Wisnewski v. Wisnewski , 2020 ND 148 ( 2020 )


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  •                Filed 06/29/20 by Clerk of Supreme Court
    IN THE SUPREME COURT
    STATE OF NORTH DAKOTA
    
    2020 ND 148
    Alicia Wisnewski,                                     Plaintiff and Appellant
    v.
    Timothy Wisnewski,                                   Defendant and Appellee
    No. 20190209
    Appeal from the District Court of Cass County, East Central Judicial District,
    the Honorable Steven L. Marquart, Judge.
    AFFIRMED IN PART, REVERSED IN PART, AND REMANDED.
    Opinion of the Court by McEvers, Justice
    Michael L. Gjesdahl (argued) and Kari A. Losee (appeared), Fargo, ND, for
    plaintiff and appellant.
    Erica L. Chisholm (argued) and Jonathan L. Green (on brief), Wahpeton, ND,
    for defendant and appellee.
    Wisnewski v. Wisnewski
    No. 20190209
    McEvers, Justice.
    Alicia Wisnewski appeals from a divorce judgment distributing property,
    awarding spousal support, declining to award attorney’s fees, determining
    parenting time, decisionmaking responsibility, and child support. Alicia
    Wisnewski argues the district court’s findings on domestic violence are
    insufficient and the finding that the statutory domestic violence presumption
    was rebutted is clearly erroneous. She also argues the court erred in
    determining joint decisionmaking responsibility, distributing property,
    allocating debts, failing to award attorney’s fees, and in determining child
    support and spousal support. We affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand.
    I
    Alicia Wisnewski and Timothy Wisnewski were married in 1997 and
    have three children together, A.R.W., E.C.W., and I.A.W. Alicia Wisnewski
    works as a veterinarian, is the sole owner of a veterinary center, a partner in
    an animal boarding facility, and was mainly responsible for the household bills.
    For 18 years, Timothy Wisnewski was self-employed with his own tree service
    and generally did not work during the months of October through April. On
    December 28, 2017, the parties separated after an incident of domestic
    violence. Stemming from the incident, Timothy Wisnewski was charged and
    plead guilty to felony C aggravated assault domestic violence and felony C
    interfering with an emergency call. Prior to initiation of the divorce, a
    permanent domestic violence order was entered to protect Alicia Wisnewski
    and the minor children. A divorce action was initiated in June 2018. A trial
    was held April 4 and 5, 2019.
    The district court heard conflicting testimony. Timothy Wisnewski
    testified he stayed home with the children during his time off work. Alicia
    Wisnewski testified Timothy Wisnewski only stayed home with the children as
    infants, and once the children started preschool, she was the primary caretaker
    and often had to have friends and co-workers help watch the children while
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    she worked. Alicia Wisnewski testified that during the marriage, Timothy
    Wisnewski would smoke marijuana, drink alcohol excessively, drive drunk and
    high, and alleged approximately twenty years of substantial verbal, physical,
    and sexual abuse, some of which Timothy Wisnewski corroborated.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified she is afraid of Timothy Wisnewski as he told
    her on multiple occasions he could kill her. According to Alicia Wisnewski, he
    also said if she dated someone, he would kill them both. She described that
    initially the abuse was verbal, but the physical abuse began to “ramp up” in
    the last year and escalated until December 28, 2017.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified she stopped sleeping in the bedroom and slept
    on the couch for last five or six months of their marriage. Timothy Wisnewski’s
    testimony was consistent on this point. She stated she slept on the couch
    because he raped her many times.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified that in February 2017, Timothy Wisnewski
    choked her, bit her, and threw a heavy keychain at her head after she said she
    would not have sex with him. Pictures of bite marks on Alicia Wisnewski were
    introduced at trial.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified that on September 1, 2017, after she told
    Timothy Wisnewski not to touch her, he yelled expletives at her, said he would
    give her something to be scared about, grabbed her wrists, pulled her off the
    couch, and kneed her in the jaw. Alicia Wisnewski testified he said he would
    cut her head off, they would not find her, and made a decapitation motion.
    Alicia Wisnewski stated their child, A.R.W., was on the couch asleep, woke up,
    and Timothy Wisnewski told A.R.W. “mom wouldn’t have sex” and left the
    room. Alicia Wisnewski testified A.R.W. told her he had faked sleeping and
    heard it all. Alicia Wisnewski testified that later the next day, Timothy
    Wisnewski grabbed her from behind, pushed her on the bed, pinned down her
    shoulders with his knees, and tried to masturbate onto her face. Timothy
    Wisnewski denied doing these things when he testified.
    Alicia Wisnewski alleged Timothy Wisnewski assaulted her on
    November 3, 2017 and chipped her tooth. She introduced pictures of the
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    chipped tooth and her lip. Timothy Wisnewski testified he chipped Alicia
    Wisnewski’s tooth by accident.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified that on December 7, 2017, after she told
    Timothy Wisnewski she was not going to bed with him, he grabbed her breast
    and twisted it hard, causing her to drop to the ground. She testified he grabbed
    her neck, pulled her onto the couch, wrapped his legs around her so she could
    not move, “kissed” her by covering her nose and mouth with his mouth,
    squeezed her so she could not breathe, and said “now you should be scared
    because I can kill you any time.” At trial, Alicia Wisnewski produced pictures
    of bruises that resulted on her shoulder, on her cheek, on her chin, and on her
    thigh. Timothy Wisnewski denied doing these things.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified that on December 17, 2017, Timothy
    Wisnewski came into the living room and told her to go to the bedroom. She
    told him no and he yelled expletives at her, threw pillows at her, sat on her
    chest, read Bible verses about wives submitting to their husbands, and shoved
    his fingers into her crotch, trying to put his fingers into her vagina through her
    leggings.
    Alicia Wisnewski testified that on December 28, 2017, she was working
    when Timothy Wisnewski told her to come to bed. She said no, and he sat on
    her legs, closed her laptop and said “give me some love.” She told him to get
    off, and he threw the laptop on the floor. She testified he grabbed her ponytail,
    licked her face, rubbed his facial hair on the side of her face, and told her “this
    is love. This is what you get when you don’t give me sex.” Alicia Wisnewski
    said her face was red from him rubbing his whiskers on her face and introduced
    pictures at trial. She testified he then grabbed her around the chest and
    pushed her face into the couch, leaving her unable to breathe. She testified
    A.R.W. came into the room and said “Dad, you’re hurting her. Dad, you need
    to stop it.” Timothy Wisnewski then let her go and she grabbed her cell phone
    and went into the bathroom, but he came in and pried the phone out of her
    hands. She testified she then grabbed the cordless phone, and Timothy
    Wisnewski wrestled the cordless phone from her. When he left, she called 911.
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    Timothy Wisnewski testified that on December 28, 2017 he asked Alicia
    Wisnewski for a kiss and hugged her. He agreed she tried to get away and he
    would not let her. He agreed he licked her face and testified he gave her a
    “whisker rub” but denied rubbing her face raw or squeezing her so she could
    not breathe or pushing her face into the couch. He agreed the children were
    awakened by the incident and two of his children appeared, and that A.R.W.
    had a knife and told Timothy Wisnewski to stop hurting his mom. Timothy
    Wisnewski agreed he let Alicia Wisnewski go, chased her, and grabbed the
    phone from her.
    Following this incident, Timothy Wisnewski was arrested, charged with
    aggravated assault and interference with an emergency call. He was released
    with the bail requirement not to have contact with Alicia Wisnewski by phone
    or in person. Alicia Wisnewski testified he violated this condition the day he
    was released; she came home and found a note on the counter, saying he had
    taken all the guns and ammo. She further testified Timothy Wisnewski was
    charged for violating the no contact order. As part of the sentence for the
    aggravated assault, the court ordered, as a condition of probation, Timothy
    Wisnewski continue treatment with Dr. Krislea Wegner, a licensed
    psychologist.
    The district court received in evidence during the trial a copy of a
    permanent domestic violence protection order entered in March 2018. In the
    order, the court found Timothy Wisnewski committed domestic violence and
    also that he committed a pattern of domestic violence. The court also received
    in evidence an order finding Timothy Wisnewski in contempt for failing to
    follow requirements of the domestic violence protection order. The order
    specifically noted Timothy Wisnewski failed to get a psychiatric evaluation,
    participate in the STAND program or individual therapy sessions for his
    tendency to form maladaptive relationships, obtain anger management
    training skills, participate in the appropriate level of chemical health
    treatment, or receive parent education on healthy discipline and other
    parent/child relationship issues recommended by Dr. Wegner.
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    Dr. Wegner also testified at the trial. Dr. Wegner testified Timothy
    Wisnewski admitted to her he called Alicia Wisnewski expletives, used
    marijuana daily, drank twelve beers a day, and spent time in his “clubhouse”
    smoking marijuana and drinking. Dr. Wegner testified the protection order
    placed the condition of continuing treatment with her, but Timothy Wisnewski
    had not continued treatment with her. Dr. Wegner made six recommendations
    and he did not follow any of the recommendations and treatment at Hope Unit
    was not part of her recommendations. Timothy Wisnewski testified he went
    to Hope Unit outpatient treatment, he had been sober for 15 months, and he
    did not use marijuana anymore.
    Dr. Wegner testified she also interviewed A.R.W., who told Dr. Wegner
    his father drank every day and he knew his father smoked marijuana. A.R.W.
    also indicated he knew his father was hurting his mother and could hear her
    screaming at night. He indicated he did not intervene because he did not want
    to cause trouble, except in the final instance where he felt he needed to and
    took a knife and confronted his father. Dr. Wegner testified A.R.W. told her he
    was very scared for his mother.
    After trial, the district court made findings and entered judgment,
    granting an absolute decree of divorce. The parties stipulated to primary
    residential responsibility. The court found domestic violence occurred, but
    found the domestic violence presumption had been rebutted and awarded
    Timothy Wisnewski unsupervised parenting time and joint decisionmaking
    responsibility. The court divided the marital property and awarded Timothy
    Wisnewski spousal support. The court also ordered Timothy Wisnewski to pay
    child support. Alicia Wisnewski appealed.
    After oral argument on the appeal, Alicia Wisnewski moved this Court
    to take judicial notice under N.D.R.Ev. 201, that the domestic violence
    protection order, which was to expire, had been extended. Because the district
    court received the domestic violence protection order into evidence, we take
    judicial notice the order has been extended.
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    II
    On appeal, Alicia Wisnewski argues the district court’s findings
    regarding domestic violence are insufficient and ignored evidence favoring her.
    This Court has stated:
    A district court’s parenting time determination is a finding of fact
    that we review under our clearly erroneous standard. A finding of
    fact is clearly erroneous (1) if it is induced by an erroneous view of
    the law; (2) if no evidence exists to support it; or (3) if the reviewing
    court, on the entire evidence, is left with a definite and firm
    conviction that a mistake has been made.
    O’Hara v. Schneider, 
    2017 ND 159
    , ¶ 7, 
    897 N.W.2d 326
    (citations omitted).
    The district court, in making its findings regarding domestic violence
    stated:
    Alicia urges this Court to require Timothy to have
    supervised parenting time with the children. Parenting time with
    a parent without residential responsibility is presumed to be in the
    child’s best interests, and “a court should only withhold visitation
    when it is likely to endanger the child’s physical or emotional
    health.” Curtiss v. Curtiss, 
    2017 ND 60
    , ¶ 5, 
    891 N.W.2d 358
    . The
    court further stated that “denying a parent without [primary]
    residential responsibility parenting time with a child is ‘an
    onerous restriction,’ such that ‘physical or emotional harm
    resulting from the visitation must be demonstrated in detail’
    before it is imposed.”
    Id. On December
    28, 2017, Timothy assaulted Alicia in an act of
    domestic violence. He was charged with Aggravated Assault
    Domestic Violence, a C Felony. On September 17, 2018, Timothy
    pled guilty to that offense.
    While this Court has said parenting time should only be withheld when
    it is likely to endanger the child’s physical or emotional health, withholding
    parenting time is not at issue here. Parenting time is presumed to be in the
    child’s best interests, but when domestic violence has been alleged the district
    court must consider N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29(2), which provides:
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    If the court finds that a parent has perpetrated domestic violence
    and that parent does not have residential responsibility, and there
    exists one incident of domestic violence which resulted in serious
    bodily injury or involved the use of a dangerous weapon or there
    exists a pattern of domestic violence within a reasonable time
    proximate to the proceeding, the court shall allow only supervised
    parenting time with that parent unless there is a showing by clear
    and convincing evidence that unsupervised parenting time would
    not endanger the child’s physical or emotional health.
    “The district court’s findings should be sufficiently detailed to allow this
    Court to understand the basis for its decision.” Mowan v. Berg, 
    2015 ND 95
    , ¶
    9, 
    862 N.W.2d 523
    . Alicia Wisnewski testified about many instances of
    domestic violence. Timothy Wisnewski denied many of these allegations. The
    court’s only finding on domestic violence was the acknowledgment of Timothy
    Wisnewski’s criminal conviction for aggravated assault domestic violence. The
    record reflects the conviction for aggravated assault was for violating N.D.C.C.
    § 12.1-17-02(1)(a), which requires willfully causing serious bodily injury. The
    conviction alone in this instance is sufficient reason to find the statutory
    presumption was triggered based on serious bodily injury. While we would
    have preferred more detailed findings, especially considering the conflicting
    testimony of the parties, it is clear from the record Timothy Wisnewski’s
    conduct triggered the presumption of supervised parenting under N.D.C.C. §
    14-09-29(2). The court’s finding was not clearly erroneous.
    III
    Alicia Wisnewski argues the district court erred in finding the domestic
    violence presumption was rebutted and allowing Timothy Wisnewski
    unsupervised parenting time. We agree.
    The district court found Timothy Wisnewski had perpetrated domestic
    violence. As such, Timothy Wisnewski should only receive supervised
    parenting time “unless there is a showing by clear and convincing evidence
    that unsupervised parenting time would not endanger the child’s physical or
    emotional health.” N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29(2).
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    The district court found the presumption was rebutted, stating:
    Although two of the children witnessed this incident, none of
    this violence was directed toward the children. This event
    occurred over 15 months ago. At the time of this event, Timothy
    was consuming alcohol and smoking marijuana. The Court finds
    Timothy’s testimony credible that he has discontinued using
    alcohol and marijuana since this incident. He has completed a
    Substance Use Disorder Comprehensive Assessment at the Hope
    Unit of St. Francis Health in Breckenridge. Timothy also
    completed the outpatient program that was recommended.
    Timothy loves his children very much.
    The Court finds that Timothy has proved by clear and
    convincing evidence that unsupervised parenting time will not
    endanger the children’s physical or emotional health.
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    When considering whether the presumption was rebutted, the district
    court found although two of the children witnessed the violence, none of the
    violence was directed toward them. This Court has said using the rationale
    there was no violence toward the children “disregards the many cases in which
    this Court has stressed that ‘the lack of violence toward the children does not
    rebut the presumption’ under . . . § 14-09-29(2).” O’Hara v. Schneider, 
    2017 ND 53
    , ¶ 27, 
    890 N.W.2d 831
    . See also Zuger v. Zuger, 
    1997 ND 97
    , ¶ 30, 
    563 N.W.2d 804
    ; Engh v. Jensen, 
    547 N.W.2d 922
    , 925 (N.D. 1996); Bruner v.
    Hager, 
    534 N.W.2d 825
    , 828 (N.D. 1995). “[T]he legislature intended that
    courts presume that any domestic violence negatively impacts the best
    interests of the children.” Engh, at 925. This statutory presumption rests on
    the premise that children are harmed emotionally and too often physically
    when they are around perpetrators of domestic violence.
    We have analyzed a similar presumption in N.D.C.C. § 14-09-06.2(1)(j),
    and said that domestic violence as defined under N.D.C.C. § 14-07.1-01 means
    the presumption “arises whenever violence is directed at any member of a
    household or family, not only when a child is the direct victim of the violence.”
    Heck v. Reed, 
    529 N.W.2d 155
    , 163 (N.D. 1995). “If the legislature had intended
    a distinction be drawn between the adverse impact of the violence directed at
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    a parent but not a child, it would not have defined ‘domestic violence’ as harm
    to family and household members, but would have used a more limiting phrase
    such as ‘child abuse.’”
    Id. “[C]hildren are
    victimized by the climate of violence
    created by domestic violence between their parents, even if they are not direct
    targets of the abuse.”
    Id. Even though
    the children may not have physical injuries or been the
    intended targets of Timothy Wisnewski’s domestic violence, children are still
    victimized by the climate a domestic violence situation creates. Any domestic
    violence is presumed to negatively impact children. There was unrebutted
    evidence the children witnessed seeing or hearing the domestic violence,
    particularly, the December 18, 2017 incident of domestic violence when
    Wisnewskis’ son intervened and used a knife to protect his mother. The district
    court clearly erred in relying on the “absence” of domestic violence directed at
    the children to rebut the presumption.
    B
    When considering whether the presumption was rebutted, the district
    court also found Timothy Wisnewski was consuming alcohol and smoking
    marijuana when he assaulted Alicia Wisnewski on December 18, 2017. The
    court also considered Timothy Wisnewski’s discontinued use of alcohol and
    marijuana and completion of an outpatient program as factors to show the
    presumption was rebutted.
    The district court’s reliance on Timothy Wisnewski’s substance use at
    the time of the aggravated assault to minimize or rationalize the conduct is not
    appropriate. Drugs or alcohol do not cause domestic violence and may not be
    used by a perpetrator of domestic violence as an excuse for his or her actions.
    This Court has reversed district courts for rationalizing an
    individual’s acts of physical violence because the victim “pushed a
    button.” Domestic violence is not caused by stress in the
    perpetrator’s life, alcohol consumption, or a particular victim’s
    propensity to push a perpetrator’s buttons. Rather, domestic
    violence is a learned pattern of behavior aimed at gaining a
    victim’s compliance.
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    O’Hara v. Schneider, 
    2017 ND 53
    , ¶ 26, 
    890 N.W.2d 831
    (citations omitted).
    The court found Timothy Wisnewski had “also completed the outpatient
    program that was recommended.” This finding has some support in the record.
    However, it was not the treatment recommendation by Dr. Wegner, the
    professional whose recommendations Timothy Wisnewski was court ordered to
    follow in both his criminal case and the domestic violence protection order
    proceeding.
    This Court has said perpetrators can “unlearn the pattern of domestic
    violence; however, this requires sufficient motivation for changing their violent
    behavior.” Heck, 
    529 N.W.2d 155
    , 165. Additionally, “[a]bsent such proof of
    rehabilitation, it was clearly erroneous to conclude, as the trial judge did here,
    that [the perpetrator of domestic violence] will no longer use domestic violence
    as a means of controlling his intimate partners.”
    Id. The treatment
    Timothy
    Wisnewski received was solely for his substance abuse, and according to Dr.
    Wegner, he had not completed any of her six recommendations he was ordered
    to complete associated with his conditions of probation or as provided in the
    domestic violence protection order. While laudable, it is insufficient for a
    perpetrator of domestic violence to complete drug or alcohol treatment to rebut
    the presumption, because it is not treatment for domestic violence and does not
    address violent behaviors and tendencies. The district court clearly erred by
    relying on Timothy Wisnewski’s alcohol and drug use and subsequent
    substance use disorder treatment to find the presumption of domestic violence
    was rebutted.
    C
    The district court also relied on the fact the December, 18, 2017 violence
    “occurred over 15 months ago.” A divorce action was initiated in June 2018,
    only 6 months after the aggravated assault domestic violence. While this case
    deals with unsupervised parenting time, what this Court has said regarding
    the passage of time in awarding primary residential responsibility is relevant.
    The “lapse of time alone is not enough to overcome the statutory presumption
    against awarding custody to a perpetrator of domestic abuse.” Krank v. Krank,
    
    541 N.W.2d 714
    , 717 (N.D. 1996). While Krank involved the statutory
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    presumption on domestic violence under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-06.2(1)(j), the theory
    is the same. Lapse of time alone does not overcome the presumption because
    domestic violence is a learned behavior.
    Id. We have
    suggested a perpetrator
    of domestic violence may be able to show rehabilitation by evidence of
    participation in a treatment program or counseling for domestic violence.
    Id. Timothy Wisnewski
    has not completed any treatment for domestic violence. In
    the 15 months the parties had not lived together, he violated a no contact order
    and was found in contempt in the domestic violence protection order
    proceeding. Based on the facts of this case, the passage of time alone does not
    rebut the presumption.
    D
    The district court also found “Timothy loves his children very much.”
    While no doubt this is true, and is part of the best interest factors for a court
    to consider, the court did not explain how it rebuts the presumption. A
    perpetrator of domestic violence might love his or her children, but this is not
    clear and convincing evidence the perpetrator will not endanger the children.
    To rebut the presumption there must be a showing by clear and
    convincing evidence that unsupervised parenting time would not endanger the
    child’s physical or emotional health. The district court, in finding the
    presumption was rebutted, relied on the “absence” of violence directed toward
    the children, Timothy Wisnewski’s substance abuse and subsequent
    treatment, the passage of time, and love for his children. After reviewing the
    entire record, the evidence the court relied on leaves us with a definite and
    firm conviction that a mistake has been made and fails to provide clear and
    convincing evidence that unsupervised parenting time would not endanger the
    children.    The court clearly erred in awarding Timothy Wisnewski
    unsupervised parenting time. We reverse and remand for the court to
    establish a parenting plan that incorporates supervised parenting for Timothy
    Wisnewski.
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    IV
    Alicia Wisnewski argues the district court erred in awarding joint
    decisionmaking responsibility over the children. Alicia Wisnewski argues
    there was no agreement, the court did not follow the provisions of N.D.C.C. §
    14-09-31, joint decisionmaking responsibility requires her to keep in contact
    with someone she has a protection order against, and the finding is clearly
    erroneous.
    A district court’s ruling on decisionmaking is a finding of fact, subject to
    the clearly erroneous standard. Dick v. Erman, 
    2019 ND 54
    , ¶ 14, 
    923 N.W.2d 137
    . A court need not make separate findings for each best interest factor, but
    as with parenting responsibility, the court’s findings must provide sufficient
    detail to show the factual basis for the decision. Hoff v. Gututala-Hoff, 
    2018 ND 115
    , ¶ 6, 
    910 N.W.2d 896
    .
    Regarding decisionmaking, the district court found:
    Alicia and Timothy shall have joint decision making responsibility
    over the minor children so as to allow each parent to continue to
    have a full and active role in making major decisions in the
    children’s lives, including, but not limited to, those decisions
    relating to medical care, religion, and education.
    The district court also found the parties agreed to make major decisions
    and determined the parties must make decisions jointly “after discussion and
    consultation with one another.”
    Section 14-09-31, N.D.C.C., provides in pertinent part:
    2. If the parents cannot agree on allocation of decisionmaking
    responsibility, the court shall enter an order allocating
    decisionmaking responsibility in the best interests of the child.
    ....
    4. If the court finds that domestic violence as defined in section
    14-07.1-01 has occurred, the court shall consider such domestic
    violence in determining whether joint decisionmaking is in the
    best interests of the child. In such cases, the court shall make
    orders for the allocation of parental rights and responsibilities that
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    best protect the child, the parent, or both. If joint decisionmaking
    responsibility is granted, even though there is evidence of domestic
    violence, the court shall provide written findings to support the
    order.
    (Emphasis added.)
    The parents did not agree on decisionmaking responsibility. The district
    court clearly erred by including a provision that stated the parties agreed to
    make major decisions on the health, welfare, education, or upbringing of the
    children jointly and did not provide findings on the best interests of the
    children.
    In addition, N.D.C.C. § 14-09-31 requires the district court to make
    written findings to support the order of joint decisionmaking if the court finds
    domestic violence occurred. The court found domestic violence occurred, but
    did not make written findings to support an order of joint decisionmaking.
    “When a trial court does not make required findings, it errs as a matter of law,
    and it is necessary to remand for additional findings.” Horsted v. Horsted, 
    2012 ND 24
    , ¶ 5, 
    812 N.W.2d 448
    (quoting Sailer v. Sailer, 
    2009 ND 73
    , ¶ 28, 
    764 N.W.2d 445
    ).
    We conclude the district court did not provide sufficient findings and we
    reverse and remand the award of joint decisionmaking. On remand, the court
    must provide written findings that consider the best interests of the children,
    and allocate rights and responsibilities in a manner that best protects the
    children and Alicia Wisnewski.
    V
    Alicia Wisnewski argues the district court erred in awarding spousal
    support because Timothy Wisnewski did not demonstrate a need for support
    or that she had the ability to pay.
    “An award of spousal support is a finding of fact which will not be set
    aside on appeal unless clearly erroneous.” Schmuck v. Schmuck, 
    2016 ND 87
    ,
    ¶ 6, 
    882 N.W.2d 918
    .
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    The district court must make spousal support awards in
    consideration of the needs of the spouse seeking support and of the
    supporting spouse’s needs and ability to pay. Additionally, the
    district court must consider the relevant factors under the Ruff-
    Fischer guidelines in determining an award of spousal support.
    Thompson v. Thompson, 
    2018 ND 21
    , ¶ 30, 
    905 N.W.2d 772
    (citation omitted).
    A district court must consider the Ruff-Fischer guidelines in
    determining whether spousal support is appropriate, including:
    [T]he respective ages of the parties, their earning ability, the
    duration of the marriage and conduct of the parties during
    the marriage, their station in life, the circumstances and
    necessities of each, their health and physical condition, their
    financial circumstances as shown by the property owned at
    the time, its value at the time, its income-producing
    capacity, if any, whether accumulated before or after the
    marriage, and such other matters as may be material.
    Schmuck, at ¶ 6. “[T]he district court is not required to make specific findings
    on each factor, provided we can determine the reasons for the court’s decision.”
    Thompson, at ¶ 30 (quoting Krueger v. Krueger, 
    2008 ND 90
    , ¶ 8, 
    748 N.W.2d 671
    ).
    The district court cited the Ruff-Fischer guidelines, stated the parties’
    ages, and stated Timothy Wisnewski needed support and had been a part-time
    tree trimmer for most of the marriage, earning $20,000 a year. The court also
    considered Timothy Wisnewski stayed home to care for the children part of the
    time, and Alicia Wisnewski was awarded property that is income producing
    and Timothy was not.
    Timothy Wisnewski testified he has monthly expenses of $540, but at the
    time he was not incurring an expense for housing because he was living with
    a friend rent free. He also testified he had difficulty finding employment due
    to his felony record. The evidence in the record supports the district court
    finding Timothy Wisnewski is in need of spousal support.
    As to Alicia Wisnewski’s ability to pay, the district court found her
    annual income was approximately $90,000 per year. She argues the court
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    erred by “cherry picking” her highest annual income, and did not consider her
    monthly expenses when determining she had the ability to pay.
    The record reflects that Alicia Wisnewski’s annual income has been
    steadily increasing, more than doubling over the past five years. The income
    producing property awarded to Alicia Wisnewski was also considered by the
    district court. While her estimated monthly budget was not contested, and the
    court did not address her estimated expense, the evidence in the record
    supports the court’s findings. While we may not have come to the same
    conclusion, we are not left with a definite and firm conviction that a mistake
    has been made.
    VI
    Alicia Wisnewski argues the district court erred in its child support
    calculations and should have awarded child support back to the date the
    parties separated.
    A
    This Court has stated:
    The standards of review used in child support
    determinations vary, depending on the issue appealed. Child
    support determinations involve questions of law which are subject
    to the de novo standard of review, findings of fact which are subject
    to the clearly erroneous standard of review, and may, in some
    limited areas, be matters of discretion subject to the abuse of
    discretion standard of review.
    Solwey v. Solwey, 
    2018 ND 82
    , ¶ 9, 
    908 N.W.2d 690
    (citation omitted).
    “Each child support order must include a statement of the net income of
    the obligor used to determine the child support obligation, and how that net
    income was determined.” N.D. Admin. Code. § 75-02-04.1-02(9). “A mere
    recitation that the guidelines have been considered in arriving at the amount
    of a child support obligation is insufficient to show compliance with the
    guidelines.” Spilovoy v. Spilovoy, 
    488 N.W.2d 873
    , 877 (N.D. 1992). When
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    determining the net income of a self-employed obligor, N.D. Admin. Code § 75-
    02-04.1-05(4), states that the average of the most recent five years of self-
    employment activity, “if undertaken on a substantially similar scale, must be
    used to determine self-employment income.” (Emphasis added.) When self-
    employment activity has not been operated on a similar scale, a shorter period
    may be used.
    Id. A court
    must either average the financial information of the
    most recent five-year period, or make specific findings that self-employment
    activity has not been operated on a substantially similar scale before using a
    shorter period of time. Raap v. Lenton, 
    2016 ND 195
    , ¶ 12, 
    885 N.W.2d 777
    .
    Additionally, a self-employed obligor may be found underemployed if the
    obligor’s gross income is significantly less than the statewide average earnings
    for persons with similar work history and qualifications. N.D. Admin. Code §
    75-02-04.1-07(1)(b); Entzie v. Entzie, 
    2010 ND 194
    , ¶ 15, 
    789 N.W.2d 550
    .
    An obligor is presumed to be underemployed if the obligor’s gross
    income from earnings is less than the greater of:
    a. Six-tenths of this state’s statewide average earnings for
    persons with similar work history and occupational
    qualifications.
    N.D. Admin. Code § 75-02-04.1-07(2)(a).
    The district court, in finding Timothy Wisnewski had a child support
    obligation, stated his average gross income over the last three years is $14,820,
    his monthly income is $1,115, and his monthly obligation is $293. The court
    admitted in evidence tax returns from 2013 to 2017. The court stated it
    averaged the gross income over the past three years, but did not state why it
    did not consider the last five years or how the net income was determined.
    Timothy Wisnewski testified he had been self-employed as a tree
    trimmer. The district court did not make specific findings that Timothy
    Wisnewski’s self-employment activity has not been operated on a substantially
    similar scale before using a shorter period of time to determine income. The
    court received evidence of average statewide earnings for persons with similar
    work history and occupation qualifications, but did not address whether
    Timothy Wisnewski was underemployed. See N.D. Admin. Code. §§ 75-02-
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    04.1-05(6)(b), 75-02-04.1-05(7)(b). We are unable to discern why the court used
    only the past three years to determine Timothy Wisnewski’s gross income or
    how the court determined his gross income to be $14,820. The court erred by
    failing to make detailed findings. We reverse and remand for specific findings
    explaining how Timothy Wisnewski’s net income was determined and whether
    he should be considered underemployed.
    B
    Alicia Wisnewski also argues the district court erred by not awarding
    child support during the period since the parties’ separation.
    Parents have a duty to support their children. N.D.C.C. §§ 14-09-08, 14-
    08.1-01. These statutes apply when there is a court ordered obligation, but
    they also apply when child support has not been ordered. Hagel v. Hagel, 
    2006 ND 181
    , ¶ 6, 
    721 N.W.2d 1
    ; see also Adoption of A.M.B., 
    514 N.W.2d 670
    , 673-
    74 (N.D. 1994) (noting the absence of a court order does not absolve a parent’s
    obligation to support a child). “District courts have the authority to award past
    due child support.” Ackerman v. Ackerman, 
    1999 ND 135
    ¶ 20, 
    596 N.W.2d 332
    (relying on Linrud v. Linrud, 
    552 N.W.2d 342
    , 347 (N.D. 1996)).
    From the record, it appears that from the time of the parties’ separation,
    the children resided with Alicia Wisnewski. Alicia Wisnewski did not move for
    child support by way of an interim order during the pendency of the divorce.
    However, at trial, Alicia Wisnewski argued Timothy Wisnewski should be
    required to pay child support from the date of the parties’ separation. In the
    alternative she argued that in lieu of past child support, the district court
    award her a disproportionate distribution in property. The court did not
    address the issue, either in dividing the marital property or in awarding child
    support. We are unable to discern why the court did not address child support
    during the parties’ separation and we remand for findings.
    VII
    Alicia Wisnewski makes two arguments regarding attorney’s fees. First,
    Alicia Wisnewski argues the district court erred allocating to her attorney’s
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    fees of $8,000 and professional fees of $5,000 owed to Dr. Wegner as debts of
    the marital estate. She also argues the court completely ignored her request
    for attorney’s fees and professional fees under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29(4).
    A
    “A district court’s distribution of marital property is treated as a finding
    of fact, which we review under the clearly erroneous standard of review.”
    McCarthy v. McCarthy, 
    2014 ND 234
    , ¶ 8, 
    856 N.W.2d 762
    . The district court
    must apply the Ruff-Fischer guidelines when distributing property, including
    the conduct of the parties during the marriage. Swanson v. Swanson, 
    2019 ND 25
    , ¶ 12, 
    921 N.W.2d 666
    . This Court has not mandated the district court to
    weigh domestic violence more heavily than other factors under the Ruff-
    Fischer guidelines.
    Id. at ¶
    14. But we may still reverse if we have a definite
    and firm conviction a mistake has been made.
    The district court included $8,000 of debt to Gjesdahl Law Firm and
    $5,000 of debt to Dr. Wegner in Alicia Wisnewski’s portion of debts when
    distributing the marital estate. Timothy Wisnewski owed a debt of $8,000 to
    Gjesdahl Law Firm and $5,000 to Dr. Wegner pursuant to the domestic
    violence protection order. The order states Timothy Wisnewski shall pay Alicia
    Wisnewski for these costs and fees under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29(4), but
    nonpayment of these debts should not be grounds for contempt, but should be
    recognized by the divorce court in the distribution of the marital property.
    Timothy Wisnewski admitted at trial these debts belonged to him. A court
    may order a party to a divorce to assume their own separate indebtedness
    accumulated since separation. Kosobud v. Kosobud, 
    2012 ND 122
    , ¶ 13, 
    817 N.W.2d 384
    (holding attorney’s fees were properly excluded from the property
    and debt in a divorce). The court’s findings under the Ruff-Fischer guidelines
    do not address why Alicia Wisnewski should be responsible for these debts,
    stemming from Timothy Wisnewski’s domestic violence. Under the facts of this
    case, we are left with a definite and firm conviction a mistake has been made.
    We reverse and remand for the court to allocate these debts to Timothy
    Wisnewski.
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    B
    Alicia Wisnewski’s request for attorney’s fees and professional fees in the
    divorce were made under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29(4). Whether to award attorney’s
    fees is generally within the discretion of the district court and we will not
    disturb a court’s decision unless the court abuses its discretion. Datz v. Dosch,
    
    2014 ND 102
    , ¶ 22, 
    846 N.W.2d 724
    . “A court abuses its discretion if it acts in
    an arbitrary, unreasonable, or unconscionable manner, its decision is not the
    product of a rational mental process leading to a reasoned decision, or if it
    misinterprets or misapplies the law.”
    Id. Section 14-09-29(4),
    N.D.C.C., provides:
    In any proceeding dealing with parental rights and responsibilities
    in which a parent is found to have perpetrated domestic violence,
    and there exists one incident of domestic violence which resulted
    in serious bodily injury or involved the use of a dangerous weapon
    or there exists a pattern of domestic violence within a reasonable
    time proximate to the proceeding, all court costs, attorney’s fees,
    evaluation fees, and expert witness fees must be paid by the
    perpetrator of the domestic violence unless those costs would place
    an undue financial hardship on that parent.
    (Emphasis added.)
    Timothy Wisnewski argues this statute is not mandatory or absolute.
    We agree. However, when a parent perpetrates domestic violence as described
    in the statute, fees must be awarded unless those costs would place an undue
    financial hardship. The district court found Timothy Wisnewski perpetrated
    domestic violence as defined in the statute. The court abused its discretion by
    not addressing the presumption that Timothy Wisnewski, as the perpetrator
    of domestic violence, should pay for the costs of the proceeding. We reverse
    and remand for the court to either award attorney’s fees and professional costs
    to Alicia Wisnewski or make findings on whether Timothy Wisnewski would
    suffer an undue financial hardship.
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    VIII
    Alicia Wisnewski generally argues the district court’s failure to make
    detailed findings on domestic violence and misapplication of the law tend to
    show bias, and that disqualification is necessary on remand.
    Alicia Wisnewski did not raise the issue of judicial bias in the district
    court. “The failure to raise the issue of judicial bias in the trial court precludes
    our review on appeal.” Wenzel v. Wenzel, 
    469 N.W.2d 156
    , 158 (N.D. 1991). To
    Alicia Wisnewski’s argument that the court’s findings and rulings show bias,
    “[a]dverse rulings alone are not evidence of judicial bias or partiality.” Dieterle
    v. Dieterle, 
    2013 ND 71
    , ¶ 34, 
    830 N.W.2d 571
    . Because judicial bias was not
    raised in the district court, we will not further address it for the first time on
    appeal.
    We have considered Alicia Wisnewski’s remaining issues and conclude
    they are unnecessary to our decision or without merit.
    We affirm the judgment in part, reverse in part, and remand to the
    district court to make additional findings consistent with this opinion.
    [¶68] Lisa Fair McEvers
    Jon J. Jensen, C.J.
    I concur in the result
    Gerald W. VandeWalle
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    Crothers, Justice, specially concurring.
    [¶69] I agree with the result and with most of what the majority has written.
    However, I respectfully disagree with the disposition of the domestic violence
    presumption issue in Part III(D). There, the majority states, “We reverse and
    remand for the court to establish a parenting plan that incorporates supervised
    parenting for Timothy Wisnewski.” Majority opinion, at ¶ 35.
    [¶70] The underlying judicial inquiry is whether parenting time with Timothy
    Wisnewski is in the children’s best interests. See N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29(1) (“A
    court issuing an order that deals with parenting rights and responsibilities of
    a child entered under this chapter shall award the parental rights and
    responsibilities concerning the child to a person, agency, organization, or
    institution as will, in the opinion of the court, promote the best interests and
    welfare of the child.”). Instead of directing entry of an order requiring
    supervised parenting time, and instead of freezing the result in this case under
    the evidence as it existed more than 14 months ago, the children’s best
    interests would be better served by remanding this question for the district
    court to decide the issue anew.
    [¶71] Daniel J. Crothers
    Jerod E. Tufte
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