DCPP VS. N.L.M. AND M.M., IN THE MATTER OF THE GUARDIANSHIP OF M.M. (FG-01-0049-19, ATLANTIC COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) ( 2020 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NO. A-2305-19T1
    NEW JERSEY OF DIVISON
    OF CHILD PROTECTION
    AND PERMANENCY,
    Plaintiff-Respondent,
    v.
    N.L.M,
    Defendant,
    and
    M.M,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    ___________________________
    IN THE MATTER OF THE
    GUARDIANSHIP OF M.M.,
    a minor.
    ___________________________
    Submitted November 16, 2020 – Decided December 22, 2020
    Before Judges Mayer and Susswein.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Atlantic County,
    Docket No. FG-01-0049-19.
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, attorney for
    appellant (Catherine Reid, Designated Counsel, on the
    briefs).
    Gurbir S. Grewal, Attorney General, attorney for
    respondent (Sookie Bae, Assistant Attorney General, of
    counsel; Julie B. Colonna, Deputy Attorney General, on
    the brief).
    Joseph E. Krakora, Public Defender, Law Guardian,
    attorney for minor (Meredith Alexis Pollock, Deputy
    Public Defender, of counsel; Denise M. Meyer,
    Assistant Deputy Public Defender, of counsel and on
    the brief).
    PER CURIAM
    Defendant N.L.M (the father) appeals from a January 23, 2020 order
    terminating his parental rights to his daughter M.M. (the child), born in 2015,
    and awarding guardianship to the child's maternal grandparents. Sadly, both the
    child's father and mother have long suffered from opiate addictions. 1 The father
    also has a long history of criminal convictions and has been incarcerated or
    restricted to a halfway house for much of the child's life. He has shown little
    1
    The mother voluntarily surrendered her parental rights to M.M. and two
    younger half-siblings in December 2019. The mother is not a party to this
    appeal.
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    interest in reunifying with his child, declining visitation opportunities and
    repeatedly refusing to accept court-ordered services to address his parenting
    failures. Judge W. Todd Miller presided over the guardianship trial, entered
    judgment, and rendered a comprehensive and detailed oral opinion. We affirm
    substantially for the reasons stated by Judge Miller on the record.
    On appeal, the father argues:
    POINT I
    THE TRIAL COURT'S LEGAL CONCLUSIONS AS TO N.J.S.A. 30:4C-
    15.1(A) DID NOT FLOW FROM THE ESTABLISHED FACTS.
    A. THE TRIAL COURT'S LEGAL CONCLUSION THAT
    DCPP SATISFIED ITS BURDEN OF PROOF AS TO
    THE FIRST HALF OF N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(A)(3) WAS
    NOT SUPPORTED BY THE RECORD WHERE DCPP
    MADE LITTLE EFFORT TO PROVIDE SERVICES TO
    [THE FATHER] UNTIL THE FINAL MONTHS PRIOR
    TO THE GUARDIANSHIP TRIAL AND ITS BELATED
    EFFORTS, WHICH ESSENTIALLY CONSISTED OF
    PROVIDING HIM WITH A FEW PHONE NUMBERS
    AND SCHEDULING A HOME STUDY FOR THE DAY
    OF TRIAL, CANNOT BE DEEMED "REASONABLE"
    WITHIN THE MEANING OF THE LAW.
    B. THE JUDGMENT SHOULD NOT BE AFFIRMED
    BECAUSE THE FAMILY PART'S CONSIDERATION
    OF ALTERNATIVES TO TERMINATION OF
    PARENTAL RIGHTS WAS BASED ENTIRELY ON
    HEARSAY REPRESENTATIONS ABOUT THE
    GRANDPARENTS' INTENT TO ADOPT, THE
    RELIABILITY OF WHICH WERE UNDERMINED BY
    THE DCPP RECORDS ADMITTED AT TRIAL.
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    C. THE TRIAL COURT'S LEGAL CONCLUSION THAT
    DCPP SATISFIED ITS BURDEN OF PROOF AS TO
    N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(A)(1) WAS NOT SUPPORTED BY
    THE RECORD WHERE DCPP PRESENTED NO
    EVIDENCE THAT THE DAUGHTER WAS HARMED—
    PHYSICALLY,             EMOTIONALLY,        OR
    PSYCHOLOGICALLY—BY             [THE   FATHER'S]
    INCARCERATION, LONG-DISTANCE PARENTING,
    OR PRIMARILY NON-CUSTODIAL STATUS.
    D. THE TRIAL COURT'S LEGAL CONCLUSION THAT
    DCPP SATISFIED ITS BURDEN OF PROOF AS TO
    N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(A)(2) WAS NOT SUPPORTED BY
    THE RECORD TO THE EXTENT IT ONCE AGAIN
    RELIED ON THE DAUGHTER'S FOUR YEARS WITH
    HER GRANDPARENTS AND THE ALLEGED
    FAILURE TO COMPLETE SERVICES THAT WERE
    NOT OFFERED.
    E. THE TRIAL COURT'S LEGAL CONCLUSION THAT
    DCPP SATISFIED ITS BURDEN OF PROOF AS TO
    N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(A)(4) WAS NOT GROUNDED IN
    THE RECORD WHERE THE COURT COULD NOT
    PROPERLY EVALUATE THE POSSIBILITY OF KLG,
    WHERE THE EXPERT'S CONCLUSION WAS BASED
    ON THE FALSE DICHOTOMY BETWEEN ADOPTION
    AND TERMINATION PRESENTING BY DCPP, AND
    WHERE THE COURT INACCURATELY ASSUMED
    AN ABRUPT TRANSITION TO INADEQUATE
    LIVING CONDITIONS.
    1. A BEST INTEREST ANALYSIS CANNOT BE
    COMPLETE WHERE DCPP FAILED TO PRESENT
    EVIDENCE THAT KLG WAS ADEQUATELY
    EXPLORED AND UNEQUIVOCALLY REJECTED
    AND THIS LACK OF EXPLORATION SKEWED
    THE EXPERT REPORT.
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    2. THE COURT'S HOLDING THAT A RETURN TO
    THE FATHER WOULD BE HARMFUL DUE TO AN
    ABRUPT TRANSITION TO THE ALLEGED
    INADEQUACY OF THE FATHER'S LIVING
    ACCOMMODATIONS WAS NOT BASED ON THE
    RECORD EVIDENCE.
    POINT II
    FATHER ASKS THIS COURT TO VACATE THE JUDGMENT
    AND REMAND FOR A NEW TRIAL BECAUSE THE JUDGE
    ERRED IN DENYING HIS REQUEST FOR A POSTPONEMENT
    SO THAT HE COULD COMPLETE THE DCPP-REQUIRED,
    COURT-ORDERED     ASSESSMENT    NECESSARY   FOR
    REUNIFICATION AS WELL AS ATTEND HIS OWN TRIAL.
    I.
    We begin by addressing the father's contention that the trial judge erred
    by denying a last-minute request to postpone the guardianship trial. The father
    did not appear on the first day of trial, January 21, 2020, despite having been
    given notice of the trial date. His counsel on that day sought an adjournment to
    await the results of a home assessment by child welfare authorities in Florida,
    where the father had relocated after the birth of his child.2 Judge Miller denied
    2
    Counsel argued that the assessment was scheduled to be completed that same
    day and that defendant thus needed to be in Florida. On January 23, 2020, DCPP
    (the Division) presented evidence the father had been noncompliant with the
    home assessment process conducted in accordance with the Interstate Compact
    for Placement of Children (ICPC). Specifically, the ICPC case worker in Florida
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    the adjournment request, reasoning that the father had been given notice of the
    trial date, the case was already two months beyond the six-month goal for
    convening guardianship trials, the father's time and financial cost of attending
    the proceedings was relatively de minimis, notwithstanding his current
    residence out-of-state, and the child's interests would be best served by
    proceeding with trial.     We add that Judge Miller offered the father the
    opportunity to telephonically participate at the trial. However, the father's
    attorney was unable to receive an answer from his client that day.
    Trial judges are afforded great latitude in controlling their calendars and
    making scheduling decisions. State v. Kates, 
    426 N.J. Super. 32
    , 45 (App. Div.
    2012). Accordingly, the scope of our review of these decisions is narrow. In
    State v. Furguson, we recognized that "[t]he granting of a continuance
    necessarily rests within the sound discretion of the trial court, and the exercise
    of that discretion will not constitute reversible error in the absence of a showing
    of an abuse of discretion causing defendant a manifest wrong or injury." 198
    commented that "[the father was] just playing games," and that he failed to
    present proof that he had submitted to urine testing and fingerprinting, which
    are prerequisites to the reunification home assessment process. We address the
    father's challenge to the admission of this information as substantive evidence
    at trial in Section II, infra. For present purposes, we note that the adjournment
    request was based on the need to await the results of an assessment the father
    refused to cooperate with.
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    6 N.J. Super. 395
    , 402 (App. Div. 1985). In the present circumstances, we find
    no abuse of discretion in denying the last-minute request to postpone the trial.
    Nor has the father suffered a manifest wrong or injury. Even if he had attended
    trial, we believe the result would have been the same in view of the
    overwhelming evidence presented by the Division.
    II.
    The father contends the trial judge improperly admitted hearsay evidence
    documenting the efforts by Florida child welfare authorities to perform the home
    assessment and provide other reunification-related services pursuant to the
    ICPC. Because we affirm for the reasons explained in Judge Miller's thoughtful
    oral ruling on counsel's hearsay objection, we need not re-address the father's
    argument at length. We add only the following remarks.
    A trial court's evidentiary decisions are reviewed under the abuse of
    discretion standard. N.J. Div. of Child Prot. & Permanency v. A.B., 
    231 N.J. 354
    , 366 (2017). This includes hearsay rulings. 
    Ibid.
     See also Carmona v.
    Resorts Int'l Hotel, Inc., 
    189 N.J. 354
    , 379 (2007). The danger of hearsay,
    moreover, is mitigated in a bench trial. Accordingly, an appellant challenging
    a trial court's decision to admit hearsay "faces an especially high hurdle in an
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    appeal from a civil bench trial" to demonstrate reversible error. N.J. Div. of
    Child Prot. & Permanency v. J.D., 
    447 N.J. Super. 337
    , 349 (App. Div. 2016).
    As we have noted, the ICPC case worker report in question was in fact
    originally requested by the father's counsel, who urged that the guardianship
    trial be adjourned until that information could be presented to the court. The
    father now contends it was inappropriate for the court to consider that same
    information once it became available.        Judge Miller determined that the
    information provided by the Florida caseworker was reliable.        See In re
    Guardianship of Cope, 
    106 N.J. Super. 336
    , 343–44 (App. Div. 1969) (holding
    that State case worker reports "supply a high degree of reliability as to the
    accuracy of the facts contained therein."). Judge Miller also found that it was
    not feasible to have the out-of-state caseworker travel to New Jersey to relate
    the information in person at trial.
    We are satisfied in these circumstances the trial judge did not abuse his
    discretion in admitting the information under N.J.R.E. 804(a)(4) (providing a
    hearsay exception where a declarant is unavailable, and their attendance cannot
    be procured by "reasonable means."). We add that even without this evidence,
    the Division presented other evidence at trial that overwhelmingly proved the
    grounds for terminating the father's parental rights.
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    III.
    The father contends the Division failed to satisfy its burden at the
    guardianship trial. We disagree. We begin our analysis by acknowledging
    certain foundational principles that govern this appeal. There exists a well -
    settled legal framework regarding the termination of parental rights. A parent
    has a constitutional right to raise his or her biological child, which "is among
    the most fundamental of all rights." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. F.M.,
    
    211 N.J. 420
    , 447 (2012) (citing N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. E.P., 
    196 N.J. 88
    , 102 (2008)); In re Guardianship of K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. 337
    , 346 (1999).
    However, that right is not absolute. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. R.G.,
    
    217 N.J. 527
    , 553 (2014); N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. A.W., 
    103 N.J. 591
    , 599 (1986). At times, a parent's interest must yield to the State's obligation
    to protect children from harm. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. G.M., 
    198 N.J. 382
    , 397 (2009); In re Guardianship of J.C., 
    129 N.J. 1
    , 10 (1992).
    To effectuate these concerns, the Legislature created a multi-part test to
    determine when it is in the child's best interest to terminate parental rights.
    Specifically, N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a) requires the Division to prove four prongs
    by clear and convincing evidence:
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    (1) The child's safety, health, or development has been or
    will continue to be endangered by the parental
    relationship;
    (2) The parent is unwilling or unable to eliminate the harm
    facing the child or is unable or unwilling to provide a
    safe and stable home for the child and the delay of
    permanent placement will add to the harm. Such harm
    may include evidence that separating the child from
    [her] resource family parents would cause serious and
    enduring emotional or psychological harm to the child;
    (3) The Division has made reasonable efforts to provide
    services to help the parent correct the circumstances
    which led to the child's placement outside the home and
    the court has considered alternatives to termination of
    parental rights; and
    (4) Termination of parental rights will not do more harm
    than good.
    See also A.W., 
    103 N.J. at
    604–11. The four prongs of the test are "not discrete
    and separate," but rather "relate to and overlap with one another to provide a
    comprehensive standard that identifies a child's best interests." K.H.O., 
    161 N.J. at 348
    . "The considerations involved in determinations of parental fitness are
    'extremely fact sensitive' and require particularized evidence that addresses the
    specific circumstances in the given case." 
    Ibid.
     (quoting In re Adoption of
    Children by L.A.S., 
    134 N.J. 127
    , 139 (1993)). The trial court must consider
    "not only whether the parent is fit, but also whether he or she can become fit
    within time to assume the parental role necessary to meet the child's needs."
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    N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. R.L., 
    388 N.J. Super. 81
    , 87 (App. Div.
    2006) (citing J.C., 
    129 N.J. at 10
    ). When applying the best-interests test,
    moreover, a trial court must pay careful attention to a child's need for
    permanency and stability without undue delay. In re Guardianship of D.M.H.,
    
    161 N.J. 365
    , 385–86 (1999).
    Our review of a family judge's factual findings in a guardianship trial is
    limited. In re Guardianship of J.N.H., 
    172 N.J. 440
    , 472 (2002). Findings by a
    Family Part judge are "binding on appeal when supported by adequate,
    substantial, and credible evidence." Cesare v. Cesare, 
    154 N.J. 394
    , 412 (1998)
    (citing Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Inv’rs Ins. Co., 
    65 N.J. 474
    , 484 (1974)). We
    may reverse a factual finding only if there is "'a denial of justice' because the
    family court's 'conclusions are [] "clearly mistaken" or "wide of the mark."'"
    Parish v. Parish, 
    412 N.J. Super. 39
    , 48 (App. Div. 2010) (alteration in original)
    (quoting E.P., 
    196 N.J. at 104
    ). Accordingly, an appellate court should not
    disturb the trial court’s factfinding unless we are "convinced that they are so
    manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant, and
    reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice." Cesare, 
    154 N.J. at 413
     (quoting Rova Farms, 
    65 N.J. at 484
    ). "[T]he conclusions that
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    logically flow from those findings of fact are, likewise, entitled to deferential
    consideration upon appellate review." R.L., 388 N.J. Super. at 89.
    The father argues that the Division in this case failed to prove any of the
    prongs of the best-interests test. After carefully reviewing the record in light of
    the applicable legal principles, we conclude that the Division proved all four
    prongs by clear and convincing evidence. We do so substantially for the reasons
    given by the judge. We add the following remarks with respect to each prong.
    A.
    The father argues that Judge Miller erred in finding that the child was
    physically, emotionally, or psychologically harmed by his behavior.             The
    father's argument misperceives both the nature of the harm contemplated in the
    best-interests test and the nature and strength of the evidence that was presented
    by the Division.
    Under the first prong of the best-interests test, the trial court examines the
    effect of the harm that stems from the parent-child relationship over time. N.J.
    Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. P.P., 
    180 N.J. 494
    , 506 (2004). It may consider
    both physical and psychological harm and, therefore, may base its termination
    decision on emotional injury in the absence of physical harm.            See In re
    Guardianship of R., 
    155 N.J. Super. 186
    , 194 (App. Div. 1977) ("The absence
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    of physical abuse or neglect is not conclusive on the issue of custody. The trial
    court must consider the potential for serious psychological damage to the child
    inferential from the proofs."). Furthermore, and of special significance in this
    case, "[a] parent's withdrawal of . . . solicitude, nurture, and care for an extended
    period of time is in itself a harm that endangers the health and development of
    the child." D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 379 (citing K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 352–54). Indeed,
    it is well-established that a parent's "persistent failure to perform any parenting
    functions and to provide nurture, care, and support" to a child is "a parental harm
    to that child arising out of the parental relationship" under the statute. Id. at 380
    (citing K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 352–54). Stated differently, "[s]erious and lasting
    emotional or psychological harm to children as the result of the action or
    inaction of their biological parents can constitute injury sufficient to authorize
    the termination of parental rights." In re Guardianship of K.L.F., 
    129 N.J. 32
    ,
    44 (1992) (emphasis added) (citing J.C., 129 N.J. at 18).
    In this instance, Judge Miller observed that the father had been
    incarcerated for a total of twenty-three months since his child's birth—that is,
    for nearly half of her life. Additionally, the judge found that the father "never
    reached sobriety" and did not complete his substance abuse treatment or court-
    ordered services. Accordingly, Judge Miller concluded that prong one was
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    established by clear and convincing evidence of the father's incarceration, his
    recurrent substance abuse, and his failure to complete court-ordered services
    needed to break the cycle of addiction and criminality. Judge Miller further
    found that the father's persistent failure to perform parenting functions —
    resulting in near-total absence from the child's life—was also underscored by
    his choice not to accept the Division's offer to arrange supervised visitation
    during his periods of incarceration, and his subsequent choice not to accept the
    Division's offer to arrange for him to travel to New Jersey at the Division's
    expense for supervised visitation after he moved to Florida. We deem it to be
    especially important, moreover, that in making his findings regarding harm to
    the child, Judge Miller relied upon the credible expert testimony of the clinical
    psychologist who examined both father and child. We see no reason to disturb
    these findings, which are well-supported by substantial credible evidence in the
    record.
    B.
    We likewise reject the father's argument that Judge Miller erred in finding
    that harm to the child would continue to occur. The second prong of the best-
    interests test requires the Division to present clear and convincing evidence that
    "[t]he parent is . . . unable or unwilling to provide a safe and stable home for the
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    child and the delay of permanent placement will add to the harm." N.J.S.A.
    30:4C-15.1(a)(2). "The court considers not only 'whether the parent is fit, but
    also whether he or she can become fit within time to assume the parental role
    necessary to meet the child's needs." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    L.J.D., 
    428 N.J. Super. 451
    , 483 (App. Div. 2012) (quoting R.L., 388 N.J. Super.
    at 87 (App. Div. 2006)). As noted, the first and second prongs are closely
    related, and often, "evidence that supports one informs and may support the
    other as part of the comprehensive basis for determining the best interests of the
    child." D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 379.
    The second prong can be proved in two alternative ways. K.H.O., 161
    N.J. at 352. First, the Division can show that it is reasonably foreseeable that
    the parent will not or cannot cease to inflict harm upon the child. A.W., 
    103 N.J. at
    606–07, 615–16. This can be established by proving parental "dereliction
    and irresponsibility," which can be shown by proof of continued substance
    abuse, the inability to provide a stable home, and the withholding of nurturing
    and attention. K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 353.
    Alternatively, "[p]arental unfitness may be demonstrated if the parent has
    failed to provide a 'safe and stable home for the child' and a 'delay in permanent
    placement' will further harm the child." Id. at 352. Under this alternative
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    method of proving the second prong, a trial court examines the bonds between
    a child and his or her resource parent(s). See D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 382 (finding
    the second prong based upon the court-appointed expert's testimony that
    "breaking the children's bond with their foster family would cause substantial
    and enduring harm to the children").
    In the present case, Judge Miller found that prong two was satisfied by
    both methods. As to the first method, the judge found that the father had a
    documented history of substance abuse and refusal to accept treatment services
    offered by the criminal justice system and by the Division.
    To underscore this finding, we recount the consequences of the father's
    recurrent substance abuse. Though the father acknowledged his history of
    polysubstance abuse, the trial judge found a consistent lack of candor with
    respect to his repetitive violations. The record reflects a pattern in which the
    father has claimed sobriety and cooperation with his treatment, notwithstanding
    the evidence indicating otherwise. Notably, he was incarcerated for four months
    in 2016 on a violation of probation (VOP) for continuing to abuse illicit drugs.
    In the same vein, the father also attempted to evade random urine testing on
    multiple occasions during his participation in the Intensive Supervision Program
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    (ISP) and was later re-incarcerated after testing positive on three consecutive
    ISP drug screens in September, October, and November 2017.
    Our review of the record also shows that the father has never had custody
    of his child save for one week in December 2017, when he misrepresented to the
    court that he had been compliant with services provided by the ISP after his
    release from prison. That one week of custody ended when he was arrested and
    incarcerated for violation of his ISP and later sent to an in-patient treatment
    facility, from which he soon was involuntarily discharged for failing a drug test.
    He overdosed the day after his discharge and had to be revived with Narcan.
    Defendant's recurrent substance abuse, viewed in the context of his denial and
    persistent refusal to accept treatment, amply supports the trial judge's finding
    that he would not be able to provide a stable home for the child.
    Judge Miller also made a finding as to the alternative "safe and stable
    home" method of proving the second prong, based on credible expert testimony.
    He concluded that removing the child from her maternal grandparents would
    serve only to uproot her from the only home she had ever known. We agree and
    defer to the trial judge's conclusions with respect to both methods for
    establishing prong two, as they were adequately premised on substantial credible
    evidence.
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    C.
    We next address the father's contention that Judge Miller erred in finding
    that the Division proved the third prong of the best-interests test. Under this
    prong, the trial court must decide if the Division made reasonable efforts to
    reunify the family. K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 354 (citing N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(3)).
    Pursuant to the statute, "reasonable efforts" are defined as:
    (1) consultation and cooperation with the parent in
    developing a plan for appropriate services;
    (2) providing services that have been agreed upon, to
    the family, in order to further the goal of family
    reunification;
    (3) informing the parent at appropriate intervals of the
    child's progress, development, and health; and
    (4) facilitating appropriate visitation.
    [N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(c).]
    We have previously recognized that reasonable efforts "vary depending
    upon the circumstances of the removal." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    F.H., 
    389 N.J. Super. 576
    , 620 (App. Div. 2007) (citing N.J. Div. of Youth &
    Family Servs. v. A.G., 
    344 N.J. Super. 418
    , 437 (App. Div. 2007)).          The
    Division's success regarding this prong is not measured by the parent's
    participation in the necessary services. D.M.H., 161 N.J. at 393. "[E]ven [the
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    Division's] best efforts may not be sufficient to salvage a parental relationship."
    F.M., 211 N.J. at 452. Pursuant to statute, the Division must: (1) work with
    parents to develop a plan for services; (2) provide the necessary services; (3)
    facilitate visitation; and (4) notify parents of the children's progress d uring an
    out-of-home placement. N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(c).
    In this case, the record shows that during his periods of incarceration, the
    Division visited the father on a monthly basis and offered substance abuse
    treatment as well as supervised visitation with his child. He refused to avail
    himself of either treatment or visitation throughout most of his imprisonment.
    This pattern of denial and refusal continued after his release from prison. While
    in Florida, as well as during his infrequent return trips to New Jersey, he
    consistently refused to participate in offered treatment programs and refused to
    submit to urine testing.
    The father claims that after he moved to Florida in October 2018, the
    Division failed to contact Florida officials on his behalf or provide him with an
    agency referral until August 2019. The father asserts that this delay constitutes
    a failure by the Division to make reasonable efforts to provide him with services
    to remediate his parenting deficiencies.         We disagree.       Judge Miller
    acknowledged that providing services under the ICPC is slow, but nonetheless
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    found that the Division's efforts were reasonable in the circumstances. Judge
    Miller also found that the defendant continually invited his own hardships and
    frustrated the Division's efforts to aid him. The judge observed, for example,
    that the Division provided the father with contact information for Florida service
    providers but he repeatedly refused to contact or cooperate with those providers.
    He likewise neglected to take advantage of the Division's offer to reimburse him
    for monthly flights back to New Jersey to visit his child, repeatedly citing the
    need to grow his landscaping business in Florida. The record thus amply
    supports Judge Miller's conclusion that the Division made reasonable efforts to
    reunify the father with his child in view of his election to move to Florida. In
    short, the father, not the Division, is responsible for the failure of reunification.
    D.
    Finally, we address the father's contention that the Division failed to prove
    the fourth prong of the best-interests test, which requires that the Division
    demonstrate by clear and convincing evidence that "[t]ermination of parental
    rights will not do more harm than good." N.J.S.A. 30:4C-15.1(a)(4). When
    conducting its analysis under this prong, a trial court may rely on expert
    testimony when balancing the potential injury, a child could experience through
    the termination of parental rights against the harm the child might suffer if
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    removed from the resource placement.           K.H.O., 161 N.J. at 355, 363.
    Termination of parental rights is necessary when it permits a child to have a
    secure and permanent home. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. B.G.S., 
    291 N.J. Super. 582
    , 592–95 (App. Div. 1996).         Relatedly, a child should not
    "languish indefinitely" in an out-of-home placement while a parent tries to
    correct his or her parenting difficulties. N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v.
    S.F., 
    392 N.J. Super. 201
    , 209 (App. Div. 2007) (citing N.J. Div. of Youth &
    Family Servs. v. C.S., 
    367 N.J. Super. 76
    , 111 (App. Div. 2004)). In K.H.O.,
    the Supreme Court affirmed the trial court's decision to terminate parental rights,
    holding that "where it is shown that the bond with foster parents is strong and,
    in comparison, the bond with the natural parent is not as strong, that evidence
    will satisfy the [fourth prong of the best-interests test]." K.H.O., 161 N.J. at
    363.
    In this instance, Judge Miller placed appropriate emphasis on the need to
    afford the child a sense of permanency. In reaching his conclusion, the judge
    relied on credible expert testimony that the child's connection with her maternal
    grandparents was substantially stronger than the bond she had with the father,
    who only had custody of her for little more than a week of her life and repeatedly
    failed to take advantage of visitation opportunities.      Defendant's persistent
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    behavior demonstrated that he was not committed to reunification, as clearly
    shown by his unwillingness to undertake the steps needed to make reunification
    possible. The judge also reasoned that the grandparents had provided the child
    with the only home she had ever known and that it was in her best interests to
    stay with them permanently. Judge Miller recognized that this guardianship
    litigation had been unduly protracted and that the child deserved permanency
    after having lived all four years of her life in uncertainty.
    We note, finally, that the father argues that the Division did not adequately
    pursue the option of having the child continue to live with her grandparents
    while maintaining a parenting relationship with him. The record belies his
    contention that the Division failed to support kinship legal guardianship (KLG)
    as a feasible permanent alternative. Judge Miller found that the Division had in
    fact offered KLG as an alternative to termination of parental rights, but that the
    grandparents rejected that option, preferring instead to adopt all three
    grandchildren in order to give them all a sense of permanency. 3
    3
    The father's contention that the trial judge improperly considered hearsay
    testimony from the Division caseworker concerning the grandparent's desire to
    adopt the child and her two younger half-siblings lacks sufficient merit to
    warrant all but brief discussion. The record includes Division case reports that
    show that while the grandparents briefly considered KLG in May 2019, they
    soon changed their minds and sought to adopt M.M. to afford her the same
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    In sum, we conclude that the father has repeatedly demonstrated that he is
    both unfit as a parent and unwilling to make the lifestyle changes necessary to
    provide a safe and stable environment for his child. As we noted in A.G.,
    "[k]eeping [a] child in limbo, hoping for some long-term unification plan, would
    be a misapplication of the law." 344 N.J. Super. at 438. Termination of the
    father's parental rights was therefore appropriate and necessary in this instance
    to afford the child a permanent home in which she will be safe, loved, and cared
    for.
    To the extent we have not addressed them, any remaining arguments
    raised by the father lack sufficient merit to warrant discussion in this opinion.
    R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).
    Affirmed.
    degree of permanency as her younger half-siblings. We see no abuse of
    discretion in the trial judge's consideration of reliable evidence relating to the
    grandparents' desire and intention to adopt M.M. and her two younger siblings.
    See A.B., 231 N.J. at 366 (holding that a trial court's evidentiary decisions
    regarding hearsay are reviewed under the abuse of discretion standard). See also
    Rule 5:12-4(d) and N.J.R.E. 803(c)(6).
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