DCPP v. E.M.C., IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP OF A.E.C. ( 2019 )


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  •                       RECORD IMPOUNDED
    NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE
    APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION
    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-4577-15T2
    NEW JERSEY DIVISION
    OF CHILD PROTECTION AND
    PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    APPROVED FOR PUBLICATION
    A.S.K., and T.T.,
    January 23, 2019
    Defendants,
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    and
    E.M.C.,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    _________________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP
    OF N.D.K., A.E.C., and E.S.K.,
    minors.
    _________________________________
    Submitted February 7, 2017 – Decided May 23, 2017
    Before Judges Espinosa, Suter and Guadagno
    (Judge Guadagno dissenting).
    On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Essex County,
    Docket No. FG-07-0197-15.
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, attorney
    for appellant (Kourtney J.A. Knop, Designated
    Counsel, on the briefs).
    Christopher S. Porrino, Attorney General,
    attorney for respondent (Andrea M. Silkowitz,
    Assistant Attorney General, of counsel; Paul
    H. Juzdan, Deputy Attorney General, on the
    brief).
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, Law
    Guardian, attorney for minor A.E.C. (Tracye
    Wilson Elliot, Designated Counsel, on the
    brief).
    PER CURIAM
    This guardianship matter initially concerned three children
    born to defendant A.K. (Ali).1              Defendant E.M.C. (Eric) is the
    father of one of those children, A.E.C. (Adam), and appeals from
    an order that terminated his parental rights to his son.                        We
    affirm.
    Ali's parental rights to all three of her children were also
    terminated.    Because she has not appealed, our review of the facts
    focuses on Eric and his relationship with Adam.
    I.
    Adam was born on November 14, 2009.                Although Eric reported
    that his relationship with Ali ended approximately seven months
    earlier, he is listed as the father on Adam's birth certificate.
    Adam     began   residing   with       Eric   in   March   2012   after   Ali
    contacted him through Facebook.         The other residents of the three
    bedroom    apartment    were:   Eric's        fiancée,    N.R.    (Nell),     his
    1
    We use initials and pseudonyms to protect the privacy of the
    parties and minor child.
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    biological child with Nell, M.C., (born August 14, 2011), Nell's
    two children and Eric's sister.              Before Adam came to live with
    him, Eric had last seen his son in July 2011.                      He told the
    caseworker he had been unable to see him more frequently because
    he was working on construction jobs out of town.
    The first referral to the Division of Child Protection and
    Permanency (the Division) was made in April 2012, after Eric
    brought twenty-nine month-old Adam to the pediatrician with severe
    eczema.   Adam was undernourished, weighing twenty-one pounds, the
    weight of a child half his age.               His speech was mumbled.         Eric
    learned from the pediatrician that Adam had not been to the doctor
    in over two years and was behind in his immunizations. Eric stated
    his earlier attempt to take Adam to the doctor had been thwarted
    because Ali failed to provide him with the child's "medical card."
    Eric cooperated with the Division's investigation, allowing
    access to his home, providing his birth date, phone number, and
    social security number as well as contact information for Eric's
    mother and grandmother.       Eric advised the caseworker he had filed
    for legal and residential custody of Adam in March 2012 and was
    told   that,   because   he   was   in       arrears   on   his   child   support
    obligation, he needed to provide confirmation he had employment
    that would permit him to reduce his arrears. The Division provided
    a bed for Adam, who was then sleeping in a bed with two other
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    children.    The April 2012 investigation summary reported Eric
    "followed-up with all the child's medical appointments" and Adam
    was "now up to date with his immunizations and . . . receiving
    treatment for his eczema."       Because Adam was residing with Eric,
    the   allegation   of   abuse   and   neglect   against   Ali    was    deemed
    unsubstantiated.
    In September 2012, a second referral to the Division was made
    by an anonymous neighbor of Ali's, reporting drug use by Ali, her
    sister and mother while children were in their care.            The reporter
    stated she observed Ali smoking marijuana along with her mother;
    that Ali's four-year-old child, N.K. (Nick), was "always" outside,
    unsupervised, and ate dry, uncooked noodles.        The harm alleged was
    substantial risk of physical injury and inadequate supervision.
    The investigation confirmed Adam continued to reside with Eric at
    this time and, although child welfare concerns persisted regarding
    Ali's admitted drug use, the allegations of neglect and inadequate
    supervision were deemed to be unfounded.
    Ali gave birth to a third child, E.S.K. (Eddie), on June 24,
    2013, and alleged Eric was the biological father.                  Nell was
    displeased that Eric had another child with Ali and, by July 2013,
    Adam returned to live with Ali.
    In December 2013, the Division filed for and was granted care
    and supervision of all three of Ali's children (the FN litigation).
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    On April 9, 2014, the Division executed an emergency removal of
    the three children from Ali's residence pursuant to N.J.S.A. 9:6-
    8.29 and -8.30.      Initially, the children were placed with Ali's
    cousin, S.K.    However, in August 2014, S.K. advised the Division
    that she wanted all three children removed.             The children were
    then placed with M.L. (Maisie), a resource identified by Ali.          The
    Division was unable to contact Eric for other suggested resources
    because his whereabouts were unknown.
    In May and June 2014, the Division embarked upon an extensive
    search to locate Eric.     The search ended, by coincidence, on June
    18, 2014, during an unannounced home visit to Ali.           Eric emerged
    from her residence as Ali was speaking with the caseworker.            The
    caseworker exchanged contact information with Eric.             She also
    advised him a Family Team Meeting was scheduled for June 23 at the
    Division's Newark office and it was important for him to attend.
    The caseworker contacted Eric on the day of the meeting to confirm
    he would attend.       He stated he would not attend because his
    grandmother    was   hospitalized   with   an   unknown   illness.2    The
    caseworker stressed the importance of his attendance and stated
    if he could not attend, he needed to remain in contact with her
    so the Division could discuss the permanency plan for his children.
    2
    No documentation      was   ever    provided   to   corroborate   this
    statement.
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    Thereafter, the Division was unable to contact Eric because his
    telephone number was shut off.   As of January 2015, Eric had not
    contacted the caseworker.
    The Division's goal changed from reunification for the three
    children to adoption in January 2015 and a guardianship complaint
    was filed in February 2015.
    Thereafter, the Division was again unable to locate Eric for
    an extended period of time.   Rosalyn Moulton, the Primary Worker
    for the Division on this matter, testified she was in the process
    of checking addresses for him in January 2016 when his grandmother
    provided an address for him in East Orange.   While she was on her
    way there, she received a call from Eric, who had been called by
    his grandmother, and was then able to meet with him.
    Eric's first appearance in the guardianship litigation was
    on January 14, 2016, approximately eleven months after it had been
    initiated.   Although he had paid child support for Adam without
    challenging paternity, Eric requested a paternity test.3    Eric's
    attorney represented that, pending the results of the paternity
    test, Eric "would like to be a placement.     He's willing to work
    with the Division, do whatever he needs to do."    Eric's attorney
    3
    He also requested a paternity test regarding Eddie, which showed
    he was not the father of that child.
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    also asked for visitation to be scheduled once paternity was
    established.    The Division did not object.
    The trial judge engaged in a colloquy with Eric regarding the
    "road map" of the litigation and explained:
    [T]hat takes a couple of weeks to get a
    paternity test. You'll have to go and they
    just take some saliva or something like that.
    And, then, you're certainly entitled to be
    eligible to parent your child if you wish.
    The Division probably will have to assess you
    and I mean, that's kind of a harsh term, but
    they just have to see, you know, if things are
    appropriate. We just want the children to be
    in safe appropriate homes. And they'll have
    to establish a plan and a goal with respect
    to you. And . . . you have an attorney . . .
    and you have a caseworker. If you feel that,
    you know, you have questions that aren’t being
    answered or anything along those lines you
    cal[l] your attorney.    She's very good and
    she'll work with the State's attorney and try
    to resolve any of your issues. And anything
    that can't be resolved they'll bring to me and
    I'll resolve it.
    The   Division scheduled Eric and Nell for psychological
    evaluations for February 3, 2016 with Dr. Mark Singer, a licensed
    psychologist.
    Having been informed that Eric was employed,4 the judge stated
    he would try to set court dates that were as convenient as he
    4
    Because Eric had represented to the caseworker he was
    unemployed, the Division asked him to provide information and pay
    stubs. Eric then clarified he was going to begin his employment
    the following week.
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    could around Eric's schedule.     He repeatedly asked Eric if he had
    any questions and Eric replied he had none.
    The judge told Eric he would like to schedule return dates
    every thirty days in the guardianship matter and asked Eric if he
    knew what his schedule was.     Eric replied he did not know because
    the scheduler at work was out of town.             After consulting with
    counsel, the judge scheduled the next appearance for February 12,
    2016.
    Eric appeared on the next hearing date.        He had completed the
    paternity test on the previous day.          Both Eric and Nell were
    scheduled   for   a   psychological   evaluation    with   Dr.   Singer   on
    February 15, 2016.     The judge confirmed Eric knew where Dr. Singer
    was located and that the Division had provided him with a bus card
    to get there.
    Observing that the guardianship case was one year old, the
    judge stated he had to set a trial date.            The deputy attorney
    general (DAG) representing the Division demurred, explaining:
    [T]he problem with this is [Eric's] first
    appearance in this case was just when we last
    appeared.
    . . . .
    So we would have to give him an opportunity
    to engage in the litigation. He's presented
    himself as a plan and the Division did meet
    with him. But we're unsure of what's going
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    to happen with [Eric] because he just entered
    the litigation.
    The judge inquired further to get a measure of what was
    necessary to get the case ready for trial. He asked Eric directly,
    "are you interested in parenting?"       When Eric stated, "[y]es," the
    judge replied, "[g]ood."    The judge ascertained the caseworker had
    been to Eric's residence and then said to the DAG, "[a]nd, so, you
    just need an evaluation of him?"       She agreed and also stated there
    were a few other outstanding issues.         The judge then addressed
    Eric again:
    THE COURT:       All right. I'm going to still
    set   trial   dates   and   the
    Division will work with you and
    we'll see where we are come
    April, May.
    [ERIC]:          All right.
    THE COURT:       Okay? Do you have any questions
    for me by the way?
    [ERIC]:          No, sir.
    After learning Eric believed he was Adam's father even without
    the paternity test results, the judge asked about the apparent
    delay in his involvement in the litigation.       The DAG advised Eric
    had been involved in the FN litigation for a brief time and then
    "went missing."     The judge questioned Eric:
    THE COURT:       Do you want to parent [Adam]?
    [ERIC]:          Yes.
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    THE COURT:    And why were you not involved
    earlier in the litigation?
    [ERIC]:       Because during that time the
    mother she had, you know, a lot
    of trouble. She didn’t like my
    fiancée, so both of them was
    going back and forth at that
    time.    So to not have no
    trouble I just told her look,
    I will visit him with you and
    that’s how I see him. But she
    wouldn’t let me come to her
    mother's house, because that's
    where she was staying. And her
    mother didn’t want me there.
    So I couldn’t see him at all.
    [DAG]:        But the child was in placement
    and [Eric] was aware that the
    child was in placement, so I'm
    not speaking about the time
    when [Adam] was with the
    mother.   It's when the child
    was in placement.
    [ERIC]:       Oh, yes, about that. I was
    given a number to call the
    lady.
    THE COURT:    For visitation?
    [ERIC]:       Yeah, the lady, but every time
    I called, no answer.
    . . . .
    THE COURT:    [Y]ou're not visiting     with
    [Adam] though are you?
    [ERIC]:       No.
    THE COURT:    Well, do you want to?
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    [ERIC]:            Yes, I do, but I just didn’t —
    I know where she lives, but I
    just didn’t want to —
    . . . .
    THE COURT:         So     the    Division     will
    facilitate it. You don’t have
    to go through the mother if you
    want visitation. You get your
    own    visitation,    do    you
    understand?
    [ERIC]:            Yes.
    THE COURT:         Do you want that?
    [ERIC]:            Yes.
    THE COURT:         Are you going to go?        We're
    going to set it up?
    [ERIC]:            Yes.
    THE COURT:         Okay.    You have every right.
    Eric and his family lost their home in a fire on February 15,
    2016.   Moulton testified the Division provided Eric with a list
    of resources to deal with the loss caused by the fire.                        She
    continued telephone contact with him while he was living in a
    hotel and, thereafter, with his sister.
    Eric   attended     the    next   proceeding    on   March    10,     2016.
    Following   receipt    of   the    paternity     test   results,    Eric      was
    adjudicated to be Adam's father.            Because Eric and Nell had been
    unable to attend the scheduled psychological evaluation as a result
    of the fire, the evaluation was re-scheduled for April 6.                    Eric
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    did not object to this date.         Once again, the judge addressed Eric
    directly and confirmed he knew the date and where he needed to go.
    The judge also explained, "[s]o the reason we need an evaluation
    is to see if anything needs to be done and what the issues are,
    okay?       So it's important you go on the sixth, April 6th."               The
    next hearing date was scheduled for April 13.
    Eric did not attend the April 6 psychological evaluation or
    the April 13 proceeding.           The DAG advised the court the matter
    would not be ready to proceed on the scheduled trial date of May
    4 because Eric had not yet completed the psychological and bonding
    evaluations.         Eric was reached by telephone, placed under oath,
    and provided the following explanation:
    The reason why I missed the appointment is
    because I went downtown local Penn Station and
    the 71 to Livingston came and I got on that
    one.   And when the lady told me that she
    doesn’t go near the office I had got off and
    it was 1:30 at that time.     So I was at the
    other bus stop waiting for the correct bus and
    it didn’t reach me until 3:30. So I didn’t
    want to appear at the office a whole hour late.
    So I called in for him to call me back and
    reschedule and I didn’t get no call back that
    whole day.
    The trial judge reminded Eric that it was his obligation to
    get    on   the     right   bus.   Eric's     attorney   represented   she   had
    tentative dates for defense evaluations for April 27 and 29. While
    Eric    was    on    the    telephone,   the    trial    judge   expressed   his
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    displeasure and frustration that the Division's expert was unable
    to schedule a new date for Eric's evaluations for two months and
    observed he would probably have to adjourn the trial because the
    evaluations were not completed.      He asked the DAG to have Dr.
    Singer available by telephone for their next conference on April
    18 if he could not fit Eric in for an evaluation for two months.
    Eric did not attend the April 18 hearing.    The DAG advised
    the court of the failed effort to have Eric evaluated that day.
    At her request, Dr. Singer had changed travel plans, paying a fee
    to change the plans, so he could conduct the evaluation of Eric
    that morning at 9 a.m. Eric was contacted and said he would be
    available.   The DAG explained that the plan fell apart, however:
    Dr. Singer got a call this morning . . . a
    little bit after seven, [Eric] indicated that
    he wasn’t sure what time he would be coming
    to the evaluation. He left Dr. Singer a phone
    number to reach out to him. Dr. Singer placed
    several calls to him and never got a response.
    The caseworker was able to get in touch with
    [Eric] and [Eric] indicated that he had a
    family emergency with one of his other
    children.
    [(Emphasis added).]
    Eric's attorney explained his daughter suffered from sickle-
    cell anemia; Eric had been in the hospital all night and "[t]hey
    were scrambling to find child care for the other children so that
    his fiancée could stay with the child in the hospital while he
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    went to the evaluation."     She represented Eric would get medical
    records to document the family emergency.         No documentation of the
    medical emergency was ever provided.
    Turning   to    scheduling,    the   judge   asked   the   status    of
    evaluations.   The Division still required an evaluation of Eric
    by   Dr.   Singer.     Eric's      attorney   represented   the   defense
    psychological and bonding evaluations had been rescheduled for May
    10 and 17.
    A case management review hearing was held on May 23, 2016.
    Eric had been scheduled for evaluation by Dr. Singer at 9:00 that
    morning the fourth scheduled date.         He did not appear.     The DAG
    advised that the case manager received a text message from Eric
    that morning saying he had a conference with one of his children.
    Eric's attorney said she had received a text message from him at
    about 6:30 a.m. saying his fiancée was sick and he had no one else
    to care for the children.       She said, "[h]is fiancée is very sick
    in bed, so he's taking care [of the child] and I think he might
    have had to attend a school thing in her place."            An effort to
    telephone Eric was futile, reaching only his voicemail.
    Eric's attorney represented that the defense evaluations were
    completed on May 17 and asked that another attempt be made to
    schedule an evaluation by Dr. Singer.         Arguing that Eric had made
    efforts to participate, she stated he wanted "an opportunity to
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    raise   his    son.      And   he   understands   the   seriousness   of   the
    litigation and . . . we've had many frank discussions about the
    need for him to attend these evaluations which makes me feel as
    if these are legitimate excuses."
    The judge then reviewed the chronology of missed evaluation
    appointments.5        The first evaluation on February 15 was missed as
    a result of the fire, the occurrence of which was confirmed with
    the Red Cross.        The second scheduled evaluation, on April 6, was
    missed because Eric got on the wrong bus.          It was represented that
    Eric missed the third scheduled evaluation, on April 18, because
    two of his daughters were rushed to the hospital for sickle-cell
    anemia-related issues.6         Despite his counsel's requests, he had
    not provided her with any documentation of that medical emergency.
    The two emails Eric sent on the morning of May 23 were then read
    to the court.      The one sent to the Division at 9:45 a.m. stated:
    Good morning. Sorry, I missed your call. I
    was in a school conference for my son. I was
    going to call you but I'm driving[,] the bus
    card came up missing and I got to get . . .
    this truck back to my sister. So I won't make
    it to this appointment with Dr. Singer.
    Eric's attorney reported she had been "very stern" with him
    about the need to attend the evaluation and believed he was going
    5
    Nell also missed each of the scheduled evaluations.
    6
    On April 18, the representation had been that one daughter was
    ill.
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    to attend because, in response to her advice, he stated, "no
    problem."    Nonetheless, he failed to appear.       Although the judge
    had consistently expressed sympathy and patience with the reasons
    previously    proffered   for   Eric's    failures     to   attend   the
    evaluations, the conflicting reasons given for the failure that
    day presented a challenge to his equanimity.     The judge questioned
    why Eric was "going to a school conference if he's home taking
    care of kids if the fiancée is sick," and further observed there
    was no answer when Eric was called.
    The trial judge agreed to consider scheduling a fifth date
    for Eric's evaluation by Dr. Singer but cautioned that if he did
    not appear, Eric would forfeit his opportunity to present his own
    expert.     He also required Eric to produce documentation of the
    sickle-cell anemia hospital visit.       The judge scheduled the next
    conference for June 1 to determine if a fifth evaluation date
    would be scheduled.
    Eric had notice of the June 1 conference but did not appear
    in person and was not available to participate by telephone.         His
    attorney stated, "[h]e's taking care of his children and they're
    screaming and crying and he can't get to the phone."            The DAG
    advised Dr. Singer could perform an evaluation of Eric on June 10.
    Eric's attorney stated she had stressed to him how important it
    was for him to provide her with documentation of his daughters'
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    hospitalization.   He replied they had lost the discharge papers
    and, although he agreed to get copies or provide the name of the
    doctor for her, he had failed to do so.    The judge asked the DAG
    if the Division was willing to give Eric a fifth attempt at the
    evaluation, and she answered, "[y]es."   The judge again emphasized
    that if Eric failed to attend a fifth evaluation date, he would
    be precluded from presenting his own expert.     He scheduled June
    10 as the date on which Dr. Singer would evaluate Eric and, if
    Eric did not appear, the trial would proceed.
    On June 7, 2016, Eric appeared at the Division office to
    obtain his bus card.   Moulton explained to him both the trial and
    his evaluation with Dr. Singer were scheduled for 9:00 a.m. on
    June 10.    He replied he had an appointment at 10:30 a.m. for
    Section 8 housing and he was concerned he would lose his housing
    if he missed that appointment.   Moulton understood the importance
    of that meeting but stressed the potential consequence of failing
    to appear for the evaluation, explaining that, at this trial, "we
    are going to terminate . . . parental rights."     She told him it
    was possible to work things out if he could come to court at 9:00
    a.m., meet with the doctor and then leave.
    Eric did not appear for the evaluation or for trial on June
    10, 2016.
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    Although he had requested visitation with Adam once paternity
    was established, Eric's inconsistency in appearing for scheduled
    events also adversely impacted his visits with Adam.                From the
    time he was adjudicated Adam's father until the trial, Eric had
    only two hours of supervised visitation and did not avail himself
    of any visits with Adam at the foster home even though he had the
    ability    to   do    so.      He   failed   to   attend   scheduled    intake
    appointments to initiate visitation on March 22 and 24, 2016. When
    Eric did not show up for the first appointment, the caseworker
    called him.     He stated he was unable to attend because he did not
    have child care for his children.            When Eric neither appeared nor
    called    for   the   second    scheduled     appointment,   the   caseworker
    contacted him again.        He sent a message that he had received a
    call for a job interview and could not miss the interview.              It was
    not until the third scheduled appointment that Eric attended the
    intake appointment.
    On March 30, 2016, Eric had a supervised visit with Adam at
    the Division. The caseworker met with Eric, discussed rescheduling
    his intake appointment, informed him of the scheduled bonding
    evaluation and gave him a bus card for the evaluation.              Eric had
    another visit with Adam on April 5, 2016.           Each of the visits with
    Adam were positive.
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    A visit scheduled for May 17, 2016 was canceled because Eric
    was scheduled for the defense bonding evaluation.            Eric failed to
    appear for the next scheduled visit on May 24, 2016, and, when he
    was called, stated he "forgot about today's visit and will not be
    able to make it."        A visit scheduled for May 31 was canceled
    because Eric failed to confirm the visit twenty-four hours in
    advance.
    At the time of trial, Adam had been living with Maisie for
    approximately two years.        Moulton described Adam as having special
    needs.     He was diagnosed with attention-deficit/hyperactivity
    disorder     (ADHD),    and    was   receiving    services   that   included
    individual    therapy,    in-home    behavioral    assistance   and    speech
    therapy.
    Dr. Singer was qualified as an expert in psychology and
    bonding.   He conducted a bonding evaluation between Maisie and all
    three children.    He found their interaction to be "very consistent
    with what is commonly seen between three children and a healthy
    attachment figure."      The children used Maisie as a secure base for
    engaging in exploratory behavior.           "Smiling and laughter were
    plentiful."    Maisie was very proactive, "praised the children very
    appropriately     and    the     children   appeared    to . . .      respond
    appropriately to the praise."        They sought her assistance in their
    play and she provided appropriate assistance and structure.                Dr.
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    Singer interviewed Nick and Adam, who both stated they wanted to
    live with Maisie and that they were not having any visits with
    their biological parents.   Dr. Singer concluded:
    [Maisie] has become the psychological parent
    for all three children.    The data suggests
    that they have a very secure attachment. And
    should that relationship be severed there
    would likely be some significant negative
    consequences to severing a relationship
    between the children and their psychological
    parent.
    Dr. Singer noted the children enjoyed an added benefit by the
    fact that all three children were together, giving them "an
    opportunity to foster a relationship amongst themselves."             He
    opined it would be a "significant loss" for Adam to lose those
    relationships.
    Dr. Singer anticipated that if their relationship with Maisie
    were severed, "the children would regress both emotionally and
    behaviorally."    He   expected   the   "children   would   experience
    feelings of loss, feelings of sadness, low self-esteem" and "have
    difficulty forming meaningful attachments later in life."           The
    harm caused would be significant and enduring.      This would be even
    "more complicated" for Adam because he had some behavioral issues,
    was exposed to lead, had some speech issues and had an Individual
    Education Program (IEP) in school.      Dr. Singer opined "that any
    of those deficits . . . would be exacerbated should this child
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    lose his relationship with . . . what appears to be his only
    consistent healthy caregiver."
    Because   Eric   never   appeared   for    any   of   his   scheduled
    evaluations, Dr. Singer never met him.         Dr. Singer stated Eric's
    failure to make any of the appointments "raises concerns regarding
    his ability to make the kind of commitment that [Adam] would need
    in terms of having a safe, stable, healthy parental figure in his
    life."
    Dr. Singer opined a failed reunification would "add to the
    inconsistency" the three children had experienced in their lives.
    He noted the extreme importance of permanency in providing the
    kind of consistency children need to grow, benefiting them in
    developing self-esteem and even improving academic performance.
    He stated the Division should not delay further in establishing a
    permanent plan for the children and agreed with the Division's
    goal of termination of parental rights and adoption of the children
    by Maisie.
    Moulton testified the Division did not refer Eric to any
    services other than visitation and the psychological evaluation
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    because,   without   experts'   recommendations,   the   Division   was
    unaware of what services were needed.7
    II.
    Termination of parental rights is warranted when the Division
    establishes by clear and convincing evidence that:
    (1)   The    child's   safety,   health,    or
    development has been or will continue to
    be    endangered    by   the    parental
    relationship;
    (2)   The parent is unwilling or unable to
    eliminate the harm facing the child or
    is unable or unwilling to provide a safe
    and stable home for the child and the
    delay of permanent placement will add to
    the harm. Such harm may include evidence
    that separating the child from his
    resource family parents would cause
    serious   and  enduring   emotional   or
    psychological harm to the child;
    (3)   The [D]ivision has made reasonable
    efforts to provide services to help the
    parent correct the circumstances which
    led to the child's placement outside the
    home and the court has considered
    alternatives to termination of parental
    rights; and
    (4)   Termination of parental rights will not
    do more harm than good.
    [N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a) See N.J. Div. of Youth
    & Family Servs. v. I.S., 
    202 N.J. 145
    , 168
    (2010).]
    7
    Moulton acknowledged she was aware that Eric was employed in
    construction and worked long hours. She had provided him with a
    letter documenting his court cases for his employer as he had
    requested.
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    These "four criteria . . . are not discrete and separate; they
    relate to and overlap with one another to provide a comprehensive
    standard    that   identifies   a   child's   best   interests."     In    re
    Guardianship of K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. 337
    , 348 (1999).            Notably, the
    best interests standard is applied in light of "New Jersey’s strong
    public policy in favor of permanency."        
    Id. at 357
    .   "[T]he child's
    need for permanency and stability emerges as a central factor."
    Ibid.; see also In re Guardianship of J.C., 
    129 N.J. 1
    , 26 (1992).
    Eric argues the order terminating his parental rights should
    be reversed because the Division failed to prove the four prongs
    of N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a) by clear and convincing evidence.                We
    disagree.
    As a preliminary matter, we note that great deference is
    afforded to the Family Part's findings of fact and conclusions of
    law based on those findings.        N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
    v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 104 (2008); N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
    v. G.L., 
    191 N.J. 596
    , 605 (2007); N.J. Div. of Youth & Family
    Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    , 79 (2007). In this case, the findings
    of fact are based upon the evidence presented by the Division,
    which were unrefuted by any evidence presented on behalf of Eric
    and, in fact, were corroborated by Eric's admissions at compliance
    review hearings.
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    III.
    The first two prongs of the statutory test are interrelated.
    A.
    Harm,    as     addressed   by    the    first   prong,   "involves      the
    endangerment of the child's health and development resulting from
    the parental relationship."            K.H.O., supra, 
    161 N.J. at 348
    . Eric
    argues that this prong was unproven because he never harmed Adam
    and he further faults the Division for failing to locate him and
    using only "perfunctory efforts" to do so.
    To satisfy this prong, the Division "does not have to wait
    'until   a    child    is   actually    irreparably    impaired     by   parental
    inattention or neglect.'"          N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    F.M., 
    211 N.J. 420
    , 449 (2012) (quoting In re Guardianship of
    D.M.H., 
    161 N.J. 365
    , 383 (1999)).             "The harm shown . . . must be
    one   that    threatens     the   child's     health   and   will   likely    have
    continuing deleterious effects on the child."                K.H.O., supra, 161
    N.J. at 352.
    "[T]he attention and concern of a caring family is 'the most
    precious of all resources.'"              D.M.H., supra, 161 N.J. at 379
    (quoting N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. A.W., 
    103 N.J. 591
    ,
    613 (1986)).        "A parent's withdrawal of that solicitude, nurture,
    and care for an extended period of time is in itself a harm that
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    endangers the health and development of the child."       Ibid.; see
    also K.H.O., supra, 161 N.J. at 352-54.
    The trial judge made the following findings as to the first
    prong of the analysis:
    [Eric] simply has been not available to
    his child and, also, has no plan. The Court
    finds he has, in fact, withheld his, love,
    nurture and solicitude at a time period where
    he knew or certainly should have known . . .
    that the Division had custody . . . of his
    child.   The caseworker was clear that the
    evidence the affidavit establishes that [Eric]
    knew that the Division had removed [Adam].
    [Eric] knew [Adam] was in trouble because of
    the fact that [Adam's] mother didn't take him
    to the doctor for two years and that, [Adam]
    was either back with his mother in the first
    instance and, then, removed.       And [Eric]
    currently had no plan and wasn't available.
    In fact, he gave the Division incorrect
    information, never updated his information
    with the Division.     And the Division did
    everything they could to find him. They did
    an affidavit search and it was unsuccessful.
    And [Eric] despite the fact knowing that the
    Division has his child never appeared and
    never planned, clearly, his being unavailable
    for his child, not planning for his child,
    letting his child remain in foster care
    without getting involved, not contacting the
    Division, not being involved in any way, shape
    or form is withholding love, nurture and
    solicitude.   A recognizable and cognizable
    harm in New Jersey. And I find the Division
    has established that clearly and convincingly.
    . . . .
    I, also, note . . . that a child may
    experience continuous psychological damage if
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    deprived of a permanent home and identity.
    And, clearly, [Eric] failed to provide a
    permanent type of home for [Adam], which is
    further harm.   And as indicated jeopardizes
    and harms the child's health and development.
    And I do find that not only [has Eric]
    harmed the child's health and development, but
    that it's likely to continue in the future and
    continue to be endangered . . . . I'll go into
    that a little bit more in Prong [three]. I
    went into it a little bit before with the
    facts. But, clearly . . . . [Eric] has been
    simply unavailable and missed five attempts
    to have him evaluated as well. Therefore, the
    Division has satisfied Prong [one] clearly and
    convincingly.
    B.
    Under the second statutory prong, "[n]o more and no less is
    required of [the parents] than that they will not place their
    children in substantial jeopardy to physical or mental health."
    A.W., supra, 
    103 N.J. at 607
    .   In other words, "[t]he Division must
    demonstrate that the parent is 'unable to eliminate the harm facing
    the child or is unable . . . to provide a safe and stable home for
    the child' . . . before any delay in permanent placement becomes a
    harm in and of itself."    N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    A.G., 
    344 N.J. Super. 418
    , 434 (App. Div.) (alterations in original)
    (quoting N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(2) and J.C., supra, 
    129 N.J. at 10
    ), certif. denied, 171 N,J. 44 (2002).
    Eric argues the trial judge erred in finding this prong
    satisfied by his "failure to come forward."   He submits that, "as
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    soon as [he] was made aware and served the FG Complaint, he
    appeared three days later at the January 14, 2016 court hearing
    and expressed his interest in caring for his son again."
    The trial judge found the Division satisfied the second prong
    clearly and convincingly:
    [Eric's] unwillingness to attend any type
    of   service    speaks   volumes   of    [his]
    unwillingness to address the reasons why [Adam
    is] not in [his] care.
    [Eric] simply has never come forward.
    He's   avoided   the    Division   by   giving
    information that either was incorrect or soon
    became incorrect and never updated it.     The
    Division through a search could not even
    locate him. And he's never sat down and met
    the Division to establish a plan. The best
    the Division could do was get him into an
    evaluation to see what services he needed.
    But, unfortunately, he never complied with
    that. He was, basically, missing in action,
    MIA, is what I put in my notes, at the removal
    time, all the way up through January 2016.
    And, then, when he appeared in 2016 he was
    still noncompliant.
    In addition, he had ample opportunity to
    even attend visits with [Adam]. The testimony
    was that even though the caregiver is not his
    direct relative the caregiver was wil[l]ing
    to have open and liberal visitation and
    supervise it. But he never took advantage of
    that.   Then, the Division said, fine, they
    will set the visits up at Tri-Cities. [Eric]
    missed the intake.    And, consequently, the
    visits were, then, at the Division's office.
    And he only attended two visits during that
    whole time period. That clearly demonstrates
    an inability or unwillingness to eliminate the
    harm facing the child.
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    C.
    The record here supports the finding that Eric voluntarily
    withdrew from Adam's life for substantial periods of time.     He was
    fully aware of the medical neglect Adam had suffered while in Ali's
    care when he brought Adam to the pediatrician in April 2012.         At
    that time, Eric learned Adam had not been to the doctor in two
    years, was behind in his immunizations, undernourished, half the
    normal weight for a child his age, and his speech was delayed.       He
    also knew that Ali had frustrated his efforts to secure medical
    attention for Adam by failing to provide his medical card.      It is
    evident Eric was capable of recognizing and caring for Adam's needs
    because, during the time Adam lived with him, Eric followed up with
    all his medical appointments and saw to it that Adam received
    appropriate medical treatment, including getting him up to date
    with his immunizations.       A continuing theme in the Division's
    reports is that there were no concerns for Adam's well-being when
    he was living with Eric.
    Nonetheless, when Ali had another child in June 2013 and
    claimed Eric was the father, Eric returned Adam to the home where
    he had been neglected in order to mollify Nell.       There is no
    evidence he did anything to ameliorate the risk of harm to Adam
    that living with Ali posed.
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    It is reasonable to infer Eric was aware Adam had been removed
    from Ali's care in April 2014 because he was present at her house
    when the Division caseworker appeared for an unannounced visit in
    June 2014.   Despite the urging of the caseworker to attend a Family
    Team Meeting and her follow-up call to him, he did not attend,
    proffering an as yet unsubstantiated excuse that his grandmother
    was in the hospital.    Although the caseworker provided her contact
    information and emphasized the need for Eric to remain in contact
    with the Division, he remained incommunicado from June 2015 until
    January 2016, when the Division was able to contact him through his
    grandmother.
    Thus, from July 2013, the time he returned Adam to the care
    of a person Eric knew had neglected him, until January 2016, the
    only initiative Eric took to reach out to the Division was the
    phone call he made after his grandmother contacted him to inform
    him the Division was seeking him.        It is no excuse that he did not
    know about the FN litigation because he admitted to the judge he
    did not get involved or see his son because of the friction between
    Ali and Nell.   He also admitted he knew where Adam was in placement
    and had the telephone number for his resource mother but failed to
    pursue visits with Adam when he called and got no answer.
    It cannot be      disputed   that   Eric was fully aware of the
    guardianship trial as of January 2016.       The guardianship action was
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    close to one year old at that time and the judge was understandably
    concerned that a trial be scheduled to achieve permanency for Adam.
    Still, both the judge and the Division were admirably respectful
    of Eric's rights.       The Division reminded the judge that Eric had
    just appeared, "presented himself as a plan" and had to be given
    "an opportunity to engage in the litigation."              When Eric stated his
    interest in parenting Adam, the judge responded, "[g]ood," and
    provided him with a road map of the litigation process.
    From his initial appearance in January 2016 through trial,
    the record is replete with evidence that the judge, the Division
    and   even   Eric's    own     attorney   repeatedly      advised   him   of   the
    importance of appearing for scheduled evaluations, explained why
    the evaluations were important in the litigation, confirmed he
    knew where he had to appear and had the means to do so.                   He was
    not prejudiced by his one excusable failure due to the fire.
    Rather, he was given four more opportunities to attend, all
    accompanied    by     urgent    advice    as   to   the    importance     of   his
    participation and the consequences for failing to appear.
    As for the final opportunity, on the day of trial, the
    caseworker had stressed the hearing was to address the termination
    of parental rights and the judge had made it clear Eric would be
    foreclosed from presenting his own expert if he failed to appear
    for evaluation by Dr. Singer.             Admittedly, Eric had a potential
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    conflict that day but, as the caseworker advised him, it was not
    insurmountable and they could work it out, provided he showed up
    as required for the 9:00 a.m. evaluation.
    We derive two conclusions from this record.              First, Adam was
    exposed to a risk of harm from his relationship with his father.
    That harm was presented by Eric's voluntary withdrawal from Adam's
    life   and   responsibilities    for   his     care    after    Eric   knowingly
    permitted Adam to return to a home where he had been profoundly
    neglected.      Second,   we    conclude     Eric     lacks    the   ability    or
    inclination to overcome this inattention and become a responsible
    parent to Adam.    We are cognizant Eric suffered the loss of a fire
    and has significant other responsibilities associated with the
    family he has with Nell.       But Adam deserves a parent who puts his
    needs on a footing that is at least equal to the demands placed
    on Eric by these other family relationships.                  Even if we accord
    any credence to Eric's stated but unsubstantiated reasons for
    failing to attend evaluations and visits with Adam, those reasons
    reveal the very low priority Eric gave to building or even merely
    staving off the termination of his parental relationship with his
    son.    In our view, there was ample evidence to satisfy the first
    and second prongs of the best interests test.
    IV.
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    The third prong of the best interests standard contemplates
    the Division's efforts to reunify the parent and the child by
    assisting the parent in addressing the problems that led to
    placement.    K.H.O., supra, 161 N.J. at 354.   Such efforts include:
    (1)     consultation and cooperation with      the
    parent   in   developing a  plan       for
    appropriate services;
    (2)     providing services that have been agreed
    upon, to the family, in order to further
    the goal of family reunification;
    (3)     informing the parent at appropriate
    intervals of the child's progress,
    development, and health; and
    (4)     facilitating appropriate visitation.
    [N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(c).]
    The Division's efforts are measured not by their success but
    against the standards of adequacy in light of the family's needs
    in a particular case.     D.M.H., supra, 161 N.J. at 390.     When a
    parent "refuse[s] to engage in therapy or other services," that
    factor suggests efforts to reunite the family are no longer
    reasonable.   A.W., supra, 
    103 N.J. at 610
     (quoting Richard Ducote,
    Why States Don't Terminate Parental Rights, Justice      for Children
    3 (Winter 1986)).
    The trial judge found the Division proved the third prong by
    clear and convincing evidence:
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    [D]espite the fact that [Eric] knew based
    on the testimony of the caseworker and the
    affidavit of the fact that his child was in
    custody [he] did not make himself available.
    And, consequently, was unavailable for any
    type of service.    When he did make himself
    available   in   January   of  2016   he   was
    immediately referred to an evaluation, again,
    so services could be put in place and tailored
    for him. Unfortunately, he had five attempts
    at those evaluations and never -- never made
    it, never attended.     And, of course, as I
    indicated there were two searches for him as
    well.
    . . . .
    As far as alternatives, the Division has
    considered   a   relative,  [S.K.]   and   the
    Division, also, spoke to the caregiver about
    [kinship legal guardianship] as an alternative
    to adoption.   The caregiver expressed [that
    her] desire and preference is for adoption.
    Eric argues that the trial judge erred in making this finding.
    He contends the Division "failed to tailor its services to the
    father," stating, "[a]s soon as he was served and understood that
    his son was in foster care . . . he availed himself by attending
    court hearings and being tested for paternity." He also argued
    that the Division conducted an inadequate search for relatives for
    Adam's    placement    and    criticized     the   foster   mother   as     an
    inappropriate placement.
    Regarding the court-ordered evaluations, Eric did not argue
    before the trial court or in this appeal that the evaluations
    ordered   by   the    trial   judge   were   unnecessary;    that    it   was
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    unreasonable for the judge to require them or that the requirement
    interfered with his ability to parent Adam.               Rather than challenge
    the reasonableness of the ordered evaluation, Eric argued his
    noncompliance was excusable.
    As Moulton testified, Eric's failures to participate in the
    psychological evaluations thwarted any effort by the Division to
    determine       what    services      were      appropriate       to       assist     in
    reunification.         Even without the evaluations, the Division was
    able to respond to Eric's needs when he maintained contact,
    providing a bed for Adam, a list of resources to deal with the
    loss caused by the fire and bus cards to enable him to attend
    evaluations.
    Eric's    argument      that   the     Division   failed       to   adequately
    consider alternatives to termination lacks any merit. The Division
    initially placed the children with a maternal cousin, who asked
    they   be   removed     four    months      later.       At    that    time,    Eric's
    whereabouts were unknown and the children were placed with another
    resource suggested by Ali.            Eric now contends the Division was
    required to conduct an exhaustive search for a relative who could
    care for Adam and states the Division should have considered Eric's
    mother because it had her contact information.                    We do not agree
    that the Division has such an obligation.                     We note further that
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    there is no evidence that Eric suggested her as a placement or
    that she volunteered for placement.
    V.
    Lastly, the fourth prong addresses whether "[t]ermination of
    parental rights will not do more harm than good."            N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(a)(4).      The focus of this prong is whether the child will
    suffer a greater harm from the termination of ties with the natural
    parent    than   from   the    permanent      disruption    of   the   child's
    relationship with the foster parent.            K.H.O., supra, 161 N.J. at
    355.
    Eric argues it was error for the trial judge to find this
    prong satisfied because Adam "knows his father," spent one-third
    of his life with his father and is "comfortable and excited" to
    be with his father and his family.
    The trial judge found this prong was satisfied by clear and
    convincing    evidence,   as    well.      Although   the    judge     observed
    comparative bonding evaluations were not available because Eric
    had failed to attend any bonding evaluation, the court did have
    "the uncontradicted testimony of Dr. Singer," who had interviewed
    Adam and conducted a bonding evaluation with Maisie.
    [Dr. Singer] noted that there was a
    secure attachment. He noted that the children
    view her as the psychological parent.      He
    noted that there would be harm if that
    relationship was terminated. There would be
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    enduring harm.   The children would regress.
    [Adam's]   special   needs . . .  would   be
    enhanced. And in the long term there would
    be experience of loss, sadness and low self
    esteem.
    There is no known parent who can at this
    point mitigate that harm.
    Dr. Singer, after reviewing all of the
    facts before him and the data concluded that
    the children need permanency and that they
    would benefit from permanency.     And that
    further delay would not be in the children's
    best interest.
    He, also, noted in his report that the
    children are progressing through the age where
    primary attachments internalize and where
    there is no other attachment figure to
    mitigate the harm if the children lose their
    relationship with their psychological parent.
    That there would be significant and enduring
    harm suffered to the children.
    Again, resulting in feelings of loss,
    insecurity, low self esteem, and having
    difficulty forming meaningful relations later
    in life.
    On the other hand, the children have an
    opportunity here to be together with each
    other and to achieve permanency. There is no
    other vehicle or avenue for these children to
    achieve permanency at this point in time. The
    good from that permanency clearly outweighs
    any   harm  that   could   result   from  the
    termination of . . . [Eric's] rights to
    [Adam]. . . .
    The unrefuted evidence here is that Adam has an emotional
    attachment to Maisie, who wants to adopt him and his siblings, and
    he wants to continue to live with her.   The emotional bond and the
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    quality of care provided by Maisie have resulted in her becoming
    Adam's psychological parent, the only healthy caregiver he has
    known in his life.      Dr. Singer testified Adam would suffer a
    significant and long-term harm if that relationship were severed,
    and, because of his special needs, the impact on him would be
    greater than that on his siblings.         No evidence was presented to
    suggest Eric, an inconsistent presence in Adam's life, has any
    ability to ameliorate the harm Adam would suffer.
    "We will not disturb the family court's decision to terminate
    parental rights when there is substantial credible evidence in the
    record to support the court's findings."           E.P., supra, 
    196 N.J. at
    104 (citing In re Guardianship of J.N.H., 
    172 N.J. 440
    , 472
    (2002)).    There is ample evidence here to support the court's
    findings.
    VI.
    Our dissenting colleague concludes that termination is not
    warranted   here   because   Eric   was     not   afforded   a   meaningful
    opportunity to reunify with his son. He cites: failures in service
    regarding the Title 9 and guardianship complaints, Eric being
    precluded   from   visits    unless       supervised   and   the    court's
    requirement that he undergo a psychological evaluation, which our
    colleague describes as neither necessary for reunification nor
    helpful in determining Eric's ability to care for his son.
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    We agree that courts should not adopt recommendations of the
    Division   for   evaluations   in    a   knee-jerk   fashion   without
    consideration of their usefulness in a given case.      In this case,
    however, the need for Eric to attend an evaluation was never
    challenged in the trial court or on appeal.          To the contrary,
    trial counsel repeatedly represented to the court that she had
    emphasized the importance of attending the evaluation to Eric,
    even commenting on one occasion that she had been "very stern"
    with him and he understood the importance of compliance.              On
    appeal, again, there has been no challenge to the reasonableness
    of this requirement, only an argument that Eric's failure to comply
    was excusable.    And, Eric's failure to cooperate deprived the
    court of a bonding evaluation between him and Adam, an evaluation
    our colleague agrees is necessary.
    Whether the ordered evaluations or supervised visitation were
    necessary or not, we disagree that the orders deprived Eric of a
    meaningful opportunity for reunification or thwarted any effort
    of his to fortify his relationship with his son.           The record
    reflects an admirable patience on the part of the trial judge,
    repeatedly expressing a commitment to assist Eric in visiting with
    his son.
    Both Eric and our dissenting colleague fault the Division for
    failing to find Eric and include him in the ongoing litigation.
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    In this, as in providing services generally, we believe the
    Division's efforts should not be measured by their success but by
    their reasonableness.    The affidavit of inquiry filed in January
    2015 shows the Division attempted to find Eric at his last known
    address, conducted numerous inquiries of databases, identified
    four other addresses for him and sent mail, both regular and
    certified, that was returned as undeliverable and marked "[r]eturn
    to sender, attempted – not known, unable to forward." A caseworker
    also visited addresses in an effort to locate defendant and was
    finally able to make contact after Eric heard from his grandmother
    that she was looking for him.
    Eric's   own   statements    and    conduct   cannot   be   ignored     in
    assessing the reasonableness of the Division's efforts and whether
    the orders thwarted reunification.         Eric stated, under oath, that
    he knew Adam was in placement, he knew where he was living and had
    the telephone number where he could call him.           Still, he did not
    attempt to visit Adam during that extended time when there were
    no orders in place.    Given his admitted knowledge that his son was
    in placement and the absence of any barriers to his visiting him
    during that time, the limited nature of Eric's relationship with
    his son cannot be laid at the Division's door.
    We   appreciate   that,     among   the   many   failures   to    attend
    evaluations and intake appointments, there was a fire precluding
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    Eric's participation on one occasion and reasons given on other
    occasions that appeared plausible.    But, there were also excuses
    that were conflicting, undocumented and strained credulity.      And,
    even if given credence, the excuses given did not reflect a high
    priority for achieving reunification.     The record thus provides
    more than ample support for the conclusion that Eric's absence
    from Adam's life was voluntary, not the product of any inhibiting
    effect caused by the court's orders and further, that Eric's
    absence constituted a harm he was unable or unwilling to eliminate.
    Our colleague also states I.S. compels a different result.8
    We disagree.    Supra, 
    202 N.J. at 145
    .
    C.M., the father in I.S., learned in December 2006 that he
    had fathered a child out of wedlock, who was born eight months
    earlier and had been removed from the care of the mother.     
    Id. at 155
    .    C.M. was married with four children.    
    Ibid.
       The ensuing
    conflict with his wife presented C.M. with what the Supreme Court
    termed a Hobson's Choice, choosing between his newborn son and his
    established family.    
    Id. at 151
    .    Although C.M. did not request
    custody of his son because his wife would not accept that outcome,
    he identified two placements for the child, a friend in the
    Dominican Republic and his sister.    
    Id. at 157-58
    .    The Division
    8
    Eric did not cite I.S. in support of his arguments on appeal.
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    rejected the possible placement in the Dominican Republic and
    offered no assistance to C.M.'s sister to improve her housing
    circumstances to accommodate the child.       
    Ibid.
    This lack of responsiveness to C.M.'s predicament was echoed
    in   the   trial   court's   colloquies    with   him,   which     can    be
    characterized as accusatory and judgmental in nature.            When C.M.
    said he wanted his son to live with his sister, the judge suggested
    he should walk away from his marriage to care for the baby, making
    statements such as: "Why don't you kick your wife out and take
    your son home?      This is your son, you made the baby, you be
    responsible for him"; "Take the baby, you made the baby and have
    your wife leave."     
    Id. at 159
    .      When C.M. answered that he had
    more children with his wife, the judge asked, "Why did you have
    another child with" the child's mother and, in response to C.M.'s
    statement that "accidents" happen, the judge stated, "[accidents]
    shouldn’t happen."     
    Ibid.
     (alteration in original).           The trial
    judge rejected the need for a bonding evaluation or psychological
    evaluation, in apparent agreement with the Division's stated goal
    in the guardianship trial: "adoption, not custody transfer, not
    anything, it's adoption."     
    Id. at 160
    .
    The efforts of the Division and the trial judge to engage
    Eric in the process stand in sharp contrast to the scenario in
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    I.S.      But,   an    even   more   important   distinction   lies   in   the
    difference between the efforts made by C.M. and Eric.
    C.M. was told by the Division that, to obtain custody of his
    son, he would have to secure a two-bedroom apartment.             
    Ibid.
          He
    did so.    
    Ibid.
          He was also told he had to secure someone to care
    for the child while he was at work.         
    Ibid.
       He identified a person
    he trusted who had a license to take care of children.            
    Ibid.
          He
    also stated he would allow his son's relationship with his foster
    parents to continue in appreciation for what they had done.             
    Ibid.
    When asked how committed he was to care for his son, he responded,
    "[a] hundred percent."         
    Ibid.
    In short, C.M. took affirmative steps to satisfy any condition
    the Division set for him.            Sadly, the same cannot be said for
    Eric.
    Affirmed.
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    GUADAGNO, J.A.D., dissenting.
    Distilled to its essence, the majority opinion affirms the
    termination of parental rights of an admittedly fit parent, who
    was not considered for placement when his son, Adam, was removed
    from his mother's custody; was never served with the Title 9
    complaint in that matter; was not served with the subsequent
    guardianship complaint for over one year; was not permitted to see
    Adam unless his visits were supervised; and was ordered to submit
    to a psychological evaluation that was neither necessary for
    reunification nor helpful in determining his ability to care for
    his son.   Because the Division failed to prove the four prongs of
    the best interest test, N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a), I respectfully
    dissent from the decision affirming the termination of the father's
    parental rights.
    The mistakes that have plagued this case began during the
    Title 9 proceedings. The Division became involved with this family
    in April 2012, after the father, Eric, took Adam to the child's
    pediatrician, Dr. Sundaram, with a severe case of eczema.        The
    doctor was concerned, as he had not seen Adam in two years and
    contacted the Division because the child was underweight and had
    not received timely vaccinations.
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    Adam had just started living with Eric in March 2012.     It is
    not disputed that the child was well cared for while in Eric's
    custody between March 2012 and July 2013, and that Eric fully
    addressed the medical neglect the child suffered while in his
    mother's care. A follow-up interview with Dr. Sundaram in November
    2012 indicated that Adam was seen in October 2012 and was up-to-
    date with immunizations with no recurring illnesses.     The doctor
    told the caseworker that Eric provides "adequate and appropriate
    care" and he had no concerns of abuse or neglect.
    Adam returned to live with his mother, Ali, in July 2013,
    after Eric's fiancée, Nell, learned that Ali had accused Eric of
    fathering another child with her.    The Division filed for care and
    supervision of Adam and two of Ali's other children in December
    2013, because Ali had not addressed her marijuana use.     Although
    Eric was named in the order to show cause as a dispositional
    defendant, he was not served with the complaint and did not appear.
    A compliance review was held on April 9, 2014.     As with the
    four preceding court appearances, Eric was not noticed and did not
    appear.   Yet without any reason or apparent justification,1 the FN
    1
    The transcripts from the Title 9 litigation have not been
    provided to us and we have only the court orders to inform our
    review.
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    judge ordered that any visits Eric might have in the future with
    his son would be limited to once a week and had to be supervised.
    When the Division removed Adam from Ali's custody in April
    2014, he was placed with Ali’s cousin, S.K. There is no indication
    in the record that any effort was made to contact Eric, let alone
    place the child with him.    The majority excuses this failure by
    claiming Eric's whereabouts were unknown at the time. Ante at __
    (slip op. at 5).   However, Division records from 2012 contain two
    addresses where Eric was living:     a Vermont Avenue address in
    Irvington, and a Schuyler Terrace address in East Orange.
    A caseworker visited the Irvington address on September 5,
    2012, when Adam was still residing with Eric.       The caseworker
    described the Irvington address as a three-bedroom apartment, and
    reported that Eric was working as a self-employed carpenter earning
    $400 per week, Adam and his step-siblings had shoes and clean
    clothes with adequate food, and "the home [was] neat and clean,
    and there [were] no concerns."
    A Division report dated April 9, 2012, lists an additional
    address for Eric at Schuyler Terrace in East Orange, but the
    January 8, 2015 affidavit of inquiry does not indicate that any
    letters were sent to that address.   Not until January 2016 did a
    caseworker send a "search letter" to Eric at the Schuyler Terrace
    address.   Eric immediately responded and informed the caseworker
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    that Schuyler Terrace was his "permanent address."   The Schuyler
    Terrace address appears nowhere in the affidavit of inquiry, even
    though the Division had a record of it as one of Eric's residences
    as early as 2012.
    The majority suggests the Division's efforts to locate Eric,
    as evidenced by the caseworker's affidavit of inquiry, should not
    be measured by their success but by their reasonableness. Ante at
    __ (slip op. at 40).   The record demonstrates that the Division's
    efforts were neither successful nor reasonable as the Division had
    Eric's address in its files since 2012.   The Division alone must
    bear the responsibility for the failure to notice and serve Eric.
    When Adam was removed in April 2014, Eric had demonstrated
    that he had capably parented his son for over one year, he had
    been employed as a carpenter, had adequate housing, suffered no
    substance abuse issues, and had no history of any psychological
    impediments.   Eric should have been the first option for the
    placement of Adam, yet the Division made no efforts apparent in
    the record to find him.
    When a caseworker encountered Eric purely by accident on June
    18, 2014, he failed to obtain Eric's address, did not serve him
    with a copy of the Title 9 complaint, and did not advise him of
    his right to have counsel appointed. The Division does not dispute
    that Eric was never served with the Title 9 complaint.
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    The guardianship complaint was filed on February 19, 2015.
    The first court appearance occurred on March 26, 2015.                   The FG
    judge   entered   an    order    indicating   incorrectly    that   Eric      had
    received notice of the proceeding, while another portion of the
    order indicates the Division had not yet served any of the named
    fathers.   The transcript confirms that the caseworker told the
    judge the Division was still trying to "find" Eric.
    On January 11, 2016, Eric learned the Division was attempting
    to terminate his parental rights, not from the Division, but from
    his grandmother, who had been contacted by caseworker Moulton.
    Eric immediately called Moulton and met with her later that day.
    Eric was advised of the next court date, January 14, 2016, which
    he attended with counsel.
    Eric told the judge that he had housing, was currently caring
    for six children, was beginning a new construction job, and wished
    to be considered as a placement for Adam. Without any explanation,
    the deputy attorney general (DAG) informed the judge that the
    Division had already scheduled psychological evaluations for Eric
    and his fiancée.       The only justification presented by the DAG for
    the evaluation was that Eric "has not been involved in this
    litigation."      The    judge    indicated   that   Eric   would   be     given
    visitation, but there was no discussion on the record as to the
    type of visitation, the duration, or frequency.
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    In February 2016, Eric's home was destroyed by fire.                  This
    and a host of other reasons, including the unavailability of the
    psychologist,2 a lack of transportation, a sick child who was
    hospitalized, and his employment, kept Eric from attending the
    psychological evaluation.         As often happens, the tail of this so-
    called "service" began to wag the dog of reunification, and Eric
    was not permitted any meaningful time with his son until this
    unnecessary psychological evaluation was completed.
    The    majority   agrees       that    courts     should    not     adopt
    recommendations of the Division for services in a knee-jerk fashion
    without     consideration    of   their     usefulness,    but   argues     that
    ordering a completely unnecessary psychological evaluation was
    somehow acceptable because defendant did not object.              Ante at __
    (slip op. at 38).           I disagree.       Judges have an independent
    obligation to determine whether a service is necessary before
    ordering it. See N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. I.S., 
    202 N.J. 145
    , 178 (2008) (criticizing parenting classes ordered for a
    man   who   had   successfully     raised    four     children   as   "utterly
    2
    When the FG judge was told the psychologist could not see Eric
    for two months, he remarked the doctor's unavailability was
    delaying trials and having a negative effect on permanency:
    "That's unacceptable. I don't know how many cases he's taking or
    how many cases he's doing with the Division.     But he's . . .
    [a]ffecting permanency in a docket type where the legislation has
    required three months for FG trials."
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    irrelevant").      This obligation exists whether or not a party
    objects.
    In addition, Dr. Singer, who never met Eric, nevertheless was
    permitted to testify at trial that Eric's failure to attend an
    evaluation with him "raises concerns regarding his ability to make
    the kind of commitment that [Adam] would need in terms of having
    a safe, stable, healthy parental figure in his life."     The judge
    concluded that because Eric failed to attend the psychological
    evaluation "the Division was not able to refer him for services
    because they didn't know what services he needed."        The judge
    never acknowledged that Eric had successfully parented his son
    without incident for over one year.       Had the judge considered
    this, he may have reasonably concluded that Eric was not in need
    of any services.    The judge's conclusion suggests that all parties
    who appear in Title 9 and 30 litigation are in need of services,
    and the Division is incapable of recommending these services
    without the guidance of a psychological evaluation.        Eric was
    named in the Title 9 complaint as a dispositional defendant and
    there were never any allegations of abuse or neglect against him.
    When Eric appeared in the guardianship litigation, there was no
    indication he was in need of any services and the DAG's claim that
    he "has not been involved in this litigation" did not warrant a
    psychological evaluation.
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    Dr. Singer followed his assessment in absentia of Eric by an
    equally bizarre and totally inadmissible bonding conclusion.     Dr.
    Singer opined hypothetically that if Adam was bonded to Eric, as
    Adam is with his foster parent, "losing one relationship while
    maintaining the other relationship would likely serve to mitigate
    the harm."
    The judge adopted this conclusion, finding:
    if [Adam's bond with Eric] was as strong as
    the caregiver's bond that one could mitigate
    the other.    In other words, that assuming
    there was a bond . . . the caregiver would be
    able   to  mitigate   that   harm  from   the
    termination of the biological rights of the
    parents.
    The objections to Dr. Singer's testimony should have been
    sustained, and his opinion, which is based on his unilateral
    finding that Adam enjoyed a strong bond with his foster parent,
    is insufficient to support the judge's conclusion that the Division
    presented clear and convincing proof under the fourth prong.
    In N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. A.R., 
    405 N.J. Super. 418
    , 439 (App. Div. 2009), we held that "the fact that the child
    has a strong relationship with the foster parents is not by itself
    enough to terminate parental rights." A.R. also involved a bonding
    evaluation coincidentally performed by the same Dr. Singer on
    behalf of the Division where only the child and foster parents
    were evaluated. 
    Id. at 429-30
    .   When asked at trial if the child
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    would experience harm if the court severed his relationship with
    his foster parents, Dr. Singer responded "that the child would
    experience   both    significant    and    enduring    harm."   
    Id. at 430
    .
    Because his foster parents "are his central parental figures," Dr.
    Singer   testified    that   the   child   "would     experience   a   lot    of
    emotional and behavioral regression in the short term and a feeling
    of insecurity, a feeling of low self-esteem, feelings of sadness
    in the long term." 
    Id. at 430-31
    .
    In affirming the trial court judgment denying the termination
    of the mother's parental rights, we noted "the child's relationship
    with foster parents 'must be viewed not in isolation but in a
    broader context that includes . . . the quality of the child's
    relationship with his or her natural parents.'" 
    Id. at 439
     (quoting
    Matter of Guardianship of J.C., 
    129 N.J. 1
    , 18 (1992)).
    If the unnecessary psychological evaluation did not present
    enough of a hurdle to Eric's reunification, the FG judge also
    ordered that Eric's visits with his son had to be supervised.
    Again, no explanation or justification was offered by the Division
    or found by the judge for this needless restriction to a parent
    who had already demonstrated to the Division that his parenting
    of Adam raised "no concerns."
    In I.S., supra, 
    202 N.J. at 176
    , the Court provided a detailed
    guide to the "diligent efforts" the Division was required to make
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    in assisting parents in remedying the circumstances and conditions
    that led to the placement of the child and in reinforcing the
    family structure.
    The similarities of the facts in I.S. to those here are
    striking, particularly the Division's insistence and the FN and
    FG judges' unexplained and unjustified concurrence that Eric's
    visitation be supervised.   As the I.S. Court explained:
    The standard for whether visits should be
    supervised is also set forth in DYFS's own
    regulations. They unequivocally provide that
    "[u]nless [DYFS] or the Superior Court,
    Chancery Division, Family Part finds a need
    for    supervision,    visits     shall   be
    unsupervised." N.J.A.C. 10:122D-1.10(b). The
    regulations also require that "[i]f visits
    will be supervised, the plan shall contain a
    statement of the reason supervision is
    required." N.J.A.C. 10:122D-1.10(c).
    [I.S., supra, 
    202 N.J. at 179
    .]
    As in I.S., there is no apparent reason in the record before
    us to justify the FN judge's decision to restrict Eric's visits
    with his son.3   Similarly, the FG judge compounded this mistake by
    simply accepting the Division's recommendation for supervised
    visits without making any of the required findings.        Too many
    cases involving knee-jerk requests by the Division for unnecessary
    3
    The FN orders contain no justification or explanation for
    supervised visits and, as previously mentioned, the Title 9
    transcripts were not included in the record on appeal.
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    services,    particularly    psychological    evaluations,    followed     by
    rubber-stamping       of   these   requests   by    the   courts   without
    questioning the actual need for these services, convince me that
    the Court's direction in I.S. has fallen on deaf ears.
    Like the defendant in I.S., Eric had children with two
    different women.       The defendant in I.S. failed to offer himself
    as a resource to his son, who was conceived out of wedlock, when
    he initially chose to remain with his wife. 
    Id. at 182-83
    .            Here,
    Eric returned Adam to Ali at his fiancée's insistence, after Ali
    falsely accused Eric of fathering her latest offspring.                   The
    majority    employs    unnecessary    hyperbole    in   accusing   Eric    of
    permitting "Adam to return to a home where he had been profoundly
    neglected." Ante at __ (slip op. at 31). In fact, Adam was
    undernourished in Ali's care and she failed to provide the child
    with timely immunizations.         The Division did not consider these
    issues "profound" enough to remove Adam, who remained with Ali for
    over one year while under the Division's care and supervision.
    Ultimately, Adam was removed because Ali refused to stop smoking
    marijuana.    Again, I.S. comes to mind:
    Because defendant somehow made the "wrong"
    choice, he was to be denied his child, a child
    defendant appears more than capable, willing
    and able to rear. That result runs contrary
    to the entire legislative and jurisprudential
    scheme developed to handle this most sensitive
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    of topics: the termination of a               parent's
    rights to his or her natural child.
    [I.S., supra, 
    202 N.J. at 182-83
    .]
    Eric made his first appearance in the FG proceeding after he
    was served with the guardianship complaint more than one year
    after it was filed.      By this time, the FG judge was anxious to try
    this case as the three-month statutory mandate for trial had been
    exceeded.      See   N.J.S.A.     30:4C-15.2     ("A   final     hearing    for
    guardianship shall be held within three months from the date the
    petition is filed with the Family Part.").
    Although Eric had no history of any psychological issues and
    nothing in the record indicated the need for a psychological
    evaluation, the Division requested, and the FG judge ordered Eric
    to attend such an evaluation.                Not only was this evaluation
    completely unnecessary, it needlessly delayed any chance Eric had
    to reunify with Adam.
    To   be    clear,   I   do   not    question   the   need   for   bonding
    evaluations after a guardianship complaint has been filed.              As the
    Court previously held:
    [T]o satisfy the fourth prong, the State
    should offer testimony of a well-qualified
    expert who has had full opportunity to make a
    comprehensive,   objective,    and   informed
    evaluation of the child's relationship with
    both the natural parents and the foster
    parents.
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    [N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. F.M.,
    
    211 N.J. 420
    , 453 (2012) (quoting N.J. Div.
    of Youth & Family Servs. v. M.M., 
    189 N.J. 261
    , 281 (2007)).]
    Nor do I oppose ordering a psychological evaluation during
    an FN or FG proceeding when there has been some showing that a
    parent has manifested any psychological disorder.            But as this
    case clearly demonstrates, the perfunctory ordering of needless
    psychological evaluations where there has been no such showing
    serves only to delay the reunification or termination proceeding
    without any perceptible benefit.4
    When a child is removed, our statutory scheme recognizes that
    time is of the essence and reunification efforts must proceed with
    dispatch to avoid further trauma to the child.              Much like the
    irrelevant services ordered in I.S., supra, 
    202 N.J. at 178
    , this
    unnecessary      psychological    evaluation   needlessly    delayed      and
    ultimately prevented Eric's reunification with no discernible
    benefit.
    The Division appears to have no guidelines to inform when a
    psychological evaluation should be ordered, and our judges appear
    to   routinely    grant   these   requests   without   considering     their
    necessity or the delay they inevitably cause to the reunification
    4
    The Division should be able to recommend routine services such
    as parenting classes, without the questionable benefit of insight
    gained from these evaluations.
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    process, as well as the hardship they may impose on parties who
    may lack transportation or have to take time off from work.              When
    a service is recommended by the Division, our judges have the
    responsibility   to     carefully   scrutinize   its   necessity   and   not
    blindly and indiscriminately include the service in a court order.
    In finding that the Division had established the first prong
    of the best interests test, the trial judge appeared to blame Eric
    for "letting his child remain in foster care without getting
    involved, not contacting the Division, not being involved in any
    way, shape or form, [which] is withholding love, nurture and
    solicitude. A recognizable and cognizable harm in New Jersey."
    Although Eric provided a cell phone number to a caseworker
    that was apparently later disconnected, the judge found that "he
    gave the Division incorrect information."         This conclusion finds
    no support in the record.       Even though the Division had searched
    for Eric unsuccessfully, when a caseworker spoke with him on June
    18, 2014, she inexplicably failed to obtain his current address
    and never served him with the Title 9 complaint.               Caseworker
    Moulton testified at trial:
    Q:     Eventually, the Division did make
    contact with [Eric]?
    A:     Yes.
    Q:     They saw him at [Ali]'s house on
    June 18th, 2014?
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    A:   Yes.   Yes, 2014.
    Q:   Okay. And the Division got contact
    information from him?
    A:   Yes.
    Q:   A telephone number?
    A:   Telephone number.
    Q:   That was later disconnected - -
    A:   Yes.
    Q:   - - when they tried to reach it?
    A:   Yes.
    Q:   But did they get an address from him at
    that time?
    A:   Not to my knowledge.
    N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.41 provides:
    No hearing may commence under this act unless
    the court enters a finding:
    a.    That the parent or guardian is
    present at the hearing or has been served
    with a copy of the complaint; or
    b.   If the parent or guardian is not
    present, that every reasonable effort has
    been made to effect service under
    sections 18 and 19 hereof.
    It was never incumbent on Eric to come forward as the FG
    judge and the majority suggest; it was the Division's obligation
    to serve him with the complaint and advise him of his right to
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    counsel.       The Division failed in this regard and the trial judge
    failed to ensure that Eric was "keenly aware" of these proceedings
    and of his right to counsel. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
    v. N.S., 
    412 N.J. Super. 593
    , 632 (App. Div. 2010).
    When the Division removed Adam from Ali's custody, it had an
    obligation mandated by our constitution to make every effort to
    place the child with his biological father who had previously
    demonstrated that he was a fit parent.               See J.C., supra, 
    129 N.J. at 7-8
     ("The law clearly favors keeping children with their natural
    parents       and    resolving    care    and    custody   problems       within   the
    family.").          From the record before us, they made no effort to do
    so,    even    though     an   address    Eric    described    as    his    permanent
    residence was in the Division file. When Eric learned the Division
    was moving to terminate his parental rights he appeared at the
    next court hearing and expressed a desire to parent his son.                       The
    Division      then     requested,   and    the    judge    imposed    the   needless
    impediments          of   a    psychological      evaluation        and    supervised
    visitation, which frustrated Eric's ability to reunite with his
    son.
    Because I am unable to agree that Eric, who caused no harm
    to his son, should suffer the termination of his parental rights,
    I respectfully dissent.
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