Hamilton Ex Rel. Lethem v. Lethem , 126 Haw. 294 ( 2012 )


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    Electronically Filed
    Supreme Court
    SCWC-27580
    07-FEB-2012
    10:24 AM
    IN THE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF HAWAI#I
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    LILY E. HAMILTON on behalf of AMBER J. LETHEM, a minor,
    Respondent/Plaintiff-Appellee,
    vs.
    CHRISTY L. LETHEM, Petitioner/Defendant-Appellant.
    NO. SCWC-27580
    CERTIORARI TO THE INTERMEDIATE COURT OF APPEALS
    (ICA NO. 27580; FC-DA NO. 05-1-1977)
    February 7, 2012
    NAKAYAMA, ACTING C.J., ACOBA, DUFFY, AND MCKENNA JJ.,
    AND CIRCUIT JUDGE CRANDALL, IN PLACE OF
    RECKTENWALD, C.J., RECUSED
    OPINION OF THE COURT BY ACOBA, J.
    We hold that (1) parents have a constitutional right to
    discipline children inhering in their liberty interest in the
    care, custody, and control of their children, under the due
    process clause, article 1, section 5 of the Hawai#i Constitution,
    (2) a parent may raise the right of parental discipline in a
    Hawai#i Revised Statutes (HRS) § 586-5 show cause hearing in
    opposition to the continuation of a temporary restraining order
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    (TRO) issued under HRS chapter 586 on allegations of domestic
    abuse, (3) in such circumstances trial courts shall consider
    whether the discipline is reasonably related to the purpose of
    safeguarding or promoting the welfare of the minor in determining
    whether the parent’s conduct constituted abuse or proper
    discipline, and (4) generally a non-custodial parent retains the
    right to discipline a child when the child is under his or her
    supervision.   Under the foregoing propositions, we vacate the
    September 21, 2011 judgment of the Intermediate Court of Appeals
    (ICA) filed pursuant to its June 30, 2011 published opinion, and
    the October 5, 2005 Order Regarding Temporary Restraining Order
    of the Family Court of the First Circuit(the court) issued under
    HRS chapter 5861,
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    The relevant sections of HRS § 586 (2006 Repl.) follow;
    § 586-1   Definitions. As used in this chapter:
    “Domestic abuse” means:
    (1)   Physical harm, bodily injury, assault, or
    the threat of imminent physical harm,
    bodily injury, or assault, extreme
    psychological abuse or malicious property
    damage between family or household
    members; or
    (2)   Any act which would constitute an offense
    under section 709-906, or under part V or
    VI of chapter 707 committed against a
    minor family or household member by an
    adult family or household member.
    “Extreme psychological abuse” means an
    intentional or knowing course of conduct
    directed at an individual that seriously alarms
    or disturbs consistently or continually bothers
    the individual, and that serves no legitimate
    purpose; provided that such course of conduct
    would cause a reasonable person to suffer
    extreme emotional distress.
    “Family or household member” means spouses
    or reciprocal beneficiaries, former spouses or
    former reciprocal beneficiaries, persons who
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    have a child in common, parents, children,
    persons related by consanguinity, persons
    jointly residing or formerly residing in the
    same dwelling unit, and persons who have or have
    had a dating relationship.
    . . . .
    “Malicious   property  damage”   means  an
    intentional or knowing damage to the property of
    another, without his consent, with an intent to
    thereby cause emotional distress.
    (Emphases added.)
    HRS § 586-4 (2006 Repl.) entitled “Temporary
    Restraining Order,” states in relevant part as
    follows: (a) Upon petition to a family court judge,
    an ex parte temporary restraining order may be granted
    without notice to restrain either or both parties from
    contacting, threatening, or physically abusing each
    other, notwithstanding that a complaint for annulment,
    divorce, or separation has not been filed. The order
    may be granted to any person who, at the time the
    order is granted, is a family or household member as
    defined in section 586–1 or who filed a petition on
    behalf of a family or household member. The order
    shall enjoin the respondent or person to be restrained
    from performing any combination of the following acts:
    (1)   Contacting, threatening, or physically abusing the
    protected party;
    (2)   Contacting, threatening, or physically abusing any
    person residing at the protected party’s residence; or
    (3)   Entering or visiting the protected party's residence.
    (Emphases added.)
    HRS § 586-5 (2006 Repl.) provides in relevant part:
    § 586-5 Period of order; hearing. (a) A
    temporary restraining order granted pursuant to this
    chapter shall remain in effect at the discretion of
    the court, for a period not to exceed ninety days from
    the date the order is granted.
    (b) On the earliest date that the business of
    the court will permit, but no later than fifteen days
    from the date the temporary restraining order is
    granted, the court, after giving due notice to all
    parties, shall hold a hearing on the application
    requiring cause to be shown why the order should not
    continue. In the event that service has not been
    effected, the court may set a new date for the
    hearing; provided that the date shall not exceed
    ninety days from the date the temporary restraining
    order was granted. All parties shall be present at
    the hearing and may be represented by counsel.
    (Emphases added.)
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    against Petitioner/Defendant-Appellant Christy L. Lethem
    (Petitioner) and in favor of his then-fifteen-year-old minor
    daughter, Amber J. Lethem (Minor) in an HRS chapter 586 petition
    alleging domestic abuse of Minor brought by Petitioner’s ex-wife,
    Respondent/Plaintiff-Appellee Lily E. Hamilton (Mother or
    Respondent).
    I.
    The following essential matters, some verbatim, are
    from the record and the submissions of the parties.
    A.
    On September 23, 2005, Mother filed an Ex Parte
    Petition for a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) and Statement on
    behalf of Minor to enjoin Petitioner from contacting, calling, or
    visiting Minor pursuant to HRS chapter 586.           Petitioner had
    allegedly “physically harmed, injured or assaulted” Minor by
    “slapping, punching, [and] hitting” her on August 25, 2005.
    Petitioner had also allegedly subjected Minor to extreme
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    HRS § 586-5.5 (2006 Repl.) provides in relevant part:
    § 586-5.5 Protective order; additional orders.
    (a) If, after hearing all relevant evidence, the
    court finds that the respondent has failed to show
    cause why the order should not be continued and that a
    protective order is necessary to prevent domestic
    abuse or a recurrence of abuse, the court may order
    that a protective order be issued for a further fixed
    reasonable period as the court deems appropriate.
    (Emphases added.)
    HRS § 586-11 (2006 Repl.) provides in relevant part:
    § 586-11 Violation of an order for protection.
    (a) Whenever an order for protection is granted
    pursuant to this chapter, a respondent or person to be
    restrained who knowingly or intentionally violates the
    order for protection is guilty of a misdemeanor.
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    psychological abuse by “showing up at [her] school unannounced,
    putting [her] down by blaming financial problems on [her], and
    saying [that] many problems (such as work problems/emotional
    distress) [were her] fault.”         The last date alleged for these
    incidents was September 16, 2005.          The petition stated that Minor
    believed she was in immediate danger of being abused by
    Petitioner because “of previous actions [by Petitioner,] such as
    hitting [her] on [August 12 and August 25], showing up at [her]
    school, and verbally abusing [her] as previously stated.”
    The court granted the ex-parte TRO the same day it was
    filed, prohibiting Petitioner from threatening Minor or anyone
    living with Minor, or contacting, writing, telephoning or
    otherwise electronically contacting Minor, and from visiting or
    remaining within 100 yards of Minor for ninety days until
    December 22, 2005.      A show cause hearing was scheduled for
    October 5, 2005 pursuant to HRS § 586-5(b) as to whether the TRO
    should continue.
    At the hearing, in which Petitioner was represented by
    counsel, Minor alleged three incidents of abuse.             The first
    allegedly occurred on August 12, 2005.           The day before, August
    11, 2005, Minor was scheduled to have visitation with Petitioner
    after school.     Minor called Petitioner and told him that she did
    not need a ride from school because Mother was going to pick her
    up.   This turned out to be a fabrication.          Instead, Minor,
    another teenage girl, and two teenage boys drove to a store to
    pick up the “morning after pill” for the other girl.              That
    evening, Petitioner called Mother in an attempt to locate Minor,
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    but Mother had not heard from Minor.        Petitioner eventually
    decided to drive to Mother’s house.        When Petitioner reached
    Mother’s house at around 10:00 p.m., Minor had arrived and
    Petitioner took Minor back to his home.
    The next day, August 12, 2005, Petitioner and Minor
    spoke.   When Petitioner learned what Minor had done, he became
    very angry.   Petitioner informed Minor that he felt she should
    have told the other girl’s parents that their daughter was
    sexually active and should have allowed them to deal with the
    situation.    Minor testified that she felt she did not have to
    talk with Petitioner because she had already spoken to Mother
    about the situation.     Minor related that both she and Petitioner
    were yelling.    Petitioner claimed that Minor was “just ranting
    and raving,” and “screaming” at her younger sister.           Minor
    testified that, at some point, Petitioner hit her.           Minor claimed
    that Petitioner struck her “a couple of times” and that
    Petitioner was attempting to slap her on the face but that she
    blocked his blows.    Petitioner claimed that he only tried to hit
    Minor on the shoulder because Minor had tried to leave and
    Petitioner wanted her to stay and talk to him.
    Mother was told that Minor and Petitioner were having
    an argument and called the police.        When the police arrived,
    Minor told them that she was fine and the police left.            Minor had
    no bruises as a result of the incident.
    The second incident of alleged abuse took place on
    August 25, 2005.    Minor claimed that she and Petitioner “got into
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    a power struggle.”       Minor had gone to Petitioner’s house that day
    early in the evening.        Petitioner wanted to speak to Minor, but
    she did not want to talk because she “had to call other friends
    to get [her] homework and [was] busy.”            According to Minor,
    Petitioner wanted to discuss “how [her] day went.”2               Minor
    acknowledged that Petitioner waited several hours to speak with
    her.    At around 11:00 p.m., Petitioner again attempted to speak
    with Minor.      Minor did not want to converse and said, “Dad, I
    have school tomorrow.        I’d really like to go to bed.”
    Petitioner allegedly said, “No, we talk now.”             The two then began
    to argue.      Minor claimed that Petitioner then hit her.           She
    stated, “[A]s I was covering my head, like, he hit me on my
    arms.”     Petitioner also allegedly told Minor, “Don’t make me do
    that again.”      Minor then called her Mother and told her that she
    was uncomfortable staying with Petitioner.
    The last incident of abuse allegedly took place on
    September 16, 2005.        According to Minor, Petitioner visited her
    school unannounced.        The principal went to Minor’s classroom and
    said that he needed to speak to her.           Once outside the classroom,
    the principal told Minor, “Your father is downstairs.               We need to
    handle this now.”       Minor claimed that Petitioner had been
    threatening to take her out of private school to discipline her.
    According to Minor, Petitioner began to say “how everything had
    been [her] fault,” “how [Petitioner’s] financial problems were
    [her] fault,” and how Minor’s younger sister was “better than”
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    This incident, thus, was apparently not related to the August 12
    "birth control" incident.
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    Minor in various ways.         Minor testified that she felt Petitioner
    was “bringing [her] down.”
    Petitioner claimed that he was simply attempting to
    discipline Minor.        Petitioner stated that Minor was difficult at
    times, would lie to him, and refused to follow reasonable rules,
    such as not riding in a car with anyone under the age of twenty-
    one.       He claimed, however, that he never attempted to hit
    [Minor’s] face, that he only visited her at school twice to talk
    to her, and that he never blamed his financial problems on her.
    At the conclusion of the hearing, the court found that
    the TRO was warranted.         The court’s reasoning rested on the
    ground that Petitioner did not have a right to discipline Minor
    because Mother had sole legal custody.             The court stated that if
    Minor had been visiting Petitioner and he had “caught [her] doing
    drugs,” then Petitioner “ha[d] the right to use physical force,
    if necessary.”        However, the court believed that Petitioner’s
    case was different because “we’re talking about an ongoing
    philosophy of how [parents] should run [children’s] lives . . .
    [and that,] unfortunately[,] falls with [Mother,] not
    [Petitioner].”
    In the same vein, the court concluded that HRS § 703-
    309,3 which sets forth the circumstances in which use of force by
    3
    HRS § 703-309 (1993) provides in relevant part:
    § 703-309 Use of force by persons with special
    responsibility for care, discipline, or safety of
    others. The use of force upon or toward the person of
    another is justifiable under the following
    circumstances:
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    a parent is justifiable in the context of criminal prosecutions,
    was relevant,4 but that Petitioner could not take advantage of it
    because Mother had sole legal custody of Minor.            The court
    indicated that it might read HRS § 703-309(1) to afford a baby-
    sitter “certain rights” to discipline a child when it “becomes
    necessary regarding activities that happen during their [sic]
    period of care and custody,” but that it was concerned “whether
    or not what this child did was in fact something that happened
    during the period of [Petitioner’s] care and custody.”
    There was no mention of the term abuse in the court’s
    oral and written findings.       Instead, the court stated that
    “[t]here’s no question in my mind that [Petitioner and Minor]
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    (1)   The actor is the parent or guardian or
    other person similarly responsible for the general
    care and supervision of a minor, or a person acting at
    the request of the parent, guardian, or other
    responsible person, and:
    (a)   The force is employed with due regard for the age and
    size of the minor and is reasonably related to the
    purpose of safeguarding or promoting the welfare of
    the minor, including the prevention or punishment of
    the minor's misconduct; and
    (b)   The force used is not designed to cause or known to
    create a risk of causing substantial bodily injury,
    disfigurement, extreme pain or mental distress, or
    neurological damage.
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    The court [orally ruled as follows]:
    I do note the citation of 703-309, though
    (inaudible) also instructed them to (inaudible) the 703-
    309 definition is used in criminal cases. Nevertheless,
    703-309 is very instructive in civil matters.
    There may be a question of application, but I
    think there is some sort of relevance for 793 -- 703-
    309. As Petitioner’s counsel has stated on record, 703-
    309A [sic] says if the actor is the parent, guardian, or
    other person similarly responsible for the care and
    supervision of a minor.
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    still love each other, and they do have and should have an
    ongoing relationship.”      The court stated, however, that it was
    “struck . . . by Section 4(a)(3)5 . . . [and] really [had] no
    choice but to make a finding that what happened in this [case]
    was not parental discipline.”        From the context, it appears that
    the court was under the impression that because Mother had sole
    legal custody, Petitioner was not permitted to discipline Minor
    on the occasions alleged by Minor.
    On November 3, 2005, Petitioner filed his notice of
    appeal.    On March 3, 2006, at Petitioner’s request, the court
    entered its findings of fact (findings) and conclusions of law
    (conclusions).     In its findings, the court only discussed the
    August 25 incident in which Petitioner had struck Minor at around
    11:00 p.m. after she refused to speak to him about the apparent
    birth control incident.6      The court did not mention the other two
    incidents.    Additionally, in its written decision, the court
    concluded that HRS § 703-309(a) had no application to
    Petitioner’s case because that section only applied to criminal
    cases.    The court also concluded that the responsibility to
    discipline was Mother’s only, as the sole legal custodian, but
    that in any event, “[a]ssuming . . . [Petitioner] struck [Minor]
    because of her refusal to discuss [the birth control] issue late
    5
    The court was apparently referring to Section IV.A.3 of the TRO
    application, in which Minor placed a checkmark next to the box stating
    “[Petitioner] has physically harmed, injured or assaulted me by: . . .
    slapping, punching, hitting me.”
    6
    The court apparently confused the dates. The testimony at the
    hearing was that the "morning-after pill" incident took place on August 12.
    The incident that took place on August 25 was, according to Minor's testimony
    at the hearing, unrelated to the August 12 incident.
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    during a school night, the court concludes that such an action is
    not proper parental discipline.”
    B.
    On appeal before the ICA, Petitioner represented
    himself.    He argued that (1) chapter 586 violated his right to
    discipline his children;7 (2) chapter 586 ran afoul of procedural
    due process protections;8 (3) chapter 586 was gender-biased,9 and
    (4) the court abused its discretion in concluding that a TRO was
    warranted under the circumstances.10
    The ICA held, in an unpublished May 16, 2008
    disposition, that Petitioner’s case was moot because the TRO had
    expired by its own terms on December 22, 2005.           Hamilton v.
    Lethem, No. 27580, 
    2008 WL 2069780
     (App. May 16, 2008 (SDO))
    [hereinafter Hamilton I].       Judge Foley dissented, explaining that
    because the appeal was moot, he would dismiss it rather than
    vacate it, as the majority had done.         
    Id.
       This court vacated,
    adopting the collateral consequences exception to the mootness
    doctrine, and concluding that Petitioner’s case fell under that
    7
    Mother, who was the Plaintiff-Appellee before the ICA, argued that
    because she was the sole legal custodian, she had the sole right to determine
    how Minor should be disciplined.
    8
    Mother did not respond to this argument.
    9
    Mother did not respond to this argument.
    10
    On appeal, Mother had argued that because Petitioner qualified the
    ex parte petition as “bogus” and failed to attach the transcript of the show
    cause hearing, the only source of facts was the court’s findings and
    conclusions, which could not be deemed erroneous. Mother did not address
    Petitioner’s argument on the merits. However, as noted, infra, after the ICA
    concluded that the appeal was moot, this court remanded for a decision on the
    merits. See Hamilton v. Lethem, 119 Hawai#i 1, 12, 
    193 P.3d 839
    , 850 (2008)
    [hereinafter, Hamilton II]. On remand, the ICA considered the transcript and
    the family court’s findings and conclusions. See Hamilton v. Lethem, No.
    27580, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *8 n.9, *14 (App. Jun. 30, 2011)[hereinafter,
    Hamilton III].
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    exception because there was a reasonable likelihood that the
    issuance of the TRO would harm Petitioner’s reputation, and
    remanded to the ICA to address the merits.             Hamilton v. Lethem,
    119 Hawai#i 1, 12, 
    193 P.3d 839
    , 850 (2008) [hereinafter Hamilton
    II].    As noted by Petitioner, this court stated,
    [T]he TRO was issued by the family court based upon its
    express ruling that [Petitioner] did physically harm,
    injure[] or assault [Minor]. Such ruling implies that
    [Petitioner] is a child abuser and is, therefore,
    potentially    dangerous,   thereby   undermining    his
    reputation and standing in the community. Additionally
    . . . the issuance of the TRO against [Petitioner] did
    not require him to register in a public database;
    however, the TRO, once issued, became part of the public
    record. As such, there is a reasonable possibility that
    [p]otential employers and landlords [might be] reluctant
    to employ or rent to [Petitioner] once they learn of his
    status as a [‘child abuser’]. Indeed, pursuant to HRS
    chapter 586, any TRO issued under such chapter must be
    copied to the appropriate law enforcement agency, HRS §
    586-10 (2006), and reported to the department of human
    services for investigation, HRS § 586-10.5 (2006).
    Thus, the issuance of the TRO could also adversely
    affect [Petitioner]'s personal and professional life,
    employability, associations with neighbors, [and] choice
    of housing.
    Id. (internal quotation marks and citations omitted).                   This court
    “vacate[d] the ICA’s June 23, 2008 judgment on appeal and
    remand[ed] the case to the ICA with instructions to address the
    merits of [Petitioner’s] case.”          Id.
    C.
    On remand, without further briefing or argument, the
    ICA held that HRS chapter 586, which empowers the family court to
    grant a TRO in cases of domestic abuse, did not violate the
    procedural or substantive due process guarantees of the
    Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution or of
    article 1, section 5 of the Hawai#i Constitution because parents
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    do not have a right to abuse their children.          Hamilton III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *5-13 (App. Jun. 30, 2011).         As to Petitioner’s
    contention that the process for obtaining an ex parte TRO was
    unconstitutionally gender-biased, the ICA found that Petitioner
    waived the point by failing to argue it.         See id. at *14.
    Lastly, the ICA concluded that the court had not abused its
    discretion in issuing the TRO.       The ICA found no clear error in
    the court’s finding that Petitioner had struck Minor and ruled
    that it was “implicit in the [family court’s] findings that
    [Petitioner’s] actions were not reasonably calculated to promote
    Minor’s welfare.”    Id. at *14-15.
    II.
    Petitioner, now represented by counsel, lists the
    following questions in his Application:
    1.    When determining whether to issue a TRO, does
    the parental right to discipline children require the
    application of clear and articulable guidelines to
    distinguish truly abusive behavior from actions that
    are “moderate or reasonable discipline [that] is often
    part and parcel of the real world of parenting?”
    2.    When considering whether to issue a TRO, must
    the Family Court recognize that a non-custodial parent
    maintains a “residual parental right” to discipline
    his[/her] child during a period of unsupervised
    visitation, including the right to discipline the
    child for morals?
    Respondent did not file a Response to the Application.
    III.
    As to the first question, Petitioner contends that (1)
    parents have a fundamental right to discipline their children
    under the United States and Hawai#i constitutions that includes a
    right to employ corporal punishment; (2) the ICA incorrectly
    dismissed Petitioner’s argument because it concluded that (a) the
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    criminal statutory defense does not expressly apply in a civil
    setting, and (b) the definition of “domestic abuse” under HRS §
    586-1 encompasses conduct that might otherwise satisfy the
    parental discipline defense; (3) the only way for a parent to
    distinguish discipline from abuse is to have clearly established
    standards; (4) this court’s interpretation of HRS § 703-309
    protects the right to discipline, and for a parent’s
    constitutionally protected right to discipline to mean anything,
    the same or a similar standard to the one used in the criminal
    law context must apply in the civil TRO context; (5) to protect a
    parent’s right to discipline this court must interpret “domestic
    abuse” under HRS § 586-1 to be the “same or similar”11 to the
    parental justification defense under HRS § 703-309; (6) the ICA
    gravely erred by failing to apply a discernible standard to
    distinguish discipline from abuse; (7) there is a potential due
    process violation because parents are left without notice as to
    what conduct constitutes abuse and courts will apply their own ad
    hoc sense of what the standards are; (8) the ICA simply assumed
    Petitioner’s conduct rose to abuse and erred in not recognizing
    Petitioner’s constitutional right to discipline.
    As to the second question, Petitioner contends that (1)
    the ICA should have taken judicial notice of documents that
    established Petitioner’s right to discipline his daughter; (2)
    the ICA’s decision perpetuated the collateral consequences
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    Petitioner’s contention is read to mean that the same standard
    used to distinguish abuse from discipline under HRS § 703-309(1) should be
    used in HRS § 586-1.
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    incident to the TRO because Petitioner’s reputation was harmed by
    the ICA’s decision; (3) the ICA’s decision also hurt Petitioner
    because the court granted full custody of Minor to Mother as a
    result of the TRO; (4) the ICA erred in concluding that
    Petitioner did not have a right to discipline Minor; (5) it is
    well-established that parents with visitation rights retain
    authority to discipline their children during visitation.12
    IV.
    It is now established that parents may discipline their
    children as part of the parents’ liberty interest in the care,
    custody, and control of their children.          “[T]he interest of
    parents in the care, custody, and control of their children . . .
    is perhaps the oldest of the fundamental liberty interests
    recognized by [the United States Supreme Court].”            In re Doe, 99
    Hawai#i 522, 532, 
    57 P.3d 447
    , 457 (2002) (citing Troxel v.
    Granville, 
    530 U.S. 57
    , 65 (2000)).         The Court has not been
    squarely presented with the question whether the right to care
    for children also includes a right to use corporal punishment to
    discipline them.     See Sweaney v. Ada County, Idaho, 
    119 F.3d 1385
    , 1391 (9th Cir. 1997) (holding that there is no clearly
    established federal constitutional right of a parent to inflict
    corporal punishment on a child).          However, the Court has decided
    a number of cases that suggest it would recognize a parent’s
    right to use corporal punishment.         See Troxel, 
    530 U.S. at 65
    (plurality opinion) (“[T]he [constitutional] liberty [interest]
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    Petitioner’s arguments are presented in an order different from
    that in which Petitioner made them.
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    of parents and guardians includes the right to direct the
    upbringing and education of children under their control[.])
    (internal quotation marks and citations omitted); Parham v. J.
    R., 
    442 U.S. 584
    , 602 (1979) (“Our jurisprudence historically has
    reflected Western civilization concepts of the family as a unit
    with broad parental authority over minor children.”); Ingraham v.
    Wright, 
    430 U.S. 651
    , 661, 670 (1977) (suggesting that parents
    are privileged to use force to discipline their children inasmuch
    as the Court observed that the prevalent rule in this country
    today permits teachers to use       “such force as [the] teacher . . .
    reasonably believes to be necessary for (the child’s) proper
    control, training, or education”) (internal quotation marks and
    citations omitted).
    Additionally, “Independent of the federal constitution
    . . . parents have a substantive liberty interest in the care,
    custody, and control of their children protected by the due
    process clause of article 1, section 5 of the Hawai#i
    Constitution.”    In re Doe, 99 Hawai#i at 533, 
    57 P.3d at 458
    .            It
    is well-established that imposing discipline is part and parcel
    of caring for children, since a parent may not be able to care
    properly for, or exercise control over, an unruly child without
    the ability to impose discipline.        See Ingraham, 
    430 U.S. at 661
    .
    Such discipline has included corporal punishment.           See 
    id.
    (“Professional and public opinion is sharply divided on the
    practice [of corporal punishment], and has been for more than a
    century.   Yet we can discern no trend toward its elimination.”);
    State v. Crouser, 81 Hawai#i 5, 14, 
    911 P.2d 725
    , 734 (1996)
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    (explaining, for purposes of criminal liability, that it is
    “well-established,” in Hawai#i, “that parents have a privilege to
    subject children to reasonable corporal punishment”).             The right
    to discipline is therefore inherent in the right to care,
    custody, and control of one’s children, as guaranteed by the
    Hawai#i Constitution.13
    V.
    A.
    Preliminarily, the ICA distinguished the initial grant
    of the ex parte TRO from the show cause hearing.            Hamilton III,
    
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *8-13.       The ICA concluded that the procedures
    that permit a court to grant an ex parte TRO under chapter 586
    comport with due process.       
    Id.
     (citing, for example, In re
    Guardianship of Carlsmith, 113 Hawai#i 236, 239-40, 
    151 P.3d 717
    ,
    720-21 (2007)).
    When a petitioner first applies for a TRO ex parte, a
    court must find that there is probable cause to believe that “a
    past act or acts of abuse have occurred, or that threats of abuse
    make it probable that acts of abuse may be imminent.”             HRS § 586-
    4(c).   Within fifteen days after the TRO is entered, a court is
    required to hold a show cause hearing to determine whether the
    TRO should remain in force.        HRS § 586-5(b); see Styke v. Sotelo,
    122 Hawai#i 485, 491, 
    228 P.3d 365
    , 371 (App. 2010) (“We hold
    that under HRS § 586-5(b), the court is obligated to hold a show-
    13
    Rights grounded in the Hawai#i Constitution may be broader in
    scope than rights grounded in the United States Constitution. See, e.g.,
    State v. Dixon, 83 Hawai#i 13, 23, 
    924 P.2d 181
    , 191 (1996) (stating that
    “article I, section 7 of the Hawai#i Constitution provides broader protection
    than the [F]ourth [A]mendment to the United States Constitution”).
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    cause hearing on a TRO within fifteen days from the date the TRO
    is granted (where service has been effected) unless there is a
    substantial reason amounting to good cause for a delay.”); Kie v.
    McMahel, 91 Hawai i 438, 441-42, 
    984 P.2d 1264
    , 1267-68 (App.
    1999) (noting that under HRS § 586-5(b) the court must hold a
    show cause hearing no later than fifteen days from the date the
    TRO is granted).      During that hearing, the petitioner has the
    burden to prove the allegations in the petition by a
    preponderance of the evidence.         Id. at 442-43, 
    984 P.2d at
    1268-
    69.
    The existence of exigent circumstances justifies
    dispensing with the requirement of holding a hearing before the
    ex parte TRO is granted.        Cf. In re Guardianship of Carlsmith,
    113 Hawai#i at 238-42, 
    151 P.3d at 720-23
     (“TRO[s], in view of
    [their] emergency remedial nature, may [constitutionally] be
    granted ex parte[,]”) ([alteration] in original,) (Citing Luat v.
    Cacho, 92 Hawai#i 330, 346, 
    991 P.2d 840
    , 856 (App. 1999)).              The
    availability of a prompt post-deprivation hearing (by way of a
    show cause hearing), combined with the fact that the petitioner
    retains the burden of proof during the hearing, ensures that the
    respondent’s interests are adequately protected.             See 
    id.
    (upholding constitutionality of ex parte TROs issued under
    Hawai#i Family Court Rules Rule 65(b) where adverse party is
    allowed to request post-deprivation hearing); Kie, 91 Hawai#i at
    442, 
    984 P.2d at 1268
     ("While at that hearing the respondent must
    ‘show cause why’ the protective order is not necessary, HRS
    § 586-5.5(a), the burden remains on the petitioner to prove the
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    petitioner's underlying allegations by a preponderance of the
    evidence."); Coyle v. Compton, 85 Hawai#i 197, 207, 
    940 P.2d 404
    ,
    414 (App. 1997) (upholding issuance of an ex parte TRO in a
    domestic abuse situation against due process challenge).            The ICA
    therefore correctly concluded that the procedure for obtaining an
    ex parte TRO under chapter 586 comports with due process.             See
    Hamilton III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *8-13.         Petitioner apparently
    does not quarrel with that conclusion in his Application.
    B.
    Petitioner argues, however, that at the show cause
    hearing, there must be a standard by which courts can distinguish
    abuse from discipline.     The ICA concluded that chapter 586 did
    not infringe upon Petitioner’s right to discipline his children
    because that chapter only reaches abuse.         Id. at *6.     But the ICA
    did not articulate what differentiates abuse from discipline or
    what factors courts should consider in determining whether abuse
    or discipline is involved.
    Due process requires that the State provide meaningful
    standards to guide the application of its laws.           Cf. Kolender v.
    Lawson, 
    461 U.S. 352
    , 358 (1983).        Statutes must be defined “with
    sufficient definiteness that ordinary people can understand what
    conduct is prohibited.”     State v. Beltran, 116 Hawai#i 146, 151,
    
    172 P.3d 458
    , 463 (2007).      Further, a law that “impermissibly
    delegates basic policy matters to policemen, judges, and juries
    for resolution on an ad hoc and subjective basis,” carries “the
    attendant dangers of arbitrary and discriminatory application.”
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    Grayned v. City of Rockford, 
    408 U.S. 104
    , 108-109 (U.S. 1972);
    Beltran, 16 Hawai#i at 153, 172 P.3d at 465 (2007) (same).
    As Petitioner contends, without some way of
    distinguishing abuse from discipline, there is a danger that
    chapter 586 will infringe on the right to discipline by ensnaring
    parents who use corporal punishment properly to discipline their
    children, see id. at 151, 172 P.3d at 463 (explaining that laws
    must be sufficiently clear to allow the public to distinguish
    between lawful and unlawful conduct), and that parents, as a
    result, will refrain from disciplining their children for fear of
    being subject to a TRO, cf. Brown v. Entm’t Merchants Ass’n, 
    131 S. Ct. 2729
    , 2743 (2011) (Alito, J., concurring) (explaining, in
    context of First Amendment challenge, that due process requires
    laws to give fair notice, and that vague laws compel people to
    “steer far wider of the unlawful zone . . . than if the
    boundaries of forbidden areas were clearly marked”) (internal
    quotation marks and citations omitted).         Absent standards to
    guide courts in distinguishing discipline from abuse, there is
    also a risk that courts will apply chapter 586 arbitrarily.                See
    State v. Gaylord, 78 Hawai#i 127, 138, 
    198 P.2d 1167
    , 1178 (1995)
    (explaining that a statute will not be held unconstitutional by
    reason of uncertainty if any sensible construction embracing the
    legislative purpose may be given to the statute).
    VI.
    A.
    In the criminal law context, there is already a
    standard that our courts use to determine whether a parent has
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    abused a child.     HRS § 709-906(1) (1999)14 prohibits “physically
    abus[ing] a family or household member.”          However, HRS § 703-309
    can be raised as a justification or defense against a charge
    under HRS § 709-906.      See State v. Matavale, 115 Hawai#i 149,
    158-59, 
    166 P.3d 322
    , 331-32 (2007) (plurality opinion) (“When a
    question of parental discipline is raised, the prosecution must
    prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the parent’s . . . conduct
    did not come within the scope of parental discipline as
    prescribed in HRS § 703-309(1).”)         As previously noted, under HRS
    § 703-309(1)(a) and (b), parents are permitted to use force
    against minor children so long as:
    (a)     The force is employed with due regard for the age and
    size of the minor and is reasonably related to the
    purpose of safeguarding or promoting the welfare of
    the minor, including the prevention or punishment of
    the minor's misconduct; and
    (b)     The force used is not designed to cause or known to
    create a risk of causing substantial bodily injury,
    disfigurement, extreme pain or mental distress, or
    neurological damage.
    HRS §§ 709-906 and 703-309(1) have withstood attack on
    the ground that they lack sufficient clarity as to the level of
    force that may be used to discipline a minor.           See State v.
    Stocker, 90 Hawai#i 85, 95, 
    976 P.2d 399
    , 409 (1999); Crouser, 81
    Hawai#i at 14-15, 
    911 P.2d at 734-35
     (concluding that HRS §§ 703-
    309(1) and 709-906 are not unconstitutionally vague) (same).               In
    Crouser, this court held that, “[a]lthough the legislature has
    14
    HRS § 709-906 provides in relevant part:
    § 709-906. Abuse of family or household members;
    penalty.   (1) It shall be unlawful for any person,
    singly or in concert, to physically abuse a family or
    household member or to refuse compliance with the lawful
    order of a police officer under subsection (4).
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    not exhaustively enumerated the specific injuries that would
    constitute unjustified use of force[,] . . . HRS § 703-309(1)
    gives the person of ordinary intelligence” notice as to the
    conduct that is prohibited.        81 Hawai#i at 14-15, 
    911 P.2d at 734-35
    .    Thus, “[t]he phrases (1) reasonably related to the
    purpose of safeguarding or promoting the welfare of the minor,
    (2) designed to cause or known to create a risk of causing (3)
    substantial bodily injury, and (4) extreme pain or mental
    distress” were held to be “sufficiently precise” to give parents
    notice as to the amount of force that was considered excessive.
    Id. at 15, 911 P.3d at 735.
    Crouser was reaffirmed in Matavale, which explained
    that “[i]n determining whether force is reasonable, the fact
    finder must consider the child’s age, the child’s stature, and
    the nature of the injuries inflicted.”           Matavale, 115 Hawai#i at
    164, 
    166 P.3d at 338
    .       In other words, the fact finder should
    consider “whether the force used was designed to cause or known
    to create a risk of causing substantial bodily injury,
    disfigurement, extreme pain or mental distress, or neurological
    damage given the child’s age and size.”           
    Id.
    This court acknowledged that these factors were
    “general in nature,” “place[d] a large amount of discretion with
    the courts,” and concluded there was no “bright line that
    indicates what, under all circumstances, is unreasonable or
    excessive corporal punishment.”         Id. at 165-66, 
    166 P.3d at
    338-
    39.   The permissible degree of force would depend on “the child’s
    physique and age, the misconduct of the child, the nature of the
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    discipline, and all surrounding circumstances.”           
    Id.
       This
    court’s decisions would also provide guidance and would “serve to
    illustrate the kind of conduct that clearly falls outside the
    parameters of parental discipline.”        
    Id.
     at 164 n.11, 
    166 P.3d at 337, n.11
    ; see also State v. Kikuta, 125 Hawai#i 78, 90, 
    253 P.3d 639
    , 652 (2011) (in determining whether a parent’s use of force
    was justified under HRS § 703-309 the trier of fact must consider
    the child’s physique and age, the misconduct of the child, the
    nature of the discipline, and all surrounding circumstances).
    B.
    The ICA rejected Petitioner’s argument that he should
    be allowed to assert the parental discipline justification under
    HRS § 703-309(1) as a defense to the TRO.         Hamilton III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *7.    The ICA explained that HRS § 703-309 does not
    expressly or implicitly extend to civil proceedings for domestic
    abuse.   Id.   The ICA implied that, in any event, the legislature
    intended for chapter 586 to cover acts that were otherwise
    privileged under 703-309(1).       Id. (“The Legislature thus intended
    the definition of acts constituting domestic violence for
    purposes of TROs to be broader than those subjected to criminal
    liability under the penal code.”).
    It is true that the definition of “domestic violence”
    under HRS § 586-1 encompasses conduct broader in nature than the
    definition of physical abuse under HRS § 709-906.           HRS § 586-1
    also prohibits malicious property damage and threats of
    infliction of harm, injury, or assault.         See HRS § 586-1.       On its
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    face, HRS § 709-906 does not apply to either kind of conduct.
    Therefore, the ICA was correct to point out that HRS § 586-1
    reaches some conduct that is not criminalized under HRS § 709-
    906.
    The ICA also explained that the purpose of a TRO is to
    prevent abuse rather than to punish past abuse.              See Hamilton
    III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *7 n.8, *13 n.17.            The aim of chapter
    586 is to provide emergency relief from imminent harm by assuring
    a period of separation for the parties involved.              See 
    id.
     at *13
    n.17 (“The Legislature has consistently affirmed the purpose of
    ex parte TROs to prevent imminent violence by ‘assuring a period
    of separation of the parties involved.’”) (quoting 1979 Haw.
    Sess. Laws, Act 168, § 1 at 345-46; S. Stand. Com. Rep. No. 3252,
    in 1998 Senate Journal, at 1314-15; H. Stand. Com. Rep. No. 578-
    98, in 1998 House Journal, at 1264-65; HRS § 586-4(c)).               The ICA
    was therefore also correct that the goal of chapter 586 may be
    different from that of HRS § 709-906.
    However, as noted supra, the ICA also suggested that
    chapter 586 might extend to conduct for which a parent could
    otherwise assert the parental justification defense under HRS
    § 703-309.      See Hamilton III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *7 n.8.
    Respectfully, the ICA was not correct to imply that chapter 586
    prohibited conduct that would constitute discipline rather than
    abuse under HRS § 703-309.         Otherwise, as Petitioner contends,
    “the right to discipline” would have no meaning.              See Crouser, 81
    Hawai#i at 14, 
    911 P.2d at 734
     (stating that a parent has a
    “privilege to subject children to reasonable corporal
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    punishment”).     A parent would have the right to impose reasonable
    discipline in a criminal case, but could not raise the same
    justification in opposition to interference by the State with the
    parent-child relationship in a civil setting.15           This would be an
    inconsistent result, one that the ICA has already rejected in the
    context of custody hearings.        See Rezentes v. Rezentes, 88
    Hawai#i 200, 206, 
    965 P.2d 133
    , 139 (App. 1998) (concluding that
    “the term ‘family violence’ in HRS § 571-46(9) (1993) would not
    extend to the type of physical discipline of a child by his or
    her parent that is expressly permitted in HRS § 703-309(1)
    [because] the legislature would [not] sanction in one statute the
    use of certain physical force. . . and yet characterize in
    another statute the use of such force as family violence,
    potentially depriving a parent of custody or visitation.”).16
    VII.
    No standard has been announced in the civil law TRO
    context that is parallel to the criminal law area to assist the
    public and the courts in drawing the line between abuse and
    discipline.    As noted above, chapter 586 defines “domestic abuse”
    15
    Further, it should be noted that although no criminal sanctions
    are imposed by a TRO, chapter 586 imposes criminal penalties for the violation
    of a TRO. HRS § 586-11 (knowing violation of protective order is a
    misdemeanor). The entry of a TRO could thus lead to criminal penalties.
    16
    The ICA contends that Rezentes is distinguishable in part because,
    as opposed to a custody determination "which is made after a full hearing of
    the issues" an "ex parte TRO is temporary in duration," "is intended to
    provide immediate relief," and is based on "probable cause." Hamilton III,
    
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *7 n.8. However, the show cause hearing under HRS § 586-5
    is one that affords "a full hearing on the issues." Moreover, to hold that
    proper discipline under HRS § 703-309(1) constitutes abuse under HRS 568-1
    would blur the distinction between discipline and abuse and subject parents to
    inconsistent requirements for the same acts by making permissible conduct
    under HRS § 703-309(1) unlawful under HRS § 586-1.
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    as “physical harm, bodily injury, assault, or the threat of
    imminent physical harm, bodily injury, or assault, extreme
    psychological abuse or malicious property damage.”           HRS § 586-1.
    “Domestic abuse” is also defined as any act which would
    constitute an offense under HRS § 709-906.         Id.
    In some, and perhaps even in many, cases, the terms
    “physical harm,” “bodily injury,” and “assault” suffice to
    distinguish abuse from permissible discipline.           Since any act
    that constitutes an offense under HRS § 709-906 also constitutes
    “domestic abuse” under HRS § 586-1, for all practical purposes,
    family courts may already be implicitly utilizing the factors set
    forth in HRS § 703-309(1) to distinguish abuse from discipline.
    A child’s age, stature, the nature of the force, the nature of
    any injuries, and the proportionality of the punishment to the
    child’s misconduct are the kinds of common sense considerations
    that a court might reasonably take into account in determining
    whether the force used by a parent amounts to abuse.
    However, there is nothing in chapter 586 or in the
    decisions of this court expressly recognizing a parental right to
    employ discipline with respect to the show cause hearing under
    HRS § 586-5(b) on the question of whether the TRO should be
    continued.   As noted before, in the absence of such a standard,
    courts may construe chapter 586 too broadly and, in doing so,
    violate a parent’s constitutional right to discipline his or her
    child.   Cf. Rezentes, 88 Hawai#i at 206, 
    965 P.2d at 139
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    VIII.
    Petitioner asks this court to hold that a parent has a
    right to use reasonable force to discipline a child, and requests
    that we articulate a standard that family courts may apply in
    evaluating whether a parent’s conduct amounts to abuse under
    chapter 586.24.     The ICA did not squarely decide what standard
    should govern because it seemingly believed chapter 586 subsumed
    parental discipline permitted under HRS § 703-309.17            See Hamilton
    III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *7-8 (stating that the legislature
    intended definition of acts constituting domestic violence to be
    broader than those subjected to liability under the criminal
    code).   However, it is not necessary to import the express
    provision of HRS § 703-309(1) into HRS § 586-5 TRO show cause
    hearings.18
    17
    Although the ICA stated that the court “concluded that even if the
    defense [in HRS § 703-309] were available,” Petitioner’s “use of force was not
    reasonably related to safeguarding or promoting Minor’s welfare,” see Hamilton
    III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *8, the court seemed uncertain as to the scope of HRS
    § 586-1. While not entirely clear, it appears that during the hearing, the
    court believed that Petitioner was permitted to discipline Minor if she was
    involved in conduct that was particularly egregious, such as using illegal
    drugs, but that Petitioner could not discipline his daughter for other
    misbehavior. The court also thought that HRS § 703-309(1) was “relevant,” but
    that Petitioner could not take advantage of it because Mother had sole legal
    custody of Minor. In contrast, in its written conclusions, the court stated
    that it was not “proper parental discipline” for Petitioner to strike his
    daughter for “her refusal to discuss [the birth control] issue late during a
    school night.” The court also stated, however, that HRS § 703-309 “applies to
    criminal[,] not civil[,] actions.” It cannot be said then that the court
    applied HRS § 703-309(1) in reaching its decision.
    18
    In oral argument, Respondent implied that HRS § 703-301(2) (1972)
    may prohibit a justification defense such as the parental discipline defense
    under HRS § 703-309 from being imposed in civil proceedings under HRS chapter
    586. That section states that “[t]he fact that conduct is justifiable under
    this chapter [(HRS chapter 703)] does not abolish or impair any remedy for
    such conduct which is available in any civil action.” HRS § 703-301(2).
    However, generally it would appear that HRS § 703-301(2) was intended to
    indicate that a justification defense does not affect remedies such as those
    that might flow from civil or private wrongs resulting in tort claims. See
    HRS § 703-301 cmt. (“For example, unreasonable conduct on the part of the
    defendant might suffice for civil liability whereas criminal liability will
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    A.
    Reasonableness is the standard that has long been
    employed by the states in the area of parental discipline.              See
    Doriane Lambelet Coleman, et. al., Where and How to Draw the Line
    Between Reasonable Corporal Punishment and Abuse, 73-SPG Law &
    Contemp. Probs. 107, 137 (2010) [hereinafter, Where and How to
    Draw the Line] (“[S]tates have long provided parents with an
    exception to tort and criminal-law prohibitions against physical
    assaults when they can establish a disciplinary motive for the
    assault and when the assault itself is ‘reasonable.’             Twentieth-
    century case law is thus replete with holdings like this one: ‘A
    parent has the right to punish a child within the bounds of
    moderation and reason, so long as he or she does it for the
    welfare of the child.’”) (citing cases); see also Restatement
    (Second) of Torts § 147 (1965) (based on survey of states, “[a]
    parent is privileged to apply such reasonable force or to impose
    such reasonable confinement upon his child as he reasonably
    believes is necessary for [his child’s] proper control, training,
    or education”);     G.C. v. R.S., --- So.3d ---, 
    2011 WL 4104731
    , at
    *2 (Fla. App. Sept. 16, 2011) (“The common law recognize[s] a
    parent’s right to discipline his or her child in a reasonable
    manner.”) (internal quotation marks and citations omitted); State
    v. Bell, 
    223 N.W.2d 181
    , 184 (Iowa 1974) (“Parents have a right
    to inflict corporal punishment on their child, but that right is
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    turn on the defendant's own subjective mental state.”) (Emphasis added.) In
    any event, the right of parental discipline in the context of TRO proceedings
    stems from the constitution, not from the express provisions of HRS § 703-309.
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    restricted by moderation and reasonableness.”); State v. Thorpe,
    
    429 A.2d 785
    , 788 (R.I. 1981) (“[A] parent has a right to use
    reasonable and timely [corporal] punishment as may be necessary
    to correct faults in his/her growing children.”); Diehl v.
    Commonwealth, 
    385 S.E.2d 228
    , 230 (“It is settled in Virginia
    that while a parent has the right to discipline his or her child
    the punishment must be within the bounds of moderation.”); Where
    and How to Draw the Line, 73-SPG Law & Contemp. Probs. at 117
    n.37 (“Even in states that lack physical-discipline exceptions
    within their family or juvenile-court codes, courts have
    recognized a parent’s physical-discipline privilege based on a
    statutory privilege found in the criminal code or a common-law
    privilege.”)   (Citing Lovan C. v. Dep’t of Children & Families,
    
    860 A.2d 1283
    , 1288 (Conn. App. 2004); In re W.G., 
    349 N.W.2d 487
    , 487 (Iowa 1984)).
    B.
    Reasonableness is also the standard used when
    considering whether a domestic violence injunction has been
    erroneously granted.     See G.C., --- So.3d ----, 
    2011 WL 4104731
    at *1-2. (holding that domestic violence injunction was not
    warranted because parents have a common law right to administer
    reasonable and non-excessive discipline and father’s conduct was
    reasonable); Simons v. State Dep’t of Human Servs., 
    803 N.W.2d 587
    , 592-95 (N.D. 2011) (holding in context of statute
    authorizing agency to remove abused children from homes that
    parents may use reasonable force to discipline their children);
    see also P.W v. D.O, 
    591 S.E.2d 260
    , 265-67 (W. Va. 2003)
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    (concluding that child was not “physically harmed” for purposes
    of obtaining temporary domestic violence order when parent
    spanked child but left no bruises).
    IX.
    The formulations for determining whether a parent’s
    conduct is reasonably related to discipline vary among the
    states, but they are more similar than not.            Based on a survey of
    authorities, Restatement (Second) of Torts § 150 (1965) provides
    as follows:
    In determining whether force or confinement is
    reasonable for the control, training, or education of
    a child, the following factors are to be considered:
    (a)   whether the actor is a parent;
    (b)   the age, sex, and physical and mental condition of the
    child;
    (c)   the nature of his offense and his apparent motive;
    (d)   the influence of his example upon other children of
    the same family or group;
    (e)   whether the force or confinement is reasonably
    necessary and appropriate to compel obedience to a
    proper command;
    (f)   whether it is disproportionate to the offense,
    unnecessarily degrading, or likely to cause serious or
    permanent harm. 19
    States consider essentially the same factors.            For
    example, in Connecticut, “[i]n a substantiation of abuse hearing
    . . . the hearing officer must determine whether the punishment
    was reasonable and whether the parent believed the punishment was
    necessary to maintain discipline or promote the child’s welfare.”
    Lovan C., 
    860 A.2d at 1289
    .       “The hearing officer must assess the
    reasonableness of the punishment in light of the child’s
    misbehavior and the surrounding circumstances, including the
    parent’s motive, the type of punishment administered, the amount
    19
    The factors are not exclusive.   See Restatement (Second) of Torts
    § 150 (1965) cmt. a.
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    of force used and the child’s age, size and ability to understand
    the punishment.”    Id.   Several other courts have identified
    similar circumstances, such as “the age, size, sex, and physical
    condition of both child and parent, the nature of the child’s
    misconduct, the kind of marks or wounds inflicted on the child’s
    body, the nature of the instrument used for punishment, etc.”
    State v. Singleton, 
    705 P.2d 825
    , 827 (Wash. App. 1985) (citing
    cases).
    The factors considered by other states are coextensive
    with the test employed by Hawai#i in the context of the criminal
    parental discipline defense.       We hold that the appropriate
    standard for family courts to apply in contested HRS chapter 586
    show cause hearings is whether the parent's discipline is
    reasonably related to the purpose of safeguarding or promoting
    the welfare of the minor.      In applying such a standard, the
    surrounding circumstances, including factors such as the nature
    of the misbehavior, the child’s age and size, and the nature and
    propriety of the force used, have been universally considered and
    should also guide the courts in this state.
    X.
    Petitioner argues that the court and the ICA improperly
    assumed that his actions constituted abuse.          The ICA concluded
    that it was not an abuse of discretion, in light of the three
    incidents of abuse alleged, for the court to conclude that abuse
    had occurred.   However, in its findings and conclusions the court
    based its decision only on the single incident in which Minor
    alleged that Petitioner hit her “a couple of times” and that he
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    was trying to slap her on the face but that she blocked his
    blows.   None of the parties or the courts had the benefit of the
    standard for parental discipline to apply, as set forth supra,
    for purposes of the October 5, 2005 HRS § 586-5 show cause
    hearing.    Accordingly, the case must be remanded to the court for
    application of that standard.20
    XI.
    In his second question, Petitioner asks this court to
    determine whether a non-custodial parent has a residual parental
    right to discipline during unsupervised visitation.
    A.
    Initially, Petitioner contends that the ICA erred in
    failing to take judicial notice of the documents pertaining to
    the custody case, UCCJ No. 98-0028.         However, the ICA’s refusal
    to take the custodial documents into account had no bearing on
    the ICA’s decision because, as explained infra, the ICA refused
    to consider whether Petitioner retained a residual parental right
    to discipline Minor.      See Hamilton III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *14
    n.20.
    Petitioner filed a motion with this court requesting
    that we take judicial notice of the custody case records.              On
    December 7, 2011, we granted the motion with respect to Exhibit B
    20
    It is not entirely clear whether the court concluded that
    Petitioner struck Minor for helping her friend in the birth control incident
    that Minor had already discussed with Mother, or instead because Minor was
    attempting to leave when Petitioner sought to speak to her. See discussion
    supra. In any event, whether the conduct by Petitioner was appropriate
    discipline in each incident should be left initially to the family court,
    inasmuch as those determinations are necessarily fact-bound, and will depend
    on the custodial arrangement of the parties and on the circumstances of the
    particular case.
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    (Ex B), titled "Stipulated Order for Post-Decree Relief Re
    Plaintiff's Motion and Affidavit for Post-Decree Relief Filed
    February 1, 1999, and Defendant's Motion and Affidavit for
    Post-Decree Relief Filed March 5, 1999," filed on September 22,
    1999, and with respect to Exhibit A (Ex A), titled "Order Re
    Defendant's Motion for Post Decree Relief Filed on 4/26/02 and
    Plaintiff's Motion for Post Decree Relief Filed on 5/17/02,"
    filed on August, 27, 2003.       Taking judicial notice of the custody
    documents establishes that Petitioner had visitation rights with
    Minor even though Mother had sole legal custody.
    B.
    Petitioner also contends that his case is not moot.
    Although at this point Petitioner’s daughter has reached the age
    of eighteen and the TRO has expired, as was the case when
    Petitioner was last before this court, “there is [still] a
    ‘reasonable probability’ that the family court’s issuance of the
    TRO against [Petitioner], which was based on its findings and
    conclusions that [Petitioner] abused his daughter, will cause
    harm to [Petitioner’s] reputation.”         Hamilton II, 119 Hawai#i at
    11, 
    193 P.3d at 849
     (rejecting contention that Petitioner’s claim
    was moot after TRO expired and Mother was awarded full custody
    because Petitioner still had reputational interest to protect).
    Hence, Petitioner retains an interest in resolving whether the
    TRO should have been continued after the hearing.21
    21
    Petitioner also contends that “the ICA’s errors perpetuated
    continuing collateral consequences” because during the pendency of the TRO,
    Mother was given sole legal and physical custody over Minor, which Petitioner
    was unable to modify because of the TRO. Because this court has already held
    (continued...)
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    C.
    Petitioner argues that the ICA erred in agreeing with
    the court that Petitioner did not have the right to discipline
    Minor.    However, the ICA did not reach the issue.            The ICA
    stated:
    [Petitioner] also challenges the Family Court’s
    conclusion that “discipline over issues of morals lies
    with [Mother], who has sole legal and physical
    custody.” Given our ultimate conclusion that the
    Family Court did not abuse its discretion in issuing
    the Ex Parte TRO . . . we need not address this point.
    Hamilton III, 
    2011 WL 2611284
    , at *7 n.6.            In her answering brief
    to the ICA, Respondent argued that HRS § 571-222 allows only the
    custodial parent to discipline the child, and does not permit the
    non-custodial parent to impose discipline.            In oral argument,
    Respondent also referred to the provisions of the custody
    21
    (...continued)
    that the reputational consequences of the grant of the TRO were sufficient to
    prevent the case from becoming moot, see Hamilton II, 119 Hawai#i at 11, 
    193 P.3d at 849
    , there is no need for this court to consider Petitioner’s argument
    that the TRO also made it impossible for him to modify the award of custody to
    Mother.
    22
    HRS § 571-2 (1993) entitled “Definitions,” provides in relevant
    part as follows:
    “Legal custody” means the relationship created by
    the court’s decree which imposes on the custodian the
    responsibility of physical possession of the minor and
    the duty to protect, train, and discipline the minor and
    to provide the minor with food, shelter, education, and
    ordinary medical care, all subject to residual parental
    rights   and   responsibilities   and  the  rights   and
    responsibilities of any legally appointed guardian of
    the person.
    . . . .
    “Residual parental rights and responsibilities”
    means those rights and responsibilities remaining with
    the parent after the transfer of legal custody or
    guardianship  of   the   person,  including,   but  not
    necessarily  limited   to,  the  right   to  reasonable
    visitation, consent to adoption or marriage, and the
    responsibility for support.
    (Emphases added.)
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    documents for this proposition.23          Respondent argued that because
    the term “legal custody” is defined to include the responsibility
    to discipline, and the term “residual parental right” does not, a
    non-custodial parent with residual parental rights does not enjoy
    the right to discipline.
    However, Respondent’s argument was already considered
    and subsumed in Stocker, 90 Hawai#i at 93-94, 
    976 P.2d at 407-08
    .
    The Stocker court held that a “‘custodial’ parent normally has
    reserved to him or her the sole authority and duty to
    ‘discipline’ a child,” pursuant to HRS § 571-2.            Id.   This court
    recognized that the definition of “residual parental rights” in
    HRS § 571-2 did not expressly include the right to discipline,
    but explained that the rights listed in the definition were not
    exclusive.    Id.   Therefore, Stocker held that a non-custodial
    parent, “acting within his court-prescribed unsupervised
    visitation time, retains [a] ‘residual parental right’ . . . to
    discipline a child with respect to that child’s conduct during
    the visitation period.”       Id. at 94, 
    976 P.2d at 408
     (internal
    citation omitted).      Consequently, “[a] contrary holding would
    lead to the absurdity that a non-custodial parent, alone with his
    child during an authorized visitation period, would be powerless
    23
    Respondent referred to provisions (1) in Ex A, which states that
    Respondent “shall have sole legal custody of the children," and that
    "[Respondent shall consult with [Petitioner] on all legal custody decisions,”
    and (2) in Ex B that "[for] major decisions . . . the parties shall confer in
    unity . . . including . . . the manner in which the children shall be
    disciplined . . . [and] the visitation schedule for [Petitioner]." On their
    faces, nothing in these provisions governed the particular circumstances of
    the events of August 25, 2005, nor directly conflicted with the provision
    under HRS § 571-2, that Petitioner “retain[ed] as a ‘residual parental right,’
    . . . the authority to discipline a child with respect to that child's conduct
    during the visitation period.” Stocker, 90 Hawai#i at 94, 
    976 P.2d at 408
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    to employ the use of force against the child, even if such force
    were reasonably necessary to ‘promote’ the child’s ‘welfare.’”
    
    Id.
    Stocker was decided in the context of the parental
    discipline defense under HRS § 703-309(1), but the rationale
    applies equally here.       It would be inconsistent to say that a
    non-custodial parent retains the right to use reasonable force to
    discipline a child for purposes of a criminal prosecution but not
    for purposes of a civil proceeding.          Parents with visitation
    rights are responsible for the supervision of their children
    while the child is with them.         See id.    Consequently, the
    responsibility to supervise must also include the ability to
    discipline the child when the child is in the physical custody of
    the parent--whether the parent has full legal custody or
    visitation rights.      See id.    In this case, no party before the
    court disputed that Petitioner had visitation rights with Minor.
    Yet the court was unsure of whether Petitioner had the right to
    discipline Minor.      We conclude that a non-custodial parent
    retains the right to discipline his or her child for conduct that
    occurs while the child is under the supervision of the non-
    custodial parent.24
    24
    However, the family court retains discretion in any particular
    case to specifically prohibit corporal punishment by a non-custodial parent as
    the circumstances may reasonably warrant.
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    XII.
    For the foregoing reasons, we vacate the September 21,
    2011 ICA judgment and the court’s October 5, 2005 Order Regarding
    Temporary Restraining Order.       We remand the case to the
    court for application of the standard for parental discipline
    consistent with this opinion.
    Robert H. Thomas and                 /s/ Paula A. Nakayama
    Rebecca A. Copeland
    (Damon Key Leong                     /s/ Simeon R. Acoba, Jr.
    Kupchak Hastert)
    for petitioner/                      /s/ James E. Duffy, Jr.
    defendant-appellant.
    /s/ Sabrina S. McKenna
    Stephen T. Hioki
    for respondent/                      /s/ Virginia L. Crandall
    plaintiff-appellee.
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