DAVID ANDERSON VS. MELISSA ANDERSON (FM-18-0959-13, SOMERSET COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (CONSOLIDATED) ( 2020 )


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    SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
    APPELLATE DIVISION
    DOCKET NOS. A-0922-17T3
    A-4025-17T3
    DAVID ANDERSON,
    Plaintiff-Appellant,
    v.
    MELISSA ANDERSON,
    Defendant-Respondent.
    ____________________________
    Argued December 9, 2019 – Decided May 28, 2020
    Before Judges Messano and Ostrer.
    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
    Chancery Division, Family Part, Somerset County,
    Docket No. FM-18-0959-13.
    David Anderson, appellant, argued the cause pro se.
    Marlyn E. Quinn argued the cause for respondent.
    PER CURIAM
    Plaintiff David Anderson and defendant Melissa Anderson, now known as
    Melissa Burton, married in 2005 and had one daughter, who was born in January
    2009.      Plaintiff filed for divorce in April 2013, claiming irreconcilable
    differences between himself and defendant. Defendant filed an answer and
    counterclaim, asserting among other causes of action, extreme cruelty. Plaintiff
    filed an answer to the counterclaim, generally denying its allegations. It suffices
    to say that motion practice commenced almost immediately thereafter and
    continued virtually unabated until trial.
    During the litigation, the parties mediated an agreement regarding custody
    and parenting time. The consent final judgment on these issues provided that
    the parties would exercise "joint legal custody and shared residential custody of
    their daughter" and would "make all significant decisions that affect[ed their
    daughter] after consultation between them."          The consent judgment also
    provided a visitation schedule for holidays, birthdays, and vacations.
    Trial took place on the remaining issues on non-consecutive days from
    August 2016 to April 2017. The judge rendered an oral decision and filed a dual
    final judgment of divorce (FJOD) on July 7, 2017. We briefly summarize some
    relevant trial testimony to place plaintiff's appellate arguments in proper
    context.
    Plaintiff is defendant's senior by ten years. Both are highly educated, with
    plaintiff having attained multiple advanced degrees, and defendant gaining
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    employment as a concert cellist. In 2008, they bought a home in Franklin
    Township, with defendant paying approximately $100,000 as a down payment
    from monies she inherited from her deceased father. Plaintiff initially made the
    mortgage payments of approximately $3000 per month. At the time, plaintiff
    was employed as a manager in an accounting firm and earned more than $88,000
    in 2007; defendant was able to sporadically play some engagements, but her
    attempts to find steady employment as a musician were largely unsuccessful.
    After the parties' daughter was born, defendant became her primary
    caretaker, and was also able to secure some freelance work as a musician and
    gave private music lessons. Defendant testified her annual income for 2009 was
    $6753.06. Plaintiff continued to work at the accounting firm, which merged
    with another firm in 2010. In the year immediately prior to filing for divorce,
    plaintiff's income was $135,191.
    The mediated final consent judgment provided for the parties' mutual
    agreement to "endeavor to live in the same school district" where their daughter
    attended school.   They placed their marital residence on the market after
    defendant paid $16,292.70 for repairs suggested by the realtor. Defendant also
    took over payment of most of the mortgage payments until the house eventually
    sold in December 2014, yielding less than $10,000 in net proceeds.         Both
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    plaintiff and defendant moved into apartments in Montgomery Township, where
    their daughter attended school.
    During the litigation, plaintiff continued to work at the accounting firm.
    In 2015, he earned $148,783. Defendant continued working part-time as a
    classical musician and gave private music lessons from her home. She obtained
    a teaching certificate and was able to find consistent work as a substitute teacher
    in the Montgomery Township school district. In 2016, her income for tax
    purposes was $40,198.
    Plaintiff produced Dr. David Stein, a vocational rehabilitation counselor,
    as an expert at trial. Stein never interviewed defendant, but he conducted an
    evaluation of defendant's employability in two areas for which she had requisite
    skills, i.e., as a teacher or musician. Stein opined that defendant could earn
    "somewhere between [fifty] and [sixty-five thousand] dollars a year," but he
    acknowledged that employment within those occupations was extremely
    competitive, and he found no job openings near where defendant lived.
    At trial, both parties described the assets they currently held in various
    investment accounts. Plaintiff testified his company's policy compelled his
    retirement at age sixty-five, which meant he would retire in August 2017. The
    policy applied to partners in the firm, but plaintiff was not a partner. Plaintiff
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    said he intended to continue working upon leaving the firm and was considering
    a teacher's position with Teach for America that would pay approximately
    $55,000 per year.
    In an oral opinion, which we discuss as necessary below, the judge
    explained his factual findings and legal conclusions in support of the FJOD. In
    relevant part, he ordered that defendant would retain all "remaining funds from
    the sale of the former marital residence"; the parties would "retain any and all
    retirement and nonretirement accounts" in their names, as well as responsibility
    for all debts in their names; plaintiff would pay defendant "$800 per week in
    limited duration alimony" for a period of five years; plaintiff would pay
    defendant "$23 per week in child support" in accordance with Child Support
    Guidelines attached to the FJOD; plaintiff would secure health insurance for the
    parties' daughter, and unreimbursed medical and other expenses would be split,
    54% payable by plaintiff and 46% payable by defendant; and plaintiff would pay
    defendant's pendente lite and trial counsel fees in the amount of $9771. The
    FJOD required plaintiff's alimony and child support obligations to be paid
    through probation "via wage garnishment."       Plaintiff filed his appeal from
    certain provisions of the FJOD (A-0922-17).
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    While the appeal was pending, the probation department moved to enforce
    plaintiff's alimony obligations. On March 6, 2018, a different Family Part judge
    ordered plaintiff, under threat of possible arrest for failure to comply, to pay
    $10,000 by April 6, 2018, $2000 per week thereafter, and continue to submit job
    searches demonstrating good faith attempts to find employment (the March 2018
    order).1 Citing the FJOD, plaintiff moved for reconsideration, seeking to have
    the probation department adjust its account and properly reflect arrears, correct
    its designation of plaintiff as a "non-custodial" parent, and modify the job search
    obligations imposed by the March 2018 order. Defendant cross-moved seeking
    counsel fees.
    A third Family Part judge entered an order on April 27, 2018 (the April
    2018 order), accompanied by a written statement of reasons. He denied all relief
    requested by both parties. Plaintiff then filed a second appeal, A-4025-17, from
    the March 6 and April 27, 2018 orders. We have consolidated both appeals for
    the purpose of issuing a single opinion.
    1
    Plaintiff's appendix only includes the order signed by the probation officer,
    which may have been the only order entered given the nature of the proceeding.
    However, we were provided with a transcript of the March 6, 2018 hearing
    before the judge. The body of the order reflects the judge's ruling.
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    As to A-0922-17
    I.
    The trial judge found that despite plaintiff's extensive testimony regarding
    his employer's mandatory retirement policy, the testimony was "unpersuasive as
    to [p]laintiff's employability." The judge also found plaintiff failed to establish
    that he had to leave his position when he turned sixty-five, and that "[e]ven if
    [he] did, the [p]laintiff did not demonstrate a good faith, robust job search for a
    position, or income of the sort that he ha[d] historically earned." The judge
    imputed $149,000 income to plaintiff, approximately the amount plaintiff
    earned in 2014.
    After imputing $40,000 in annual income to defendant, the judge analyzed
    the alimony claim by considering the factors listed in N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(b). He
    found that alimony was "necessary" given rental costs where the parties resided
    and their daughter attended school.      The judge noted "[n]either party can
    maintain the standard of living" they enjoyed pre-divorce, and defendant
    required more assistance "because of the earnings disparity." The judge limited
    the duration of alimony to five years, reasoning that after that time the parties'
    daughter would be a teenager, able to stay home alone, and defendant could then
    pursue additional full-time employment opportunities and career goals.
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    Plaintiff posits several arguments regarding the limited duration alimony
    award. In Points I, II, and III, plaintiff contends that the judge failed to consider
    N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(j), which provides that "alimony may be modified or
    terminated upon the prospective or actual retirement of the obligor," and the
    judge's omission violated plaintiff's due process rights. In Point IV, plaintiff
    claims the judge erred in calculating the income he imputed to both parties, and,
    in Point VII, plaintiff argues the judge utilized "outdated expense data" in
    fashioning the alimony award. We disagree with these arguments and affirm the
    alimony award.
    "We review the Family Part judge's findings in accordance with a
    deferential standard of review, recognizing the court's 'special jurisdiction and
    expertise in family matters.'" Thieme v. Aucoin-Thieme, 
    227 N.J. 269
    , 282–83
    (2016) (quoting Cesare v. Cesare, 
    154 N.J. 394
    , 413 (1998)). "[F]indings by a
    'trial court are binding on appeal when supported by adequate, substantial,
    credible evidence.'" Gnall v. Gnall, 
    222 N.J. 414
    , 428 (2015) (quoting Cesare,
    
    154 N.J. at
    411–12.) Deference is given to the credibility determinations made
    by the trial judge who "hears the case, sees and observes the witnesses, and hears
    them testify," thus, affording the trial judge "a better perspective than a
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    reviewing court in evaluating the veracity of a witness." 
    Ibid.
     (quoting Cesare,
    
    154 N.J. at 412
    ).
    "Alimony is a claim arising upon divorce, which is rooted in the prior
    interdependence occurring during the parties' marital relationship. '[A]limony
    is neither a punishment for the payor nor a reward for the payee.'" Reese v.
    Weis, 
    430 N.J. Super. 552
    , 569 (App. Div. 2013) (alteration in original) (quoting
    Mani v. Mani, 
    183 N.J. 70
    , 80 (2005)). "Alimony relates to support and standard
    of living; it involves the quality of economic life to which one spouse is entitled,
    which then becomes the obligation of the other."          Gnall, 222 N.J. at 429
    (citations omitted); see also Crews v. Crews, 
    164 N.J. 11
    , 16 (2000) (noting the
    "touchstone" for an alimony determination is the parties' standard of living
    during the marriage). Whenever possible, the alimony award should be set at
    an amount that will "enable each party to live a lifestyle 'reasonably comparable'
    to the marital standard of living." 
    Id.
     at 26 (citing N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(b)(4)).
    Courts may award alimony "as the circumstances of the parties and the
    nature of the case shall render fit, reasonable and just[.]" N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23.
    "Whether alimony should be awarded is governed by distinct, objective
    standards defined by the Legislature in N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(b)." Gnall, 222 N.J.
    at 429. Limited duration alimony, as awarded here, "was created as a remedy in
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    order to address a dependent spouse's post-divorce needs following 'shorter-term
    marriage where permanent or rehabilitative alimony would be inappropriate or
    inapplicable but where, nonetheless, economic assistance for a limited period of
    time would be just.'" Id. at 431 (quoting J.E.V. v. K.V., 
    426 N.J. Super. 475
    ,
    485–86 (App. Div. 2012)). There is no question that the trial judge considered
    the statutory factors, and the decision to grant defendant limited duration
    alimony was not a mistaken exercise of discretion under the circumstances of
    this case. Gonzalez-Posse v. Ricciardulli, 
    410 N.J. Super. 340
    , 354 (App. Div.
    2009).
    Plaintiff's reliance on N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(j) is misplaced. Enacted as an
    amendment to the alimony statute in 2014, this subsection provides that
    "[a]limony may be modified or terminated upon the prospective or actual
    retirement of the obligor." 
    Ibid.
     (emphasis added). Thereafter, the amendment
    set factors for courts to consider when modifying or terminating an existing
    alimony obligation. Subsection (j)(1) creates "a rebuttable presumption that
    alimony shall terminate upon the obligor . . . attaining full retirement age,"
    although for good cause and upon consideration of certain factors, "[t]he
    rebuttable presumption may be overcome[.]"            N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(j)(1).
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    Subsection (2) addresses situations "[w]here the obligor seeks to retire prior to
    attaining full retirement age[.]" N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(j)(2).2
    The trial judge did not consider the statute because it did not apply.
    Subsection (1) applies only to modification or termination of "orders entered
    after the amendments' effective date." Landers v. Landers, 
    444 N.J. Super. 315
    ,
    323–24 (App. Div. 2016).          A different standard applies to retirement
    modification of pre-amendment judgments, orders or agreements. 
    Ibid.
     (citing
    N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(j)(3)). At the time of trial, no alimony obligation existed.
    Therefore, neither subsection (j)(1) nor (j)(3) applied. Plaintiff's arguments to
    the contrary do not warrant discussion in a written opinion, because they are
    contrary to our precedent and the clear language of the statute. DiProspero v.
    Penn, 
    183 N.J. 477
    , 492 (2005).
    Plaintiff also contends that in violation of his due process rights, the judge
    never advised him that subsection (j) did not apply. We know of no authority
    2
    "Full retirement age" is defined as "the age at which a person is eligible to
    receive full retirement benefits under section 216 of the federal Social Security
    Act, 
    42 U.S.C. § 416
    ." N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23.
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    that compels the court to provide its view of controlling legal principles in
    advance. The argument warrants no further discussion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).3
    We also reject plaintiff's other challenges to the alimony award. Plaintiff
    never testified that he was retiring from the work force, but, rather, only that he
    intended to seek employment in a position that paid significantly less than he
    had historically earned. Under the circumstances, the judge's decision to impute
    income to plaintiff regardless of his company's retirement policy was not a
    mistaken exercise of discretion. See Elrom v. Elrom, 
    439 N.J. Super. 424
    , 434
    (App. Div. 2015) ("Imputation of income is a discretionary matter not capable
    of precise or exact determination[,] but rather requir[es] a trial judge to
    realistically appraise capacity to earn and job availability.")     (alterations in
    original) (quoting Gnall v. Gnall, 
    432 N.J. Super. 129
    , 158 (App. Div. 2013)).
    In setting the amount of imputed income for both parties, the judge
    carefully considered the trial testimony.       He rejected plaintiff's expert's
    testimony regarding defendant's earning ability not only because, as plaintiff
    claims, Stein failed to interview defendant, but also because the employment
    3
    Plaintiff also contends his due process rights were violated by the trial judge's
    delay in issuing the JOD and accompanying decision. The decision was issued
    less than three months after the trial ended; and plaintiff did not suffer any
    prejudice as a result.
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    positions Stein identified were essentially inaccessible to defendant. The judge
    determined Stein's conclusions "were unsupported by the facts of this case." For
    reasons already explained, the judge's imputation of annual income to plaintiff
    was based on credible evidence in the record.
    Finally, in Point VII, plaintiff argues that the court erred in its alimony
    calculation because it used "outdated expense data." Plaintiff points to pendente
    lite decisions made by another judge, which presumably showed actual lifestyle
    expenses for both parties after the marital home was sold.
    However, Rule 5:5-2(c) provides:
    Parties are under a continuing duty in all cases to
    inform the court of any material changes in the
    information supplied on the case information statement.
    All amendments to the statement shall be filed with the
    court no later than [twenty] days before the final
    hearing.    The court may prohibit a party from
    introducing into evidence any information not
    disclosed or it may enter such other order as it deems
    appropriate.
    [(Emphasis added).]
    The only expense data that plaintiff entered into evidence at trial was a CIS from
    2013, and that was introduced during cross-examination, when defense counsel
    attempted to rebut plaintiff's claim that pendente lite support should be reduced.
    As the trial judge noted in his decision, "Plaintiff did not testify in any level of
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    detail to his expenses, other than from a historic perspective, to address his . . .
    claim [for a reduction in support]."
    We affirm the award of limited duration alimony. 4
    II.
    In Point VI, plaintiff contends the judge failed to account for the equally
    shared parenting schedule in this case when he awarded child support to
    defendant. Plaintiff argues the judge was required to apply the analytic formula
    adopted by the trial court in Wunsch-Deffler v. Deffler, 
    406 N.J. Super. 505
    ,
    509 (Ch. Div. 2009). We disagree.
    Our rules require that the court apply the Child Support Guidelines when
    considering child support; however, the court may modify or disregard the
    guidelines where good cause is shown. R. 5:6A. Here, the court applied the
    Guidelines with precision, using the shared parenting worksheet, found at
    Appendix IX-D, and the schedule of child support awards, found at Appendix
    IX-F, and calculated that plaintiff owed defendant $23 per week in child support.
    The judge specifically rejected application of the Wunsch-Deffler formula,
    4
    In Point VII, plaintiff also extends his argument about stale financial data to
    the judge's imputation of income for purposes of determining child support. We
    need not address the argument separately. The judge did not mistakenly exercise
    his broad discretion in determining the amount of income to impute to the
    parties.
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    noting that it would result in plaintiff paying no child support, which would be
    "inequitable under the circumstances."
    The decision in Wunsch-Deffler was not binding on another trial court.
    Given the wide income disparity between the parties, ordering plaintiff to pay
    such a modest amount of child support was not unjust. We refuse to reverse the
    FJOD in this regard.
    III.
    In Point VIII, plaintiff contends the judge failed to consider prior pendente
    lite orders requiring defendant to pay her pro rata share of income taxes for
    2012, 2013, and 2014, and give plaintiff a credit because he overpaid his share
    of taxes due to defendant's failure to cooperate. In Point IX, plaintiff challenges
    the judge's determinations regarding equitable distribution. He contends the
    judge's fact-finding misstated "established facts and . . . disregard[ed] other
    pertinent established facts." In Point X, plaintiff challenges the counsel fee
    award, arguing the judge failed to adjudicate the pendente lite tax liability issue
    and erred in his finding regarding the parties' respective abilities to pay. We are
    unpersuaded by all these arguments and affirm.
    Pendente lite support orders are subject to modification at the time final
    judgment is entered. Mallamo v. Mallamo, 
    280 N.J. Super. 8
    , 12 (App. Div.
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    1995). Any changes in the initial orders rest with the trial judge's discretion.
    Jacobitti v. Jacobitti, 
    263 N.J. Super. 608
    , 617 (App. Div. 1993). That is because
    [i]n many instances the motion judge is presented reams
    of conflicting and, at time, incomplete information
    concerning the income, assets and lifestyles of the
    litigants. The orders are entered largely based upon a
    review of the submitted papers supplemented by oral
    argument. Absent agreement between the parties,
    however, a judge will not receive a reasonably
    complete picture of the financial status of the parties
    until a full trial is conducted. Only then can the judge
    evaluate the evidence, oral and documentary, and
    weigh the credibility of the parties. Only then can the
    judge determine whether the supporting spouse has the
    economic means represented by the other spouse or in
    the case of declining income has suffered legitimate
    economic reversal or has been afflicted with a
    temporary case of diminished resources occasioned by
    a divorce.
    [Mallamo, 
    280 N.J. Super. at 16
    .]
    Here, the trial judge concluded there was no tax liability for 2012, noting
    the complaint for divorce was filed after the tax filing deadline and after taxes
    were paid in 2013. A previous judge had entered the June 2014 order, requiring
    defendant to pay taxes for 2013 "at the parties' overall tax rate, on her
    individually earned share of their overall gross income." However, in January
    2016, a different judge, not the trial judge, denied plaintiff's pendente lite motion
    to compel defendant to pay $823.39, which plaintiff claimed was his increased
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    tax liability for 2013 because defendant failed to cooperate and file a joint return.
    That judge found the earlier order "unclear," and noted plaintiff had failed to
    provide "the basis for his claim."
    Plaintiff makes no specific claim about the 2014 taxes. The trial judge
    noted that plaintiff had obtained the benefit of claiming his daughter as a
    deduction and the carrying costs associated with the marital home, even though
    defendant had actually made the payments. To the extent we have not otherwise
    specifically addressed plaintiff's arguments, they lack sufficient merit to warrant
    further discussion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).
    Equally without merit is plaintiff's argument about the judge's fact-finding
    regarding equitable distribution. We note plaintiff was not ordered to reimburse
    defendant for monies the judge found she spent on repairs to the marital home
    and mortgage payments she made until it was sold. Contrary to plaintiff's
    argument, the pertinent question in determining equitable distribution is not
    "which of the parties is in worse financial condition relative to the other[,]" but,
    rather, whether the judge considered the factors listed in N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23.1 in
    making the award. Here, the judge considered those factors, and thus, his
    decision was not an abuse of discretion. See M.G. v. S.M., 
    457 N.J. Super. 286
    ,
    294 (App. Div. 2018) ("A Family Part judge has broad discretion . . . in
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    allocating assets subject to equitable distribution." (quoting Clark v. Clark, 
    429 N.J. Super. 61
    , 71 (App. Div. 2012))).
    Lastly, the award of counsel fees is left to the broad discretion of the
    Family Part judge. Slutsky v. Slutsky, 
    451 N.J. Super. 332
    , 365 (App. Div.
    2017). Therefore, "[w]e will disturb a trial court's determination on counsel fees
    only on the 'rarest occasion,' and then only because of clear abuse of discretion."
    
    Ibid.
     (quoting Strahan v. Strahan, 
    402 N.J. Super. 298
    , 317 (App. Div. 2008)).
    Here, the judge found prior pendente lite fee awards to defendant were
    justified and reasonable, and defendant incurred legal expenses, still awarded
    and unpaid, as a result of unnecessary enforcement actions occasioned by
    plaintiff's failures to abide by court orders. The judge also evaluated the factors
    listed in Rule 5:3-5(c), including defendant having prevailed on key issues at
    trial, and awarded defendant one-half of the amount she sought for fees incurred,
    in addition to the pendente lite fee awards.
    There is no basis to reverse the counsel fees awarded to defendant in the
    FJOD.
    IV.
    "Extreme cruelty . . . is defined as including any physical or mental cruelty
    which endangers the safety or health of the plaintiff or makes it improper or
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    unreasonable to expect the plaintiff to continue to cohabit with the defendant[.]"
    N.J.S.A. 2A:34-2(c).5 In Point V, plaintiff argues it was error to grant defendant
    a divorce on this ground. Plaintiff cites the judge's failure to make any factual
    findings on the issue; and also claims the trial evidence failed to support the
    cause of action.
    At the very beginning of his oral opinion, the judge found that plaintiff
    proved "a cause of action for divorce based upon irreconcilable difference s, . . .
    based on . . . [d]efendant's testimony, she . . . has met and proven a cause of
    action for extreme cruelty under her counterclaim for divorce." There was no
    further mention of the issue in the more than one hundred succeeding pages of
    transcript.
    The Supreme Court has explained that the statutory definition of extreme
    cruelty
    constitutes an effort to modernize the concept of cruelty
    in a moderate fashion. It is broad enough to cover
    serious martial misconduct which endangers health or
    safety, or makes it improper or unreasonable to expect
    continues cohabitation. The terms are flexible but do
    not include trivial misconduct or ordinary contretemps.
    Minor frictions or frustrations, such as nagging or
    bullying, would not suffice unless in the aggregate
    when combined with other misconduct the cumulative
    5
    Since the claim was asserted in defendant's counterclaim, when considering
    our references to the statute and relevant case law, she is "plaintiff."
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    effect endangers health or makes the relationship so
    intolerable that further cohabitation cannot reasonably
    be expected.
    An attempt is made to focus upon the effect of
    extreme cruelty upon the plaintiff, rather than upon the
    defendant's mens rea or intent to inflict pain. The
    result, insofar as the plaintiff is concerned, is the same
    whether the "cruelty" is calculated and designed or a
    by-product of the defendant's self-centeredness.
    Moreover[,] the result to the marriage relationship may
    be the same regardless of the defendant's motives. The
    focus should be upon what the misconduct has done to
    the marriage, not on punishing the defendant.
    [Kinsella v. Kinsella, 
    150 N.J. 276
    , 310 (1997) (quoting
    Final Report of the N.J. Divorce Law Study Comm'n 6
    (1970)).]
    "[T]he subjective experience of the plaintiff, rather than the objective quality of
    the acts complained of, [i]s determinative." 
    Id.
     at 311 (citing Devito v. Devito,
    
    136 N.J. Super. 580
    , 583 (Ch. Div. 1975)).
    At trial, defendant testified at length about plaintiff's insistence that she
    use her inheritance for the down payment on the house and certain medical
    treatments prior to the birth of the parties' daughter; his refusal to reimburse her
    for family necessities; his lack of empathy for other medical conditions that
    required treatment; the time he spent away from home; and his general refusal
    to consider her financial and career needs when making family decisions.
    However, as noted, the judge never made specific findings as to this testimony
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    in relation to the cause of action and failed to provide any reasoning for his
    conclusion that defendant met her burden of proof.
    "Trial judges are under a duty to make findings of fact and to state reasons
    in support of their conclusions." Giarusso v. Giarusso, 
    455 N.J. Super. 42
    , 53
    (App. Div. 2018) (quoting Heinl v. Heinl, 
    287 N.J. Super. 337
    , 347 (App. Div.
    1996)). "Naked conclusions do not satisfy the purpose of [Rule] 1:7-4." 
    Ibid.
    (alteration in original) (quoting Curtis v. Finneran, 
    83 N.J. 563
    , 570 (1980)).
    The judge failed to do so in this case.
    However, the FJOD simply provides that "[t]he parties are . . . divorced
    and the marriage is dissolved pursuant to N.J.S.A. 2A:34[,]" without reference
    to the statutory grounds for divorce. Our review is limited to "the judgment
    entered by the trial court, not the reasoning underlying the court's decision."
    Bandler v. Melillo, 
    443 N.J. Super. 203
    , 210 (App. Div. 2015) (citing Do-Wop
    Corp. v. City of Rahway, 
    168 N.J. 191
    , 199 (2001)). We are convinced that the
    evidence adduced by both parties supported the court's dual judgment for
    divorce under N.J.S.A. 2A:34-2(i), irreconcilable differences, and affirm.
    In sum, in A-0922-17, we affirm in all respects.
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    As to A-4025-17
    In his oral decision supporting the FJOD, the trial judge cited the January
    2016 pendente lite order we referenced above and expressly denied plaintiff's
    request to revisit the then-current arrears of $17,658.70, finding plaintiff
    provided "no reason" to do so. The FJOD did not specifically address the issue
    of pendente lite arrears, however, the Uniform Summary Support Order (USSO)
    signed by the trial judge included the weekly alimony and child support amounts
    in the FJOD but had zero as the amount for a weekly arrears payment.
    We gather an arrest warrant was subsequently issued for plaintiff's failure
    to comply, and plaintiff moved pursuant to an order to show cause to vacate the
    warrant.   In December 2017, another judge vacated the arrest warrant and
    ordered plaintiff to continue his job search efforts; she scheduled a hearing in
    March 2018 for an update on plaintiff's efforts. Nothing in the order to show
    cause indicates plaintiff contested the amount of arrears.
    At the March 6, 2018 hearing, probation reported defendant's arrearages
    exceeded $36,000. The transcript from the hearing reveals plaintiff claimed the
    amount was "wrong," and probation "made a clerical error in transcribing" the
    FJOD. Plaintiff acknowledged that probation would not modify the amount of
    his monthly payments unless he filed a motion, which he admittedly had failed
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    to do. Instead, plaintiff spent the balance of the hearing attempting to relitigate
    the trial and the alimony awarded in the FJOD. The judge entered the March
    2018 order, requiring plaintiff to pay a lump sum of $10,000 within one month,
    and $2000 per week towards arrears thereafter.
    Plaintiff's motion for reconsideration was heard on the papers and
    subsequently denied by another judge. In his written statement of reasons, the
    judge rejected plaintiff's claim that the arrears amount was a clerical error. The
    judge carefully reviewed the trial judge's oral decision and concluded that he
    never vacated the arrears then due from plaintiff. Citing a letter from the
    vicinage ombudsman in response to plaintiff's complaint, the judge noted that
    the USSO was prepared by Family Division staff and reflected the probation
    department's admitted failure to "sync up" the existing pendente lite arrears with
    plaintiff's obligations going forward.
    The judge also denied plaintiff's request to reconsider the March 2018
    order. The judge cited the pending appeal, findings made by the trial judge in
    his oral decision, and plaintiff's failure to seek a stay of his support obligations
    pending appeal.    Lastly, the judge denied plaintiff's request to change his
    designation as "non-custodial" parent in probation department records, noting
    the ombudsman's response that the designation was purely a term applied to all
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    obligors by probation's record system. The April 2018 order denied plaintiff's
    requests to have probation "adjust its records of support arrearage . . . modify
    the requirements for the job search . . . [and] correct the designation of plaintiff
    in probation records from non-custodial to custodial[.]"
    Before us, plaintiff contends it was error to carry over any pendente lite
    arrears in addition to the amounts awarded defendant in the FJOD. He points to
    the USSO as evidence that the trial judge never ordered those arrears be carried
    forward. He also argues that in entering the March 2018 order, the judge failed
    to consider his ability to pay, and therefore we must void that portion of her
    order that contemplated potential incarceration if plaintiff failed to comply with
    his obligations. Lastly, plaintiff contends that because he shares custody of his
    daughter with defendant, probation's records should be amended to reflect he is
    a custodial, and not a non-custodial, parent.
    In partial response, defendant argues we should dismiss the appeal
    entirely, because "[p]laintiff [has] failed to provide the motion pleadings and
    orders necessary for the appellate court to review the trial court's decision . . . ."
    Indeed, appellants are required to provide all "parts of the record . . . as are
    essential to the proper consideration of the issues." R. 2:6-1(a)(1)(I). This
    includes, for example, all motion papers filed on a motion for reconsideration.
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    Newman v. Isuzu Motors Am., Inc., 
    367 N.J. Super. 141
    , 145 (App. Div. 2004).
    "Without the necessary documents," our appellate review is thwarted,
    sometimes leaving us with "no alternative but to affirm." Soc'y Hill Condo.
    Ass'n v. Soc'y Hill Assocs., 
    347 N.J. Super. 163
    , 177–78 (App. Div. 2002); see
    also Cipala v. Lincoln Tech. Inst., 
    179 N.J. 45
    , 54–55 (2004) (affirming the
    appellate court's refusal to address an argument raised by appellant, where
    appellant failed to include an order or transcript relating to the argument).
    Here, plaintiff failed to include in his appendix any of the underlying
    motion pleadings. We therefore have the discretion to dismiss plaintiff's appeal
    based on these procedural deficiencies. Nevertheless, to bring this protracted
    litigation to some semblance of closure, we address the issues.
    As to the incorporation of arrears from pendente lite orders, "[i]t is well-
    established . . . that 'on an application to determine the amount of arrearages and
    to compel their payment, the court has discretion to determine whether the prior
    support order or judgment should be enforced and whether and to what extent a
    spouse should be forced to pay[.]'" Weitzman v. Weitzman, 
    228 N.J. Super. 346
    , 358 (App. Div. 1988) (quoting Mastropole v. Mastropole, 
    181 N.J. Super. 130
    , 141 (App. Div. 1981)).
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    Moreover, resolution of a motion for reconsideration is addressed to the
    sound discretion of the trial court. Palombi v. Palombi, 
    414 N.J. Super. 274
    ,
    288 (App. Div. 2010).
    It is not appropriate merely because a litigant is
    dissatisfied with a decision of the court or wishes to
    reargue a motion, but
    should be utilized only for those cases
    which fall into that narrow corridor in
    which either 1) the Court has expressed its
    decision based upon a palpably incorrect or
    irrational basis, or 2) it is obvious that the
    Court either did not consider, or failed to
    appreciate the significance of probative,
    competent evidence.
    [Ibid. (quoting D'Atria v. D'Atria, 
    242 N.J. Super. 392
    ,
    401 (Ch. Div. 1990).]
    Here, plaintiff has not provided us with any supporting documents he
    supplied to the judge in urging reconsideration. Nevertheless, we conclude that
    the judge did not abuse his discretion in denying the motion. He relied on the
    trial judge's oral opinion and concluded that the judge did not vacate the
    pendente lite support arrearages when filing the FJOD. Although the FJOD
    lacked an express provision regarding arrearages, the trial judge's oral opinion
    controls any implicit conflict. Taylor v. Int'l Maytex Tank Term. Corp., 
    355 N.J. Super. 482
    , 496 (App. Div. 2002). Moreover, plaintiff's reliance on the
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    contemporaneous USSO is misplaced, not only because, as the judge explained,
    probation failed to accurately prepare the order, but also because the USSO
    specifically states, "except as provided herein, all prior orders of the court
    remain in full force and effect."
    We need not consider plaintiff's argument that the judge erred in
    concluding reconsideration of the arrears was preserved for presentation in the
    already-filed appeal from the FJOD. Plaintiff's over-reads the judge's written
    statement of reasons, and, as already noted, we review only the order entered,
    not the judge's reasoning. Bandler, 443 N.J. Super. at 210.
    Defendant asserts, among other things, that plaintiff's request that we void
    that portion of the March 2018 order that provided for the issuance of an arrest
    warrant if plaintiff remained delinquent in his obligations is moot. Although he
    did not supply any of the underlying filings, plaintiff acknowledges in his brief
    that he was arrested in May, subsequent to entry of the April 2018 order. We
    are advised by defendant that plaintiff was released after an agreement to pay
    $2500. Unfortunately, neither party supplied us with a copy of that a subsequent
    order.
    In any event, contrary to plaintiff's terse statement in rejoinder to
    defendant's claim, the issue is moot. See Betancourt v. Trinitas Hosp., 415 N.J.
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    Super. 301, 311 (2010) ("[A]n issue is 'moot' when the decision sought in a
    matter, when rendered, can have no practical effect on the existing controversy."
    (quoting Greenfield v. N.J. Dep't of Corr., 
    382 N.J. Super. 254
    , 257–58 (App.
    Div. 2006))). Here, the Family Part already effectuated the provision in the
    March 2018 order that enforced payment of plaintiff's obligation on threat of
    arrest.
    Lastly, neither the March 2018 order nor the April 2018 order denotes that
    plaintiff is a "non-custodial parent." Nor is there any document in the record
    that uses that designation. Based on the ombudsman's response to plaintiff's
    letter of complaint, we have no doubt plaintiff was referred to by the probation
    department in some undisclosed manner or document as a non-custodial parent.
    Also, based on the ombudsman's response, we assume that this vicinage's
    probation department was not alone in having to deal with a record -keeping
    apparatus that lacked precision. However, given the state of the appellate
    record, and our inability to assess statewide ramifications and practical concerns
    that might be occasioned by our intervention, we refuse to consider plaintiff's
    argument.
    Affirmed.
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