Sydney Bowlin v. William Cody Swim ( 2020 )


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  •                    IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
    No. 19-1021
    Filed June 3, 2020
    SYDNEY BOWLIN,
    Plaintiff-Appellee,
    vs.
    WILLIAM CODY SWIM,
    Defendant-Appellant.
    ________________________________________________________________
    Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Warren County, Randy V. Hefner,
    Judge.
    William Cody Swim appeals the district court’s custody ruling placing his
    and Sydney Bowlin’s child in Bowlin’s sole legal custody, among other things.
    AFFIRMED.
    Benjamin Folladori of Marberry Law Firm, P.C., Urbandale, for appellant.
    Eric Borseth of Borseth Law Office, Altoona, for appellee.
    Considered by Bower, C.J., and Doyle and Schumacher, JJ.
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    DOYLE, Judge.
    Following a contentious custody battle, William Cody Swim (Cody) appeals
    the district court’s ruling placing his and Sydney Bowlin’s child in Bowlin’s sole
    legal custody. Cody challenges various provisions of the district court’s ruling,
    including the legal custody determination. Both parties request the award of
    appellate attorney fees. Upon our de novo review of the record, we affirm and we
    decline to award appellate attorney fees.
    I. Scope and Standard of Review.
    Our review of equitable proceedings is de novo. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.907;
    Markey v. Carney, 
    705 N.W.2d 13
    , 19 (Iowa 2005); see also Hensch v. Mysak,
    
    902 N.W.2d 822
    , 824 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017). This requires reviewing the entire
    record and deciding anew the factual and legal issues preserved and presented
    for review. 
    Hensch, 902 N.W.2d at 824
    . “Although our review is de novo, we afford
    deference to the district court for institutional and pragmatic reasons.”
    Id. A de
    novo review “does not mean [the appellate courts] decide the case in a vacuum,
    or approach it as though the trial court had never been involved.” Davis-Eisenhart
    Mktg. Co. v. Baysden, 
    539 N.W.2d 140
    , 142 (Iowa 1995). Rather, “great weight”
    is given the findings of fact of the trial court where the testimony is conflicting. See
    id. (citation omitted).
    This is because the trial court, with the advantage of listening
    to and observing the parties and witnesses, is in a far better position to weigh the
    credibility of witnesses than the appellate court which is limited to a written record.
    See In re Marriage of Zebecki, 
    389 N.W.2d 396
    , 398 (Iowa 1986); 
    Hensch, 902 N.W.2d at 824
    ; see also In re Marriage of Vrban, 
    359 N.W.2d 420
    , 423 (Iowa
    1984); In re Marriage of Gensley, 
    777 N.W.2d 705
    , 713 (Iowa Ct. App. 2009)
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    (recognizing the district court can “listen to and observe the parties and witnesses”
    and giving weight to the district court’s credibility determinations); Birusingh v.
    Knox, 
    418 N.W.2d 80
    , 82 (Iowa Ct. App. 1987). Unlike this court, the trial court
    has the front row seat to observe the “witness’s facial expressions, vocal
    intonation, eye movement, gestures, posture, body language, and courtroom
    conduct, both on and off the stand,” and the witness’s “nonverbal leakage” showing
    “[h]idden attitudes, feelings, and opinions” not reflected in the cold transcript the
    appellate court reviews.     Thomas Sannito & Peter J. McGovern, Courtroom
    Psychology for Trial Lawyers 1 (1985). The trial judge thus is in the best position
    to assess witnesses’ interest in the trial, their motive, candor, bias, and prejudice.
    See State v. Teager, 
    269 N.W.2d 348
    , 351 (Iowa 1936). Thus, we give weight to
    the factual findings of the district court, especially when considering the credibility
    of witnesses, but are not bound by them. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g).
    Furthermore, we will affirm the district court unless the district court failed to do
    substantial equity.   
    Hensch, 902 N.W.2d at 824
    .          And because each family
    presents its own strengths and challenges, we base our decision on the unique
    circumstances of each case. In re Marriage of Kleist, 
    538 N.W.2d 273
    , 276 (Iowa
    1995); 
    Hensch, 902 N.W.2d at 824
    .
    “If there has been a finding of contempt, we review the evidence to assure
    ourselves that the court’s factual findings are supported by substantial evidence.
    The district court’s legal conclusions are reviewed for errors at law.” In re Marriage
    of Swan, 
    526 N.W.2d 320
    , 326–27 (Iowa 1995) (citation omitted). “A contemner’s
    sentence is reviewed for an abuse of discretion.” Ary v. Iowa Dist. Ct., 
    735 N.W.2d 621
    , 624 (Iowa 2007).
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    Awarding trial attorney fees is reviewed for an abuse of discretion. See In
    re Marriage of Sullins, 
    715 N.W.2d 242
    , 247 (Iowa 2006) (reviewing award of trial
    attorney fees).
    Evidentiary rulings are generally reviewed for an abuse of discretion. See
    Mohammed v. Otoadese, 
    738 N.W.2d 628
    , 631 (Iowa 2007) (“We review the
    district court’s determination of relevancy and admission of relevant evidence for
    an abuse of discretion.”); see also In re Marriage of Mennen, No. 09-1821, 
    2010 WL 2384865
    , at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. June 16, 2010) (finding court abused its
    discretion in admitting and considering therapist’s “letter in arriving at its decision”);
    In re Petition of Ziegler, No. 05-0911, 
    2006 WL 623685
    , at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Mar.
    15, 2006) (“We reverse an evidentiary ruling of the district court only if the court
    abused its discretion, to the complaining party’s prejudice.”).           “An abuse of
    discretion consists of a ruling which rests upon clearly untenable or unreasonable
    grounds.” Fenton v. Webb, 
    705 N.W.2d 323
    , 326 (Iowa App. Ct. 2005). “A ground
    or reason is untenable when it is not supported by substantial evidence or when it
    is based on an erroneous application of the law.” In re Det. of Stenzel, 
    827 N.W.2d 690
    , 697 (Iowa 2013) (quotation omitted).
    But if the evidentiary ruling is based on hearsay evidence, our review is for
    errors at law. See
    id. (noting “we
    generally review the district court’s admission of
    hearsay evidence for errors at law” unless “the basis for admission of hearsay
    evidence is the expert opinion rule,” where “we will employ an abuse of discretion
    standard”).
    Issues of statutory interpretation are reviewed for correction of errors at law.
    Fishel v. Redenbaugh, 
    939 N.W.2d 660
    , 662 (Iowa Ct. App. 2019).
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    II. Discussion.
    On appeal, Cody challenges the district court’s ruling in many respects.
    First, he asserts the court erred in admitting the child custody evaluation and
    requests the case be remanded to the trial court to enter a ruling without
    consideration of the report. As to custody, Cody points out Sydney’s petition
    requested the child be placed in her and Cody’s joint legal custody and she did not
    change her request until trial. Cody argues the district court should not have
    considered Sydney’s request for sole legal custody at trial. Even if the court did
    not err in considering sole legal custody, Cody argues the child should not be
    placed in Sydney’s sole legal custody. Cody also contends the district court
    abused its discretion in finding him in contempt for failing to pay attorney fees as
    ordered, arguing he lacked the ability to pay. Finally, he maintains the court should
    not have awarded Sydney trial attorney fees.          Both he and Sydney request
    appellate attorney fees. Facts specific to the claims on appeal will be set forth
    below.
    A. Admission of the Custody Evaluation.
    In May 2018, Sydney petitioned for custody, visitation, and support of the
    parties’ minor child. In October 2018, Cody moved for the appointment of a
    custody evaluator. Cody’s motion’s prayer specifically requested Susan Gauger
    be appointed as the custody evaluator. Sydney agreed that Gauger should be
    appointed to perform a custody evaluation. The court then entered an order stating
    “the parties have stipulated to the appointment of a custody evaluator and that it is
    in the best interest of the parties’ minor child to order a custody evaluation herein.”
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    The court appointed Gauger as the custody evaluator and directed Gauger to
    submit her report to the court and the parties at least sixty days before trial.
    In December 2018, before Gauger’s evaluation was finished, Cody
    designated Gauger as an expert witness who might be called at trial. In March
    2019, before trial, Cody filed his anticipated witness and exhibit list. He did not list
    Gauger as a witness or her report as an exhibit, but did list “[a]ny witness listed or
    called by another party” and “[a]ny exhibit listed by another party.” The next day,
    Sydney filed her anticipated witness and exhibit list, which listed the “Child Custody
    Evaluation” as an expected exhibit. It did not list Gauger as an anticipated witness.
    Later that same day, Cody filed an “reservation of objections” advising Sydney and
    the court he was reserving “foundation, identification and authentication
    objections” to several of Sydney’s listed exhibits, including the custody evaluation.
    At trial, Sydney offered the custody evaluation as an exhibit, and Cody
    objected. Cody’s counsel stated:
    I’m going to strongly object to this report. I can’t cross-examine a
    piece of paper. If Ms. Bowlin wanted to use this report, she should
    have went through the steps to make sure the custody evaluator was
    here to answer questions to lay foundation to this. The report is
    simply hearsay. It’s also hearsay within hearsay.
    In response, Sydney’s counsel noted the evaluator had only provided a copy of
    her evaluation to the parties, not the court. Because the court’s order specifically
    stated the evaluation was to be filed with the court, Sydney’s counsel argued the
    evaluation should be admitted in compliance with the order.
    The court admitted the exhibit subject to Cody’s objection and stated if it
    determined the objection should be sustained, the court would not consider the
    report in its ruling. Later, in the court’s post-trial written ruling, the court found
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    Cody’s motion should be overruled and the evaluation admitted, citing to section
    598.12B (2018) and chapter 63 of the Iowa Court Rules. The court also found
    Cody waived any hearsay objection because “[h]e filed the motion requesting the
    report and stipulated to entry of the order that directed the preparation and
    dissemination of the report, not only to the attorneys, but to the court.”
    Having determined the exhibit should be admitted, the court then decided
    how much weight to give the exhibit. The court found the evaluation helpful but
    not outcome determinative. The court disagreed with Gauger’s recommendation
    that joint legal custody be granted to the parties. The court did not consider the
    report any further.
    On appeal, Cody maintains the court erred in admitting the custody
    evaluation into evidence, arguing that “at no point in time did the legislature or
    supreme court indicate that these types of reports [like the one from Gauger] were
    an exception to the rule against hearsay as the district court indicates.” He also
    points to In re Marriage of Williams, 
    303 N.W.2d 160
    , 163 (Iowa 1981), as support
    for excluding the report from evidence. We disagree with Cody on both counts.
    Before July 1, 2017, section 598.12, then titled “Attorney or guardian ad
    litem for minor child—investigations,” contained five subsections. See Iowa Code
    § 598.12 (2017). The first subsection permitted the court to appoint an attorney to
    represent the parties’ minor child or children’s legal interests in the custody matter.
    See Iowa Code § 598.12(1). Subsection two permitted the court to appoint a
    guardian ad litem (GAL) to represent the parties’ minor child or children’s interests
    in the custody matter. See
    id. § 598.12(2).
    Subsection three allowed the court to
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    appoint one person to serve as the child or children’s attorney and GAL. See
    id. § 598.12(3).
    Subsection four permitted the court to
    require . . . an appropriate agency make an investigation of both
    parties regarding the home conditions, parenting capabilities, and
    other matters pertinent to the best interests of the child or children in
    a dispute . . . . The investigation report . . . shall be submitted to the
    court and available to both parties. The investigation report
    completed by the appropriate agency shall be a part of the record
    unless otherwise ordered by the court.
    See
    id. § 598.12(4)
    (emphasis added). Subsection five is not relevant here.
    In 2017, the legislature passed a bill, effective July 1, 2017, separating
    various subsections of 598.12 into three distinct sections. See 2017 Iowa Acts
    ch. 43; see also In re Marriage of Erpelding, 
    917 N.W.2d 235
    , 245 n.9 (Iowa 2018)
    (discussing amendments). Section 598.12 is now titled “[GAL] for minor child” and
    relates only to the appointment of a GAL. See Iowa Code § 598.12 (2018). That
    section explicitly states the GAL “shall not testify, serve as a witness, or file a
    written report in the matter.”
    Id. § 598.12(1)(a)(6).
    The 2017 legislation added
    sections 598.12A and .12B. See 2017 Iowa Acts ch. 43, §§ 3, 4. Section 598.12A
    is titled “Attorney for minor child” and concerns the appointment of an attorney.
    Like section 598.12, this new section states the appointed attorney “shall not
    testify, serve as a witness, or file a written report in the matter.” Iowa Code
    § 598.12A(1)(a)(5) (2018).
    The last addition, section 598.12B, is titled “Child custody investigators and
    child and family reporters.” Under section 598.12B(1), the Iowa Supreme Court
    must “prescribe and maintain standards for child custody investigators and child
    and family reporters.” Additionally, section 598.12B(2) provides:
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    The court may require a child custody investigator or a child and
    family reporter to obtain information regarding both parties’ home
    conditions, parenting capabilities, and other matters pertinent to the
    best interests of the child or children in a dispute concerning custody
    of the child or children. A report of the information obtained shall be
    submitted to the court and available to both parties. The report shall
    be a part of the record unless otherwise ordered by the court.
    (Emphasis added.) Reports from an appointed investigator or reporter are treated
    differently than the reports of an appointed GAL or attorney.         Compare
    id. § 598.12B(2)
    with
    id. §§ 598.12(1)(a)(6),
    .12A(1)(a)(5).
    After the legislative changes in 2017, the Iowa Supreme Court in August
    2018 adopted chapter 63 of the Iowa Court Rules, setting forth standards of
    practice for child and family reporters (CFRs) in child custody cases. See Iowa Ct.
    R. 63 Standard 1. The commentary to Standard 4(C) of Rule 63 states:
    Pursuant to Iowa Code section 598.12B(2) (2017), the CFR’s report
    must be submitted to the court and available to all parties. The
    CFR’s report will be a part of the record unless the court otherwise
    orders. Any party may call the CFR as a witness. If called as a
    witness, the CFR may be cross-examined concerning the report.
    The 2017 changes to section 598.12 were in operation when Sydney filed
    her petition and when Cody moved for the appointment of the evaluator. Thus, if
    Gauger was a CFR as the term is used in section 598.12B(2) and chapter 63 of
    the court rules, her report was required to be part of the record unless otherwise
    ordered by the court. Cody does not assert Gauger was not a CFR. Instead, he
    tries to distinguish the terms used in section 598.12B(2), a “child custody
    investigator” and a CFR. As his argument goes, because chapter 63 only refers
    to CFRs, it must exclude child custody investigators from the standards set out in
    it, including that the CFR’s report must be submitted as part of the record unless
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    the court finds otherwise. Thus, Cody asserts the court’s reliance on chapter 63
    of the court rules is in error.
    Even assuming this argument has merit, it ignores the language of section
    598.12B(2) the applicable law in this case, unlike the standards in chapter 63 of
    the court rules, which are aspirational. See Iowa Ct. R. 63 Standard I(2) & (3).
    Under section 598.12B(2), a report from either a CFR or a “child custody
    investigator” must be submitted to the district court unless the court orders
    otherwise. Any distinction between a CFR and a “child custody investigator” is
    without difference under section 598.12B(2). The court did not err in abiding by
    the language of section 598.12B(2).
    Even if the pre-July 2017 provisions applied, the result would be no
    different. Although Cody cites Williams as supporting his argument, Williams is
    distinguishable from this case. 
    See 303 N.W.2d at 163
    . In Williams, the supreme
    court explained that such reports are inadmissible hearsay “[u]nless [the] written
    report is properly before the court by agreement or stipulation.”
    Id. Cody ignores
    the “unless” part of the equation.
    Here, the district court did not appoint Gauger on its own motion. Rather,
    the court appointed Gauger after Cody requested the appointment and Sydney
    agreed. The language of Cody’s motion, mirrored in the court’s order, required
    Gauger to file her report with the court. We believe the parties’ agreement to the
    appointment of the evaluator overcomes any hearsay objection under these facts,
    absent some showing of prejudice by the party opposing entry of the report. Cody
    not only requested the evaluator’s appointment, he listed Gauger as a potential
    expert witness. So there is no question Cody had adequate notice of the subject
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    matter of the evidence and was not unfairly surprised by admission of the report
    into evidence. There is also nothing that suggests Cody could not have called
    Gauger himself.1
    Finally, the district court did not rely solely on the report in making its
    decision. It even reached a decision against the recommendation of the evaluator.
    Under the facts here, the court did not err in admitting the report into evidence, and
    it did not abuse its discretion in determining what weight to place upon the report.
    Moreover, because our review is de novo, we can ignore the evaluator’s report in
    our determination to avoid any error. See, e.g., 
    Williams, 303 N.W.2d at 163
    (“Because our review is de novo, we disregard the report in our consideration of
    the issues.”); In re Marriage of Schneckloth, 
    320 N.W.2d 535
    , 536 (Iowa 1982) (“In
    according de novo review, this court disregards evidence to which meritorious
    objection was made and considers all admissible evidence.”).            Because the
    evaluation is unnecessary for us to reach the merits of the issues presented on
    appeal, we do not consider the evaluation in our consideration of the issues raised.
    For all of these reasons, we affirm the district court’s admission of the evaluator’s
    report into evidence at trial.
    B. Sole Legal Custody.
    Cody argues the district court should not have considered Sydney’s request
    for sole legal custody because she requested joint legal custody in her petition and
    claims he did not have adequate notice that she was requesting sole legal custody.
    He also argues placement of the child in Sydney’s sole legal custody was not in
    1 The comment to Iowa Court Rule 63 standard IV(C) states: “Any party may call
    the CFR as a witness.”
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    the child’s best interests or supported by facts in the record. We address Cody’s
    arguments in turn.
    1. Notice.
    As Cody points out, Sydney’s petition for custody stated she was requesting
    the child be placed in her and Cody’s joint legal custody. Sydney made no formal
    filing stating she was changing her request from seeking joint legal custody to sole
    legal custody. Cody contends he therefore did not have proper notice of her
    request and the court should not have even considered her changed custody
    request. But the record shows that Cody was or should have known that Sydney
    was seeking sole legal custody at trial.
    After entry of a protective order, Sydney provided a proposed temporary
    custody order which proposed to grant her sole legal custody. In her answers to
    interrogatories served on Cody’s counsel in September 2018, Sydney stated she
    was seeking sole legal custody. Sydney testified she was requesting sole legal
    custody with no objection raised by Cody. The court also admitted at trial Sydney’s
    exhibit showing she was requesting sole legal custody, again with no objection by
    Cody. Cody could have requested a continuance if he was surprised by her trial
    declaration that she was seeking sole legal custody. He did not. Upon our review,
    we find there is no question sole legal custody was before the court and was tried
    and considered without objection from Cody. So we reject this challenge to the
    sole legal custody award.
    2. Merits.
    “Iowa Code chapter 600B confers subject matter jurisdiction upon the
    district court to decide cases of paternity, custody, visitation and support between
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    unmarried parties.” Montgomery v. Wells, 
    708 N.W.2d 704
    , 707 (Iowa Ct. App.
    2005).     Relevant here, “section 600B.40 grants the district court authority to
    determine matters of custody and visitation as it would under Iowa Code section
    598.41”—section 600B.40’s counterpart for divorcing or separating parents. See
    id.; see also Braunschweig v. Fahrenkrog, 
    773 N.W.2d 888
    , 891 n.3 (Iowa 2009);
    
    Hensch, 902 N.W.2d at 825
    .
    Legal custody constitutes parental rights and responsibilities that include
    but are “not limited to decision making affecting the child’s legal status, medical
    care, education, extracurricular activities, and religious instruction.” Iowa Code
    § 598.1(5). Joint legal custody means that “neither parent has legal custodial
    rights superior to those of the other parent.”
    Id. § 598.1(3).
    Our overriding consideration is the best interests of the child. See Iowa R.
    App. P. 6.904(3)(o). In considering what custodial arrangement is in the child’s
    best interest, we consider the nonexclusive factors set out by our legislature in
    Iowa Code section 598.41(3).2. See Iowa Code § 600B.40(2) (“In determining the
    visitation or custody arrangements of a child born out of wedlock, . . . the court
    shall consider the factors specified in section 598.41, subsection 3.”) We also
    consider (1) stability, continuity of caregiving, and approximation; (2) the ability of
    the parents to communicate and show mutual respect; (3) the degree of conflict
    between parents; and (4) the degree to which the parents generally agree about
    their approach to daily matters. See 
    Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 695
    ; see also In re
    Marriage of Forbes, 
    570 N.W.2d 757
    , 760 (Iowa 1997); Hensch, 
    902 N.W.2d 822
    .
    Parents’ “utter inability to communicate with each other” as a result of their “toxic
    relationship” weighs against joint legal custody. See 
    Gensley, 777 N.W.2d at 715
    .
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    The parties’ inability to communicate and cooperate must rise above the “usual
    acrimony that accompanies a divorce.” In re Marriage of Ertmann, 
    376 N.W.2d 918
    , 920 (Iowa Ct. App. 1985). “If the district court does not grant joint legal
    custody, the court must cite clear and convincing evidence, according to the
    enumerated factors listed above, that joint legal custody is unreasonable and not
    in the children's best interests ‘to the extent that the legal custodial relationship
    between the child and a parent should be severed.’” 
    Gensley, 777 N.W.2d at 714
    (citing Iowa Code § 598.41(2)(b)).
    The parties’ testimony provided differing accounts of the parties’
    relationship, each party’s flaws and negative behaviors, and the party’s
    relationship and care of their child. While we are not bound by the district court’s
    findings of fact, they are still persuasive, given the court had a chance to view the
    parties and hear the testimony. See In re Marriage of Brown, 
    487 N.W.2d 331
    ,
    332 (Iowa 1992). Here, the district court explicitly found Sydney was more credible
    than Cody. Upon our de novo review of the record, we find no reason to disturb
    the court’s credibility determination.
    As for Cody’s conduct, the district court found:
    As pertinent to the issues of legal custody and physical care,
    prior to the separation, Cody engaged in angry outbursts, perhaps
    related to his drinking, and would demean Sydney and call her
    profane names. He hid her cell phone. He damaged her property
    and damaged the residence they were living in. He attempted to
    alienate her from friends and family. He began surreptitiously
    recording communications with her. Cody controlled the finances,
    but that was due, at least in part, to the fact that the parties were not
    married and Cody earned substantially more than Sydney. Their
    cohabitation was punctuated by several temporary separations when
    Sydney would leave with [the child] and stay with neighbors or
    friends.
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    The parties’ relationship since the separation and after entry
    of the temporary orders has been marred by conflict over medical
    care, daycare, and parenting time exchanges. . . . Cody has
    scheduled conflicting medical appointments for [the child] and
    provided Sydney and her attorney with, at best, inaccurate
    information about medical care he had arranged for [the child]. He
    reported Sydney to [the Iowa Department of Human Services
    (D.H.S.)] for child abuse based upon scratches and abrasions that a
    doctor concluded were “not suspicious.” Cody reported . . . [the
    child’s] daycare provider and by all accounts highly qualified and very
    responsible, to D.H.S. for having too many children at her daycare
    contrary to D.H.S. rules or regulations. Cody filed this report even
    though it appears that [the parties’ child] may have been the child
    that resulted in the alleged violation. Cody contacted Sydney’s
    landlord alleging that Sydney was not accurately reporting her
    income and suggesting that she was not eligible for the low-income
    apartment or her rent should be raised. This action was vindictive
    and mean-spirited, and not justified by any legitimate goal.
    The court noted another problem area “was Sydney’s relationship with
    Cody’s family, primarily his mother and three older sisters. . . . Suffice it to say that
    the relationship between Sydney and Cody’s family is not good.” The court found
    “Sydney objected to Cody delegating his parental duties to his family” and believed
    “Cody uses his family as a crutch to avoid performing the duties she believes he
    should be doing.” The court found that contrary to Cody’s claim that this evidence
    tended to prove that Sydney could not support his relationship with the child,
    Sydney has attempted to support that relationship.              Most
    significantly, even after being granted temporary physical care, she
    remained in Indianola rather than move to Kalona where her family
    resides. According to her, this was so that [the child] would remain
    close to Cody and so that Cody would be able to exercise his
    scheduled visitation.
    Based on these findings of fact, the district court found joint legal custody
    was not feasible, explaining:
    The parties agree that they have demonstrated virtually no
    ability to communicate constructively about issues related to [their
    child]. Cody has demonstrated a pattern of behavior that prevents
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    these parties from making joint decisions regarding [the child’s]
    medical care, daycare, and daily routine. Though he has ostensibly
    attempted to participate in some of these decisions, his participation
    has been at cross-purposes with Sydney and does not evidence a
    desire to cooperate and work with her. The evidence strongly
    supports the conclusion that his conduct has been motivated
    primarily to control Sydney, create the appearance of involvement,
    and construct a case for primary physical care. It would be
    problematic to extend joint legal custody permanently thus
    prolonging the conflict relating to [the child’s] medical care, daycare,
    and daily routine.
    In some cases, a high level of conflict is directly related to the
    separation or pending litigation, and in those cases sometimes there
    is evidence that the conflict will subside over time. In those cases
    joint legal custody may be appropriate despite the high level of
    conflict. In light of this record, I cannot conclude that it is foreseeable
    that the conflict between these parties will subside over time to the
    point where they can effectively cooperate in making joint decisions
    about [the child’s] health, education and welfare. The conflict in this
    relationship involves [the child’s] care directly, not tangentially.
    Continuing joint legal custody will more likely than not prolong the
    conflict.
    Upon our de novo review of the record, we defer to the district court’s
    credibility assessments and conclude the district court’s factual findings were fully
    supported by the record. We agree with the court that Cody’s actions show joint
    legal custody was not a viable option here. We note that our decision on de novo
    review to affirm the award of sole legal custody to Sydney does not seek to punish
    Cody, but rather our effort to provide for their child’s best interests. For these
    reasons, we affirm the district court’s ruling awarded Sydney sole legal custody of
    the parties’ child.
    C. Contempt.
    Cody also contends the district court abused its discretion in finding him in
    contempt for failing to pay court ordered attorney fees. Iowa Code section 598.23
    provides that a court may cite and punish persons for contempt if they willfully
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    disobey a temporary or final order or decree. “If the party alleging contempt can
    show a violation of a court order, the burden shifts to the alleged contemner to
    produce evidence suggesting the violation was not willful.” 
    Ary, 735 N.W.2d at 624
    . “There are two ways in which the contemner may show that a failure to
    comply with a court order was not willful: (1) the order was indefinite; or (2) the
    contemner was unable to perform the act ordered.” Farrell v. Iowa Dist. Ct., 
    747 N.W.2d 789
    , 790-91 (Iowa Ct. App. 2008) (citation omitted). “When a party claims
    an inability to pay, the test is whether there is any property out of which payment
    can be made, not merely whether the party claiming an inability to pay is presently
    working or has current funds or cash on hand.” 
    Ary, 735 N.W.2d at 625
    .
    Our review of a district court’s contempt ruling under chapter 598 is highly
    deferential. See 
    Swan, 526 N.W.2d at 327
    . Under Swan, the trial court may
    consider all the circumstances, not just whether a willful violation has been proven
    in deciding whether to impose punishment for contempt. See id.; see also In re
    Marriage of Jones, No. 17-1113, 
    2018 WL 2725371
    , at *1 (Iowa Ct. App. June 6,
    2018) (discussing Swan). Even if the elements of contempt exist, the trial court
    has discretion to determine whether the court should hold the contemner in
    contempt. See
    id. Sydney testified
    Cody had not paid the attorney fees the court ordered
    within the time ordered to pay, meeting her prima facie burden of showing Cody
    violated the court’s order. Cody testified at trial he lacked the ability to pay Sydney
    the court-ordered attorney fees at that time, explaining his monthly expenses
    exceeded his net monthly income. He said would have paid them had he had the
    ability to pay. He noted he had made a few payments since he was ordered to do
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    so. The district court was not convinced and concluded “the evidence did establish
    beyond a reasonable doubt that Cody was in willful and wanton disregard of that
    temporary order by failing to pay the amount ordered or, at the very least, a
    significantly greater amount than he has in fact paid.”
    Upon our de novo review, we find substantial evidence supports the trial
    court’s determination that Cody willfully failed to pay the amount ordered by the
    court. Although Cody presented evidence of financial hardship, there was also
    evidence that Cody had been under employed over the summer and that Cody
    was not paying all the expenses he claimed, which would have freed-up some
    money to comply with the court’s order. Cody chose to favor his personal monthly
    expenses, such as internet and telephone service, over his court-ordered
    obligation to Sydney. If Cody could not pay, he should have notified the court and
    requested the court’s ordered payment plan be revised or made other
    arrangements for paying the ordered amount. Cody was not free to simply not pay
    the amount ordered and do nothing. Upon our de novo review, we cannot say the
    district court abused its discretion in finding Cody willfully and wantonly
    disregarded its order and holding Cody in contempt under these facts.
    D. Trial Attorney Fees.
    Cody asserts the district court abused its discretion in awarding Sydney trial
    attorney fees in the amount of $7500. The “abuse of discretion” standard is our
    most deferential standard of review. See State v. Roby, 
    897 N.W.2d 127
    , 137
    (Iowa 2017). “Trial courts have considerable discretion in awarding attorney fees.”
    In re Marriage of Witten, 
    672 N.W.2d 768
    , 784 (Iowa 2003) (quoting In re Marriage
    of Guyer, 
    522 N.W.2d 818
    , 822 (Iowa 1994)).           The fees must be fair and
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    reasonable and whether they should be awarded depends on the respective
    abilities of the parties to pay. See
    id. Upon our
    de novo review, we cannot say the district court abused its
    discretion in its attorney fee award. The court considered the requisite factors. We
    therefore affirm the award of attorney fees.
    E. Appellate Attorney Fees.
    Both parties request appellate attorney fees. “In a proceeding to determine
    custody or visitation, . . . the court may award the prevailing party reasonable
    attorney fees.” Iowa Code § 600B.26. “An award of appellate attorney fees is
    within the discretion of the appellate court.” In re Petition of Fiscus, 
    819 N.W.2d 420
    , 425 (Iowa Ct. App. 2012) (citation omitted). In determining whether to award
    attorney fees, we consider “the needs of the party making the request, the ability
    of the other party to pay, and whether the party making the request was obligated
    to defend the trial court’s decision on appeal.”
    Id. (citation omitted).
    Cody is not a prevailing party and is therefore not entitled to the award of
    appellate attorney fees. After considering the appropriate factors, we decline to
    award Sydney attorney fees. Any costs are assessed equally to the parties.
    III. Conclusion.
    Upon our de novo review of the entire record and considering the relevant
    law, we conclude the district court did not err or abuse its discretion in admitting
    the custody evaluator’s report into evidence. In any event, because our review is
    de novo and consideration of the report is unnecessary to reach the issues present
    here, we do not consider the report in our decision.
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    On the issues over sole legal custody, we reject Cody’s challenge to the
    sole custody award for lack of adequate notice, and we agree with the court that
    Cody’s actions show joint legal custody was not a viable option here. Additionally,
    upon our review, we cannot say the district court abused its discretion in finding
    Cody willfully and wantonly disregarded its prior ruling that ordered Cody to pay an
    amount of Sydney’s attorney fees by a certain date. Finally, we cannot find the
    district court abused its discretion in awarding Sydney trial attorney fees. For all
    of these reasons, we affirm the district court’s custody ruling in all respects. We
    decline to award appellate attorney fees. Any costs on appeal are assessed
    equally to the parties.
    AFFIRMED.