to help her substantially remedy the conditions at issue is not supported by
    clear and convincing evidence. Specifically, she contends that DHS “made little effort to offer
    services to [her].”2
    2
    Mother further contends that DHS failed to offer her services after she moved to
    Baltimore, or to refer her to services there. However, mother failed to preserve this argument by
    presenting it to the circuit court, either in her motion to strike or in closing argument. “The
    primary purpose of requiring an argument to be made to a trial court is ‘to alert the trial judge to
    possible error so that the judge may consider the issue intelligently and take any corrective
    actions necessary to avoid unnecessary appeals, reversals and mistrials.’” White v.
    Commonwealth, 
    67 Va. App. 599
    , 604, 
    798 S.E.2d 818
    , 820 (2017) (quoting Neal v.
    Commonwealth, 
    15 Va. App. 416
    , 422, 
    425 S.E.2d 521
    , 525 (1992)). Our Rule 5A:18 embodies
    this purpose, by providing, in pertinent part, that “[n]o ruling of the trial court . . . will be
    considered as a basis for reversal unless an objection was stated with reasonable certainty at the
    time of the ruling, except for good cause shown or to enable the Court of Appeals to attain the
    ends of justice.” Mother does not argue for the application of the good cause or ends of justice
    exceptions to the rule, “and we will not invoke them sua sponte.” Williams v. Commonwealth,
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    We find no merit in this argument, and are satisfied that clear and convincing evidence
    supports the circuit court’s finding that DHS made “reasonable and appropriate efforts” to help
    mother remedy the conditions that led to her children’s foster care placement. The “reasonable
    and appropriate efforts” requirement under Code § 16.1-283(C)(2) must be interpreted “in
    accordance with the language chosen by the legislature. ‘Reasonable and appropriate’ efforts
    can only be judged with reference to the circumstances of a particular case.” 
    Harrison, 42 Va. App. at 163
    , 590 S.E.2d at 582-83 (quoting Ferguson v. Stafford Cty. Dep’t of Soc. Servs.,
    
    14 Va. App. 333
    , 338, 
    417 S.E.2d 1
    , 4 (1992)). “Thus, a court must determine what constitutes
    reasonable and appropriate efforts given the facts before [it].” 
    Id. at 163,
    590 S.E.2d at 583.
    Here, DHS identified mother’s need for an improved understanding of developmentally
    appropriate and non-corporal disciplinary techniques for her children. It also identified mother’s
    challenges maintaining stability and function in her life when confronted with stressors, and the
    high risk that she would be unable to protect her children. To address these needs, challenges,
    and risks, DHS offered mother a suite of services to improve her parenting skills, marital and
    family dynamics, resiliency, and relationships with her children. While DHS did not provide
    parenting coaching, it refrained from doing so only because mother and father had not
    progressed sufficiently for C.J. and C.A. to stay unsupervised in their parents’ home, where the
    coaching was to occur. DHS continued to offer these services throughout a nine-month period,
    while they pursued an ultimate goal of returning the children to their home, and only began to
    withdraw services after it became clear that a goal of adoption was in the best interests of C.J.
    and C.A. Further, DHS repeatedly engaged with mother in an effort to determine who was
    
    57 Va. App. 341
    , 347, 
    702 S.E.2d 260
    , 263 (2010). Thus, because mother failed to present to the
    circuit court her argument that DHS offered her no services or assistance after she moved to
    Baltimore, we consider only her argument that DHS “made little effort” to offer her services
    before her move.
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    responsible for the abuse of C.J. and C.A. DHS offered these wide-ranging services even as
    mother began to avail herself of them less frequently. In light of this evidence, we cannot say the
    circuit court was plainly wrong in finding that the efforts of DHS to assist mother were
    reasonable and appropriate.
    III. CONCLUSION
    Clear and convincing evidence supports the circuit court’s factual findings that the
    termination of mother’s residual parental rights was in the best interests of C.J. and C.A., that
    mother was unwilling or unable, without good cause and within a reasonable period of time not
    to exceed twelve months, to substantially remedy the conditions which led to her children’s
    foster care placement, and that DHS made reasonable and appropriate efforts to help mother
    attempt to substantially remedy those conditions. Thus, the circuit court did not err in denying
    mother’s motion to strike and terminating her residual parental rights, because the termination
    criteria under Code § 16.1-283(C) were satisfied. Consequently, we affirm the circuit court’s
    termination of mother’s residual parental rights.
    Affirmed.
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