Alexander v. Alexander ( 2021 )

Shelton Alexander v. Tamara Alexander, No. 1320, September Term 2020. Opinion by
Salmon, James P. (Senior Judge, Specially Assigned).
CUSTODY AND VISITATION – Under Maryland Code, Family Law Article § 9-105,
the court can deny make-up time to a parent who has unjustifiably been denied visitation
access, if the court finds that such a denial is in the best interests of the child.
Circuit Court for Frederick County
Case No. 10-C-13-002794
REPORTED
IN THE COURT OF SPECIAL APPEALS
OF MARYLAND
No. 1320
September Term, 2020
______________________________________
SHELTON ALEXANDER
v.
TAMARA ALEXANDER
______________________________________
Friedman,
Ripken,
Salmon, James P.
(Senior Judge, Specially Assigned),
JJ.
______________________________________
Opinion by Salmon, J.
______________________________________
Filed: July 28, 2021
Pursuant to Maryland Uniform Electronic Legal
Materials Act
(§§ 10-1601 et seq. of the State Government Article) this document is authentic.
2021-07-29 10:43-04:00
Suzanne C. Johnson, Clerk
Shelton Alexander (“Father”) and Tamara Alexander (“Mother”) were married in
2004. A son (“S.”) was born to the marriage in August of 2006. The marriage was ended
on July 28, 2014 when the Circuit Court for Frederick County, Maryland entered a final
judgment of divorce. Father appealed from the entry of that judgment, but this Court
affirmed it in an unreported opinion. Alexander v. Alexander, No. 2189, Sept. Term,
2014 (filed July 16, 2015).
More litigation followed, most of it concerning custody and visitation issues. In
2017, Father moved to modify custody, visitation and child support and in October of that
year, Mother filed a counter-motion asking the court to grant her sole legal and primary
physical custody of S. An eleven-day merits hearing was held on that matter, which
ended on August 8, 2019.
On September 3, 2019, the Circuit Court for Frederick County filed a custody
order (“the final custody order”) that granted Mother sole legal and primary physical
custody of S. Father was granted access to S. every other weekend from after school on
Friday until Monday morning, plus every Wednesday evening from 6:30 P.M. to 8:15
P.M., so that S. could attend a church youth group. The court set forth in its order a
detailed holiday schedule and granted each party two-week blocks of summer access in
July, with the orders of the blocks alternating year-to-year. Father appealed that order,
but we affirmed the judgment in another unreported opinion. Alexander v. Alexander,
No. 1417, September Term, 2019 (filed June 1, 2020).
While the last-mentioned appeal was still pending, Mother, on March 18, 2020,
sent Father an email that read:
Given [S.’s] Diabetes and thus his vulnerability to getting serious
complications from COVID-19 if he contracts the Coronavirus, I plan on
keeping him here at home until the CDC Coronavirus guidelines are lifted
and schools are back in session. We can discuss makeup time once it is
safe to do so.
During the next few days, several emails between Father and Mother were
exchanged. Father took the position that Mother had no right to disobey a court order
and that obeying the visitation order would not endanger S.’s health. Mother maintained
that because she had been given the authority to make medical decisions for S., she had
the right to ensure his safety by halting, temporarily, Father’s right to have visitation with
his son. Therefore, she announced that Father’s weekend visitation with S., scheduled for
March 20, 2020, would be canceled as well as future visitation until school reopened.
She wrote in an email to Father dated March 19, 2020:
I do agree with you that waiting for school to resume might be an untenable
resolution, so I have come up with a creative solution to ensure you and [S.]
stay connected, yet we keep him as safe as possible. I will give you
extended Facetime/virtual time with him over the weekend for gaming or
for you to just spend time with him. This is a good way to put his health
first, yet keep you two connected.
I also would like everyone in both households to get tested for the
Coronavirus as soon as testing is available for the general public. Right
now, they are prioritizing testing for those with symptoms, so I am not sure
when testing will become available. However, can we agree that we will all
get tested and share the results when testing becomes available?
We can continue to evaluate this situation on a daily basis.
The parties did not resolve their differences and on March 27, 2020, Father filed
an “Emergency Motion to Enforce Court’s Order Regarding Access During COVID[-]19
Pandemic” (“the emergency motion”). In the emergency motion, Father had two main
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complaints. The first was that almost immediately after the September 3, 2019 final
custody order was docketed, Mother curtailed “Wednesday evening access and extra-
curricular activities[.]” Secondly, Father alleged that he was being deprived of his right
to visitation because Frederick County public schools and all of Maryland public schools
were currently closed until April 24, 2020 because of COVID-19, and Mother had
advised him by email that she was “keeping [S.] in [her] house until all restrictions are
lifted and the kids are allowed to go back to school.” Father also alleged that despite
Mother’s claims of “health concerns,” she had recently traveled to New Orleans for
Mardi Gras and had been “diagnosed with bronchitis after her return” from that city.
Father asked the court to grant his emergency motion and to sign an order: 1) requiring
mother to immediately comply with the terms of the final custody order; 2) granting
Father extra visitation as “make-up time” for the period that Mother had withheld
visitation; and, 3) grant him “attorney’s fees.”
Mother, by counsel, filed an opposition to Father’s emergency motion in which
she alleged that she was justified in withholding visitation because of the risk to S.’s
health presented by the COVID-19 pandemic. She maintained that “since the public
schools were closed after March 13, 2020,” “neither [she] nor [S.] ha[d] left their
residence and no other individual(s) have entered the residence.” She also noted that
Maryland Governor Lawrence Hogan, Jr. had, on March 30, 2020, issued an executive
order for the safety of all citizens that required, during the COVID-19 pandemic, all
“non-essential citizens to remain in their homes beginning on March 30, 2020 at 8:00
P.M. except for the performance of essential activities as further defined by the Order.”
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Mother denied Father’s allegation that she had violated the provision of the final custody
order concerning Wednesday night access. Lastly, Mother alleged that she had offered
Father “day for day make up time” once the pandemic problem abated but Father had
rejected that offer.
On April 1, 2020, Father filed a reply to Mother’s opposition. He alleged that S.’s
type 1 diabetes was well controlled. He also asserted that literature provided by the
American Diabetes Association made “it clear that a diabetic is not at a greater risk of
having severe complications from COVID-19 than the general population if the diabetes
is managed well.”
The issues raised in the motion for an emergency order were heard in the Circuit
Court for Frederick County on September 10, 2020. The motions judge was the same
judge who had conducted the eleven-day hearing that resulted in the September 3, 2019
final custody order.
Father called Mother as an adverse witness and he also testified. Father also
called two other witnesses, but their testimony is not relevant to the issues raised in this
appeal. At the conclusion of the hearing, the motions judge delivered an oral opinion,
which was followed by a written order that was docketed on December 22, 2020. The
order read, in material part, as follows:
ORDERED, that Defendant’s [Father’s] Emergency Motion to
Enforce Court’s Order Regarding Access During COVID[-]19 Pandemic
be, and the same is hereby DENIED; and it is further,
ORDERED, that on each Friday which begins Defendant’s weekend
access, while the minor child is in school virtually, the Defendant shall pick
up the minor child at 3:30 P.M., and thereafter, when school resumes in the
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classroom, Defendant shall pick up the minor child after school on the
Friday which begins his weekend access, as provided in this [c]ourt’s Final
Order entered on September 3, 2019; and it is further,
ORDERED, that each party’s request for an award of attorney’s fees
be, and the same is hereby DENIED; and it is further,
ORDERED, that all other provisions of this [c]ourt’s Final Order,
entered on September 3, 2019, not inconsistent with the provisions of this
Order, shall remain in full force and effect.
In this timely appeal, Father, acting pro se, raises the following questions:1
(1) Did the circuit court err in denying Father make-up time based
upon an incorrect legal premise?
(2) Did the motions judge abuse her discretion when she consulted
with a magistrate judge prior to announcing her decision that she
would not award Father make-up time?
(3) Did the motions judge abuse her discretion in denying the motion
to enforce Wednesday-night access, which Mother denied in part
for over a year?
(4) Did the circuit court err in modifying the court-ordered access for
Father and abuse its discretion in denying the motion to enforce
the weekend-access pick-up time afforded Father?
(5) Did the motions judge abuse her discretion in denying attorney
fees to Father?
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In his brief, Father did not list any questions presented. But he did make four
arguments that we have converted into questions presented; the arguments were: 1) “The
[c]ourt abused its discretion in consulting with a [m]agistrate and denying [a]ppellant
make-up time based upon an incorrect legal premise”; 2) “The [c]ourt erred in modifying
the court-ordered access for [a]ppellant and abused its discretion in denying the motion to
enforce Wednesday-night access, which [a]ppellee denied in part for over a year”; 3)
“The [c]ourt erred in modifying the court-ordered access for [a]ppellant and abused its
discretion in denying the motion to enforce the weekend-access pick-up time afforded
[a]ppellant”; and 4) “The [c]ourt abused its discretion in denying the awarding of
attorney fees to [a]ppellant.”
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Mother, pro se, filed a brief asking us to affirm the order filed on December 2,
2020.2
I.
Background Facts
Both Father and Mother live in the city of Frederick. Since their divorce, the
parties have engaged in almost constant litigation concerning matters of custody and
visitation. While they are both very good parents, the trial judge found that the two are
incapable of cooperating with one another concerning child rearing issues.
At the time of the hearing, S. was 14 years old and a student at Tuscarora High
School in Frederick where he excels academically. In 2018, S. was diagnosed as
suffering from type 1 diabetes, which, fortunately, has been kept under good control.
In March of 2020, Mother became concerned that S. would contract the
coronavirus. More specifically, she feared that if he did contract that virus, he was more
likely than others to have severe medical consequences due to his diabetes. She felt that
her fear was substantiated by medical literature that she reviewed. Because of that fear,
with one exception, Mother and S. did not leave their house for any reason from March
In her brief, Mother recites several “facts” that are unsupported by anything in
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the record. In his reply brief, Father does the same, although to a lesser extent. In this
opinion we have ignored all factual allegations by the parties that are not supported by
the record.
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18 to May 5, 2020.3 During that period, Frederick County public schools were closed
due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
As mentioned, on March 18, 2020, Mother informed Father that she was denying
him the visitation that he was entitled to under the final custody order. Under the terms
of that order, Father was entitled to have weekend visitation with S. starting on Friday,
March 20, 2020 after school until the following Monday at 8:00 A.M. Father was also
entitled to weekend visitation on alternating weekends thereafter. As a consequence of
Mother’s actions, Father was also denied access for the 2020 Easter weekend4 and S.’s
Spring break from school that year.
On May 14, 2020, Governor Hogan announced that he was relaxing the shelter in
place order that previously was in effect. Mother notified Father on that date that she
would allow S. to resume visitation with Father on Friday, May 15, 2020. She also told
Father at that time that because he had missed 18 days of access to S., she would allow
him to have 18 straight days of visitation, i.e., from May 15, 2020 until June 8, 2020.
Father rejected that offer.
At the hearing concerning Father’s motion to enforce, counsel for Father
attempted to undermine Mother’s contention that she withheld access because she feared
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The one exception occurred on May 3, 2020. On that date, S.’s half-sister, who
lives with Father, celebrated her first birthday. On May 3, 2020, Mother drove S. past
Father’s house with the hope of having S. participate in a “drive-by” celebration of his
sister’s birthday. Because the parties did not cooperate, S. did not get to see his sister that
day.
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In 2020, Easter Sunday was on April 12, 2020.
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for S.’s health. Father’s counsel suggested, by his questioning, that Mother had
jeopardized S.’s health by going to Mardi Gras in New Orleans in 2020 during the
pandemic where she caught bronchitis and thereafter, refused to quarantine in Maryland
when she returned from Louisiana. Mother testified that she had bronchitis in February
2020, that Mardi Gras ended on February 25, 2020 and that she was in New Orleans after
the Mardi Gras celebration from March 5 to March 9, 2020. She also testified that to her
knowledge, no person had contracted coronavirus in New Orleans while she was there.5
Mother testified that she cut off Father’s access because, as the parent with
decision making authority concerning medical issues, she feared for S.’s safety. To
compensate Father, she contended that she substantially increased S.’s virtual time with
Father. In that regard, Mother introduced a chart which, if accurate, showed extensive
virtual contact between Father and S. in the March 18 to May 15, 2020 period.
According to Mother, in the last-mentioned period, S. and Father spent many hours
virtually with one another; i.e., on the telephone, on Facebook or playing computer
games. Father testified that the chart introduced by Mother was inaccurate in that it
overstated the amount of virtual contact. According to Father, there were many days
during the approximate two-month period when he was denied telephone and other types
of virtual contact with S.
Mother testified that when she offered 18 days make-up time on May 14, 2020,
Father replied by email that she could “pick [S.] up on Monday [May 18], as stated by the
5
The parties stipulated that the first “presumptive case relating to COVID-19” in
New Orleans was announced on March 9, 2020.
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court order” and that he would “get directions from the [c]ourt on the make-up time.” In
his testimony at the hearing, Father asked the court to award him access to S. for 10
weekends straight (rather than every other weekend), plus access to S. for Easter 2021.
Mother testified that she no longer believed the court should award make-up time.
She explained that her reasons were the same as those that her counsel talked about in his
opening statement, viz.:
I offered him back the 18 days[6] the moment that I could. He refused it,
stopped all negotiations, and said he wants to go to litigation and have the
[c]ourt decide. So, I just don’t think that that’s an appropriate way to, to
co-parent.
During Mother’s testimony, counsel for Father asked several questions as to
whether Mother had abided by the following provision in the final custody order:
ORDERED, that [Mother] be, and she is hereby awarded the sole
physical care and custody of the minor child, subject to rights of visitation,
as expressly delineated herein, afforded to [Father] as follows:
* * *
B. Every Wednesday evening from 6:30 P.M. until 8:15 P.M.,
for the express purpose of attending the Youth Group activity at
[Father’s] church. [Mother] shall drop off and pick up the minor
child at Church. This access need not occur in the event of
illness or injury of the minor child; unforeseen emergent
conditions; the imposition of a snow emergency plan for
Frederick County . . . .
The youth group mentioned in the final custody order was one that Father
conducted, in his capacity as the youth pastor for his church. In response to Father’s
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Previously, Mother in her testimony spoke of 21 days of make-up time but that
offer included three days of visitation (starting May 15, 2020) to which Father was
already entitled.
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complaint that Mother did not take S. to the youth group meetings at 6:30 P.M. but
instead delivered him to the meetings at 7:00 P.M., Mother testified that because the
youth group meeting sometimes started at 6:45 P.M. and sometimes at 7:00 P.M., her
habit was to deliver S. to the church at the actual starting time. Mother testified that
currently the youth group meetings were being held virtually due to the pandemic and S.
“attended those meetings.”
In regard to the youth group meeting, Father stressed that Mother intentionally
disobeyed the court order by ignoring the requirement that she should deliver S. to the
meeting at 6:30 P.M. Nevertheless, he did not contradict Mother’s testimony as to when
the youth meetings started nor did he contend that S. was ever late for a youth group
meeting.
Although the motions judge did not say so explicitly, she indicated by her
comments at the evidentiary hearing, that she did not consider Mother’s “late” arrival at
the youth group meeting to be a serious violation of the final custody order because,
according to the judge, the intent of the provision was to ensure that S. attend the
church’s youth group meeting – not to provide Father with extra visitation rights. Also,
because at the time of the September 10, 2020 hearing the Wednesday meetings were
being held virtually, the issue of when Mother delivered S. to the meetings did not appear
to be a current problem.
At the hearing, it was undisputed that Mother intentionally withheld visitation
from Father for about two months. Father contended that Mother was not justified in
doing so. The motions judge said that because of the pandemic, Mother should have filed
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a motion and requested a modification of the final order; nevertheless, the judge indicated
that Mother’s actions were perhaps understandable because at the time she withheld
visitation, the dangers posed by the pandemic were truly frightening and at that point, no
one knew the dangers posed by the COVID-19 crisis.7
There was one other issue in contention at the September 10 hearing. The final
custody order provided that Father, beginning September 6, 2019, had a right of visitation
with S.:
[E]very other weekend from after school on Friday until Monday at the
beginning of the school day, if school is in session that day or 8:00 A.M.,
whichever occurs first. The [Father] . . . shall pick up the minor child from
school on Friday and deliver the minor child to school on Monday if school
is in session that date. . . . In the summer, [Father] shall retrieve the minor
child from the [Mother’s] residence at 3:30 P.M. on Friday.
Father’s complaint was that prior to the pandemic, at the school that S. attended,
classes stopped at 3:30 P.M. on Friday, but since the pandemic, S.’s virtual classes ended
at noon but Mother refused to allow S. to be picked up until 3:30 P.M. Father’s position
was that this deprived him of over three hours of visitation each weekend that he had a
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After admonishing Mother for disobeying provisions of the final custody order
by means of “self-help,” the judge went on to say:
[t]hat being said, I recognize that we were facing something that was
wholly different than anyone had ever faced before maybe in 1919, or
whatever it was, with the flu pandemic they had going around, but, in our
lifetimes, we had never experienced this. It was very scary and I
understand that. And I understand that [S.] is, in fact, in the very
compromised group. He also is younger, which, you know, I think is
proving out now that the younger you are the better off you are to some
degree, but he is in the group that is more heavily affected by this virus as
we know it today.
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right of access. At the hearing, Mother’s testimony as to why she did not allow Father to
pick up S. earlier on Fridays was based on the school schedule. That schedule provided
that between 8:30 A.M. and noon, classes and other activities were to be conducted
virtually; thereafter, a one-half hour lunch break was to begin. The school schedule then
spelled out what was to occur during the periods between 12:30 and 1:45 P.M. Under the
heading “Student Support,” the schedule for that time period read:
• Virtual F2F [Face to Face] Instruction
• Intervention
• On-Line Resource and Service Delivery
• IEP/EL Skill Recovery
Activities for the period between 1:45 P.M. and 3:30 P.M., were listed under the heading
“Self-Directed Student Work Time” as follows:
• Reading and researching
• Completing projects
• Responding to teacher feedback
• Engaging in online lessons and practice
Mother explained that she kept S. until 3:30 P.M. on Fridays because the school schedule
indicated that school was open until 3:30 P.M. In her words, “[i]f they [the high school
authorities] intended kids to stop at 12:00, they would have ended at 12:00. And, so, I
just want to protect that time, so [S.] has the time to do his work.” Put another way,
according to Mother, the school had issued a schedule that states that between 1:45 and
3:30 P.M., “Monday through Friday there’s supposed to be self-directed student work
time,” and she abided by that schedule. Father, in his testimony, contended that under the
school schedule, between 12:30 and 3:30 P.M., S. was supposed to be doing homework,
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and that S. could do his homework at Father’s house just as conveniently as at Mother’s
residence.
Additional facts will be set forth in order to answer the questions presented.
II.
Make-Up Time
Father contends that the motions judge abused her discretion in denying him
make-up time because the court’s denial was based on “an incorrect legal premise.” In
her oral ruling concerning make-up time, the trial judge said:
[Father] wants make-up time, and that’s where I get to this isn’t a
contract case. If this were a contract case, I could say write a check for X
amount of dollars, and that will remedy this problem. My concern is what
is best for [S.], and I gave a custody order that I believed was necessary for
[S.’s] best interest last year. I still believe that schedule is necessary for
[S.’s] best interest. You [S.’s parents] cannot communicate historically.
Through [many] days of trial [in 2019, it has] become very, very clear, even
about basic medical decisions you can’t communicate, you can’t agree. I
can’t, in good conscience, say that in order to rectify this, I go away from
what I already decided what was in [S.’s] best interest.
So, therefore, I’m not going to give you any make-up time, because
it’s not about making you whole. It is about [S.’s] daily life, and I
understand [S.] was harmed by not seeing you, I’m not disagreeing with
that. We were all harmed [by COVID-19]. All of these kids that are sitting
at desks in their home are being harmed. Some of that is there’s nothing
anyone can do about it. Nobody likes it, but there’s nothing anyone can do
about it, but I found previously that the schedule I outlined was what was
necessary given the level of distrust and discord between the two of you,
and I still find that that’s accurate.
So, therefore, the motion for make-up time is denied, but I am going
to caution [Mother] very strongly that a motion is required [to change the
final custody order]. Sole legal or whatever, does not give you authority to
say I’m overriding the visitation schedule that this [c]ourt ordered, that is
not accurate. You must file a motion, but, again, the acrimony and distrust
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is so great that I don’t find a modification of the order I had entered to
make-up visitation is appropriate.
(Emphasis added.)
Father takes issue with the part of the judge’s opinion where she said, “I’m not
going to give you any make-up time, because it’s [the decision as to whether or not to
award make-up time] not about making you whole. It is about [S.’s] daily life[.]” In
support of his contention that the aforementioned statement was not “supported by law,”
Father directs our attention to Maryland Code (2019 Repl. Vol.), Family Law Article, §
9-105, which provides:
In any custody or visitation proceeding, if the court determines that a party
to a custody or visitation order has unjustifiably denied or interfered with
visitation granted by a custody or visitation order, the court may, in
addition to any other remedy available to the court and in a manner
consistent with the best interests of the child, take any or all of the
following actions:
(1) order that the visitation be rescheduled;
(2) modify the custody or visitation order to require additional terms or
conditions designed to ensure future compliance with the order; or
(3) assess costs or counsel fees against the party who has unjustifiably
denied or interfered with visitation rights.
(Emphasis added.)
As can be seen, in enacting § 9-105, the General Assembly used the word “may.”
“The word ‘may’ is generally considered to be permissive, as opposed to mandatory,
language.” Board of Physician Quality Assurance v. Mullan, 381 Md. 157, 166 (2004);
Brodsky v. Brodsky, 319 Md. 92, 98 (1990). See also Planning Comm. v. Silkor
Development Corp., 246 Md. 516, 522-24 (1967) (absent clear legislative indication to
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the contrary, “may” is generally presumed to apply in a “permissive sense.”). Because
the legislature used the word “may,” and because there is no indication that the
legislature did not intend the word to be interpreted as permissive, it was not mandatory
that the court award make-up time when, as here, one parent unjustifiably denies another
visitation. Thus, in order for Father to prevail as to the first question presented, he must
demonstrate that the motions judge abused her discretion in not granting him make-up
time.
The analytical paradigm by which we assess whether a trial court’s
actions constitute an abuse of discretion has been stated frequently. In
Wilson v. John Crane, Inc., 385 Md. 185 (2005), for example, we iterated
[t]here is an abuse of discretion “where no reasonable person
would take the view adopted by the [trial] court[ ]” . . . or
when the court acts “without reference to any guiding
principles.” An abuse of discretion may also be found where
the ruling under consideration is “clearly against the logic and
effect of facts and inferences before the court[ ]” . . . or when
the ruling is “violative of fact and logic.”
Questions within the discretion of the trial court are
“much better decided by the trial judges than by appellate
courts, and the decisions of such judges should be disturbed
where it is apparent that some serious error or abuse of
discretion or autocratic action has occurred.” In sum, to be
reversed “[t]he decision under consideration has to be well
removed from any center mark imagined by the reviewing
court and beyond the fringe of what that court[] deems
minimally acceptable.”
385 Md. at 198-99 (quoting In re Adoption/Guardianship No. 3598, 347
Md. 295, 312-13 (1997)). An abuse of discretion, therefore, “should only
be found in the extraordinary, exceptional, or most egregious case.”
Wilson, 385 Md. at 199.
Pasteur v. Skevofilax, 396 Md. 405, 418-19 (2007).
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Relying on § 9-105, appellant contends that “Maryland law specifies that ordering
the rescheduling of visitation is just one of the remedies available to the court for the
purpose of making the party, which was unjustifiably denied visitation, whole.”
(emphasis added). Contrary to what is implied in the above argument, the statute does
not specify that the purpose of § 9-105 is to “make whole” the party that is unjustifiably
denied visitation. The statute simply gives the court the option of ordering make-up time,
but the court is not required to exercise that option. In fact, the statute provides that in
order to exercise the option, such an award must be “consistent with the best interests of
the child[.]” Here, the motions judge explained that she did not believe it to be in the best
interests of S. to order make-up time. The court’s decision was understandable. After
all, at the time of the September 10, 2020 hearing, approximately three and one-half
months had expired since Mother allowed Father to resume visitation in accordance with
the court order. After that lapse of time, arguably at least, it might well be disruptive to
S.’s routine if, rather than keeping him on the every other weekend visitation schedule
with Father, the court ordered that Father have access for ten straight weekends as Father
requested.
It is true, as the motions judge stated, that Mother’s actions in denying visitation to
Father for almost two months was harmful to S. But that does not necessarily mean that
the harm could be erased or even ameliorated by ordering make-up time, nor does it mean
that it would be in S.’s best interests to do so.
Father disagrees, arguing that:
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The [c]ourt makes the confusing argument that withholding make-up time
from the Defendant is in the best interests of the child because the court
believed the schedule ordered in September 2019 was in the child’s best
interests the previous year and that the court could not go away from what
was already decided a year earlier. However, this was not a modification of
custody hearing. This simple hearing was to enforce the court order and
provide missed like-time back to the Appellant, which the Appellee initially
recommended to the [c]ourt in its motion Plaintiff’s Preliminary
Opposition to Defendant’s Emergency Motion to Enforce Court’s Order
Regarding Access During Covid[-]19 Pandemic, “that the [c]ourt provide
for make-up time between the Defendant and the minor child, day-for-day.”
(References to transcript omitted.)
Contrary to the implication in the above argument, the trial judge did not
misinterpret the statute. It is clear that the trial judge knew what remedies were available
to her under § 9-105 of the Family Law Article. Moreover, there is no indication that the
judge was confused as to whether she could change what had been previously ordered.
As earlier mentioned, the wording of the statute makes it clear that it is within the court’s
discretion as to whether to utilize any of the remedies set forth in § 9-105. And, whether,
as here, both parties agreed at one time that make-up time should be ordered, the court
was not bound by any such agreement. For the above reasons, we hold that Father has
not met his heavy burden of showing that the trial judge abused her discretion by refusing
to grant him make-up time.
III.
The Judge’s Conversation with the Magistrate
In her oral opinion, the motions judge explained at length that the parties could not
communicate or attempt to work things out because they were “entrenched in the fight.”
The judge then said:
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I was talking to one of our magistrates about this case, and she said,
and I think it is really appropriate, this isn’t a contract case where the
purpose of damages in a contract case is to make you whole; that’s not the
purpose of a child custody case. The purpose of a child custody case is [to
decide what is in] the best interest[s] of [S.]
Father argues that the motions judge abused her discretion by “consulting with a
[m]agistrate” prior to rendering her decision. Appellant’s precise argument in this regard
is as follows:
The [c]ourt is required to make its own independent decision as to the
ultimate disposition of any case although it can be guided by a magistrate’s
recommendation. The Domingue[s]-Kirchner standard, requires the court
to conduct an “independent review of the record and of the facts found . . .
and apply its independent judgment in reaching its conclusions.” In this
case, the court heard both parties and then consulted with a magistrate
behind closed doors to determine that “this isn’t a contract case where the
purposes of damages in a contract case is to make you (Appellant) whole.”
Besides the fact that the [m]agistrate did not hear either party and was not
present in the court room to hear the case and could not logically or with
integrity make an educated decision in just a few minutes, the court’s
decision to follow the recommendations of a [m]agistrate that was neither
present for the hearing nor known to either party is an abuse of discretion.
(Reference to transcript omitted.)
When the judge’s remarks are read in context, it is clear that the judge made her
own independent decision as to whether to award make-up time. What the magistrate
judge said was legally correct and, in essence, the trial judge simply said that she agreed
with the magistrate judge’s legal analysis. In other words, contrary to Father’s argument,
the record does not support his contention that the trial judge, rather than rendering an
independent decision, allowed a magistrate judge to make the decision, as to whether to
grant make-up time, for her.
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IV.
Wednesday Night Youth Group Meeting
Father argues that the trial judge “erred in modifying the court-ordered access for
[Father] and abused its discretion in denying the motion to enforce Wednesday-night
access, which [Mother] denied in part for over a year.” This argument concerns the fact
that Mother brought S. to Father’s church’s youth group at 6:45 P.M. and sometimes at
7:00 P.M., rather than at 6:30 P.M., which was the time set forth in the final custody
order. It was clear from the testimony that, with one exception, Mother delivered S. to
the meetings at the time those meetings actually started, which was always after 6:30
P.M. The one exception was on Wednesday, March 18, 2020, when Mother, due to the
pandemic, did not deliver S. to the meeting at all.
At the hearing, Father never indicated that S. was ever late for the youth group
meetings. Instead, he took the rigid position that Mother’s conduct constituted a
violation of his right to access. But, in a colloquy with Father’s counsel, the motions
judge indicated that she believed, as the author of the order at issue, that the purpose of
that provision was to ensure that S. could attend the meeting of the youth group, which
Father happened to lead, but the provision was not intended to grant additional visitation
as that term is usually understood.
In this appeal, Father points out, accurately, that the provision at issue appears in
the section of the final custody order that governs “visitation.” Nevertheless, even
assuming, arguendo, that Mother was wrong in failing to deliver S. to the youth group
meetings at 6:30 P.M., by the time of the September 2020 hearing, those meetings were
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all being held virtually and, as far as shown by the record, S. was on time for the virtual
meetings. In other words, the problem had been resolved. Because S. never was late for
the youth group meetings, it is impossible to see how it would be in S.’s best interests to
award make-up time on the grounds that S. did not arrive at the youth group meetings
earlier than the scheduled start time. And, aside from awarding make-up time, there was
nothing else the judge could have done to remedy this “wrong.”8
Father also argues that the trial judge erred in “modifying the court-ordered
access” insofar as it concerns the Wednesday night meetings. The short answer to that
contention is that there was no such modification in the court’s December 22, 2020 order.
This is shown by the last paragraph of that order quoted, supra, at page five.
V.
Friday Pick-Up Time
Father next argues that the court “erred in modifying the court-ordered access for
[Father] and abused its discretion in denying the motion to enforce the weekend-access
pick-up time afforded [Father].9 This argument concerns the part of the final custody
order (see page 1, supra) stating that Father’s weekend visitation started “after school” on
“Friday[s].” Father contends that since visitation resumed on May 15, 2020, S. has been
taught virtually and those virtual sessions ended at noon; therefore, he asserts that Mother
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Father never asked the judge to hold Mother in contempt.
9
In his motion to enforce, Father failed to allege that Mother denied him access
time by altering the Friday pick-up hours. The reason for this failure is that the problem
did not arise until students, such as S., began attending school virtually – which was after
the date the Father filed his motion to enforce.
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acted improperly in not allowing him to pick S. up at noon. But if Mother’s testimony
was credited, authorities at S.’s school published a schedule that showed that S.’s school
day was not finished at noon on Fridays. Students were required to do schoolwork until
3:30 P.M. on Fridays. In this regard, the motions judge orally ruled as follows:
I looked at the [final custody] order. The court order says that, when
school is in session, he will retrieve the child from school. It does say in
the summer it will be 3:30. Right now or maybe, I don’t know, he may
have virtual face-to-face instruction, he may have online resource and
service still over, he may have some of these blocks filled in that maybe
aren’t being utilized right now, I’m not sure, but the school day ends at 3:30
p.m., and that is when the parties will exchange [S.]. It doesn’t end at 12
o’clock. It doesn’t end at 11:20. The school day ends at 3:30, and that is
when the parties will exchange [S.]; that was the easier part.
Father complains that when his attorney was making his opening statement, the
motions judge agreed that the school day ended at 12:00 P.M. The record shows that the
judge did not make a ruling at that point. Read in context, the motions judge was simply
making inquiry as to Father’s position as to when the school day ended.
Father also contends that Mother acknowledged that “school ended at 12:00 P.M.”
As can be seen from the re-cap of Mother’s testimony set forth above, Mother made no
such acknowledgment. She testified, based on the school schedule, that there is
“supposed to be self-directed student work time” Monday through Friday between 1:45
and 3:30 P.M., and if the school intended the day to end at 12:00 P.M., the school system
would not have it on its schedule that school ended at 3:30 P.M.
There was merit in Mother’s position. If a student obeyed the school schedule, it
is clear that he or she was not allowed to play games or pursue other recreational
activities between 12:30 P.M. and 3:30 P.M. on Fridays. Instead, until 3:30 P.M., the
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school day was not finished because students were supposed to engage in such things as
“Virtual F2F Instructions” and [r]esponding to teacher feedback.” Because the school
day was not finished, Father had no right to pick up S. at noon even if Father was correct
when he said that S. could do schoolwork at his home just as well as at Mother’s. We
therefore hold that the judge was not clearly erroneous when she found that the pick-up
time for Father’s weekend visitation was 3:30 P.M. and not noon.
Father makes a related argument that advances some of the same contentions that
we have already considered and rejected. He phrases his argument as follows:
As [Father] stated that school ended at noon, and as [Mother]
acknowledged that school ended at noon but did not want to release him
because the child had homework, and as the court acknowledged that
school ended at noon, the child should have been released to [Father] at
noon per the court order. The fact that the child may or may not have
homework at the end of the school day is irrelevant to the pick-up time of
the child. Furthermore, the modification of the court order was not
requested by either party in any motion and adds further confusion
regarding the pick-up time of the child. Currently, there is more litigation
of the pick-up time[10] because school ends at 12PM as verified by the
child’s principal and documentation, but the [Mother] refuses to release the
child to the [Father], coming up with her own arbitrary end-of-school time
of 2:30 P.M. [sic]. The [c]ourt continues to be silent on the issue, declining
to rule one way or the other, assumedly until the school year is over and the
motion becomes moot. Modifying the court order absent a motion to do so,
so that [Father’s] already limited time with the child is further reduced by 3
hours every-other-weekend, is an abuse of discretion.
The above arguments are inconsistent in that Father contends, on the one hand,
that the motions judge declined to make a ruling as to the time the school day ended and,
10
While his appeal was pending, Father, on February 5, 2021, filed a “Motion to
Modify Access/Pick-Up Time.”
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on the other hand, complains that the court, without request, modified the prior order
insofar as it dealt with the issue of the Friday pick-up time. In any event, as already
mentioned (see page 5, supra), the court, in its December 22, 2020 order, second
paragraph, did decide the pick-up time issue and the court did so for good reason
inasmuch as Father’s attorney specifically asked the court to decide that issue.11
Contrary to Father’s argument, the court did not modify the order in such a way as
to give Father less visitation than that to which he was entitled. Instead, the order simply
announced the court’s ruling concerning an issue that arose after the motion for an
emergency order was filed and had developed into another source of disagreement
between the parties. After reviewing the school schedule that was introduced into
evidence together with the testimony of the parties, the motions judge concluded that the
school day for S. ended at 3:30 P.M. on Fridays, which was the same time that it ended in
September 2019, when the final custody order was filed. The school schedule
(defendant’s exhibit 1) supported the judge’s conclusion that school ended at 3:30 P.M.
11
In his opening statement, Father’s counsel said:
[Father] has been asking if he could pick him up early on Fridays. I think
when the parties testified before you before at the custody trial, [Mother]
said she’s not wanting to do anything to keep him from having time with
his dad, and he’s been asking if he could pick him up early on Friday. And,
so, that’s something [Father] would ask the [c]ourt to award. [Mother] has
been indicating that she wants him to pick him up at 3:30. So, that’s the
parties’ positions, he’d like the noon, she’d like the 3:30, unless she’s
changed since they last e-mailed each other.
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We hold that the judge did not abuse her discretion when she resolved this minor
dispute or when she signed the December 22, 2020 order that reflected that resolution.
VI.
Attorney’s Fees
Father contends that the trial judge erred in failing to award him attorney’s fees.
In support of that contention, he directs our attention to Family Law Article, § 12-103
which provides:
(a) The court may award to either party the costs and counsel fees that are
just and proper under all the circumstances in any case in which a
person:
* * *
(2) files any form of proceeding:
* * *
(iii) to enforce a decree of custody or visitation.
(b) Before a court may award costs and counsel fees under this section, the
court shall consider:
(1) the financial status of each party;
(2) the needs of each party; and
(3) whether there was substantial justification for bringing, maintaining,
or defending the proceeding.
(c) Upon a finding by the court that there was an absence of substantial
justification of a party for prosecuting or defending the proceeding, and
absent a finding by the court of good cause to the contrary, the court
shall award to the other party costs and counsel fees.
(Emphasis added.)
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Here, the motions judge did not make a finding that Mother lacked substantial
justification in defending against Father’s motion to enforce. The judge explained her
reason for denying both parties their request for attorney’s fees, by saying:
As to attorney’s fees, [Mother] should have filed a motion [to
modify custody order] and she did not. [Father] should have communicated
with her, and he did not. When she said I’ll give you 18 days, I wouldn’t
have done that, which is clear here today. He should have said, instead of,
no, you took away Easter, and you took away my time, and the first
birthday of my other child, so we’ll let the [c]ourt decide. He should have
said I want the next 10 weekends straight, and I want next Easter, will you
do that. She probably would have agreed, but he wanted to come to court,
because, again, it’s about the fight, and it’s an awful expensive way to
spend your life. It’s a horrible way for [S.] to spend his life.
So, both requests for attorney’s fees are denied.
As can be seen, Family Law Article Section 12-103(a)(2)(iii) states that the “court
may award . . . counsel fees” in “any form of proceeding” that a person files “to enforce a
decree of custody or visitation.” (emphasis added). Whether to award attorney’s fees
under § 12-103(a) is a decision that rests in the discretion of the trial or motions judge.
Petrini v. Petrini, 336 Md. 453, 468 (1994).
Father contends that the judge abused her discretion in failing to award him
attorney’s fees because he “provided ample evidence that he attempted to work out a
solution with [Mother] prior to filing any proceeding in court.” The emails that were
exchanged between the parties prior to March 27, 2020, the date when the emergency
motion was filed, provided no evidence that Father “attempted to work out a solution”
with Mother. He offered no compromise. Instead, both parties announced their positions
and thereafter refused to budge. More important, and as stressed by the motions judge,
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once the emergency motion was filed, Father made no attempt to resolve the matter
without further litigation. Mother offered Father day-for-day make-up time from May 15
to June 8, 2020, but Father did not even bother to make a counteroffer. The motions
judge did not abuse her discretion in finding, in effect, that by failing to make a
counteroffer, Father did not have substantial justification for continuing to litigate the
make-up time issue, which was by far the main issue that separated the parties.
Father argues that he was justified in filing the March 27, 2020 emergency motion.
This is true. But this does not necessarily mean that Mother, in light of the pandemic, did
not have substantial justification in defending against the emergency motion. After all, as
the trial judge pointed out (see page 11 note 6, supra), the COVID-19 pandemic created
grave and deadly risks that could not have been anticipated by anyone at the time the
final custody order was signed. The court faulted Mother only for what she failed to do,
i.e., file a motion to modify the custody order based on the health concerns that arose
because of the pandemic. The court, with ample support in the record, found that both
parties failed to compromise because they put the urge to fight one another in court over
S.’s best interests, and as a consequence, both parties were at fault: Mother, because she
did not file a motion to modify, and Father, because once he filed the emergency motion,
he made no attempt to resolve the matter.
Father also takes issue with the judge’s statement that Father “did not
communicate with” Mother. According to Father, this “is clear error as [he] both testified
to communicating with [Mother] and exhibited multiple emails and text messages
between the two parties.” There was evidence in the record to support the motion judge’s
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statement that, prior to filing the emergency motion, Father failed to communicate with
Mother. For example, in one of the emails that Mother sent to Father shortly before the
emergency motion was filed, Mother expressed concern about the fact that Father’s
stepson, who lived with Father, worked at a McDonald’s restaurant. Mother’s concern
was that because the stepson worked in such a public place, the stepson might be exposed
to the coronavirus, and S., if he stayed in the same house with the stepson, might contract
the virus. It turned out that by the time Mother expressed concern about the stepson’s
exposure, the latter had already stopped working at McDonald’s. But in the email
exchange that preceded the filing of the emergency motion, Father never attempted to
alleviate Mother’s concerns by sending her an email telling her this.
Next, Father takes issue with the following sentence set forth in the judge’s oral
opinion. The offending sentence is: “when she [Mother] said I’ll give you 18 days, I
wouldn’t have done that, which is clear here today.” Father’s complaint is that the trial
judge gave no explanation as to why she “would not do that.” We disagree. In her oral
opinion, the judge said that it was not in the best interests of S., after regular visitation
had been restored, to interrupt the rhythm of the usual alternate weekend (Friday to
Monday) visitation schedule.
Lastly, Father takes issue with the statement in the judge’s opinion in which she
opined that Father: “should have said I want the next 10 weekends straight, and I want
next Easter, will you do that? She [Mother] probably would have agreed, but he wanted
to come to court, because, again, it’s about the fight and it’s an awful expensive way to
spend your life.” Father’s precise criticism of that statement is that it overlooked the fact
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that Father was compelled to file the emergency motion. The judge plainly did not
overlook that fact. She was simply making the point that once litigation had commenced,
Father showed no inclination to compromise but just wanted to continue to litigate. The
history of this case and the trial transcript amply supported the trial judge’s view of
Father’s motives.
In summary, the motions judge had discretion as to whether to award attorney’s
fees to Father under § 12-103(a) of the Family Law Article. To prove that the judge
abused her discretion in failing to award attorney’s fees, Father was required to show that
“no reasonable person would take the view adopted by the [trial] court.” Wilson v.
Crane, Inc., 385 Md. 185, 198 (2005). In this case, Father has not made such a showing.
JUDGMENT AFFIRMED; COSTS TO BE
PAID BY APPELLANT.
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