In Re: Adoption of: T.M.S., Appeal of: N.S. ( 2019 )


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    NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37
    IN RE: ADOPTION OF T.M.S., A               :   IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF
    MINOR                                      :        PENNSYLVANIA
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    APPEAL OF: N.S., FATHER                    :
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    :   No. 1414 EDA 2019
    Appeal from the Decree Entered April 10, 2019
    In the Court of Common Pleas of Montgomery County Orphans' Court at
    No(s): No. 2018-A0162
    BEFORE:      BOWES, J., SHOGAN, J., and STRASSBURGER, J.*
    MEMORANDUM BY SHOGAN, J.:                             FILED OCTOBER 22, 2019
    N.S. (“Father”) appeals from the decree entered on April 10, 2019,
    granting the petition filed by T.L. (“Mother”) and her husband, A.G.
    (“Stepfather”), to terminate Father’s parental rights to his son, T.M.S., born
    in February of 2007, pursuant to the Adoption Act, 23 Pa.C.S. § 2511(a)(1),
    (2), and (b). We affirm.
    On September 1, 2018, Mother and Stepfather filed a petition to
    terminate Father’s parental rights to T.M.S. so that Stepfather can adopt
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    *   Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court.
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    T.M.S. The trial court held an evidentiary hearing on April 10, 2019. Mother,
    Stepfather, and Father testified at the hearing.1
    We note initially that neither counsel for T.M.S. nor counsel for Mother
    has elected to file a brief, and the trial court dictated its findings at the
    conclusion of the hearing. This Court benefits when the parties and the trial
    court present their views with citation to the record and to relevant law. Given
    these omissions, we detail the evidence presented at the hearing prior to our
    discussion of the disposition of this case.
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    1    We observe that the trial court appointed Attorney Louise Petrillo to
    represent T.M.S.’s legal interests and stated that it did not appoint a guardian
    ad litem (“GAL”) because there is no conflict in T.M.S.’s legal interests and
    best interests. N.T., 4/10/19, at 112. See In re Adoption of L.B.M., 
    161 A.3d 172
    (Pa. 2017) (plurality) (23 Pa.C.S. § 2313(a) requires that counsel
    be appointed to represent the legal interests of any child involved in a
    contested involuntary termination proceeding). The L.B.M. Court defined a
    child’s legal interest as synonymous with the preferred outcome. 
    Id. at 432;
    see also In re T.S., 
    192 A.3d 1080
    (Pa. 2018) (trial court did not err in
    allowing the children’s GAL to act as their sole representative during the
    termination proceeding because, at two and three years old, they were
    incapable of expressing their preferred outcome). Herein, Attorney Petrillo
    testified that she interviewed T.M.S., who was twelve years old at the time of
    the hearing, and T.M.S. wanted Stepfather to adopt him. Attorney Petrillo
    told the trial court that T.M.S. “was very eloquent for his age” and was “as
    clear as a 12 year old could be about his feelings and what he would like in
    his life.” N.T., 4/10/19, at 108. Attorney Petrillo stated: “[T.M.S.] told me
    that he feels that his dad does not love him[,] and he wants him out of his
    life. He does not want any further contact with [Father].” 
    Id. We conclude,
    because there is no conflict in T.M.S.’s best interests and T.M.S.’s preferred
    outcome, the requirements of L.B.M. and T.S. have been met. See In re:
    Adoption of K.M.G., ___ A.3d ___, 
    2019 Pa. Super. 281
    (Pa. Super. filed
    September 13, 2019) (en banc) (this Court has authority to raise, sua sponte,
    the issue of whether the trial court appointed any counsel for the child).
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    Mother testified that T.M.S., her only child, is in sixth grade and resides
    with her and Stepfather. N.T., 4/10/19, at 7–8. Mother, who met Father
    when she was fifteen years old and in the eighth grade, never married Father,
    but they were in a relationship for approximately seven years and resided
    together for two years until 2009, when T.M.S. was two years old. 
    Id. at 8–
    9, 15. Mother and T.M.S. moved to Collegeville, Pennsylvania, in 2015, where
    they currently reside with Stepfather. 
    Id. at 7,
    9.
    In 2010, Mother filed a complaint for custody of T.M.S. and subsequently
    agreed to an order whereby she transported T.M.S. to Father on Tuesdays and
    Fridays, picked him up after two or three hours, and returned T.M.S. to her
    home.   N.T., 4/10/19, at 9.     Mother testified the custody schedule failed
    because Father was not present on many occasions, he would be present but
    “high” on drugs, or Father would have to go somewhere and would leave
    T.M.S. in his mother’s care. 
    Id. at 10.
    Moreover, Father often had people in
    his home, whom Father claimed he did not know, and he would not allow
    Mother to come to his house because it was “not safe.” 
    Id. at 10,
    11.
    On October 26, 2011, Mother filed a petition to modify custody. N.T.,
    4/10/19, at 11.   Mother testified that Father was unable to parent T.M.S.
    because Father was addicted to heroin, Oxycontin, and Xanax. 
    Id. at 12.
    In
    2012, the trial court awarded Mother sole legal custody and primary physical
    custody of T.M.S. 
    Id. Thereafter, Mother
    arranged supervised visits between
    Father and T.M.S. in a public place. 
    Id. at 12–13.
    Mother asserted that during
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    the visits, Father was uninterested in T.M.S. and instead, verbally attacked
    Mother or questioned her about her personal life. 
    Id. at 13.
    Therefore, Mother
    enlisted her family to meet Father with T.M.S. until her family members, as
    well, became uncomfortable with the situation. 
    Id. Mother told
    Father that
    if he wanted to see T.M.S., he would have to file a custody modification
    petition. 
    Id. At that
    time, Father, who did not work and sold illegal drugs, was
    intermittently paying child support for T.M.S. N.T., 4/10/19, at 13, 15. He
    did not graduate from high school, but obtained a Graduate Equivalency
    Diploma online. 
    Id. at 14.
    When Father fell behind in his support payments,
    he faced incarceration, and asked Mother for financial assistance. 
    Id. at 13.
    On four occasions, the trial court held Father in contempt and incarcerated
    him once for not paying child support for T.M.S. 
    Id. at 14.
    When Father was
    imprisoned for another crime, Mother decided not to seek additional child
    support from Father. 
    Id. Mother and
    Father last corresponded via text messages in 2013 or 2014.
    N.T., 4/10/19, at 16, 51. In the final text message, Father asked Mother to
    give him $10 when she transported T.M.S. to Father’s home. Mother refused
    because she believed Father would use the money to buy illegal drugs. 
    Id. Mother stated
    that because Father always asked her for money and could not
    care for T.M.S., there was no reason for her to continue transporting T.M.S.
    to visit Father. 
    Id. at 16-17.
    Mother claimed that because Father sold illegal
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    drugs, he frequently changed cellular telephones; for this reason he utilized
    the cellular telephone of his mother (“Paternal Grandmother”) to correspond
    with Mother.    
    Id. at 17.
      Father admitted utilizing Paternal Grandmother’s
    cellular telephone to text Mother. 
    Id. at 91.
    In one of the messages, Mother
    described to Father how to file a custody modification petition. 
    Id. at 17-18,
    91–92.
    Father last saw T.M.S. in a park in 2013 or 2014, more than five years
    prior to the hearing. N.T., 4/10/19, at 18. Thereafter, Father did not send
    T.M.S. any cards, letters, Christmas gifts, or pictures, nor did he request
    pictures of T.M.S.   
    Id. at 18–19.
    On one earlier occasion, Christmas Day
    2013, Father arrived fifteen minutes late at the Limerick Bowling Alley to meet
    Mother and T.M.S. with what Mother believed were needle track marks in his
    arm. 
    Id. at 19.
    During Father and Mother’s relationship, Father was physically abusive
    toward Mother when she directed him to leave their house. N.T., 4/10/19, at
    19-20.   Father threw a television to the ground and threw something at
    Mother, hitting the light above her. 
    Id. at 20.
    Father picked up the broken
    glass and threw it at Mother’s face as she held T.M.S. and shielded his head.
    
    Id. On another
    occasion, Father shoved Mother off of the deck, blocked her
    automobile, kicked her car’s doors, and dented her car’s hood with his hands.
    
    Id. at 20-24.
        The trial court admitted the photographs of the damaged
    vehicle. 
    Id. at 23,
    51. At the time of the incident, T.M.S. was at the maternal
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    grandparents’ home. 
    Id. at 21.
    Mother attempted to defend herself until her
    parents arrived and called the police. 
    Id. at 21.
    Police filed an incident report,
    but Mother testified she did not pursue charges against Father regarding the
    incident because “the police said I could get in trouble for defending myself.”
    
    Id. On an
    earlier occasion, when T.M.S. was an infant and Mother was holding
    him, Father told Mother, “[Y]ou are lucky you are not a dude; I would punch
    you right in the f---in’ mouth,” and he punched his hand past Mother’s head
    and into the wall.      
    Id. at 22.
        On yet another occasion, when T.M.S. was
    approximately two years old and just learning to speak, Father made a video
    of himself holding T.M.S. and instructing T.M.S. to say, “[M]ommy is a bitch.”
    
    Id. at 3–5,
    22.2 Father admitted these behaviors and incidents. 
    Id. at 93–
    94.
    Mother testified that when T.M.S. was approximately five years old,
    Father bought the child a “BB” handgun, which Mother described as a poor,
    ill-advised gift. N.T., 4/10/19, at 24. Mother took the BB gun to the police
    station and disposed of it. 
    Id. at 24–25.
    Father also gave T.M.S. a cellular
    telephone, which Mother found inappropriate and threw away. 
    Id. at 25-26.
    Father opined that the person in the videos “is not who I am today.” 
    Id. at 94.
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    2 Father stipulated that the trial court could consider the oral summary by
    counsel for Mother and Stepfather as to what the video would show. N.T.,
    4/10/19, at 5.
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    Mother met Stepfather, who does not have children of his own, at the
    end of 2011, and she introduced Stepfather to T.M.S. three months later.
    N.T., 4/10/19, at 26, 50. Mother and Stepfather married in September of
    2018, and Mother plans to change her surname. 
    Id. at 26.
    T.M.S. desires to
    change his last name as well. 
    Id. at 26-27.
    T.M.S. utilizes Stepfather’s last
    name on his schoolwork, despite Mother’s instruction not to do so. 
    Id. at 27.
    Stepfather attends T.M.S.’s school conferences and meetings and pays for
    T.M.S.’s needs, such as clothing, doctors’ appointments, school lunches, toys,
    and entertainment. 
    Id. at 27,
    48. Stepfather also pays for a babysitter for
    T.M.S. when needed or babysits T.M.S. himself. 
    Id. at 27-28.
    Stepfather
    assists T.M.S. with his homework and school projects. 
    Id. Stepfather, who
    is an electrician, plays videogames with T.M.S., takes him fishing, and enjoys
    going to fun places with T.M.S. 
    Id. at 28,
    29, 47. Stepfather provides T.M.S.
    with guidance, and they eat dinner together with Mother as a family. 
    Id. at 28.
    T.M.S. calls Stepfather “Dad.” 
    Id. at 28-29,
    47. Every day when T.M.S.
    leaves the house, T.M.S. and Stepfather say, “I love you.” 
    Id. at 29,
    48.
    Stepfather also pays for the family’s vacations, such as a trip to visit Mother’s
    grandparents in Arizona.     
    Id. at 29–30.
       T.M.S. wrote a letter in school
    describing Mother and Stepfather as his “mom and dad.” 
    Id. at 31.
    T.M.S. has Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, and he attends
    therapy to learn how to refocus his energy and discuss his life situations. N.T.,
    4/10/19, at 31. T.M.S.’s therapist told Mother that T.M.S. has anger and fear
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    regarding Father, and he does not intend to meet him. 
    Id. T.M.S. does
    not
    remember Father, and Mother does not believe that T.M.S. would recognize
    Father. 
    Id. at 32.
    Mother opined that termination of Father’s parental rights
    would serve the physical and emotional needs and welfare of T.M.S. 
    Id. at 32–33.
    Mother lived in Limerick for seven years and then in Collegeville since
    September of 2015.     N.T., 4/10/19, at 32.     Her parents lived in Linfield,
    Pennsylvania, in the same home for thirty years, and they had the same
    telephone number during that time, with which Father was familiar.          
    Id. Mother had
    the same telephone number since 2014, used the same e-mail
    address for six or seven years prior to the hearing, and has a Facebook
    account. 
    Id. at 32–33.
    On cross-examination by T.M.S.’s counsel, Mother
    testified that she had not had any contact from Father’s family, although they
    continued to live in the same residence in Pottstown, Pennsylvania, where
    they resided when Mother and Father lived together. 
    Id. at 34.
    Mother confirmed that T.M.S.’s counsel had come to her home the week
    prior to the hearing to visit with Mother, Stepfather, and T.M.S., and had spent
    time alone with T.M.S. in his room. N.T., 4/10/19, at 34. Mother did not
    pursue criminal charges against Father for any incident, and although Father
    represented that he completed rehabilitation, she does not believe him. 
    Id. at 35.
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    On cross-examination by Father’s counsel, Mother acknowledged that
    she had formerly taken T.M.S. to a park to visit with Father and Paternal
    Grandmother on many occasions. N.T., 4/10/19, at 38. Mother testified that
    Father had filed a petition to modify custody in 2014 but had not appeared at
    the hearing. 
    Id. at 38–39.
    He also filed a petition to modify custody in 2018.
    
    Id. Mother requested
    a stay of Father’s 2018 modification petition so that she
    could file her termination petition.    
    Id. at 40.
      Mother admitted that she
    opposed Father’s 2018 modification petition. 
    Id. at 41.
    Father testified that he was thirty-two years old at the time of the
    hearing, twenty years old when T.M.S. was born, and fourteen years old when
    he began dating Mother; the pair separated at age twenty-two. N.T., 4/10/19,
    at 53. Father admitted his past drug use and revealed his incarceration in
    2015 and 2016.    
    Id. at 56.
    After his release from prison in 2016, Father
    completed a thirty-three-day inpatient rehabilitation at Livengrin in Bensalem,
    Pennsylvania. 
    Id. at 56,
    80–81. Father acknowledged that he had completed
    dual-diagnosis treatment at Creative Health Services (“CHS”), but he asserted
    that he did not have a history of mental illness; he could not explain why CHS
    required him to complete the dual-diagnosis program.        
    Id. at 56,
    79–80.
    Father testified that since 2016, he has attended Connection Training Services
    (“CTS”) once per week for one hour of individual counseling and one-half-hour
    of group counseling. 
    Id. at 57.
    At the time of the hearing, Father was on
    probation for a period of ten years, and he is required to undergo random
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    urine drug screens. 
    Id. at 57,
    82. Father testified that he has not had a
    “dirty” urine sample since his release from prison in 2016. 
    Id. at 57.
    He
    admitted that he takes methadone and candidly admitted receiving treatment
    for drug addiction that “didn’t work out” due to his many relapses. 
    Id. at 81,
    97–98.    Father stated that he participates in a parenting class with
    Montgomery County Children and Youth Services on a biweekly basis, he
    completed Rise Above, Court Reporting Network (“CRN”) in 2009, and safe
    driving school for a 2008 DUI. 
    Id. at 57–58,
    80–81.
    Father testified that he arrived late for the custody-modification hearing
    in 2014 because he was delayed by an accident, and upon his tardy arrival,
    the judge told him he “lost [his rights]” by arriving late. N.T., 4/10/19, at 60.
    Father explained that he then “went on a downward spiral” and started using
    drugs, which led to his criminal convictions and incarcerations. 
    Id. Father maintained
    that he wanted to achieve sobriety for one and one-half years
    before seeking visitation with T.M.S. 
    Id. Father also
    averred that his prior
    attempts to pursue custody all failed. 
    Id. at 61.
    Father explained that he gave T.M.S. the BB gun because his father had
    presented him with a gun and trained him in gun safety when he was six years
    old, and he wanted T.M.S. to be similarly trained at a young age.          N.T.,
    4/10/19, at 61–62. He admitted, however, that his father was imprisoned for
    murder “with a handgun.”      
    Id. at 98–100.
        Father testified that Mother’s
    repeated refusals of contact with T.M.S. five years earlier prompted his
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    conclusion that “there was no point in trying” to contact T.M.S. 
    Id. at 63.
    Father believed that if he sent T.M.S. a letter at the maternal grandparents’
    address, which was the only address knew, T.M.S. would not receive it. 
    Id. at 63–64.
      Father stated that Mother did not permit Father’s name to be
    spoken in her home. 
    Id. at 64.
    Father admitted he was “doing pills” on the aforementioned video, and
    represented that he did them “all the time.” N.T., 4/10/19, at 64–65. Father
    also acknowledged telling T.M.S. to call Mother a “bitch” on the video, which
    he admitted was “not right,” but he maintained it was an “isolated incident.”
    
    Id. at 64.
    Father admitted that he had punched the closet and threatened
    Mother that if she “were a dude, I would hit you.”       
    Id. at 65.
       Father
    emphasized that the incidents occurred when he was a teenager. 
    Id. Father admitted
    that Mother told him to leave their home when they lived together
    because he refused to stop seeing “Callie,” another woman. 
    Id. He further
    admitted punching Mother’s car and denting it.
    Father testified that he contacted Mother about T.M.S. until he no longer
    had a current telephone number for her. N.T., 4/10/19, at 69. Father claimed
    that he did not go to the maternal grandparents’ home because he feared they
    would call the police. 
    Id. Father asserted
    that he was focused on completing
    his rehabilitation programs and counseling and that he had been employed as
    a landscaper for the past three years. 
    Id. at 69–70.
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    Father stated that he lives in the Pottstown School District in a three-
    bedroom home with his girlfriend, Lindsey Tuzzi. N.T., 4/10/19, at 70–71,
    73.   Father’s brother occasionally resides with Father and has a separate
    bedroom. 
    Id. at 70.
    Father pays the mortgage and the bills. 
    Id. Paternal Grandmother
    lives with her boyfriend, which is three minutes away from
    Father’s home. 
    Id. Father has
    health insurance through the Commonwealth
    of Pennsylvania.     
    Id. at 71.
        In 2018, Father served his petition for
    modification of the custody order by searching Mother’s address on the
    Internet, went to Mother’s home with his girlfriend, and served the petition on
    Stepfather. 
    Id. 71-72. Father
    admittedly had the address where T.M.S. was
    living since he served the petition, but he did not try to mail T.M.S. a letter or
    a card, believing that Mother would immediately throw them away. 
    Id. at 72.
    Father stated that he had been drug-free without relapse for four years. 
    Id. at 72-73.
      Father did not present proof of his completion of the various
    programs he described participating in except a letter dated November 3,
    2018, admitted into evidence. 
    Id. at 58.
    He testified, “I did not bring [the
    documents] today.” 
    Id. at 73.
    Ms. Tuzzi, employed at a Sunoco gas station, has a previous criminal
    conviction for theft. N.T., 4/10/19, at 74. Despite Father’s testimony that
    Ms. Tuzzi does not have drug or mental health issues, Father admitted that
    she was arrested with Father “where [they] had a bunch of heroin . . . .” 
    Id. at 75,
    96. Father claimed that he placed the syringe found in Ms. Tuzzi’s
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    purse. 
    Id. at 96.
    Ms. Tuzzi remained on probation at the time of the hearing.
    
    Id. at 74,
    96.
    On cross-examination by counsel for Mother and Stepfather, Father
    admitted that he last saw T.M.S., who is now twelve, when the child was three
    years old, and that he does not know his son. N.T., 4/10/19, at 78. Father
    stated that he filed the petition for modification of custody because he wanted
    to get to know T.M.S. and find out “what [T.M.S.] is into.” 
    Id. The trial
    court
    questioned Father about Father’s parenting during the period between March
    of 2018, when Father filed his petition for modification of custody, and
    September of 2018, when Mother and Stepfather filed the termination
    petition. 
    Id. at 101.
    Father admitted he did not pay any child support or
    attempt contact. 
    Id. At the
    close of testimony, the trial court conducted a colloquy of T.M.S.’s
    legal-interests counsel, Attorney Petrillo. 
    Id. at 106–110.
    Attorney Petrillo
    testified that Mother and Stepfather satisfied T.M.S.’s needs, and they provide
    him with love, stability, and everything he needs to be successful. 
    Id. at 109-
    110. Attorney Petrillo testified that Father had not attempted to parent T.M.S.
    in the six months preceding the filing of the termination petition or, indeed,
    anytime before that.    
    Id. at 110.
       She testified that Father’s environment
    would not be conducive to T.M.S.’s success. 
    Id. At the
    close of the hearing on April 10, 2019, the trial court dictated its
    findings into the record as support of its written decree. On May 10, 2019,
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    Father filed a notice of appeal, along with a concise statement of errors
    complained of on appeal pursuant to Pa.R.A.P. 1925. The trial court relied on
    its dictated findings for its Pa.R.A.P. 1925(a) opinion. N.T., 4/10/19, at 111–
    122.
    In his brief on appeal, Father raises two issues:
    1. Did the trial court err in terminating [Father’s] parental rights
    pursuant to 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 2511(a)(1) where [Mother and
    Stepfather] failed to prove by clear and convincing evidence that
    [Father] evidenced a settled purpose of relinquishing his parental
    claim and/or failed or refused to perform parental duties?
    2. Did the trial court err in terminating [Father’s] parental rights
    pursuant to 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 2511(a)(2) where the evidence at trial
    failed to establish by clear and convincing evidence that the
    conditions and causes of any incapacity, abuse, neglect, or refusal
    to parent by [Father] could not or would not be remedied?
    Father’s Brief, at 6.3
    In reviewing an appeal from an order terminating parental rights, we
    adhere to the following standard:
    [A]ppellate courts must apply an abuse of discretion
    standard when considering a trial court’s determination of a
    petition for termination of parental rights. As in dependency
    cases, our standard of review requires an appellate court to accept
    the findings of fact and credibility determinations of the trial court
    if they are supported by the record. In re: R.J.T., 
    608 Pa. 9
    , 9
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    3 Father has not challenged the sufficiency of the evidence to support the
    termination of his parental rights under Section 2511(b) in his concise
    statement, his statement of questions involved, or his brief. We observe,
    however, that the trial court conducted a full inquiry regarding the
    requirements of Section 2511(b) and found those requirements satisfied.
    N.T., 4/10/19, at 119–122. For the reasons expressed by the trial court, infra,
    we agree that Mother and Stepfather satisfied the requirements of 23 Pa.C.S.
    § 2511(b).
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    A.3d 1179, 1190 (Pa. 2010). If the factual findings are supported,
    appellate courts review to determine if the trial court made an
    error of law or abused its discretion. Id.; R.I.S., 
    36 A.3d 567
    ,
    572 (Pa. 2011) (plurality opinion)]. As has been often stated, an
    abuse of discretion does not result merely because the reviewing
    court might have reached a different conclusion. Id.; see also
    Samuel Bassett v. Kia Motors America, Inc., 
    613 Pa. 371
    , 
    34 A.3d 1
    , 51 (Pa. 2011); Christianson v. Ely, 
    838 A.2d 630
    , 634
    (Pa. 2003). Instead, a decision may be reversed for an abuse of
    discretion    only    upon      demonstration         of     manifest
    unreasonableness, partiality, prejudice, bias, or ill-will. 
    Id. As we
    discussed in R.J.T., there are clear reasons for
    applying an abuse of discretion standard of review in these cases.
    We observed that, unlike trial courts, appellate courts are not
    equipped to make the fact-specific determinations on a cold
    record, where the trial judges are observing the parties during the
    relevant hearing and often presiding over numerous other
    hearings regarding the child and parents. 
    R.J.T., 9 A.3d at 1190
    .
    Therefore, even where the facts could support an opposite result,
    as is often the case in dependency and termination cases, an
    appellate court must resist the urge to second guess the trial court
    and impose its own credibility determinations and judgment;
    instead we must defer to the trial judges so long as the factual
    findings are supported by the record and the court’s legal
    conclusions are not the result of an error of law or an abuse of
    discretion. In re Adoption of Atencio, 
    650 A.2d 1064
    , 1066
    (Pa. 1994).
    In re Adoption of S.P., 
    47 A.3d 817
    , 826-827 (Pa. 2012).
    The burden is upon Mother and Stepfather, as petitioners, to prove by
    clear and convincing evidence that the asserted grounds for seeking the
    termination of parental rights are valid. In re R.N.J., 
    985 A.2d 273
    , 276 (Pa.
    Super. 2009).    Moreover, we have explained, “The standard of clear and
    convincing evidence is defined as testimony that is so ‘clear, direct, weighty
    and convincing as to enable the trier of fact to come to a clear conviction,
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    without hesitance, of the truth of the precise facts in issue.’”    
    Id. at 276
    (quoting In re J.L.C., 
    837 A.2d 1247
    , 1251 (Pa. Super. 2003)).
    This Court may affirm the trial court’s decision regarding the termination
    of parental rights with regard to any one subsection of Section 2511(a). In
    re B.L.W., 
    843 A.2d 380
    , 384 (Pa. Super. 2004) (en banc). In the case sub
    judice, we consider Section 2511(a)(1), which provides, in relevant part, as
    follows:
    § 2511. Grounds for involuntary termination
    (a) General rule.--The rights of a parent in regard to a child may
    be terminated after a petition filed on any of the following
    grounds:
    (1) The parent by conduct continuing for a period of at
    least six months immediately preceding the filing of the
    petition either has evidenced a settled purpose of
    relinquishing parental claim to a child or has refused or
    failed to perform parental duties.
    23 Pa.C.S. § 2511(a)(1).
    With respect to subsection 2511(a)(1), our Supreme Court has held as
    follows:
    Once the evidence establishes a failure to perform parental duties
    or a settled purpose of relinquishing parental rights, the court
    must engage in three lines of inquiry: (1) the parent’s explanation
    for his or her conduct; (2) the post-abandonment contact between
    parent and child; and (3) consideration of the effect of termination
    of parental rights on the child pursuant to Section 2511(b).
    In re Adoption of Charles E.D.M., 
    708 A.2d 88
    , 92 (Pa. 1988).
    Further, this Court has stated:
    [T]he trial court must consider the whole history of a given case
    and not mechanically apply the six-month statutory provision. The
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    court must examine the individual circumstances of each case and
    consider all explanations offered by the parent facing termination
    of his or her parental rights, to determine if the evidence, in light
    of the totality of the circumstances, clearly warrants the
    involuntary termination.
    In re B.,N.M., 
    856 A.2d 847
    , 854-855 (Pa. Super. 2004) (citations omitted).
    We have explained that the focus in terminating parental rights under Section
    2511(a) is on the parent. In re Adoption of C.L.G., 
    956 A.2d 999
    , 1008
    (Pa. Super. 2008) (en banc).
    In reviewing the evidence in support of termination under Section
    2511(b), our Supreme Court has stated as follows:
    [I]f the grounds for termination under subsection (a) are met, a
    court “shall give primary consideration to the developmental,
    physical and emotional needs and welfare of the child.” 23 Pa.C.S.
    § 2511(b). The emotional needs and welfare of the child have
    been properly interpreted to include “[i]ntangibles such as love,
    comfort, security, and stability.” In re K.M., 
    53 A.3d 781
    , 791
    (Pa. Super. 2012). In In re E.M., [
    620 A.2d 481
    , 485 (Pa. 1993)],
    this Court held that the determination of the child’s “needs and
    welfare” requires consideration of the emotional bonds between
    the parent and child. The “utmost attention” should be paid to
    discerning the effect on the child of permanently severing the
    parental bond. In re 
    K.M., 53 A.3d at 791
    .
    In re: T.S.M., 
    71 A.3d 251
    , 267 (Pa. 2013).
    A parent’s abuse and neglect are likewise a relevant part of this analysis:
    concluding a child has a beneficial bond with a parent simply
    because the child harbors affection for the parent is not only
    dangerous, it is logically unsound. If a child’s feelings were the
    dispositive factor in the bonding analysis, the analysis would be
    reduced to an exercise in semantics as it is the rare child who,
    after being subject to neglect and abuse, is able to sift through
    the emotional wreckage and completely disavow a parent . . . Nor
    are we of the opinion that the biological connection between [the
    parent] and the children is sufficient in of itself, or when
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    considered in connection with a child’s feeling toward a parent, to
    establish a de facto beneficial bond exists. The psychological
    aspect of parenthood is more important in terms of the
    development of the child and [his or her] mental and emotional
    health than the coincidence of biological or natural parenthood.
    In re K.K.R.-S., 
    958 A.2d 529
    , 535 (Pa. Super. 2008) (internal citations and
    quotation marks omitted). Thus, the court may emphasize the safety needs
    of the child. See In re K.Z.S., 
    946 A.2d 753
    , 763 (Pa. Super. 2008) (affirming
    involuntary termination of parental rights, despite existence of some bond,
    where placement with the mother would be contrary to child’s best interests).
    “[A] parent’s basic constitutional right to the custody and rearing of his or her
    child is converted, upon the failure to fulfill his or her parental duties, to the
    child’s right to have proper parenting and fulfillment of [the child’s] potential
    in a permanent, healthy, safe environment.”         B.,
    N.M., 856 A.2d at 856
    (internal citations omitted).
    Father argues that he exercised reasonable firmness in his attempts to
    see T.M.S. during the statutory period, and that Mother precluded him from
    doing so. Father’s Brief, at 10, 13-16, 19.
    The trial court provided its findings regarding Section 2511(a)(1) and
    (b), as follows:
    Under ground 2511(a)(1)[,] I have to consider whether
    [Father] failed or refused to perform his parental responsibilities
    for the six-month period prior to the filing of this petition. So[,]
    as I stated earlier in my questions of [Father], the petition was
    filed on September the 1st, 2018, so the time period at issue here
    is that of March 1, 2018, to September 1, 2018.
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    During that six-month period[,] I have to determine
    whether or not [Father] evidenced what they call a settled purpose
    of relinquishing a parental claim.
    ***
    In this case[, Father] last saw [T.M.S.] sometime between
    2013 and 2014.
    [Mother] in this case bears the burden of proof for each
    element by a standard of clear and convincing evidence. In
    interpreting Pennsylvania law, the Superior Court of Pennsylvania
    has identified certain what they call irreducible minimum
    requirements that all children are entitled to from their parents,
    including adequate housing, adequate clothing, food, love, and
    support. Those concepts are taken from the 1995 case In re:
    Diaz, [
    669 A.2d 372
    (Pa. Super. 1995)].
    The necessary implication then when you look at these
    factors is a parent who cannot or will not meet those minimum
    requirements—remember I said adequate housing, clothing, food,
    supervision, support,—within a reasonable time may properly
    have their parental rights terminated. That sentiment is taken
    from the 1990 case of In re: J.W., [
    578 A.2d 952
    (Pa. Super.
    1990)].
    ***
    All of these cases that I have just mentioned make clear that
    children have rights. [T.M.S.] has rights here. The emphasis in
    the cases that I have mentioned focus[es] on parents providing
    housing, clothing, food, supervision, support, and love.
    Now, the Supreme Court of Pennsylvania has held that it is
    not a violation of constitutional rights for an individual’s parental
    rights to be terminated due to the parent’s mental disability or
    handicaps that prevent the parent from providing proper care for
    the child. That is from the 1978 case of In re: William L., [
    383 A.2d 1228
    (Pa. 1978)].
    In this matter[,] I heard very credible testimony from
    [Father] that he did complete, although there is no documentation
    to that effect from the facility, but he does have[,] according to
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    [Father’s Exhibit] F-1[,] that treatment was provided and
    completed for dual diagnosis therapy.
    Those of us who have been involved in working with people
    with substance abuse issues know that dual diagnosis means two
    diagnoses. There are two [diagnoses,] side by side, usually
    involving mental health in addition to the addiction of whatever
    that is.
    I did hear testimony from [Father] that he does not have
    mental health issues. Lacking any contradictory evidence, I have
    to believe him. So[,] in this matter[,] I will not consider the
    disability of [Father] as a factor in this matter.
    I will, however, consider [Father’s] drug use as a factor.
    This [c]ourt heard credible evidence regarding drug use by
    [Father]. I understand that according to Mother’s Exhibit 8[,]
    [Father] is placed on addict supervision[,] which requires random
    urinalysis, but that goes as far as starting, I believe, in 2016. As
    I stated earlier, there was uncontradicted evidence that the last
    time [Father] saw [T.M.S.] was in 2013 or 2014.
    Regardless, this [c]ourt heard very credible, convincing
    evidence from [Father’s] testimony that he felt he needed to be—
    it needed to be the right time before he could get reinvolved in
    [T.M.S.’s] life. I want to make sure I use the correct wording
    here. [Father] testified that he purposely did not want to reunite
    with his son only to relapse, and so there was the chosen time
    period by [Father] without significant reason for that choice, but
    the chosen time period of one-and-a-half years of sobriety before
    determining that he could be involved in [T.M.S.’s] life.
    So[,] looking chronologically at the time periods that may
    be evidence of [Father’s] reasoning for finally going to court and
    getting the custody petition in 2018, . . . I get it. And I also heard
    very clearly [Father’s] testimony that he is doing the very best he
    can. I believe him. I believe that he is doing the very best he
    can.
    But the major thing and the reason why we are all here
    today is because of [T.M.S.] In that one-and-a-half-year time
    period[, which Father arbitrarily set,] what is [T.M.S.] supposed
    to do? What is he supposed to use for food? What is he supposed
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    to use for clothing? What is he supposed to use for support? What
    is he supposed to use for love and supervision? Life goes on.
    I also heard testimony from [Father] that he was
    incarcerated for a period of time. Other than [Father’s] testimony
    about his term of imprisonment, this [c]ourt did not receive
    additional evidence one way or another, so in the realm of my
    decision today, I will not incorporate his period of incarceration as
    a factor in this.
    I [do], however, find neglect. It may be tied into the drug
    use, but since 2013, 2014[,] the neglect is the glaring factor that
    just stands out with this [c]ourt. Love drives people to do many
    things. If the love and concern are really there, parents are over
    at the counter in the administration office of the courthouse every
    week filing repeated petitions for custody. Having sat in the family
    law division for two years, that’s what people do. They come back
    over, over, and over. They don’t just throw up their hands and
    give up, because it is not helping the child to give up. When you
    give up on your child, that’s called neglect, because who else is
    supposed to take care of him? Who else is supposed to love him?
    Who else is supposed to go to parent-teacher conferences? Who
    is supposed to take him to church? Who is supposed to do all of
    these other things? Because life goes on.
    I find in this matter that [Section 2511(a)(1) has] been
    proven by clear and convincing evidence. Having done so, I will
    next address the needs and the welfare analysis under Section
    [2511](b).
    . . . Our Supreme Court in the case of In re: K.M., [
    53 A.3d 781
    ,
    791 (Pa. 2012)], says that if grounds for termination under
    subsection (a) are met, and they have been, the [c]ourt shall give
    primary consideration to the developmental, physical and
    emotional needs and welfare of the child. So those issues include
    intangibles, love, comfort, security, and stability.
    In a 1993 case that’s cited at In re: E.M., 
    620 A.2d 481
    [,
    485 (Pa. Super. 1993),] the Court held that determining a child’s
    needs and welfare requires considering those emotional bonds
    between a parent and a child. The utmost attention has to be
    made by this [c]ourt to discerning the effect of permanently
    severing any parent-child bond on the child.
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    In considering [T.M.S.’s] needs and welfare, this [c]ourt
    must consider the role of a parental bond in his life. I am required
    by prior case law to fully consider whether a parental bond exists
    to such an extent that severing this natural relationship would be
    contrary to the needs and the welfare of [T.M.S.].
    The Pennsylvania Supreme Court has observed a delicate
    balance between preserving the family unit and presenting a state
    of constant uncertainty and limbo for a child who has no
    reasonable prospect of permanently reuniting with their natural
    parent.
    In this case, credible testimony clearly establishes that
    there is no significant bond between [T.M.S.] and [Father],
    especially given the time period of absence in [T.M.S.’s] life.
    Therefore, I find from the evidence and the testimony that
    termination of [Father’s] rights best serves the needs and the
    welfare of [T.M.S.] and that termination of the parental rights will
    not irreparably harm [T.M.S.]
    In addition, I have heard testimony that [T.M.S.’s] home life
    is one that reflects love, stability, and security.
    On this date, April the 10th, 2019, based upon the facts
    presented and the law, I must enter a final decree terminating the
    parental rights of [Father] to [T.M.S.]
    [Mother] has established a legal basis for terminating the
    parental rights under Section 2511(a)(1) and (a)(2). Accordingly,
    it is hereby ordered, adjudged[,] and decreed that the parental
    rights of [Father] to [T.M.S.] are forever terminated.        The
    adoption of [T.M.S.] may continue without further notice to or
    consent of [Father].
    Custody of [T.M.S.] shall remain with [Mother], which is by
    this decree specifically authorized to consent to any necessary
    routine and/or emergency medical, dental and/or mental health
    treatment for [T.M.S.], and to consent to his adoption without
    further consent of or notice to [Father].
    N.T., 4/10/19, at 113–121.
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    We conclude that the testimonial evidence supports the trial court’s
    determination that far in excess of six months preceding the filing of the
    involuntary termination petition on September 1, 2018, Father has not
    performed his parental duties. B.,
    N.M., 856 A.2d at 854-855
    . Indeed:
    Parental duty requires that the parent act affirmatively with good
    faith interest and effort, and not yield to every problem, in order
    to maintain the parent-child relationship to the best of his or her
    ability, even in difficult circumstances. A parent must utilize
    all available resources to preserve the parental relationship, and
    must exercise reasonable firmness in resisting obstacles placed in
    the path of maintaining the parent-child relationship. Parental
    rights are not preserved by waiting for a more suitable or
    convenient time to perform one’s parental responsibilities while
    others provide the child with his or her physical and emotional
    needs.
    B.,
    N.M., 856 A.2d at 855
    (emphases added; internal citations omitted).
    The trial court considered Father’s abandonment of T.M.S., Father’s lack
    of contact with T.M.S., and his explanation for both. Charles 
    E.D.M., 708 A.2d at 92
    . The trial court found that Father’s reasons for not providing any
    care, support, or contact with T.M.S. were his own desire to be “clean” of
    drugs for an arbitrary period of one and one-half years before attempting
    contact with T.M.S. and his fear that Mother would reject his contact attempts.
    The trial court found that Father failed to perform his parental duties for T.M.S.
    for the requisite six-month period. Instead, Father relied upon Mother and
    Stepfather to provide for T.M.S.’s needs and welfare since at least 2013 or
    2014. Moreover, the testimonial evidence supports the trial court’s conclusion
    that T.M.S. has no bond with Father.
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    Although Father professes fondness for T.M.S. and a desire “to get to
    know” him, this Court has stated that a parent’s own feelings of love and
    affection for a child, alone, will not preclude termination of parental rights. In
    re L.M., 
    923 A.2d 505
    , 512 (Pa. Super. 2007). We have stated that a “child’s
    life ‘simply cannot be put on hold in the hope that [a parent] will summon the
    ability to handle the responsibilities of parenting.’”   In re: Z.P., 
    994 A.2d 1108
    , 1125 (Pa. Super. 2010). Rather, “a parent’s basic constitutional right
    to the custody and rearing of his child is converted, upon the failure to fulfill
    his or her parental duties, to the child’s right to have proper parenting and
    fulfillment of his or her potential in a permanent, healthy, safe environment.”
    B.,
    N.M., 856 A.2d at 856
    .
    After our careful review of the record, we conclude that the trial court’s
    decision to terminate the parental rights of Father is supported by competent,
    clear and convincing evidence of record. Adoption of 
    S.P., 47 A.3d at 826
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    827. Thus, we find no abuse of discretion in the trial court’s termination of
    Father’s parental rights to T.M.S. For the reasons expressed by the trial court,
    we affirm.
    Decree affirmed.
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    Judgment Entered.
    Joseph D. Seletyn, Esq.
    Prothonotary
    Date: 10/22/19
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