T.K. VS. J.G. (FM-02-1984-15, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) ( 2020 )

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-4947-17T3
T.K.,
Plaintiff-Respondent,
v.
J.G.,
Defendant-Appellant.
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Argued telephonically May 6, 2020 –
Decided May 26, 2020
Before Judges Fisher, Gilson and Rose.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County,
Docket No. FM-02-1984-15.
Do Kyung Lee argued the cause for appellant (Alter &
Barbaro, attorneys; Bernard Mitchell Alter, and Do
Kyung Lee, on the briefs).
Melissa Cohen argued the cause for respondent
(Weinberg & Cooper, attorneys; Melissa Cohen, and
Gale B. Weinberg, on the brief).
PER CURIAM
After a lengthy evidentiary hearing – near the end of which the pleadings
of defendant J.G. (John, a fictitious name, as are all the other names we have
used to identify the parties and their children) were stricken and his ability to
either question witnesses or provide testimony limited – the family judge
determined plaintiff T.K. (Tara) should be the children's primary residential
custodian with the right to make decisions on all health issues. The judge also
increased John's child support obligation. In appealing, John chiefly argues that
the striking of his pleadings and the limitations placed on his testimony and
ability to cross-examine constituted an abuse of discretion. We disagree and
affirm.
The parties married in 1994. They have two children – S.G. (Stephen),
who was born in 2005, and B.G. (Bernard), who was born in 2008 – and were
living in Florida when, in 2010, they entered into a written shared child custody
agreement. In August 2011, after an eight-day divorce trial, which focused
mainly on financial issues, a Florida court entered a judgment that dissolved the
marriage and required that John pay $453 per week in child support and $1 per
month in alimony. The parties later moved to New Jersey to accommodate
John's employment opportunities.
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In March 2015, Tara commenced this action, seeking to register the
Florida judgment here so she could enforce the child support obligation – which
defendant had stopped paying in September 2013 – and to obtain the court's
assistance in securing therapy for the children that John had opposed. The
following month, the parties entered into a consent order, which, among other
things: (1) registered here the Florida judgment of divorce; (2) declared New
Jersey the children's home state pursuant to the Uniform Child Custody
Jurisdiction Act; (3) required Bernard's evaluation at the New York University
Child Study Center (NYU) "to formulate a diagnostic impression and treatment
plan, if necessary"; (4) obligated the parties to submit names of developmental
pediatricians so the court could appoint one to evaluate Stephen; and (5) ordered
the parties to equally share in the cost of the evaluations.
In June 2015, Dr. Justin Misurell of NYU evaluated Bernard and
diagnosed him with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and
oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). John, however, refused to cooperate with
Dr. Misurell's recommended treatment plan and failed to cooperate in having
Stephen evaluated by Dr. Hugh Basses, whom the judge appointed to evaluate
Stephen.
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In October 2015, Bernard's school suspended him for assaulting a
classmate and refused to allow him to return without a psychiatric evaluation, to
which John would not consent. Tara promptly sought the court's assistance, and
the judge appointed Valerie Solimano, Esq., to serve as Bernard's guardian ad
litem (GAL), and to investigate and provide a report on Bernard's mental health,
the need for medication, and to consider whether Dr. Misurell's recommended
treatment plan should be implemented. The judge ordered John to share in
taking Bernard to therapy and to refrain from infringing on Tara's parenting time
or her ability to speak with the children during his parenting time. The judge
also ordered the parties to share in the GAL's fee.
The following month, the GAL moved on an emergent basis to suspend
John's overnight visits with the children because he had the children sleeping in
his garage with a space heater and at a distance from him and his current wife,
who slept in a second-floor bedroom. The judge granted relief and required that
John's visitation time be supervised.
In February 2016, the GAL issued her initial report, recommending that
Bernard receive medication, that Dr. Misurell's treatment plan be implemented,
and that Stephen participate in therapy. The GAL also recommended that Tara
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be designated residential custodian and the parent in charge of all medical
decisions for both children.
The following month, the judge ordered a plenary hearing to adjudicate
the propriety of the GAL's recommendations. Pending the outcome of the
hearing, and pursuant to the parties' agreement, the judge designated Tara as the
parent of primary residence with the authority to make medical decisions on the
children's behalf, while permitting John, pending final disposition, unsupervised
overnight visits on alternate weekends (during which the children would be
permitted to sleep in an upstairs bedroom), and other weekly unsupervised
dinner visits. By way of another motion, the judge ordered that there be a
plenary hearing on child support.
In April 2016, Stephen was evaluated and was diagnosed with anxiety and
a form of ADHD; he began therapy with Dr. Ethan Ehrenberg. Also in April,
Tara moved for relief based on her claim that John had not paid his share of
Bernard's therapy expenses. In June, the judge ordered John to reimburse Tara
for half the outstanding bill and awarded Tara counsel fees and costs for having
to seek relief. And in July, the judge determined that John was in arrears of
nearly $10,000 in child support. John was ordered to pay $3000 by mid-August.
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Later, when the GAL determined and reported that the temporary
arrangement had rendered John more combative 1 and had a potential to
jeopardize the children's treatment and school enrollment, the judge held a
conference with the GAL and the parties, and, in July 2016, ordered that both
parents undergo psychiatric evaluations with Dr. Philip Muskin.
On July 29, 2016, the judge denied John's motion to suspend child support
and eliminate Tara's designation as the parent of primary residence with primary
medical decision-making authority. The judge also: restrained John from filing
motions on issues already determined; required that he pay half the children's
therapy expenses through the probation department and half the chi ldren's
summer camp tuition within ten days; banned John from recording
communications with the children and the children's doctors; and ordered John
to pay counsel fees and costs to Tara.
In August 2016, the judge denied John's motion to modify (to zero) his
child support obligation retroactive to March 2015 and, in the order, repeated
the terms of the July 29, 2016 order that precluded motions on issues already
decided. In October, the judge denied John's motion to reconsider, among other
1
According to the GAL, John had attempted to intimidate the children's doctors
and teachers by personally serving on them improper subpoenas and by making
harassing telephone calls, some of which were recorded, perhaps unlawfully.
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things, the requirement that he undergo a psychiatric evaluation. Once again
John was ordered to cooperate with the GAL and Dr. Muskin. And, after a
November 2016 telephone conference with the parties, the judge again ordered
John to cooperate with the GAL and Dr. Muskin.
Because John failed to undergo the psychiatric evaluation, Tara moved in
December 2016 to strike his pleadings. John cross-moved for: Tara's disclosure
of the amount she had spent on this litigation; a postponing of child support until
final judgment; an advance from Tara for the cost of the psychiatric evaluation;
sanctions based on allegations that Tara had violated the parenting time order;
additional parenting time; and counsel fees. On February 3, 2017, the judge
denied Tara's motion to strike without prejudice, but he limited John's right to
cross-examine at the hearing only to child custody issues because he viewed
John's failure to pay Dr. Muskin's fee as contumacious, based on his findings,
after a December 2016 hearing, that John had the ability to pay the fee. Again,
the judge ordered John to comply with the prior orders and that he undergo Dr.
Muskin's evaluation by February 17, 2017, or else John's pleadings would be
stricken on the custody issue. The judge also ordered that the parties pay their
shares of the GAL's fees. John's requests that Tara advance his share of Dr.
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Muskin's fee and for sanctions based on the allegation that Tara interfered with
his parenting time were denied.
On March 7, 2017, the judge entered a scheduling order that listed the
issues to be considered at the plenary hearing. The order also required the GAL's
fee to be paid in full by March 15 to avoid the action's dismissal, and relieved
John's counsel from the case. When John failed to pay his share of the GAL's
fee, Tara advanced it to avoid the action's dismissal.
By way of additional motions, the judge entered an order on May 2, 2017,
that lifted prior sanctions so John could "present his case on all previously court
identified issues" at the May 10 hearing, while still authorizing the judge
conducting the hearing to "draw a negative inference against [John] on the issue
of a custody change as [John] did not pay his . . . share of the Dr. Muskin
retainer, and/or was not evaluated by Dr. Muskin, and [because John] violated
past discovery court orders."
The plenary hearing was conducted before a different judge over the
course of twenty-two nonconsecutive days, starting on May 10, 2017, and
ending on November 14, 2017.
John's contumacious approach to prior orders continued once the hearing
commenced. For example, on May 15, the judge determined, over John's
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objection, that the GAL would not be required to testify, and her report would
be admitted into evidence instead, because John refused to pay his share of the
GAL's fee. In June, when emergent issues arose about the children's health
insurance and summer camp fees, the judge ordered John to pay the camp fees
and to obtain health insurance by July 1 or else his pleadings would be stricken.
After John cross-examined Tara for over six days, the judge finally barred his
further questioning of her because John was not addressing anything relevant
and the continued examination was both harassing and repetitive. The judge,
however, did allow for further questioning of Tara by John after Tara finished
her redirect testimony; this questioning proved to be harassing and repetitive as
well, and the judge brought it to an end.
In November 2017, the judge terminated John's testimony because he had
testified for six days and his testimony had become repetitive and entered into
irrelevant areas. Tara also moved to strike John's pleadings and his testimony.
On November 8, 2017, the judge entered an order that struck John's pleadings
because of his failure to undergo a psychiatric evaluation; for the same reason,
the judge also limited John "to cross-examination only if the [p]lenary [h]earing
continues."
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The judge rendered thorough oral decisions on all aspects of the issues
presented and in imposing sanctions on John's presentation in light of his failure
to comply with the court's many orders. The judge's findings were memorialized
in an order entered on December 8, 2017, which: awarded Tara sole custody of
the children; set child support at $317.75 per week; provided Tara with sole
decision-making authority over the children's medical issues; and awarded
counsel fees in an amount to be determined. Counsel fees and costs in the
amount of $320,777.82 were later awarded in Tara's favor.
John appeals, arguing the judge erred in: (1) striking his pleadings when
less drastic relief could have been tailored under the circumstances; (2) making
numerous evidentiary rulings; (3) admitting the GAL's report without requiring
the GAL to testify; (4) failing to conduct in camera interviews of the children;
(5) limiting both his direct testimony as well as his cross-examination of Tara;
and (6) making insufficient findings on the proper level of child support. We
find insufficient merit in these arguments to warrant further discussion in a
written opinion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E). We add only the following brief comments
about the first and fifth issues.
To prevent court orders from being ignored, our court rules allow for
enforcement in a number of ways. As we have said, "[o]nce the court determines
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the non-compliant party was able to comply with the order and unable to show
the failure was excusable, it may impose appropriate sanctions." Milne v.
Goldenberg, 428 N.J. Super. 184, 198 (App. Div. 2012) (citing Saltzman v.
Saltzman, 290 N.J. Super. 117, 123 (App. Div. 1996)). The spectrum of
appropriate sanctions is limited to those orders "as are just" to remedy a party's
failure to comply, including the striking of that party's pleadings. R. 4:23-
2(b)(3).
We review such decisions through application of an abuse of discretion
standard. Milne, 428 N.J. Super. at 197-99. An abuse of discretion can be found
"when a decision is made without a rational explanation, inexplicabl y departed
from established policies, or rested on an impermissible basis." Flagg v. Essex
Cty. Prosecutor, 171 N.J. 561, 571 (2002) (quoting Achacoso-Sanchez v.
Immigr. & Naturalization Serv., 779 F.2d 1260, 1265 (7th Cir. 1985)). When
examining such a sanction, we will defer to the judge's factual findings so long
as they are supported by "adequate, substantial, and credible evidence in the
record." Milne, 428 N.J. Super. at 197 (citing Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394,
413 (1998)). The factfinding of family judges "receives particular deference
because of 'the family courts' special jurisdiction and expertise in family
matters.'" Ibid. (quoting Cesare, 154 N.J. at 413).
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As mentioned earlier, this litigation was marked by John's constant failure
to comply with court orders, particularly those relating to his obligation to pay
fees for evaluations or submit to a psychiatric evaluation. In her thorough
explanation, the experienced family judge underscored the fact that by that time
this matter had been pending for 601 days and that John's only suggested reason
for failing to undergo an evaluation was his false claim that he could not afford
Dr. Muskin's fee. John had no good faith reason for failing to comply.
The judge emphasized the great need for this psychiatric evaluation:
It was absolutely imperative, axiomatic in my view now
after 23 days of trial that Dr. Muskin evaluate both
parties and I have been allowing much latitude in
hearing testimony. I have been very open minded to
being persuaded that perhaps [John] not going to Dr.
Muskin had no bearing on the ultimate decision in this
case [but] I find that [John] has been abusing the
system.
First, he did not comply with an order of the [c]ourt. I
have to be mindful of moving the case along under
[N.J.R.E.] 611 and under [N.J.R.E.] 403. I'm also
mindful of the fact that the defendant has engaged in
evasiveness during this trial, evasiveness during the
pre-trial discovery phase. He's been disingenuous,
obstreperous and really has shown contumacious
behavior in this case. . . . I have given wide latitude
and I'm entitled to wide latitude in controlling the
manner of presentation in this trial . . . .
Many of the defendant's arguments are
incomprehensible . . . and . . . nonresponsive and all he
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continues to do is criticize the prior judges, criticizes
[the GAL], advance[s] ad hominem attacks against her
and the plaintiff and his questions . . ., the repetitive
questions in this case and the repetitive arguments
which this [c]ourt has now heard on issues that were
very narrowed by [another judge] in his last pretrial
order, I have to take control of this trial and his
testimony and his questioning of the plaintiff, which I
allowed to go on for days because I'm so concerned
about these children and I want to make the right
decision . . . .
[T]he defendant keeps advancing an argument that I
find to be disingenuous, that he could not undergo the
psychiatric evaluation with Dr. Muskin because he
could not afford the fee of $3,500 and I find that to be
inexcusable. Dr. Muskin's role in this case was
absolutely vital and it wasn't just about the plaintiff and
her prior history and what [her] ability is now to parent
these children and whether she's stable and what her
conditions are. . . .
. . . I don't know how [John] can expect me to continue
hearing day after day, question after question when he
is in violation, comes into this trial with unclean hands,
never says during the trial I'm going to come up with
the money . . . for the evaluation at day 23. Enough is
enough.
....
[Although he represented himself during the plenary
hearing,] [h]e was able to come up with money to pay
lawyers.[2] He was able to come up with the money to
2
The judge identified the three attorneys who represented John at various times
in these proceedings, and noted there was a point when two attorneys
represented him simultaneously.
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take depositions . . . which are costly. He was
able to come up with money to pay for camp when
I ordered it over the summer. He was able to
come up with money to pay past due child support
when he was arrested on the child support
enforcement calendar. So, his entire argument is
disingenuous, it's incredible, it's incredulous and
I am going to . . . grant [Tara's] motion [for
sanctions] because I find that [what is] going on
is just repetitive, unnecessary questioning.
John presents no principled reason for this court to second-guess the experienced
family judge, particularly in light of the undisputed fact that John did not submit
to a psychiatric evaluation as ordered, and in light of the findings that John had
the ability to pay the fee as further illuminated by the judge's observations of
John during the course of this lengthy plenary hearing.
Indeed, all John's arguments are quite unavailing. He argues, for example,
that the judge failed to consider, as a less severe sanction, "a conditional
preclusionary order earlier in the trial conditioning any sanction on [his]
continued failure to submit." This contention is utterly without merit. How
many times must a court warn a litigant of the importance of complying with a
court's directive before ultimately imposing a drastic sanction? The court
exhibited extraordinary patience in attempting to secure compliance. The record
reveals that John was initially ordered to undergo the evaluation in July 2016.
Subsequent orders to this effect were entered in November 2016 and February
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2017. John had more than ample warnings and opportunities and blithely
ignored the court's orders in this highly important respect. The judge acted well
within her discretion in, after so many hearing days, limiting further cross -
examination by John and further testimony from him.
In reality, the sanctions imposed ultimately had little bearing on the
hearing's outcome, since the repetitive and irrelevant stricken testimony
presented little or nothing for the court to consider, as, when addressing the main
issue, John merely downplayed the severity of his sons' emotional and
behavioral needs while urging, without support, his own subjective beliefs about
his parental methods.
In short, the judges who handled the matter at the pre-hearing stage, as
well as the experienced judge who conducted this lengthy plenary hearing ,
showed great patience; John was offered numerous opportunities to comply
before sanctions were imposed. There was no abuse of discretion here.
Affirmed.
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