In the Interest of J.E., Minor Child, J.E., Minor Child, and J.E., Father ( 2016 )


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  •                      IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
    No. 15-0187
    Filed May 11, 2016
    IN THE INTEREST OF J.E.,
    Minor Child,
    J.E., Minor Child,
    Appellant,
    and
    J.E., Father,
    Appellant.
    ________________________________________________________________
    Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Lawrence P.
    McLellan, Judge.
    The child’s father and the guardian ad litem appeal the court’s ruling that
    the mother did not abandon the child. REVERSED AND REMANDED.
    Karmen R. Anderson of the Law Office of Karmen Anderson, Des Moines,
    guardian ad litem for appellant minor child.
    David A. Morse of the Law Offices of David A. Morse, Des Moines, for
    appellant father.
    Beau A. Bergmann of Bergmann Law Firm, P.L.L.C., Des Moines, for
    appellee mother.
    Heard by Danilson, C.J., and Vaitheswaran and Tabor, JJ.
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    DANILSON, Chief Judge.
    The father and the guardian ad litem (GAL) for the child appeal the denial
    of the father’s petition to terminate the mother’s parental rights pursuant to Iowa
    Code chapter 600A (2013). The father contends on appeal that the mother’s
    parental rights should have been terminated because the evidence proved she
    had abandoned the child and termination was in the child’s best interests.
    Related to the issue, the father contends the juvenile court improperly discounted
    the GAL’s professional statement and recommendations. The GAL also appeals,
    contending the juvenile court erred in failing to find sufficient evidence of
    abandonment and the court improperly relied upon information contained in the
    parties’ dissolution-of-marriage court file.
    The mother has not seen the child, who was born in 2002, since 2010,
    when she failed to return the child following a scheduled visit. She also made no
    attempt to reinitiate contact with the child through legal proceedings until mid-
    2014 and has made almost no child support payments. We conclude the mother
    abandoned the child within the meaning of section 600A.8. We disagree with the
    juvenile court’s finding that termination was not in the child’s best interests. We
    therefore reverse the court’s denial of the father’s petition to terminate the
    mother’s parental rights.
    I. Background Facts and Proceedings.
    The father and mother married in 2001; had a child, J.E., born in 2002;
    separated in 2005; and were divorced in June 2007. The dissolution decree
    admitted into evidence contains the court’s observations that the parties had a
    “volatile relationship during their marriage,” the mother lacked credibility in her
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    many allegations about the father’s misconduct, and the father was “committed to
    whatever is best for [the child].”         The decree also contained the court’s
    observation that the father had demonstrated immaturity during the marriage, but
    had “convinced the court at trial . . . that he has grown up emotionally and is now
    taking more responsibility for [the child] both economically and through physical
    care.” Moreover, the court noted a custody evaluator recommended that, if the
    mother moved out of the area, the child should be placed with the father “based
    in part upon [the child’s] close relationship with his grandfather and the stability
    this relationship provides in his life.”
    The mother had a second child with Michael K., who lived in Alabama, and
    stated her intention to move to Alabama to be with him. The dissolution decree
    placed J.E. in the parents’ joint legal custody and observed the father “must have
    physical custody of [the child] to maintain the necessary stability in [the child’s]
    life and to ensure that he continue his relationships with both his parents.” The
    mother was to have the child for extended visits over summers and holidays.
    The decretal court stated the mother “is not working, has no intention to work, or
    prospect for future employment,” but was required by law to pay $50 per month
    in support.
    In 2010, the father filed an application to show cause, asserting the
    mother had failed to return the child from a scheduled visit.       A hearing was
    scheduled for May 4, 2010. The mother failed to appear at the hearing on the
    application, though she was represented by an attorney who moved to continue
    the hearing. In an order dated that same date, the district court noted “ongoing
    problems between these parties since their dissolution” and that “[t]he court is
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    very concerned about the welfare of their minor child.” The court also noted
    there was another contempt action scheduled for hearing on June 30, and that
    the mother was scheduled to have the child from July 1 through August 11. The
    court noted there was evidence the mother was “not supportive of the [father’s]
    parenting,” and it “will not allow these matters to be in limbo until so close to the
    scheduled visitation, as this child deserves to know where he is going to spend
    this summer block of time.”       The court wrote, “According to [the mother’s]
    counsel, [the mother] has recently made domestic abuse allegations against her
    current husband and is residing with her other two children in a battered women’s
    shelter out of this state.” The court ordered all pending matters would be heard
    on June 10, 2010, and pending that hearing the mother “is to have no visitation,
    either by phone or in person.”
    An order admitted from the dissolution proceedings, exhibit F, reflects the
    mother, again represented by counsel, failed to appear on June 10, 2010. The
    order references a letter from the mother indicated she was residing in a
    domestic violence shelter and felt she was in danger if she came to court. The
    father asked that the court issue an arrest warrant, which the court declined to
    do. The court did continue the suspension of the mother’s visitation and contact
    with the child. The court wrote, “If [the mother] wishes to come to court here to
    ask for reinstatement of visitation, she should file a motion to reinstate visitation.
    The motion will then be set for hearing. At that time, the court will consider the
    pending contempt of court allegations by [the father].”
    In June 2011, initiated by a request for review submitted by the mother to
    the child support recovery unit of the Iowa Department of Human Services, the
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    mother’s child support was adjusted upward to ninety-five dollars per month.
    Records indicate the mother made child support payments for 2007 ($200), 2008
    ($600), and 2009 ($550). In 2010, she paid $250 in child support. She made no
    payments in 2011 and paid twenty dollars in 2012. No child support payments
    were made in 2013.
    On January 10, 2014, the mother obtained a divorce from Michael K. in
    Alabama and their two children were placed in the mother’s physical care.
    On May 29, 2014, the mother filed a motion to reinstate visitation in the
    Iowa court. In her motion, the mother claimed to have “made hundreds (100s) of
    attempts to resolve this matter” with the father “outside of court w/ ZERO
    response.” Attached to the motion was a document labeled “attempts to contact
    the other party,” which listed about six messages via a certified letter, emails, text
    messages, and phone calls to the father, and two telephone messages left with
    the child’s paternal grandfather—all in May 2014. Also listed was a May 12,
    2014 phone message to the father’s “last known attorney”—“Please contact me if
    you are still representing [the father] and if you are not, please disregard this
    message.” Finally, is a statement of “phonecalls [(to father)] Over the past 4
    years I have made hundreds . . . of calls to which I have been blatantly ignored.”
    A hearing was set and later continued until October 22 upon the father’s
    request. The August 15, 2014 order to continue stated the motion to reinstate
    visitation and the pending contempt matters reserved in June 2010 would be
    addressed on October 22.
    On October 22, the mother was appointed counsel and matters were
    continued again. The court order stated:
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    [C]ounsel are instructed to meet with court administration to set a
    new hearing date. The matters that shall be set for hearing are the
    continued hearing from June 4, 2010, on the [father’s] application
    for rule to show cause and the [mother’s] motion to reinstate
    visitation filed on May 29, 2014.
    On November 5, 2014, the father filed a petition to terminate the mother’s
    parental rights. The same counsel who had been appointed to represent the
    mother in the post-dissolution proceedings on October 22 was appointed on
    December 11 to represent her in the private termination action.
    On December 16, a one-day trial took place on the petition to terminate
    the mother’s rights. Counsel for the mother made no motion to continue the trial.
    The father testified the mother had sent him emails in 2010 and had left
    sporadic telephone messages through the years. He had received no emails
    between 2011 and when she filed the motion to reinstate in 2014.           By the
    mother’s application for appointment of counsel, the father learned she had
    moved to Arkansas at some point, though she had not notified him. He further
    testified that in October 2014, the mother asked to be able to send the child a
    birthday card.   Despite being granted permission to do so by the court, no
    birthday card had been received. The father testified further that the child had an
    “amazing relationship” with his significant other.       The father opined that
    reintroducing the child to the mother “would confuse him. He would not know
    what is going on now; how long is she going to be in the picture this time; when is
    the next time something could happen. I know my son best. . . . I don’t want to
    see him go through that.”
    The mother testified she moved from Alabama to Arkansas in November
    2010 and acknowledged she did not provide notice of her change of address to
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    the father or his attorney. She acknowledged she was represented by counsel in
    2010 when she failed to appear at the hearing on the motion to show cause. She
    stated she did not seek to reinstate visitation on advice of her attorney in
    Alabama, who told her she should take care of her divorce to Michael K. first.
    The mother admitted she did not seek visitation in 2011, 2012, or 2013, though,
    “I’ve wished to do so the whole time. It’s just my circumstances didn’t allow it.”
    She also testified she had sent emails to the father in 2010, but not in 2011,
    2012, or 2013. She testified she made a thirty-dollar child support payment in
    November 2014,1 but was not otherwise able to make payments.                     She
    acknowledged she had not contacted the child’s school to request information
    about his progress since 2010.
    The mother testified she was not able to work and was attempting to
    qualify for disability payments, though her social security disability application
    had been denied to date. When asked how she supported herself and her two
    other children, she testified they lived in subsidized housing and she received
    food stamps, state aid, and was now receiving child support from Michael K.
    The mother testified she sought reinstatement of visitation in 2014:
    “Because I had my divorce with Michael [K.] completed. I had custody of my
    kids. I had a protection order against him. And I had the means to be able to
    come to Iowa for hearings like this because I have to drive all the way from
    Arkansas.” While the mother testified she did not try to contact the father or the
    school because she thought she “would get in trouble,” she also admitted she
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    According to testimony, the mother’s support obligation was reduced to thirty dollars
    per month beginning December 1, 2014.
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    attempted to contact the father through social media and telephone after the
    father’s attorney told her communications should go through him.
    The child’s GAL made a statement recommending the mother’s rights be
    terminated.2 The GAL stated, in part:
    Though I understand that [the mother] had a number of
    things personally that she was trying to take care of, unfortunately,
    [J.E.] cannot be expected to sit around and wait for her to get her
    life together before she has any contact with him.
    I’ve met with him a couple of times. I have talked with his
    principal at school. I’ve talked with both parents and have done an
    independent investigation, and it is clearly not in [the child’s] best
    interest to reinvolve himself with [the mother] after such a long
    stretch.
    He is thriving in his current environment. He’s doing great at
    school. He is participating in all these activities. In fact, yesterday
    when I saw him, he was really excited because he had just broken
    his previous track record for running sprints.
    And the only issue is that [the child] has not had closure in
    this, so I would recommend that any termination of parental rights,
    if the Court chooses to do that, be accompanied by an order that
    that will be processed through therapy just because he has sat and
    wondered for five years whether his mom was going to come back
    in the picture, if his mom cared about him, if his mom was ever
    going to have contact with him again.
    And I do feel for [the mother] as a parent in, you know, I
    guess, addressing a lot of personal issues, but it is simply unfair to
    this child. And then that’s coupled with the fact that despite the
    order that said no visitation, no contact, [the mother] didn’t send
    any Christmas gifts; she didn’t send any birthday cards. Even if
    she didn’t know where [the father] was living from 2012 forward,
    she could have done that through [father’s attorney] Mr. Morse’s
    office.
    And even back in October she requested that she be
    allowed to do that from the Court, and then she failed to do so.
    On January 14, 2015, the juvenile court entered an order denying the
    father’s application to terminate the mother’s rights. The court wrote:
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    The record does not reflect that the GAL’s statement was a professional statement,
    although that is how the court described the statement in its order.
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    The court is concerned with the events that led to the filing of
    the petition for termination and the shortness of time from the filing
    of the petition and its presentation to the court. . . .
    The court is also concerned that while [the mother] did not
    visit J.E. between 2010 and the present, the main reason was the
    court’s order of May 4, 2010, where her visitation was suspended.
    In addition, [the mother] testified that her counsel in her dissolution
    matter involving Michael [K.] recommended that she resolve that
    matter before turning her attention to the issue involving J.E. and
    her former husband. At no time between that date and November
    5, 2014, did [the father] move to terminate [the mother’s] parental
    rights even though the evidence he presented in this matter would
    have been the same evidence he could have submitted prior to
    May 29, 2014. Only after May 29, 2014, when [the mother]
    attempted to obtain visitation with her son, did [the father] initiate
    the present petition and that was not initiated until the court ordered
    the parties to obtain a date for [the mother’s] motion to
    reinstate. . . .
    ....
    At the very least in order for this court to find what is in best
    interests of the child there needs to be presented in a termination of
    parental rights petition evidence that establishes by clear and
    convincing evidence termination is in the best interests of the child.
    While the evidence may establish that [the mother] failed to pay
    child support as required, that she failed to visit J.E. for over 5
    years, [the father] has not convinced this court with clear and
    convincing evidence that it is in J.E.’s best interests to have his
    mother’s parental rights terminated or that it was [the mother’s]
    intent to abandon those rights.
    Importantly, five (5) days is not a sufficient amount of time
    for [the mother’s] counsel to present a case in her defense. . . .
    The court is empathetic to [the father]’s concerns. He now is
    faced with a situation where a child he has nurtured and helped
    mature will be confronted with the prospect of his mother
    reappearing in his life but possibly only to disappear again. The
    record demonstrated that [the father] has done a good job raising
    J.E. He has excellent grades, he is engaged in extracurricular
    activities and is a happy 12 year old boy.
    However, the termination of a parent’s rights is an extreme
    measure. This action should only be exercised when the court is
    clearly convinced that such an action is in the child’s best interests.
    This decision is not to be made lightly or hastily. Here the court
    finds that [the father] has not met that burden. Accordingly, the
    court finds that [the father’s] petition should be denied.
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    The juvenile court gave little weight to the GAL’s recommendation
    because the GAL had called no witnesses to corroborate her recommendation.
    The father and the guardian ad litem appeal.
    II. Scope and Standard of Review.
    We review termination proceedings under chapter 600A de novo. In re
    C.A.V., 
    787 N.W.2d 96
    , 99 (Iowa Ct. App. 2010). We give weight to the factual
    findings of the juvenile court, particularly with regard to witness credibility, but we
    are not bound by them. In re G.A., 
    826 N.W.2d 125
    , 127 (Iowa Ct. App. 2012).
    When interpreting chapter 600A, the best interests of the child involved are “the
    paramount consideration,” but we also give “due consideration” to the interests of
    the child’s parents. Iowa Code § 600A.1.
    III. Discussion.
    The father and the GAL both assert there is clear and convincing evidence
    the mother abandoned the child within the meaning of Iowa Code section
    600A.8(3), and the juvenile court erred in denying the petition to terminate her
    parental rights. They also assert the trial court improperly discounted the GAL’s
    statement and recommendation. The mother responds she was not physically or
    financially able to support or visit the child, and further, she was restrained from
    contacting the child by the 2010 court order and the father’s applications to show
    cause. She argues that the factors surrounding her inability to contact or support
    the child “were largely out of [her] control.”
    The juvenile court may terminate parental rights if the petitioner proves by
    clear and convincing evidence the parent “abandoned the child.” If the child is
    six months of age or older,
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    a parent is deemed to have abandoned the child unless the parent
    maintains substantial and continuous or repeated contact with the
    child as demonstrated by contribution toward support of the child of
    a reasonable amount, according to the parent’s means, and as
    demonstrated by any of the following:
    (1) Visiting the child at least monthly when physically and
    financially able to do so and when not prevented from doing so by
    the person having lawful custody of the child.
    (2) Regular communication with the child or with the person
    having the care or custody of the child, when physically and
    financially unable to visit the child or when prevented from visiting
    the child by the person having lawful custody of the child.
    (3) Openly living with the child for a period of six months
    within the one-year period immediately preceding the termination of
    parental rights hearing and during that period openly holding
    himself or herself out to be the parent of the child.
    Iowa Code § 600A.8(3)(b).
    The parent petitioning for termination pursuant to section 600A.8(3)(b) has
    the burden to show the other parent has abandoned the child. See id.; see also
    G.A., 826 N.W.2d at 129. A decision to terminate must be based on clear and
    convincing evidence. Iowa Code § 600A.8.
    A. Judicial Notice. The GAL contends the juvenile court erroneously took
    judicial notice of the contents of the parties’ dissolution-of-marriage case file
    without the consent of the parties. The mother contends the juvenile court has
    discretionary authority to take judicial notice, whether requested or not, pursuant
    to Iowa Rules of Evidence Rule 5.201(c).          Our supreme court has recently
    reiterated,
    Judicial notice may be taken on appeal. See Iowa R. Evid.
    5.201(f) (“Judicial notice may be taken at any stage of the
    proceeding.”); State v. Sorensen, 
    436 N.W.2d 358
    , 363 (Iowa 1989)
    (taking judicial notice on appeal). The rule permits a court to take
    judicial notice of adjudicative facts “capable of accurate and ready
    determination by resort to sources whose accuracy cannot
    reasonably be questioned.” Iowa R. Evid. 5.201(a)–(b). However,
    “[t]he general rule is that it is not proper for the court to consider or
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    take judicial notice of the records of the same court in a different
    proceeding without an agreement of the parties.” Leuchtenmacher
    v. Farm Bureau Mut. Ins. Co., 
    460 N.W.2d 858
    , 861 (Iowa 1990).
    State v. Washington, 
    832 N.W.2d 650
    , 655–56 (Iowa 2013).
    Here, the juvenile court considered facts recited in the parties separate
    cause of action relating to their dissolution of marriage. Without their agreement,
    it was improper.3 Accordingly, we will perform our de novo review in the absence
    of the facts elicited from the records of the dissolution proceeding not admitted
    into evidence.
    B. GAL’s Statement and Recommendation.            The father contends the
    juvenile court failed to give sufficient weight to the professional statement of the
    GAL. The father relies upon the court’s statements seemingly discounting the
    recommendation given via a professional statement because the GAL did not call
    any witnesses.
    “Under Iowa law, professional statements are treated as affidavits and the
    attorney making the statement may be cross-examined regarding the substance
    of the statement.” Frunzar v. Allied Prop. & Cas. Ins. Co., 
    548 N.W.2d 880
    , 888
    (Iowa 1996); see also State v. Williams, 
    315 N.W.2d 45
    , 52–53 (Iowa 1982)
    (“The term ‘professional statement’ . . . means a statement of fact presented to
    the court by an attorney in connection with a matter then before such court,
    verified in effect by the oath of such attorney, and designed or calculated to aid
    or influence the court in the determination of a given cause or issue.” (citation
    omitted)). The court may consider the report of a GAL if it is properly before the
    3
    We acknowledge the parties made reference to matters contained in the dissolution
    file. The court may have taken these references as an agreement to consider the file.
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    court by agreement or stipulation. See In re Marriage of Williams, 
    303 N.W.2d 160
    , 163 (Iowa 1981). While the court may consider the recommendations of a
    GAL, “[t]he legislature has granted to the court the responsibility to make an
    impartial and independent determination as to what is in the best interests of the
    child.” In re Marriage of Stephens, 
    810 N.W.2d 523
    , 530–31 (Iowa Ct. App.
    2012).
    Here, the mother’s evidence conflicted with the professional statement,
    and the juvenile court could determine what weight to accord the GAL’s
    professional statement and recommendation. The GAL was entitled to make an
    investigation and call witnesses. See Iowa Code § 600A.6(2). The fact that the
    GAL chose not to call witnesses is a fact that may affect the weight to be given to
    a GAL’s recommendation, although we are not convinced this would be a routine
    or general proposition. There are undoubtedly many cases where the parents
    call all the necessary witnesses.       The weight to be given may be affected,
    however, for the same concerns expressed by our supreme court pertaining to a
    recommendation by an attorney appointed for minor children by the court
    pursuant to Iowa Code section 598.12: “What the attorney discovers is frequently
    hearsay, sometimes only rank rumor or gossip. Therefore those who know the
    facts should testify in order to provide a reliable basis for the trial court’s ultimate
    decision.” Williams, 
    303 N.W.2d at 163
     (citation omitted).
    In our de novo review, we decide the issues on appeal anew and give
    weight to the trial court’s findings, especially with respect to the credibility of
    witnesses. In re Marriage of Brown, 
    776 N.W.2d 644
    , 647 (Iowa 2009). Here,
    the juvenile court did not suggest the professional statement or recommendation
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    was unreliable. Rather, the trial court simply did not afford it as much weight as it
    otherwise might if the recommendation had been supported by the testimony of
    witnesses. We find no basis to reverse on this claim.
    C. Abandonment.       The mother claims a finding of abandonment is
    negated by her insistence she was not “physically and financially able to” visit the
    child and, in fact, she was “prevented from doing so by the person having lawful
    custody of the child” by the father’s applications to show cause and to suspend
    visitation. See Iowa Code § 600A.8(3)(b)(1). The trial court appears to have
    been swayed by this argument. However, upon our de novo review, we conclude
    there is clear and convincing evidence that the mother did not in any manner
    attempt to maintain substantial and continuous or repeated contact with the child
    for more than four years. We acknowledge her visits were suspended, but this
    occurred because the mother failed to return the child at the end of a visitation in
    2010. She did not seek reinstatement of visitation for four years. Moreover, it
    was the mother who moved out of state, making visitation more difficult and
    expensive.
    The trial court found some significance in the fact that the father did not
    seek termination of the mother’s parental rights until the mother filed to reinstate
    visitation and found he “may have used the legal process to keep J.E. from his
    mother.” But, it was the mother who did not return the child from a visitation and
    who did not contribute to the child’s support. The father was forced to travel to
    Alabama to retrieve the child; the child missed school; the father missed days at
    his employment; the father incurred expenses for travel and hotel; and the
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    mother was not paying the required amount of support.                    Under those
    circumstances, the father was entitled to file a rule to show cause.
    We also note the mother was represented by counsel in 2010 and did not
    appear for court hearings, or seek to be heard. We observe the father may have
    felt no need to file a petition to terminate the mother’s rights before she filed to
    reinstate visitation because neither he nor the child had heard from the mother
    for years. There is also no obligation on the part of a parent to file a petition for
    termination of parental rights at the earliest possible time when the grounds exist
    to file.4
    Even if we assume the mother was “physically and financially unable to
    visit the child” or was “prevented from visiting the child by the person having
    lawful custody of the child,” see id. § 600A.8(3)(b)(2), the non-custodial parent is
    required to maintain regular communication with the child or the child’s
    custodian. Id. § 600A.8(3)(b)(2); see also G.A., 826 N.W.2d at 130. The mother
    did not send correspondence to the child, or to the father’s attorney after the
    attorney informed her communications should go through him.               The mother
    acknowledged she made no attempt to communicate with the child until she got
    her divorce from Michael K. The mother’s divorce was final in January 2014; yet,
    she did not seek to reinstate visitation until May 2014. We also note that the
    mother was granted permission by the court to send a birthday card to the child
    4
    The juvenile court was also troubled by the “shortness of time” from the filing of the
    petition and the trial. However, the mother’s attorney never sought a continuance and
    we give this fact no weight in determining whether the father has met his burden of
    proof.
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    in October 2014 (the child’s birthday was in November)—yet she sent no card,
    even by December 2014.
    The mother testified, “I’ve wished to [seek visitation] the whole time. It’s
    just my circumstances didn’t allow it.”       The “subjective intent of the parent,
    whether expressed or otherwise, unsupported by evidence of acts specified . . .
    does not preclude a determination that the parent has abandoned the child.”
    Iowa Code § 600A.8(3)(c).      Here, the mother has made little if any effort to
    support or communicate with her child for more than three years.           “Parental
    responsibility demands ‘affirmative parenting to the extent it is practicable and
    feasible under the circumstances.’” G.A., 826 N.W.2d at 130 (citation omitted);
    see also In re D.M., 
    516 N.W.2d 888
    , 891 (Iowa 1994) (“[P]arental
    responsibilities include more than subjectively maintaining an interest in a child.
    The concept requires affirmative parenting to the extent it is practical and feasible
    in the circumstances.” (citation omitted)).
    We conclude the evidence shows the mother has not visited the child or
    maintained regular communication with the child, or with the father or his
    attorney.   She has not engaged in ‘affirmative parenting to the extent it is
    practicable and feasible under the circumstances.’” See G.A., 826 N.W.2d at
    130 (citation omitted).   The voluntary failure of a parent to maintain regular
    communication can justify termination. See In re T.B., No. 14-1984, 
    2016 WL 530990
    , at *7 (Iowa Ct. App. Feb. 10, 2016) (“Since at least October 2011,
    neither parent has visited T.B. or M.C., and even if we assume that their interest
    in visitation was frustrated by the guardian’s actions, both the father and mother
    fail to satisfy the alternative means of regular communication with either the
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    children or the children’s guardian.”); In re A.M.M., No. 13-0627, 
    2014 WL 3928877
    , at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Aug. 13, 2014) (finding that a mother’s lack of
    contact with child for sixteen months and lack of contact with custodial father for
    twelve months prior to termination hearing was “a marginal effort, at best, to
    maintain regular communication” and justified termination, even assuming that
    father had prevented her from having visitation with child).         A showing of
    abandonment does not require total desertion; feeble contacts can also
    demonstrate abandonment. See In re M.M.S., 
    502 N.W.2d 4
    , 7 (Iowa 1993).
    D. Best Interests. The mother also asserts that termination of her parental
    rights is not in the child’s best interests. The juvenile court determined the father
    failed to meet the burden to show the termination was in the child’s best interests
    but did not illuminate upon the reasons for this conclusion.       This action was
    brought pursuant to chapter 600A, and our review is to determine whether
    termination is proper under the statutory guidelines.              Our paramount
    consideration in termination proceedings under chapter 600A is the best interests
    of the child. Iowa Code § 600A.1. The statute provides:
    The best interest of a child requires that each biological
    parent affirmatively assume the duties encompassed by the role of
    being a parent. In determining whether a parent has affirmatively
    assumed the duties of a parent, the court shall consider, but is not
    limited to consideration of, the fulfillment of financial obligations,
    demonstration of continued interest in the child, demonstration of a
    genuine effort to maintain communication with the child, and
    demonstration of the establishment and maintenance of a place of
    importance in the child’s life.
    Id. § 600A.1.
    The record demonstrates the mother has failed to affirmatively assume the
    duties encompassed by the role of being a parent. The mother has had no
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    contact with the child since 2010. There is no significant relationship between
    the mother and child. A court order entered on June 14, 2010, explained her
    right to seek reinstatement of visitation yet no request was filed until almost four
    years later. Although the mother was never prohibited from contacting the child’s
    school, she made no such effort since 2010. And while the child may have
    questioned his mother’s absence, we are not convinced that expression of
    concern weighs against termination here. Even the juvenile court acknowledged
    the prospect of the mother “reappearing in [the child’s] life but possibly only to
    disappear again.” The child is in a stable home and appears to be excelling in
    life and in school. As our supreme court has observed, “There is not always the
    urgency in chapter 600A termination cases that we have noted in termination
    cases under the juvenile code (
    Iowa Code § 232.109
     et seq.).” M.M.S., 
    502 N.W.2d at 9
    .      Yet here, as it was determined in M.M.S., “it is past time to
    terminate.” 
    Id.
    We determine termination of the mother’s parental rights is in the best
    interest of the child. We, therefore, reverse the juvenile court and remand for
    entry of an order to terminate the mother’s parental rights pursuant to chapter
    600A.
    REVERSED AND REMANDED.