Henderson v. Henderson , 234 N.C. App. 129 ( 2014 )


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  •                              NO. COA13-843
    NORTH CAROLINA COURT OF APPEALS
    Filed: 3 June 2014
    ALISA G. HENDERSON,
    Plaintiff,
    v.                                   Wake County
    No. 13 CVD 1691
    JASON JORDAN HENDERSON,
    Defendant.
    Appeal by Defendant from Orders entered 8 February 2013 by
    Judge Ned W. Mangum, 18 and 20 February 2013 by Judge Robert B.
    Rader, and 18 April 2013 by Judge Margaret Eagles in Wake County
    District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 22 January 2014.
    Cranfill Sumner & Hartzog LLP, by M. Denisse Gonzalez, for
    Plaintiff.
    Edmundson & Burnette, L.L.P., by James T. Duckworth, III,
    for Defendant.
    STEPHENS, Judge.
    Factual Background and Procedural History
    This   case   arises   from   the   filing   of   a   complaint   for   a
    domestic violence protective order (“DVPO”) by Plaintiff Alisa
    G. Henderson. The complaint was filed on 8 February 2013 and
    alleged that Plaintiff’s former spouse, Defendant Jason Jordan
    Henderson, intentionally caused bodily injury to the parties’
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    children, both girls, by frequently spooning with them in his
    underwear,      grabbing    their     buttocks,   placing       cameras    in    their
    rooms while they were dressing, and beating them with belts, his
    hands, and a wooden spoon while other children were forced to
    watch. The complaint also asserted that Defendant placed the
    children in actual fear of imminent serious bodily injury by
    cursing at and threatening the children, allowing a friend to
    offer alcohol to one of the children, and becoming intoxicated
    to the point of falling over. Given these allegations, the trial
    court issued a temporary, ex parte DVPO on 8 February 2013. The
    ex parte DVPO was effective through 18 February 2013, and a
    hearing was set for the same date. Defendant received notice of
    the entering of the ex parte DVPO and the 18 February 2013
    hearing. Therein, Defendant was informed that the purpose of the
    hearing       was   to   determine      “whether      the       [o]rder    will     be
    continued.”
    Evidence     presented    at    the    hearing    tended     to    show    that
    Plaintiff and Defendant are divorced with two daughters, Eliza
    and Anna.1 At the time of the hearing, Eliza was fourteen and
    Anna    was    eleven.     The   parties     shared     joint    custody    of    the
    children before the DVPO was issued. Both parties are now re-
    1
    Pseudonyms are used for the protection of the juveniles.
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    married,    and   Defendant      has    two     daughters         from    his     current
    marriage.
    According to a social worker at the Wake County Division of
    Social Services (“DSS”), DSS received a report on 8 February
    2013 alleging a number of instances of misconduct by Defendant.
    At   the   time   of   the     hearing,       the    allegations         had    not    been
    substantiated. Nonetheless, DSS had implemented a safety plan
    for the children. The children would stay with Plaintiff and
    have no unsupervised contact with Defendant.
    At the close of the hearing, the trial court found that
    “there have been acts that constitute domestic violence.” Thus,
    the court entered a DVPO for a period of one year, ordering
    Defendant,   inter     alia,    to   abide      by    the   DSS    safety       plan   and
    refrain from any unsupervised contact with Eliza and Anna during
    that    period.    A    written        DVPO     was     filed      the         same    day,
    memorializing the court’s oral pronouncement. An amended DVPO
    was filed two days later, on 20 February 2013, providing that,
    as a law enforcement officer, Defendant may possess or use a
    firearm for official use.
    On 15 March 2013, Defendant filed notice of appeal from the
    trial court’s 8, 18, and 20 February 2013 orders. That same day,
    Defendant filed a motion to vacate or set aside the DVPO under
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    Rule 60(b) of the North Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure. The
    trial court denied Defendant’s motion by order filed 28 March
    2013. On 18 April 2013, the trial court filed a second, written
    order denying Defendant’s motion to vacate. The court determined
    that it retained jurisdiction over Defendant’s motion pursuant
    to Rule 60(b), despite the fact that Defendant had already filed
    his notice of appeal of the DVPO orders. The court concluded
    that   Defendant         was    not    entitled     to    relief        pursuant       to    Rule
    60(b)(4)      or   (6)    because       the     DVPO    was    not      void     and     because
    “Defendant         was     unable       to      show      that       any        extraordinary
    circumstances exist or that justice demands for the DVPO to be
    vacated.” Defendant also appealed from that order.
    Discussion
    On appeal, Defendant argues that the DVPO and amended DVPO
    are    void    because         the    trial     court    acted       in    excess       of     its
    jurisdiction.        Therefore,         Defendant        asserts,         the    trial       court
    erred in denying his Rule 60(b) motion to vacate. Alternatively,
    Defendant contends that the trial court’s findings of fact are
    not supported by competent evidence and, thus, do not support
    its    conclusion         that       Defendant      committed        acts       of     domestic
    violence      against      the       children    and     put     them      in    serious       and
    immediate danger of injury. We affirm.
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    I. Subject Matter Jurisdiction
    Defendant first argues that the trial court lacked subject
    matter jurisdiction to enter the DVPO                             because the court           (1)
    failed to follow statutory procedure by not allowing Defendant
    10 days following service of the summons and complaint to file
    an answer, and (2) held the DVPO hearing on the merits rather
    than for the purpose of simply continuing the ex parte order. We
    disagree.
    “Where        jurisdiction          is       statutory        and   the    [l]egislature
    requires the [trial court] to exercise its jurisdiction in a
    certain    manner,      to   follow          a    certain    procedure,        or    otherwise
    subjects    the    [c]ourt        to    certain          limitations,     an    act    of     the
    [c]ourt beyond these limits is in excess of its jurisdiction.”
    Eudy v. Eudy, 
    288 N.C. 71
    , 75, 
    215 S.E.2d 782
    , 785 (1975).
    “Whether a trial court has subject[ ]matter jurisdiction is a
    question of law, reviewed de novo on appeal.” McKoy v. McKoy,
    
    202 N.C. App. 509
    , 511, 
    689 S.E.2d 590
    , 592 (2010) (italics
    added).
    (1) Time to File an Answer
    Section        50B-2     of        the       North     Carolina     General       Statutes
    applies     to    the   institution               of     civil    actions,     motions        for
    emergency    relief,       temporary             orders,    and    temporary        custody    in
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    domestic   violence   cases.   N.C.    Gen.   Stat.   §   50B-2   (2013).
    Relevant to this appeal, subsections (a) and (c)             provide as
    follows:
    (a) . . . Any action for a [DVPO] requires
    that a summons be issued and served. The
    summons issued pursuant to this Chapter
    shall require the defendant to answer within
    10 days of the date of service. . . .
    . . .
    (c) Ex Parte Orders. —
    . . .
    (5) Upon the issuance of an ex parte
    order   under  this   subsection,  a
    hearing shall be held within 10 days
    from the date of issuance of the
    order or within seven days from the
    date of service of process on the
    other party, whichever occurs later.
    A continuance shall be limited to
    one extension of no more than 10
    days unless all parties consent or
    good cause is shown. . . .
    . . .
    (7) Upon the issuance of an ex parte
    order under this subsection, if the
    party is proceeding pro se, the
    Clerk shall set a date for hearing
    and issue a notice of hearing within
    the time periods provided in this
    subsection[]     and    shall    effect
    service of the summons, complaint,
    notice, order[,] and other papers
    through     the     appropriate     law
    enforcement     agency     where    the
    defendant is to be served.
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    N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2 (italics added). Here, Defendant was
    served     with    his    summons        on      12    February      2013.      On     appeal,
    Defendant contends that the trial court violated subsection (a)
    and,     therefore,       exceeded         its      jurisdiction         because      he     was
    required     to    appear       for    the       hearing      on    18    February         2013,
    depriving him of a full 10 days to file his answer. We disagree.
    “[T]he     Rules    of    Civil      Procedure       apply    to       actions      under
    Chapter 50B, except to the extent that a differing procedure is
    prescribed by statute.” Hensey v. Hennessy, 
    201 N.C. App. 56
    ,
    62, 
    685 S.E.2d 541
    , 546 (2009) (citation and internal quotation
    marks omitted). Relevant to this case, section 50B-2 sets forth
    specialized procedures to “deal with issuance of . . . ex parte
    DVPOs,”    which    are     distinct        from      those   for    issuing         temporary
    restraining       orders.       Id.   at      63,     
    685 S.E.2d at 546
         (italics
    added).    Instead,       “[t]he      procedures        under      [section]        50B-2    are
    intended     to    provide       a    method          for   trial    court       judges      or
    magistrates to quickly provide protection from the risk of acts
    of domestic violence by means of a process which is readily
    accessible to pro se complainants.” Id. at 63, 
    685 S.E.2d at
    546–47. Moreover,
    in construing statutes[,] courts normally
    adopt an interpretation which will avoid
    absurd   or  bizarre   consequences,  the
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    presumption being that the legislature acted
    in accordance with reason and common sense
    and   did   not    intend   untoward   results.
    Accordingly,    an    unnecessary   implication
    arising   from      one   statutory    section,
    inconsistent with the express terms of
    another on the same subject, yields to the
    expressed intent.
    Romulus v. Romulus, 
    216 N.C. App. 28
    , 34, 
    715 S.E.2d 889
    , 893
    (2011) (citation omitted). Similarly, the words in a statute
    “must be interpreted in context so as to render them harmonious
    with the intent and tenor of the entire statute and must be
    accorded the meaning which harmonizes with the other modifying
    provisions so as to give effect to the reason and purpose of the
    law.” Underwood v. Howland, 
    274 N.C. 473
    , 479, 
    164 S.E.2d 2
    , 7
    (1968).
    Defendant’s contention that he has the right to a period of
    10   days   in    which    to    file   his     answer   is   inconsistent   with
    subsection 50B-2(c), which explicitly pertains to “[e]x [p]arte
    [o]rders.”       N.C.     Gen.    Stat.     §    50B-2(c)     (italics   added).
    Subsection (c)(5) states unequivocally that a hearing on an ex
    parte DVPO must be held “within 10 days” of the issuance of the
    DVPO or “within seven days” of the date of service of process,
    whichever is later. N.C. Gen Stat. § 50B-2(c)(5). Subsection
    (c)(7) clarifies that, when the complaining party is proceeding
    pro se, the clerk must set a hearing date “within the time
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    periods provided in this subsection.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-
    2(c)(7). Accordingly, if service of process occurs even one day
    after the issuance of an ex parte DVPO, the subsequent hearing
    must   occur    before          the    10-day       period        of    time     within      which
    Defendant might otherwise be allowed to answer. To interpret
    subsection      (a)       according          to    Defendant’s          logic    would       strip
    subsections     (c)(5)       and       (7)    of    any    rational       construction.         We
    decline Defendant’s invitation to do so.
    As we noted in Hensey, the “fundamental nature and purpose
    of an ex parte DVPO” is that it must be “entered on relatively
    short notice in order to address a situation in which quick
    action is needed . . . to avert a threat of imminent harm.” 201
    N.C. App. at 63, 
    685 S.E.2d at 547
    . Similarly, the hearing on
    the ex parte DVPO must be conducted quickly in order to ensure
    that   the   rights        of    both        parties,       the    complainant         and    the
    respondent, are not infringed. Subsection (c) encapsulates this
    principle by       ensuring           that both parties are able to                       present
    their positions to the trial court in a timely manner. To the
    extent   that    subsection            (a)    might       otherwise      suggest       that    the
    defendant    has      a   longer       period       of    time     in    which    to    answer,2
    2
    We do not hold that subsection (a) gives a defendant in a
    section 50B case the absolute right to a full 10 days in which
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    subsection (c) supersedes it by mandating the time limits for
    the court to conduct the hearing after the issuance of an ex
    parte DVPO. See N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2. In the circumstance in
    which, as here, the hearing on the ex parte DVPO must be held
    before the expiration of 10 days after service of process on the
    defendant,      the   defendant   is   required   to   answer,    if   at    all,
    within    the    period    of   time   leading    up   to   the    hearing     as
    prescribed by subsection (c)(5).
    Here, the ex parte DVPO was issued on 8 February 2013, and
    Defendant was served with a summons and notice of the hearing on
    12 February 2013. Pursuant to section 50B-2(c), the hearing was
    set to occur within seven days of the date of service of process
    and within 10 days of the date of the issuance of the order, on
    18 February 2013. Following service of process, Defendant had at
    least five days in which to submit a formal, written answer. At
    the hearing, Defendant had the opportunity to further respond to
    Plaintiff’s allegations. He was permitted to appear and testify
    despite the fact that he had not filed an answer. This comports
    with     section      50B-2.    Accordingly,     Defendant’s      argument    is
    overruled.
    to file an answer. On the contrary, we conclude that the statute
    gives him no more than 10 days to answer.
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    (2) The Purpose of the DVPO Hearing
    Defendant also argues that the trial court exceeded its
    jurisdiction by holding a hearing on whether to issue a DVPO.
    Specifically, Defendant asserts that this hearing was not held
    in accordance with the notice he received, which stated that the
    purpose of the hearing was to determine whether the ex parte
    order should be continued. Citing case law which prohibits the
    court from entering a permanent injunction during a hearing on a
    temporary restraining order (“TRO”), Defendant contends that the
    “express, unambiguous language” of the notice informed him that
    “the hearing is not to decide the claim on the merits; rather
    the hearing’s function is to determine whether the                        ex parte
    order should be continued in effect until a future hearing, when
    [the]   plaintiff’s   claims        . . .    would    be    decided.”     (Certain
    italics added). We disagree.
    As discussed in Hensey, the procedures for ex parte DVPOs
    are distinct from the procedures for TROs. 201 N.C. App. at 63,
    
    685 S.E.2d at 546
    . Defendant’s attempt to liken this case to one
    involving a TRO or a permanent               injunction is misplaced.          The
    process of issuing an ex parte DVPO is completed once the trial
    court   determines    that    the     complainant,         alone,   has    alleged
    sufficient   facts    to     show    a      “danger   of    acts    of    domestic
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    violence.” See id. at 65, 
    685 S.E.2d at 548
    . It is nonsensical
    to suggest that a hearing involving both parties could possibly
    be for the purpose of continuing an ex parte DVPO. In accordance
    with the term “ex parte,”3 such orders are not intended to be
    issued   with   input    from    both    sides.    Therefore,    a    hearing   to
    determine whether to continue the trial court’s order, notice of
    which must be given to the opposing party, cannot be a hearing
    on whether to continue the ex parte DVPO. Instead, it must be a
    hearing to determine whether the trial court’s protective order
    should be continued beyond the temporary time frame of the ex
    parte DVPO.
    Defendant’s       argument     that       the    trial     court    lacked
    jurisdiction to enter the 18 February 2013 order and 20 February
    2013 amended order is overruled. The trial court did not exceed
    its   jurisdiction       in     entering       those   orders.       Accordingly,
    Defendant’s argument that the trial court erred in denying his
    3
    “Ex parte” means “[d]one or made at the instance and for the
    benefit of one party only, and without notice to, or argument
    by, any person adversely interested; of or relating to court
    action taken by one party without notice to the other, usu[ally]
    for temporary or emergency relief[.]” Black’s Law Dictionary 657
    (9th ed. 2009) (emphasis added).
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    Rule 60(b) motion to vacate the DVPO for lack of jurisdiction is
    also overruled.4
    II. The Trial Court’s Findings and Conclusions
    Alternatively, Defendant asserts that the trial court’s 18
    February 2013 DVPO and 20 February 2013 amended DVPO must be
    reversed because certain of the court’s findings of fact are not
    based on competent evidence and, without those findings, the
    trial     court’s   conclusions    of   law   are    improper.    Again,   we
    disagree.
    “The standard of review on appeal from a judgment entered
    after a non-jury trial is whether there is competent evidence to
    support    the   trial   court’s   findings   of    fact   and   whether   the
    findings support the conclusions of law and ensuing judgment.”
    Cartin v. Harrison, 
    151 N.C. App. 697
    , 699, 
    567 S.E.2d 174
    , 176
    (citation and internal quotation marks omitted), disc. review
    denied, 
    356 N.C. 434
    , 
    572 S.E.2d 428
     (2002). The trial court
    made the following relevant findings of fact in the challenged
    orders:
    3. On . . . Jan. 5, 2013, . . . [D]efendant
    4
    Defendant’s argument that the trial court erred by denying his
    Rule 60(b) motion to vacate is based entirely on his argument
    that the trial court lacked jurisdiction to enter the 18 and 20
    February 2013 orders.
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    a. attempted to cause . . .            bodily
    injury to . . . [the children;]
    b. placed in fear of imminent serious
    bodily   injury  . . . a  member   of  the
    plaintiff’s family[;]
    . . .
    d. committed an act defined by [N.C.
    Gen. Stat. §] 14-[27.5A (sexual battery)]
    against the [children] by BECOMING EXTREMELY
    INTOXICATED WHILE CARING FOR THE CHILDREN
    AND   ENGAGED   IN   INAPPROPRIATE   CONTACT,
    CHILDREN   DISCLOSED   PRIOR   INCIDENTS   OF
    PHYSICAL AND VERBAL ABUSE INCLUDING HITTING
    W/A BELT AND THREATENING TO KNOCK THEIR
    TEETH DOWN THEIR THROAT. ALSO, [DEFENDANT]
    INAPPROPRIATELY SQUEEZED BUTTOCKS OF MINOR
    DAUGHTER. CONDUCT HAS RESULTED IN EMOTIONAL
    HARM TO CHILDREN RESULTING IN THREATS OF
    SELF[-]HARM.
    Based upon those findings, the court concluded that:
    2. . . . [D]efendant has committed acts of
    domestic   violence   against  the   minor
    child(ren) residing with or in the custody
    of . . . [P]laintiff.
    3. There is a danger of               serious and
    immediate     injury to              the     minor
    child(ren). . . .
    Defendant argues that findings 3(a), 3(b), and 3(d) are not
    supported by the evidence because they are based on statements
    made    by    the    children   to    Plaintiff    and   the   children’s
    psychiatrist in the context of an ongoing DSS investigation. For
    support, Defendant cites Burress v. Burress, where we stated
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    that the “results” of a DSS investigation might be relevant to
    the issue of domestic violence, but the mere existence of the
    investigation is not. 
    195 N.C. App. 447
    , 450, 
    672 S.E.2d 732
    ,
    734 (2009). Defendant contends that, as in Burress, the evidence
    concerning the children’s allegations is irrelevant because it
    stems    from   “reports   of    abuse,”     not   the   “results”   of   a   DSS
    investigation. Defendant also asserts that Plaintiff’s testimony
    is not competent because it did not reference specific dates of
    the acts at issue. We are unpersuaded.
    Plaintiff       offered     the   following     pertinent   testimony      at
    trial:
    [PLAINTIFF]: [Eliza] went to her . . .
    psychiatrist appointment and told of drunken
    episodes that happened in the house in which
    there were seven children in the house; two
    of which were my children.
    And . . . [Defendant] and a friend offered
    my daughter alcohol. She did not drink it,
    but it ended up with the one man passed out
    on the floor; my ex-husband in a drunken
    stupor.
    [My daughter] asked him, “What do I look
    like to you?” And he said, “You look like
    [a] n-i-g-g-e-r.” And then spilled alcohol
    on the floor; made [Eliza] clean it up:
    “Clean this s-h-i-t up.” . . .
    . . .
    [My daughters] have actually exhibited self-
    harm such as cutting themselves because
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    . . . the discipline of [Defendant] is so
    strict and strong that when he disciplines
    them,   they   express    wanting  to kill
    themselves and cutting themselves.
    . . .
    JUDGE . . . : All right. So this incident
    that you spoke of when they were — when he
    was intoxicated —
    [PLAINTIFF]: Yes, sir.
    JUDGE . . . : — and had another man in the
    house, when was this?
    [PLAINTIFF]: It was January 5th. But there’s
    been ongoing over-the-top abuse: spankings
    with belts, one much — the younger child was
    made to stand there and — in front — he had
    all three children sit down on the couch[]
    and said, “This is what happens when you
    forget your agenda at school.” And spanked
    her with a belt in front of all three
    children.
    He curses at . . . them. He yells at them.
    He screams at them. . . .
    JUDGE   . . . :   All   right.  Now,    as I
    understand it, there were more allegations
    than what you’ve just told me in your —
    [PLAINTIFF]: Yes, sir. Yes, sir. There is
    the spooning incident that happened with
    [Eliza]. [Defendant] spooned with her in his
    underwear. . . .
    JUDGE . . . : When was that?
    [PLAINTIFF]: [Eliza] said that he does it
    very often. I don’t have a date.
    JUDGE   . . . :   And   then   was   there   some   —
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    you’ve   also   alleged     some   inappropriate
    contact?
    [PLAINTIFF]: Yes. He slaps her on the bottom
    and squeezes her bottom, which I feel,
    obviously,   very    inappropriate   for    a
    14[-]year[-]old   or   even   11[-]year[-]old
    girls.
    JUDGE . . . : All right. And you said there
    were   threats  of   violence  or   extensive
    violence? Was it — physical violence?
    [PLAINTIFF]: Yes. [Defendant] threatens, “If
    — if you tell what happens in my home — if
    you    tell   family   business    or   tell
    daddy/daughter secrets,” he said in the
    past, “I will knock your teeth down your
    throat.”
    JUDGE . . . : And what’s the        most   recent
    time that that has happened?
    [PLAINTIFF]: I don’t know. I know that it
    happens quite often. My youngest actually
    has told myself and the DSS worker that when
    she — every time she sees a belt, she has
    flashbacks, and she gets afraid.
    She says she has nightmares every night and
    headaches   quite  often,  and  she’s  very
    [emotionally] scarred.
    . . .
    [Regarding the intoxication incident, Eliza]
    was very afraid, and she asked the friend,
    “Do I need to call an ambulance for you?
    What do I need to do?” ‘Cause he was laying
    on the floor, talking out of his mind.
    [Defendant] started speaking Spanish. He
    doesn’t speak Spanish. This is according to
    my daughter.
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    And so, [Eliza] had to be responsible, while
    these men were intoxicated, for all [seven]
    children [who were in the house at the
    time].
    . . .
    . . . May I say something else?
    JUDGE . . . : Sure.
    [PLAINTIFF]: Okay. After [Eliza] told the
    psychiatrist about the incident, she said —
    and she knew that she was going to make the
    DSS report. She said, “Do I have to go back
    to Dad’s?” She said, “Cause if I do, he’s
    going to hurt me.”
    Several times she has busted out into tears
    because of fear of her father.
    Testifying for himself, Defendant admitted becoming intoxicated,
    getting sick, and throwing up while supervising the children on
    January 5th, but asserted that he still “kn[ew] what was going
    on around the house[.]” Defendant also admitted to cursing in
    front of the children, yelling at them, and, approximately four
    years before the hearing, spanking one of the children with a
    belt until she began to make retching sounds.
    Defendant’s admissions and Plaintiff’s testimony constitute
    competent   evidence   to   justify    the   trial   court’s   findings   of
    fact.   Plaintiff   testified   to    multiple   circumstances    in   which
    Defendant    vigorously     spanked    the    children,    and   Defendant
    admitted to hitting one daughter until she made retching sounds.
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    Plaintiff      testified     that      Defendant        threatened        the     children,
    spooned with them, and squeezed their buttocks. According to
    Plaintiff, this distressed the children, causing them to exhibit
    self-harm      and   express          an   interest          in     suicide.      Plaintiff
    testified that Anna has nightmares every night, headaches on a
    regular basis, and is now emotionally scarred. Plaintiff also
    testified to an incident in which Defendant became intoxicated,
    which    Defendant        admitted.        On    that     occasion,           according      to
    Plaintiff,      Defendant       was    unable      to    stand       or   supervise         the
    children and began babbling in Spanish.
    It does not matter that certain of these allegations were
    also made in the context of DSS’s investigation. In Burress, we
    found    irrelevant       the     plaintiff’s          testimony      that      “[DSS]      was
    investigating        allegations           of     sexual          abuse       against       the
    plaintiff’s minor children by [the] defendant” because the mere
    existence of a DSS investigation does not mean that domestic
    violence has occurred. Id. at 450, 
    672 S.E.2d at 734
    . As no
    evidence was presented in that case regarding what was revealed
    by the investigation, however, we did not have the opportunity
    to   address    whether     statements          made    in    the    context     of     a   DSS
    investigation would also be irrelevant. See 
    id.
     We hold that
    they    are   not.   To    hold    otherwise       would      create      a    conflict      of
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    interest in which the plaintiff in a domestic violence case is
    incentivized to decline sharing information with DSS for fear of
    having her testimony stricken at a subsequent DVPO hearing. We
    decline to   reach such a result           here. Plaintiff testified to
    statements   made   to   her   by    her     children   about   what   they
    experienced with Defendant.5 In addition, Plaintiff described her
    personal observations of the adverse effects Defendant’s actions
    have had on her daughters’ behavior and emotional health. The
    fact that some of the children’s statements were also made to
    DSS does not render the rest of Plaintiff’s testimony irrelevant
    and incompetent. Accordingly, Defendant’s argument is overruled.
    Moreover, Plaintiff’s inability to provide specific dates
    with regard to certain of       the incidents, which        were largely
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    Defendant does not argue that Plaintiff’s testimony about
    statements her daughters made directly to her is incompetent as
    inadmissible hearsay. In addition, Defendant did not make any
    objection on those grounds at the hearing. Therefore, any such
    objection   is  waived,   and  Plaintiff’s   testimony  is   not
    incompetent in that respect. See In re Ivey, 
    156 N.C. App. 398
    ,
    403, 
    576 S.E.2d 386
    , 390 (2003) (holding that the respondent-
    parents waived their argument that certain testimony constituted
    inadmissible hearsay because they failed to object to the
    testimony at the permanency planning hearing); see also In re
    F.G.J., 
    200 N.C. App. 681
    , 693, 
    684 S.E.2d 745
    , 753 (2009)
    (commenting that “no objection on hearsay grounds was made by
    either parent [at the termination of parental rights hearing].
    Therefore, any objection has been waived, and the testimony must
    be considered competent evidence.”) (citation omitted); N.C.R.
    App. P. 10(a)(1).
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    described to her by her children, is not fatal. See State v.
    Wood, 
    311 N.C. 739
    , 742, 
    319 S.E.2d 247
    , 249 (1984) (“We have
    stated   repeatedly      that    in   the     interests   of    justice    and
    recognizing that young children cannot be expected to be exact
    regarding times and dates, a child’s uncertainty as to time or
    date upon which the offense charged was committed goes to the
    weight   rather   than     the    admissibility     of    the   evidence.”).
    Therefore, we hold that the trial court’s findings of fact in
    the 18 February 2013 and 20 February 2013 orders are based on
    competent evidence and, in turn, fully support its conclusions
    of   law.   Accordingly,        Defendant’s     alternative     argument    is
    overruled. The orders appealed from are
    AFFIRMED.
    Judges STEELMAN and DAVIS concur.