In The Matter of Ian B. ( 2017 )


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  •                                                                                                             09/13/2017
    IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
    AT NASHVILLE
    Assigned on Briefs June 1, 2017
    IN THE MATTER OF IAN B. ET AL.
    Appeal from the Chancery Court for Rutherford County
    No. 12CV-582      Howard W. Wilson, Chancellor
    No. M2016-02504-COA-R3-PT
    This is Father’s second appeal of the termination of his parental rights to the two children
    he had with his former wife (“Mother”). Father and Mother separated in 2008 when she
    moved from Alaska to Tennessee with the children, and they were granted a divorce in
    2009. Father has not seen nor spoken with the children since 2008, and has not provided
    any financial support since November 2009. The petition to terminate Father’s parental
    rights was filed by Mother and her husband in 2012. In Father’s first appeal, we
    remanded the case in order to obtain a sufficient record for this court to review on appeal.
    In re Ian B., No. M2015-01079-COA-R3-PT, 
    2016 WL 2865875
    (Tenn. Ct. App. May
    11, 2016). On remand, the trial court found that the petitioners had proven grounds of
    abandonment for failure to visit and support and that termination of Father’s parental
    rights was in the best interest of the children. This appeal followed. Having determined
    that the record in this second appeal is sufficient for this court to conduct a proper review,
    we affirm the judgment of the trial court.
    Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Chancery Court Affirmed
    FRANK G. CLEMENT JR., P.J., M.S., delivered the opinion of the Court, in which THOMAS
    R. FRIERSON II and BRANDON O. GIBSON, JJ., joined.
    Daniel Lyn Graves II, Murfreesboro, Tennessee, for the appellant, Kenny B.1
    Steven C. Girksy, Clarksville, Tennessee, for the appellees, Corey D. and Amy D.
    1
    This court has a policy of protecting the identity of children in parental termination cases by initializing
    the last names of the parties.
    OPINION
    At issue in this case are the parental rights of Kenny B. (“Father”) with regard to
    two of his children, Ian B. and Isaac B. (collectively “the Children”). In April 2005, Amy
    D. (“Mother”) and Father married. Their marital relationship, however, was short-lived
    and unstable.2 Mother and Father originally resided in Arizona but moved when Father
    was arrested and extradited to Alaska on robbery charges. Mother, while pregnant with
    their youngest child, left Father in 2006 to travel to Florida but returned to Alaska in
    2007. In November 2008, Mother again left Father, this time permanently. At the time of
    the move, Ian was one year old, and Isaac was just shy of three years old. Mother moved
    with the Children to Murfreesboro, Tennessee, where they remained until 2014 when
    they moved to Smyrna, Tennessee with Mother’s current husband, Corey D.
    In December 2008, Father filed a divorce action in Juneau, Alaska. As a part of the
    divorce petition, Father signed and attached an affidavit, which listed the address of
    Mother in Murfreesboro.3
    In February 2009, Mother filed an ex parte order of protection in Tennessee
    against Father alleging Father made threatening phone calls and that he instructed
    individuals in Tennessee to threaten Mother. The hearing was held on February 17, 2009.
    Father did not appear. It is unclear, however, if Father ever received notice of this
    hearing. Along with the ex parte order, Mother filed a petition for an order of protection.
    Father did not file an answer to the petition or appear at the hearing on the order of
    protection, which was heard in Tennessee in April 2009.4 In the resulting order, the trial
    court required Father to complete anger management classes. Father has yet to attend or
    even attempt to attend and complete these classes.
    In the interim, in March 2009, Father was attacked and severely beaten outside of
    his work place in Alaska. He was taken by helicopter to the hospital where he spent the
    next four months recovering. Father sustained a mental impairment that caused a
    multitude of physical and mental problems. Specifically, Father testified that he was
    2
    In Mother and Father’s 2009 Property Settlement, Child Custody, and Support Agreement, the Alaska
    trial court found that Father had previously abused Mother.
    3
    This fact is important for the analysis of this case because at trial Father argued that he did not know
    where Mother and Children were located.
    4
    This stems from the date the order was entered (April 21, 2009) and that the Petitioners, Mother and
    Corey D., stated in their brief that the hearing was held on that date. However, no testimony in the trial
    court directly addressed the hearing date. As explained in the next paragraph, Father was in the hospital in
    both February and April and therefore could not have appeared for either hearing.
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    diagnosed with agoraphobia,5 obsessive compulsive disorder, and post-traumatic stress
    syndrome.
    Mother and Father’s divorce was finalized in June 2009, with Mother receiving
    full custody of the Children. Father was ordered to attend an intervention for batterers
    course due to the Alaska court’s finding that Father had abused Mother during the
    marriage. The Alaska court further ordered that any visitation was to take place only after
    completion of this course, that visitation was in the sole discretion of Mother, and that
    only supervised visitation was allowed without a court order. As with the ordered anger
    management courses, Father has yet to attempt to attend and complete this intervention
    program. The Alaska court also ordered Father to pay child support. He made sporadic
    support payments from June 2007 through November 2009, but he has not made any
    support payments since November 2009.
    After Father was released from the Alaska hospital, he moved to Arizona to live
    with his father, who arranged the move. Father received extensive rehabilitation while in
    Arizona where he was under the care of a psychiatrist, a physical therapist, and a home-
    care nurse. During his rehabilitation, Father applied for and received Supplemental
    Security Income (“SSI”). Father lived in Arizona until January 2010 when he moved to
    Arkansas to live with his sister.
    In 2011, both Mother and Father found new romantic partners. Mother
    subsequently married Corey D. (“Stepfather”), with whom she and the Children currently
    live in Smyrna, Tennessee. Father, after dating Kelly S. (“Kelly”) for a period of time
    while still residing with his sister, moved out of his sister’s home to reside with Kelly and
    two of his children from a previous relationship.6 Father and Kelly currently reside in a
    home in Arkansas that Kelly purchased from the estate of Father’s grandmother for
    $80,000. Kelly is the sole owner of the home.
    On March 12, 2012, Mother and Stepfather sent a letter to Father requesting his
    consent to terminate his parental rights and allow Stepfather to adopt the Children. Father
    refused to consent. On April 12, 2012, Mother and Stepfather filed a petition to terminate
    Father’s parental rights on the ground of abandonment and for Stepfather to adopt the
    Children.
    The testimony at trial revealed that Father’s physical and mental condition had
    dramatically improved by 2011. Father was able to attend Pulaski Tech in Little Rock,
    5
    “The word agoraphobia is derived from Greek words literally meaning ‘fear of the marketplace.’ The
    term is used to describe an irrational and often disabling fear of being out in public.” See Agoraphobia,
    Gale Encyclopedia of Medicine, 1919600048 (4th Ed. 2012).
    6
    Father apparently has six children: the two children at issue in this case, two sons from another
    relationship, one daughter from a different relationship, and one other son.
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    Arkansas and graduate with an associate’s degree in hydrographics;7 however, Father did
    not obtain a job after graduation. In fact, Father turned down job offers because he and
    Kelly had plans to open a business in the near future in which Kelly would own the
    business and employ Father.8 Father also testified that even though he was given job
    offers, he was not ready to start working in the auto body painting profession.9
    As for visiting the Children, Father and Kelly testified at trial that they tried to
    initiate contact with Mother through Facebook, but they could not make contact because
    Mother “blocked” each party.10 Father also testified that his two sons from a prior
    marriage attempted to contact Mother via Facebook but again were “blocked.” Father
    also testified that he had a couple of phone conversations with Mother in 2009. Mother’s
    testimony conflicts with these statements. Mother testified that the only attempted contact
    from Father was a Facebook friend request in 2014.
    Following the trial, the court issued an order on March 24, 2015, terminating
    Father’s parental rights and granting Stepfather’s adoption of the Children. Father timely
    appealed that decision. In his first appeal, we vacated the judgment of the trial court and
    remanded the case due to the lack of sufficient record to afford this court the opportunity
    to conduct a meaningful review. In re Ian B., 
    2016 WL 2865875
    . In that opinion, we
    noted that the trial court could require “the preparation of a full transcript or so much of
    the transcript as is germane to the issues Father raises on appeal.” 
    Id. at *2.
    We also
    stated, “[o]nce the transcript is prepared, the chancery court may enter a new order and
    memorandum opinion on the petition to terminate Father’s parental rights and for the
    Stepfather to adopt.” 
    Id. A transcript
    of those proceedings was prepared and submitted to
    the trial court on September 16, 2016, which the trial court certified in accordance with
    Tenn. R. App. P. 24. Thereafter, the trial court issued a Memorandum and Order in which
    it found that Father willfully abandoned the Children and that termination was in the best
    7
    Hydrographics is a type of auto body painting.
    8
    Father testified that Kelly S. was pre-approved for a $100,000 loan which will be used to open a liquor
    store. The new business idea was originally that Kelly S. would open a hydrographics shop but the county
    in which the couple lives recently became wet. Therefore, the couple thinks a liquor store would be more
    lucrative.
    9
    Portion of Father’s testimony:
    Q: “Why haven’t you gotten a job at an auto repair place?”
    A: “Because I’m not ready.”
    Q: “Why aren’t you ready?”
    A: “‘Cause I just graduated.”
    10
    Father testified that when someone “blocks” another on Facebook, the party blocked cannot see
    anything on the other person’s profile, nor can they interact with the person who blocked them.
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    interests of the Children. The trial court also granted Mother and Stepfather’s adoption
    petition.
    Father failed to file his notice of appeal within 30 days on the entry of that order as
    required by Tenn. R. App. P. Rule 4. Nevertheless, on November 3, 2016, Father filed a
    Motion for Rule 60.02 Relief in which he set forth reasons why he was unable to file a
    timely notice of appeal. Namely, Father’s attorney stated the he (the attorney) mistakenly
    took the court’s final order as a memorandum due to the fact the court previously issued a
    memorandum and then a final order. Further, the attorney was out of town and then had
    to fulfill his duties with regard to his military commitment. The trial court agreed with
    Father that this was excusable and granted the Rule 60.02 motion which incorporated the
    September 16, 2016 order. Father filed his notice of appeal within 30 days of the entry of
    that order.
    ISSUES
    1. Whether the trial court abused its discretion in granting Father’s Rule 60.02
    motion.
    2. Whether the trial court properly determined that grounds existed to terminate
    Father’s parental rights.
    3. Whether the trial court properly determined that the termination of Father’s
    parental rights was in the best interests of the Children.
    ANALYSIS
    I. RULE 60.02 MOTION
    Mother argues that the trial court abused its discretion in granting Father’s Rule
    60.02 motion. Specifically, Mother asserts it was an abuse of discretion to grant the Rule
    60.02 motion because Father did not file an affidavit in support of his request for relief
    and Father failed to put forth an affirmative showing of mistake, inadvertence, surprise,
    or excusable neglect. Tenn. R. Civ. P. Rule 60.02 provides:
    On motion and upon such terms as are just, the court may relieve a party or
    the party's legal representative from a final judgment, order or proceeding
    for the following reasons: (1) mistake, inadvertence, surprise or excusable
    neglect; (2) fraud (whether heretofore denominated intrinsic or extrinsic),
    misrepresentation, or other misconduct of an adverse party; (3) the
    judgment is void; (4) the judgment has been satisfied, released or
    discharged, or a prior judgment upon which it is based has been reversed or
    otherwise vacated, or it is no longer equitable that a judgment should have
    prospective application; or (5) any other reason justifying relief from the
    operation of the judgment.
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    Tenn. R. Civ. P. 60.02. While not expressly stated in the rules, it is “universally
    recognized that, as a condition to obtaining relief, the defendant, in addition to showing
    that his default was brought about by mistake, inadvertence or excusable neglect, must
    also demonstrate that he has a meritorious defense to the plaintiff’s claim . . . .” Patterson
    v. Rockwell Intern., 
    665 S.W.2d 96
    , 100 (Tenn. 1984). When determining whether
    neglect is excusable the court is to consider the equities of the case, including: the (1)
    danger of unfair prejudice, (2) the length of delay and its potential impact on proceedings,
    (3) the reason why the filing was late and whether that reason or reasons were within the
    filer’s reasonable control, and (4) the filer’s good or bad faith. See Ferguson v. Brown,
    
    291 S.W.3d 381
    , 388 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2009).
    In analyzing the equities of the case, the trial court found the danger of unfair
    prejudice was minimal, the length of delay due to an extension was small compared to the
    overall period, Father’s counsel’s mistake was reasonable, and the equities weighed in
    favor of Father. The main area of contention between the parties revolved around
    Father’s counsel (“Counsel”). The trial court stated that Counsel’s mistake in not filing a
    timely appeal was excusable for a number of reasons:
    ....
    3. Counsel for the Respondent represents to the Court that his mistaken
    disregard for the Court’s September 23, 2016, [order] was on several
    factors. One, the Court’s Memorandum Opinion of March 24, 2015 did not
    contain an Order effectuating the ruling of the Court. That document
    requested Counsel for Petitioners to prepare such Order. Because the Court
    essentially reissued its previous Memorandum Opinion on September 23,
    2016 (save for the addition of an Order catalyzing the ruling), Counsel was
    under the mistaken belief that the document once again instructed
    Petitioner’s Counsel to prepare the final Order. The Court believes this was
    a justifiable mistake; however, this alone does not convince the Court that
    60.02 relief should be granted.
    4. After the entry of the Memorandum and Order (and its issuance on
    September 27, 2016), Counsel for the Respondent received the document
    on the same date he was scheduled to leave the country. Counsel was
    abroad between September 28, 2016 and October 10, 2016. When he
    returned, Counsel was once again taken from his work between October 21,
    2016 and October 30, 2016, as he was under order to present himself for
    military service.
    5. Matters regarding counsel’s mistaken identification of the Memorandum
    and Order are further complicated by the slow communications between the
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    Respondent and his attorney. Because of the slow communications, when
    Respondent’s counsel received the Court’s Memorandum and Order of
    September 23, 2016, he contacted the Respondent only to find himself
    leaving a message for Respondent that would need to be returned.
    A grant or denial of a Rule 60.02 motion is within the sound discretion of the trial
    judge. Underwood v. Zurich Ins. Co., 
    854 S.W.2d 94
    , 97 (Tenn. 1993). Discretionary
    decisions require “a conscientious judgment, consistent with the facts, that takes into
    account the applicable law.” White v. Beeks, 
    469 S.W.3d 517
    , 527 (Tenn. 2015) (citing
    Lee Med. Inc. v. Beecher, 
    312 S.W.3d 515
    , 524 (Tenn. 2010)). Discretionary decisions
    are reviewed pursuant to the “abuse of discretion” standard of review. Lee Med., Inc. v.
    Beecher, 
    312 S.W.3d 515
    , 524 (Tenn. 2010). The abuse of discretion standard does not
    permit reviewing courts to substitute their discretion for the trial court. 
    Id. Nevertheless, the
    abuse of discretion standard of review does not immunize a lower court’s decision
    from any meaningful appellate scrutiny. 
    Id. Discretionary decisions
    must take the applicable law and the relevant facts
    into account. An abuse of discretion occurs when a court strays beyond the
    applicable legal standards or when it fails to properly consider the factors
    customarily used to guide the particular discretionary decision. A court
    abuses its discretion when it causes an injustice to the party challenging the
    decision by (1) applying an incorrect legal standard, (2) reaching an
    illogical or unreasonable decision, or (3) basing its decision on a clearly
    erroneous assessment of the evidence.
    [R]eviewing courts should review a [trial] court’s discretionary decision to
    determine (1) whether the factual basis for the decision is properly
    supported by evidence in the record, (2) whether the [trial] court properly
    identified and applied the most appropriate legal principles applicable to the
    decision, and (3) whether the [trial] court’s decision was within the range of
    acceptable alternative dispositions. When called upon to review a lower
    court’s discretionary decision, the reviewing court should review the
    underlying factual findings using the preponderance of the evidence
    standard contained in Tenn. R. App. P. 13(d) and should review the [trial]
    court’s legal determinations de novo without any presumption of
    correctness.
    
    Id. at 524-25
    (internal citations omitted).
    Therefore, we review the trial court’s decision to grant Father’s Rule 60.02 motion
    to determine whether there is a factual basis for the decision in the record, whether the
    court properly identified and applied the applicable legal principles, and whether the
    decision is within the range of acceptable alternative dispositions. 
    Id. at 524.
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    Here, there clearly is a factual basis for the trial court’s decision. Furthermore, the
    trial court properly applied the applicable legal principles, and the court’s decision to
    grant the motion was within the range of acceptable alternative dispositions. Specifically,
    the court relied on the justifiable excuse in this case and Counsel’s military service to this
    country which caused delay in his understanding that he actually had received the trial
    court’s order. Also, Mother’s reliance on Counsel’s failure to attach an affidavit does not
    provide grounds for reversal of the trial court’s decision. Therefore, we find no abuse of
    discretion.
    II. TERMINATION OF PARENTAL RIGHTS
    Parents have a fundamental right to the care, custody, and control of their children
    under both the United States and Tennessee Constitutions. Keisling v. Keisling, 
    92 S.W.3d 374
    , 378 (Tenn. 2002) (citing Stanley v. Illinois, 
    405 U.S. 645
    , 651-52 (1972)).
    This right “is among the oldest of the judicially recognized liberty interests protected by
    the Due Process Clauses of the federal and state constitutions.” In re Audrey S., 
    182 S.W.3d 838
    , 860 (Tenn. 2005). While this right is superior to the claims of other persons
    and the government, it is not absolute; the state may terminate a person’s parental rights
    under certain circumstances. In re Heaven L.F., 
    311 S.W.3d 435
    , 438 (Tenn. Ct. App.
    2010); Santosky v. Kramer, 
    455 U.S. 745
    , 747-48 (1982).
    Under Tennessee law, “[t]o terminate parental rights, a trial court must determine
    by clear and convincing evidence not only the existence of at least one of the statutory
    grounds for termination but also that termination is in the child’s best interest.” In re
    F.R.R., III, 
    193 S.W.3d 528
    , 530 (Tenn. 2006); In re Valentine, 
    79 S.W.3d 539
    , 546
    (Tenn. 2002) (citing Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(c)). We review findings of fact made
    by the trial court de novo upon the record “accompanied by a presumption of the
    correctness of the finding, unless the preponderance of the evidence is otherwise.” In re
    
    F.R.R., 193 S.W.3d at 530
    (quoting Tenn. R. App. P. 13(d)).
    However, because of the heightened burden of proof in termination proceedings,
    this court must make its own determination “as to whether the facts, either as found by
    the trial court or as supported by a preponderance of the evidence, amount to clear and
    convincing evidence of the elements necessary to terminate parental rights.” In re
    Carrington H., 
    483 S.W.3d 507
    , 524 (Tenn. 2016); In re Bernard T., 
    319 S.W.3d 586
    ,
    596-97 (Tenn. 2010). The trial court’s ruling regarding whether the evidence sufficiently
    supported termination is a conclusion of law, which we review de novo with no
    presumption of correctness. See In re Carrington 
    H., 483 S.W.3d at 524
    .
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    A. ABANDONMENT
    The trial court found that the petitioners proved two grounds of abandonment of
    the Children under Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(g)(1). More specifically, the court found
    that Father had abandoned the Children “as no support or care of any type or sort has
    been rendered or paid for the benefit of the minor children by [Father] within the past
    four (4) months as provided in Tennessee Code Annotated § 36-1-102(1)(A) and § 36-1-
    113 (g)(1). There has been no support and only ‘token’ visitation as provided for in
    Tennessee Code Annotated § 36-1-102(1)(A) and § 36-1-113(g)(9)(A)(iii).” We agree.
    Under Tennessee law, for purposes of terminating a parent’s parental rights,
    “abandonment” is defined as:
    (i) For a period of four (4) consecutive months immediately preceding the
    filing of a proceeding or pleading to terminate the parental rights of the
    parent or parents or the guardian or guardians of the child who is subject of
    the petition for termination of parental rights or adoption, that the parent or
    parents or the guardian or guardians either have willfully failed to visit or
    have willfully failed to support or have willfully failed to make reasonable
    payments toward the support of the child
    Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-102 (1)(A)(i). “Failure to visit or support a child is ‘willful’
    when a person is aware of his or her duty to visit or support, has the capacity to do so,
    makes no attempt to do so, and has no justifiable excuse for not doing so.” In re Audrey
    S., 182 S.W.3d. at 864.
    In this case, Father argues that the trial court erred in terminating his parental
    rights on the grounds of abandonment. Father’s arguments all stem from his March 2009
    attack and the injuries suffered from that attack. Father states that he could not have acted
    willfully because (1) he was unable to provide for his Children, (2) he did not know the
    Children’s location, and (3) Mother never provided Father with where the Children were
    located and Mother thwarted Father’s attempts to contact the Children. Mother, however,
    argues the trial court did not err because the undisputed facts dismiss Father’s first two
    arguments. Mother did not address Father’s third argument in her brief.
    1. Willful Failure to Support
    It is undisputed that Father provided no support for the benefit of the Children
    since November 2009. Thus, the issue is whether his failure to support the Children was
    willful.
    Although an education is a great investment, here, Father’s investment in himself
    did not excuse the obligation to support the Children. While it is true that Father is
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    disabled and has limited means, Father had the ability to obtain work within the relevant
    four (4) month period but simply chose not to.11 This is a prime example of willful
    action.12
    Father was fully aware of his duty to support his children as he was ordered by the
    Alaska court to pay support which he paid, albeit sporadically, from 2007 to November
    2009. Although Father was temporarily unable to work, for which he received SSI, it is
    undisputed that he had made a remarkable recovery by 2011. In fact, he had recovered to
    the extent he was able to attend college and earn an associate’s degree. Despite his degree
    and his mental and physical recuperation, Father admitted that he declined employment
    opportunities because he wanted to wait for his girlfriend, Kelly, to open a business
    where he planned to work. The problem with his deferred plan of employment is that he
    was under an affirmative duty to financially support the Children yet he elected to avoid
    employment that would have enabled him to do so during the period of time relevant to
    this issue.
    Therefore, we affirm the trial court’s finding that the petitioners proved by clear
    and convincing evidence that Father willfully failed to support the Children.
    2. Willful Failure to Visit
    In 2009, and possibly as late as 2010, while Father was recuperating from his
    injuries, Father may not have had the ability to travel to Tennessee to visit the Children.
    This limitation, however, did not restrict his ability to send them letters or to speak with
    them by phone. Nevertheless, he did neither during this period. Moreover, he recuperated
    sufficiently by 2011 to travel to Tennessee to visit the Children yet he made no attempts
    to do so. Furthermore, his excuses, that he did not know where the Children were or that
    Mother prevented visitation, are unpersuasive. To the contrary, Father’s recovery, as
    evidenced by his ability to care for his other children as well as his ability to attend
    college and obtain an associate’s degree, clearly and convincingly prove that he had the
    ability to visit the Children prior to and during the relevant four-month period.
    Father argues that Mother thwarted his attempts to contact the Children and that
    Mother did not provide “a way or notice for [Father] to know where his children were.”
    Father, his girlfriend Kelly, and his sister testified that each of them tried to contact
    Mother through Facebook, but Mother denied these statements. Father even testified that
    11
    “The statutory definition of ‘abandonment’ requires us to focus on the ‘period of four (4) consecutive
    months immediately preceding the filing of a proceeding or pleading to terminate the parental rights[.]’”
    In re Jaylah W., 
    486 S.W.3d 537
    , 547–48 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2015) (citing Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-
    102(1)(A)(i)). Therefore, the relevant time period in this case is December 2011 – April 2012.
    12
    “[W]illful conduct involves acts or failures to act that are intentional or voluntary rather than accidental
    or inadvertent.” In Re S.M., 
    149 S.W.3d 632
    , 642 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2004).
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    he spoke with Mother in 2009 about talking to the Children. Mother also denied this
    statement.
    While Father contends he did not know where the Children were, in December
    2008 Father signed an affidavit in his petition for divorce in which he listed the address
    of Mother and the Children in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, and Mother and Children
    remained at this address from December 2008 to 2014. Nevertheless, Father claimed he
    was confused about the location of the Children and that he no longer had the affidavit
    because his father moved “what he could” of Father’s from Alaska to Arizona which,
    apparently, did not include the affidavit. We find this excuse wholly inadequate because
    Father could have contacted the Alaska court or his previous attorney to obtain the
    information he claimed Mother kept from him. Moreover, when cross-examined about
    whether he had the ability to obtain the affidavit from his lawyer, Father admitted that,
    “[n]othing would’ve stopped me. Yes, I could’ve got the address.” Therefore, Father’s
    claim that he did not have the Children’s address or that Mother somehow thwarted his
    attempts to visit or communicate with the Children is without merit.
    As for the allegations that Mother interfered with or prevented visitation, we find
    this without merit because Father always had the opportunity to seek the assistance of the
    court, but he never did. Although this court has refused to find willful abandonment
    where a parent has been thwarted in visitation efforts, the facts of this case do not support
    the conclusion that Father’s action should be excused. See In re Adoption of A.M.H., 
    215 S.W.3d 793
    , 810-11 (Tenn. 2007) (holding parents did not willfully abandon their child
    even though the parents had not seen the child in four months due, in part, to the parents’
    actions in seeking judicial assistance). Therefore, Father’s claim that he did not have the
    Children’s address or that Mother somehow thwarted his attempts to visit the Children is
    meritless.
    The evidence in the record also proves that Father’s failure to visit the Children
    during the relevant four-month period was self-inflicted and not due to the actions of
    Mother. This conclusion is based on the following undisputed facts:
    1. Father never complied with the 2009 Alaska Property Settlement, Child
    Custody, and Support Agreement which required Father to complete
    intervention for batterers before he could seek visitation with the
    Children at Mother’s sole discretion.
    2. Father never completed anger management which was ordered by the
    Tennessee court as part of Mother’s Order of Protection.13
    3. The trial court’s finding that Father never sent any type of gift, card, etc.
    to the Children.
    13
    While it is clear Father was unable to attend this hearing because he was hospitalized, he never
    challenged the ruling when he had the ability to do so.
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    4. Father lived approximately six (6) hours away from Murfreesboro, yet
    he never attempted to see his children. This is true even though Father
    was able to move from Alaska to Arizona and Arizona to Arkansas.
    5. Father never attempted to seek judicial assistance in visiting his
    children.
    Therefore, we affirm the trial court’s finding that Father willfully failed to visit
    during the requisite period.
    B. BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILDREN
    To terminate parental rights, a court must determine not only that the evidence
    provides clear and convincing proof that grounds for termination exist, but also that
    termination is in the child’s best interests. Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(c)(1)-(2). If one
    of the statutory grounds for termination is proven by clear and convincing evidence, a
    parent’s rights may be terminated if termination is in the best interests of the child. In re
    D.L.B., 
    118 S.W.3d 360
    , 367 (Tenn. 2003).
    The legislature has identified nine statutory factors for the court to consider in
    conducting a best-interests analysis, see Tenn. Code Ann. § 36-1-113(i); however, this
    list is not exhaustive, and the court need not find the existence of every factor before it
    may conclude that terminating an individual’s parental rights is in the best interests of a
    child. In re M.A.R., 
    183 S.W.3d 652
    , 667 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005). Instead, “[t]he relevancy
    and weight to be given each factor depends on the unique facts of each case.” In re
    Audrey S., 
    182 S.W.3d 838
    , 878 (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005). Further, in considering a petition
    to terminate parental rights, the court is called to make a determination of the child’s best
    interests from the perspective of the child rather than the parent. In re Heaven 
    L.F., 311 S.W.3d at 441
    . The factors listed under Tennessee Code Annotated § 36-1-113(i) are as
    follows:
    (1) Whether the parent or guardian has made such an adjustment of
    circumstance, conduct, or conditions as to make it safe and in the child's best
    interest to be in the home of the parent or guardian;
    (2) Whether the parent or guardian has failed to effect a lasting adjustment
    after reasonable efforts by available social services agencies for such
    duration of time that lasting adjustment does not reasonably appear possible;
    (3) Whether the parent or guardian has maintained regular visitation or other
    contact with the child;
    (4) Whether a meaningful relationship has otherwise been established
    between the parent or guardian and the child;
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    (5) The effect a change of caretakers and physical environment is likely to
    have on the child's emotional, psychological and medical condition;
    (6) Whether the parent or guardian, or other person residing with the parent
    or guardian, has shown brutality, physical, sexual, emotional or
    psychological abuse, or neglect toward the child, or another child or adult in
    the family or household;
    (7) Whether the physical environment of the parent's or guardian's home is
    healthy and safe, whether there is criminal activity in the home, or whether
    there is such use of alcohol or controlled substances or controlled substances
    analogues as may render the parent or guardian consistently unable to care
    for the child in a safe and stable manner;
    (8) Whether the parent's or guardian's mental and/or emotional status would
    be detrimental to the child or prevent the parent or guardian from effectively
    providing safe and stable care and supervision for the child; or
    (9) Whether the parent or guardian has paid child support consistent with the
    child support guidelines promulgated by the department pursuant to § 36-5-
    101.
    In this case, the trial court analyzed each of the nine listed factors and concluded
    that termination of Father’s parental rights was in the best interests of the Children. We
    agree.
    First, the trial court found that even though Father’s condition had dramatically
    improved, it could not find the increase in stability in Father’s environment to be in the
    best interests of the Children. The trial court relied on the fact that the Children are
    currently very comfortable and that the home of Mother and Stepfather is very stable.
    The evidence clearly supports this finding; thus, this factor weighs in favor of terminating
    Father’s rights.
    Next, the trial court found that Father has not taken the necessary steps to show a
    lasting adjustment in his life. To support this conclusion, the court relied on the facts that
    Father failed to complete the anger management classes or the intervention program
    ordered by the Tennessee and Alaska courts, respectively, over five years ago. The
    evidence also clearly supports this finding. Therefore, this factor also weights in favor of
    terminating Father’s rights.
    In addressing the third factor, the trial court found it weighed heavily in favor of
    terminating Father’s rights. The court stated, “[i]n fact, [Father] has had no visitation and
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    has maintained no contact even though he certainly had the opportunity to.” Although
    Father suffered a disabling attack in March 2009, he made a significant recovery as early
    as 2011; however, his only attempts to contact the Children were through occasional
    Facebook messages and a couple of phone calls to Mother in 2009.
    As for the fourth factor, the trial court found that it also weighed in favor of
    terminating Father’s rights. We agree. As the trial court stated, “Not only has [Father]
    made no contact with the children in nearly six years, he has failed to even attempt to
    establish any meaningful relationship with them.” This is supported by testimony that the
    only attempts Father has made to contact the Children were through occasional Facebook
    messages and phone calls to Mother in 2009.
    The trial court found, and we agree, that a change of caretakers and physical
    environment would likely have a negative effect on the children. The Children have
    resided with Mother and Stepfather since 2011. The trial court found that the Children
    were happy and well-adjusted to their current living arrangement. Further, “[b]ecause
    they are so young when they last had any contact with their father, they hardly know him,
    and they certainly do not know his other children or his current girlfriend.” The evidence
    in the record clearly supports this finding; therefore, this factor weighs in favor of
    terminating of Father’s rights.
    We also agree with the trial court that the sixth factor weighs in favor of
    terminating Father’s rights. Father’s previous physical abuse towards Mother supports
    this conclusion. First, the Alaska court found Father had physically abused Mother and
    ordered him to complete an intervention for batterers, which has yet to be completed.
    Second, the Tennessee court ordered Father to complete anger management courses as a
    part of Mother’s order of protection; however, Father has not completed these courses
    either. Therefore, the sixth factor weighs in favor of terminating Father’s rights.
    The trial court found the seventh and eighth factors to essentially be neutral.
    However, the court stated that “any positive impact that [the seventh] factor has on the
    Court’s analysis of the children’s best interest is negated by other listed factors weighing
    against the Father and his current home life.” In relation to the eighth factor, the court
    simply found Father’s previous psychological and emotional issues no longer appeared
    evident. The evidence clearly supports these conclusions and therefore, these factors do
    not move the scales in either direction for or against termination of Father’s parental
    rights.14
    14
    The court need not find the existence of every factor before it may conclude that terminating an
    individual’s parental rights is in the best interests of a child. See In re M.A.R., 
    183 S.W.3d 652
    , 667
    (Tenn. Ct. App. 2005).
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    The ninth, and final, factor clearly weighs in favor of terminating Father’s rights.
    We agree with the trial court’s analysis:
    It is unmistakably clear from the record that the Father has failed miserably
    at support[sic] his children that are the subject of this proceeding. Although
    his income is meager, he lives with his girlfriend and has few expenses.
    The Court finds that Father was certainly capable of working during the
    relevant period, having earned an associate’s degree. Instead, he has turned
    down a number of jobs for the hope of starting his own business. The Court
    understands this hope to be little more than a pipe dream depriving his
    children of necessary support. For these reasons, the ninth factor is clearly
    against the Father.
    Thus, the ninth factor weighs in favor of terminating Father’s rights; and therefore, we
    affirm the trial court’s ruling that termination of Father’s parental rights is in the
    Children’s best interests.
    IN CONCLUSION
    The judgment of the trial court is affirmed, and this matter is remanded with costs
    of appeal assessed against the appellant, Kenny B.
    ________________________________
    FRANK G. CLEMENT JR., P.J., M.S.
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