Roybal v. Raulli ( 2019 )


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  •                    IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA
    No. COA18-1085
    Filed: 16 July 2019
    Orange County, No. 14 CVD 1289
    MATTHEW JASON ROYBAL, Plaintiff
    v.
    CHRISTY ANNE RAULLI, Defendant.
    Appeal by plaintiff from order entered 8 October 2018 by Judge Samantha
    Cabe in District Court, Orange County. Heard in the Court of Appeals 8 May 2019.
    Browner Law, PLLC, by Jeremy Todd Browner, for plaintiff-appellant.
    Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C., by Autumn D. Osbourne, for defendant-appellee.
    STROUD, Judge.
    Matthew Roybal appeals from an order addressing several issues of first
    impression for this Court arising from the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and
    Visitation Act (“UDPCVA”). N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 50A-350-396 (2017). Father’s motion
    and the trial court’s order dealt with all three aspects of custodial responsibility
    recognized by the UDPCVA: caretaking authority, decision-making authority, and
    limited contact. N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 50A-374-375. The applicable standards for each
    aspect of custodial responsibility are slightly different, and here, separate prior
    orders addressed custody for each of the parties’ two children, Elizabeth and Jay.1
    1   Pseudonyms will be used for the privacy of the minors involved.
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    Because both children’s previous custody orders addressed caretaking authority and
    decision-making authority in the event of Father’s deployment, and the trial court
    did not find that the circumstances required modification, the trial court did not
    abuse its discretion in denying Father’s motion as to these two aspects of custodial
    responsibility. But the prior orders did not address “limited contact,” which is a form
    of visitation specifically authorized under the UDPCVA. N.C. Gen Stat. § 50A-375.
    The statute requires limited contact to be granted to a “nonparent” with a “close and
    substantial relationship” with a child unless limited contact is contrary to the child’s
    best interest. Id. The trial court correctly granted limited contact to Father’s wife,
    Stepmother, as to Elizabeth, but erred in its interpretation of Jay’s prior order and
    North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373(1) as preventing the court from granting
    limited contact as to Jay. We therefore affirm the trial’s court order in part but
    remand for the trial court to grant limited contact with Jay to Stepmother unless the
    court determines that she does not have a “close and substantial relationship” with
    Jay or that limited contact would be contrary to his best interests. Id. We also
    remand for the trial court to recognize Stepmother as a party to this action “until the
    grant of limited contact is terminated.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-375(b).
    I.     Background
    Mother and Father (hereinafter “parents”) never married but while they were
    residing together, Elizabeth was born in 2012, and after their relationship ended, Jay
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    was born in 2016. In September of 2014, Plaintiff-Father filed a verified complaint
    against Defendant-Mother for joint and legal custody of their daughter, Elizabeth.
    On 21 November 2014, Mother answered Father’s verified complaint and requested
    custody and child support.
    On 29 June 2016, the trial court entered into a consent order for joint legal and
    physical custody of Elizabeth (“Elizabeth’s Consent Order”).                  When Elizabeth’s
    Consent Order was entered, Father was residing with his then fiancé, Victoria,
    (“Stepmother”) and her daughter, age seven, from a previous relationship. Elizabeth
    had already been “introduced as a member of [Father’s] household,”2 and Mother was
    seven months pregnant with Jay.             Elizabeth’s order has extensive and detailed
    provisions for shared custody and decision-making and has these provisions relevant
    to this case:
    2.     Time-Sharing (Physical Custody). The parties
    shall share the physical custody of the minor child as set
    forth herein.
    (a)    Regular Weekly Schedule: Except for the
    periods of Vacation, Holidays and the Plaintiff’s Military
    Duty as set forth below and except for what may otherwise
    be mutually agreed upon between the parties the minor
    child shall be in the physical custody of the Plaintiff
    beginning at 9:30 AM on Sunday morning and continuing
    until the beginning of school on Tuesday morning [two (2)
    days later] or until 9:30 AM on Tuesday morning if there is
    no school. The minor child shall be in the physical custody
    2 The parents developed the terms of Elizabeth’s Consent Order in mediation and it includes “limited
    findings of fact” by consent. The facts regarding circumstances at the time of entry of Elizabeth’s
    Consent Order come from findings of fact in the 2016 order regarding Jay’s custody.
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    of the Defendant beginning with her drop off at school on
    Tuesday morning or from 9:30 AM on Tuesday if there is
    no school until she is dropped off for the beginning of school
    on Thursday morning [two (2) days later] or until 9:30 AM
    on Thursday morning if there is no school. The minor child
    shall be in the Plaintiff’s physical custody from the time
    she is dropped off for school on Thursday morning or from
    9:30 AM on Thursday morning if there is no school until
    the time she is dropped off for school on Friday or until 9:30
    AM on Friday if there is no school. The minor child shall
    be in the Defendant’s physical custody from Friday at the
    beginning of school or from 9:30 AM on Friday if there is
    no school until Sunday morning at 9:30 AM. The net result
    of this schedule is that the Plaintiff has physical custody of
    the minor child for three (3) overnights (Sunday, Monday
    and Thursday) and the Defendant has physical custody of
    the minor child for four (4) overnights (Tuesday,
    Wednesday, Friday and Saturday) with the minor child
    each week, sharing her on a 2-2-1-2 schedule.
    (i)    Military Duty: In the event that the Plaintiff
    has an USAR Drill Weekend (also known as a “Battle
    Assembly”), he shall pick up the minor child by 6:00 PM on
    Sunday to begin his physical custodial time. If the Plaintiff
    is unable to pick up the child by 6:00 PM, the Defendant
    shall retain physical custody of the child until the
    beginning of school on Monday morning or until 9:30 AM
    on Monday morning if there is no school, or as may be
    otherwise mutually agreed to between the parties.
    ....
    5.    “Temporary Military Duty” or “Active Duty”.
    To the extent that any Temporary Military Duty would
    impact the Regular Weekly Schedule set forth above, the
    parties shall return to mediation to determine a new
    schedule, as appropriate at that time. Likewise, in the
    event that the parties cannot create a mutually agreeable
    schedule during any periods of Active Duty, the parties
    shall return to mediation for assistance in reaching a new
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    schedule. Until such time as a new Order or agreement is
    in place, the minor child shall remain in Defendant’s care
    if the Plaintiff is unavailable to exercise his time with the
    minor child.
    6.     Legal Custody. The parties shall share jointly
    in the decisions in reference to the major areas of
    parenting, as often as possible, and specifically:
    ....
    (xi) The parties further stipulate and agree
    that should Plaintiff be deployed or otherwise unavailable
    due to his military status and therefore he be [sic] unable
    to respond to Defendant surrounding a matter that would
    generally fall under legal custody as described herein,
    Defendant shall be entitled to solely make said decision
    after waiting forty eight (48) hours to hear back from
    Plaintiff short of an emergency.
    After the entry of Elizabeth’s Consent Order, Jay was born in August 2016. In
    September 2016, Father filed a motion to modify custody seeking modification of
    Elizabeth’s Consent Order and determination of Jay’s custody. On 11 July 2017, the
    trial court entered an order regarding Jay’s custody, granting the parents joint legal
    and physical custody on a temporary basis, with a final order to be determined later.3
    The trial court denied Father’s motion to modify Elizabeth’s Consent Order, finding
    no substantial change of circumstances since entry of the order. When Jay’s order
    was entered, Father had married Stepmother, and she was pregnant. Jay was eight
    3The order provides that a hearing on permanent custody for Jay “shall not be scheduled before
    December 2017.” Jay’s order does not appear to be a consent order, but prior to the Conclusions of
    Law, the order states: “Based upon the consent of the parties and the foregoing Limited Findings of
    Fact, the Court makes the following: CONCLUSIONS OF LAW.”
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    months old at the time of the hearing in April 2017; he was still breastfeeding and
    not yet sleeping through the night. The trial court granted joint legal and physical
    custody of Jay to the parents and set forth a detailed schedule for physical custody
    and provisions regarding decision-making. As relevant to the issues in this case, the
    order includes these provisions regarding military service:
    g. Should Plaintiff be unable to exercise his custodial time
    described herein due to travel for work or any form of
    military duty, including but not limited to: temporary
    military duty, active duty or deployment, the minor
    child shall remain in Defendant’s custody.
    h. The parties shall share jointly in the decisions in
    reference to the major areas of parenting, as often as
    possible, and specifically:
    i. The parties each have the right to make the day-to-
    day decisions for the minor child. In matters of more
    consequence with long-lasting significance, these
    issues will be discussed between the parties in an
    effort to resolve them by mutual agreement. In the
    event the parties cannot agree, they shall seek
    assistance from a relevant professional or return to
    mediation.
    ii. The parties shall each provide one another with a
    current address, email address and telephone
    number and shall provide notice of any change in
    this information at least 48 hours prior to such
    change.
    On 21 May 2018, Father notified Mother via email of his upcoming deployment.
    Mother and Father discussed attending mediation but could not schedule mediation
    in time to resolve their custody issues before Father’s departure. Father’s official
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    orders to report for “active duty as a member of your Reserve Component Unit” of the
    United States Army were issued on 2 August 2018.4 He was required to report first
    to Fort Hood, Texas, on 20 August 2018 for mandatory training prior to deployment,
    and his mobilization would begin 27 August 2018 and last 400 days. The purpose of
    his activation was “in support of OPERATION ENDURING FREEDOM- HORN OF
    AFRICA.” The Orders did not allow dependents to accompany Father.
    On 13 August 2018, Father filed a “Motion to Grant Caretaking Authority to
    Nonparent Due to Deployed Parent” under the UPDCVA with the Orange County
    District Court. He alleged Stepmother and the children’s stepsister and half brother
    have close and substantial relationships with Elizabeth and Jay and that Stepmother
    should be granted “caretaking and decision-making authority, or in the alternative,
    limited contact” with both children.
    Despite Father’s deployment date of 20 August 2018, the trial court set the
    hearing for 22 October 2018. Father filed a petition for a writ of mandamus with this
    Court to order the trial court to expedite the hearing as required under North
    Carolina General Statute § 50A-371.5 On 24 September 2018, this Court granted
    4The United States Army Reserves is included in the definition of “Uniformed service.” N.C. Gen.
    Stat. § 50A-351(18).
    5 The UDPCVA requires the trial court to conduct an expedited hearing. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-371.
    We understand that the trial court’s docket is normally set far in advance and is more than full, but
    because military deployments often require parents to report for duty very soon, the statute requires
    this type of hearing to be given priority.
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    Father’s petition and ordered the trial court to hold a hearing by 8 October 2018. On
    28 September 2018, the trial court held a hearing on Father’s motion and entered an
    order on 8 October 2018 denying the motion as to Jay and granting it in part by
    ordering limited contact only for Elizabeth. Father timely appealed.
    II.    Interlocutory Appeal
    The order on appeal is an interlocutory order, since it does not resolve all
    pending claims and is a temporary order. An order issued under the UDPCVA is by
    definition a “temporary order” and terminates “60 days from the date the deploying
    parent gives notice of having returned from deployment to the other parent” or “death
    of the deploying parent”:
    A temporary order for custodial responsibility issued under
    Part 3 of this Article shall terminate, if no agreement
    between the parties to terminate a temporary order for
    custodial responsibility has been filed, 60 days from the
    date the deploying parent gives notice of having returned
    from deployment to the other parent and any nonparent
    granted custodial responsibility, when applicable, or upon
    the death of the deploying parent, whichever occurs first.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-388(a). “The general rule which has been stated by this Court
    is that temporary custody orders are interlocutory and unless the order affects a
    “substantial right of [the appellant] which cannot be protected by timely appeal from
    the trial court’s ultimate disposition of the entire controversy on the merits[,]” the
    appeal must be dismissed. File v. File, 
    195 N.C. App. 562
    , 569, 
    673 S.E.2d 405
    , 410
    (2009) But all prior cases addressing appeals of temporary custody orders dealt with
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    orders entered under Chapter 50, and in those cases, a permanent order will normally
    be entered in the near future. See Senner v. Senner, 
    161 N.C. App. 78
    , 81, 
    587 S.E.2d 675
    , 677 (2003). (“[A]n order is temporary if either (1) it is entered without prejudice
    to either party, (2) it states a clear and specific reconvening time in the order and the
    time interval between the two hearings was reasonably brief; or (3) the order does not
    determine all the issues.”). Our Court has not previously addressed jurisdiction to
    review an custodial responsibility order issued under the UDPCVA.6
    Father contends this order falls under North Carolina General Statute § 50-
    19.1, which allows immediate appeal of custody orders even if other claims remain
    pending in the same action:
    Notwithstanding any other pending claims filed in the
    same action, a party may appeal from an order or judgment
    adjudicating a claim for absolute divorce, divorce from bed
    and board, child custody, child support, alimony, or
    equitable distribution if the order or judgment would
    otherwise be a final order or judgment within the meaning
    of G.S. 1A-1, Rule 54(b), but for the other pending claims
    in the same action.
    
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-19.1
     (2017).
    We agree that a custodial responsibility order under the UDPCVA is a variety
    of “child custody” order covered by North Carolina General Statute § 50-19.1.
    6 “Custodial responsibility” is “[a] comprehensive term that includes any and all powers and duties
    relating to caretaking authority and decision-making authority for a child. The term includes custody,
    physical custody, legal custody, parenting time, right to access, visitation, and the authority to
    designate limited contact with a child.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-351(6).
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    Although Jay’s Custody order was a temporary order and issues regarding his
    permanent custody remain unresolved, the issues regarding his permanent custody
    under Chapter 50 are independent of Father’s claim under the UDPCVA. The order
    on appeal is technically a “temporary” order, since custodial responsibility orders
    under the UDPCVA are required to be temporary orders unless the parties agree to
    entry of a permanent order.7 See N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 50A-385-388. But orders for
    custodial responsibility under the UDPCVA would be essentially non-appealable if
    we treated them like temporary custody orders under Chapter 50. The order on
    appeal is a final order addressing all issues raised under the UDPCVA and those
    issues are independent of the underlying Chapter 50 custody claims, so it is otherwise
    “a final order or judgment within the meaning of G.S. 1A-1, Rule 54(b), but for the
    other pending claims in the same action.” 
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-19.1
    . In addition, as
    a practical matter, since a hearing regarding Jay’s pending permanent custody could
    not be done while Father is deployed, if Father were required to wait for resolution
    of Jay’s permanent custody before appealing the custodial responsibility order, the
    UDPCVA order would be rendered moot. Because the order under the UDPCVA is a
    7“After a deploying parent receives notice of deployment and during the deployment, a court may issue
    a temporary order granting custodial responsibility unless prohibited by the Servicemembers Civil
    Relief Act, 50 U.S.C. app. §§ 521-522. A court may not issue a permanent order granting custodial
    responsibility in the absence of the deploying parent without the consent of the deploying parent.”
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-370(a).
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    final order addressing the UDPCVA claim, we have jurisdiction to review the order
    under North Carolina General Statute § 50-19.1.
    III.     Parties
    We first note that Stepmother has not formally intervened or been made a
    party to this case.8 Either parent may file a claim or motion under the UDPCVA.
    The UDPCVA addresses how and when a “proceeding for a temporary custody order”
    may be filed. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-370(b) (“At any time after a deploying parent
    receives notice of deployment, either parent may file a motion regarding custodial
    responsibility of a child during deployment.”). This portion of the statute does not
    address intervention or adding parties to the case. Later in Article 3, North Carolina
    General Statute § 50A-375, entitled “Grant of Limited Contact,” deals with provisions
    of the order and provides that “[a]ny nonparent who is granted limited contact shall
    be made a party to the action until the grant of limited contact is terminated. N.C.
    Gen. Stat. § 50A-375(b) (emphasis added). “Limited contact” is defined as “[t]he
    opportunity for a nonparent to visit with a child for a limited period of time. The term
    includes authority to take the child to a place other than the residence of the child.”
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-351(11).
    8 Elizabeth’s Consent Order includes a provision regarding intervention by “Defendant’s mother,
    Diane Ivers Raulli” who “filed a Motion to Intervene in this case on June 28, 2016.” The parties
    stipulated Defendant’s mother was allowed to intervene and a consent order was to be prepared
    granting intervention, reserving her request for grandparent visitation rights. Our record does not
    reveal if the order for intervention was ever entered or if Grandmother’s request for visitation was
    ever considered.
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    The order on appeal granted Stepmother, a “nonparent” as defined by North
    Carolina General Statute § 50A-351(11), “limited contact” with Elizabeth, so she
    should have been made a party to this action “until the grant of limited contact is
    terminated.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-375(b). We must therefore consider whether we
    have jurisdiction to consider the issues on appeal, since all “necessary parties” must
    be joined in an action under North Carolina General Statute § 1A-1, Rule 19:
    Rule 19 dictates that all necessary parties must be joined
    in an action. Rule 19 requires the trial court to join as a
    necessary party any persons united in interest and/or any
    persons without whom a complete determination of the
    claim cannot be made since a judgment without such
    necessary joinder is void. A party does not waive the
    defense of failure to join a necessary party; an objection on
    this basis can be raised at any time. A reviewing court is
    required to raise the issue ex mero motu to protect its
    jurisdiction.
    Commonwealth Land Title Ins. Co. v. Stephenson, 
    97 N.C. App. 123
    , 125, 
    387 S.E.2d 77
    , 79 (1990) (emphasis added) (citations, quotation marks, brackets, and ellipsis
    omitted).
    Under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-370(b), only the parents may
    bring a claim under the UDPCVA, so Stepmother could not have filed the motion.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-370(b). Under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375(b),
    the trial court is directed to make a person to whom limited contact is granted “a
    party to the action until the grant of limited contact is terminated.” N.C. Gen. Stat.
    § 50A-375(b). “It is well established that ‘the word “shall” is generally imperative or
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    mandatory.’” Multiple Claimants v. N. Carolina Dep’t of Health & Human Servs.,
    
    361 N.C. 372
    , 378, 
    646 S.E.2d 356
    , 360 (2007) (quoting State v. Johnson, 
    298 N.C. 355
    , 361, 
    259 S.E.2d 752
    , 757 (1979)). In addition, “[a] nonparent granted caretaking
    authority, decision-making authority, or limited contact under this Part has standing
    to enforce the grant until it is terminated under Part 4 of this Article or by court
    order.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-376(b). Thus, Stepmother would have standing to
    enforce the order under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-376(b). The order also
    specifically directs Stepmother to participate in the visitation schedule for Elizabeth
    and to “work together” with Mother to ensure that Elizabeth does not miss special
    events and that she will see her step and half siblings for “major holidays, including
    Thanksgiving and Christmas.”
    We also recognize that in custody cases, our Courts have previously recognized
    “de facto parties” where a nonparent has been granted custodial rights by a court
    order and have allowed the “de facto” parties to be formally added as parties even
    after entry of a court order or on appeal. In Sloan v. Sloan, this Court noted
    Moreover, after a trial court has awarded custody to
    a person who was not a party to the action or proceeding,
    this Court has held that
    it would be proper and advisable for that
    person to be made a party to the action or
    proceeding to the end that such party would
    be subject to orders of the court. This may be
    done even after judgment and by the
    appellant court when the case is appealed.
    By filing a motion to intervene in the matter, intervenors
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    were simply requesting to be formally recognized as parties
    to a child custody action in which they had already been
    awarded visitation rights. Therefore, the trial court did not
    err in granting their motion to intervene even after the
    order determining permanent custody of C.S. was entered.
    
    164 N.C. App. 190
    , 194-95, 
    595 S.E.2d 228
    , 231 (2004) (citation, ellipsis, and brackets
    omitted).
    Therefore, Stepmother was treated as a “de facto” party based upon the trial
    court’s order granting her limited contact and ordering her to take specific actions,
    and the fact that the trial court did not formally order her to be added as a party does
    not impair our jurisdiction. As noted in In re Custody of Branch, it is “proper and
    advisable” for Stepmother to be “made a party to the action or proceeding to the end
    that such party would be subject to orders of the court.” 
    16 N.C. App. 413
    , 415, 
    192 S.E.2d 43
    , 45 (1972). “We have held, however, that this may be done even after
    judgment and by the appellate court when the case is appealed.” 
    Id.
     Based upon
    North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375, Stepmother should be made a party to
    this action “until the grant of limited contact is terminated,” so we will remand the
    order on appeal for the trial court to include this provision.
    IV.     Standard of Review
    No case has yet addressed the standard of review for custodial responsibility
    orders under the UDPCVA.         The issues presented here are primarily statutory
    construction issues, which we review de novo:
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    We review issues of statutory construction de novo. In
    matters of statutory construction, our primary task is to
    ensure that the purpose of the legislature, the legislative
    intent, is accomplished. Legislative purpose is first
    ascertained from the plain words of the statute. A statute
    that is clear on its face must be enforced as written. Courts,
    in interpreting the clear and unambiguous text of a statute,
    must give it its plain and definite meaning, as there is no
    room for judicial construction. . . .
    In applying the language of a statute, and because the
    actual words of the legislature are the clearest
    manifestation of its intent, we give every word of the
    statute effect, presuming that the legislature carefully
    chose each word used. Finally, we must be guided by the
    fundamental rule of statutory construction that statutes in
    pari materia, and all parts thereof, should be construed
    together and compared with each other.
    Hill v. Hill, ___ N.C. App. ___, ___, 
    821 S.E.2d 210
    , 227-28 (2018) (alteration in
    original) (quoting In re Ivey, ___ N.C. App. ___, ___, 
    810 S.E.2d 740
    , 744 (2018)).
    Father challenges none of the trial court’s findings of fact as unsupported by
    the evidence, so where the trial court has correctly interpreted the statute, we review
    the trial court’s conclusions of law to determine if they are supported by the findings
    of fact. Shipman v. Shipman, 
    357 N.C. 471
    , 475, 
    586 S.E.2d 250
    , 254 (2003). “Absent
    an abuse of discretion, the trial court’s decision in matters of child custody should not
    be upset on appeal.” Everette v. Collins, 
    176 N.C. App. 168
    , 171, 
    625 S.E.2d 796
    , 798
    (2006). “An abuse of discretion occurs when the trial court’s ruling is so arbitrary
    that it could not have been the result of a reasoned decision.” In re N.G., 
    186 N.C. App. 1
    , 10-11, 
    650 S.E.2d 45
    , 51 (2007).
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    V.     Caretaking and Decision-Making Authority for Elizabeth
    Just as the underlying custody order provisions for Elizabeth and Jay differ,
    the trial court’s order under the UDPCVA also has different provisions for Elizabeth
    and Jay. As to Elizabeth, the trial court granted limited contact; as to Jay, the trial
    court denied Father’s motion entirely. We will therefore address the provisions of the
    order regarding Elizabeth and Jay separately.
    A     “Prior Judicial Order” under N.C. Gen. Stat § 50A-373
    Father does not challenge the trial court’s findings of fact but argues the trial
    court erred by denying caretaking authority or decision-making authority as to
    Elizabeth. The trial court granted only limited contact with Elizabeth to Stepmother.
    Father argues first that Elizabeth’s Consent Order does not “directly address a
    deployment but only addresses ‘Temporary Military Duty’ or ‘Active Duty.’” He
    contends that these terms, as used in Elizabeth’s Consent Order, refer to his “military
    activity during his once a month drill or when he is sent away for required military
    training in preparation for a deployment.” Thus, Father argues, since Elizabeth’s
    Consent Order does not address deployment, it is not a “prior judicial order
    designating custodial responsibility of a child in the event of deployment.” N.C. Gen.
    Stat. § 50A-373(1) (emphasis added). Father contends that the trial court should
    have considered his claim as to Elizabeth under North Carolina General Statute §
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    50A-374, which controls in the absence of a “prior judicial order” addressing
    deployment.
    Mother agrees with Father that Elizabeth’s Consent Order “does not
    specifically refer to the term ‘deployment’ so it is not a ‘prior judicial [order]’ as
    contemplated by N.G. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373(1).” She agrees that “N.C.G.S. § 50A-374
    was the governing statute for the trial court to determine whether to grant caretaking
    and decision-making authority for” Elizabeth and contends the trial court applied it
    properly since North Carolina General Statute § 50A-374 says the court may grant
    caretaking authority to a nonparent but does not require that it do so.
    The trial court first made detailed findings of fact regarding the prior orders
    and various family members, including Stepmother, the children’s stepsister, and
    their half brother. As to Elizabeth, the trial court made these relevant findings of
    fact and conclusions of law:
    15. [Mother] has not cut off access to both minor children
    to [Stepmother] or to their step-sister and half-brother.
    16. [Mother] and [Stepmother] communicate better with
    each other than the parties do with one another.
    17. [Mother] and [Stepmother] seem to work out these
    children maintaining a relationship amongst
    themselves and both are acting in the children’s best
    interests.
    ....
    19. There is a prior permanent custody order in place for
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    the minor child [Elizabeth]. The order refers to “active
    duty,” but not specifically to “deployment.”
    20. There are sufficient circumstances to grant limited
    contact as to [Elizabeth] but deny custodial
    responsibility and decision making authority. The
    terms of the prior order are sufficient to address
    custodial/decision-making authority.
    21. Sufficient circumstances exist to allow [Stepmother]
    limited contact with [Elizabeth] as described herein.
    22. [Mother] and [Stepmother] can do a great job in keeping
    these four children in contact with one another and
    that both of them want to see these children thrive.
    23. [Mother] and [Stepmother] can augment the above
    limited contact in ways that are beneficial to all four of
    the above-mentioned children even though only two of
    them are subject to this order.
    24. [Mother] and [Stepmother] have not acted in any way
    other than keeping the four children in contact with
    one another and allowing the children to thrive.
    ....
    Based on the foregoing FINDINGS OF FACT, the Court
    makes the following:
    CONCLUSIONS OF LAW
    1. The facts as set forth in paragraphs 1 through 25 above
    are fully incorporated herein by reference to the extent that
    they are also conclusions of law.
    2. The Court has jurisdiction of the parties and the subject
    matter of this action.
    3. That there are not sufficient circumstances to modify the
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    previous custody orders of [Elizabeth] and [Jay] to allow
    custodial responsibility and grant decision making
    authority to [Stepmother.]
    4. That [Elizabeth’s] custody order is not clear on limited
    contact in the event of Plaintiff’s deployment and limited
    contact as to [Elizabeth] to [Stepmother] is granted as
    described herein.
    5. That NCGS §50A-373 specifically says, “In a proceeding
    for a grant of custodial responsibility pursuant to this Part”
    6. That NCGS §50A-373 and §50A-375 are both located in
    Part 3 of Article 3, Chapter 50A of the North Carolina
    General Statutes.
    7. That the grant of Limited Contact is a proceeding of Part
    3 of Article 3, Chapter 50A of the North Carolina General
    Statutes and is subject to NCGS §50A-373.
    Although Mother and Father both contend in their briefs that the claim for a
    custodial responsibility order for Elizabeth is not subject to North Carolina General
    Statute § 50A-373, we disagree, at least in part. We will first address the “Judicial
    Procedure for Granting Custodial Responsibility During Deployment” as set out in
    Part 3 of the UPDCVA. Part 3 sets out provisions applicable to the trial court’s
    resolution of a claim for a custodial responsibility order. N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 50A-370-
    384. North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373 titled, “Effect of a prior judicial
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    decree or agreement,”9 governs cases in which the parents have an existing order or
    agreement addressing “custodial responsibility of a child in the event of deployment”:
    In a proceeding for a grant of custodial responsibility
    pursuant to this Part, the following shall apply:
    (1) A prior judicial order designating custodial
    responsibility of a child in the event of deployment is
    binding on the court unless the circumstances require
    modifying a judicial order regarding custodial
    responsibility.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373.
    B.     Terminology
    One issue noted by the Prefatory Note to the Uniform Act is “The Problem of
    Differing Terminology”:
    The UDPCVA seeks to establish uniformity in the
    terminology used in custody cases arising from
    deployment, given the prospect that many of these cases
    will involve more than one jurisdiction. States, however,
    currently differ on the terminology that they use to
    describe issues of custody and visitation. In enacting the
    UDPCVA, states are encouraged to add any state specific
    terminology to the definitions of the specific terms used in
    the Act, without replacing the Act’s specific terms or
    deleting the existing definitions of those terms. Use of
    common terms and definitions by states enacting the Act
    will facilitate resolution of cases involving multiple
    jurisdictions.
    9We note that the Uniform Act entitles this same section “Effect of Prior Judicial Order or Agreement,”
    while North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373 is titled “Effect of prior judicial decree or agreement.”
    (Emphasis added.) Yet the substantive language of both the Uniform Act and North Carolina statute
    uses the same terminology: “A prior judicial order . . . .” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373. The Official
    Comments following the section also use the term “decree” instead of “order.” We have been unable to
    determine any relevant difference between the terms “order” and “decree” for purposes of this case.
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    Unif. Deploy. Parent Cust. & Vist. Act, Prefatory Note.
    The terminology used by the UDPCVA is crucial to both the parents’
    arguments and our analysis, so we will first address the meaning of the controlling
    terms. The UDPCVA includes definitions of many terms, and where the statute has
    provided a definition, we must use that definition. See Knight Pub. Co. v. Charlotte-
    Mecklenburg Hosp. Auth., 
    172 N.C. App. 486
    , 492, 
    616 S.E.2d 602
    , 607 (2005) (“If a
    statute ‘contains a definition of a word used therein, that definition controls,’ but
    nothing else appearing, ‘words must be given their common and ordinary meaning[.]’”
    (alteration in original) (quoting In re Clayton-Marcus Co., 
    286 N.C. 215
    , 219, 
    210 S.E.2d 199
    , 203 (1974)).
    North Carolina’s UDPCVA was adopted in 2013 with only a few variations
    from the Uniform Act. North Carolina General Statute § 50A-395, titled “Uniformity
    of application and construction” requires that “[i]n applying and construing this
    Article, consideration shall be given to the need to promote uniformity of the law with
    respect to its subject matter among states that enact it.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-395.
    Very few other state appellate courts have addressed orders issued under the
    UDPCVA, and none have addressed the issues raised in this case. We will consider
    any differences between the Uniform Act and the law as adopted in North Carolina
    to determine if they are relevant to the issues in this case, and we will consider the
    Prefatory Note and Comments to the Uniform Act as applicable.              As to any
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    terminology used by the Uniform Act and adopted by North Carolina, we will seek to
    interpret terms as intended under the Uniform Act “to promote uniformity of the law
    with respect to its subject matter.” Id. We will therefore use the specific terms as
    stated in the UDPCVA in accord with their definitions and will include terms used in
    North Carolina “without replacing the Act’s specific terms or deleting the existing
    definitions of those terms.” Id.
    C.    “Custodial Responsibility”
    There is no dispute that Elizabeth’s Consent Order is a “prior judicial order,”
    as it is an order previously issued in Elizabeth’s custody case. The issue on appeal
    arises based upon the rest of the phrase: “designating custodial responsibility of a
    child in the event of deployment.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373(1). The first term we
    must consider is “custodial responsibility.” The UDPCVA uses several terms unique
    to the Uniform Act to address various aspects of custody, recognizing that different
    states use different terminology. “Custodial responsibility” is the “umbrella term” for
    the various aspects of custody:
    The UDPCVA establishes one umbrella term,
    “custodial responsibility,” for all issues relating to custody,
    including the responsibility often referred to in other state
    custody law as physical custody, visitation, and legal
    custody. The Act also establishes three sub-categories of
    custodial responsibility that can be transferred to others
    during       deployment:         “caretaking        authority,”
    “decision-making authority,” and “limited contact.” The
    terminology used for each of these sub-categories is
    original to the UDPCVA. The term “caretaking authority”
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    is meant to encompass the authority to live with, spend
    time with, or visit with a child. States often use a number
    of terms that fall within this definition, including “primary
    physical     custody,”     “secondary      physical   custody,”
    “visitation,” and “possessory conservatorship.” All these
    are meant to be subsumed under the term “caretaking
    authority.”
    In contrast, the term “decision-making authority”
    means the authority to make decisions about a child’s life
    beyond the authority that ordinarily accompanies a
    transfer of caretaking authority under state custody law.
    This term is meant to encompass the authority referred to
    in many states as “legal custody,” including the authority
    reasonably necessary to make decisions such as the ability
    to enroll the child in a local school, to deal with health care,
    to participate in religious training, and to allow the child
    to engage in extracurricular activities and travel.
    Finally, the term “limited contact” refers to a form of
    visitation with the child given to nonparents on the request
    of a deployed service member. This type of visitation allows
    the service member to sustain his or her relationship with
    the child through designating either a family member or
    other person with whom the child has a close relationship
    to spend time with the child during the service member’s
    absence. The limited contact definition allows the
    possibility that it may be granted to minors as well as
    adults. Thus a minor half-sibling or step-sibling of the child
    could be granted limited contact during a service member’s
    deployment. This type of contact with the child is a more
    limited form of visitation than courts usually grant to
    parents or grandparents outside the deployment context.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-351 Official Comment.
    Elizabeth’s Consent Order addressed physical custody and visitation,
    comparable to “caretaking;” we have quoted some of those provisions above. The
    Consent Order also had detailed provisions under the heading “Legal Custody” which
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    addressed joint decision-making in the “major areas of parenting, as often as
    possible,” including subsections addressing day-to-day decisions; medical treatment;
    education; extracurricular activities; and travel out of state.          It also addressed
    decision-making when Father is “deployed or otherwise unavailable due to his
    military status and therefore he be [sic] unable to respond to Defendant surrounding
    a matter that would generally fall under legal custody as described herein.”
    But Elizabeth’s Order does not address “limited contact,” which differs
    somewhat from the types of provisions typically included in a consent order between
    two parents addressing only their own custody and visitation rights under Chapter
    50. “Limited contact” is a form of visitation with nonparents; under Chapter 50, a
    trial court can grant visitation to nonparents only in very limited circumstances. See
    McIntyre v. McIntyre, 
    341 N.C. 629
    , 635, 
    461 S.E.2d 745
    , 749-50 (1995) (finding
    grandparents have the right to seek visitation “only in certain clearly specified
    situations”). This type of visitation with persons other than parents can be addressed
    by an order or agreement, but in this instance, the parents did not set forth any form
    of “limited contact” with any nonparent.10
    D.     “Deployment”
    The next term in contention here is “deployment.” Fortunately, the UDPCVA
    also defines deployment:
    10As noted above, Elizabeth’s Consent Order included a provision regarding intervention by the
    maternal grandmother and her request for grandparent visitation rights was reserved.
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    The movement or mobilization of a service member to a
    location for more than 90 days, but less than 18 months,
    pursuant to an official order that (i) is designated as
    unaccompanied; (ii) does not authorize dependent travel; or
    (iii) otherwise does not permit the movement of family
    members to that location.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-351(9).
    Both Mother and Father contend that Elizabeth’s Consent Order refers to
    “Temporary Military Duty” and “Active Duty” but not specifically “deployment.” This
    is not entirely correct, as the order includes a decision-making provision which
    specifically includes deployment:
    The parties further stipulate and agree that should
    Plaintiff be deployed or otherwise unavailable due to his
    military status and therefore he be unable to respond to
    Defendant surrounding a matter that would generally fall
    under legal custody as described herein, Defendant shall
    be entitled to solely make said decision after waiting forty-
    eight (48) hours to hear back from Plaintiff short of an
    emergency.
    (Emphasis added.)
    Certainly, the parents were using the common meaning of “deployment” in the
    Consent Order and not the specific definition under the UDPCVA but that does not
    mean that Elizabeth’s Consent Order provisions do not address the circumstances
    described as “deployment” as defined by North Carolina General Statute § 50A-
    351(9). Both deployment and active duty are defined by the Department of Defense,
    and we look to those definitions to aid our interpretation. Active duty is defined as,
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    “Full-time duty in the active military service of the United States, including active
    duty or full-time training duty in the Reserve Component.” U.S. Dep’t of Defense,
    Dictionary of Military and Associated Terms, 7 (May 2019). Deployment is defined
    as, “The movement of forces into and out of an operational area.” Id. at 65.
    The terms of Elizabeth’s order actually contemplate several types of military
    duty by Father, ranging from weekend drill—which would not be “deployment” as
    defined by the UDPCVA due to the short time duration—to “Active Duty,” which is
    the type of duty Father was deployed to perform. One subsection of the order,
    following the regular weekly schedule, addresses a variation to the schedule for his
    monthly drill weekends: “Military Duty: In the event that the Plaintiff has an USAR
    Drill Weekend (also known as a ‘Battle Assembly’), he shall pick up the minor child
    by 6:00 PM on Sunday to begin his physical custodial time.” Later, the Consent Order
    addresses longer term assignments in a section referring to “Temporary Military
    Duty” and “Active Duty,” including “any Temporary Military Duty that would impact
    the Regular Weekly Schedule set forth above.”             (Emphasis added.)     Father’s
    deployment to Africa for over a year obviously “impact[s] the Regular Weekly
    Schedule.” Thus, Elizabeth’s Consent Order is “[a] prior judicial order designating
    custodial responsibility of a child in the event of deployment[.]” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-
    373(1) (emphasis added). Although the Consent Order does not address limited
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    contact, it addresses caretaking authority and decision-making authority in the event
    of deployment.
    E.    Application of N.C. Gen. Stat. 50A-373
    We have determined that Elizabeth’s Consent Order is “[a] prior judicial order
    designating custodial responsibility of a child in the event of deployment,” so it is
    “binding on the court unless the circumstances require modifying a judicial order
    regarding custodial responsibility.” N.C. Gen. Stat. §50A-373(1). As noted above, the
    Consent Order addresses only “caretaking” and “decision-making,” so it was “binding”
    on the trial court “unless the circumstances require modifying a judicial order
    regarding custodial responsibility.” Id. (emphasis added). The trial court found “the
    terms of the prior order are sufficient to address custodial/decision-making
    authority.” But Father argues that
    [i]t is well established in North Carolina that a trial court
    may order a modification of an existing child custody order
    between two natural parents if the party moving for
    modification shows that a “substantial change of
    circumstances affecting the welfare of the child” warrants
    a change in custody provided that the change is in the best
    interest of the child.
    However, the North Carolina legislature enacted
    North Carolina’s UDPCVA with a weaker “circumstances
    require” in NCGS §50A-373(1) versus “circumstances meet
    the requirements of law of this state other than this [act]
    for modifying a judicial order regarding custodial
    responsibility,” of the model act section 305(1).
    Plaintiff/Appellant’s position is that “circumstances
    required” is too nebulous to be considered anything but
    the normal conditions to modify a custody order.
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    Therefore, [Elizabeth’s] order should not be viewed for
    caretaking authority through NCGS §50A-373(1) but
    through NCGS 50A-374.
    (Citations omitted.)
    North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373 differs from the Uniform Act’s
    comparable Section 305, as noted by Father, in a manner he contends inappropriately
    gives the trial court entirely unlimited discretion to enter or to refuse to enter a
    custodial responsibility order contrary to a “prior judicial order” which addresses
    custody in the event of deployment. The UDPCVA provides no specific guidance on
    why our General Assembly substituted the terms “circumstances require” for
    “circumstances meet the requirements of law of this state other than this [act] for
    modifying a judicial order regarding custodial responsibility.” But North Carolina
    General Statute § 50A-395 requires us to give consideration “to the need to promote
    uniformity of the law with respect to its subject matter among states that enact it.”
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-395. In addition, the General Assembly adopted the Comments
    to Section 305 of the Uniform Act, and these comments address the language of the
    Uniform Act, despite the difference in the language adopted by North Carolina. The
    Official Comment notes that
    [s]ection 305 [G.S. 50A-373] governs the court’s
    consideration of a past judicial decree or agreement
    between the parents that specifically contemplates custody
    during a service member’s deployment. In crafting this
    provision, the UDPCVA seeks to give significant deference
    to past decrees and agreements in which issues of custody
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    during deployment have already been considered and
    resolved. At the same time, it seeks to balance the value of
    certainty gained by leaving settled matters settled against
    the recognition that in some circumstances past
    determinations may no longer be in the best interest of the
    child.
    This provision gives somewhat more deference to
    custody provisions in prior judicial decrees than in out-of-
    court agreements. To overturn the former, the challenger
    must first meet the state’s standard for modifying a judicial
    decree regarding custodial responsibility. In most states,
    this standard requires that there be a showing of a
    substantial or material change of circumstances that was
    not foreseeable at the time the prior judicial decree was
    entered. Only if a challenger meets that showing, as well
    as overcomes the presumption that the previous decree was
    in the best interest of the child, may the court modify the
    earlier decree. In contrast, the challenger of a custody
    provision established in a past agreement needs only to
    overcome the presumption that the provision is in the best
    interest of the child.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373 Official Comment (alteration in original) (emphasis added).
    By rejecting the phrase “meet the requirements of the law of this state other
    than this [act]” as used in the Uniform Act, the General Assembly was removing the
    portion of the statute which would arguably have required the exact same substantial
    change of circumstances as the standard for modification of a prior permanent
    custody order under North Carolina’s UDPCVA. As enacted in North Carolina, the
    UPDCVA allows the trial court to modify a prior custody order with a lesser showing
    than would normally be required for modification of a permanent order. In other
    words, the movant need not prove a “substantial change in circumstances that was
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    not foreseeable at the time the prior judicial decree was entered[,]” as described in
    the Official Comments. See N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373 Official Comment (allowing an
    existing custody order to be modified if the “circumstances require” which is left to
    the trial court to determine).
    This lesser standard for “circumstances” which “require” modification is in
    accord with the purpose of the UDPCVA. It is intended to address “issues of child
    custody and visitation that arise when parents are deployed in military or other
    national service” since “deployment in national service raises custody issues that are
    not adequately dealt with in the law of most states.” Unif. Deploy. Parent Cust. &
    Vist. Act, Prefatory Note. If a motion to modify a prior permanent custody order
    based upon a substantial change of circumstances affecting the best interests of the
    children under North Carolina General Statute § 50-13.7 adequately addressed the
    custody concerns of deployed parents and their families, there would be no need for
    the UDPCVA to address the standard for modification at all. Often, the parents will
    have an existing order or agreement, which may or may not address deployment or
    as in this case, the order may address some aspects of custodial responsibility but not
    others. The UDPCVA seeks to enable deployed parents to obtain an order quickly
    and to preserve not just the relationship between the deployed parent and child, but
    also between the child and the deployed parent’s other family members or others who
    have a substantial relationship with the child based upon the deployed parent.
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    Although we agree with Father that the phrase “circumstances require” may
    seem “nebulous,” it is given more content and meaning when read in context with the
    other applicable provisions of the UDPCVA and the “polar star” of all child custody
    cases: the best interests of the child.11
    In custody matters, the best interests of the child is the
    polar star by which the court must be guided. Although the
    trial judge is granted wide discretion, a judgment awarding
    permanent custody must contain findings of fact in support
    of the required conclusion of law that custody has been
    awarded to the person who will best promote the interest
    and welfare of the child. These findings may concern
    physical, mental, or financial fitness or any other factors
    brought out by the evidence and relevant to the issue of the
    welfare of the child. The welfare of the child is the
    paramount consideration to which all other factors,
    including common law preferential rights of the parents,
    must be deferred or subordinated.
    McRoy v. Hodges, 
    160 N.C. App. 381
    , 386-87, 
    585 S.E.2d 441
    , 445 (2003) (citations,
    quotation marks, and ellipsis omitted).
    The trial court must give deference to a “prior judicial order” which addresses
    “custodial responsibility” in the event of deployment, but if “circumstances require,”
    it may enter an order under the UDPCVA with additional terms for any aspect of
    11 North Carolina General Statute § 50A-374, the statute Father argues should apply to his motion as
    to Elizabeth, grants the trial court discretion to grant caretaking authority if it is in the best interest
    of the child. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-374(a) (“In accordance with the laws of this State and on the motion
    of a deploying parent, a court may grant caretaking authority of a child to a nonparent who is an adult
    family member of the child or an adult with whom the child has a close and substantial relationship if
    it is in the best interest of the child.” (emphasis added)). Several other sections of the UDPCVA also
    refer to “the law of this State” and “best interest of the child.” See N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-352, 373,
    374, 375, 377, 378, 379, 387 & 388. The UDPCVA incorporates the “best interest” standard explicitly
    in various sections. See N.G. Gen. Stat. §§ 50A-373(b), 375(a), 377(3)-(4), 379(a), 387.
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    “custodial responsibility,” including caretaking, decision-making, or limited contact.
    See N.C. Gen. Stat. §50A-373(a). Although it is not clear from the trial court’s
    conclusions of law exactly how it determined North Carolina General Statute § 50A-
    373 applied to Elizabeth’s Consent Order, the trial court’s rationale is clear.
    Essentially, the trial court examined the relationships between Mother, Stepmother,
    and all four children; noted the admirable cooperation between Mother and
    Stepmother; examined the existing provisions of Elizabeth’s Consent Order; and
    determined that the circumstances required no change to the provisions of the order
    regarding caretaking or decision-making, but that it would be in Elizabeth’s best
    interest to have limited contact as set out in the order.
    F.    Caretaking Authority
    Father argues that the trial court was not bound by Elizabeth’s Consent Order
    and erred by not granting Stepmother caretaking authority under North Carolina
    General Statute §50A-374, which provides that the trial court “may grant caretaking
    authority of a child to a nonparent who is an adult family member of the child or an
    adult with whom the child has a close and substantial relationship if it is in the best
    interest of the child.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-374(a) (emphasis added). Even if we
    agreed with Father that Elizabeth’s Consent Order was not binding on the trial court,
    the trial court had the discretion to grant caretaking authority under North Carolina
    General Statute § 374 but was not required to do so.
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    “As used in statutes, the word ‘shall’ is generally
    imperative or mandatory.” In contrast, “may” is generally
    intended to convey that the power granted can be exercised
    in the actor’s discretion, but the actor need not exercise that
    discretion at all.
    Silver v. Halifax Cty. Bd. of Commissioners, ___ N.C. ___, ___, 
    821 S.E.2d 755
    , 761
    (2018) (emphasis added) (citation omitted).
    Father has not shown that the trial court abused its discretion by denying
    caretaking authority to Stepmother. The trial court’s findings show it carefully
    considered the entire family’s situation and tailored the order to address Elizabeth’s
    needs, so we cannot discern any abuse of discretion. See Walsh v. Jones, ___ N.C.
    App. ___, ___, 
    824 S.E.2d 129
    , 134 (2019) (“Our trial courts are vested with broad
    discretion in child custody matters. This discretion is based upon the trial courts’
    opportunity to see the parties; to hear the witnesses; and to detect tenors, tones, and
    flavors that are lost in the bare printed record read months later by appellate judges.”
    (quoting Shipman 
    357 N.C. at 474
    , 
    586 S.E.2d at 253-54
    )).
    G.    Decision-Making Authority
    Father also argues that the trial court erred by not granting Stepmother
    decision-making authority under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-374, which
    provides that the trial court
    may grant part of the deploying parent’s decision-making
    authority for a child to a nonparent who is an adult family
    member of the child or an adult with whom the child has a
    close and substantial relationship if the deploying parent is
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    unable to exercise that authority. When a court grants the
    authority to a nonparent, the court shall specify the
    decision-making powers that will and will not be granted,
    including applicable health, educational, and religious
    decisions.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-374(c) (emphasis added).
    Father argues that Elizabeth’s Consent Order, which requires him to respond
    to Mother within 48 hours regarding decisions they are to make jointly, are not
    practicable during his deployment since he will be “on another continent” and
    although he may have access to “video chatting and email, his military duty
    frequently requires him to be away from civilian communications for days at a time.”
    Since he may be unable to be reached or unable to respond within 48 hours, he
    contends that Stepmother knows “his wishes” on a “wide variety of subjects,” she
    should be allowed to step into his role in joint decision-making with Mother. But we
    note that Father did not testify at the hearing, and Stepmother did not testify
    regarding Father’s duties during his deployment, his actual communication options,
    or his potential lack of access to “video chatting or email” during his deployment.
    Since Father presented no evidence on these facts, we will generously assume that
    Father’s argument is generally based upon the “communications” section of
    Elizabeth’s Consent Order, which provides for the parents to “share and exchange
    information” “via telephone, email and text messages.”
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    Just as for caretaking authority, decision-making authority is a discretionary
    ruling, but this subsection provides a condition precedent: the trial court may grant
    decision-making authority to a nonparent “if the deploying parent is unable to
    exercise that authority.” Id. Father did not present evidence regarding his potential
    lack of ability to communicate with Mother by “telephone, email and text messages,”
    as provided by Elizabeth’s Consent Order. Where Father did not present evidence
    that his military duties would substantially interfere with his ability to use these
    forms of communication or that he would normally be unable to respond to Mother
    within 48 hours, the trial court had no basis upon which to find that Father would be
    “unable to exercise” his decision-making authority. Father has not demonstrated any
    abuse of discretion by the trial court’s denial of decision-making authority to
    Stepmother.
    H.    Limited Contact
    Since Elizabeth’s Consent Order did not address the aspect of “custodial
    responsibility” defined by the UDPCVA as “limited contact,” the trial court’s
    consideration of “limited contact” was governed by North Carolina General Statute
    §50A-375:
    In accordance with laws of this State and on motion of a
    deploying parent, a court shall grant limited contact with
    a child to a nonparent who is either a family member of the
    child or an individual with whom the child has a close and
    substantial relationship, unless the court finds that the
    contact would be contrary to the best interest of the child.
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    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-375(a) (emphasis added). The trial court did grant Stepmother
    “limited contact” for Elizabeth, but Father argues that the trial court erred because
    the amount of time granted was “substantially reduced from” the time granted to
    Father by Elizabeth’s Consent Order. He contends that the reduction in contact
    between Elizabeth and her stepsister and half brother is not in her best interest.
    Unlike “caretaking authority” and “decision-making authority” under North
    Carolina General Statute § 50A-374, North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375 uses
    mandatory language. The trial court “shall grant limited contact with a child to a
    nonparent who is either a family member of the child or an individual which whom
    the child has a close and substantial relationship, unless the court finds that the
    contact would be contrary to the best interest of the child.” Id. (emphasis added). “It
    is well established that ‘the word “shall” is generally imperative or mandatory.’”
    Multiple, 361 N.C. at 378, 646 S.E.2d at 360 (quoting State v. Johnson, 
    298 N.C. 355
    ,
    361, 
    259 S.E.2d 752
    , 757 (1979)). Therefore, the trial court is not required to grant
    caretaking or decision-making authority, but the trial court is obligated to grant
    limited contact with a nonparent who has a “close and substantial relationship” with
    the child unless the court finds that doing so would be contrary to the best interest of
    the child. See N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 50A-374-375.
    Based upon the trial court’s findings, it determined that continued contact
    between Elizabeth and Stepmother and her stepsister and half brother was in her
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    best interest. But Elizabeth’s Consent Order did not address limited contact with a
    nonparent, and the trial court was not bound by the schedule of custodial time
    granted to Father in the Order. The actual schedule and amount of limited contact
    with a nonparent remains within the discretion of the trial court. Here, Elizabeth
    and Jay already had different custodial schedules based upon the difference in their
    ages and needs. The trial court did not abuse its discretion by granting “limited
    contact” to Elizabeth on a different and lesser schedule than Father’s usual custodial
    time under her Consent order.
    We also note that Father has not specifically argued, and we have therefore
    not considered, whether the trial court should have considered any separate grant of
    limited contact between Elizabeth and her step or half siblings. North Carolina
    General Statute § 50A-375 provides that “a court shall grant limited contact with a
    child to a nonparent who is either a family member of the child or an individual with
    whom the child has a close and substantial relationship . . . .” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-
    375(a). A “nonparent” is “[a]n individual other than a deploying parent or other
    parent.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-351(12). A “close and substantial relationship” is “[a]
    relationship in which a significant bond exists between a child and a nonparent.”
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-351. The Official Comment notes that
    [t]he limited contact definition allows the possibility that it
    may be granted to minors as well as adults. Thus a minor
    half-sibling or step-sibling of the child could be granted
    limited contact during a service member’s deployment.
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    This type of contact with the child is a more limited form of
    visitation than courts usually grant to parents or
    grandparents outside the deployment context.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. 50A-351 Official Comment. Although an order under the UDPCVA
    can grant contact to another child, as opposed to the step-parent or other adult
    nonparent, the order on appeal grants the limited time to Stepmother, not to her son
    or daughter.12 The order contemplates that time with Stepmother will normally
    include her other children as well, thus maintaining the relationships among the
    children.
    Overall, the trial court’s order properly struck the balance between deference
    to Elizabeth’s Consent Order and the unique provisions for “limited contact” with a
    nonparent under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375. The order’s findings of
    fact support its conclusions of law, and Father has shown no abuse of discretion as to
    the provisions for “limited contact” as to Elizabeth.
    VI.    Jay’s Order
    A.     Provisions of Order on Appeal
    12Since the UDPCVA provides that “[a]ny nonparent who is granted limited contact shall be made a
    party to the action until the grant of limited contact is terminated,” it would appear that if limited
    contact were granted to a minor child, the minor child would need to be “made a party to the action,”
    a prospect which may present additional procedural complications which a trial court would need to
    consider carefully. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-375(b) (emphasis added).
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    In addition to the findings of fact and conclusions of law quoted above, the
    order includes the following findings of fact (which may be more appropriately
    considered as a conclusions of law) regarding Jay:
    13. The prior custody order for the minor child, [Jay]
    designates custodial responsibility during Plaintiff
    [Father’s] deployment on behalf of the US Army and that
    order is binding on this court.
    14. The court finds that circumstances do not require
    modification of said order.
    Jay’s prior order provided as follows regarding deployment:
    g. Should Plaintiff be unable to exercise his custodial time
    described herein due to travel for work or any form of
    military duty, including but not limited to: temporary
    military duty, active duty or deployment, the minor child
    shall remain in [Mother’s] custody.
    Jay’s order also provided for joint decision-making in much the same manner as
    Elizabeth’s consent order. Jay’s order was entered by the trial court separately from
    Elizabeth’s Consent Order and it is a temporary custody order. The order provides
    that a hearing upon Jay’s permanent custody would not be “scheduled before
    December 2017.”
    B.    Distinction Between Temporary and Permanent Prior Order for Purposes of
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373(1)
    Father first argues that because Jay’s Order is a temporary order, it is not a
    “prior judicial order” under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373 because “it is
    well settled law in North Carolina that a temporary order entered under N.C. Gen.
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    Stat. §13.5(d3) can be revisited without a change in circumstances needed” but only
    upon consideration of the child’s best interests. He contends that the trial court “must
    view it through N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-373 as a ‘circumstances required’ equals the
    best interest of the child standard or through N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-374, which
    statutorily requires a view as the best interest of the child.” Mother contends that
    North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373(1) refers to a “prior judicial order” and
    makes no distinction between temporary or permanent prior judicial orders. She also
    argues that Father has not cited any authority in support of his argument for a
    distinction between temporary and permanent orders for purposes of North Carolina
    General Statute § 50A-373(1). She is correct, but since no case in the United States
    has addressed this issue, neither Father nor Mother could have cited any case as
    authority under the UDPCVA on this point. But the language of the statute makes
    it clear that “prior judicial order” includes both temporary and permanent orders.
    In several sections the UDPCVA makes the distinction between permanent
    and temporary orders, and it is obvious from the Act overall and the Comments to
    the Uniform Act these words were carefully chosen, while North Carolina General
    Statute § 50A-373(1) instead uses the inclusive and non-specific term “prior judicial
    order.” For example, under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-353,13 regarding
    13“(b) If a court has issued a permanent order regarding custodial responsibility before notice of
    deployment and the parents modify that order temporarily by agreement pursuant to Part 2 of this
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    jurisdiction, the statute distinguishes between prior temporary and permanent
    orders regarding custodial responsibility for purposes of determining jurisdiction
    under the UCCJEA. In North Carolina General Statute § 50A-374(b), the statute
    refers to an “existing permanent custody order”:
    Unless the grant of caretaking authority to a nonparent
    under subsection (a) of this section is agreed to by the other
    parent, the grant is limited to an amount of time not
    greater than (i) the time granted to the deploying parent in
    an existing permanent custody order, except that the court
    may add unusual travel time necessary to transport the
    child or (ii) in the absence of an existing permanent custody
    order, the amount of time that the deploying parent
    habitually cared for the child before being notified of
    deployment, except that the court may add unusual travel
    time necessary to transport the child.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-374(b). Therefore, the UDPCVA gives greater weight to a prior
    permanent custody order than a prior temporary order for purposes of jurisdiction
    under the UCCJEA and the terms of a grant of caretaking authority. But under
    North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373, the term “prior judicial order”
    encompasses both temporary and permanent custody orders. A permanent order is
    given more weight for the specific purposes set out in the UDPCVA, but Jay’s
    Article, for purposes of the UCCJEA, the residence of the deploying parent is not changed by reason
    of the deployment.
    (c) If a court in another state has issued a temporary order regarding custodial responsibility as a
    result of impending or current deployment, for purposes of the UCCJEA, the residence of the deploying
    parent is not changed by reason of the deployment.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-353 (emphasis added).
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    temporary order is a “prior judicial order” for purposes of North Carolina General
    Statute § 50A-373(a).
    C.     Denial of Caretaking Authority and Decision-Making Authority
    Both Mother and Father acknowledge that Jay’s order more clearly addresses
    custodial responsibility in the event of Father’s deployment than did Elizabeth’s
    Consent Order, discussed above. Jay’s order uses the specific term “deployment,”
    although, as discussed above, use of that specific term is not necessarily controlling.
    If the provisions of the prior judicial order encompass custodial responsibility under
    the circumstances described in North Carolina General Statute § 50A-351(9), it is a
    “prior judicial order designating custodial responsibility of a child in the event of
    deployment” and it “is binding on the court unless the circumstances require
    modifying a judicial order regarding custodial responsibility.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-
    373.
    Also, as discussed above regarding Elizabeth’s Consent Order, the standard for
    modifying the provisions of the prior judicial order is lesser than the substantial
    change in circumstances normally required for modification of a permanent custody
    order under Chapter 50, and the trial court has the discretion to determine if the
    “circumstances require” entry of an order if in the best interests of the child. Father
    argues that his “objective” in bringing his motion under the UDPCVA was to “keep
    both children’s custody situation the same as when as when he was not deployed.”
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    Father’s goal is understandable, but it is impossible to keep their “custody situation”
    the same since he—the children’s Father—is not in the home. In some circumstances,
    a trial court may determine that the custodial schedule should remain the same,
    despite the absence of the parent, but based upon the trial court’s findings of fact, we
    see no abuse of discretion in the trial court’s determination that circumstances did
    not require modification of the caretaking authority or decision-making authority as
    set forth in Jay’s order, for the same reasons as stated above for Elizabeth.
    D.    Limited Contact
    Just as Elizabeth’s Consent Order did not address the aspect of “custodial
    responsibility” defined by the UDPCVA as “limited contact,” Jay’s order had no
    provisions for “limited contact.” Thus, Jay’s order was not binding on the trial court
    as to limited contact. In addition, the trial court’s consideration of “limited contact”
    was governed by North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375:
    In accordance with laws of this State and on motion of a
    deploying parent, a court shall grant limited contact with
    a child to a nonparent who is either a family member of the
    child or an individual with whom the child has a close and
    substantial relationship, unless the court finds that the
    contact would be contrary to the best interest of the child.
    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50A-375(a).
    As discussed above, the language of North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375
    is mandatory, but there are two conditions for granting limited contact: (1) the child
    has a “close and substantial relationship” with the nonparent, and (2) contact with
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    the nonparent is not contrary to the best interest of the child. Id. The trial court’s
    findings do not specifically state whether Jay has a “close and substantial
    relationship”—a term defined by North Carolina General Statute § 50A-351(4)—with
    Stepmother or his step and half siblings, but the overall import of the evidence and
    findings suggests that he does have this type of relationship with Stepmother. In
    fact, Mother’s response to Father’s motion for an order under the UDPCVA admits
    many allegations regarding the relationships between both children, Stepmother,
    and their step and half siblings.              The trial court noted that both Mother and
    Stepmother were working together to maintain the relationships among the four
    children and were acting in their best interests. Nothing in the trial court’s order
    suggests that limited contact with Stepmother would be “contrary to the best interest
    of” Jay.
    The trial court determined that under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-
    373(1), it could not grant limited contact to Stepmother for Jay based upon Jay’s
    Order which had provisions regarding deployment. To that extent, the trial court
    erred in its interpretation of the statute.14 We therefore reverse the order as to the
    14 The trial court’s statements in open court support this interpretation. When Father’s counsel asked
    for clarification as to the denial of limited contact with Jay, the trial court stated “I am finding that
    his prior order is binding because I’m not finding that circumstances require the modification of that,
    and therefore I cannot change that order. That does not prohibit [Mother] from allowing [Jay] to go.
    It’s just that there is a prior order that is specifically talking about the custodial responsibility of the
    child in the event of deployment, and I’m finding that that is binding on this court, and I’m not going
    to change it.”
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    denial of limited contact as to Jay and remand for entry of an order addressing limited
    contact. If the trial court determines that Jay does not have a “close and substantial
    relationship” with Stepmother or his step and half siblings, or if it determines that
    limited contact would be contrary to his best interests, the trial court may enter a
    new order denying Father’s request for limited contact. Since the trial court did not
    make these specific findings or conclusions based upon its interpretation of Jay’s
    order and North Carolina General Statute § 50A-373(1), the trial court should do so
    on remand. In addition, the trial court may in its discretion receive additional
    evidence limited to this issue on remand. If the trial court orders limited contact on
    remand, after making appropriate findings of fact, it may set the schedule for the
    limited contact in its discretion and is neither required nor prohibited from following
    either the schedule granted to Father in Jay’s order or the same limited contact
    schedule as granted for Elizabeth. The trial court may consider Jay’s age and needs
    as well has his, Mother’s, and Stepmother’s schedules, and any other factors relevant
    to establishing the times for limited contact with Stepmother.
    VII.   Time Limit
    Father’s last argument raises a procedural issue. He argues the trial court
    erred by limiting each side to 20 minutes for presentation of their evidence and
    arguments, and “[t]his amount of time was insufficient for the Plaintiff-Appellant to
    open, submit evidence with more than one witness, cross-examine the Defendant-
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    Appellee, and close in this hearing.” However, as Mother points out, Father’s counsel
    did not object to the time limitations or request additional time before the trial court.
    She also notes that Father did not use all of the 20 minutes allotted to him, nor did
    he attempt to offer affidavits or other documentary evidence in addition to
    Stepmother’s testimony.
    “[T]he manner of the presentation of evidence is a matter resting primarily
    within the discretion of the trial judge, and his control of the case will not be disturbed
    absent a manifest abuse of discretion.” Wolgin v. Wolgin, 
    217 N.C. App. 278
    , 283, 
    719 S.E.2d 196
    , 199 (2011) (quoting State v. Harris, 
    315 N.C. 556
    , 562, 
    340 S.E.2d 383
    ,
    387 (1986)) (affirming denial of appellant’s motion for a new trial where the trial court
    limited the presentation of evidence when “(1) the length of the trial was discussed at
    pre-trial conferences and both parties agreed to a two-day trial; (2) the court made
    inquiry concerning the ability of both parties to present evidence within a two-day
    time frame and neither party objected during pre-trial conferences; (3) the court made
    several references to the time constrictions during the trial; and (4) at the close of
    Defendant’s evidence, Defendant made no objection to time limits enforced by the
    trial court on the second day of trial”). We also note that this hearing was held on an
    expedited basis for purposes of entering a temporary order, and the trial court may
    take these factors into account when setting time limits for the hearing. Because
    Father did not make a timely request for additional time for presentation of his case
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    prior to or during the hearing, this issue is deemed abandoned and cannot be raised
    for the first time on appeal. N.C. R. App. P. 10(a)(1).
    VIII. Conclusion
    We affirm the trial court’s order as to Elizabeth, but we remand for the trial
    court to add Stepmother as a party to this action “until the grant of limited contact is
    terminated” under North Carolina General Statute § 50A-375(b) and to enter an
    order granting limited contact with Jay to Stepmother, unless the trial court
    determines that Jay does not have a “close and substantial relationship” with
    Stepmother or that limited contact would be contrary to his best interests. The trial
    court may in its sole discretion receive evidence on remand relevant to this
    determination only or it may enter an order based upon the current record.
    AFFIRMED IN PART AND REMANDED.
    Judges HAMPSON and YOUNG concur.
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