In the Interest of J.H., Minor Child ( 2020 )


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  •                 IN THE SUPREME COURT OF IOWA
    No. 20–0854
    Submitted November 17, 2020—Filed December 18, 2020
    IN THE INTEREST OF J.H.,
    Minor Child.
    J.H., Father,
    Appellant.
    On review from the Iowa Court of Appeals.
    Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Susan Cox,
    District Associate Judge.
    The State seeks further review of a court of appeals decision
    reversing the termination of a father’s parental rights.   DECISION OF
    COURT OF APPEALS VACATED; JUVENILE COURT JUDGMENT
    AFFIRMED.
    Christensen, C.J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which all
    justices joined.
    Alexandra M. Nelissen of Advocate Law, PLLC, Clive, for appellant.
    Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Ellen Ramsey-Kacena,
    Assistant Attorney General, for appellee.
    Nicole Garbis Nolan of Youth Law Center, Des Moines, attorney and
    guardian ad litem for minor child.
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    CHRISTENSEN, Chief Justice.
    In this case, we must decide whether the juvenile court was correct
    in terminating a father’s parental rights.         The father has an extensive
    history of involvement with the Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS)
    due to his issues with domestic violence, substance abuse, mental health,
    and cognitive functioning, which have led to the termination of his parental
    rights to ten other children and the removal of his child upon birth in this
    case.    Although he made some progress in addressing his domestic
    violence and substance abuse issues in this case, he never progressed past
    fully supervised visits with the child. When serious health issues arose
    that required the child to undergo multiple surgeries, attend frequent
    doctors’ appointments, and receive special care from his caretakers, the
    father showed no interest in the child’s medical care and failed to gain any
    understanding of how to care for the child’s medical needs.
    The juvenile court ultimately found the State had proven the
    grounds for termination of the father’s parental rights and termination was
    in the child’s best interests based on the father’s failure to understand the
    child’s medical needs and inability to safely parent. The father appealed,1
    and the court of appeals reversed. We granted the State’s application for
    further review. On our de novo review, we conclude the father remains
    incapable of safely caring for the child, and there is no indication that his
    parenting abilities will adequately improve in the foreseeable future despite
    the extensive services he has received over the years. Therefore, we vacate
    the decision of the court of appeals and affirm the order of the juvenile
    court terminating the father’s parental rights.
    1The
    juvenile court also terminated the mother’s parental rights, and her appeal
    was dismissed as untimely.
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    I. Background Facts.
    J.H. was born in April 2019. Mom and Dad came to the attention of
    DHS at the time of J.H.’s birth due to their significant history of DHS
    involvement.   This family’s history of DHS involvement spans around
    twenty years and has led to the termination of their parental rights to ten
    other children for each parent—eight children the parents shared together,
    two of Mom’s children from prior relationships, and two of Dad’s children
    from prior relationships. The parents have been married to each other
    since February 2016 and reside together. Although Mom’s termination is
    not on appeal, we discuss her history and involvement in this case due to
    Dad’s enduring commitment to raising J.H. with Mom and her extended
    family.
    Both parents struggle with cognitive functioning that has impacted
    their ability to parent in the past. At the time of trial, Dad was fifty-four
    years old and Mom was thirty-nine years old.            Dad has cognitive
    functioning challenges due to a brain injury. He frequently denies having
    a brain injury, as he did in this termination hearing, while at other times,
    he attributes it to a motorcycle accident, an assault, or cocaine use. He
    receives services to help manage his day-to-day affairs.       Despite this
    assistance, Dad still fails to adequately meet his own health needs. For
    example, he has hypertension, yet he often forgets or chooses not to take
    his blood pressure medication.       Similarly, he never engaged in the
    recommended six-month follow-up CT scan for his lungs related to a stab
    wound in 2017, and he waited until he was experiencing “increased
    wheezing, shortness of breath, and cough productive of dark sputum” in
    2019 to seek this CT scan.
    A 2013 psychiatric evaluation of Mom, which was conducted for the
    purposes of determining whether she was competent to stand trial,
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    revealed a full-scale IQ of 55. The psychiatrist determined she was not
    competent to stand trial and “NEVER WILL BE.” The psychiatrist also
    noted Mom would likely need assistance with “tasks more complicated
    than tying her shoes” and was “not capable of living independently.” Mom
    receives services to help her with her daily living functions, such as
    hygiene and shopping.
    Both parents have significant criminal histories. Dad has multiple
    convictions for domestic abuse assault, some of which are felony
    convictions, as well as convictions for intoxication, disorderly conduct,
    possession of drug paraphernalia, and assault causing bodily injury. Mom
    has multiple convictions for assault on a peace officer and disorderly
    conduct in addition to convictions for harassment of a public official, fifth-
    degree criminal mischief, and interference with official acts.
    Dad first had his rights terminated to two children from a prior
    relationship in 2008. Leading up to that termination, Dad was subject to
    a no-contact order because he assaulted one of the children. Mom had
    her rights terminated to a child from a prior relationship in 2000, whom
    she gave birth to while she was committed to a mental health institution
    because she was “accused of several aggressive criminal acts” and found
    to be incompetent. Mom also had her rights terminated to another child
    from a prior relationship in 2009.
    Mom and Dad have had eight children together before J.H., all of
    whom the parents have had their rights terminated. Iowa Code section
    232.116(1)(g) has been a ground for termination in each case involving the
    parents’ rights to the children they had together.       When asked at the
    termination hearing in this case about “reports . . . that it’s [her] intent to
    keep having children until [she’s] able to keep one,” Mom confirmed, “I did
    say that, yes, I did.”
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    Mom and Dad had their rights terminated to their first child
    together, Child 1,2 in 2009. Just two days after progressing to their first
    overnight visit in that case, Dad became intoxicated and attempted to hit
    Mom and cover her face with a pillow while she was holding Child 1. Mom
    did not initially report this incident because she was afraid of the
    consequences it would have on their parental rights. The parents failed to
    show any progress after this incident, and the juvenile court eventually
    terminated Dad’s rights under Iowa Code sections 232.116(1)(d), (g), and
    (l), and Mom’s rights under Iowa Code sections 232.116(1)(d), (e), (g), and
    (h). In doing so, the juvenile court explained,
    [Dad] has not shown he can sustain changes regarding his
    domestic abusive behavior and substance abuse issues.
    [Mom] has made her best efforts to learn to safely care for her
    children. However, she is still unable to make appropriate
    decisions as indicated by the incidents which caused the
    removal of [Child 1]. An example of her inability to make
    appropriate decisions is the fact that [Mom] and [Dad] are now
    living together. Neither has progressed to the point where they
    can parent independently.
    A year later, the parents’ rights to Child 2 were terminated after Dad
    consented to termination and the juvenile court determined Mom
    abandoned Child 2. Since then, common themes of domestic violence,
    substance abuse, mental health issues, and the inability to demonstrate
    sustained progress have emerged in every one of the parents’ subsequent
    termination cases. While the parents were trying to reunify with Child 3,
    police responded to the scene of a disturbance in which Mom was out of
    control and shouting in the street with Dad present. This resulted in Dad’s
    arrest for controlled substances and paraphernalia that police found in
    Mom’s backpack but Dad claimed were his. Mom refused to respond to
    2All of the parents’ children together have the initials “J.H.” Thus, we refer to the
    children by numbers in their birth order for ease of explanation and to preserve their
    confidentiality.
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    police commands, and police had to tase her three times in order to
    handcuff her.   In that termination order, the juvenile court noted the
    parents failed to demonstrate “discernable positive change.”        In their
    termination of parental rights to Child 4 in 2013, the juvenile court
    similarly explained the “parents continue to lack the ability or willingness
    to respond to services which would correct the situation.”
    Child 5 was removed from the parents’ care due to Mom’s
    “unresolved mental health” issues and the parents’ domestic violence. The
    parents failed to participate in services and could not be located for the
    July 2014 hearing, which led to the termination of their parental rights to
    Child 5.   Child 6 was born in January 2017 in Minnesota, where the
    parents had gone to have Child 6 with the hopes of avoiding DHS
    involvement. By May, the parents had returned to Iowa and came to DHS’s
    attention after the parents were involved in a domestic assault incident.
    Mom tried to pry Child 6 out of Dad’s arms to leave Dad after an argument
    and punched Dad in the eye while he was holding Child 6, resulting in
    Dad allowing Mom to take Child 6 and leave. Although the juvenile court
    entered a removal order on May 4 due to the parents’ “domestic violence
    with the child present, [Dad’s] ongoing substance abuse, [Mom’s] low-
    functioning capabilities,” and the parents’ previous terminations of
    parental rights to other children, the parents went into hiding with Child 6
    and could not be located for eighty-one days.       In the meantime, DHS
    received another report of abuse, alleging Dad was using crack cocaine
    while caring for Child 6.
    During the parents’ attempts to reunify with Child 6, Mom gave birth
    to Child 7 and Child 8—twins—prematurely at home in December. The
    twins’ cord blood tested positive for cocaine, and they were hospitalized for
    at least six weeks. One of the twins was discharged on oxygen and a heart
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    monitor, and both had special health needs that required regular doctor
    appointments and physical therapy. As the juvenile court noted in that
    case, “[t]he parents do not regularly attend these appointments, and are
    unable to articulate what the twins’ special needs are.” The juvenile court
    explained, “Both parents are unaware of the possible long term issues that
    the twins will have and have a lack of understanding as to why they will
    need to have long-term attention for medical professionals as to their
    development.”
    In July 2018, the juvenile court terminated the parents’ rights to the
    twins and Child 6 under section 232.116(1)(g). Regarding Child 6, the
    parents’ rights were also terminated under section 232.116(1)(h).         In
    reaching its decision to terminate, the juvenile court explained,
    We are here concerning these children for mostly the same
    reasons that we were here concerning [the parents’ other]
    children whose initials appear above, including issues of very
    low intellectual functioning and other mental disabilities,
    assaultive behavior and domestic violence, and chronic
    substance abuse. And after over ten months of concerted
    effort by the professionals and in many aspects, the parents
    themselves, we still have no resolution in sight to these issues.
    The parents continue to lack the functional ability, insight, or
    sustained, demonstrated change necessary for the court to
    place the children in either parent’s care, or to continue
    working toward that goal.
    ....
    . . . Given the ongoing issues of very low intellectual
    functioning and other mental disabilities, assaultive behavior
    and domestic violence, and chronic substance abuse, the
    court has little hope of these issues resolving any time soon.
    Both parents have been given the opportunity to correct the
    behaviors that resulted in their child being removed from their
    care over ten months ago. They are unable to offer any better
    assurance of lasting change today than they were then.
    (Emphasis added.)
    About nine months later, J.H. was born and removed from the
    parents’ care the day after his birth due to the parents’ demonstrated
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    inability to care for their previous children. He was placed in the care of
    his paternal uncle and aunt, who have adopted J.H.’s twin siblings. J.H.
    has remained in their care throughout the course of this case.
    On May 2, 2019, there was a postremoval conference for the parents
    with DHS and Family Safety, Risk, and Permanency (FSRP) service
    providers regarding J.H. The parents brought a friend from their church,
    who behaved aggressively and directed the parents to remain silent during
    the conference. The friend informed the DHS and FSRP professionals that
    the parents would not have visits unless the friend was present. When the
    professionals told this friend that she could not attend the parents’ visits
    with J.H., the friend told the parents not to have any contact with DHS or
    FSRP until the friend was allowed to be there for the contact.
    The parents heeded this friend’s advice and refused to interact with
    the DHS and FSRP professionals to even schedule visits with J.H. At the
    May 31 combined removal and adjudication hearing, the DHS and FSRP
    professionals attempted to talk to the parents to again set up visitation
    between them and J.H. The parents’ friend from church was again present
    at the hearing and directed the parents not to talk to DHS or FSRP, and
    once again, the parents listened to this friend. Eventually, the parents’
    relationship with this friend deteriorated because she manipulated the
    parents out of money. The juvenile court adjudicated J.H. as a child in
    need of assistance (CINA) following this hearing.
    The FSRP worker set up a visitation schedule and contacted the
    parents on June 3 to inform them of the schedule.         The contact was
    successful, and on June 5, the parents had their first supervised visit with
    J.H. since his removal on April 25. The July DHS report described Dad as
    “less conscientious about his care for [J.H.]” and documented that “[b]oth
    parents have been noted to come to visits with poor hygiene and often in
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    dirty clothes, which is concerning for a very vulnerable child.” The report
    noted there were no significant parenting concerns during these
    supervised visits, but it underscored this note by stating these visits were
    “2 hour sessions and do not truly show how [the parents] will care for a
    child on a daily basis, especially young children that have extensive needs
    and constant supervision.”
    In the beginning of August, J.H.’s caretaker took him to an eye clinic
    because his eyes appeared cloudy and had discharge. The clinic referred
    J.H. to the University of Iowa Health Care for further assessment. J.H.
    was seen a day later for his assessment, and the ophthalmologist
    diagnosed him with severe congenital glaucoma.          The ophthalmologist
    reported J.H.’s eye pressures were “extremely high” and he needed to have
    surgery the following week.
    At J.H.’s next visit following the assessment, the DHS worker
    explained J.H’s medical condition to the parents, and the parents talked
    to J.H.’s ophthalmologist on the phone. The parents told the DHS worker
    that it was best they not attend J.H.’s medical appointments but stated
    they would “call Iowa City for medical updates.” DHS also facilitated a
    family team meeting to discuss J.H.’s medical condition on August 13.
    On August 15, J.H.’s ophthalmologist documented that J.H.’s
    congenital glaucoma is “a life-long condition” and she could not “predict
    [his] response to first surgery yet” but J.H. “[w]ill likely need close follow
    up at least for next year.” She also wrote, “Patient is at risk of blindness
    (permanent) if congenital glaucoma is not managed appropriately with
    medications and/or surgery.”          Even with multiple surgeries, the
    ophthalmologist concluded J.H. would likely only have “tunnel vision” at
    best.
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    Because of the risks associated with inappropriate management of
    J.H.’s recovery, the ophthalmologist also wrote a letter regarding J.H.’s
    care that explained,
    [J.H.] is currently recovering from a surgery and has another
    planned in the next few days. It is imperative that [J.H.]
    remain under direct supervision of his foster care-takers (e.g.,
    [his uncle and aunt]) lasting no fewer than 2 weeks. This is
    to ensure proper medication compliance, appropriate eye
    hygiene, and healing in the post- and pre-operative period.
    Pursuant to these recommendations, the parents could not have visits
    with J.H. again until October.
    J.H. underwent multiple surgeries between August and September,
    and his treatment also required his caretakers to place various types of
    eye drops in his eyes multiple times a day. His uncle and aunt traveled
    with J.H. up to three times per week from the south central Iowa area to
    Iowa City for J.H.’s medical appointments. During this period, the parents
    never reached out to anyone regarding J.H.’s health nor attempted to
    attend any of his surgeries or medical appointments despite having
    services available to assist them in these tasks.
    The parents were able to resume supervised visits twice a week for
    three-hour periods in October. During these visits, Dad often left Mom to
    care for J.H. and did not fully engage with J.H. Mom would place what
    she called “blessing oil”—olive oil—on J.H.’s head and face without
    concern about it getting in his eyes.     On October 4, the State filed a
    termination petition, seeking to terminate the parents’ rights under Iowa
    Code section 232.116(1)(g) (2019). DHS subsequently filed a termination
    report on October 10, recommending the juvenile court terminate the
    parents’ rights to J.H.   The report summarized the parents’ issues by
    documenting the parents’ history with DHS involvement and prior
    terminations, as well as their failure to participate in J.H.’s medical care.
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    The case was continued to December 23 at the parents’ request
    because they had not been served notice of the termination hearing as of
    a few days before the originally scheduled hearing. On December 17, the
    State filed an amended petition to terminate parental rights, adding Iowa
    Code section 232.116(1)(h) as a ground for termination. DHS continued
    to provide services to the parents, including supervised visitation with J.H.
    On February 10, 2020, DHS filed an addendum to its October termination
    report to update the juvenile court on the parents’ progress. Though the
    report noted the parents remained engaged in services and had recently
    been approved to have visits in their home with J.H., it still recommended
    terminating the parents’ rights.
    II. The Termination Hearing and Appeal.
    The parents’ termination hearing occurred on February 19,
    February 26, and March 30, 2020. Dad admitted he had never been to
    J.H.’s medical appointments and could not remember who J.H.’s doctors
    were. When asked if he knew about anything done to J.H.’s eyes, Dad
    answered, “Well, he had patches or something.” In response to a question
    about what J.H.’s surgeries did, Dad responded, “They—I don’t know. No,
    I don’t.” He could not answer how many surgeries J.H. had undergone,
    and he said he did not know how he would take care of J.H.’s eyes. Dad
    could not name the family’s long-time DHS worker or the FSRP worker
    who brought J.H. to the parents’ supervised visits, and he gave varying
    answers about how many children he had.
    Mom also could not definitively answer how many children she and
    Dad had together, “guessing” they had six children. Like Dad, Mom could
    not answer questions about J.H.’s medical issues and was defensive about
    putting olive oil on J.H.’s head and face, saying it was not harmful if J.H.
    got oil in his eyes even though she never consulted a doctor about this.
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    Dad did not see an issue with putting olive oil on J.H.’s head or face despite
    neither parent consulting with J.H.’s ophthalmologist about the safety of
    doing so. When asked if he believed Mom was “functional enough to care
    for a child,” Dad declared, “Absolutely.” Despite the parents’ claims that
    they could not attend J.H.’s medical appointments due to transportation
    issues, the record shows that was not true because the parents had access
    to a medical transport, gas cards, and bus passes. Additionally, a friend
    even testified that she would have taken them to appointments if the
    parents had simply asked.
    The guardian ad litem in this case has been the guardian ad litem
    for the parents’ children since 2009, and Dad displayed obvious anger
    toward her throughout the hearing. The juvenile court had to “repeatedly
    admonish [Dad] to stop” acting “in an inappropriate and intimidating
    manner towards the Guardian ad litem.” The juvenile court reported Dad
    “glared, tensed up, and leaned towards [the guardian ad litem] for
    prolonged periods of time.” Additionally, the juvenile court found Mom’s
    sister in contempt after she was “repeatedly admonished” for her behavior
    during the proceedings. The juvenile court also had to pause the hearing
    to warn another of Mom’s sisters about her disruptive behavior.
    Dad’s therapist testified that Dad had made progress in gaining
    insight into his actions involving domestic violence and substance abuse.
    However, it became clear during questioning that this therapist lacked the
    full picture of Dad’s situation because the therapist relied only on Dad’s
    statements to guide the therapy sessions. Because he only relied on the
    information Dad told him, the therapist was misguided about various
    aspects of Dad’s life. None of the information the therapist received from
    Dad was corroborated by any professional associated with this case.
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    The therapist testified that he believed Dad was “almost up to 2,000
    days of sobriety from a substance,” or approximately five-and-a-half years.
    At best, Dad had really only been sober for less than two years because he
    tested positive for cocaine twice in 2018 while he was under DHS
    supervision in a prior termination case. The therapist admitted he did not
    know this information and explained that he did not do drug screens with
    Dad or specifically provide Dad with substance abuse treatment. Likewise,
    the therapist was under the false impression that Dad could not attend
    J.H.’s medical appointments due to transportation and communication
    issues.
    The therapist was unaware that Dad refused to attend visitations for
    about six weeks pursuant to the advice of a church friend. Nor was he
    aware of J.H.’s specific medical issues. Mom was also dishonest with her
    therapist. Once the dishonesty was revealed at the termination hearing,
    the therapist agreed that Mom’s dishonesty could call into question much
    of her testimony regarding her previous positive conclusions about Mom’s
    progress.
    On May 30, the juvenile court issued its ruling to terminate both
    parents’ rights to J.H. under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g). In its ruling,
    the juvenile court determined,
    Despite services provided to [Mom] and [Dad] over the last 19
    years, they have demonstrated a lack of ability to respond to
    such services. The parents have mental limitations that no
    amount of time can resolve to the point where they can provide
    minimally adequate care to [J.H.].
    (Emphasis omitted.)
    It also detailed some of the health-related limitations it found
    precluded the parents “from safely caring for themselves or safely caring
    for [J.H.].” Specifically, it expressed,
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    The parents need help with daily living. [Mom] gets daily
    assistance from Eyerly Ball and Golden Circle. This help
    includes “daily hygiene routines.” [Dad] has worked with IHH
    “services to help him manage his day-to-day affairs.” Even
    with this high level of supervision/assistance, the parents
    have failed to care for their most basic medical needs. [Dad]
    has hypertension, yet repeatedly does not take his high blood
    pressure medication. The medical records indicate, he went
    for “days” without taking it. When [Dad] saw the medical
    provider, his blood pressure was elevated and concerning.
    Also, after [Dad] had CT scan with a lung nodule “concerning
    for malignancy,” the medical provider recommended he obtain
    a follow up CT scan in six months. He did not. [Dad] waited
    two years, until his symptoms worsened, before returning for
    the follow up CT scan. After the [Mom] had cataracts removed,
    the ophthalmologist advised there was some eye tissue—
    which needed to be removed. [Mom] did not follow up. She
    misunderstood the medical provider and was afraid they were
    going to remove her eyeballs.
    The juvenile court did not rule on the State’s request to terminate parental
    rights under section 232.116(1)(h) as an additional ground for termination,
    and neither the State nor the guardian ad litem filed a motion to enlarge
    the juvenile court’s order to seek a ruling on that additional ground. See
    Iowa R. Civ. P. 1.904(2) (“On motion joined with or filed within the time
    allowed for a motion for new trial, the findings and conclusions may be
    reconsidered, enlarged, or amended and the judgment or decree modified
    accordingly or a different judgment or decree substituted.”).
    Both parents appealed the juvenile court’s termination ruling, but
    we dismissed Mom’s appeal because it was untimely. In its response to
    Dad’s petition on appeal, the State only asked the court to affirm
    termination under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g) and did not assert
    section 232.116(1)(h) as an alternative ground for affirmance.          We
    transferred the case to the court of appeals, which reversed the juvenile
    court’s termination of Dad’s parental rights.       The court of appeals
    determined the State failed to meet its burden for termination under Iowa
    Code section 232.116(1)(g), reasoning, “the father did respond to services.
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    He overcame his substance-abuse and domestic-violence issues and there
    were no concerns for his ability to parent the child during supervised
    visitations.” One judge dissented, concluding “the State showed by clear
    and convincing evidence that this father was unable to provide a safe long-
    term environment for this child,” especially due to his “lack of involvement
    in the basic medical care of this young child.” We granted the State’s
    application for further review.
    III. Standard of Review.
    We review termination of parental rights proceedings de novo. In re
    A.S., 
    906 N.W.2d 467
    , 472 (Iowa 2018). While we are not bound by the
    juvenile court’s factual findings, we accord them weight, especially in
    assessing witness credibility.
    Id. “[O]ur fundamental concern”
    on review
    “is the child’s best interests.” In re J.C., 
    857 N.W.2d 495
    , 500 (Iowa 2014).
    IV. Analysis.
    Dad’s petition on appeal raises multiple challenges to his
    termination. First, he claims the district court erred in terminating his
    parental rights to J.H. under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g). Second, he
    maintains termination of his parental rights is not in J.H.’s best interests
    under Iowa Code section 232.116(2) even if the State demonstrated the
    grounds for termination were met under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g).
    Third, Dad argues the district court “should have found reason not to
    terminate under the exceptions found in Iowa Code section 232.116(3)(b)
    and (c).”
    A. Termination under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g).              The
    juvenile court concluded there were grounds to terminate Dad’s parental
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    rights under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g). Under that section, the
    State must prove all of the following:
    (1) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of
    assistance pursuant to section 232.96.
    (2) The court has terminated parental rights pursuant
    to section 232.117 with respect to another child who is a
    member of the same family or a court of competent
    jurisdiction in another state has entered an order
    involuntarily terminating parental rights with respect to
    another child who is a member of the same family.
    (3) There is clear and convincing evidence that the
    parent continues to lack the ability or willingness to respond
    to services which would correct the situation.
    (4) There is clear and convincing evidence that an
    additional period of rehabilitation would not correct the
    situation.
    Iowa Code § 232.116(1)(g).
    Dad only challenges the third and fourth elements. He argues he
    has made progress in therapy to alleviate the substance abuse and
    domestic violence concerns present in his past termination concerns and
    “there was no evidence” that he “lacked the ability to provide for the care
    of” J.H. He also claims the reason he “was not as participatory as he
    should have been with [J.H.’s] medical needs” was because DHS did not
    work with him to figure out J.H.’s needs.3 We disagree.
    Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g) is unique because it is the only
    ground for termination under chapter 232.116 that requires the juvenile
    court to find parents have already had their rights terminated to another
    child who is a member of the same family. See Iowa Code § 232.116(1). It
    3To   the extent Dad may be claiming DHS failed to provide him with reasonable
    efforts to reunify with J.H., Dad waived this claim on appeal because he never objected
    to the sufficiency of the services at the juvenile court level. See In re L.M., 
    904 N.W.2d 835
    , 840 (Iowa 2017) (explaining a parent’s failure to object to the sufficiency of services
    “early in the process so appropriate changes can be made” waives the issue and generally
    cannot raise it later (quoting In re C.B., 
    611 N.W.2d 489
    , 494 (Iowa 2000) (en banc))).
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    is also the only ground that examines whether a “parent continues to lack
    the ability or willingness to respond to services,” only applying to those
    parents who continue to repeat their parenting wrongs in spite of the
    services they’ve received in both the past and present termination cases.
    Id. § 232.116(1)(g)(3). Thus,
    unlike other grounds for termination, which
    focus more on the parents’ behavior in the case at issue, the juvenile court
    must specifically examine the parents’ past termination cases in deciding
    whether termination is appropriate under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g).
    The State still retains the burden of proof under section 232.116(1)(g), but
    the parents’ history of past terminations—especially when those
    terminations were under similar circumstances—is highly relevant in
    proving the parents lack the ability or willingness to respond to services.4
    Here, Dad has had his rights terminated to all eight other children he had
    with Mom under this same code section at issue here.                         Therefore, we
    cannot ignore Dad’s history of inadequate parenting.
    It is commendable that Dad took steps to participate in services
    more in this case than he did in previous cases.                       Yet, we find little
    4In   some states, there is a statutory presumption of unfitness for parents who
    have been found unfit in a past termination proceeding. See, e.g., Kan. Stat. Ann. § 38-
    2771(a)(1) (West, Westlaw current through 2020 Reg. & Spec. Sess.) (noting there is a
    presumption that “a parent is unfit by reason of conduct or condition which renders the
    parent unable to fully care for a child, if the state establishes, by clear and convincing
    evidence, that: (1) A parent has previously been found to be an unfit parent in proceedings
    under K.S.A. 38-2266 et seq., and amendments thereto, or comparable proceedings
    under the laws of another jurisdiction”); Minn. Stat. Ann. § 260C.301(b)(4) (West, Westlaw
    current through 2020 Reg. & 1st-6th Spec. Sess.) (“It is presumed that a parent is
    palpably unfit to be a party to the parent and child relationship upon a showing that the
    parent’s parental rights to one or more other children were involuntarily terminated or
    that the parent’s custodial rights to another child have been involuntarily transferred to
    a relative under Minnesota Statutes 2010, section 260C.201, subdivision 11, paragraph
    (e), clause (1), section 260C.515, subdivision 4, or a similar law of another jurisdiction[.]”);
    see also In re R.D.L., 
    853 N.W.2d 127
    , 136–38 (Minn. 2014) (holding Minnesota’s statutory
    presumption that parents who have previously had their parental rights involuntarily
    terminated to other children are palpably unfit to parent other children does not violate
    the United States and Minnesota Constitutions because it is narrowly tailored to serve
    the compelling government interest of protecting the general welfare of children).
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    credibility in the therapist’s testimony that he had had no parenting
    concerns about Dad.        Despite the therapist’s testimony that Dad had
    progressed “tremendously” in addressing his anger issues, it is troubling
    that Dad continued to openly display anger towards the guardian ad litem
    throughout the termination hearing to the point where the juvenile court
    “had to repeatedly admonish [Dad] to stop” acting “in an inappropriate and
    intimidating manner towards the [g]uardian ad litem.” This guardian ad
    litem has worked with the parents since 2009 with the common goal of
    furthering their children’s best interests, yet Dad remained unable to treat
    her appropriately.
    Dad was not forthcoming with the therapist about his substance
    abuse history, his past DHS involvement, or J.H.’s medical needs. The
    therapist did not know how many children Dad ever had in his care, that
    Dad was manipulated out of money and into refusing visits with J.H. by a
    church friend, J.H.’s diagnosis, or anything about Mom’s functioning level.
    We also find it concerning that, even after the therapist discovered Dad’s
    history as it was revealed during the termination hearing, the therapist did
    not feel he needed to know this information to make conclusions about
    Dad’s progress and parenting abilities. Because the therapist only based
    his conclusions on what Dad told him, Dad was able to successfully
    portray a false reality premised on half-truths and the utter absence of
    critical information—information that any therapist would reasonably
    need to possess before making a recommendation about Dad’s ability to
    safely care for a child.
    As DHS noted in the parents’ July 2019 report,
    both parents need to understand that simply doing a list does
    not suffice, but that they will need to truly make changes and
    gain understanding of their long histories as well as learn to
    care for themselves and a child’s numerous needs.
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    Although Dad crossed participating in therapy off of his list of services, we
    cannot say he made changes from it based on the pattern of dishonesty he
    demonstrated with his therapist.
    Dad’s domestic violence was not the prevailing concern in this case,
    but we still have to consider his history of domestic abuse, which includes
    multiple felony convictions for domestic abuse assault. Parents like Dad
    must work to change the documented reputation they have established
    through their actions in past termination cases.            Cf. Iowa Code
    § 598.41(1)(b) (“if the court finds that a history of domestic abuse exists”
    in child custody cases, “a rebuttable presumption against the awarding of
    joint custody exists”). Dad’s threatening behavior toward the guardian ad
    litem during the termination hearing and his failure to be forthcoming
    about his reasons for DHS involvement, including his domestic violence,
    call into question the therapist’s conclusion that dad has progressed
    “tremendously” in addressing his anger issues.
    Moreover, Dad’s history of substance abuse and domestic violence
    were not the only barriers keeping him from reunifying with J.H. Dad’s
    failure to learn how to care for J.H.’s medical needs and his mental
    limitations also presented significant challenges to reunifying Dad with
    J.H.   These challenges were not new, as they also contributed to the
    termination of Dad’s parental rights to three other children in 2018 under
    section 232.116(1)(g). There, the juvenile court specifically noted that Dad
    loved his children and could attend to their basic needs during visits but
    was not “active in learning about the children’s needs, especially those of
    the twins,” who had special medical needs.        Similar to Dad’s lack of
    involvement with J.H.’s medical treatment in this case, Dad did not attend
    the twins’ medical appointments and was “unaware of the possible long
    term issues that the twins will have.” He also had “a lack of understanding
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    as to why [the twins] will need to have long-term attention by medical
    professionals as to their development.”
    Dad similarly continues to lack the ability or willingness to respond
    to services to safely care for J.H. in this situation. Dad made no more
    efforts to understand J.H.’s medical needs in this case than he did to
    understand the twins’ medical needs in 2018. At the termination hearing,
    he could not remember the names of J.H.’s doctors and testified that he
    had not been to any of J.H.’s doctors’ appointments. When asked if he
    knew about anything done to J.H.’s eyes, Dad answered, “Well, he had
    patches or something.” When asked about J.H.’s multiple surgeries and
    what they did for J.H., Dad responded, “I don’t know.” It was clear from
    Dad’s testimony that he lacked even a general understanding of J.H.’s
    serious medical condition or how to care for it.
    Dad claims he could not explain J.H.’s medical needs or attend
    J.H.’s appointments because DHS did not provide him with the assistance
    he needed, but the record shows otherwise.         DHS had a family team
    meeting to explain J.H.’s medical condition to the parents shortly after his
    diagnosis, and the professionals supervising the parents’ visits with J.H.
    often discussed J.H.’s condition with the parents. Additionally, Dad had
    access to a medical transport, gas cards, and bus passes to attend J.H.’s
    appointments and surgeries. A family friend also testified that she would
    have taken him if he asked. DHS provided Dad with the services he needed
    to show an interest in and attempt to gain an understanding of J.H.’s
    medical needs, but he did not take advantage of them. Dad was altogether
    neglectful of J.H.’s medical needs, further demonstrating that he was
    unwilling or unable to respond to the services offered.
    At the time of the termination hearing, J.H. was an infant at risk of
    permanent blindness if his caretakers did not provide him with the proper
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    treatment. It speaks to Dad’s inability to meet J.H.’s medical needs that
    J.H.’s ophthalmologist found it “imperative” for J.H. to “remain under
    direct supervision of his foster care-takers” without parental visits for at
    least two weeks after his surgery to “ensure proper medication compliance,
    appropriate eye hygiene, and healing.”     Even after J.H.’s postoperative
    period, his caretakers had to place various eye drops in J.H.’s eyes
    multiple times a day and make frequent trips to Iowa City for medical
    appointments. Meanwhile, Dad could not even demonstrate that he was
    capable of attending to his own health needs, as he either forgot or chose
    not to take his blood pressure medication “for days” at a time despite his
    hypertension and could not manage a simple follow up CT scan on time.
    Dad presented the same inability or unwillingness to understand J.H.’s
    medical needs as he did when his rights were terminated to his twins in
    2018. Consequently, we agree with the juvenile court that “[t]here is clear
    and convincing evidence that [Dad] continues to lack the ability or
    willingness to respond to services which would correct the situation” under
    Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g)(3).
    We also agree with the juvenile court that “[t]here is clear and
    convincing evidence that an additional period of rehabilitation would not
    correct the situation” under section 232.116(1)(g)(4).           When the
    termination hearing commenced, J.H. had been removed from Dad’s care
    for   approximately   ten   months—essentially    his   entire   life.   For
    approximately six weeks following removal, Dad refused to interact with
    DHS or other professionals attempting to reunify him with J.H. at the
    advice of a church friend who manipulated him for money. This prevented
    DHS from scheduling visits between Dad and J.H. for those six weeks
    during a crucial bonding stage in newborn J.H.’s life. When asked at the
    termination hearing why he chose not to visit J.H. at the advice of his
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    church friend, the only insight Dad provided was that he did that “because
    how the DHS was doing us.”
    Dad continued to show no insight into what was required of him as
    a parent beyond simply attending the supervised visits with J.H.            He
    frequently complained about and tried to reject the FSRP provider’s
    recommendations for J.H.’s care, reporting that he knew what he was
    doing. When the service provider told the parents that J.H.’s caretaker
    requested they use a certain type of bottle to feed J.H. to prevent J.H. from
    getting gas, Dad claimed it did not make sense and that J.H.’s caretaker
    was just on a “power trip.” He also had issues providing J.H. with the
    wrong formula. He testified that he had not provided J.H.’s caretaker with
    any money to assist in J.H.’s care because his brother “gets social security
    and all that stuff,” although he was informed that his brother was not
    receiving financial assistance to care for J.H. All of this was in addition to
    the previously discussed lack of involvement in J.H.’s medical care.
    Although Dad generally met J.H.’s basic needs during his fully
    supervised visits, there is a substantial difference between meeting a
    child’s needs under the supervision and guidance of other people and
    being able to independently care for a child, especially a child with J.H.’s
    unique medical needs. Cf. In re M.B., 
    553 N.W.2d 343
    , 345 (Iowa Ct. App.
    1996) (“Visitation, however, cannot be considered in a vacuum. It is only
    one element in what is often a comprehensive interdependent approach to
    reunification.   If services directed at removing the risk or danger
    responsible for a limited visitation scheme have failed its objective,
    increased visitation would most likely not be in the child’s best interests.”).
    J.H. is a young child with serious medical needs who requires “constant,
    responsible, and reliable” parenting. In re A.B., 
    815 N.W.2d 764
    , 777 (Iowa
    2012) (quoting In re L.L., 
    459 N.W.2d 489
    , 495 (Iowa 1990)). Throughout
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    this case, Dad only showed an interest in J.H. during supervised visits and
    was otherwise content to sit back and let others care for J.H., and there is
    “clear and convincing evidence that an additional period of rehabilitation
    would not correct the situation” under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g)(4).
    In reaching this conclusion, we give weight to the juvenile court’s finding
    that it “d[id] not believe the parents will ever be able to provide minimally
    adequate care for [J.H.].” (Emphasis added); see In re 
    A.S., 906 N.W.2d at 472
    (noting we accord the juvenile court’s factual findings weight).
    “Children simply cannot wait for responsible parenting.”
    Id. at
    474
    
    (quoting In re C.K., 
    558 N.W.2d 170
    , 175 (Iowa 1997)). “While we recognize
    the law requires a ‘full measure of patience with troubled parents who
    attempt to remedy a lack of parenting skills,’ Iowa has built this patience
    into the statutory scheme of Iowa Code chapter 232.”         In re Z.P., 
    948 N.W.2d 518
    , 523 (Iowa 2020) (per curiam) (quoting In re C.B., 
    611 N.W.2d 489
    , 494 (Iowa 2000) (en banc)). The legislature carefully constructed this
    time frame to balance the parent’s efforts toward reunification and the
    child’s best interests.
    Id. at
    524. 
    For children J.H.’s age, that time frame
    is six months, and then “termination proceedings must be viewed with a
    sense of urgency.”
    Id. at
    523–24 
    (quoting In re 
    C.B., 611 N.W.2d at 495
    ).
    At the commencement of the termination hearing, J.H. had been
    removed from Dad’s care for approximately ten months, beginning the day
    after J.H. was born. Dad has received services intermittently through DHS
    for about a decade and had his rights terminated to ten other children,
    eight of them under the same code section the juvenile court relied on to
    terminate his rights to J.H. Nevertheless, Dad still has many of the same
    parenting deficiencies that he displayed over the last decade in his prior
    termination cases.
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    As the juvenile court aptly explained in Dad’s 2018 termination case
    involving Children 6 through 8,
    [Dad] has a 38 year history of addiction to crack cocaine. He
    has been determined to be fully disabled by the Social
    Administration since 1999 due to a brain injury received in a
    motorcycle accident, a beating, or both. He, too, has a long
    history of assaultive behavior and domestic violence. These
    themes presented themselves again [in this case]. The only
    difference with these children is that [Mom] and [Dad] tried to
    put themselves in a position to demonstrate that they could,
    together, be parents. It has been a sincere effort, and it has
    been the court’s pleasure to get to know these parents closer
    to the way they would want to be known. Unfortunately, their
    efforts are simply not enough to change the themes that
    resulted in the prior terminations.
    That same summary and conclusion is just as applicable to this case as it
    was in the 2018 termination case.
    Dad participated in services throughout the course of J.H.’s
    removal, but J.H. still could not be safely placed in his care due to a
    combination of Dad’s failure to grasp J.H.’s medical needs, lack of interest
    in parenting J.H. outside of visits, and an inability to show sustained,
    demonstrated change.      “Rather than speculate about what the future
    holds for Dad . . . , it is more accurate to look in the rear-view mirror and
    make a decision for [J.H.] based on what has already happened . . . .” In
    re B.H.A., 
    938 N.W.2d 227
    , 236 (Iowa 2020). After years of services to
    remedy his parenting skills, there is still no indication that any period of
    additional time at this point would correct the situation under Iowa Code
    section 232.116(1)(g)(4). Accordingly, like the juvenile court, we find clear
    and convincing evidence to support termination of Dad’s parental rights
    under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(g).
    B. Best Interests of the Child. We next turn to the best-interests
    framework in Iowa Code section 232.116(2), as Dad argues termination of
    his parental rights was not in J.H.’s best interests regardless of whether
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    the State proved the grounds for termination under section 232.116(1)(g).
    In considering whether termination is in the child’s best interests under
    232.116(2), we “give primary consideration to the child’s safety, to the best
    placement for furthering the long-term nurturing and growth of the child,
    and to the physical, mental, and emotional condition and needs of the
    child.” Iowa Code § 232.116(2). This consideration may include “[w]hether
    the parent’s ability to provide the needs of the child is affected by the
    parent’s mental capacity or mental condition” and the child’s integration
    into a preadoptive home.
    Id. at
    § 232.116(2)(a)–(b). We also
    look to the child’s long-range as well as immediate interests.
    This requires considering what the future holds for the child
    if returned to the parents. When making this decision, we
    look to the parents’ past performance because it may indicate
    the quality of care the parent is capable of providing in the
    future.
    In re J.E., 
    723 N.W.2d 793
    , 798 (Iowa 2006) (quoting In re 
    C.K., 558 N.W.2d at 172
    ).
    Dad contends termination is not in J.H.’s best interests because
    termination will prevent J.H. from “establish[ing] important and vital
    connections with his parents and other biological relatives on the Mother’s
    side.”     Dad also maintains termination is not in J.H.’s best interests
    because it will deprive J.H. of the “unique important cultural opportunities
    by being placed outside of an African American home or a culturally aware
    home,” but this issue was never raised below. Neither the termination
    order nor Dad’s petition on appeal mention the parents’ race, but police
    reports and medical notes about the parents in the record show Dad is
    Caucasian and Mom is African-American.
    The juvenile court’s termination of Mom’s parental rights to J.H. is
    final.     “[I]n termination of parental rights proceedings each parent’s
    parental rights are separate adjudications, both factually and legally.” In
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    re D.G., 
    704 N.W.2d 454
    , 459 (Iowa Ct. App. 2005). Dad does not have
    standing to contest termination of Mom’s parental rights. See In re K.R.,
    
    737 N.W.2d 321
    , 323 (Iowa Ct. App. 2007). Even if the argument about
    raising J.H. in a culturally aware home had been preserved and Dad had
    standing, race is but one factor for the district court to consider in
    determining a child’s best interests and it “pale[s] into insignificance when
    we compare the health needs of th[e] child.” In re 
    A.B., 815 N.W.2d at 777
    n.7 (alterations in original) (quoting In re F.W., 
    870 A.2d 82
    , 86 (D.C. 2005)
    (per curiam)).
    The problem of standing aside, it is especially troubling that much
    of Dad’s best-interests argument focuses on maintaining a relationship
    between J.H. and Mom and Mom’s relatives. This is clearly not in J.H.’s
    best interests. Mom has unresolved mental health issues that result in
    aggression and assaultive behavior. Her sister displayed similar problems
    during J.H.’s termination hearing, as she was sentenced to serve seven
    days in jail for contempt for her disruptive and threatening behavior
    during the hearing. The juvenile court also had to pause the termination
    hearing to warn another of Mom’s sisters about her troubling behavior.
    Dad even told his therapist that Mom has issues with her family because
    they “break[] her down” with the way they talk to her.
    As we have already noted, Mom has very low cognitive functioning.
    In evaluating Mom’s competency, a psychiatrist concluded she would
    likely need assistance with “tasks more complicated than tying her shoes.”
    Mom cannot maintain her own daily living functions independently, let
    alone independently parent a child with serious medical needs.          After
    having her rights terminated to ten other children over the course of twenty
    years and intensive services, Mom was in no better position in this case to
    understand or overcome her parenting deficiencies in order to safely
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    parent J.H.     Nonetheless, Dad testified that he thought Mom was
    “[a]bsolutely” capable of caring for a child.
    Dad continues to reside with Mom, and his commitment to keeping
    J.H. around Mom and her family is just another example of Dad’s inability
    to make appropriate parenting decisions. Poor decision-making related to
    each parent’s commitment to one another has been a problem since the
    termination of the parents’ first child together in 2009, when the district
    court noted “the fact that [Mom] and [Dad] are now living together” as an
    example of Mom’s “inability to make appropriate decisions.” If we were to
    return this child to Dad, we would essentially be nullifying the juvenile
    court’s termination of Mom’s parental rights because Dad intends to raise
    J.H. with Mom.
    Overall, termination is in J.H.’s best interests based on J.H.’s
    immediate and long-range interests. J.H. is too young to care for himself,
    and he is at risk of permanent blindness if his caretaker does not provide
    him with the appropriate treatment for his congenital glaucoma.           In
    determining J.H.’s best interests, “we look to [Dad’s] past performance
    because it may indicate the quality of care [he] is capable of providing in
    the future.” In re 
    J.E., 723 N.W.2d at 798
    (quoting In re 
    C.K., 558 N.W.2d at 172
    ). In this case, Dad’s past performance—in both the 2018 case
    involving his twins with special medical needs and in this case—shows
    Dad cannot grasp how to parent a child with special medical needs.
    It is reasonable to assume Dad will struggle with a medically fragile
    infant in this case. It is also reasonable to assume that Dad would not
    ask for help if he was having problems meeting J.H.’s needs because the
    parents previously tried to evade DHS by declining to report domestic
    violence, fleeing to Minnesota to give birth there, hiding with a child after
    a removal order was issued for the child, having twins born prematurely
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    in their home, and avoiding prenatal care. Frankly, had the juvenile court
    ruled on the State’s request to terminate Dad’s parental rights under Iowa
    Code section 232.116(1)(h), which asks whether “[t]here is clear and
    convincing evidence that the child cannot be returned to the custody of
    the child’s parents” at the time of the termination hearing, we have no
    doubt that the answer would have been “yes.”
    Even with daily assistance, Dad struggles to meet his own basic
    medical needs.      Although a parent’s mental limitations alone are
    insufficient grounds for termination, they “can be a relevant consideration
    when it affects the child’s well-being.” In re 
    A.S., 906 N.W.2d at 473
    . Dad
    has received a plethora of services in an attempt to remedy inadequate
    parenting skills over the course of many years and many termination
    cases, but he still lacks the same “functional ability, insight, or sustained,
    demonstrated change necessary for the court to place [J.H.] in [his] care”
    that the juvenile court noted when it terminated Dad’s rights to three other
    children in 2018. “[C]hildren should not be placed at risk so their parents
    can experiment with their parenting skills.” In re 
    M.B., 553 N.W.2d at 346
    .
    Dad already wasted valuable opportunities throughout J.H.’s life to
    connect with him. As we have discussed, Dad did not have any visitation
    with J.H. for approximately the first six weeks of J.H.’s life because Dad
    refused to interact with the professionals who could facilitate those visits.
    Dad also chose not to attend J.H.’s medical appointments and surgeries,
    where he would have had other opportunities to interact and bond with
    J.H. Because he skipped these events, Dad missed out on months’ worth
    of contact with J.H. Dad never progressed beyond fully supervised visits
    with J.H., J.H. has never been in Dad’s care, and the record shows no
    significant bond between J.H. and Dad.         Dad chose to minimize his
    connection to J.H., and the time for him to remedy his lack of parenting
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    skills has expired. See In re 
    Z.P., 948 N.W.2d at 523
    –24 (explaining the
    time frame for a parent to remedy a lack of parenting skills before
    termination is “viewed with a sense of urgency” (quoting In re 
    C.B., 611 N.W.2d at 495
    )).
    “[W]e cannot deprive [J.H.] of permanency after the State has proved
    a ground for termination under section 232.116(1) by hoping someday
    [Dad] will learn to be a parent and be able to provide a stable home for
    the child.” In re P.L., 
    778 N.W.2d 33
    , 41 (Iowa 2010). J.H. has lived with
    his paternal uncle and aunt virtually his entire life, and they have ensured
    that all of J.H.’s medical needs are met.5 They also adopted J.H.’s twin
    sisters, and the concurrent plan in case of termination has long been for
    them to adopt J.H. See Iowa Code § 232.116(2)(b) (noting the existence of
    a preadoptive home and the child’s integration into that home as
    considerations in determining the child’s best interests); In re 
    J.E., 723 N.W.2d at 800
    (stating there is a “preference” in juvenile law “to keep
    siblings together”). J.H. has integrated into their home, and termination
    of Dad’s parental rights would allow J.H. to be adopted into what he has
    always known as his home with two of his siblings. Consequently, we
    conclude that termination of Dad’s parental rights is in J.H.’s best
    interests to enable J.H.’s permanent placement in an adoptive home.
    C.   Exceptions Precluding Termination. Within his claim that
    termination is not in J.H.’s best interests, Dad passively states the district
    court “should have found reason not to terminate under the exceptions
    found in Iowa Code section 232.116(3)(b) and (c).” Dad’s argument on this
    5Although we stressed our concerns about Dad’s desire to keep J.H. around Mom
    and her family, we do not have the same concerns about J.H.’s placement with Dad’s
    brother. Dad’s brother and the brother’s wife have proven more than capable of caring
    for J.H. and his twin siblings, and the DHS records indicate Dad harbors animosity
    towards his brother and was not supposed to know where his brother lives.
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    issue is unclear because he blended it into his best-interests argument
    and mentioned no facts or cases explaining why these exceptions apply
    even though he has the burden to prove them. See In re 
    A.S., 906 N.W.2d at 476
    . We acknowledge the expedited time deadlines and abbreviated
    procedures governing termination appeals may pose challenges for the
    attorneys, and we strive to accommodate those challenges through our
    appellate rules governing chapter 232 cases. However, it makes it much
    more difficult for us to address a parent’s argument on appeal if the
    petition does not separately identify and argue each issue presented.
    In this case, the juvenile court did address the possible existence of
    section 232.116(3) exceptions, so we will assume that Dad’s argument is
    properly before us.   Under section 232.116(3), subsections (b) and (c)
    provide:
    The court need not terminate the relationship between
    the parent and child if the court finds any of the following:
    ....
    b. The child is over ten years of age and objects to the
    termination.
    c. There is clear and convincing evidence that the
    termination would be detrimental to the child at the time due
    to the closeness of the parent-child relationship.
    Iowa Code § 232.116(3).
    Iowa Code section 232.116(3)(b) is inapplicable because J.H. was
    just under a year old at the time of the termination hearing.       Section
    232.116(3)(c) also does not preclude termination in this case because there
    was no evidence of a close bond between Dad and J.H. J.H. was removed
    from Dad the day after his birth and was never returned to his care. The
    record shows Dad often left Mom to care for J.H. during visits and did not
    fully engage with J.H. To the extent that a bond did exist, there is no
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    evidence that terminating it would harm J.H. See In re A.M., 
    843 N.W.2d 100
    , 113 (Iowa 2014) (holding section 232.116(3)(c) did not apply because
    there was no evidence that termination would harm the child, who “was
    just over a year old at the time of trial” and had a close bond with her
    relative legal custodian). We affirm the district court’s order terminating
    Dad’s parental rights.
    V. Conclusion.
    For these reasons, we vacate the decision of the court of appeals and
    affirm the juvenile court’s order terminating Dad’s parental rights.
    DECISION OF COURT OF APPEALS VACATED; JUVENILE
    COURT JUDGMENT AFFIRMED.