In re Adoption of C.H.M. , 812 S.E.2d 804 ( 2018 )


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  •                IN THE SUPREME COURT OF NORTH CAROLINA
    No. 297PA16
    Filed 11 May 2018
    IN THE MATTER OF THE ADOPTION OF C.H.M., a minor child
    On discretionary review pursuant to N.C.G.S. § 7A-31 of a unanimous decision
    of the Court of Appeals, ___ N.C. App. ___, 
    788 S.E.2d 594
     (2016), affirming an order
    entered on 9 February 2015 by Judge Debra Sasser in District Court, Wake County.
    Heard in the Supreme Court on 9 October 2017.
    Manning, Fulton & Skinner, P.A., by Michael S. Harrell, for petitioner-
    appellants.
    Marshall & Taylor, PLLC, by Travis R. Taylor; and Robert A. Smith for
    respondent-appellee.
    NEWBY, Justice.
    In this case we consider whether the evidence was sufficient as a matter of law
    to support the trial court’s order requiring respondent father’s consent before
    proceeding with the adoption of minor child C.H.M. To protect the significant
    interests of the child, biological parents, and adoptive parents, Chapter 48 of our
    General Statutes, governing adoption procedures in North Carolina, establishes
    clear, objective tests to determine whose consent is required before a court may grant
    an adoption petition. Under section 48-3-601, a putative father may unilaterally
    protect his paternal rights if he establishes that he has acknowledged his paternity,
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    regularly communicated or attempted to communicate with the biological mother or
    minor child, and provided reasonable and consistent payments for the support of the
    biological mother, minor, or both, in accordance with his financial means. All of these
    measures must be accomplished no later than the filing of the adoption petition. As
    a matter of law respondent’s evidence does not establish that he made reasonable and
    consistent payments for the support of the biological mother or minor child before the
    filing of the adoption petition.   Because respondent failed to meet his burden of
    proving that he provided such support within the relevant statutory period, we
    conclude that the evidence is legally insufficient to support the trial court’s order
    requiring respondent’s consent. Accordingly, we reverse the decision of the Court of
    Appeals that affirmed the trial court’s order.
    From 2009 through 2012, respondent and the biological mother (Wood) had an
    “on and off” intimate relationship while they both lived in Illinois. In November 2012,
    Wood ended her relationship with respondent to resume a relationship with another
    man, whom she married shortly thereafter in January 2013. As respondent was
    aware, Wood’s husband worked and resided in North Carolina, though she continued
    to stay in Illinois for several months. After Wood’s marriage, respondent and Wood
    continued to communicate primarily through Facebook.
    On 11 February 2013, Wood informed respondent that she was twenty weeks
    pregnant (or halfway through her pregnancy) with his child, but immediately told
    respondent to keep everything “as secret as possible.” Upon learning he was the
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    child’s father, respondent told Wood he intended to “start setting money aside” for
    the child, but provided neither support at that time nor any details of his plan.
    In March, respondent accompanied Wood to her first medical appointment and
    sonogram. The sonogram confirmed respondent’s understanding of the timing of
    Wood’s pregnancy, showing she was between her second and third trimesters. While
    respondent expressed his enthusiasm for becoming a father and offered to pay for the
    office visit, Wood refused respondent’s offer because her husband’s insurance covered
    the appointment cost. Out of concern that people in their small hometown would
    suspect something, respondent did not buy any baby items for C.H.M. during the
    pregnancy. In their Facebook messages between February and July 2013, respondent
    and Wood’s primary method of communication, respondent offered Wood his
    emotional support but never stated that he was actually saving money for the child.
    Respondent did not give Wood any monetary payments for the minor child’s support,
    and Wood rejected respondent’s various offers of financial assistance.
    After consistent communication between the two throughout February and
    March, on 9 April 2013, Wood falsely told respondent the child might not be his,
    contending she had been sexually assaulted around the time of conception.
    Thereafter, Wood refused respondent’s requests for a paternity test.
    Sometime in June, Wood moved to North Carolina to join her husband, and
    near the end of June (around her due date), Wood stopped communicating with
    respondent. On 28 June 2013, Wood gave birth to C.H.M. After C.H.M.’s birth, Wood
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    contacted an adoption agency through a social worker and thereafter provided her
    affidavit that the pregnancy resulted from a sexual assault by an unknown assailant.
    Wood and her husband, the legally presumed father, signed relinquishments placing
    C.H.M. with the adoption agency. Knowing nothing about the possible involvement
    of respondent, the agency and petitioners, who wished to adopt C.H.M., proceeded
    with plans to establish a home for the child. On 9 July 2013, petitioners filed the
    adoption petition and received eleven-day-old C.H.M. into their home, where the child
    has been cared for during the almost five years of her life.
    Though he was aware of Wood’s approximate delivery date, respondent did not
    attempt to contact Wood via Facebook until the end of July, a month after C.H.M.’s
    birth and following the adoption petition’s filing. Several days later, Wood replied
    and met respondent during one of her return trips to Illinois, at which point he
    observed she was no longer pregnant. Later that evening, Wood told respondent that
    she had given birth to the child but that C.H.M. was still at the hospital. Finally, in
    September 2013, respondent contacted legal counsel about his potential paternal
    rights and the possibility of a paternity test. Wood told respondent in mid-November
    about C.H.M.’s adoption, at which time she first informed the adoption agency about
    respondent. The adoption agency contacted respondent and requested a paternity
    test. On 4 December 2013, respondent took a paternity test, which confirmed he is
    the biological father.
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    On 23 December 2013, more than five months after the adoption petition had
    been filed, respondent filed his formal objection to the adoption. At the hearing on
    the matter in April 2014, respondent offered evidence attempting to prove that he
    met all the statutory requirements for his consent to be necessary, including that he
    had made reasonable and consistent payments for the support of the minor child,
    thereby entitling him to object to the adoption. Respondent testified that he had set
    aside money for C.H.M. in a special location in his room, a “lockbox,” in which he
    placed funds withdrawn from ATM transactions or obtained via “cash back”
    purchases from Walmart. Respondent provided bank statements from 2012 and
    2013, which showed some sporadic withdrawals and general purchases from
    Walmart, though he provided no records showing the purpose of the withdrawals.
    Respondent produced no receipts indicating that he received cash back from any
    Walmart purchases within the statutorily relevant time frame, providing only two
    Walmart receipts from 2014, more than six months after the statutory deadline.
    Throughout the hearing, respondent offered no definitive testimony on the timing of
    his placement of any funds, before or after the adoption petition’s filing on July 9,
    which may have resulted in cash for the lockbox.
    The lockbox that respondent produced at the April 2014 hearing then
    contained $3260. Respondent admitted that the placement of funds in the lockbox
    was sporadic and was not comprised of an “exact amount each time,” as the lockbox
    contained “just whatever [he] could afford here and there.” Because respondent did
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    not “keep[ ] records [he did not] really know” how much he was placing in the lockbox,
    though he thought it was somewhere around $100 to $140 per month. Respondent
    did not provide any records indicating the dates of any deposits or the amount of
    money in the lockbox before the statutorily relevant date, 9 July 2013. Respondent
    stated that he made no specific designation “on paper” or elsewhere regarding the
    money’s purpose nor did he confide in anyone about his plan or the lockbox’s
    existence. Though respondent subpoenaed Wood, who was then back in Illinois, so
    she could testify, Wood did not appear at the hearing, and respondent did not present
    any witnesses to confirm that he had placed money in the lockbox before the adoption
    petition was filed.
    The trial court noted that whether respondent met the statutory requirements
    depended on its resolution of what it deemed to be the major factual dispute in the
    case, “whether Respondent/Father’s testimony regarding putting money aside for the
    minor child and Mrs. Wood is credible.” Based on respondent’s evidence, the trial
    court made the following findings:
    7(h). During Mrs. Wood’s pregnancy and after the child’s
    birth Respondent/Father saved money on a consistent and
    regular basis and designated this money for the minor
    child. Respondent/Father also testified that he disclosed to
    Mrs. Wood that he was saving money for the minor child.
    ....
    13(e)(1). Respondent/Father never provided any actual
    financial payments to Mrs. Wood or to the minor child
    either prior to the filing of the petition or since the filing of
    the petition.
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    ....
    13(e)(9). From the time Mrs. Wood told him that she was
    pregnant with his child and continuing through the time of
    the instant hearing, Respondent/Father made regular and
    consistent payments into his lock box/safe for the support
    of the minor child. These payments were made on a
    monthly (and sometimes more frequent) basis. While these
    funds were not deposited into a bank or other financial
    institution, they were deposited into a safe, and these
    funds were earmarked for the minor child. No other funds
    were deposited into this safe.
    13(e)(10). At the time of the instant              hearing,
    Respondent/Father had $3,260 in the safe.
    13(e)(11). . . . Prior to the filing of the petition,
    Respondent/Father earned $32,000 a year from [his]
    employment.       His annual earnings are now around
    $35,000. . . .
    13(e)(12).  Respondent/Father     deposited    at   least
    $100 - $140 a month into the safe for the benefit of Ms.
    Wood and the child, and on average, paid approximately
    $225 per month in support for the minor child.
    Ultimately, the trial court concluded that
    Respondent/Father’s regular and consistent deposits into
    the safe were a reasonable method of providing support for
    the minor child and Mrs. Wood. His testimony regarding
    monthly deposits into his safe of at least $100 - $140 per
    month, from the time he learned of Ms. Wood’s pregnancy
    through the instant trial is credible.
    Thus, considering evidence of events both before and after the petition filing date of
    9 July 2013, the trial court concluded that respondent’s “reasonable method” of saving
    met the requirements of section 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II).     Moreover, the trial court
    deemed respondent’s lump sum $3260 presented at trial, his uncorroborated
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    testimony, and his production of general bank statements as having created “a legally
    sufficient payment record of his efforts to provide support.” As such, the trial court
    determined that respondent’s consent was required to proceed with the adoption.
    The Court of Appeals affirmed, In re Adoption of C.H.M., ___ N.C. App. ___,
    ___, 
    788 S.E.2d 594
    , 601 (2016), opining that this Court’s opinion in In re Adoption of
    Anderson, 
    360 N.C. 271
    , 
    624 S.E.2d 626
     (2006), “did not purport to provide an
    exhaustive list of ways for a father to [comply with the statute], nor did it explicitly
    impose any sort of specific accounting requirements,” In re C.H.M., ___ N.C. App. at
    ___, 788 S.E.2d at 600. The court also determined that whether respondent had
    presented adequate evidence to meet the payment prong of the statute is a factual
    finding as opposed to a legal conclusion, making that ruling subject to a deferential
    standard of review on appeal. Id. at ___, 788 S.E.2d at 600 (citing In re Adoption of
    Shuler, 
    162 N.C. App. 328
    , 330-31, 
    590 S.E.2d 458
    , 460 (2004)).        Thus, the court
    concluded that by considering all of respondent’s evidence, in the form of his bank
    records, Facebook messages, and uncorroborated testimony about events before and
    after the adoption petition’s filing, respondent produced sufficient evidence showing
    that he complied with the statutory requirements. 
    Id.
     at ___, 788 S.E.2d at 600. We
    allowed the adoptive parents’ petition for discretionary review to determine whether
    the trial court correctly concluded that respondent complied with the support
    payment requirement of section 48-3-601.
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    Because of a pregnancy’s natural timetable and the need of a newborn to have
    a home, the adoption statutes provide a related window of time by which a putative
    father must meet clear statutory requirements that establish his paternal rights and
    make his consent to the adoption necessary.               These statutory requirements
    enumerate objective tests to ensure that all parties involved, including the biological
    mother, adoptive parents, adoption agency, and the courts, receive adequate notice of
    the father’s intent to assert his paternal rights. One requirement is that a putative
    father provide reasonable and consistent payments for the support of the biological
    mother or minor child before, at the latest, the date the adoption petition is filed.
    Thus, by imposing objective criteria to be met by a deadline consistent with the needs
    of a newborn child, the statute achieves its overall purpose of providing a final and
    uninterrupted placement for the child.
    It is undisputed that respondent had the burden of proof to establish his
    compliance with the statutory requirements. Even assuming, without deciding, that
    respondent’s method of placing funds subjectively intended for the minor child in a
    special location in his home constitutes a statutory “payment,” respondent
    nonetheless failed to prove that such payments met the other statutory criteria. As
    a matter of law, respondent’s evidence was insufficient to establish that he made such
    payments before the statutory deadline or that each payment was reasonable and
    consistent in accord with his financial means during the statutory time frame.
    In a trial without a jury, a trial court’s findings of fact “are conclusive on appeal
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    if there is competent evidence to support them,” though “[f]indings not supported by
    competent evidence are not conclusive and will be set aside on appeal.” In re Estate
    of Skinner, 
    370 N.C. 126
    , 139, 
    804 S.E.2d 449
    , 457-58 (2017) (alteration in original)
    (first quoting Bailey v. State, 
    348 N.C. 130
    , 146, 
    500 S.E.2d 54
    , 63 (1998); and then
    quoting Penland v. Bird Coal Co., 
    246 N.C. 26
    , 30, 
    97 S.E.2d 432
    , 436 (1957)).
    “Conclusions of law drawn by the trial court from its findings of fact are reviewable
    de novo on appeal.” In re Foreclosure of Bass, 
    366 N.C. 464
    , 467, 
    738 S.E.2d 173
    , 175
    (2013) (quoting Carolina Power & Light Co. v. City of Asheville, 
    358 N.C. 512
    , 517,
    
    597 S.E.2d 717
    , 721 (2004)).
    “In distinguishing between findings of fact and conclusions of law, ‘[a]s a
    general rule, . . . any determination requiring the exercise of judgment or the
    application of legal principles is more properly classified a conclusion of law.’ ” State
    v. Sparks, 
    362 N.C. 181
    , 185, 
    657 S.E.2d 655
    , 658 (2008) (alterations in original)
    (quoting In re Helms, 
    127 N.C. App. 505
    , 510, 
    491 S.E.2d 672
    , 675 (1997) (internal
    citations omitted)). “[F]indings of fact [which] are essentially conclusions of law . . .
    will be treated as such on appeal.” Sparks, 362 N.C. at 185, 
    657 S.E.2d at 658
     (second
    and third alterations in original) (quoting Harris v. Harris, 
    51 N.C. App. 103
    , 107,
    
    275 S.E.2d 273
    , 276, disc. rev. denied, 
    303 N.C. 180
    , 
    280 S.E.2d 452
     (1981)).
    Moreover, determining whether sufficient evidence supports a judgment is a
    conclusion of law and will be reviewed as such. See Styers v. Phillips, 
    277 N.C. 460
    ,
    464, 
    178 S.E.2d 583
    , 586 (1971) (“Whether there is enough evidence to support a
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    material issue is always a question of law for the court.”); Rountree v. Fountain, 
    203 N.C. 381
    , 382, 
    166 S.E. 329
    , 330 (1932) (“Whether there is enough evidence to support
    a material issue is a matter of law.”).
    Chapter 48 of our General Statutes, governing adoption procedures in North
    Carolina, seeks
    to establish a clear judicial process for adoptions, to
    promote the integrity and finality of adoptions, to
    encourage prompt, conclusive disposition of adoption
    proceedings, and to structure services to adopted children,
    biological parents, and adoptive parents that will provide
    for the needs and protect the interests of all parties to an
    adoption, particularly adopted minors.
    N.C.G.S. § 48-1-100(a) (2017). Relevant here, section 48-3-601 requires a man who
    “may or may not be the biological father” to consent to the adoption of the child if he
    4. Before the . . . filing of the petition . . . has acknowledged
    his paternity of the minor and
    ....
    II. Has provided, in accordance with his financial
    means, reasonable and consistent payments for the
    support of the biological mother during or after the
    term of pregnancy, or the support of the minor, or
    both, which may include the payment of medical
    expenses, living expenses, or other tangible means
    of support, and has regularly visited or
    communicated, or attempted to visit or communicate
    with the biological mother during or after the term
    of pregnancy, or with the minor, or with both . . . .
    Id. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) (2017) (emphases added). Thus, based on the statutorily
    prescribed test, the putative father has the burden of proof to show, by the earlier
    date of a prebirth hearing or the adoption petition’s filing, in addition to the other
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    statutory requirements, that: (1) he provided payments for the support of the
    biological mother, minor child, or both; (2) such payments were reasonable in light of
    his financial means; and (3) such payments were made consistently.
    A putative father must present competent evidence showing he complied with
    each requirement of the statute. If he presents competent evidence that he met some
    but not all of the statutory requirements, his consent to the adoption is not required.1
    To protect his rights under the objective statutory test, a putative father must fulfill
    all statutory requirements no later than the filing of the adoption petition. Id. § 48-
    3-601(2)(b)(4) (2017). Any evidence of actions occurring after the adoption petition is
    filed is irrelevant, and a trial court errs as a matter of law in considering such
    evidence. See In re Adoption of Byrd, 
    354 N.C. 188
    , 197-98, 
    552 S.E.2d 142
    , 148-49
    (2001).
    Among the statute’s support requirements, first a putative father must present
    evidence that he has made “payments for the support of the biological
    mother . . . or . . . the minor, or both.”      N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II).     Thus, a
    putative father must show he has provided real, tangible support through an
    adequate payment method. See In re Byrd, 354 N.C. at 196, 
    552 S.E.2d at 148
    ; see
    1 This case did not involve a prebirth hearing under section 48-2-206. Given the facts
    of this case, this opinion will refer to the relevant deadline as the date the adoption petition
    was filed. In a case involving a prebirth hearing, however, the statute recognizes the deadline
    as “the earlier of the filing of the petition or the date of a hearing under G.S. 48-2-206.”
    N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4) (2017).          Furthermore, the statutory requirements of
    acknowledgement of paternity and visiting or communicating, or attempting to do so, are not
    at issue in this appeal.
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    also Payment, Black’s Law Dictionary (10th ed. 2014) (defining payment as
    “[p]erformance of an obligation by the delivery of money or some other valuable thing
    accepted in partial or full discharge of the obligation”). Importantly, a putative father
    may unilaterally protect his rights, in that the “legislature’s deliberate use of ‘for’
    rather than ‘to’ suggests the payments contemplated by the [support provision] need
    not always go directly to the mother. So long as the father makes reasonable and
    consistent payments for the support of mother or child, the mother’s refusal to accept
    assistance cannot defeat his paternal interest.” In re Anderson, 360 N.C. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630
    .
    Second, a putative father must present evidence that, during the relevant time
    period, he has made reasonable payments for the support of the biological mother,
    minor child, or both.        
    Id.
     § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II); see Reasonable, Black’s Law
    Dictionary (10th ed. 2014) (defining reasonable as “[f]air, proper, or moderate under
    the circumstances”). A reasonable payment is calculated based upon the earnings or
    financial resources of the putative father before the date of the adoption petition’s
    filing.
    Third, the statute requires that the putative father demonstrate he has made
    consistent payments. N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II). To establish that his payments
    are consistent under the statute, the putative father must present an objectively
    verifiable record showing that he consistently made reasonable payments before the
    statutory deadline. See The American Heritage Dictionary 313 (2d coll. ed. 1985)
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    (defining “consistent” as “[c]onforming to the same principles or course of action;
    uniform”); see also In re Anderson, 360 N.C. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 631
     (noting that, if
    the respondent had opened a bank account or established a trust fund, the biological
    mother’s “intransigence would not have prevented him from creating a payment
    record through regular deposits into the account or trust fund in accordance with his
    financial resources” (emphasis added)).
    Our cases recognize these express statutory requirements, as well as the need
    for a precise payment record to demonstrate that a putative father consistently made
    reasonable payments before the statutory deadline. In In re Byrd the respondent
    father delivered a $100 money order and baby clothes to a third party for the benefit
    of the biological mother and child, but the biological mother did not receive the items
    until after the adoption petition had been filed. 354 N.C. at 191, 
    552 S.E.2d at 145
    .
    The Court recognized that, as evident from the statutory requirements, “[t]he
    interests of the child and all other parties are best served by an objective test.” 
    Id. at 198
    , 
    552 S.E.2d at 149
    . Thus, the Court determined that “ ‘support’ is best understood
    within the context of the statute as actual, real and tangible support,
    and . . . attempts or offers of support do not suffice.” 
    Id. at 196
    , 
    552 S.E.2d at 148
    .
    Moreover, noting the importance of the statutorily imposed deadline, the Court
    acknowledged that “the statute is clear in its requirements, and respondent must
    have satisfied the . . . prerequisites . . . prior to the filing of the adoption petition.”
    
    Id. at 194
    , 
    552 S.E.2d at 146
    . The Court concluded that the respondent need not
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    consent to the adoption proceeding because “the money order and clothes sent to [the
    biological mother] by respondent . . . arrived too late, as the statute specifically
    provides for the relevant time period to end at the filing of the adoption petition.” 
    Id. at 197
    , 
    552 S.E.2d at 149
    .
    In In re Anderson this Court emphasized the importance of a verifiable
    payment record to establish that a putative father made reasonable and consistent
    payments. There the respondent father presented evidence that he saved money and
    made various offers of support, including offers of cash to the expectant mother at
    school and an unsuccessful attempt to deliver an envelope containing $100 to her
    home. 360 N.C. at 273-74, 
    624 S.E.2d at 627-28
    . The respondent also hired an
    attorney who sent a letter to the expectant mother explicitly offering the respondent’s
    financial support, indicating that the respondent had accumulated money to provide
    assistance to the mother and child. Id. at 274, 
    624 S.E.2d at 628
    . Despite the
    respondent’s efforts, the Court concluded that, without an objectively verifiable,
    independent record showing that he had provided real, tangible support payments,
    the respondent could not establish that any alleged payments were “reasonable and
    consistent [as] required under the [statute].” Id. at 278, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630
    . The Court
    noted that
    [h]ere, respondent could have supplied the requisite
    support any number of ways, such as opening a bank
    account or establishing a trust fund for the benefit of [the
    biological mother] or their child. Had he done so, [the
    biological mother’s] intransigence would not have
    prevented him from creating a payment record through
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    regular deposits into the account or trust fund in
    accordance with his financial resources. By doing nothing
    more than sporadically offering support to [the biological
    mother], respondent left the support prong of
    N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601 unsatisfied and himself without
    standing to obstruct the adoption of [the minor child].
    Id. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630-31
     (emphasis added) (citing N.C.G.S. § 48-3-
    601(2)(b)(4)(II)).
    Here respondent’s evidence was insufficient as a matter of law to support the
    trial court’s conclusion that respondent complied with the statutory support payment
    requirements. Assuming, without deciding, that respondent’s actions constituted a
    “payment for the benefit of” the minor child, respondent failed to present any evidence
    that could show that, before the statutory deadline of 9 July 2013, he made reasonable
    and consistent payments. Respondent even admitted that any alleged deposits were
    not “an exact amount,” and the lockbox contained “just whatever [he] could afford
    here and there.” Respondent conceded that he did not “keep[ ] records [so he did not]
    really know” how much money he placed in the lockbox at any relevant time, instead,
    simply estimating the average amount of money he may have placed in the lockbox
    during a given month. Thus, respondent’s evidence is insufficient as a matter of law
    to demonstrate that any payments were reasonable based on his income during the
    relevant statutory time frame.
    Moreover, neither respondent’s general bank statements nor the lump sum
    presented at trial in April 2014 provides an objectively verifiable record showing that
    he consistently made reasonable payments within the statutorily relevant time
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    period. Because respondent presented no objectively verifiable, independent record
    to demonstrate his compliance with the statute, the trial court erred as a matter of
    law in concluding that respondent was required to consent to the adoption.
    Significantly, at the hearing, respondent presented comingled financial
    evidence, which impaired the trial court’s ability to identify only the statutorily
    relevant evidence, namely, that between 11 February 2013, when he was informed of
    the pregnancy, and 9 July 2013, when the petition was filed.           By considering
    irrelevant evidence, for example, the lump sum of $3260 in the lockbox at the time of
    the hearing and respondent’s earnings, bank records, and receipts spanning the years
    2012 to 2014 as a whole, the trial court erred as a matter of law. The Court of Appeals
    compounded this fundamental error by affirming the trial court’s order based on a
    deferential standard of review, which assumed that respondent’s compliance with the
    statute constituted a purely factual matter, as opposed to a matter of law. That court
    likewise overlooked the trial court’s error in failing to differentiate between relevant
    and irrelevant evidence in light of the statutory deadline.
    The unusual facts of this case cannot overshadow respondent’s failure to
    comply with the statutory requirements to establish his legal rights before the
    adoption petition was filed. Respondent received undisputed notice that Wood was
    twenty weeks pregnant with his child in February 2013 and even accompanied her to
    the first medical appointment which confirmed the timing of the pregnancy and likely
    date of delivery. Respondent knew Wood was married to another man in a different
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    state, likely moving to that state, using her husband’s insurance for medical care,
    acting in a deceptive and secretive manner, and denying respondent’s requests for a
    paternity test.   Given this knowledge, respondent should have recognized the
    pressing need to protect his paternal interest and acted accordingly. See Eubanks v.
    Eubanks, 
    273 N.C. 189
    , 197, 
    159 S.E.2d 562
    , 568 (1968) (“When a child is born in
    wedlock, the law presumes it to be legitimate.”).
    Respondent’s evidence here failed to demonstrate through an objectively
    verifiable record that he made the statutorily required reasonable and consistent
    payments for the support of the minor child before the adoption petition was filed.
    Because respondent’s evidence cannot show he complied with the objective statutory
    requirements, the adoption should proceed without his consent. Thus, the decision
    of the Court of Appeals is reversed and this case is remanded to that court for further
    remand to the trial court for proceedings consistent with this opinion.
    REVERSED AND REMANDED.
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    Beasley, J., dissenting
    Justice BEASLEY dissenting.
    The majority erroneously holds that the evidence in the record is insufficient
    to support the trial court’s ruling that respondent’s consent was required before
    proceeding with the adoption of C.H.M. because of respondent’s supposed failure to
    demonstrate he provided reasonable support within the statutory period.                 See
    N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) (2017). This conclusion is in direct contradiction of
    the applicable standard of review: that this Court must defer to the trial court’s
    findings of fact when those findings are based on competent evidence. Here, the trial
    court made voluminous factual findings establishing that respondent provided the
    support necessary to protect his parental rights before the filing of the adoption
    petition. Because there is sufficient evidence in the record to support the trial court’s
    findings of fact and because those findings of fact support its conclusion of law that
    respondent provided statutorily adequate support prior to the filing of the petition, I
    respectfully dissent.
    Before addressing the substance of the majority’s opinion, I provide a more
    complete recitation of the facts of this case, as well as a description of the trial court’s
    extensive findings, to better characterize respondent’s efforts to protect his parental
    rights and the deception the birth mother inflicted on respondent during her
    pregnancy and after the birth of C.H.M.
    The District Court, Wake County found that respondent, Venson Allen
    Westgate, the biological father of a child whom petitioners sought to adopt, had a
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    legal right to require that petitioners obtain his consent to the adoption. Petitioners,
    Michael and Carolyn Morris, appealed to the Court of Appeals, which unanimously
    affirmed the trial court.
    Respondent, a resident of Illinois, is the biological father of C.H.M.,1 a child
    born in North Carolina on 28 June 2013. Respondent and the mother had an on-
    again, off-again relationship in Illinois, before the mother moved to North Carolina.
    The mother, who declined to marry respondent, consented to the child’s adoption
    through an agency. Respondent did not consent to the adoption. Petitioners, a Wake
    County couple, wish to adopt the child. To that end, on 9 July 2013, they filed a
    Petition for Adoption of a Minor Child in District Court, Wake County.              On 23
    December 2013, respondent filed a response stating his objection to the adoption.
    According to respondent’s filing and the trial court’s findings, the mother
    initially told respondent she had been a victim of sexual assault and that she became
    pregnant as a result. Later, around 25 November 2013, the mother finally told
    respondent that she had lied about her sexual assault claim. Respondent contended
    that, although the biological mother finally agreed to respondent’s request for a DNA
    test in November 2013, she told him she had given the child up for adoption without
    his knowledge. Further, respondent explained that the mother deliberately omitted
    respondent’s name from C.H.M.’s birth certificate, as well as this adoption action,
    1 C.H.M. is a pseudonym to protect the identity of the juvenile pursuant to N.C. Rule
    of Appellate Procedure 3.1.
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    until approximately 24 November 2013. On 27 November 2013, respondent was
    served by the adoption agency with a Notice of Pendency of Adoption Proceedings and
    informed of his right to file a response to the Petition. Later, a DNA test paid for by
    the adoption agency confirmed that respondent is C.H.M.’s biological father.
    Respondent’s filing included a motion to dismiss the Petition for Adoption, in
    which he contended that his “lack of custody of the minor child was unknowing and
    involuntary” and that he “desires to become involved as the parent to the minor
    child.”     Respondent asked the court to find that his consent is required for the
    adoption and dismiss the Petition for Adoption. After respondent filed his response
    to the Petition, the matter was transferred from the clerk of court to the district court
    to determine if respondent’s consent is necessary.
    The trial court heard the matter from 23 to 25 April 2014 and entered an order
    in District Court, Wake County on 9 February 2015 finding that respondent’s
    “consent is required to proceed with the adoption.” The trial court’s order contained
    extensive findings of fact relating to the nature of the relationship between
    respondent and the birth mother and respondent’s actions during the pregnancy and
    after the birth of C.H.M.
    The court’s findings of fact relay that the entire relationship between
    respondent and the mother remained sporadic and that the mother effectively
    “controlled the relationship and was the only one to initiate break ups.” Respondent
    did not learn that the mother had given birth until almost one month after C.H.M.
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    was born. At the mother’s request, respondent met with her in Illinois and he then
    realized the mother was no longer pregnant. The meeting between respondent and
    the mother happened “over two weeks after the adoption petition was filed and almost
    one month after [the mother] placed the minor child for adoption.”
    The trial court also found that “[o]n November 15, 2013 [the mother] . . . finally
    told [respondent] about the [pending] adoption,” at which point he “did everything he
    was asked to do in order to get a DNA test.” At no point did the mother tell respondent
    that she had placed the child for adoption until she finally agreed to respondent’s
    request for a DNA test in late November 2013.                 Before this time, she made
    misrepresentations to respondent that she had been the victim of sexual assault, that
    “she was raising the minor child with her husband,” and that “the baby was in the
    hospital.” The adoption agency did not learn that respondent might be the biological
    father until the mother confessed to the agency and respondent that she had lied
    about being sexually assaulted. The agency contacted respondent on 26 November
    2013 to advise him of his right to have a paternity test.
    In its order, the trial court stated that N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601 sets conditions that,
    if met, require a putative father’s consent to an adoption. That statute reads, in
    pertinent part, that
    a petition to adopt a minor may be granted only if consent
    to the adoption has been executed by . . . the biological
    father of the minor . . . who . . . [1] [b]efore the . . . filing of
    the petition . . . has acknowledged his paternity of the
    minor and . . . [2] [h]as provided, in accordance with his
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    financial means, reasonable and consistent payments for
    the support of the biological mother during or after the
    term of pregnancy, or the support of the minor, or both,
    which may include the payment of medical expenses, living
    expenses, or other tangible means of support, and [3] has
    regularly visited or communicated, or attempted to visit or
    communicate with the biological mother during or after the
    term of pregnancy, or with the minor, or with both . . . .
    N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4) (2017).
    The trial court found “that the major fact in dispute is whether [respondent’s]
    testimony regarding putting money aside for the minor child and [the mother] is
    credible.” The court then made findings of fact on the three statutory conditions set
    out above, correctly concluding as a matter of law that respondent has met the
    conditions of section 48-3-601 and thus, his consent for adoption is required.
    Specifically, on the second issue, the court found that respondent “provided, in
    accordance with his financial means, reasonable and consistent payments for the
    support of the biological mother during or after the term of the pregnancy, or the
    support of the minor, or both, which may include the payment of medical expenses,
    living expenses, or other tangible means of support.” The court found that during the
    mother’s “pregnancy and after the child’s birth [respondent] saved money on a
    consistent and regular basis and designated this money for the minor child.”
    (Emphasis added.) Moreover, respondent told the mother “that he was saving money
    for the minor child.” The court reasoned that respondent’s “never [having] provided
    any actual financial payments to” the mother or child, was due to the mother’s
    continued refusal to accept such payments; in fact, respondent “wanted to buy items
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    for the minor child,” but the mother “demanded that he not tell anyone about the
    baby.”
    In direct contradiction of the majority’s conclusion that there was insufficient
    evidence showing respondent fulfilled the support prong before the filing of the
    adoption petition, the trial court found that “[f]rom the time [the mother] told him
    that she was pregnant with his child and continuing through the time of the instant
    hearing, [respondent] made regular and consistent payments into his lock box/safe
    for the support of the minor child.” The payments of around $100 to $140 “were made
    on a monthly (and sometimes more frequent) basis.” Although respondent did not
    deposit the funds in a financial institution, he deposited them in a safe and
    “earmarked [them] for the minor child”; moreover, “[n]o other funds were deposited
    into this safe.”    In assessing the credibility of respondent’s testimony regarding
    saving money for the benefit of the mother and C.H.M., the court stated it “gave due
    regard to all evidence adduced at trial” and that “[n]one of the money [respondent]
    deposited into the safe prior to the filing of the adoption petition was for legal fees or
    a DNA test.” The court further found that because the mother refused to accept
    respondent’s offers of financial support, his “regular and consistent deposits into the
    safe were a reasonable method of providing support for the minor child and [the
    mother].”
    Finally, the trial court made additional findings of fact that the mother
    “intentionally misrepresented to the adoption agency . . . many important facts
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    relating to the conception of this child,” including that “[f]or over four months, [she]
    intentionally failed to disclose to the agency that [respondent] was a possible father
    of the child.”   The court found that all these actions by the mother “prevented
    [respondent] from having the opportunity to fully exercise his parental rights and
    obligations.” Moreover, the court said that “because of [the mother’s] fraudulent and
    deceptive conduct, [respondent] was prevented from gathering the information
    necessary to file a custody action prior to the filing of the adoption petition.”
    On 5 July 2016, the Court of Appeals issued a unanimous opinion affirming
    the district court.    The panel addressed petitioners’ specific contention that
    respondent “failed to satisfy the statutory support requirement imposed by section
    48-3-601.” In re Adoption of C.H.M., ___ N.C. App. ___, 
    788 S.E.2d 594
    , 597 (2016).
    The panel concluded that, giving due deference to the trial court’s determinations of
    witness credibility and the weight to be given such testimony, “ample evidence . . .
    support[s] the district court’s determination that [respondent] provided reasonable
    and consistent payments for the support of C.H.M. before the filing of the adoption
    petition.” 
    Id.
     at ___, 788 S.E.2d at 600. Moreover, the panel concluded that the trial
    court’s “determination that [respondent’s] regular and consistent deposits into his
    lockbox were reasonable in accordance with his financial means was adequately
    supported by competent evidence.” Id. at ___, 788 S.E.2d at 601. For these reasons,
    the panel affirmed the district court’s order. Id., at ___, 788 S.E.2d at 601. This Court
    granted discretionary review on 16 March 2017.
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    The Court of Appeals correctly affirmed the trial court’s ruling that
    respondent’s consent was required to adopt C.H.M. “All proceedings under this
    Chapter must be heard by the court without a jury.” N.C.G.S. § 48-2-202 (2017).
    Therefore, when the trial court acts as fact finder and judge, it must determine
    “whether there was competent evidence to support its findings of fact and whether
    its conclusions of law were proper in light of such facts.” In re Adoption of Shuler,
    
    162 N.C. App. 328
    , 330, 
    590 S.E.2d 458
    , 460 (2004) (quoting In re Adoption of
    Cunningham, 
    151 N.C. App. 410
    , 413, 
    567 S.E.2d 153
    , 155 (2002) (quoting In re
    Norris, 
    65 N.C. App. 269
    , 275, 
    310 S.E.2d 25
    , 29 (1983), cert. denied, 
    310 N.C. 744
    ,
    
    315 S.E.2d 703
     (1984))). “[E]ven if there is evidence to the contrary,” this Court is
    bound by the trial court’s findings of fact when they are supported by competent
    evidence. Id., at 330, 
    590 S.E.2d at
    460 (citing In re Adoption of Byrd, 
    137 N.C. App. 623
    , 
    529 S.E.2d 465
     (2000), aff’d, 
    354 N.C. 188
    , 
    552 S.E.2d 142
     (2001)). “Finally, in
    reviewing the evidence, we defer to the trial court’s determination of witnesses’
    credibility and the weight to be given their testimony.” Id. at 331, 
    590 S.E.2d at
    460
    (citing Leak v. Leak, 
    129 N.C. App. 142
    , 150, 
    497 S.E.2d 702
    , 706, disc. rev.
    denied, 
    348 N.C. 498
    , 
    510 S.E.2d 385
     (1998)); see State v. Williams, 
    362 N.C. 628
    ,
    632, 
    669 S.E.2d 290
    , 294 (2008) (quoting State v. Cooke, 
    306 N.C. 132
    , 134, 
    291 S.E.2d 618
    , 619 (1982)) (“In reviewing a trial judge’s findings of fact, we are ‘strictly limited
    to determining whether the trial judge’s underlying findings of fact are supported by
    competent evidence, in which event they are conclusively binding on appeal, and
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    whether those factual findings in turn support the judge’s ultimate conclusions of
    law.’ ”); see also Sisk v. Transylvania Cmty. Hosp., Inc., 
    364 N.C. 172
    , 179, 
    695 S.E.2d 429
    , 434 (2010) (“[F]indings of fact made by the trial judge are conclusive on appeal
    if supported by competent evidence, even if . . . there is evidence to the contrary.”
    (first alteration in original) (quoting Tillman v. Commercial Credit Loans, Inc., 
    362 N.C. 93
    , 100-01, 
    655 S.E.2d 362
    , 369 (2008) (ellipsis in original))).
    The majority holds that the trial court erred in its decision by finding that
    respondent has met the support prong of N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601. I would hold that the
    Court of Appeals was correct to reject petitioners’ argument and uphold the trial
    court’s ruling. In order to satisfy the three prongs of the adoption consent statute,
    N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601,
    [r]espondent must have acknowledged paternity, made
    reasonable and consistent support payments for the mother
    or child or both in accordance with his financial means, and
    regularly communicated or attempted to communicate
    with the mother and child. Under the mandate of the
    statute, a putative father’s failure to satisfy any of these
    requirements before the filing of the adoption petition
    would render his consent to the adoption unnecessary.
    In re Byrd, 
    354 N.C. 188
    , 194, 
    552 S.E.2d 142
    , 146 (2001) (emphasis added).2
    “The ‘support’ required under N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) is not specifically
    defined”; “however, [such] ‘support’ is best understood within the context of the
    statute as actual, real and tangible support, and . . . attempts or offers of support do
    2   In this case, the only part of the consent statute at issue is the “support” prong.
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    not suffice.”    Id. at 196, 
    552 S.E.2d at 148
     (emphasis added).        For instance, as
    recognized by this Court five years later, the following facts in In re Byrd, this Court’s
    seminal case on this issue, were insufficient to establish actual, real, and tangible
    support:
    [T]he paternal grandmother [in In re Byrd] offered
    O’Donnell, the expectant mother, a place to live and help
    with medical bills and other costs, all of which O’Donnell
    declined. On the day O’Donnell gave birth, the putative
    father purchased a $100 money order for her; however, the
    money order did not reach O’Donnell until after the
    petitioners had filed for adoption.
    In re Adoption of Anderson, 
    360 N.C. 271
    , 276-77, 
    624 S.E.2d 626
    , 629 (2006)
    (discussing and citing In re Byrd, 354 N.C. at 190-91, 
    552 S.E.2d at 144-45
    ). This
    Court has stated that “attempts or offers of support, made by the putative father or
    another on his behalf, are not sufficient for purposes of the statute.” In re Byrd, 354
    N.C. at 197, 
    552 S.E.2d at 148
    .
    Similarly, in In re Adoption of Anderson this Court held that numerous offers
    of support by the father were insufficient to show support under the adoption consent
    statute. 360 N.C. at 278-79, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630-31
    . Furthermore, In re Anderson
    presented additional facts showing that the putative father hired an attorney to send
    a letter offering financial support to the birth mother. Id. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630
    .
    In these circumstances, this Court held that the father in In re Anderson had not
    satisfied the support prong. Id. at 278-79, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630-31
    . In doing so, the
    Court in In re Anderson stated that “our resolution of the instant case does not grant
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    biological mothers the power to thwart the rights of putative fathers.” Id. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630
    . Rather, the Court upheld the legislative purpose of requiring “putative
    fathers to demonstrate parental responsibility with reasonable and consistent
    payments ‘for the support of the biological mother.’ ” Id. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630
    (quoting N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) (2005)). Going on to explain the meaning of
    “for” in the context of the case, the Court concluded that
    respondent could have supplied the requisite support any
    number of ways, such as opening a bank account or
    establishing a trust fund for the benefit of [the mother] or
    their child. Had he done so, [the mother’s] intransigence
    would not have prevented him from creating a payment
    record through regular deposits into the account or trust
    fund in accordance with his financial resources.
    Id. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630-31
     (emphasis added).
    In contrast, the Court of Appeals upheld a trial court’s finding that the father’s
    consent was required in In re Adoption of K.A.R., and this Court denied review. 
    205 N.C. App. 611
    , 613, 
    696 S.E.2d 757
    , 759 (2010), disc. rev. denied, 
    365 N.C. 75
    , 
    706 S.E.2d 236
     (2011). In that case, the birth mother was eighteen years old, and the
    father was twenty years old. 
    Id. at 612
    , 
    696 S.E.2d at 759
    . The father continually
    expressed a desire to participate in the birth mother’s and child’s lives, even
    attending prenatal classes and doctor visits until the birth mother requested that he
    not accompany her any longer. Id. at 612-13, 
    696 S.E.2d at 759
    . When the birth
    mother became pregnant, the father was unemployed and was living with his parents.
    Id. at 612-13, 
    696 S.E.2d at 759
    . Before the child was born, the father found a job,
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    and once he had an income, he purchased items for the baby “such as: a car seat, a
    baby crib mattress, and clothing worth over $200.00.” Id. at 613, 
    696 S.E.2d at 759
    .
    The trial court concluded that the father provided reasonable and consistent support
    in accordance with his financial means as required under the statute, and the Court
    of Appeals affirmed the trial court’s conclusion. Id. at 613, 
    696 S.E.2d at 759
    .
    In upholding the trial court’s ruling in In re K.A.R., the Court of Appeals
    discussed the significance of the language in N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) that
    “obliges putative fathers to demonstrate parental responsibility with reasonable and
    consistent payments ‘for the support of the biological mother [ . . . or the support of
    the minor, or both, which may include . . . other tangible means of support].’ ” Id. at
    617, 
    696 S.E.2d at 761
     (alterations in original) (quoting In re Anderson, 360 N.C. at
    273, 
    624 S.E.2d at 627
    (quoting N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) (2005))). The Court of
    Appeals concluded that the deliberate “use of the word ‘for’ rather than ‘to’ suggests
    the legislature wanted to ensure that a putative father, who makes reasonable,
    consistent payments of support, could preserve his parental rights even where the
    biological mother refuses direct assistance.” Id. at 617, 
    696 S.E.2d at 761
    . The Court
    of Appeals further explained that, in codifying N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II), “the
    General Assembly sought ‘to protect the interests and rights of men who have
    demonstrated paternal responsibility and to facilitate the adoption process in
    situations where a putative father for all intents and purposes has walked away from
    his responsibilities to mother and child . . . .’ ” Id. at 615, 
    696 S.E.2d at 760
     (alteration
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    in original) (quoting In re Byrd, 354 N.C. at 194, 
    552 S.E.2d at 146
    ). The statute
    strikes a balance between these competing interests by ensuring a putative father
    can maintain his parental interest and by preventing a mother from unilaterally
    controlling the adoption process, while also allowing for certainty when a child is put
    up for adoption. See id. at 615, 
    696 S.E.2d at 760
     (“ ‘[A]n objective test that requires
    unconditional acknowledgment and tangible support’ best serves the interests of all
    parties as well as the child.”) (alteration in original) (quoting In re Byrd, 354 N.C. at
    198, 
    552 S.E.2d at 149
    )).
    As distinguished from the fathers in In re Byrd and In re Anderson, the Court
    of Appeals reasoned that the father in In re K.A.R. “independently provided items of
    support for the child, even after his efforts to provide support and assistance directly
    to the mother were rebuffed.” Id. at 617, 
    696 S.E.2d at 761
    . By obtaining tangible
    items, like clothing and a car seat, the father offered reasonable support based on his
    financial means, in compliance with N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II). The Court of
    Appeals explained that this Court in “In re Anderson suggested one way a father
    could provide support independently of the mother; the father in the instant case, as
    determined by the trial court, has shown another.” Id. at 617, 
    696 S.E.2d at 762
    .
    Turning to this case, In re K.A.R. helps to support the trial court’s conclusion
    that respondent provided the requisite support under N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II).
    In fact, it is hard to distinguish the present facts from those of In re K.A.R. Unlike
    In re Byrd and In re Anderson, in which the respondents only made offers or
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    attempted offers, here the trial court found that respondent actually set aside money
    for the benefit of C.H.M., similar to the father in In re K.A.R. who actually purchased
    items for the baby. While the majority in this case discounts respondent’s evidence
    as “insufficient to establish the [respondent] made such payments before the
    statutory deadline,” it is clear from the trial court’s findings and this Court’s
    precedent that respondent has indeed fulfilled the statutory requirement.
    Specifically, the majority finds respondent’s evidence incompetent to show both that
    he fulfilled the support requirement before the deadline and that respondent made
    reasonable payments as required by N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II). The majority is
    able to come to this conclusion not because respondent’s evidence was in fact
    incompetent or insufficient, but because the majority takes issue with the type of
    support respondent provided—namely, saving cash in a lockbox. This is evident from
    the majority’s requirement that respondent provide a “precise payment record.” The
    majority makes much ado about respondent’s inability to recall the exact amounts
    placed in the lockbox,     respondent’s lack of records, and respondent’s lack of
    knowledge as to specific dates of his deposits.         Ultimately, however, as already
    addressed earlier in this opinion, all of the majority’s contentions are directly
    addressed and disproved by the trial court’s competent findings of fact based on
    respondent’s own testimony, bank statements, and cash back withdrawal receipts.
    Furthermore, there are no specific requirements in the consent statute relating
    to the form that “support” must take. While the father’s actions in In re K.A.R. are
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    similar in kind to respondent’s actions of saving money in a lockbox for the benefit of
    the child, our case law demonstrates a number of ways to satisfy the support
    requirement. While the In re Anderson opinion specifically referred to bank accounts
    and trust funds—which surely are methods that would provide a “precise payment
    record”—these were only examples of possible ways to provide support. See In re
    Anderson, 360 N.C. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630-31
    . Specifically, this Court stated in In
    re Anderson that
    respondent could have supplied the requisite support any
    number of ways, such as opening a bank account or
    establishing a trust fund for the benefit of [the mother] or
    their child. Had he done so, [the mother’s] intransigence
    would not have prevented him from creating a payment
    record through regular deposits into the account or trust
    fund in accordance with his financial resources.
    Id. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630-31
     (emphasis added).            Therefore, the statute
    contemplates that some putative fathers, because of factors such as limited financial
    means, type of employment, and lack of access to banks, will not necessarily have the
    ability to establish bank accounts or trust funds.
    Moreover, the plain language of N.C.G.S. § 48-3-601(2)(b)(4)(II) requires only
    that the putative father “[h]as provided, in accordance with his financial means,
    reasonable and consistent payments for the support of the biological mother during
    or after the term of pregnancy, or the support of the minor, or both.” No language
    indicates what form a “payment” must take to satisfy the support prong, what method
    of recordkeeping (if any) must be used, or if certain forms of payment are required
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    over others. Rather, this Court has determined that to satisfy the support prong, the
    putative father must provide “actual, real and tangible support, and . . . attempts or
    offers of support do not suffice.” In re Byrd, 354 N.C. at 196, 
    552 S.E.2d at 148
    . As
    this Court has not defined the form that “actual, real and tangible support” must
    take, the assessment of what qualifies as actual support is a question for the trial
    court to determine when considering all the evidence. It is not the business of this
    Court to reweigh the factual evidence in the record, and that is exactly what the
    majority has done here.
    Consequently, based on the specific evidence presented in this case, I would
    hold that the act of saving money in a lockbox, just as purchasing baby items in In re
    K.A.R., is a valid method of providing support to the birth mother or child. In
    addition, unlike what the majority contends, the actions by respondent here, as well
    as those of the respondent in In re K.A.R., establish reasonable support
    commensurate with their financial means as contemplated by N.C.G.S. § 48-3-
    601(2)(b)(4)(II). Possibly, the only distinguishing characteristic between the father’s
    actions in In re K.A.R. and respondent’s actions here is that the purchased baby items
    are more readily targeted to directly benefit the child, whereas cash in a lockbox could
    be used for a myriad of purposes. Yet, despite the differing characteristics between
    the contributions made on behalf of the child, applying the proper standard of
    appellate review, this Court must defer to the trial court’s findings of fact when those
    facts are based on competent evidence. Here, the trial court made extensive findings
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    Beasley, J., dissenting
    of fact,3 ultimately finding that respondent made reasonable and consistent payments
    based on his financial means and earmarked the savings for the benefit of the child.4
    Finally, this Court has been careful to stress that a birth mother should not be
    able to completely control the adoption process. See In re Byrd, 354 N.C. at 196, 
    552 S.E.2d at 148
     (“We also believe that the General Assembly did not intend to place the
    mother in total control of the adoption to the exclusion of any inherent rights of the
    biological father.”); see also In re Anderson, 360 N.C. at 279, 
    624 S.E.2d at 630
     (“So
    long as the father makes reasonable and consistent payments for the support of
    mother or child, the mother’s refusal to accept assistance cannot defeat his paternal
    interest.”). This Court’s decisions in In re Byrd and In re Anderson recognize that
    North Carolina’s adoption consent statute is flexible enough to allow for a putative
    father to maintain his parental rights despite the birth mother’s intransigence. In
    the present case, the birth mother essentially attempted to “thwart” respondent’s
    efforts to provide support. As the trial court found in this case, respondent provided
    adequate support commensurate with his financial means. The majority’s decision—
    reading into the statute additional requirements of record-keeping or formal
    accounting—is simply not supported by statute or case law. Accordingly, I would
    3   The trial court relied on, inter alia, respondent’s own testimony, copies of
    conversations via social media between respondent and the birth mother, bank statements
    and receipts, and testimony from the adoption agency’s personnel.
    4 The trial court noted that its findings were limited by the mother’s failure to respond
    to a subpoena to appear at the hearing. The court noted that the mother was then living out
    of state and was not subject to the court’s power to enforce the subpoena.
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    Beasley, J., dissenting
    affirm the decision of the Court of Appeals, which affirmed the trial court’s order
    requiring the father’s consent for C.H.M.’s adoption.
    Justices HUDSON and MORGAN join in this dissenting opinion.
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