Fichtl v. Fichtl ( 2020 )


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    Jared L. Fichtl, appellee, v.
    Joey W. Fichtl, appellant.
    ___ N.W.2d ___
    Filed May 19, 2020.     No. A-19-203.
    1. Child Custody: Appeal and Error. Child custody determinations are
    matters initially entrusted to the discretion of the trial court, and
    although reviewed de novo on the record, the trial court’s determination
    will normally be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion.
    2. Judgments: Words and Phrases. An abuse of discretion occurs when
    a trial court bases its decision upon reasons that are untenable or unrea-
    sonable or if its action is clearly against justice or conscience, reason,
    and evidence.
    3. Child Custody: Appeal and Error. In child custody cases, where the
    credible evidence is in conflict on a material issue of fact, the appellate
    court considers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial judge
    heard and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts
    rather than another.
    4. Modification of Decree: Child Support: Appeal and Error.
    Modification of a dissolution decree is a matter entrusted to the discre-
    tion of the trial court, whose order is reviewed de novo on the record,
    and which will be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion by the trial
    court. The same standard applies to the modification of child support.
    5. Modification of Decree: Child Custody: Proof. Prior to the modifica-
    tion of a child custody order, two steps of proof must be taken by the
    party seeking the modification. First, the party seeking modification
    must show a material change in circumstances, occurring after the entry
    of the previous custody order and affecting the best interests of the
    child. Next, the party seeking modification must prove that changing the
    child’s custody is in the child’s best interests.
    6. Modification of Decree: Words and Phrases. A material change of
    circumstances constituting grounds for modification of a dissolution
    decree means the occurrence of something which, had it been known
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    to the dissolution court at the time of the initial decree, would have
    persuaded the court to decree differently.
    7.   Child Custody. Ordinarily, custody of a minor child will not be modi-
    fied unless there has been a material change in circumstances showing
    that the custodial parent is unfit or that the best interests of the child
    require such action.
    8.   ____. While the wishes of a child are not controlling in the determina-
    tion of custody, if a child is of sufficient age and has expressed an intel-
    ligent preference, the child’s preference is entitled to consideration.
    9.   Modification of Decree: Proof. The party seeking modification of a
    parenting plan has the burden to show a material change in circum-
    stances and that such modification is in the children’s best interests.
    10.   Modification of Decree: Child Support: Proof. A party seeking to
    modify a child support order must show a material change in circum-
    stances that (1) occurred subsequent to the entry of the original decree
    or previous modification and (2) was not contemplated when the decree
    was entered.
    11.   Modification of Decree: Child Support. Courts may consider various
    factors to determine whether a material change of circumstances has
    occurred. Among the factors to be considered are (1) changes in the
    financial position of the parent obligated to pay support, (2) the needs of
    the children for whom support is paid, (3) good or bad faith motive of
    the obligated parent in sustaining a reduction in income, and (4) whether
    the change is temporary or permanent.
    12.   Courts: Child Support. The trial court has discretion to choose whether
    and how to calculate a deduction for subsequent children.
    13.   Modification of Decree: Child Support: Proof. The party requesting a
    deduction for his or her obligation to support subsequent children bears
    the burden of providing evidence of the obligation, including the income
    of the other parent of the child.
    14.   Equity: Modification of Decree: Child Support: Time. Absent equi-
    ties to the contrary, the general rule is that the modification of a child
    support order should be applied retroactively to the first day of the
    month following the filing day of the application for modification.
    15.   Child Support: Child Custody. In the determination of child support,
    the children and the custodial parent should not be penalized for delay in
    the legal process, nor should the noncustodial parent gratuitously benefit
    from such delay.
    Appeal from the District Court for Douglas County: Thomas
    A. Otepka, Judge. Affirmed as modified.
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    Adam E. Astley, of Astley Putnam, P.C., L.L.O., for appellant.
    Benjamin M. Belmont and Wm. Oliver Jenkins, of Brodkey,
    Cuddigan, Peebles, Belmont & Line, L.L.P., for appellee.
    Pirtle, Riedmann, and Welch, Judges.
    Pirtle, Judge.
    I. INTRODUCTION
    Joey W. Fichtl, now known as Joey W. Hansen, appeals
    from an order of the Douglas County District Court denying
    her application for modification of a previously entered decree
    of dissolution in regard to child custody and parenting time
    and granting the counterclaim of Jared L. Fichtl to modify the
    decree in regard to child support. Based on the reasons that
    follow, we find that the district court did not abuse its discre-
    tion in declining to modify child custody and parenting time
    and in modifying Joey’s child support obligation. However, we
    find that the district court erred in calculating Jared’s monthly
    income. Accordingly, we affirm the district court’s decision
    regarding modification and modify the portion of the decree
    concerning child support.
    II. BACKGROUND
    Joey and Jared were married in 2003 and are the par-
    ents of three minor children: Kalilee Fichtl (Kali), born in
    2002; Liberty Fichtl (Liby), born in 2004; and Trapton Fichtl
    (Trapper), born in 2008. The parties divorced in 2012 and
    entered into a consent decree whereby they shared legal cus-
    tody; Jared was granted physical custody and final decision-
    making in the event that the parties disagreed on religious,
    medical, or educational decisions; and Joey received certain
    parenting time. Trial regarding Joey’s application to modify
    and Jared’s counterclaim took place on May 4, 2017, and April
    4, 2018. The district court entered an order of modification
    on May 31, denying Joey’s request to modify custody and
    granting Jared’s request for child support. On December 18,
    the court heard Joey’s motion to alter or amend the order of
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    modification. That motion was denied on January 28, 2019.
    This appeal followed.
    At trial, Joey testified that the initial parenting plan was
    drafted by Jared’s attorney and that Jared had indicated to her
    they would be able to “split a lawyer.” Joey testified that at
    the time she signed the parenting plan, Jared indicated they
    “would never follow it,” and that the two subsequently did not
    follow its terms after it had been entered by the court. Joey
    and Jared initially followed an informal routine, where Joey
    would see the children when she was not scheduled to work.
    She testified that at the time the parenting plan was entered, in
    July 2012, she had contemplated pursuing further education,
    but was undecided at the time. Joey applied for, but was not
    initially accepted into, a medical school program in Grenada to
    begin in the fall of 2012.
    Joey testified that when she brought up her plan to pursue
    an education in Grenada and their arrangement with visiting
    the children, Jared called her an “idiot” for signing the par-
    enting plan and stated that they were going to start follow-
    ing the plan entered by the court. Joey moved to Grenada in
    August 2012. She testified that she would return to Nebraska
    for several months to see the children when she had breaks in
    her educational requirements in Grenada. Despite her requests
    for more parenting time, Jared would refuse and adhere to the
    parenting plan previously entered by the court.
    Joey testified that she made several attempts to call or
    “Skype” with the children, but she would not get an answer
    or would be met with excuses from Jared that he “couldn’t
    get it set up.” In 2014, Joey made the decision not to return
    to school in Grenada due to her father’s ill health. Instead,
    Joey completed her master’s degree in nursing and continued
    to apply for medical programs in Nebraska. Joey worked as a
    nurse and made arrangements to live in Omaha, Nebraska, in
    December 2014.
    Joey testified that prior to filing the application to modify,
    she experienced difficulties getting ahold of the children and
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    implementing aspects of the original parenting plan. After
    returning to Nebraska, Joey sought to have more time with
    the children than provided for under the original parenting
    plan. Joey testified that she was requesting that Jared no
    longer have the “final say” on education and health decisions
    for the children due to ongoing difficulties she experienced
    related to those issues.
    Joey testified that at one point, Jared indicated Kali had
    started counseling and he had not discussed this with Joey
    beforehand despite the two sharing joint legal custody of the
    children. According to Joey, Jared would also sign the children
    up for activities without first consulting her and would not
    tell her about practices or games. There were several incidents
    where Joey tried to attend school events with the children, but
    Jared would tell her not to do so.
    Joey also discovered that she was not listed in the school
    directory, nor with the children’s doctor and dentist, as the
    children’s mother for contact purposes. Joey testified that
    Jared would not communicate with her regarding the children’s
    appointments. Joey testified that the police had to intervene to
    enforce her parenting time on at least three occasions.
    Joey testified that she had a meeting scheduled with Kali
    and Trapper’s therapist, Sarah Wemhoff-Strawn (Strawn), but
    that when she reached out to confirm the meeting, she was told
    Strawn was out of the office that day. Joey testified that she did
    not make any further efforts to meet Strawn again because both
    Jared and Kali told her not to attend the counseling sessions.
    She further testified that she was not aware of any trust or
    other issues Kali was having with her prior to hearing Strawn
    testify about them. Joey indicated that she would be willing
    to participate in therapy sessions in order to build a stronger
    relationship with Kali.
    Joey testified that when the children are at her home, she
    will coordinate activities with them such as playing soccer,
    watching movies, and going to places such as the library. Joey
    testified that she has remarried and lives with her husband,
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    Lee Hansen (Lee), and that their home is large enough for
    each child to have his or her own room when visiting. Joey
    testified that the children have a “great relationship” with Lee
    and that he is supportive of all the children’s activities.
    Joey testified that if she were awarded equal parenting time,
    she would reduce her work hours and likely work only one job.
    She testified that she earned a lump sum of $6,500 for teaching
    a course between January and May of 2017. At her job with
    Methodist Health System, Joey worked four 12-hour shifts
    per month and earned $2 per hour when on call and $43 per
    hour when required to go in. Joey also worked at CHI Health
    Immanuel, where she worked three 12-hour shifts per week,
    earning $31.64 per hour. Joey testified that under the original
    parenting plan, the children remained on her health insurance
    through her employment.
    On cross-examination, Joey denied ever talking negatively
    about Jared or his current wife, Maggie Fichtl, although she
    admitted Jared was listed in her cell phone contacts as “‘ass-
    hole’” when she and Jared first separated. She denied ever
    keeping the children from contacting Jared when they were
    staying with her.
    Joey testified that she was aware when she moved to
    Grenada that she would not see the children “every other
    weekend and one day during the week,” as provided for under
    the original parenting plan. She testified that when she returned
    from Grenada, Jared requested her work schedule, and that she
    would sometimes give it to him, but did not want him “show-
    ing up” at her place of employment. She acknowledged that
    all three of the children have done very well in school; are in
    good health; and, for the most part, do well socially.
    Strawn provided counseling services for Kali for approxi-
    mately 1 year leading up to trial. Kali was brought in to see
    Strawn due to concerns that Kali was having difficulty express-
    ing emotion and was stressed about her relationship with Joey.
    Strawn testified that Kali told her that she had a difficult time
    trusting Joey and that Kali felt Joey left abruptly, often does
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    not follow through with things, and places her in the middle
    of arguments between Joey and Jared. Kali also has expressed
    that she feels that Joey puts her in the middle of her rela-
    tionship with Liby, where Kali feels she has to defend Liby.
    Strawn testified that Kali has indicated that she gets anxious
    visiting Joey and that she does not enjoy visiting her. Strawn
    testified that since beginning their sessions, Kali has grown in
    her ability to process and express emotions, although there is
    continued tension between her and Joey.
    Strawn testified that Kali indicated that her trust of Joey
    might grow if Joey did not speak poorly about Jared and his
    wife, Maggie, and if she would begin to follow through on
    things. Strawn testified that she does not believe spending
    more time together would improve the relationship between
    Kali and Joey at this time.
    Strawn testified that she also began to treat Trapper about
    4 months before trial. Trapper initially had difficulty express-
    ing emotions and displayed some behavioral issues at school.
    Strawn testified that since her time seeing Trapper, he has
    “opened up a little bit more” and enjoys spending time at both
    Joey’s home and Jared’s home.
    On cross-examination, Strawn testified that tension between
    a teenage daughter and her mother is common at Kali’s age.
    Strawn testified that although she feels spending time with
    each other would help the trust issues between Kali and Joey,
    that relationship should not be forced. Strawn recalled that
    when her sessions with Kali first began, Joey had contacted her
    in order to discuss the issues Kali was having, but there was
    a scheduling conflict. She testified that she has not spoken to
    Joey regarding any of the issues being discussed in her coun-
    seling sessions with the children due to client confidentiality.
    She also stated that Kali was adamant that she did not want
    counseling sessions to include her mother.
    The court conducted an in camera interview with two of
    the minor children, Kali and Liby. Kali testified that she lives
    with her father, stepmother, three siblings, and their dog. She
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    noted that she enjoys living there and has no concerns. She
    testified that she gets along with her stepmother, Maggie, and
    that they will do things together, such as attend concerts. She
    testified that she also gets along with Jared and her siblings
    and that they will spend time together as a family. Kali noted
    that her stepsister was adopted by Jared but that Kali consid-
    ers her to be “like [her] real sister.”
    Kali described her relationship with Joey as having been
    “kind of rocky a little bit” for the 2 years or so leading up to
    trial. She testified that she was “fine” with her current visita-
    tion schedule with her mother, but that she would not mind if it
    was less time. She testified that she is comfortable talking with
    Jared if something is bothering her but that she is not really
    comfortable talking to Joey.
    Kali testified that her stepfather, Lee, who is Joey’s hus-
    band, is “really nice” and will usually be at the home when
    she visits. She testified she has never heard Jared say anything
    negative about Joey, but has heard Joey say negative things
    about Jared on multiple occasions.
    Kali testified that she has chores and that rules are in place
    when she is at Jared’s home, but there are not really any similar
    rules in place at Joey’s home. She testified that they usually
    do not make plans together while at Joey’s. Kali was unable
    to say what her mother’s relationship is like with Trapper, but
    noted that Joey and Liby do not really get along. Kali noted
    that she feels “kind of . . . unsafe” at Joey’s, but was unable to
    explain why.
    Liby referred to her mother as “Joey” and testified that she
    does not really get along well with her. Liby testified that she
    knows Joey does not really like her because Joey told her so.
    She testified that Joey told her and Kali that they both are
    a “disappointment.” Liby testified that she and her mother
    have not really gotten along since her mother returned from
    Grenada. Liby testified that she believes that under the current
    visitation schedule, she sees her mother too often. She noted
    that she and Kali usually stay in their room when visiting Joey
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    and that they do not do much while there. She testified that
    she would like to see Joey “[m]aybe once a month.” She testi-
    fied that prior to the time leading up to trial, Joey would not
    call the children very often while they were at Jared’s.
    Liby testified that she has not heard Jared say anything neg-
    ative about Joey, but that Joey will say negative things about
    Jared’s wife, Maggie, including “[b]ad words.” She testified
    that Joey told her and her siblings that they were not allowed
    to talk about Jared anymore. Liby testified that she is not really
    comfortable talking to Joey about her problems, but would if
    she had to. She testified that Joey’s home is “super big” and
    that sometimes it “scares” her.
    The second day of trial proceedings did not occur until 11
    months later, on April 4, 2018. The proceedings resumed with
    the continued cross-examination of Joey. Joey was unable to
    produce documentation to support her testimony that she was
    not listed as the children’s mother for contact purposes nor
    specific emails where Jared told her she was not allowed to
    volunteer at the children’s school.
    Joey admitted that she and Jared do not communicate effec-
    tively and sometimes disagree on decisions regarding the chil-
    dren. Joey testified that she and Jared originally agreed that
    neither of them would pay child support and that the two
    would split costs for the children “50/50.” She acknowledged
    that she probably owed Jared some money for expenses, but
    disputed the exact dollar amount. She testified that, at the time,
    her only source of income was CHI Health Immanuel, but that
    for the previous tax year, 2017, she had income from teaching
    a course and from Methodist Health System.
    On redirect examination, Joey testified that since the previ-
    ous trial date, she gave birth to another child. She testified
    that she took 12 weeks of maternity leave, which required her
    to use her initial 40 hours of paid time off, and that she then
    was compensated 60 percent of her $32-per-hour base pay.
    Joey testified that in order to spend time with her new child
    and the other children, she would reduce her hours to work
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    the minimum 4 days per month and pick up additional shifts
    as needed. She testified that she previously provided health
    insurance for the children through her employer, but that was
    changing so that it was provided through the employer of her
    husband, Lee.
    She testified that Jared sent her receipts for some of the
    items he was seeking reimbursement for, but not all of them.
    She testified that she was not aware of Jared’s reimbursing her
    for any of the items she sought reimbursement for.
    Joey testified that since the first day of trial, she had reached
    out to the children’s therapist, Strawn, in an attempt to meet
    with her regarding the children’s counseling. Joey testified that
    Strawn referred her to another counselor to meet with for sepa-
    rate sessions. Joey testified that she would like Liby to receive
    counseling and that when she raised the issue with Jared, he
    would state that she does not need it.
    Joey testified that between the trial dates, Liby refused
    to attend parenting time with her on several occasions. In
    response, Jared told Joey that he cannot force Liby to attend
    and that it is something Joey needs to work out with Liby.
    Joey testified that she and Jared split expenses for the children
    for medical bills, school expenses, extracurricular activities,
    and counseling.
    After the conclusion of Joey’s testimony, Jared moved to
    dismiss Joey’s claim seeking modification of the parenting plan
    based on the fact that she had not met her burden of showing
    a material change in circumstances and/or that modification
    was in the children’s best interests. The district court reserved
    ruling on the motion until the conclusion of the presentation of
    all evidence.
    A friend and neighbor of Jared was called to testify on his
    behalf. She testified that she has the opportunity to see the
    children nearly every day in Jared’s care and that they over-
    all appear “clean and happy and social, very sociable.” She
    described Jared’s interaction with the children as “[c]aring
    and loving, in tune to everything they’re doing and interested
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    in everything they’re doing.” She described Jared as caring,
    patient, and affectionate with the children. She also described
    Jared’s wife, Maggie, as “very motherly and caring.”
    Jared testified that all three of his children with Joey have
    lived with him since they were born. Jared testified that he
    sends Joey an email itemizing expenses for which he is seeking
    reimbursement and provides receipts when they are available.
    He testified Joey most recently owed him around $5,900 for
    such expenses.
    Jared testified that at the time the original dissolution decree
    and parenting plan was entered into, he was aware Joey would
    be moving to Grenada because she told him such, but she did
    not indicate when she would return. He testified that while
    Joey was in Grenada, she would not exercise her parenting
    time under the original plan, but would return for a month or
    two throughout the year.
    Jared testified that when Kali first began counseling, he
    attempted to discuss it with Joey, but Joey would not respond
    whether or not she was “okay” with the counseling because she
    wanted to know the reason for it. Jared did not explain why
    counseling was necessary, because Kali had asked him not to
    tell Joey about it.
    He indicated that he has always kept Joey informed about
    the children’s appointments and that although Joey was not
    initially listed on paperwork with their dentist, she was ulti-
    mately added to it. Jared testified that he has never refused
    telephone contact by Joey with the children and that the two
    arranged a specific time for her to call, but she would not
    always take advantage of that time. Occasionally, weeks would
    go by where she did not call the children. Jared denied that the
    original parenting plan was not being followed immediately
    after the divorce.
    Jared testified that he tries to foster a relationship between
    the children and their mother by having them in counseling
    and encouraging them to attend the parenting time with her.
    He testified that after Joey returned from Grenada, her work
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    schedule would occasionally require her to work Wednesdays,
    but he would work with her in an attempt to find an alternate
    time for her parenting time. He testified that despite several
    requests, Joey did not provide him her work schedule so that
    he was able to plan her parenting time around her schedule.
    The evidence showed that all of the children performed well
    in school. Jared testified that the children are in good health,
    do well socially, and are very close with one another and their
    stepsister. Jared testified that he has rules and discipline proce-
    dures for the children at home.
    Jared testified that he is currently occupied in residential
    construction and owns 50 percent of a construction business.
    Evidence was introduced in the form of Jared’s personal and
    company tax returns for the years 2013 through 2016. Jared
    testified that his income varies annually based on the amount
    of his company’s business. Jared testified that his average
    annual income between 2013 and 2016 was $63,163. That
    amount included depreciation deductions from his business.
    On cross-examination, Jared testified that he believes the
    children are “doing excellent” with the current parenting
    arrangement and that he does not feel the need to change it
    and disrupt their lives. Jared testified that in the 6 years he
    and Joey have been divorced, Joey has received extra parent-
    ing time with the children on two occasions. Jared testified
    that he would always attempt to contact Joey prior to enrolling
    the children in activities. He testified that although he always
    encourages Liby to attend her parenting time with Joey, that
    decision is ultimately up to the two of them. Jared denied that
    there were times where he and Joey would reimburse each
    other for expenses incurred outside of what was listed in the
    original divorce decree.
    On May 31, 2018, the district court entered an order finding
    Joey had not met her burden of demonstrating both a material
    change in circumstances and that modification of the parenting
    plan would be in the children’s best interests. Joey’s applica-
    tion to modify the original parenting plan was denied and
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    dismissed. The district court also ordered that Joey be required
    to pay child support in the amount of $1,354 per month, retro-
    active to August 1, 2015.
    On June 8, 2018, Joey filed a motion to alter or amend the
    court’s previous order on her application for modification and
    Jared’s counterclaim seeking child support. That motion was
    heard before the district court on December 18. At the hearing,
    counsel for Joey argued that the court’s determination regard-
    ing (1) custody, (2) parenting time and parenting rights, (3)
    child support and reimbursement calculations, and (4) child
    support arrearage were contrary to the evidence produced at
    trial and not in accordance with Nebraska law. On January 28,
    2019, the district court entered an order denying Joey’s motion
    to alter or amend. This appeal followed.
    III. ASSIGNMENTS OF ERROR
    Joey assigns that the district court erred when it (1) declined
    to award the parties joint physical custody and equal parent-
    ing time or, in the alternative, (2) declined to make a less sig-
    nificant change to the parenting plan such as ordering family
    therapy. She further assigns that the district court erred when it
    (3) ordered Joey to pay child support to Jared, (4) determined
    Jared’s income for child support purposes, (5) used the wrong
    filing statuses for the parties on its child support calculation
    worksheet, (6) failed to give Joey credit for her subsequently
    born child on the child support calculation worksheet, and (7)
    made its child support award retroactive.
    IV. STANDARD OF REVIEW
    [1,2] Child custody determinations are matters initially
    entrusted to the discretion of the trial court, and although
    reviewed de novo on the record, the trial court’s determina-
    tion will normally be affirmed absent an abuse of discretion.
    Schrag v. Spear, 
    290 Neb. 98
    , 
    858 N.W.2d 865
    (2015). An
    abuse of discretion occurs when a trial court bases its deci-
    sion upon reasons that are untenable or unreasonable or if
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    its action is clearly against justice or conscience, reason, and
    evidence.
    Id. [3] In
    child custody cases, where the credible evidence is in
    conflict on a material issue of fact, the appellate court consid-
    ers, and may give weight to, the fact that the trial judge heard
    and observed the witnesses and accepted one version of the
    facts rather than another.
    Id. [4] Modification
    of a dissolution decree is a matter entrusted
    to the discretion of the trial court, whose order is reviewed de
    novo on the record, and which will be affirmed absent an abuse
    of discretion by the trial court. The same standard applies to
    the modification of child support. Roberts v. Roberts, 25 Neb.
    App. 192, 
    903 N.W.2d 267
    (2017).
    V. ANALYSIS
    1. Custody and Parenting Plan
    [5,6] Joey’s first two assignments of error are based on
    the district court’s denial of her application for modification
    of the parties’ original decree of dissolution of marriage and
    parenting plan. Prior to the modification of a child custody
    order, two steps of proof must be taken by the party seeking
    the modification. First, the party seeking modification must
    show a material change in circumstances, occurring after the
    entry of the previous custody order and affecting the best
    interests of the child. Eric H. v. Ashley H., 
    302 Neb. 786
    , 
    925 N.W.2d 81
    (2019). Next, the party seeking modification must
    prove that changing the child’s custody is in the child’s best
    interests.
    Id. A material
    change of circumstances constitut-
    ing grounds for modification of a dissolution decree means
    the occurrence of something which, had it been known to the
    dissolution court at the time of the initial decree, would have
    persuaded the court to decree differently.
    Id. For the
    reasons that follow, we determine the district court
    did not abuse its discretion in finding Joey did not meet
    her burden of proof in showing both a material change in
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    circumstances and that a change would be in the children’s
    best interests.
    (a) Physical Custody and Parenting Time
    Joey first argues that the district court erred in not award-
    ing her joint physical custody and/or equal parenting time.
    We disagree. Notably, Joey’s first request for joint physical
    custody was not made until after trial had commenced. In her
    application for modification, Joey sought only “a new detailed
    parenting plan setting forth the relative rights and obligations
    as related to the minor children.” Notwithstanding, Joey now
    argues a material change in circumstances exists, warranting
    an award of joint physical custody and/or equal parenting time,
    because (1) she relied on Jared’s assurances that they would
    not follow the parenting time provisions within the divorce
    decree and (2) she has returned to Omaha, where the children
    and Jared reside, and is now able to exercise more parenting
    time with the children.
    The relevant parenting time provisions of the original par-
    enting plan set forth the following:
    Parenting time Arrangements—The parents agree to
    arrange liberal and reasonable parenting time as is agreed
    to by the parents. The parents agree to have a flexible
    parenting time due to work schedules of the parents. If
    the parents fail to agree, parenting time with the children
    shall be as set forth below:
    A. Weekend Parenting Time: Mother shall have
    Parenting Time with the children every other weekend
    from 6:00 p.m. on Friday to 8:00 p.m. on Sunday the first
    weekend following the entry of the order.
    B. Week Day Parenting Time: Mother shall have
    Parenting Time with the children every Wednesday from
    5:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.
    The Parenting Plan then sets forth provisions for holiday par-
    enting time.
    We first find no merit in Joey’s contention that she has
    detrimentally relied on Jared’s assurances they would never
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    follow the terms of the parenting plan and now Jared is refus-
    ing to honor the informal agreement by withholding parenting
    time. A material change of circumstances constituting grounds
    for modification of a dissolution decree means the occurrence
    of something which, had it been known to the dissolution court
    at the time of the initial decree, would have persuaded the
    court to decree differently. Eric H. v. Ashley 
    H., supra
    . Even
    assuming that Jared made such a promise, we cannot say that
    his failure to provide liberal parenting time in accordance with
    that promise is a material change in circumstances warranting
    modification. In this case, the provisions of the parenting plan
    specifically contemplate the possibility that Joey and Jared
    may not agree on a schedule allowing liberal parenting time.
    Nevertheless, the parenting plan provides for that possibility
    by providing Joey with specific parenting time every other
    weekend and Wednesday evenings in the event the parties
    do not agree. The risk of no agreement was recognized by
    the dissolution court at the time of the initial decree and was
    accounted for in the parenting plan. Because the possibility
    that the parties may not agree on liberal parenting time was
    accounted for in the original decree, we cannot say Joey has
    met her burden in showing a material change in circumstances
    warranting modification. This argument fails.
    Joey’s primary argument for a material change in circum-
    stances is that she has returned from Grenada and now is
    able to exercise significantly more parenting time with the
    children. Although we take this opportunity to clarify our
    precedent in cases involving the modification of custody and/
    or parenting time, we agree with the district court that Joey
    has not satisfied her burden of showing a material change
    in circumstances.
    In her brief, Joey takes issue with the district court’s reli-
    ance on this court’s opinion in McDonald v. McDonald, 
    21 Neb. Ct. App. 535
    , 541, 
    840 N.W.2d 573
    , 582 (2013), where we
    held that “[c]hanges in circumstances which were within the
    contemplation of the parties at the time of the decree are not
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    material changes in circumstances for purposes of modifying a
    divorce decree.” We note that this court has applied this rule
    in other cases involving the modification of custody arrange-
    ments. See, e.g., Speers v. Johns, 
    26 Neb. Ct. App. 889
    , 
    923 N.W.2d 777
    (2019) (applying rule in modification of custody
    and removal setting); Hall v. Hall, 
    26 Neb. Ct. App. 877
    , 
    924 N.W.2d 733
    (2019) (applying rule in modification of child
    custody setting). However, after review of Nebraska Supreme
    Court precedent, we are unable to find a case that applies this
    definition in the modification of child custody and/or parent-
    ing time context. Rather, the use of the “contemplation of
    the parties” language has been limited to cases involving the
    modification of child support or alimony. See, e.g., Incontro v.
    Jacobs, 
    277 Neb. 275
    , 
    761 N.W.2d 551
    (2009) (modification
    of child support); Collett v. Collett, 
    270 Neb. 722
    , 
    707 N.W.2d 769
    (2005) (modification of alimony); Pope v. Pope, 
    251 Neb. 773
    , 
    559 N.W.2d 192
    (1997) (modification of alimony). Our
    line of cases applying this language in the modification of
    child custody context have repeatedly cited to the Supreme
    Court’s decision in Desjardins v. Desjardins, 
    239 Neb. 878
    ,
    
    479 N.W.2d 451
    (1992), which was a case involving the modi-
    fication of alimony.
    We now clarify that in cases involving the modification of
    child custody, a material change of circumstances constituting
    grounds for modification means the occurrence of something
    which, had it been known to the dissolution court at the time
    of the initial decree, would have persuaded the court to decree
    differently. See, Eric H. v. Ashley H., 
    302 Neb. 786
    , 
    925 N.W.2d 81
    (2019); Schrag v. Spear, 
    290 Neb. 98
    , 
    858 N.W.2d 865
    (2015); McDougall v. McDougall, 
    236 Neb. 873
    , 
    464 N.W.2d 189
    (1991). To the extent Speers v. Johns, supra; Hall
    v. Hall, supra; McDonald v. 
    McDonald, supra
    ; and our other
    cases have applied the “contemplation of the parties” language
    to the definition of a material change in circumstances, outside
    of the modification of alimony and child support contexts, we
    expressly disapprove of that application. Nevertheless, we
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    find that Joey has not met her burden of establishing a mate-
    rial change in circumstances in this case.
    There is nothing in the record to suggest that the dissolution
    court would have decreed differently had it known that Joey
    intended to depart from, and return to, the State of Nebraska.
    In fact, the very terms of the parenting plan suggest that her
    departure and intent to return were known to the dissolution
    court at the time of the original decree.
    In its order, the district court acknowledged language of
    the decree, in “Addendum 1 — Financial Plan,” which reads:
    “‘CHILD SUPPORT: Neither party shall pay child support.
    Said deviation is due to [Joey’s] intention to move to Grenada
    in August 2012 and uncertainty regarding her employment and
    income.’” This provision, along with the very terms of Joey’s
    parenting time set forth in the parenting plan, support the fact
    that the change in circumstances Joey relies on in her request
    for modification was in fact known to the dissolution court at
    the time the decree was entered. As observed by the district
    court, “[t]he Parenting Plan set forth regular parenting time
    in anticipation of [Joey’s] returning — every other weekend
    and every Wednesday evening. That schedule would only have
    been feasible while Joey was in Nebraska and thus contem-
    plated at the time of the Decree.” Although the district court
    used the language “contemplated at the time of the Decree”
    in its order denying modification, these provisions were con-
    tained within the original decree, which the dissolution court
    approved of, thereby necessitating a finding that the dissolution
    court knew at the time the decree was entered that Joey may be
    returning to Nebraska. Therefore, it cannot be said that the dis-
    solution court would have ruled differently knowing that Joey
    may return to Nebraska.
    Joey left Nebraska in August 2012 without having been
    accepted into medical school in Grenada, and she returned to
    Nebraska in 2014 without a medical degree. Joey acknowl-
    edged that the master’s degree in nursing she had been pursu-
    ing in Grenada was something she could have completed in
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    Nebraska. The evidence suggests that Joey’s decision to leave
    for Grenada, and her intention to return to Nebraska upon
    completion of either her or her then-boyfriend’s education,
    is reflected within the very terms of the original dissolution
    decree and would have been within the knowledge of the dis-
    solution court.
    [7] Ordinarily, custody of a minor child will not be modified
    unless there has been a material change in circumstances show-
    ing that the custodial parent is unfit or that the best interests
    of the child require such action. Schrag v. Spear, 
    290 Neb. 98
    ,
    
    858 N.W.2d 865
    (2015). Here, there is no evidence that Jared
    has become unfit to parent the children. To the contrary, the
    evidence shows the children have been, and continue to be,
    thriving in their father’s care. It was not an abuse of discretion
    for the district court to find that Joey did not meet her burden
    in showing a material change in circumstances.
    [8] Briefly, we note that even if we had found a material
    change in circumstances, Joey has not met her burden of show-
    ing that such change is in the best interests of the children.
    The evidence shows that the children are happy, healthy, and
    thriving in their father’s care. All the children are doing well in
    school; enjoy living with their father, stepmother, and stepsis-
    ter; and are content with the current visitation schedule. In fact,
    both Kali and Liby testified that they would prefer less time
    at Joey’s home than under the current parenting plan. While
    the wishes of a child are not controlling in the determination
    of custody, if a child is of sufficient age and has expressed
    an intelligent preference, the child’s preference is entitled to
    consideration. Floerchinger v. Floerchinger, 
    24 Neb. Ct. App. 120
    ,
    
    883 N.W.2d 419
    (2016) (citing Vogel v. Vogel, 
    262 Neb. 1030
    ,
    
    637 N.W.2d 611
    (2002)).
    In this case, the testimony of Strawn, the children’s thera-
    pist, also supports the fact that a modification of the parent-
    ing plan providing Joey with joint physical custody, or equal
    parenting time, would not be in the children’s best interests.
    While Kali and Liby should be encouraged to develop their
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    relationship with Joey, forcing that relationship and more time
    with her could do more harm than good. Overall, we find that
    Joey has not shown that modification of the parenting plan
    would be in the best interests of the children.
    (b) Less Significant Change
    to Parenting Plan
    Joey next argues that the district court erred when it declined
    to make a less significant change to the parenting plan, such as
    ordering family therapy. We disagree. Joey argues that despite
    her request for joint physical custody or equal parenting time,
    the district court “had an independent duty to safeguard the
    best interest of the children,” and that if it found joint physi-
    cal custody was an inappropriate remedy, “then it should have
    considered what other remedial actions would have been avail-
    able.” Brief for appellant at 24-25.
    [9] Joey cites no supporting authority for the premise that a
    district court has an obligation to consider alternative modifi-
    cations to an original parenting plan not requested in the mov-
    ing party’s application for modification. As the party seeking
    modification, Joey had the burden to show a material change
    in circumstances and that such modification is in the children’s
    best interests. See, e.g., State on behalf of Jakai C. v. Tiffany
    M., 
    292 Neb. 68
    , 
    871 N.W.2d 230
    (2015). In its order, the dis-
    trict court specifically found that Joey had not met her burden
    under either prong. It was not an abuse of discretion for the
    district court to leave the original parenting plan intact without
    modification. This argument fails.
    2. Child Support
    Joey next makes a number of arguments regarding the dis-
    trict court’s order requiring her to pay child support. While
    Joey initially argues that she should not be required to pay
    child support in any amount, she also takes issue with the dis-
    trict court’s calculations and retroactive date of the award. We
    address each of Joey’s assignments of error in turn related to
    her obligation to pay child support.
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    (a) Order to Pay Child Support
    Joey first argues that the district court erred by finding a
    material change in circumstances did not exist for purposes of
    modification of custody, but simultaneously found that a mate-
    rial change in circumstances did exist for purposes of modifi-
    cation of child support. Joey contends that the same underlying
    facts, her return to Nebraska from Grenada, should lead to the
    same conclusion regarding whether or not a material change in
    circumstances exists. We disagree.
    [10] A party seeking to modify a child support order must
    show a material change in circumstances that (1) occurred
    subsequent to the entry of the original decree or previous
    modification and (2) was not contemplated when the decree
    was entered. Hotz v. Hotz, 
    301 Neb. 102
    , 
    917 N.W.2d 467
    (2018). Here, Jared has met the burden under his counterclaim
    for child support to show a material change in circumstances
    not contemplated when the decree was entered. In “Addendum
    No. 1 Financial Plan” of the decree, the following provision
    addresses the obligation of child support:
    1. CHILD SUPPORT: Neither party shall pay child
    support. Said deviation is due to [Joey’s] intention to
    move to Granada [sic] in August 2012 and uncertainty
    regarding her employment and income. [Joey] has agreed
    to pay additional expenses for the minor children. [Jared]
    has the financial resources to support the minor child and
    believes that this deviation is in the best interest of the
    minor children of the parties.
    Based on this provision, it is not Joey’s return to Nebraska
    that constitutes a material change justifying modification of
    her child support obligation, but, rather, the fact she obtained
    certainty in her employment and income.
    In further support of the modification of child support, the
    Nebraska Child Support Guidelines provide:
    Application of the child support guidelines which would
    result in a variation by 10 percent or more . . . upward or
    downward, of the current child support obligation . . . due
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    to financial circumstances which have lasted 3 months
    and can reasonably be expected to last for an additional 6
    months, establishes a rebuttable presumption of a material
    change of circumstances.
    Neb. Ct. R. § 4-217.
    Jared satisfied the conditions of § 4-217 by establishing that
    at the time the decree was entered, Joey was not earning an
    income and there was uncertainty regarding her employment
    due to her intention to move to Grenada. In 2012, the year
    the original dissolution decree was entered, and the year she
    left for Grenada, Joey’s adjusted gross income was $30,621.
    Since her return to Nebraska, Joey has obtained a master’s
    degree in nursing, found stable employment in the field, and
    had the capacity to earn a stable income. In 2016, 2 years after
    her return from Grenada, Joey’s adjusted gross income was
    $69,780.
    [11] Among the factors to be considered in determining
    whether a material change of circumstances has occurred are
    changes in the financial position of the parent obligated to pay
    support, the needs of the children for whom support is paid,
    good or bad faith motive of the obligated parent in sustaining
    a reduction in income, and whether the change is temporary
    or permanent. Incontro v. Jacobs, 
    277 Neb. 275
    , 
    761 N.W.2d 551
    (2009). Based on Joey’s substantial increase in income and
    stability of her employment in the nursing field, the district
    court did not abuse its discretion in finding a material change
    in circumstances warranting modification of child support.
    (b) Calculation of Jared’s Income
    Joey next generally asserts that the district court erred in
    determining Jared’s income for child support purposes. She
    makes a number of allegations why the district court incor-
    rectly adopted Jared’s child support calculation worksheet.
    (i) Income Averaging Period
    Joey first argues that the district court erred by using a
    4-year income averaging period, rather than a 3-year average
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    of Jared’s income. The Nebraska Child Support Guidelines,
    worksheet 1, provides: “In the event of substantial fluctuations
    of annual earnings of either party during the immediate past 3
    years, the income may be averaged to determine the percent
    contribution of each parent . . . .” Joey cites to the Supreme
    Court’s decision in Gress v. Gress, 
    274 Neb. 686
    , 
    743 N.W.2d 67
    (2007), in requesting that this court opine that a 3-year aver-
    age should be a rebuttable presumption in cases involving a
    fluctuating income of one party. We respectfully decline to do
    so. While Gress acknowledged that both in Nebraska, and other
    jurisdictions, a 3-year average is the most common averaging
    period for fluctuating incomes, it did not make a 3-year period
    mandatory, nor a rebuttable presumption. In fact, the Supreme
    Court explicitly approved of a 4-year averaging period in
    Mamot v. Mamot, 
    283 Neb. 659
    , 
    813 N.W.2d 440
    (2012).
    Under the 4-year period used by the district court, Jared’s total
    monthly income (before deductions) was $5,264. Under the
    3-year averaging period suggested by Joey, Jared’s monthly
    income would have been $5,453. Without any evidence as to
    why use of the 4-year period was “untenable or unreasonable”
    or otherwise is “against justice or conscience, reason, and evi-
    dence,” we find no abuse of discretion in the district court’s
    use of 4 years of income to determine Jared’s child support
    obligation. See Schrag v. Spear, 
    290 Neb. 98
    , 104-05, 
    858 N.W.2d 865
    , 873 (2015).
    (ii) Jared’s Depreciation Deductions
    Joey also argues that the district court erred in determining
    Jared’s income, because it should not have permitted his depre-
    ciation deductions for his construction business. We agree. We
    find that Jared did not meet his burden under the Nebraska
    Child Support Guidelines of showing that he was entitled to a
    depreciation deduction for certain assets of his business. Neb.
    Ct. R. § 4-204 (rev. 2020) provides, in relevant part:
    Depreciation calculated on the cost of ordinary and neces-
    sary assets may be allowed as a deduction from income
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    of the business or farm to arrive at an annualized total
    monthly income. After an asset is shown to be ordinary
    and necessary, depreciation, if allowed by the trial court,
    shall be calculated by using the “straight-line” method,
    which allocates cost of an asset equally over its useful
    duration or life. . . . A party claiming depreciation shall
    have the burden of establishing entitlement to its allow-
    ance as a deduction.
    . . . Any party claiming an allowance of depreciation as
    a deduction from income shall furnish to the court and the
    other party copies of a minimum of 5 years’ tax returns at
    least 14 days before any hearing pertaining to the allow-
    ance of the deduction.
    The Supreme Court recently held in Hotz v. Hotz, 
    301 Neb. 102
    , 
    917 N.W.2d 467
    (2018), that § 4-204 provides
    the minimum requirements a party must establish in prov-
    ing an entitlement to a depreciation deduction. In Hotz, the
    court found that the district court did not abuse its discretion
    by not deducting appellant’s claimed depreciations from his
    monthly income:
    [Appellant] submitted only his 2015 and 2016 personal
    and corporate income tax returns as evidence of his enti-
    tlement to an allowance of depreciation. This evidence is
    insufficient to warrant a deduction under the minimum of
    5 years of tax returns requirement of the [Nebraska Child
    Support Guidelines]. Additionally, no evidence was pro-
    vided that the depreciated assets were ordinary and neces-
    sary or that the depreciation was calculated by using the
    straight-line method. Therefore, the court did not abuse its
    discretion by not deducting [Appellant’s] claimed depre-
    ciations from his total monthly 
    income. 301 Neb. at 112-13
    , 917 N.W.2d at 476.
    In this case, Jared similarly did not provide any evidence
    at trial that the business assets he claimed depreciation deduc-
    tions on were “ordinary and necessary,” nor that the deprecia-
    tion amount he claimed was done so by using the straight-line
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    method, as required by § 4-204. The record also reveals that
    Jared provided tax returns for only the years 2013 through
    2016, which is 1 year shy of the 5-year minimum. Based on the
    evidence presented at trial, Jared did not meet his burden and
    he was not entitled to depreciation deductions under § 4-204.
    We therefore must recalculate Jared’s total monthly income
    used for child support purposes.
    The chart below reflects Jared’s Schedule E income and
    the total depreciation amounts claimed by his business for the
    years 2013, 2014, 2015, and 2016. It also reflects one-half of
    each annual depreciation amount, the amount attributable to
    Jared as a 50-percent partner of his business:
    2016         2015         2014      2013
    Schedule E Income $32,232        $100,360      $63,717   $56,342
    Depreciation         $51,035      $19,996      $53,262   $32,733
    Half of Depreciation $25,518       $9,998      $26,631   $16,367
    After determining the amount of depreciation that was incor-
    rectly deducted from Jared’s annual income, we add that
    amount back to the Schedule E income to determine the
    amount that should have been used in determining Jared’s
    4-year average:
    2016         2015         2014      2013
    Schedule E           $32,232     $100,360      $63,717   $56,342
    Half of Depreciation $25,518       $9,998      $26,631   $16,367
    TOTAL              $57,750     $110,358      $90,348   $72,709
    An average of the above recalculated annual incomes reveals
    Jared’s average annual income for the years 2013 through
    2016 was $82,791, or $6,899 per month. This amount is the
    amount that should have been used as Jared’s total monthly
    income in worksheet 1. For the various reasons discussed else-
    where in this opinion, we amend only this line of the district
    court’s child support calculation in our recalculation of Joey’s
    child support obligation (see attached Appendix 1). We modify
    Joey’s monthly child support obligation to $1,289 for three
    children, $1,134 for two children, and $807 for one child.
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    (iii) Business Payments and
    Schedule E Income
    Joey argues, as an alternative argument, that the district
    court erred in basing its determination of Jared’s income on
    his Schedule E income rather than the amount of “[g]uaranteed
    [p]ayments” issued by his business. However, in her brief,
    Joey indicates that this assignment is “presented as an alter-
    native, only in the event that the Court declines to add back
    Jared’s depreciation deductions.” Brief for appellant at 31.
    Because we found that awarding Jared depreciation deductions
    in determining his income was in error, we need not address
    this argument.
    (c) Filing Statuses of Parties
    Joey’s next assignment of error is that the district court
    erred when it used the wrong filing statuses for the parties
    on its child support calculation worksheet. We disagree. As
    previously mentioned, modification of child support orders
    are reviewed de novo on the record for an abuse of discretion.
    McDonald v. McDonald, 
    21 Neb. Ct. App. 535
    , 
    840 N.W.2d 573
    (2013). An abuse of discretion occurs when a trial court bases
    its decision upon reasons that are untenable or unreasonable
    or if its action is clearly against justice or conscience, rea-
    son, and evidence. Schrag v. Spear, 
    290 Neb. 98
    , 
    858 N.W.2d 865
    (2015).
    Counsel for Joey discusses at length the propriety of using
    the “Married Filing Jointly” status in conducting a child sup-
    port calculation, but fails to discuss how the district court’s
    decision to utilize that filing status was untenable or unrea-
    sonable, or how it is clearly against justice or conscience,
    reason, and evidence. Rather, counsel simply asserts that such
    “produced a child support obligation that was too high.” Brief
    for appellant at 34. However, we agree with Jared that there is
    no evidence of the injury Joey would sustain from use of the
    “Married Filing Jointly” status and that any benefit or detri-
    ment caused applied equally to both parties because the same
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    filing status was used. Since both parties were remarried at
    the time of trial, we cannot say the district court abused its
    discretion in utilizing the “Married Filing Jointly” status in
    calculating the amount of child support owed.
    (d) Joey’s Subsequently Born Child
    Joey next asserts that the district court erred when it failed
    to give her credit for her subsequently born child on the
    child support calculation worksheet. We find that the district
    court did not abuse its discretion in declining to award Joey
    the credit.
    [12,13] The Nebraska Child Support Guidelines provide, in
    certain circumstances, that “[s]ubject to § 4-220, credit may be
    given for biological or adopted children for whom the obligor
    provides regular support.” Neb. Ct. R. § 4-205(E) (rev. 2016).
    The limitation, provided for in Neb. Ct. R. § 4-220 reads:
    An obligor shall not be allowed a reduction in an exist-
    ing support order solely because of the birth, adoption, or
    acknowledgment of subsequent children of the obligor;
    however, a duty to provide regular support for subsequent
    children may be raised as a defense to an action for an
    upward modification of such existing support order.
    The trial court has discretion to choose whether and how to
    calculate a deduction for subsequent children. Schwarz v.
    Schwarz, 
    289 Neb. 960
    , 
    857 N.W.2d 802
    (2015). While Joey
    argues that this “‘defense’” under § 4-220 “is not an ‘affirma-
    tive defense’ that needs to be explicitly pled,” it nevertheless
    was her burden to raise the defense and present evidence
    in support of a deduction within the calculation of upward
    modification of child support. Reply brief for appellant at
    6. The party requesting a deduction for his or her obligation
    to support subsequent children bears the burden of provid-
    ing evidence of the obligation, including the income of the
    other parent of the child. Schwarz v. 
    Schwarz, supra
    . Notably,
    in her proposed child support calculation, Joey did not pro-
    vide any dollar amount that she alleged as support for her
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    subsequently born child. Worksheet 1, the basic net income
    and support calculation under the Nebraska Child Support
    Guidelines, specifically provides for “Regular Support for
    Other Children.”
    While Joey testified to the fact that she had a child as a
    result of her current marriage to Lee, she did not produce
    evidence of her obligation to support the child and of Lee’s
    income to explain how the child support should be calculated,
    nor did she even raise the issue of the deduction. Joey did
    not meet her burden under § 4-220, and the district court did
    not abuse its discretion in failing to credit Joey for her subse-
    quently born child in its child support calculation.
    (e) Retroactive Date of
    Child Support Award
    [14,15] Joey’s final assignment of error is that the district
    court erred when it made its child support award retroactive.
    We disagree. In its modification decree, the district court
    noted that “[Joey’s] child support obligation should be applied
    retroactively to August 1, 2015, the first day of the month
    after the filing of the Counterclaim.” In doing so, the district
    court cited the general rule that “absent equities to the con-
    trary, . . . the modification of a child support order should be
    applied retroactively to the first day of the month following
    the filing day of the application for modification.” Roberts v.
    Roberts, 
    25 Neb. Ct. App. 192
    , 206, 
    903 N.W.2d 267
    , 278 (2017).
    The children and the custodial parent should not be penalized
    for delay in the legal process, nor should the noncustodial
    parent gratuitously benefit from such delay. McDonald v.
    McDonald, 
    21 Neb. Ct. App. 535
    , 
    840 N.W.2d 573
    (2013).
    Joey argues that this case is distinguishable from the “tra-
    ditional” modification case where the method of determining
    child support remains the same, and only the amount of support
    changes; rather, here, the scope of reimbursement has changed,
    creating a windfall for Jared. Joey argues this windfall comes
    in the form of retroactive child support without any credit
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    for the “‘direct costs’” she paid under the original decree.
    Brief for appellant at 36. However, Joey interprets the district
    court’s modification decree as having “changed [the] scope of
    reimbursable items to include medical expenses only.”
    Id. We disagree
    with this interpretation. The modification order pro-
    vided that Jared is to pay the first $480 in uninsured medical
    expenses but did not otherwise modify the original reimburse-
    ment provision, including expenses related to school, extracur-
    ricular activities, and daycare. Instead, the modification order
    provided that “all other terms and conditions of the Decree
    of Dissolution hereinbefore entered on July 16, 2012 not oth-
    erwise modified herein to remain in full force and effect.”
    The modification order did not modify the original provisions
    related to reimbursable expenses the parties were, and still are,
    required to split equally between each other. These expenses
    are separate and distinct from the order of child support and
    were not altered in the district court’s order of modification.
    Furthermore, Joey has not provided any evidence as to what
    “‘direct costs’” she is entitled to reimbursement for, nor in
    what amount. Brief for appellant at 36. We therefore find that
    the district court did not abuse its discretion in ordering that
    the child support order be made retroactive to the first day of
    the month after the filing of the counterclaim.
    VI. CONCLUSION
    Upon our review, we conclude that the district court did not
    abuse its discretion in refusing to modify child custody and
    parenting time and in modifying Joey’s child support obliga-
    tion. However, we find that the district court erred in awarding
    Jared depreciation deductions in its calculation of his monthly
    income. We have recalculated Joey’s child support obligation,
    consistent with our findings, in the child support worksheet
    attached to this opinion as Appendix 1. We modify Joey’s
    monthly child support obligation to $1,289 for three children,
    $1,134 for two children, and $807 for one child.
    Affirmed as modified.
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