Baxter v. Baxter ( 2005 )


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    9-15-2005
    Baxter v. Baxter
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    Docket No. 04-3228
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    PRECEDENTIAL
    UNITED STATES COURT OF APPEALS
    FOR THE THIRD CIRCUIT
    No. 04-3228
    HENRY G. BAXTER,
    Appellant
    v.
    JODY AMANDA BAXTER
    On Appeal from the United States District Court
    for the District of Delaware
    D.C. Civil Action No. 04-cv-00308
    (Honorable Joseph J. Farnan, Jr.)
    Submitted Pursuant to Third Circuit LAR 34.1(a)
    May 26, 2005
    Before: SCIRICA, Chief Judge,
    ALITO and GARTH, Circuit Judges
    (Filed September 15, 2005)
    MATT NEIDERMAN, ESQUIRE
    Duane Morris LLP
    1100 North Market Street, Suite 1200
    Wilmington, Delaware 19801
    Attorney for Appellant
    GERARD F. GRAY, ESQUIRE
    Gray & Associates
    13 East Laurel Street
    Georgetown, Delaware 19947
    GEORGIA L. LEONHART, ESQUIRE
    9 McIntosh Court
    Lewes, Delaware 19958
    Attorneys for Appellee
    OPINION OF THE COURT
    SCIRICA, Chief Judge.
    This is an appeal from the denial of a petition for the
    return of a child to Australia under the Hague Convention on the
    Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, Oct. 25, 1980,
    19 I.L.M. 1501. The principal issue is whether the District
    Court correctly held the petitioner consented to the removal or
    retention of the child under article 13(a) of the Hague
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    Convention, defeating his claim for return. See Baxter v.
    Baxter, 
    324 F. Supp. 2d 536
    , 538 (D. Del. 2004). We will
    reverse and remand.
    I.
    Henry G. Baxter initiated this proceeding on May 13,
    2004 by filing a petition in the District Court of Delaware
    seeking the expedited return of his five-year old son Torin to
    Australia. The petition alleges that his wife, Jody Amanda
    Baxter, wrongfully retained Torin in the United States under the
    Convention, and that Torin’s custody should be decided by an
    Australian court.
    Although the parties disagree on the reasons for Mrs.
    Baxter and Torin’s trip to Delaware, the factual background is
    straightforward. On September 2, 2003, Mrs. Baxter and Torin
    traveled to the United States from Australia without Mr. Baxter.
    They took up residence at the home of Mrs. Baxter’s mother and
    sister in Selbyville, Delaware.1 Within two weeks of her arrival,
    Mrs. Baxter commenced a relationship with Kelly Stidham, a
    local contractor working on a project at her mother’s house.
    Fourteen days later, Mrs. Baxter and Torin moved in with Mr.
    Stidham. A few days thereafter, Mrs. Baxter telephoned her
    husband in Australia and demanded a divorce. Mrs. Baxter and
    Torin have since been living in the home of Mr. Stidham.
    1
    Mrs. Baxter was born in Selbyville and has dual U.S. and
    Australian citizenship.
    3
    Before September 2003, Torin and his parents lived
    together as a family in Australia.2 Their lifestyle was itinerant.
    During the first four years of Torin’s life, the family lived in
    several remote settlements in the Australian outback, and also
    spent a year in Ireland. Mr. Baxter moved from job to job, and
    the family moved from place to place. The Baxters’ last home
    together was on Bathurst Island, an aboriginal community in the
    Tiwi Islands, in Australia’s rugged Northern Territory. By all
    accounts, their stay there was short and troubled. The
    community was beset with problems, including petrol sniffing
    and domestic violence. The couple eventually decided the
    environment was unsuitable for their child, and that Mrs. Baxter
    and Torin should leave Bathurst Island and travel to the United
    States to visit Torin’s grandmother and aunt, whom the child
    had never met.
    The parties dispute whether the purpose of the trip to
    Delaware was to relocate definitively in the United States or to
    visit relatives for a time while giving the family an opportunity
    to plot a new course. The evidence demonstrates that Mrs.
    Baxter and Torin flew to the U.S. on one-way tickets, and that
    Mrs. Baxter took with her important personal and family
    2
    Torin has four older half-siblings (Mr. and Mrs. Baxter had
    two children each from prior marriages) who live with their
    other parents in Western Australia.
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    documents.3 At the same time, they left behind in Australia with
    Mr. Baxter a large number of possessions, including personal
    effects and toys.
    The District Court conducted a full evidentiary hearing
    where the parties and other witnesses testified. Affidavits were
    entered into the record without objection. Mr. Baxter testified
    that before learning of his wife’s affair with Mr. Stidham, he
    had planned to rejoin his family in Delaware for the Christmas
    holidays. He sent a letter to his employer on the Tiwi Islands
    asking for leave in December, and purchased an airplane ticket
    to the United States. Mr. Baxter testified that he was open to the
    idea of looking for work in the U.S. during the trip, but that it
    might not prove feasible. Otherwise, he claims the plan was that
    the family would probably return to Australia, once he found a
    new job and a new place for them to live. The parties agree
    there was no talk of divorce or separation prior to Mrs. Baxter
    and Torin’s departure.
    3
    It is unclear why the Baxters decided to purchase one-way
    rather than round-trip tickets for Torin and Mrs. Baxter. The
    record does not reveal whether the one-way tickets were less
    expensive, whether they were chosen because any return date
    was uncertain, or because Mrs. Baxter and Torin planned to
    remain in the United States indefinitely. One year earlier, the
    family had bought round-trip tickets for a one-month stay, but
    the trip was cancelled.
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    For her part, Mrs. Baxter testified that the idea of the trip
    was to escape the troubled community on Bathurst Island while
    Mr. Baxter tried to establish a new business selling solar-
    powered water purifiers to remote outback dwellings. She
    testified that the move to the United States was “permanent,
    because [Mr. Baxter] didn’t want to worry about us.” On the
    other hand, she admitted that the plan was for Mr. Baxter to
    rejoin her and Torin in Delaware over Christmas. She also
    testified that “it wasn’t until [she] met Mr. Stidham that
    everything changed and [she] decided to end [her] marriage and
    live with Mr. Stidham.”
    The testimony from Mrs. Baxter’s family is also
    inconclusive about the trip’s purpose. Her sister testified, based
    on telephone conversations prior to Mrs. Baxter and Torin’s
    arrival, that the primary goal of the trip was to visit family, and
    that exploring the possibility of a move to the U.S. was
    secondary. Her mother, on the other hand, testified that “[Mrs.
    Baxter] and Torin were coming over to live, and to establish a
    home, education.” Mrs. Baxter’s mother enclosed a porch in her
    house to create a play space for Torin’s benefit, indicating her
    expectation that the visit would be long-term.
    The District Court found under the Hague Convention
    that Australia was the habitual residence of the child until the
    time of the move to Delaware. Baxter, 
    324 F. Supp. 2d at 538
    .
    The court noted that a purpose of the trip was to explore the
    possibility of a permanent move, but found there was no intent
    to resolve this matter until after Mrs. Baxter and Torin’s arrival.
    6
    
    Id. at 539
    . Nevertheless, the court concluded that Mr. Baxter
    had consented to Torin’s removal to the United States, defeating
    his claim for return of the child under the Hague Convention.
    
    Id.
     Mr. Baxter filed this timely appeal.
    II.
    We have appellate jurisdiction under 
    28 U.S.C. § 1291
    .
    The District Court had subject-matter jurisdiction under 
    28 U.S.C. § 1331
    , as this action arose under the Hague Convention
    on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, Oct. 25,
    1980, 19 I.L.M. 1501, and its implementing legislation, the
    International Child Abduction Remedies Act, 
    42 U.S.C. § 11601
    et seq. (“ICARA”). Under ICARA, state and federal district
    courts have concurrent original jurisdiction over actions arising
    under the Convention. 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (a).
    We review the District Court’s findings of historical and
    narrative facts for clear error, but exercise plenary review over
    the court’s application of legal precepts to the facts. Delvoye v.
    Lee, 
    329 F.3d 330
    , 332 (3d Cir. 2003); Feder v. Evans-Feder, 
    63 F.3d 217
    , 222 n.9 (3d Cir. 1995); see also Beta Spawn, Inc. v.
    FFE Transp. Servs., 
    250 F.3d 218
    , 223 (3d Cir. 2001) (“This
    court has plenary review over the district court’s choice and
    interpretation of legal standards, and its application of those
    standards to the facts of the case.”).
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    III.
    The Hague Convention has two main purposes: “to
    secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or
    retained in any Contracting State[,]” and “to ensure that rights
    of custody and of access under the law of one Contracting State
    are effectively respected in the other Contracting States.”
    Hague Convention, art. 1. Any person seeking the return of a
    child under the Convention may commence a civil action by
    filing a petition in a court where the child is located. 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (b). More broadly, the Convention’s procedures are
    designed to restore the status quo prior to any wrongful removal
    or retention, and to deter parents from engaging in international
    forum shopping in custody cases. See Feder, 
    63 F.3d at 221
    .
    The Convention is not designed to settle international custody
    disputes, but rather to ensure that cases are heard in the proper
    court. See Hague Convention, art. 19 (“A decision under this
    Convention concerning the return of the child shall not be taken
    to be a determination on the merits of any custody issue.”).
    Under article 3 of the Convention, the removal or
    retention of a child is “wrongful” where:
    a. it is in breach of rights of custody attributed to
    a person, an institution or any other body, either
    jointly or alone, under the law of the State in
    which the child was habitually resident
    immediately before the removal or retention; and
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    b. at the time of removal or retention those rights
    were actually exercised, either jointly or alone, or
    would have been so exercised but for the removal
    or retention.
    Hague Convention, art. 3. To obtain an order for the child’s
    return, the petitioner bears the burden of proving by a
    preponderance of the evidence that the removal or retention was
    wrongful under article 3. 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (e)(1)(A). If this
    burden is met and the petition is filed within the appropriate
    time frame, the Convention requires courts to “order the return
    of the child forthwith.” Hague Convention, art. 12.
    Wrongful removal or retention claims under article 3 of
    the Convention typically raise four issues for analysis: when the
    removal or retention at issue occurred, the country in which the
    child was habitually resident prior to the removal or retention,
    whether the removal or retention breached the custody rights of
    the petitioner, and whether the petitioner was exercising those
    custody rights at the time of the removal or retention. See
    Mozes v. Mozes, 
    239 F.3d 1067
    , 1070 (9th Cir. 2001); see also
    Feder, 
    63 F.3d at 225
     (holding wrongful retention inquiry
    centers on whether petitioner’s custody rights under law of
    country of habitual residence were breached by the retention,
    and whether petitioner was exercising those rights at the time of
    the retention). If the court finds wrongful removal or retention,
    the burden shifts to the respondent to prove an affirmative
    defense to the return of the child to the country of habitual
    residence under article 13 of the Convention. The respondent
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    must prove the defense of consent or acquiescence to the
    removal or retention by a preponderance of the evidence, or the
    defense of a grave risk of harm by clear and convincing
    evidence. 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (e)(2). The affirmative defenses
    are narrowly construed to effectuate the purposes of the
    Convention, and even finding an exception under article 13 does
    not automatically preclude an order of return. See Hague
    International Child Abduction Convention; Text and Legal
    Analysis, 
    51 Fed. Reg. 10,494
    , 10,509 (Mar. 26, 1986);
    Friedrich v. Friedrich, 
    78 F.3d 1060
    , 1067 (6th Cir. 1996).
    A.
    Mr. Baxter contends on appeal that the District Court
    misapplied article 3 of the Convention by failing to give proper
    consideration to his wrongful retention claim. The court
    terminated its analysis after holding that Mr. Baxter consented
    to Torin’s removal from Australia at the time of his departure.
    It did not address wrongful retention, even though this was the
    principal contention of Mr. Baxter’s petition. The crux of Mr.
    Baxter’s appeal is that his consent to Torin’s trip to United
    States was conditional – given under the assumption that the
    family would reunite at Christmas and then in all likelihood
    return to Australia. He contends that his wife’s decision to
    retain Torin permanently in Delaware was unilateral and
    breached his custody rights.
    As a preliminary matter, the District Court ruled that
    Torin’s habitual residence prior to the contested removal or
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    retention was Australia. Although not an issue contested on
    appeal, the finding is supported by the record. We have defined
    a child’s habitual residence as “the place where he or she has
    been physically present for an amount of time sufficient for
    acclimatization and which has a ‘degree of settled purpose’ from
    the child’s perspective.” Feder, 
    63 F.3d at 224
    ; Delvoye, 
    329 F.3d at 332-333
    . The inquiry “must focus on the child and
    consists of an analysis of the child’s circumstances in that place
    and the parents’ present, shared intentions regarding their child’s
    presence there.” Feder, 
    63 F.3d at 224
    ; Delvoye, 
    329 F.3d at 332-333
    . On the facts here, Delaware does not qualify as
    Torin’s habitual residence prior to removal.
    The District Court found the Baxters disagreed whether
    the move to the United States was permanent or merely intended
    as a “first step [towards] finding a suitable residence for the
    child outside Australia.” Baxter, 
    324 F. Supp. 2d at 539
    . The
    finding that the Baxters had decided to leave Australia
    definitively is unsupported and will be set aside as clearly
    erroneous. The finding is belied by the court’s own conclusions
    that Australia remained the country of habitual residence at the
    time of removal, and that the Baxters were undecided about their
    next residence. (The court found: “It is clear from the evidence
    that the parties did not intend to resolve this question in any
    event until after Respondent and the Child had moved to the
    United States.”) 
    Id.
     The only uncontradicted record evidence
    of settled intent by the parties was to move away from the harsh
    circumstances of the Tiwi Islands. At the time of Mrs. Baxter
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    and Torin’s departure in September 2003, nothing in the record
    indicates that a subsequent return to Australia, to a more
    tolerable location for Torin, had been ruled out. The record
    establishes that the parties saw the trip in the first instance as an
    opportunity to escape from the disagreeable circumstances of
    Bathurst Island, to visit family, and to buy time to plan their next
    move. This falls short of the “settled purpose” required under
    the Convention for a finding that the country of habitual
    residence has been abandoned.
    After addressing habitual residence, the District Court
    proceeded directly to examine Mrs. Baxter’s affirmative defense
    of consent without analyzing the remaining elements of Mr.
    Baxter’s article 3 claim. See Hague Convention, art. 3; Mozes,
    
    239 F.3d at 1070
     (noting that article 3 raises four issues for
    courts to determine: when the removal or retention at issue
    occurred, the country of habitual residence, whether the removal
    or retention breached petitioner’s custody rights, and whether
    petitioner was actually exercising those custody rights at the
    time of the removal or retention). The District Court’s analysis
    focused only on the circumstances of the departure from
    Australia (removal), not Mrs. Baxter’s subsequent decision to
    remain permanently in Delaware with Torin (retention). The
    court’s focus was too narrow. As noted, the crux of Mr.
    Baxter’s claim was wrongful retention, not wrongful removal
    (the relevant heading in his petition was titled “The Removal
    and Wrongful Retention of Torin”).
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    Nor did the District Court address whether Torin’s
    removal or retention breached Mr. Baxter’s custody rights under
    Australian law, or whether Mr. Baxter “actually exercised” his
    custody rights at the time of the removal or retention.4 Hague
    Convention, art. 3. Mrs. Baxter does not dispute that Mr. Baxter
    has rights of joint custody over Torin under Australian law.
    Furthermore, the record demonstrates that Mr. Baxter “actually
    exercised” his custody rights under article 3 at the time of the
    removal and retention. Mrs. Baxter alleged in her pre-hearing
    submission that after their arrival in Delaware, her husband
    “provided no financial support and his only contact with his son
    consisted of infrequent phone calls.” But they had only been
    gone a few weeks before Mrs. Baxter told her husband she had
    decided to remain in Delaware with Torin. Reduced contact or
    lack of financial support over such a short period of time is
    4
    Article 14 of the Convention permits courts to take judicial
    notice of the law of the country of habitual residence in
    answering these questions. See Hague Convention, art. 14 (“In
    ascertaining whether there has been a wrongful removal or
    retention within the meaning of Article 3, the judicial or
    administrative authorities of the requested State may take notice
    directly of the law of, and of judicial or administrative decisions,
    formally recognized or not in the State of the habitual residence
    of the child, without recourse to the specific procedures for the
    proof of that law or for the recognition of foreign decisions
    which would otherwise be applicable.”); see also Mozes v.
    Mozes, 
    239 F.3d 1067
    , 1085 (9th Cir. 2001).
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    insufficient under the Convention to demonstrate that a parent
    has ceased exercising custody rights. Prior to their departure,
    the Baxters lived together as a family and there was no
    allegation of non-support. Moreover, as with the article 13(a)
    defenses of consent and acquiescence (discussed in Part III. B,
    infra), the test for finding the non-exercise of custody rights
    under the Hague Convention is stringent. See Friedrich, 
    78 F.3d at 1065-1066
     (“The only acceptable solution, in the
    absence of a ruling from a court in the country of habitual
    residence, is to liberally find ‘exercise’ whenever a parent with
    de jure custody rights keeps, or seeks to keep, any sort of
    regular contact with his or her child . . . . [I]f a person has valid
    custody rights to a child under the law of the country of the
    child’s habitual residence, that person cannot fail to ‘exercise’
    those custody rights under the Hague Convention short of acts
    that constitute clear and unequivocal abandonment of the
    child.”); see also Sealed Appellant v. Sealed Appellee, 
    394 F.3d 338
    , 344-45 (5th Cir. 2004).
    In holding that Mr. Baxter consented to Torin’s removal,
    the District Court relied on its finding that Mr. and Mrs. Baxter
    “agreed it was in the best interests of the Child to remove the
    Child to the United States.” Baxter, 
    324 F. Supp. 2d at 538
    .
    The court pointed to the family’s negative experience in the
    Tiwi Islands, the purchase of one-way tickets, taking the family
    documents, and hiring the contractor to enclose the porch of the
    house in Delaware as facts pointing to consent to removal. 
    Id. at 538-39
    . But the court did not address the nature or scope of
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    Mr. Baxter’s consent. Nor did it address whether Mr. Baxter
    consented to or even contemplated his wife’s permanent
    retention of Torin in Delaware.
    Mrs. Baxter contends that under the Convention, once a
    court finds the petitioner has consented to the child’s initial
    removal, the inquiry ends and there is no need to address
    retention. This argument is based on the text of article 13(a)’s
    provision that a child need not be returned if the petitioner “had
    consented to or subsequently acquiesced in the removal or
    retention.” Mrs. Baxter contends that analyzing retention as
    well as removal would amount to rewriting article 13(a) to read
    “... in the removal and retention.”
    This argument misreads the Convention. The words
    “removal or retention” refer to whichever may be relevant to
    the case at hand, and create a multiple, not alternative,
    obligation. In other words, the use of the word “or” in article
    13(a) of the Convention is not disjunctive in the sense of
    indicating an alternative between mutually exclusive things. See
    Wanninger v. Wanninger, 
    850 F. Supp. 78
    , 82 (D. Mass. 1994)
    (“The Hague Convention covers both wrongful removal and
    wrongful retention.”) (emphasis in original).5 Article 13(a) does
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    Wanninger presented facts similar to this case. The
    petitioner allowed his children to travel to the United States for
    summer vacation and the respondent kept them here once it
    became clear their marriage would end. The court held that
    “even accepting Catherine’s position that Manfred consented to
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    not provide that if a parent consents to removal of the child for
    a period, under certain conditions or circumstances, that
    retention of the child beyond those conditions or circumstances
    is necessarily permissible. See, e.g., Doudle v. Gause, 
    282 F. Supp. 2d 922
    , 929 (N.D. Ind. 2003) (“[E]ven if the Respondent
    intended to remove the children for a maximum of one year, her
    actions since 2000 have exceeded the scope of Petitioner’s
    consent and she is wrongfully retaining the children in the
    U.S.”). Article 3 proscribes wrongful removal and/or wrongful
    retention, as applicable. The inquiry does not necessarily end
    with the petitioner’s consent to the child’s removal. If the
    petitioner agrees to a removal under certain conditions or
    circumstances and contends those conditions have been
    breached, the court must also examine any wrongful retention
    claim.
    B.
    Mr. Baxter also contends that the District Court erred by
    interpreting the Hague Convention’s affirmative defense of
    consent in article 13(a) too broadly. The defense provides that
    her taking the children to the United States for a limited period,
    it does not follow that Manfred acquiesced to the children’s
    permanent retention in the United States once he realized that
    his marriage was irreconcilable . . . . The sequence of events and
    actions taken by Manfred strongly supports the conclusion that
    Manfred did not agree that the children remain in the United
    States for an indefinite period of time.” 
    850 F. Supp. at 82
    .
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    “the judicial or administrative authority of the requested State is
    not bound to order the return of the child if the person,
    institution or other body which opposes its return establishes
    that . . . the person, institution or other body having care of the
    person of the child . . . had consented to or subsequently
    acquiesced in the removal or retention[.]” Hague Convention,
    art. 13(a). As noted, the District Court ruled that Mrs. Baxter
    proved by a preponderance of the evidence that Mr. Baxter
    consented to Torin’s removal to Delaware, defeating his claim
    for return. Baxter, 
    324 F. Supp. 2d at 538
    . We believe the court
    misconstrued the consent defense in this case.
    Although analytically distinct, the defenses of consent
    and acquiescence under article 13(a) of the Hague Convention
    are both narrow. See 
    42 U.S.C. § 11601
    (a)(4); 51 Fed. Reg. at
    10,509; Feder, 
    63 F.3d at 226
    . The consent defense involves
    the petitioner’s conduct prior to the contested removal or
    retention, while acquiescence addresses whether the petitioner
    subsequently agreed to or accepted the removal or retention.
    See Gonzalez-Caballero v. Mena, 
    251 F.3d 789
    , 794 (9th Cir.
    2001). Although the law construing the consent defense under
    the Convention is less developed, the defense of acquiescence
    has been held to require “an act or statement with the requisite
    formality, such as testimony in a judicial proceeding; a
    convincing written renunciation of rights; or a consistent attitude
    of acquiescence over a significant period of time.” Friedrich,
    
    78 F.3d at 1070
     (internal footnotes omitted). Courts have held
    the acquiescence inquiry turns on the subjective intent of the
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    parent who is claimed to have acquiesced. See Pesin v. Osorio
    Rodriguez, 
    77 F. Supp. 2d 1277
    , 1288 (S.D. Fla. 1999) (citing
    Friedrich, 
    78 F.3d at 1060
    , Wanninger, 
    850 F.Supp. at 81-82
    ,
    and cases from the high courts of the United Kingdom and
    France).
    Consent need not be expressed with the same degree of
    formality as acquiescence in order to prove the defense under
    article 13(a). Often, the petitioner grants some measure of
    consent, such as permission to travel, in an informal manner
    before the parties become involved in a custody dispute. The
    consent and acquiescence inquiries are similar, however, in their
    focus on the petitioner’s subjective intent. In examining a
    consent defense, it is important to consider what the petitioner
    actually contemplated and agreed to in allowing the child to
    travel outside its home country. The nature and scope of the
    petitioner’s consent, and any conditions or limitations, should be
    taken into account. The fact that a petitioner initially allows
    children to travel, and knows their location and how to contact
    them, does not necessarily constitute consent to removal or
    retention under the Convention. See Fabri v. Pritikin-Fabri,
    
    221 F. Supp. 2d 859
    , 871-72 (N.D. Ill. 2001) (“Many cases
    begin with a parent’s taking the child away from home for a
    vacation or visit with the consent of the other parent, but
    nevertheless result in a Hague Convention order compelling the
    child’s return”); see also Ciotola v. Fiocca, 
    86 Ohio Misc. 2d 24
    , 29 (Ct. Com. Pl. 1997) (ordering return of child to Italy after
    petitioner allowed respondent to take child to family wedding in
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    Ohio); Renovales v. Roosa, 
    1991 WL 204483
    , at *1-2 (Conn.
    Super. Ct. Sep. 27, 1991) (ordering return of child to Spain after
    petitioner allowed respondent to take child to her parents’ home
    in Connecticut for summer vacation).
    Mrs. Baxter argues this case more closely resembles
    Gonzalez-Caballero v. Mena, where the Court of Appeals for
    the Ninth Circuit upheld a finding of consent under the
    Convention and denied a petition for return. See 
    251 F.3d at 794
    . But its facts are inapposite. In Gonzalez-Caballero, it was
    clear that petitioner had consented to her child’s removal and
    retention. The parents had concluded the child “would have a
    better life in the United States” and should immigrate to be with
    respondent, an American citizen. 
    Id. at 791
    . The petitioner had
    told respondent that she could no longer care for the child
    because she was pregnant and her boyfriend had left her. 
    Id.
    She only petitioned for the child’s return after “regretting her
    decision” to allow her daughter to be removed to the United
    States. 
    Id. at 793
    . The Gonzalez-Caballero court parsed
    through eight separate factual grounds evidencing consent, 
    id.,
    of which only one (taking the child’s personal documents) is
    present in this case.
    There is no similar factual basis for finding consent here.
    As noted, it is clear that Mr. Baxter consented to Torin’s visit to
    Delaware for a limited period of time, under certain
    circumstances and conditions. But nothing in the record
    demonstrates that he consented to the child’s permanent
    retention in the United States, or to Mrs. Baxter making
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    unilateral decisions regarding Torin’s future. Nor is there
    evidence that Mr. Baxter acquiesced to the present arrangement.
    Record testimony from both parties supports Mr. Baxter’s
    contention that his consent was limited and conditional. Both
    parties testified the marriage was intact when Mrs. Baxter and
    Torin left Australia, and that the plan was for Mr. Baxter to
    rejoin them in Delaware for a visit at Christmas. Both parties
    testified they contemplated the possibility of relocating to the
    United States together as a family at some point, depending on
    Mr. Baxter’s job prospects and other factors, but agree that no
    firm plan was in place as of September 2003. Since learning of
    Mrs. Baxter’s decision to retain Torin in the Delaware and raise
    him with Mr. Stidham, Mr. Baxter has vigorously objected and
    pursued his rights under the Convention. In sum, the record
    demonstrates that Mr. Baxter agreed to Torin staying at his
    grandmother’s house in Delaware for a few months while the
    family figured out its next move, but it is unclear that he agreed
    to anything beyond that. This intent falls short of the standard
    for finding consent under article 13(a) of the Convention.
    The record demonstrates that Mrs. Baxter did not decide
    to stay in Delaware until she arrived there and met Mr. Stidham.
    Mrs. Baxter testified that “it wasn’t until [she] met Mr. Stidham
    that everything changed and [she] decided to end [her] marriage
    and live with Mr. Stidham.” The District Court described this
    central development merely as “an intervening event . . .
    affect[ing] the amicable resolution of this question,” but that
    “for purposes of the legal issue presented, cannot alter
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    Petitioner’s consent to the removal of the Child from Australia
    to the United States.” Baxter, 
    324 F. Supp. 2d at 539
    . We
    disagree. Mrs. Baxter’s decision represented a change in plan
    from what she and Mr. Baxter had agreed upon before departing
    to Delaware. It was clear error for the District Court to find
    otherwise.
    C.
    As an alternative holding, the District Court concluded
    that ordering Torin’s return to Australia would expose him to
    the risk of physical or psychological harm or otherwise place
    him in an intolerable situation under article 13(b) of the
    Convention. 6 
    Id. at 539-40
    . The District Court found the
    parties’ testimony established that the living environment in
    Australia was intolerable. 
    Id. at 539
    . The District Court took
    into account the fact that Mr. Baxter established a new home in
    Perth, a major city, but found “this evidence is insufficient to
    persuade me that returning the Child to Australia at this time
    would not expose the Child to the grave risk of physical or
    6
    Article 13(b) provides: “Notwithstanding the provisions of
    the preceding Article, the judicial or administrative authority of
    the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child
    if the person, institution or other body which opposes its return
    establishes that there is a grave risk that his or her return would
    expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise
    place the child in an untolerable situation.”
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    psychological harm that lead to the decision to move the Child
    to the United States.” 
    Id. at 539-40
    .
    The affirmative defense of grave risk of harm requires
    proof by clear and convincing evidence. 
    42 U.S.C. § 11603
    (e)(2)(A); see also Silverman v. Silverman, 
    338 F.3d 886
    ,
    900 (8th Cir. 2003). The exception has been held to apply in at
    least two sets of cases: “when return of the child puts the child
    in imminent danger . . . e.g., returning the child to a zone of war,
    famine, or disease . . . [and in] cases of serious abuse or neglect,
    or extraordinary emotional dependence, when the court in the
    country of habitual residence, for whatever reason, may be
    incapable or unwilling to give the child adequate protection.”
    Friedrich, 
    78 F.3d at 1069
    . The Court of Appeals for the
    Second Circuit has characterized the exception as follows:
    At one end of the spectrum are those situations
    where repatriation might cause inconvenience or
    hardship, eliminate certain educational or
    economic opportunities, or not comport with the
    child’s preferences; at the other end of the
    spectrum are those situations in which the child
    faces a real risk of being hurt, physically or
    psychologically, as a result of repatriation. The
    former do not constitute a grave risk of harm
    under Article 13(b); the latter do.
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    Blondin v. Dubois, 
    238 F.3d 153
    , 162 (2d Cir. 2001).7
    The facts of this case fall short of demonstrating a clear
    and grave risk of harm. For the grave harm exception to apply,
    7
    The United States Department of State has offered similar
    guidance about the exception, also construing it narrowly:
    A review of deliberations on the Convention
    reveals that “intolerable situation” was not
    intended to encompass return to a home where
    money is in short supply, or where educational or
    other opportunities are more limited than in the
    requested State. An example of an “intolerable
    situation” is one in which a custodial parent
    sexually abuses a child. If the other parent
    removes or retains the child to safeguard it against
    further victimization, and the abusive parent then
    petitions for the child’s return under the
    Convention, the court may deny the petition.
    Such action would protect the child from being
    returned to an “intolerable situation” and
    subjected to a grave risk of psychological harm.
    51 Fed. Reg. at 10,510. Although not conclusive, the meaning
    attributed to treaty provisions by the government agencies
    charged with their negotiation and enforcement is entitled to
    great weight. United States v. Stuart, 
    489 U.S. 353
    , 369 (1989).
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    the respondent must cite specific evidence of potential harm to
    the child upon his return. See Silverman, 
    338 F.3d at 900
    .8
    None has been presented here. There are no allegations of abuse
    by either parent. The only record testimony supporting the
    grave risk of harm exception involves the unpleasant
    experiences the family endured on Bathurst Island before Mrs.
    8
    The Court of Appeals for the First Circuit addressed the
    quantum of proof required:
    To meet her burden under the article 13(b)
    exception, the respondent must establish that the
    alleged physical or psychological harm is “a great
    deal more than minimal.” Indeed, the harm must
    be “something greater than would normally be
    expected on taking a child away from one parent
    and passing him to another.” Courts are not to
    engage in a custody determination or to address
    such questions as who would be the better parent
    in the long run.
    Whallon v. Lynn, 
    230 F.3d 450
    , 459 (1st Cir. 2000) (quoting
    Walsh v. Walsh, 
    221 F.3d 204
    , 218 (1st Cir. 2000)). Walsh held
    that the standard for proving grave risk had been set too high in
    a case involving a pattern of violence by the petitioner, and his
    chronic disobedience of court orders in the home country. There
    is no evidence of any such pattern of conduct by Mr. Baxter in
    the present case.
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    Baxter and Torin left for Delaware. These included run-ins with
    hostile residents, and the stress of living in a community
    troubled by racial and domestic violence and petrol sniffing.9
    But this testimony is of limited relevance here because Mr.
    Baxter no longer resides on Bathurst Island, or anywhere near
    the Tiwi Islands – he now lives in Perth, a major city on
    Australia’s southwestern coast. The inquiry into grave risk of
    harm focuses on the present living situation to which the child
    would be returned. The living situation prior to the removal or
    retention may of course be relevant, but not where the family
    decided jointly to leave, and the petitioner has since relocated.
    IV.
    We conclude the District Court erred by applying the
    Hague Convention’s exceptions under articles 13(a) and 13(b)
    on the facts of this case. We will reverse the order denying Mr.
    Baxter’s petition, and remand for entry of an order granting the
    9
    The record also includes several unsupported allegations
    between the parties regarding their respective fitness as parents.
    Mrs. Baxter claims that Mr. Baxter is an alcoholic who was once
    involved with an illegal mercenary army in Papua New Guinea,
    while Mr. Baxter disparages Mrs. Baxter as “a first-nighter.”
    The District Court made no findings with respect to these
    allegations. Assessment and disposition of these kinds of
    allegations are normally reserved for a custody proceeding. As
    noted, the Convention addresses jurisdiction and not the merits
    of custody disputes. See Hague Convention, art. 19.
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    petition for return to the country of habitual residence. We
    leave it to the sound discretion of the District Court to decide the
    details of that return, including costs.
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