Lauren Nicole Billisits v. Nathan George Billisits ( 2023 )

TEXAS COURT OF APPEALS, THIRD DISTRICT, AT AUSTIN
NO. 03-21-00358-CV
Lauren Nicole Billisits, Appellant
v.
Nathan George Billisits, Appellee
FROM THE 169TH DISTRICT COURT OF BELL COUNTY
NO. 315463, THE HONORABLE GORDON G. ADAMS, JUDGE PRESIDING
MEMORANDUM OPINION
Lauren Nicole Billisits (Lauren) appeals from a final decree of divorce. In two
issues, Lauren challenges the portion of the trial court’s divorce decree that appoints Nathan
George Billisits (Nathan) the joint managing conservator with the exclusive right to establish the
primary residence of their two children without geographic restriction.1 Neither party challenges
the trial court’s dissolution of the marriage, its division of the marital estate, or any other portion
of the decree. We will affirm the trial court’s challenged conservatorship determination.
BACKGROUND2
Lauren and Nathan met while in school in Ohio and were married there in August
2014 after Nathan graduated from West Point Academy. Lauren and Nathan are the parents of
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Because the parties share a surname, we will refer to them by their given names for
clarity.
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The information in this section is derived from undisputed evidence presented at trial
and from the court’s unchallenged findings of fact.
two children: N.G.B., a son who was born in February 2015, and A.G.B., a daughter who was
born in January 2017 while Nathan was pursuing his career as an officer in the Army. During
his six-year military career, Nathan was stationed in Georgia and Louisiana. In February 2018,
Nathan was stationed at Fort Hood, Texas, and he and Lauren purchased and lived in a home in
Belton. In August 2019, Lauren began to pursue her nursing degree at Concordia University in
Austin, Texas, with a planned graduation date in December 2020. In September 2019, Lauren
and Nathan agreed that he would leave military service in the fall of 2020. In January 2020,
Lauren informed Nathan that she wanted to separate. Nathan filed for divorce in February 2020
after discovering what he believed to be messages to Lauren from other men on a laptop she had
given him permission to use.
At a bench trial that took place as a series of settings over an 11-month span,
the trial court heard the testimony of Lauren; Nathan; Lauren’s parents; Nathan’s mother; and
Fraser Ramseyer, Lauren’s boyfriend. At conclusion of trial, the court granted the divorce and
dissolved the marriage. The divorce decree appointed Lauren and Nathan as the children’s joint
managing conservators and granted Nathan the exclusive right to designate the children’s
primary residence with no geographic restriction. Lauren timely perfected this appeal.
ANALYSIS
On appeal, Lauren challenges the factual sufficiency of the evidence supporting
the trial court’s order that Nathan have the exclusive right to designate the children’s primary
residence and asserts that the trial court erred by failing to impose a geographical restriction.
Lauren argues that she should have been appointed the conservator with the right to establish
the children’s residence because the children are “more connected” to her than to Nathan and
they are “the most adjusted” living with her. Lauren also argues that the court should have
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established a geographic area within which Nathan could maintain the children’s primary
residence because a move from Austin was not in the children’s best interest.
When a trial court appoints the parents joint managing conservators, it must
designate the parent with the exclusive right to determine the child’s primary residence and
specify either the geographic area for the child’s primary residence or that the child’s primary
residence may be without regard to geographic location. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.134(b)(1). The
best interest of the child shall always be the primary consideration of the court in determining
issues of conservatorship and possession of and access to the child. Id. § 153.002; Lenz v. Lenz,
79 S.W.3d 10, 14 (Tex. 2002). Suits affecting the parent-child relationship are “intensely fact
driven” and require courts to balance many factors. Lenz, 79 S.W.3d at 19.
Trial courts have broad discretion to determine what is in a child’s best interest.
Coleman v. Coleman, 109 S.W.3d 108, 110 (Tex. App.—Austin 2003, no pet.). Similarly, trial
courts have broad discretion in determining whether to specify a geographic limitation on a
child’s primary residence. In re K.L.W., 301 S.W.3d 423, 428 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2009, no
pet.). The trial court is in the best position to observe the witnesses and “can ‘feel’ the forces,
powers, and influences that cannot be discerned by merely reading the record,” and we will not
disturb the trial court’s order on appeal unless the complaining party establishes a clear abuse
of discretion. Echols v. Olivarez, 85 S.W.3d 475, 477 (Tex. App.—Austin 2002, no pet.);
see Worford v. Stamper, 801 S.W.2d 108, 109 (Tex. 1990) (trial court’s determinations on
conservatorship and child support are reviewed for abuse of discretion).
To demonstrate an abuse of discretion, the appellant must show that the trial court
acted in an arbitrary or unreasonable manner, or without regard to guiding principles of law.
Coleman, 109 S.W.3d at 110. In reviewing a trial court’s decision, we should bear in mind that
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the trial court “is in a better position to determine what will be in the best interest of the child
since it faced the parties and their witnesses, observed their demeanor, and had the opportunity to
evaluate the claims made by each parent.” In re J.R.D., 169 S.W.3d 740, 743 (Tex. App.—
Austin 2005, pet. denied). As long as some evidence of a substantive and probative character
exists to support the order, we will not substitute our judgment for the trial court’s. Echols,
85 S.W.3d at 477. The mere fact that a trial court decided an issue in a manner differently from
how an appellate court would under similar circumstances does not establish an abuse of
discretion. Zeifman v. Michels, 212 S.W.3d 582, 587 (Tex. App.—Austin 2006, pet. denied).
Legal and factual sufficiency challenges are factors we consider in assessing
whether the trial court abused its discretion, rather than constituting independent grounds of
error. Id. at 587-88; see J.R.D., 169 S.W.3d at 743. We ask first whether the court had sufficient
information on which to exercise its discretion and second whether it erred in its application
of that discretion. Echols, 85 S.W.3d at 477-78. “The traditional sufficiency review comes
into play with regard to the first question; however, the inquiry does not end there.” Zeifman,
212 S.W.3d at 588 (citing Echols, 85 S.W.3d at 478). The appellate court then determines
whether, based on the evidence, the trial court made a reasonable decision, “that is, that the
court’s decision was neither arbitrary nor unreasonable.” Id. A trial court does not abuse its
discretion as long as some evidence of a probative nature exists to support the court’s decision,
id., and we generally will not find an abuse of discretion when the trial court bases its decision
on conflicting evidence, see In re K.R.P., 80 S.W.3d 669, 674 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.]
2002, pet. denied). When reviewing the evidence for factual sufficiency, we consider and weigh
all the evidence presented and will set aside the trial court’s findings only if they are so contrary
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to the overwhelming weight of the evidence such that they are clearly wrong and unjust.
Zeifman, 212 S.W.3d at 588-89.
Because conservatorship determinations are intensely fact driven, trial courts
generally have wide latitude in determining what is in a child’s best interest. Gillespie v.
Gillespie, 644 S.W.2d 449, 451 (Tex. 1982). In Lenz, the supreme court discussed Texas’s best-
interest standard in the context of a modification suit seeking to relocate the children, noting “the
Legislature’s overarching goals of assuring that children will have frequent and continuing
contact with parents who have shown the ability to act in the best interest of the child and to
provide a safe, stable, and nonviolent environment for the child.” 79 S.W.3d at 14, 16 (citing
Tex. Fam. Code § 153.001(a)); see K.L.W., 301 S.W.3d at 425. The court held that the following
factors were relevant considerations: reasons for and against the move; the effect the move
would have on extended family relationships; its effect on visitation and communication with the
non-custodial parent to maintain a full and continuous relationship with the child; the possibility
of a visitation schedule allowing the continuation of a meaningful relationship between the non-
custodial parent and child; and the nature of the child’s age, community ties, and health and
educational needs. Lenz, 79 S.W.3d at 15-17. Although Lenz was a modification proceeding,
the factors are equally applicable to this original suit for conservatorship in which the proposed
custodial parent has determined an intended relocation destination. See Norman v. Martin,
No. 03-17-00704-CV, 2019 WL 1388719, at *6 (Tex. App.—Austin Mar. 28, 2019, no pet.)
(mem. op.); Deinhart v. McGrath-Stroatman, No. 03-09-00283-CV, 2010 WL 4595708, at *6-7
& n.5 (Tex. App.—Austin Nov. 10, 2010, pet. denied) (mem. op.) (applying Lenz factors to
divorce case in which jury determined that mother should be allowed to relocate children to
California); Morgan v. Morgan, 254 S.W.3d 485, 488 (Tex. App.—Beaumont 2008, no pet.).
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In this case, the trial court entered findings of fact and conclusions of law in
support of its order. Pertinent to the issue of whether Nathan should be the conservator with the
exclusive right to determine the children’s primary residence without geographic restriction, the
trial court’s findings are summarized as follows:
● Nathan and Lauren are from Ohio and were married in August 2014. They are
the parents of two children, N.G.B. and A.G.B. Nathan has been stationed at
various duty stations in the United States during the marriage as well as having
been deployed overseas. Nathan was employed as an active duty officer in the
United States Army stationed at Fort Hood, Texas at the time of the divorce filing
in February 2020.
● N.G.B. and A.G.B.’s paternal and maternal grandparents reside near each other
in Ohio. Both the paternal and maternal grandparents have been actively involved
in the children’s lives, have helped care for the children, and the children have
regularly visited and stayed with or near them in Ohio.
● Nathan and Lauren shared child rearing responsibilities during the marriage up
to the time Nathan was stationed at Fort Hood except when Nathan was deployed,
during which time Lauren was primarily responsible for the children’s care.
Nathan and Lauren and their children lived in a house they purchased in Belton.
In August 2019, Lauren began attending nursing school at Concordia University
in Austin and commuted to classes from Belton. In 2019 and early 2020, Nathan
and Lauren began discussing Nathan’s leaving his military career and determined
that Nathan would leave the army and find a civilian job in August 2020.
● Nathan explored the possibility of civilian employment in Texas and in Ohio,
planning for the family to remain together until he discovered that Lauren had
engaged in extramarital affairs. Nathan initiated a divorce proceeding in February
2020, and he and Lauren agreed that the children would continue to live in the
Belton house and continue to attend their respective schools while the parents
would rotate staying with the children in the Belton home on an equal time basis.
During that time, Lauren leased a condominium in Austin.
● Nathan presented evidence at trial that, during the pendency of the divorce
proceeding, he was primarily responsible for the children due to Lauren’s school
and other social activities. Fraser Ramseyer was called to testify at trial and
stated that he and Lauren had begun a romantic relationship; that he and she had
travelled with the children to Ohio together during a Thanksgiving 2020 trip to
visit Lauren’s parents and his family, who also lived in Ohio; and that he, Lauren,
and the children had stayed in a hotel room together during the trip.
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● The trip to Ohio effectively denied Nathan court-ordered possession of the
children during the Thanksgiving 2020 holiday.
● Ramseyer stayed overnight at Lauren’s residence in Austin on multiple
occasions when Lauren was in possession of the children, in violation of a Bell
County Standing Order. Lauren continued to permit Ramseyer to stay overnight
with her and the children and testified that it would do more harm to the children
to remove Ramseyer from their lives than to follow the Bell County Standing
Order. Lauren testified that she intends to move into a house owned by Ramseyer
and would raise the children in that home. Lauren intends to remain in the Austin
area and does not intend to relocate to Ohio although she testified that she could
obtain a license to work as a nurse in Ohio. Nathan testified that Lauren could
obtain quality employment in the nursing field in Ohio that would allow her to
live in close proximity to the children after the divorce.
● In October 2020, Nathan was offered an executive position at Procter &
Gamble in Cincinnati, Ohio. He accepted the position and relocated to Ohio with
the understanding that the divorce and custody dispute would soon be resolved.
The Covid-19 pandemic emergency orders caused the final hearing to be
conducted remotely over a variety of days spanning from July 9, 2020, to May 17,
2021. In November 2020, the trial court made an Interim Temporary Order
giving Lauren temporary primary residence of the children in order to ensure the
children’s stability while still enabling Nathan to begin employment at Procter &
Gamble.
● Both maternal and paternal grandparents are involved in the children’s lives
both in Ohio and in Texas. Nathan’s mother testified that he has been very
involved in the daily lives of the children and directly responsible for their care.
Lauren testified that she historically has been the parent to arrange and provide
for all medical and dental appointments for the children during the marriage and
that Nathan was a good father capable of taking care of the children’s primary
needs. Nathan testified that he participated significantly in the educational
upbringing of the children since being stationed at Fort Hood and that Lauren was
a good mother to the children but had started frequently staying overnight in
Austin when she enrolled in nursing school.
● Living with Nathan in Ohio would provide structure and stability to the
children. Nathan’s work schedule provides for a more stable schedule for the
children than Lauren’s work schedule. Nathan had the ability to deliver and
retrieve the children from school on a daily basis whereas Lauren relied on child
care or Ramseyer to assist her with transportation. Nathan has arranged for the
children to attend Hopewell Elementary School upon relocation to Ohio.
● Lauren failed to inform Nathan of educational and behavioral issues N.G.B.
was having at school while in her possession in Austin. N.G.B. was struggling
significantly and having significant behavioral problems in the new school.
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Nathan is the party most likely to foster a co-parenting relationship and the most
likely to include the other parent in significant decisions concerning the children.
Neither party has any ties or connections to Texas other than by virtue of
Nathan’s military assignment to Fort Hood. Lauren could relocate to live near the
children in Ohio.
In its conclusions of law, the trial court determined:
It is in the best interest of the children that the father and mother be appointed
joint managing conservators of the children with the father having the exclusive
right to designate the children’s primary residence without regard to geographic
restriction.
The trial court, as the fact finder in this case, is the sole judge of the credibility of the witnesses
and the weight to be given their testimony. See City of Keller v. Wilson, 168 S.W.3d 802, 819
(Tex. 2005). In an appeal from a bench trial, findings of fact are the equivalent of jury answers
to special issues. Lindsey v. Lindsey, 965 S.W.2d 589, 591 (Tex. App.—El Paso 1998, no pet.).
The unchallenged findings of fact are binding on this Court unless the contrary is established
as a matter of law or there is no evidence to support the finding. See McGalliard v. Kuhlmann,
722 S.W.2d 694, 696 (Tex. 1986). This Court cannot substitute its conclusions for those of
the trial court if there is sufficient competent evidence of probative force to support the trial
court’s findings.
The trial court’s extensive findings of fact affirmatively demonstrate that it
considered the relevant factors listed in family code section 153.001(a) and applicable factors
discussed in Holley and Lenz. See Tex. Fam. Code § 153.001(a); Holley v. Adams, 544 S.W.2d
367, 371 (Tex. 1976); Lenz, 79 S.W.3d at 15-16.3 Those findings of fact are supported by the
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The absence of a specific finding on a relevant factor does not show that the trial court
did not consider that factor. See In re Marriage of Walker, No. 07-03-0531-CV, 2005 WL
3488931, at *4 n.3 (Tex. App.—Amarillo Dec. 20, 2005, no pet.) (mem. op.).
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record. Additionally, the findings of fact and the evidence presented at trial support the court’s
conclusion of law that it is in the children’s best interest that Nathan be appointed the joint
managing conservator with the exclusive right to designate the children’s primary residence
without geographic restriction. Specifically, the trial court was presented with evidence of
extended family support for the children in Ohio; the parents’ and children’s familiarity with the
geographic area to which Nathan intends to move; Nathan’s employment opportunities in Ohio;
the children’s and Nathan’s lack of ties to Texas or the Austin area; and Lauren’s ability to work
in Ohio or, alternatively, travel to Ohio, where she has roots and family, to spend time with the
children. The trial court could reasonably have determined that the alternative—living in Austin
with Lauren and her boyfriend in a home owned solely by the boyfriend, continuing to attend a
school where N.G.B. has exhibited significant behavioral difficulties, and living far away from
their father and grandparents—was not in the children’s best interest, even though there was
evidence presented at trial that the children are bonded to both Lauren and her boyfriend and
enjoy activities available in Austin.
In her brief on appeal, Lauren does not challenge any of the trial court’s
underlying findings of fact. Instead, she asserts that she should have been appointed the joint
managing conservator with the exclusive right to establish the children’s primary residence
because (1) there was evidence at trial that she was their primary caregiver since their birth while
Nathan was “largely absent” during his military career; (2) Lauren “has considerably more solo-
parental experience while Nathan has next-to-none”; (3) there was no evidence that Lauren’s
exposing her children to her boyfriend harmed the children in any way; and (4) there was
unrebutted testimony that the children were emotionally bonded with her boyfriend and that their
pooled resources provided a stable, safe, and healthy home. The trial court made extensive
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findings about the parents’ respective parenting abilities, including that Nathan has actively
participated in parenting the children and has been their primary caregiver since Lauren began
attending nursing school. The trial court’s findings also note the family support Nathan will
receive from both paternal and maternal grandparents in Ohio. The evidence Lauren points to
does not establish that the trial court’s findings are unsupported by the evidence admitted at trial
or that its determination that it was in the children’s best interest that Nathan be appointed the
conservator with the right to establish the children’s primary residence was an abuse of its
discretion. In determining which conservator will have the exclusive right to establish primary
residence under section 153.134(b), the trial court is vested with broad discretion. Dennis v.
Smith, 962 S.W.2d 67, 70 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 1997, pet. denied); see Gardner v.
Gardner, 229 S.W.3d 747, 753-54 (Tex. App.—San Antonio 2007, no pet.) (no abuse of
discretion to award husband, non-parent, right to establish primary residence of children without
regard to geographic location); Long v. Long, 144 S.W.3d 64, 70-71 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2004,
no pet.) (affirming trial court’s awarding father right to establish primary residence of children
without regard to geographic location).
Regarding the trial court’s determination not to impose a geographic restriction,
Lauren argues principally that the children are well-settled in Austin and Nathan failed to show
any justifiable reason for relocating to Ohio. The trial court made findings, however, that N.G.B.
was having significant behavioral difficulties at school in Austin; that Nathan had secured an
executive position at a company in Cincinnati, Ohio; that both sets of grandparents resided in
Ohio and had historically been actively involved in the children’s lives; and that Lauren could
also relocate to live near the children in Ohio but instead intends to remain in Austin. The trial
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court found that Nathan was more likely to foster a co-parenting relationship and include the
other parent in significant decisions concerning the children.
As in any custody case, there are often no perfect solutions when parties divorce
or separate, and the trial court here was tasked with making a difficult decision that will have an
impact on Lauren, Nathan, their children, and their extended families. See generally Fuentes v.
Jasso, No. 08-03-00109-CV, 2004 WL 1078498, at *2-3 (Tex. App.—El Paso May 13, 2004, no
pet.) (mem. op.) (recognizing “painful reality” that when two devoted parents are divorced, it is
inevitable that hard choices must be made with regard to custody decisions). However, our job is
not to second-guess the trial court’s decision or express how we might have ruled differently;
instead, our job is to ensure that the trial court did not act unreasonably, arbitrarily, or without
reference to guiding principles of family law in reaching its decision.
After reviewing the record, we conclude the trial court had sufficient evidence
upon which to exercise its discretion and, based on the evidence concerning all relevant
circumstances at the time of the bench trial, did not abuse that discretion in finding that it was in
the children’s best interest for Nathan to be designated the conservator with the exclusive right to
determine the children’s primary residence without regard to geographic restriction. We
overrule Lauren’s two appellate issues.
CONCLUSION
Having overruled both appellate issues presented, we affirm the trial court’s
order appointing Nathan George Billisits the joint managing conservator with the exclusive
right to establish the primary residence of the children, N.G.B. and A.G.B., without geographic
restriction.
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Thomas J. Baker, Justice
Before Justices Baker, Triana, and Kelly
Affirmed
Filed: February 24, 2023
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