Paul L. Pasternak v. Denise M. Pasternak , 467 S.W.3d 264 ( 2015 )


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  •                SUPREME COURT OF MISSOURI
    en banc
    PAUL L. PASTERNAK,                        )
    )
    Appellant,                         )
    )
    vs.                                       )      No. SC94488
    )
    DENISE M. PASTERNAK,                      )
    )
    Respondent.                        )
    APPEAL FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF ST. FRANCOIS COUNTY
    Honorable Shawn Ragan McCarver, Judge
    Opinion issued August 18, 2015
    Paul Pasternak (Father) appeals the trial court’s judgment (1) approving relocation
    by Denise Pasternak (Mother) and (2) modifying custody from joint legal and physical
    custody to joint physical custody, but giving Mother sole legal custody of the couple’s
    two children. This Court rejects Father’s contention that the trial court’s determination of
    both issues was not supported by substantial evidence. Substantial evidence supported
    the trial court’s approval of Mother’s relocation and finding that the relocation was
    sought in good faith. This included evidence that Mother lost her teaching job and found
    a new job that would require her to move about 56 miles away, that she had identified a
    good school for the children in the new area, and that the children were familiar with that
    area and would have a support network there as Mother’s family lived nearby.
    Substantial evidence also supported the trial court’s finding that relocation was in
    the best interests of the children. This Court rejects Father’s argument that the trial court
    judgment should be reversed because the fact that the children will be 56 miles farther
    away means that his contact with them will be reduced. It can be in a child’s best
    interests to relocate with a parent to a different community when the trial court
    determines it is in the child’s best interests to continue to live with that particular parent
    even though that parent’s circumstances require the parent to move. Missouri law makes
    only lack of good faith a determinative factor in deciding whether to allow relocation.
    Section 452.375.2 1 directs the trial court to weigh a variety of other factors, including
    frequency of contact, in determining whether relocation is in a child’s best interests.
    Here, the trial court approved a parenting plan that continued to allow the children
    substantial time with Father, who retained joint physical custody, and the record provides
    substantial evidence to support the trial court’s determination that relocation was proper
    based on the statutory factors.
    The record also contains substantial evidence supporting a change from joint to
    sole legal custody in Mother based on the evidence that Mother and Father’s relationship
    was so contentious that they could not effectively function, communicate, or make joint
    decisions regarding the children, and that Father’s negative conduct had a deleterious
    impact on the children. Affirmed.
    I.       STATEMENT OF FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
    Father was a teacher at the North County School District in Farmington, Missouri.
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    All statutory citations are to RSMo 2000 unless otherwise indicated.
    Mother was a tenured teacher at the Central R-III School District in that same city.
    Mother and Father dissolved their marriage in September 2011.           The judgment of
    dissolution granted Mother and Father joint legal and joint physical custody of their two
    minor children: A.J.P., male, aged 6 at the time of the dissolution, and A.P.P., male, aged
    3 at the time of the dissolution. The children’s primary residence was with Mother,
    although Father retained the marital home. Both residences were in Farmington. Father
    had care of the children each week from Wednesday evening until Thursday morning and
    every other weekend from Friday evening until Monday morning. Mother and Father
    shared holidays and divided the summer equally, with each parent receiving alternate
    weeks. Father also received seven days to use at any time so long as he provided certain
    notice to Mother. In general, Mother attended to the children’s appointments, illnesses,
    and other needs, while Father was the “activities” parent, being highly involved in the
    children’s recreational and extracurricular activities, especially during the summer.
    Father, but not Mother, was Catholic, and Father arranged for A.J.P. to receive religious
    training in Catholicism on Wednesday evenings. A.J.P. completed this religious training
    after the dissolution.
    Mother and Father experienced serious difficulties exercising their joint legal and
    physical custody of the children. A particular conflict between the parents revolved
    around A.J.P.’s diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Mother
    supported A.J.P. regularly taking the prescription drug Adderall for his ADHD as
    directed by his physician. Father did not agree with A.J.P’s diagnosis and refused to
    administer the drug to A.J.P., even after a second opinion confirmed the diagnosis. Only
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    after a third opinion confirmed the diagnosis did Father reluctantly begin administering
    the medication during the week, but he continued to refuse to administer it on weekends,
    contending that a physician stated that it was up to the parents as to whether they
    administered the medication on weekends. Father also told A.J.P. to inform Mother that
    A.J.P. would not take the medication and that the medication could cause him to die.
    Father’s statements became a source of great stress to A.J.P, not only because of fear of
    death but also because Mother and Father gave conflicting instructions with regard to the
    medication.
    In addition, Mother and Father engaged in near-constant arguments and other
    inappropriate behavior regarding other issues, including, but not limited to:
    (1)    Father and Mother, but more so Father, disparaging the other parent in the
    presence of the children;
    (2)    Father disparaging Mother’s significant other to the children, resulting in
    the children making an inappropriate remark to Mother’s significant other;
    (3)    Father and Mother getting in petty arguments over minor violations of
    exchange times;
    (4)    Father and Mother, but more so Father, giving conflicting instructions to
    the children’s daycare provider;
    (5)    Mother refusing to allow Father’s relatives to pick up the children for lunch
    or when Father might have been late due to work commitments;
    (6)    Father and Mother disagreeing over whether the children should continue to
    go to catechism classes in Father’s religion or go to Mother’s new church;
    (7)    Father and Mother, but more so Father, creating embarrassing situations in
    public places in the presence of children;
    (8)    Father and Mother involving police in exchanges that should not require the
    police if the parents were cooperative;
    (9)    Mother setting and arranging appointments without consulting Father,
    although somewhat necessitated by Father’s failure to cooperate;
    (10)   Father discussing “alleged inappropriate behavior” of Mother in front of the
    children;
    (11)   Mother engaging in manipulative behavior in an attempt to assert possible
    sexual abuse by Father, no proof of which was ever offered;
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    (12)    Mother failing to send the children to summer school for all scheduled
    days; and
    (13)    Mother changing child care providers without consultation with Father.
    Mother moved to modify the dissolution judgment, requesting that she be given
    sole legal and physical custody. Mother highlighted the disagreements between the
    parties and emphasized Father’s resistance to administering A.J.P.’s prescribed
    medication.    Father requested that the dissolution judgment remain unchanged and,
    during discovery, asked whether Mother intended to relocate the children’s residence.
    Mother initially stated that she had no intention of relocating. While the motion to
    modify was pending, however, Mother learned that her teaching contract would not be
    renewed as a result of work difficulties she began having around the time of the
    dissolution.   She, therefore, resigned and began applying for teaching jobs at other
    schools in Farmington as well as in other cities in southeast Missouri, including Avery,
    Bloomfield, Clearwater, Doniphan, Fredericktown, Greenville, Poplar Bluff, and Ste.
    Genevieve.     Mother accepted a position in Greenville with a salary approximately
    $14,000 less than her salary had been in Farmington. Because of that decrease in salary,
    Mother believed that she could not afford housing in Farmington or gas for the commute
    from Farmington. Mother, therefore, planned to live in Silva, which is near Greenville
    and which is where Mother’s parents and other family members live. Silva is 56 miles
    away from Farmington.
    Because she would need to move for her job, in May 2013, while the custody
    motion was pending, Mother gave Father notice of her intent to relocate the children from
    Farmington to Silva, as required by section 452.377. Father filed a petition to prohibit
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    relocation and a counter-motion to modify, requesting sole legal and physical custody.
    Father argued that Mother’s proposed relocation would prevent him from maintaining an
    active role in the children’s lives. Mother responded that she was relocating because she
    lost her job in Farmington and that the children would benefit from being away from
    Mother and Father’s negative relationship and by being closer to her family in Silva.
    Mother’s proposed relocation and the parties’ respective motions to modify
    proceeded to a bench trial. First, the trial court approved Mother’s proposed relocation,
    finding that Mother’s proposal was made in good faith and that relocation was in the best
    interests of the children. Second, with “relocation being allowed by the [trial court] as
    well as all of the other facts of this case,” the trial court modified legal custody of the
    children from joint legal custody to sole legal custody in favor of Mother. The trial court
    concluded that Mother and Father should continue to share joint physical custody of the
    children. 2 The trial court prepared a modified parenting plan that it found was in the best
    interests of the children. That plan gave Father 143 overnight visits, including primary
    physical custody in the summer months, but no longer provided for Wednesday night
    visitation as distance made that impractical.       Father appealed, arguing that the trial
    court’s holdings as to both issues were not supported by substantial evidence. Following
    an opinion by the court of appeals, this Court granted transfer. Mo. Const. art. V, § 10.
    II.      STANDARD OF REVIEW
    This Court will affirm the circuit court’s judgment unless there is no substantial
    evidence to support it, it is against the weight of the evidence, or it erroneously declares
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    Mother also filed a motion for contempt, which the trial court overruled.
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    or applies the law. Murphy v. Carron, 
    536 S.W.2d 30
    , 32 (Mo. banc 1976). “Substantial
    evidence is evidence that, if believed, has some probative force on each fact that is
    necessary to sustain the circuit court’s judgment.” Ivie v. Smith, 
    439 S.W.3d 189
    , 199
    (Mo. banc 2014). “To prevail on [a] substantial-evidence challenge, [the appellant] must
    demonstrate that there is no evidence in the record tending to prove a fact that is
    necessary to sustain the circuit court’s judgment as a matter of law.” 
    Id. at 200.
    When
    reviewing whether the circuit court’s judgment is supported by substantial evidence, this
    Court views “the evidence in the light most favorable to the circuit court’s judgment and
    defer[s] to the circuit court’s credibility determinations.” 
    Id. This Court
    “accept[s] as
    true the evidence and inferences … favorable to the trial court’s decree and disregard[s]
    all contrary evidence.” 
    Id., quoting Zweig
    v. Metro. St. Louis Sewer Dist., 
    412 S.W.3d 223
    , 231 (Mo. banc 2013).
    III.   SUBSTANTIAL EVIDENCE SUPPORTS THE TRIAL COURT’S JUDGMENT
    A.     Trial Court’s Decision to Approve Relocation Was Supported by
    Substantial Evidence
    Father argues that the trial court’s decision to approve relocation was not
    supported by substantial evidence.     This Court disagrees.     Section 452.377 governs
    relocation. Section 452.377.1 states: “For purposes of this section and section 452.375,
    ‘relocate’ or ‘relocation’ means a change in the principal residence of a child for a period
    of ninety days or more, but does not include a temporary absence from the principal
    residence.” Section 452.377.9 states: “The party seeking to relocate shall have the
    burden of proving that the proposed relocation is made in good faith and is in the best
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    interest of the child.” (Emphasis added.) “Sections 452.377 and 452.375 … are part of a
    single statutory scheme and must be read together.” Abernathy v. Meier, 
    45 S.W.3d 917
    ,
    924 (Mo. App. 2001). A relocation analysis, therefore, requires that where, as here, the
    principal residence is changed for a period of 90 days or more, the trial court must
    determine whether the proposed relocation (1) is made in good faith and (2) is in the best
    interest of the children.
    1. Good Faith Determination
    Section 452.377 does not define “good faith,” but it “references the relocating
    parent’s motivation or purpose for relocating. In that regard, our appellate courts have
    essentially defined [good faith] as the relocating parent’s motive or purpose for relocating
    being something other than to disrupt or deprive the non-relocating parent of contact with
    the children.” Swisher v. Swisher, 
    124 S.W.3d 477
    , 481 (Mo. App. 2003). Father argues
    that the trial court’s determination that Mother’s request for relocation was made in good
    faith was not supported by substantial evidence. This Court disagrees.
    Mother presented evidence that she resigned from her job in Farmington when she
    received notice that her contract was not going to be renewed. That nonrenewal was
    based on her continued inattention to her work during the period just before, during, and
    after the dissolution action, despite numerous warnings.       While Father claimed that
    Mother deliberately performed deficiently in her job to give herself an excuse to relocate,
    Mother denied that she wanted to lose her job and testified that, but for the loss of her
    job, she would not have applied for permission to relocate. She also testified that, even
    after she lost her job, she applied for another job in Farmington itself as well as for jobs
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    in nine different school districts; only some of these jobs would have required relocation.
    The Greenville position was the closer of the two positions that showed an interest and it
    was located near other family, so she and the children would have a support network.
    She, therefore, accepted the position. 3   Because the new job resulted in a significant
    salary decrease, however, she did not think she could afford the cost of commuting from
    Farmington, and, therefore, applied for permission to relocate.
    Based on this evidence, the trial court said it was “not convinced that Mother
    intentionally lost her employment or intentionally took a substantial pay cut to arrange a
    move closer to her significant other or her own parents.” It concluded:
    Under the circumstances, given the inability of the parents to effectively
    communicate, the loss of employment, and the other circumstances of this
    case, the Court does not believe Mother’s request to relocate to the same
    area where her parents live is made for any bad motive. The Court,
    therefore, finds that Mother’s request to relocate is made in good faith.
    Father asks this Court to hold that the trial court’s holding that the relocation was
    made in good faith was not based on substantial evidence. In support, he points to
    contrary evidence he presented that he believes shows that Mother is not credible, that
    she fabricated the need for the move by purposely losing her job, and that this conduct
    shows that Mother’s real motive for relocation was to remove Father from the children’s
    day-to-day lives.
    3
    One of the other districts to which Mother applied was Potosi. Potosi had no posted
    openings at the time of Mother’s application, however, and when she was offered the
    Greenville position she accepted it. Potosi later called Mother to offer her an interview,
    but as that did not occur until after she had accepted the Greenville position, and as she
    would have to pay a penalty to withdraw from Greenville after acceptance and she had no
    way of knowing whether the Potosi position would result in a job, Mother did not follow
    up on the possible Potosi position.
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    Father’s argument that the existence of this contrary evidence requires reversal is
    inconsistent with this Court’s standard of review. In considering whether there was
    substantial evidence to support a trial court’s judgment, this Court disregards contrary
    evidence and instead considers only the evidence supporting the judgment, including the
    reasonable inferences from that evidence, in deciding whether the judgment was
    supported by substantial evidence. 
    Ivie, 439 S.W.3d at 200
    . 4 The trial court was free to
    and did reject Father’s arguments regarding Mother’s credibility and motivation.      This
    Court will not second-guess those determinations. Id.; 
    Zweig, 412 S.W.3d at 231
    ; Sch.
    Dist. of Kansas City v. State, 
    317 S.W.3d 599
    , 604 (Mo. banc 2010); Watson v. Mense,
    
    298 S.W.3d 521
    , 525-26 (Mo. banc 2009).
    2. Best Interests Determination
    Father alternatively argues that the trial court’s approval of the relocation was not
    supported by substantial evidence because the best interests of the children would be
    served by maintaining more frequent contact with both parents. But this argument would
    mean that relocation would seldom be approved as, by its nature, relocation farther from
    4
    In his brief, several of Father’s points combined the argument that the trial court’s
    judgment was not supported by substantial evidence with an argument that the trial
    court’s judgment was against the weight of the evidence. In Ivie, this Court specifically
    reaffirmed that whether a judgment is against the weight of the evidence is a separate
    question from whether it is supported by substantial evidence, and that both arguments
    may not be combined in a single point because they rely on inconsistent premises: the
    argument that a judgment is against the weight of the evidence presupposes that there was
    substantial evidence but it was 
    outweighed. 439 S.W.3d at 199
    , n.11. At oral argument,
    counsel for Father, noting this holding in Ivie, specifically stated that Father would
    proceed solely on the argument that the judgment was not supported by substantial
    evidence. Counsel specifically waived any claim that the judgment was against the
    weight of the evidence.
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    the other parent often will lead to less frequent contact. Yet Missouri law does not make
    reduced frequency of custody of the nonrelocating parent a bar to relocation. To the
    contrary, section 452.377.9 makes “good faith” and “the best interest of the child”
    dispositive factors. It can be in a child’s best interest to relocate with a parent to a
    different community when the trial court determines it is in the child’s best interest to
    continue to live with that particular parent even though that parent’s circumstances
    require the parent to move. Of course, adequate contact is required, but what is adequate
    is not measured by whether the contact after relocation will match that prior to relocation.
    Rather, section 452.377.10(1) states that if relocation is permitted: “The court shall order
    contact with the nonrelocating party including custody or visitation and telephone access
    sufficient to assure that the child has frequent, continuing and meaningful contact with
    the nonrelocating party unless the child’s best interest warrants[ ] otherwise.”
    The trial court did determine that Father would have frequent, continuing and
    meaningful contact with the children after relocation. The trial court ordered that, during
    the school year, Father would have visitation at such times as the parties mutually agree
    and, starting on the first, third, fourth, and fifth Fridays of the month, from Friday
    evening until Sunday evening. The trial court ordered that, during the summer, Father
    would have custody of the children at all times except for certain weekends and a seven-
    day consecutive block. The parents would share holidays. In total, Father has 143
    overnight visits, approximately 39 percent of all nights in the year.
    The trial court further undertook a multifaceted inquiry applying the definition of
    “best interests of the child” in section 452.375.2 in determining whether the proposed
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    relocation is in a child’s best interest. Although section 452.375.2 does not expressly
    govern the best interests inquiry in relocation determinations, it is proper for a trial court
    to consider the factors articulated in section 452.375.2 because those factors are equally
    relevant to the best interests inquiry in section 452.377. In this case, the trial court set out
    in detail how it used the factors in section 452.375.2, governing the best interests
    determination in child custody cases, to determine the children’s’ best interests. Section
    452.375.2 provides that a court shall consider all relevant factors in making that
    determination, including:
    (1) The wishes of the child’s parents as to custody and the proposed
    parenting plan submitted by both parties;
    (2) The needs of the child for a frequent, continuing and meaningful
    relationship with both parents and the ability and willingness of parents to
    actively perform their functions as mother and father for the needs of the
    child;
    (3) The interaction and interrelationship of the child with parents,
    siblings, and any other person who may significantly affect the child's best
    interests;
    (4) Which parent is more likely to allow the child frequent,
    continuing and meaningful contact with the other parent;
    (5) The child’s adjustment to the child's home, school, and
    community;
    (6) The mental and physical health of all individuals involved,
    including any history of abuse of any individuals involved. If the court
    finds that a pattern of domestic violence as defined in section 455.010 has
    occurred, and, if the court also finds that awarding custody to the abusive
    parent is in the best interest of the child, then the court shall enter written
    findings of fact and conclusions of law. Custody and visitation rights shall
    be ordered in a manner that best protects the child and any other child or
    children for whom the parent has custodial or visitation rights, and the
    parent or other family or household member who is the victim of domestic
    violence from any further harm;
    (7) The intention of either parent to relocate the principal residence
    of the child; and
    (8) The wishes of a child as to the child’s custodian. The fact that a
    parent sends his or her child or children to a home school, as defined in
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    section 167.031, shall not be the sole factor that a court considers in
    determining custody of such child or children.
    The trial court carefully examined each of the above factors and concluded that
    relocation was in the best interests of the children. This conclusion was supported by
    substantial evidence. The trial court found in regard to the first factor – the wishes of the
    parents and the proposed parenting plans – that Mother’s proposed parenting plan would
    preserve the existing division of labor, with Mother continuing her role in attending to the
    children’s appointments, illnesses, and other needs, while Father would continue his role
    as the “activities” parent. Father’s proposed parenting plan, in contrast, would have
    flipped the division of labor and would have, as the trial court explained, deprived “the
    children of their Father for summer baseball and other activities” – activities that the
    children “very much enjoy” sharing with Father. The trial court also found that the new
    school district would “not significantly deprive the children of a decent education.”
    As to the second factor – the needs of the children for a frequent, continuing and
    meaningful relationship with both parents and the ability and willingness of parents to
    actively perform their functions as mother and father for the needs of the children – the
    record included evidence that the children were already familiar with the Greenville/Silva
    area, which the trial court found would decrease any stress resulting from the move. The
    trial court also found the presence of family near Greenville would assist Mother in
    taking care of the children after the move. The trial court also explained that the denial of
    relocation would cause stress for the children because the children were already familiar
    with Mother’s weekday routine but were only familiar with Father’s weekend routine, not
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    his school routine.
    The trial court also noted Mother and Father’s near continual episodes of
    inappropriate behavior, detailed above, and explained:
    [E]ach parent has an extreme dislike for, or distrust of, the other parent.
    One problem with this is that both parents seem unwilling or unable to
    conduct themselves in an appropriate manner in the presence of the
    children. An atmosphere of distrust permeates nearly every dealing,
    whether it relates to visitation times, exchange times, picking up the
    children from the day care provider, and even the simple filling out of
    forms at a physician’s office. Mother and Father each related incident after
    incident of arguments and other inappropriate conduct occurring in the
    presence of the children.
    Mother and Father’s behavior led the trial court to conclude that the second factor
    weighed in favor of relocation because:
    Neither parent is capable of actively performing their functions as Mother
    and Father for the needs of the children, if those functions involve any
    dealings whatsoever with the other parent. It is clear that while each parent
    needs time with the children, relocation to allow Mother to be further from
    day-to-day dealings with Father will undoubtedly, in combination with
    other changes to the Parenting Plan, reduce stress on the children and be in
    their best interests.
    The trial court also found that the third factor – the interaction and
    interrelationship of the children with parents, siblings, and any other person who may
    significantly affect the child’s best interest – did not work against relocation. As noted,
    the new location was near other family. For the fourth factor – which parent is more
    likely to allow the child frequent, continuing and meaningful contact with the other
    parent – the trial court concluded that, while both parents engaged in inappropriate
    conduct and extremely disliked one another, Father was more at fault. It also explained
    that Father’s positive influence in his activities with the children, especially during the
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    summer, would continue with the relocation because relocation would:
    [F]acilitate each parent’s strong suits with the children. Disallowing
    relocation will frustrate the division of labor, so to speak, established
    naturally by the actions of the parents, and will deprive the children of their
    excellent and undoubtedly memorable experiences with Father in the
    summer as Mother would be the “summer” parent if relocation is denied.
    For the fifth factor – the children’s adjustment to the child’s home, school, and
    community – the trial court found that the Greenville/Silva area would not be unfamiliar
    to the children because they had visited Mother’s parents there on many weekends and
    they already have friends in the area. For the sixth factor – the mental and physical
    health of all individuals involved, including any history of abuse of any individuals
    involved – the evidence included Father’s difficult attitude toward A.J.P.’s ADHD
    diagnosis. The trial court stated: “Father did not initially administer the medication, but
    later began administering the medication … Father is still somewhat in denial that [his
    child] could have ADHD, and the Court notes that Father still gives the medicine only
    reluctantly.” The trial court concluded that “Mother is more likely to administer the
    ADHD medicine.” For the seventh factor – the intention of either parent to relocate the
    principal residence of the child – the trial court noted Mother’s intent to relocate the
    children’s principal residence to the Greenville/Silva area and her living arrangements in
    Silva – a house with a yard.
    Taking all of this evidence 5 into account, the trial court determined that relocation
    was in the best interests of the children. That conclusion was supported by substantial
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    For the eighth factor, the trial court simply stated: “Neither parent intends to home
    school either child as defined by Section 167.031, RSMo. Neither child testified. Both
    children love both parents.”
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    evidence.
    B.     Substantial Evidence Supported Modification of Legal Custody
    This Court also rejects Father’s contention that the trial court’s decision to modify
    legal custody of the children from joint to sole legal custody in favor of Mother was not
    supported by substantial evidence. Section 452.410.1 states in pertinent part:
    … the court shall not modify a prior custody decree unless ... it finds, upon
    the basis of facts that have arisen since the prior decree or that were
    unknown to the court at the time of the prior decree, that a change has
    occurred in the circumstances of the child or his custodian and that the
    modification is necessary to serve the best interests of the child.
    The trial court’s decision to modify custody from joint legal custody to sole legal
    custody of the children in favor of Mother was supported by substantial evidence.
    “Under joint legal custody, the parents share the decision-making regarding the health,
    education and welfare of the child.” Leone v. Leone, 
    917 S.W.2d 608
    , 614 (Mo. App.
    1996). “[T]he parents’ ability to communicate and cooperate is crucial in considering
    whether joint legal custody is proper.” Mehler v. Martin, 
    440 S.W.3d 529
    , 536 (Mo. App.
    2014).
    Here, both Mother and Father presented evidence showing that they were not able
    to share in decisionmaking and could not function, communicate, or make decisions
    regarding issues involving the children. In particular, Father degraded Mother and her
    significant other to the children and Father displayed an unresponsive and difficult
    attitude toward A.J.P.’s ADHD diagnosis, creating a problematic joint-parenting
    situation. This included Father telling A.J.P. to inform Mother that A.J.P. would not take
    the medication and that the medication could cause him to die. In considering the
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    evidence, the trial court explained that, while “much of Mother’s conduct toward Father
    … is not what any casual observer would call proper parenting techniques,” sole legal
    custody should be granted to Mother because her “dealings with Father are so unpleasant
    that it is unreasonable for Mother to be expected to jointly parent the children with
    Father” and because she had “a proven track record of acting in the best interests of the
    children without incidents of demeaning the other parent or any significant others to the
    children.”
    By contrast, the trial court found, Father’s misconduct had:
    [O]ften been in front of or in the presence of the children and … had a
    pattern of conduct which demeans Mother to the children. In addition,
    Mother has tried to act in concert with Father with respect to appointments,
    medication and so forth, but Father has often not acted upon Mother’s
    request for input and the Court notes that even after both a second and third
    opinion related to [his child’s] ADHD, Father does not accept the diagnosis
    and only gives the medicine prescribed by the physician reluctantly.
    This evidence showed a significant breakdown in communication and cooperation
    such that Mother and Father were unable to jointly parent the children. “If the parents are
    unable to make shared decisions concerning the welfare of the children, joint custody is
    not in the best interests of the children.” 
    Mehler, 440 S.W.3d at 536
    . The record contains
    substantial evidence supporting the trial court’s determination that Mother and Father
    were unable to make shared decisions, particularly when it came to A.J.P.’s ADHD.
    Again, the fact that Father believes that his contrary evidence was more credible and
    should have been accepted 6 is irrelevant because this Court disregards contrary evidence
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    Father cites his contrary testimony of Mother making appointments with physicians
    without consulting Father or a disagreement as to whether A.P.P. should have gone to the
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    and instead considers only whether the trial court’s decision, considering all inferences in
    its favor, was supported by substantial evidence. 
    Ivie, 439 S.W.3d at 200
    .
    IV.    CONCLUSION
    The judgment of the trial court is affirmed.
    _________________________________
    LAURA DENVIR STITH, JUDGE
    All concur.
    hospital after getting hurt in a baseball game. Father also notes his concern that his
    younger child will not be able to go to religion classes on Wednesday evenings in
    Farmington after the move, and, therefore, will not have a shared common experience
    with the older child. But the order approving relocation requires that Mother bring the
    child to comparable religion classes in her new location, and the trial court was free to
    believe or disbelieve Father’s evidence and to give it such weight as the trial court
    thought proper.
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Document Info

Docket Number: SC94488

Citation Numbers: 467 S.W.3d 264

Judges: Judge Laura Denvir Stith

Filed Date: 8/18/2015

Precedential Status: Precedential

Modified Date: 1/12/2023