In re the Marriage of Bailey ( 2018 )


Menu:
  •                        THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
    No. 17-2055
    Filed September 12, 2018
    IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF LEE T. BAILEY
    AND AMIE JO BAILEY
    Upon the Petition of
    LEE T. BAILEY,
    Petitioner-Appellee,
    And Concerning
    AMIE JO BAILEY, n/k/a AMIE JO RUSSELL
    Respondent-Appellant.
    ________________________________________________________________
    Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Audubon County, Susan L.
    Christiansen, Judge.
    Amie Jo Russell (formerly Bailey) appeals from the district court’s
    modification of the decree dissolving her marriage to Lee Bailey. AFFIRMED AS
    MODIFIED AND REMANDED.
    Christine Sand of Wild, Baxter & Sand, PC, Guthrie Center, for appellant.
    Dennis R. Mathahs of Mathahs Law Office, Marengo, for appellee.
    Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Doyle and Mullins, JJ.
    2
    DOYLE, Judge.
    Amie Jo Russell (formerly Bailey) appeals from the district court’s orders
    modifying the decree dissolving her marriage to Lee Bailey, arguing the district
    court erred in several respects. First, she contends the court improperly modified
    the physical-care placement of the parties’ minor children from her to Lee,
    asserting Lee failed to establish that there was a substantial change in
    circumstances and that he was the superior caregiver to warrant modification.
    Second, she maintains the court improperly imputed only minimum-wage income
    to Lee for purposes of calculating her child-support obligation, given the court’s
    finding that Lee had voluntarily reduced his income. Third, Amie asserts the court
    improperly ordered that her child support obligation be effective retroactively.
    Fourth and finally, Amie argues the court improperly failed to hold Lee in contempt
    for his failure to pay her child support. Upon our review, we affirm as modified and
    remand.
    I. Background Facts and Proceedings.
    Amie and Lee married in 2001 and divorced in 2008. They have three
    children, two of which are minors, though one will turn eighteen this year. The
    decree placed the children in both parents’ joint legal custody, with Amie having
    “permanent primary physical care” of the children and with Lee having “reasonable
    and liberal” visitation. Lee’s 2008 affidavit of financial status reported he was self-
    employed grossing $800 per week (no deductions are shown),1 and he was
    ordered to pay monthly child support of $690.
    1
    Thus, Lee’s income was $41,600 annually ($800 x 52). The decree indicates Lee’s net
    monthly income was $3466.67 ($41,600 per year).
    3
    Less than a year after the parties divorced, Amie moved from Iowa with their
    children.    Lee subsequently filed a petition for modification of the decree,
    requesting he be granted physical care of the children. He also sought that Amie
    be cited for contempt for not complying with the visitation provisions of the parties’
    decree. The court in December 2009 found Amie in contempt but permitted Amie
    to purge the contempt by complying with the court’s order granting Lee certain
    scheduled visits with the children.       Amie complied and the contempt was
    dismissed.
    A trial on Lee’s 2009 modification petition was held in 2010. Thereafter, the
    court entered its decree of modification, making modifications to the parties’ decree
    but leaving the children in Amie’s physical care. Although the court found Amie
    had lived a “nomadic lifestyle” after moving from Iowa, the court found Amie’s
    situation had stabilized after she moved to North Carolina. The court explained:
    Amie claims to see the past error of her ways. Visitation has gone
    much better since the contempt was purged.
    Lee wishes to continue to rehash the denial of his telephone
    visits with the children. His ill will is understandable but offers little
    assistance to the children’s best interest. Lee has likewise moved
    several times since the decree but all within the State of Iowa. . . .
    Both Amie and Lee are strong-willed and can only view a
    situation from their respective vantage or angle. Little or no
    communication exists between the parties. In dealing with the
    children, Lee’s strength appears to be outdoor activities and horses.
    Amie’s strength appears to be in providing the children academic and
    religious programs. Both need to work on their respective skills of
    compromise and communication with each other. The children’s
    wellbeing demands same.
    ....
    This court specifically cautions [Amie] of the following: (a) not
    to return to her nomadic lifestyle; (b) to encourage Lee’s visitation
    with the children; and (c) to schedule medical appointments and
    religious activities not to interfere with Lee’s custodial periods. The
    court specifically cautions Lee not to undercut the children’s needs
    4
    by promoting his own desires. The court cautions both parties to
    improve their communication with each other.
    Thereafter, Lee struggled to pay Amie child support as decreed. It appears
    he started getting behind in his payments by October 2011 and was approximately
    $5000 in arrears by September 2012. In March 2013, Lee was in $11,250 in
    arrears. Amie and Lee entered into a joint stipulation so that Lee could get caught
    up on the amount owed, and the district court approved the stipulation. Lee agreed
    he was “in contempt of court for willfully violating his court ordered support
    obligation to the minor children of this matter.” A year later, Lee had complied with
    the terms of the approved stipulation and purged himself of the contempt finding.
    At the end of 2013, Lee sought to reduce his child support obligation by
    requesting a review and adjustment from the Child Support Recovery Unit (CSRU).
    The financial-statement form Lee signed in January 2014 stated Lee was
    employed full-time as a truck driver. Though the form had a place to fill in “[t]he
    amount of [his] last paycheck,” no information was provided.2 The CSRU’s review
    determined Lee’s gross monthly income at that time was $3490.68, and, after
    adjustments, his net income was $2703.63 per month.3 After determining Amie’s
    income, the CSRU calculated Lee’s support obligation had actually increased
    under the child support guidelines—from $690 to $943 per month—based upon
    his and Amie’s incomes. Lee then asked to withdraw his request to review and
    adjust his child support.     Amie requested the CSRU to continue the review.
    2
    The form also directed that he attach his last three paystubs. However, none appear in
    our electronic record. It is unknown if Lee did not provide them to the CSRU or they were
    simply not included in this binder.
    3
    Based upon the gross monthly figure, Lee’s annual income at that time was $41,888.16
    ($3490.68 x 12), with a net annual income of $32,443.56 ($2703.63 x 12).
    5
    Ultimately, the matter was set for hearing. By the time of the July 2014 hearing,
    the CSRU revised its calculations increasing Lee’s recommended child support to
    $1038 per month. The court ordered Lee’s obligation be increased to $1038 per
    month for the three minor children, then reduced to $897 after the eldest reached
    majority, then $637 after the middle child reached majority.
    Things came to a head around Christmas 2015. Lee was to have Christmas
    visitation with the children, and he bought airline tickets to fly them to Iowa. Amie
    did not send the children, and Lee ultimately filed an application to show cause.
    Not buying Amie’s explanation, the court found Amie in contempt. The court
    allowed Amie to purge the contempt by complying with its order, which included
    Amie paying for the cost of the tickets plus new tickets for the children to visit Lee.
    Amie complied, and the court purged her contempt in June 2016.
    In October 2016, Lee again sought to reduce his child support obligation
    through the CSRU. Lee’s financial-statement form signed in January 2017 stated
    he was self-employed, and on the blank line to indicate “Job Title or Occupation,”
    Lee wrote, “ATV Repair—just setting up no income.” Based upon Lee having no
    income, the CSRU determined under the child-support guidelines, Lee’s support
    obligation was to be $50 per month.
    In March 2017, Amie challenged the CSRU’s contemplated reduction of
    child support, based upon Lee’s voluntary reduction of his income. Lee then filed
    a petition for modification of the decree, requesting the two minor children be
    placed in his care and Amie pay him child support. He subsequently filed an
    affidavit of financial status stating his income was “$0.00 per month.” In July 2017,
    6
    Amie filed an application for show cause stating Lee had failed to meet his child
    support obligations and was $4500 in arrears.
    All of the matters pending between the parties were tried to the court on
    August 16, 2017. With the consent of the parties, the judge visited with the parties’
    two minor children outside of the presence of the parties and their counsel.4 At the
    end of the trial, the court issued an initial ruling from the bench.
    Regarding the child support issue, I find there’s been a voluntary
    reduction in income. Pretty substantial. I think that I’m not going to
    touch the child support as far as the numbers that have been
    submitted. . . . I don’t find contempt. Even by Amie’s own testimony,
    she did not find that it was on purpose, that [Lee was] trying to pay
    what you could while building up a new business. I do find that the
    reduction in income was voluntary, a pretty significant voluntary
    reduction. For purposes of the child support calculation I’m going to
    direct the [CSRU] attorney to recalculate child support assessing the
    minimum wage full-time status for you. I’m also going to not make
    that retroactive. It will be effective upon the filing of the decree. So
    the old amount remains in place until a recalculation.
    With regard to the contempt issue concerning Lee’s child support arrearage, the
    court ruled,
    What I’ll do is continue the rule to show cause to give him an
    opportunity to get current. I don’t find you have willfully disobeyed;
    but you are in violation of court order. You do have an arrearage.
    Based on my finding, you voluntarily reduced your income and not
    real sympathetic to that argument. But I do not find that it was willful;
    but you are not current. But you’ve tried hard to get current as of the
    1st of the year. So, instead of purge, I will continue the rule to show
    cause, and you are to be current by that next hearing date.
    The court stated it was going to order that both children be placed in Lee’s custody,
    finding there had been a substantial change in circumstances not contemplated at
    the time of the 2010 modification decree and that Lee had shown he has a superior
    4
    The parties agreed the judge’s summer law clerk, a second year law student, could be
    present during the judge’s visit with the children.
    7
    parenting ability. The court explained its ruling to the parties’ two children on the
    record:
    Guys, I asked you to come back in because I wanted you to
    hear it from me in the presence of Mom and Dad why I’m doing what
    I’m doing. . . . This was a really super, super hard case for me.
    Sometimes I have parents who’ve done really horrible things. . . .
    That’s not your mom and dad’s case. Nobody presented any
    evidence that Dad is a horrible dad. Nobody presented any evidence
    that Mom is a horrible mom. I think when you are in the care of your
    mom your mom makes good decisions. She provides for you
    medically. She provides for you academically. You’re both little rock
    stars in the school environment. That’s cool. Likewise, when you’re
    with Dad. Are there lots [of people] allowed to live at Dad’s house?
    Yeah. But I made a finding, which means I’m ruling, that’s not a bad
    thing. Nothing was presented to the court those people are horrible
    people or no child should be with them. Is it crazy and busy and
    different than being with just Mom? Sure. But sometimes that’s how
    family is.
    So what are my concerns? My concerns are—whether you
    guys are aware of the actual number or not—Mom and Dad had lots
    of time in court. And when people get divorced, it’s the idea of the
    court that you enter an order once and then we’re done until the kids
    are grown up. When problems arise we have to come back to court.
    Sometimes it’s not a big deal. . . . Other times it’s a big deal, like this
    time. Not too long, about a year ago, I was the judge. You didn’t
    come back or, at least, I didn’t see you a year ago. And it had to do
    with something really serious. Your mom is a good mom to you guys;
    but she did not follow another judge’s order, which is the same as
    being my order. A different judge said, “You need to let Dad be with
    the kids and when he’s supposed to be with the kids, you don’t
    interfere with that.” Evidence was presented to the court that she did
    do that. Even though maybe you guys didn’t sense it—maybe you
    did—your dad had a right on paper to have a relationship with you
    guys, and it was thwarted, kind of thrown off the track. So I made a
    finding a year ago that, Mom, that was wrong. That was wrong for
    you to flex muscle and not let Dad see the boys. You wasted a lot of
    money on plane tickets. You guys know all about that. That’s not
    why we’re here today. At that time, on that day, I could have changed
    custody right that day. It’s one of the things you can do in contempt.
    I could have, and I was this close to doing it. It really bothered this
    court that Mom didn’t seem to take court orders seriously. They were
    just suggestions instead of orders. The damage that’s been done
    because of those years of her getting in the middle of your
    relationship with your dad, it’s no wonder that—I know, in particular,
    [the youngest child] might be a little bit less effected. You’re younger.
    8
    And [the older minor child] is a little more affected. The older you
    get—if you lived with your dad and these things were happening, you
    would want to be with your mom too. And we call that—the legal
    term for that, it’s called “parental alienation of affection,” and it’s kind
    of a big word; but what that means is one parent interferes with a
    child’s feelings of love and affection towards the other parent. So
    even though Mom didn’t do anything to physically hurt you guys, the
    court considers it to be a form of emotional involvement when you
    don’t let the other parent be a parent. But what’s happened since
    2010 and the court changed custody—custody was always with Mom
    and Dad had visits—the court changed custody to him to give Dad
    physical custody in the summer because of these problems and Mom
    was told to knock it off. Then we had that contempt just last summer.
    And, since then, what’s happened? Yet, another move. One of the
    biggest things the prior judge mentioned in ’10, he referred to your
    mom’s life as “nomadic lifestyle,” that means moving around a lot.
    Whatever the reasons were, you had another move happen. And
    this court is concerned that you guys need stability. And I told them
    a little bit. I summarized what you guys said. I never once asked
    you where you want to live and never once did either of you tell me
    where you wanted to live. The message I got loud and clear from
    you boys is you moved around a lot. You had a lot of states and a
    lot of school districts. Friends and stability are something that you
    both struggle with as far as continuity in your life. Now, can I
    guarantee Dad’s not going to move tomorrow? No. But the history
    of this case shows Dad’s more stable than Mom. I think that’s in your
    best interest. . . .
    The court directed the parties to work out a plan for transitioning the children from
    Amie’s care to Lee’s, and also visitation.5 The court anticipated the children going
    home with their mother to get their things together and then having Lee bring them
    back to Iowa to start school. The court indicated that because Lee will have
    custody of the children that Amie would be responsible for child support. Specific
    language for the child support provision was left “on the laps of CSRU to deal with.”
    5
    Because the start of school was just around the corner, the court asked the parties for a
    proposed visitation schedule within a week of the hearing. Amie submitted a proposed
    visitation schedule five days after the hearing. The record closed on November 3, 2017.
    9
    On November 28, 2017, the district court entered its written “Order re
    Modification.” The order stated a “separate order would be entered regarding child
    support and health insurance assuming the following: For Lee, the court imputes
    minimum wage (full-time).” Concerning Amie’s application to show cause, the
    order stated: “The court finds Lee has voluntarily reduced his income; however,
    said reduction is not found to be willful in nature. Amie’s Application Alleging
    Contempt should be continued to allow Lee an opportunity to show compliance
    with repayment of his child support arrearage.” Finally, as to modification of the
    children’s placement, the order stated:
    Lee alleges a substantial change in circumstances warrants a
    modification of the children’s physical care. In particular, he
    submitted evidence regarding Amie’s refusal to abide by the court’s
    orders regarding his visitation; two separate findings of contempt of
    court (one of them being after the most recent modification
    proceeding); Amie’s “bad mouthing” of him as the children’s father;
    [the older minor child’s] request to live with his father; and Amie’s
    frequent moves since entry of the decree in this matter. For the
    reasons stated on the record, the court finds Lee has proven a
    substantial change in circumstances.
    Regarding the requirement that Lee prove superior parenting
    in his effort to modify physical custody of the children, the court is
    persuaded that Amie’s prior acts of violating Lee’s parental time with
    the children is an indicator of her future actions. To the contrary, no
    evidence was presented that Lee would not honor Amie’s
    relationship in the children’s lives if he were to have physical custody.
    The court also finds Lee is capable of providing more stability for the
    children than they have experienced since the prior modification
    proceeding. For the reasons stated on the record, the court finds
    Lee has proven superior parenting.
    The court ordered “primary physical care of [the two children] is transferred from
    [Amie] to [Lee] effective August 16, 2017.”
    A few days later, the district court entered an “Order for Modification of
    Custody, Visitation, Support and Contempt.” The CSRU, using Amie’s current
    10
    income and imputing a full-time minimum-wage salary of $15,068.40 to Lee,
    determined Amie’s support obligation under the guidelines for the two children was
    $817 per month, then would be reduced to $567 per month when only one child
    was to be supported. The court’s order further stated: “[Lee’s] obligation to pay
    ongoing child support for the children is terminated effective August 16th, 2017.
    [Amie] shall pay child support in the amount of $817 per month for the child(ren)
    listed in this order. This amount is effective on August 16th, 2017 and shall
    continue monthly thereafter.” Lee was ordered to pay his child support arrearage
    at the rate of $178.80 per month.
    Amie now appeals.
    II. Standard of Review
    We review a district court’s modification of a decree, including child-support
    provisions, de novo. See In re Marriage of McKenzie, 
    709 N.W.2d 528
    , 531 (Iowa
    2006); In re Marriage of Rietz, 
    585 N.W.2d 226
    , 229 (Iowa 1998). We are not
    bound by the district court’s findings, but we do give weight to those fact-findings,
    particularly its credibility findings. See McKenzie, 
    709 N.W.2d at 531
    . Moreover,
    “we recognize that the district court ‘has reasonable discretion in determining
    whether modification is warranted and that discretion will not be disturbed on
    appeal unless there is a failure to do equity.” 
    Id.
     (cleaned up).6 Ultimately, the
    “controlling consideration” is the children’s best interests. See In re Marriage of
    Hoffman, 
    867 N.W.2d 26
    , 32 (Iowa 2015). This allows appellate courts “the
    6
    “Cleaned up” is a relatively new parenthetical used to indicate that internal quotation
    marks, alterations, and citations have been omitted from quotations for readability
    purposes. See United States v. Steward, 
    880 F.3d 983
    , 986 n.3 (8th Cir. 2018); Jack
    Metzler, Cleaning Up Quotations, 
    18 J. App. Prac. & Process 143
     (Fall 2017).
    11
    flexibility necessary to consider unique custody issues on a case-by-case basis.”
    See 
    id.
     (cleaned up).
    III. Discussion.
    On appeal, Amie challenges the district court’s modification in four respects.
    She argues the court erred in changing the minor children’s physical care from her
    to Lee. She also asserts the court erred in imputing to Lee only minimum-wage
    income, given his voluntary reduction of income, and in not finding him in contempt
    for his failure to pay the child support as decreed. Finally, she argues the court
    erred in making her support obligation retroactive to the date of the hearing. We
    address her arguments in turn.7
    A. Modification of Physical Care.
    “A party seeking modification of a dissolution decree must prove by a
    preponderance of the evidence a substantial change in circumstances occurred
    after the decree was entered,” as well as “a superior ability to minister to the needs
    of the children.” In re Marriage of Harris, 
    877 N.W.2d 434
    , 440 (Iowa 2016). This
    is a heavy burden. See 
    id.
     Nevertheless, modification may be warranted “when
    the parents simply cannot cooperate or communicate in dealing with their children.”
    See id. at 441 (cleaned up).
    7
    Lee points out that Amie’s brief does not adequately explain how the alleged errors
    claimed on appeal were preserved. We agree, as the timely filing of a notice of appeal
    “has nothing to do with error preservation.” State v. Lange, 
    831 N.W.2d 844
    , 846-47 (Iowa
    Ct. App. 2013); see also Thomas A. Mayes & Anuradha Vaitheswaran, Error Preservation
    in Civil Appeals in Iowa: Perspectives on Present Practice, 
    55 Drake L. Rev. 39
    , 48 (Fall
    2006) (explaining that “[a]s a general rule, the error preservation rules require a party to
    raise an issue in the trial court and obtain a ruling from the trial court”) (footnote omitted).
    However, because the issues Amie raises were decided by the district court, we find her
    claims were preserved for our review.
    12
    We agree with the district court that this was a close call. Upon our de novo
    review of the record, we find no reason to disturb the district court’s determination
    that Lee established the necessary proof to support modification of the children’s
    placement. We will not go as far as the district court to say Amie failed to take
    court orders seriously and lived a “nomadic lifestyle.”         The children’s overall
    success while in Amie’s physical care despite several moves show Amie is a good
    mother and the children thrived in her care. But there is no question Amie made
    a few bad choices that did not encourage the children’s relationship with Lee, and
    those decisions, coupled with all the facts before us, tips the scales sufficiently to
    support modification. At this point in time, with the older minor child nearly an
    adult, as well as that child’s wish to live with his father, further modification would
    not be in the children’s best interests. Considering the children’s best interests,
    we affirm the district court’s order modifying the children’s placement.
    B. Reduction of Income.
    Lee’s 2015 tax return shows his $55,552 in wages for the year as a truck
    driver.8 In 2016, his wages as a truck driver were less—$32,216—because he quit
    his job in August.9 He then started an all-terrain vehicle (ATV) repair business.
    In re Marriage of McKenzie is directly on point. See 
    709 N.W.2d at 534
    . In
    that case, the father said he voluntarily left his employment, not to avoid his child-
    support obligation, but to be closer to his paramour. See 
    id. at 533-34
    . However,
    8
    Of that amount, Lee claimed $700 in business expenses and $14,982 in meal and
    entertainment expenses.
    9
    Lee claimed $10,944 in meal and entertainment expenses with regard to his truck driving
    income.
    13
    the Iowa Supreme Court found that explanation insufficient to justify modifying the
    child-support award, reasoning:
    [O]ur first consideration under these circumstances is not what is in
    the best interest of [the father], but what is in the best interest of his
    child. If we consider [the father’s] reason for moving as the primary
    consideration in deciding this case, we would place his selfish
    desires over the welfare of his child and the custodial parent, not
    provide for the needs of his child, and create a substantial injustice
    between the parties.
    [The father] was not free to plan his future without regard to
    his obligation to his former wife and child. At the time [the father] left
    Iowa, he knew he had a pre-existing duty to provide monthly child
    support in the sum of $495 for his daughter and that he could earn
    $45,260 annually if he stayed in Iowa. Even though he thought he
    could earn a comparable salary in South Carolina at the time he quit
    his job in Iowa, he had no idea what his earning capacity in South
    Carolina would be. Under these circumstances, [the father’s] desire
    for self-fulfillment is outweighed by the pre-existing duty he had to
    his former spouse to provide adequate support for his minor child.
    [The father] also claims his new job and expenses would not
    allow him to pay child support based on an income other than his
    actual earnings. Even if true, under the special circumstances of this
    case we should still base [the father’s] child support obligation on his
    earning capacity. Although [the father’s] income dramatically
    declined, he was able to make the move to another state without a
    change in his and [his paramour’s] lifestyle because their combined
    income in South Carolina is substantially the same as what their
    combined income would have been if they stayed in Iowa.
    Finally, if we were to allow a reduction in [the father’s] child
    support obligation based on his actual earnings, we would be
    requiring [the mother] to increase her contribution for the support of
    [their child]. [The mother] should not be forced to make up [the
    father’s] reduced child support so [the father] can start a new life with
    his new wife in South Carolina, when his combined family income in
    South Carolina is substantially similar to the combined family income
    he had available to him in Iowa.
    Consequently, a strict application of the child support
    guidelines using [the father’s] actual earnings under the
    circumstances of this case would not provide for the needs of his
    child and would result in a substantial injustice between the parties.
    Therefore, it is necessary to use [the father’s] earning capacity to
    determine his child support obligation under our guidelines.
    
    Id. at 534
    .
    14
    In this case, the record shows Lee left his job with little regard to whether
    he would be able to continue to support his children as ordered by the court. At
    some point, the record is not clear, Lee moved from his home in Red Oak and
    moved in with his girlfriend in Marengo. He did not look for a truck-driving job in
    the Marengo area. Although he had some construction work experience, he did
    not look into construction work in the Marengo area. Instead, he started an ATV
    repair business called “E-Lee-T ATV Sales and Service,” “something [he] was darn
    good at and enjoyed doing and the possibility being able to make some money
    doing it and having a good business, we [Lee and his girlfriend] thought it was a
    smart move.” He buys, resells, repairs, and services any make and model of ATV.
    Asked at the August 2017 hearing whether the business was going to make any
    money, Lee responded, “Right now and that, with the projections that I had
    predicted starting off, I’m hitting my projections. I’m very satisfied with where I’m
    at.” He saw growth in the business and thought the business had the potential for
    replacing the income he had from his trucking work. The facts belie his optimism.
    Lee’s 2016 income tax return reports a $17,850 loss for the business which
    includes a $7000 expense for tools. Lee said he did not “personally” have the cash
    for the tools but that it was “our money but not mine.” Lee explained “our” meant
    he and his girlfriend. In a January 2017 financial statement submitted to the CSRU,
    Lee listed his occupation as ATV repair and noted “just setting up no income.” In
    an April 18, 2017 affidavit of financial status filed with the court, Lee reported
    income of “$0.00 per month.” His financial affidavit filed just before the August
    15
    2017 hearing shows his gross income as $1000 per month,10 and net income as
    $109.83 per month. The same affidavit shows his personal monthly expenses as
    $2723.00.11     The business’s sales tax quarterly return reports total sales of
    $3,000.00 for the period April 1 through June 30, 2017.
    While we certainly hope Lee’s business endeavor, his “smart move,”
    becomes successful, the burden is not on Amie to fully support their children so
    Lee can tinker around with ATVs. The record is unclear as to how much support
    Lee’s paramour of four years provides, but there is no indication that Lee’s lifestyle
    has changed since leaving his employment. Like in McKenzie, we think “a strict
    application of the child support guidelines” using Lee’s actual earnings under the
    circumstances of this case would not provide for the needs of his children and
    would result in a substantial injustice between the parties. See 
    id.
     Therefore, it is
    necessary to use Lee’s earning capacity to calculate Amie’s child support
    obligation under the guidelines.
    Having concluded we must use Lee’s earning capacity to establish Amie’s
    child support obligation, we must now determine Lee’s earning capacity. See 
    id.
    The McKenzie court found in its case that the
    best indication of [the father’s] earning capacity is the salary he made
    at [his former employer] before he quit to move to South Carolina
    because he worked there for twenty-two years and we find at the
    time he quit there was no indication that he could not have continued
    in this position for the period he was obligated to provide child
    support for [his child]. Thus, we fix his earning capacity at $45,260.
    10
    Lee admitted at the hearing that $12,000 a year is less than minimum wage.
    11
    Though Lee reported on his financial affidavit he had a monthly house payment of $500,
    he testified he lived with his paramour and did not contribute to her house payment. He
    claimed the amount listed on his financial affidavit was for his house payment/rent for the
    property he used to live in but still owns. However, he further testified he had renters in
    that property that “basically just pay[] the payment on the house,” which he did not report,
    to offset his payment obligation.
    16
    
    Id.
     Similarly, we see no indication in this record that Lee could not have continued
    in a truck-driving position for the period he was obligated to provide child support
    for his children. We therefore fix his earning capacity at $40,000. Accordingly, we
    remand the issue to the district court to recalculate Amie’s child support obligation.
    C. Retroactive Support.
    Amie argues the court erred in ordering her to pay child support
    retroactively, asserting “[t]he judge’s directives regarding the changed support
    becoming effective upon entry of the decree should have been followed and the
    change in support obligation and amount, effective November, 2017 rather than
    August, 2017.” For the following reasons, we disagree.
    Here, the court’s oral ruling in August 2017 transferred physical care of the
    children to Lee and determined the support award should be modified. The court
    told Amie, “Mom, because [Lee] will have custody, you will owe child support,” and
    “I am going to direct [the CSRU] to calculate child support effective on the filing of
    the order,” but for reasons not reflected in our record, the written order was not
    filed until a few months thereafter. While the district court’s modification decree is
    generally “effective when the court files it with the clerk of court,” In re Marriage of
    Johnson, 
    781 N.W.2d 553
    , 559 (Iowa 2010) (citing Iowa R. Civ. P. 1.453), Iowa
    Code section 598.21C(5) (2017) expressly allows child support awards to be
    “retroactively modified.” Specifically, that section provides:
    Retroactivity of modification. Judgments for child support or child
    support awards entered pursuant to this chapter . . . may be
    retroactively modified only from three months after the date the
    notice of the pending petition for modification is served on the
    opposing party. . . . The prohibition of retroactive modification does
    not bar the child support recovery unit from obtaining orders for
    17
    accrued support for previous time periods.       Any retroactive
    modification which increases the amount of child support or any
    order for accrued support under this subsection shall include a
    periodic payment plan. A retroactive modification shall not be
    regarded as a delinquency unless there are subsequent failures to
    make payments in accordance with the periodic payment plan.
    It is true that Iowa case law prevents courts from imposing a retroactive
    reduction in child support before modification is ordered. See In re Marriage of
    Barker, 
    600 N.W.2d 321
    , 323-24 (Iowa 1999); see also In re Marriage of Herum,
    No. 17-1161, 
    2018 WL 2084852
    , at *8 (Iowa App. May 2, 2018).               However,
    retroactive increases are permitted. See Barker, 
    600 N.W.2d at 323-24
    ; see also
    Herum, 
    2018 WL 2084852
     at *9 n.13. Amie’s argument here is specific to her
    support obligation—“The District Court Order Erred In Ordering Amie . . . to Pay
    Child Support to Lee . . . Effective August 1, 2017.” This is a retroactive increase
    of support. Overall, since the children were actually transferred to Lee’s physical
    care in or about August 2017 and Amie’s argument is specific to her own support
    obligation, we do not find the district court acted improperly in ordering her support
    payments to start the time of its ruling from the bench.
    D. Contempt.
    Amie also argues the court erred in not finding Lee in contempt. However,
    we only review contempt actions for errors of law if there was an initial finding of
    contempt. See In re Marriage of Swan, 
    526 N.W.2d 320
    , 326-27 (Iowa 1995). This
    is because Iowa Code section 598.23 provides
    1. If a person against whom a temporary order or final decree
    has been entered willfully disobeys the order or decree, the person
    may be cited and punished by the court for contempt and be
    committed to the county jail for a period of time not to exceed thirty
    days for each offense.
    18
    2. The court may, as an alternative to punishment for
    contempt, make an order . . . .
    (Emphasis added.) See also Swan, 
    526 N.W.2d at 327
    . Use of the word “‘may’
    confers a power.”     
    Iowa Code § 4.1
    (3); see also Swan, 
    526 N.W.2d at 327
    .
    Consequently, the district court “is not required to hold a party in contempt even
    though the elements of contempt may exist.”             Swan, 
    526 N.W.2d at 327
    .
    Ultimately, the district court has “broad discretion and unless this discretion is
    grossly abused, the court’s decision must stand.” 
    Id.
     (cleaned up).
    Here, even if we find Lee willfully disobeyed the court’s order in failing, once
    again, to pay his court-ordered child-support, we cannot say the district court’s
    decision otherwise was a gross abuse of its discretion.             The court clearly
    recognized Lee had not complied with the support order and gave him the
    opportunity to become current, which he did. We do not find the court abused its
    discretion when it did not hold Lee in contempt for his failure to pay his child support
    as ordered.
    E. Appellate Attorney Fees.
    Finally, both parties have requested an award of appellate attorney fees.
    Appellate attorney fees are not a matter of right but rest within our discretion. See
    In re Marriage of Sullins, 
    715 N.W.2d 242
    , 255 (Iowa 2006). We consider “the
    needs of the party seeking the award, the ability of the other party to pay, and the
    relative merits of the appeal.” Based on the foregoing, we decline to award either
    party appellate attorney fees.
    19
    IV. Conclusion.
    Because it is necessary to use Lee’s earning capacity in calculating Amie’s
    child support obligation under our child support guidelines to provide for the needs
    of the parties’ minor children and do justice between the parties under the special
    circumstances of this case, we modify the court’s order and remand for the district
    court to recalculate Amie’s child support obligation. We affirm in all other respects.
    We do not retain jurisdiction. Any costs are assessed equally to the parties.
    AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.