Maliha Mobeen Beg v. Omar Shakeel ( 2020 )


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  • Opinion issued December 22, 2020
    In The
    Court of Appeals
    For The
    First District of Texas
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    NO. 01-19-00765-CV
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    MALIHA MOBEEN BEG, Appellant
    V.
    OMAR SHAKEEL, Appellee
    On Appeal from the 387th District Court
    Fort Bend County, Texas
    Trial Court Case No. 18-DCV-257509
    MEMORANDUM OPINION
    This is an appeal from a final divorce decree. Following a bench trial, the trial
    court appointed Maliha Mobeen Beg and Omar Shakeel as joint managing
    conservators of their child, A.O., and appointed Omar as the conservator with the
    exclusive right to establish the primary residence of the child. In one issue, Maliha
    contends that the trial court erred in appointing Omar as the conservator with the
    exclusive right to designate the primary residence of the child. We affirm.
    Background
    A four-day bench trial began on June 18, 2019. The evidence presented to the
    trial court is set forth below.
    1.     Dr. Omar Shakeel
    Omar and Maliha are both physicians. They married on January 2, 2015, in
    Atlanta, Georgia.
    Following completion of his residency in Georgia, Omar hoped to begin a
    fellowship at Emory University so that he could remain in Atlanta while Maliha
    finished the last year of her residency. In January 2017, Omar was not selected by
    Emory but instead matched with the fellowship program at his second-ranked
    choice, Baylor College of Medicine (BCM), in Houston.
    Omar testified that he and Maliha agreed on the day he matched that Maliha
    would move to Fort Bend County after she finished her residency in Atlanta. He
    testified that Maliha was very supportive of his coming to Texas. She told Omar
    that she had family in Texas, there was a large religious community in Fort Bend,
    and that Fort Bend was a good place to start a family.
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    Omar began his fellowship at BCM in July 2017. Maliha became pregnant
    later that year. During her pregnancy, Maliha came to Houston and Omar made trips
    to Atlanta so they could spend time together.
    A.O. was born on April 29, 2018. Following A.O.’s birth, Maliha and A.O.
    went to Orlando, Florida, where Maliha’s parents live, for her maternity leave. In
    June 2018, Maliha returned to Atlanta to finish the last month and a half of her
    residency. She completed her residency in July 2018.
    In June 2018, Omar and Maliha signed a lease for a house in Sugar Land, in
    Fort Bend County. In a text thread with Omar and their realtor, Baljinder Mann,
    Maliha asked Mann about a possible reduction in rent for “when we renew next year
    . . . .” In the thread, Maliha sent a picture of A.O., stating “this baby wants a lawn
    and a swing set on that lawn.”
    In July 2018, Maliha texted Omar that she had completed her application for
    her Texas medical license. In the text, which included a picture of Maliha wearing
    a cowboy hat and flexing her bicep, Maliha wrote, “Yeehaw, ready for Texas.”
    Omar testified that, on August 2, 2018, he and Maliha moved all of their
    belongings from their townhome in Atlanta to their rental home in Fort Bend County.
    He stated that Maliha wanted the home they ultimately chose, but that it was not his
    first choice because the rent was significantly higher than his income and the five-
    bedroom house was more than they needed.
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    Omar testified that Maliha began applying for jobs at urgent care facilities in
    Houston in August 2018. In September 2018, Maliha received a job offer from
    Houston CareNow Urgent Care, PLLC. The employment agreement stated that
    “[f]or coverage of the Houston and Orlando markets, you agree to work a minimum
    of two (2) weekend shifts per month, or a minimum of eighteen (18) hours per
    month, unless the Medical Director dictates that the weekend requirements may be
    met using weekday shifts.”
    Omar testified that Maliha first approached him about working a two-week
    on/two-week off schedule in Orlando in October 2018. He testified that he told
    Maliha that it was not the ideal option for their family and begged her to reconsider
    but Maliha was adamant. When asked why he texted Maliha “[y]our job is too good
    to be true,” Omar stated that he wanted to be supportive and only wanted to keep
    their family together. When Omar asked Maliha why she wanted to work in Orlando
    when she had a job offer in Houston at an equivalent pay rate, Maliha told him that
    only her mother could take care of A.O.
    Omar testified that Maliha did not permit Omar’s mother to care for A.O. On
    one occasion when Omar asked Maliha to allow his mother to pick A.O. up, Maliha
    responded, “I’m not going to drop the baby off to your mom.” Omar testified that
    his mother is a neonatologist and cares for infants born before thirty-six weeks
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    gestational age.   Omar testified that he believed Maliha valued her parents’
    relationship with A.O. over Omar’s relationship with his daughter.
    Maliha worked her first two-week shift in Florida from October 15 to October
    29, 2018. Afterwards, she returned to Fort Bend County and remained there until
    mid-November. During that time, Omar and Maliha registered their vehicles, and
    Maliha obtained a Texas driver’s license and registered to vote in Fort Bend County.
    Maliha returned to Orlando in mid–November and was scheduled to come back to
    Texas at the beginning of December, but she did not return.
    Omar testified that it was extremely difficult for him during the periods when
    he was not able to see A.O. Omar believed that he and Maliha would be able to
    work things out and remain together as a family. In a conversation with Maliha that
    Omar recorded, Maliha can be heard telling Omar that if he and his family want to
    see A.O., they will have to go to Orlando.
    On December 1, 2018, Omar flew to Orlando to speak with Maliha and her
    parents about his wish that Maliha and A.O. return home to Fort Bend County. Omar
    testified that Maliha’s father told him that he needed to hire an attorney if he wanted
    to see his daughter. Maliha told Omar that she was not returning to Texas, and that
    if he wanted to see A.O., he would need to do so in Orlando. Omar testified that the
    longest stretch during which he was able to see A.O. in December was for four or
    five hours a day during a three-day period. Omar did not see A.O. in January 2019
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    but saw her in February 2019 after the parties appeared in court. Omar testified that
    he saw A.O. for four out of seventy-seven days between mid-November and the end
    of January.
    Omar testified that he believed it was in A.O.’s best interest that he be named
    conservator with the exclusive right to designate her primary residence because he
    would encourage co-parenting with Maliha. Omar stated that he rarely got the
    chance to see A.O. when she was with Maliha. Omar testified that he wanted to
    create an environment in which both parents were close to A.O. He acknowledged
    that A.O. had been with Maliha more than she had been with him. Omar believed
    that Maliha did not want him to be a part of their child’s life. Omar testified that the
    hostility with Maliha’s family would lessen if A.O. lived in Fort Bend County.
    Omar testified that, if he were the primary conservator, he would involve
    Maliha in the decision-making regarding A.O. With regard to the routine he would
    have if he were granted primary custody, Omar testified that his father, who is
    currently living with him, would be able to watch A.O. while Omar was at work.
    Omar testified that his weekends were generally free. He stated that he had also
    arranged for a nanny as well as a Montessori teacher to care for A.O., if needed.
    Omar testified that he hoped that Maliha would be heavily involved in A.O.’s routine
    as well.
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    Omar testified that he would have limited access to A.O. if she lived with
    Maliha in Florida. On his weekend periods of possession, he would be able to see
    A.O. approximately twenty-four hours with five of the hours spent driving between
    Orlando and Clearwater, Florida, where his parents live. Omar testified that if A.O.
    resided in Fort Bend County, he hoped that Maliha would move to Texas
    permanently.
    Omar testified that the job prospects for Maliha, who is a general family
    practitioner, are better in Texas that in Florida, and that Maliha has described the
    Florida market as saturated. Omar also testified that Maliha would not suffer
    emotionally if she moved to Texas because several of her family members live
    nearby and in Dallas, and there is a large Muslim community in Fort Bend County.
    Omar testified that he could not move to Florida because of his fellowship,
    explaining that his career in pediatric oncology, a highly specialized field, would be
    best served by remaining in Houston because patients come from around the world
    for treatment in Houston. He testified that if he did not complete his fellowship, he
    would be unable to become a certified pediatric oncologist, and that there was no
    option to transfer, given his specialized field. Omar testified that he planned to live
    in Houston while completing his fellowship and working as an assistant instructor
    until July 2021. Afterwards, he intended to remain in the Houston area to continue
    practicing in his specialty. Omar testified that he and Maliha chose Fort Bend
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    County in part because the school district is very strong and there are numerous
    extracurricular and cultural opportunities.
    On cross-examination, Omar testified that he had not raised any objection
    when he found out Maliha had accepted a job offer in Florida. Omar acknowledged
    that there are fellowships in Florida. He also testified that Maliha told him that he
    could leave his fellowship and move to Florida to be with his family.
    2.     Dr. Jennifer Foster
    Dr. Foster is an attending physician in the pediatric oncology center at Texas
    Children’s Hospital. She has been Omar’s supervisor and clinical mentor during his
    fellowship. She described Omar as “the nicest and gentlest person I’ve met” and
    stated that his patients love him.
    Dr. Foster testified that Omar is an incredible father. She testified that she
    attended a birthday party for one of the fellows at which Omar and A.O. were
    present, and that Omar doted on his daughter. She also invited them for dinner at
    her house and described Omar as a wonderful father in his interactions with A.O.
    Dr. Foster testified that, in the first year of his fellowship, Omar was very
    excited that Maliha was going to move to Texas, and that he flew to see her every
    weekend he could. She testified that, once Maliha became pregnant, all that Omar
    talked about was being together as a family in Houston.
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    Dr. Foster stated that Texas Children’s Hospital is very highly regarded and
    is ranked among the top three children’s hospitals and cancer centers nationally. She
    stated that pediatric oncology is a very small community. She testified that there are
    no fellowships comparable to the one that Omar is in anywhere in the country, and
    that Omar cannot transfer his fellowship elsewhere. She testified that the current
    fellowship is three years, but that Texas Children’s Hospital is one of the rare
    programs that builds in a fourth year. Dr. Foster testified that, although the fourth
    year is not required, it is incredibly difficult to find a job in pediatric oncology after
    only three years, and that many fellows who graduate after three years from other
    programs do not find a job in pediatric oncology. She testified that the fourth year
    allows a fellow to become an expert in the field, and that she has not had a fellow
    who did not complete a fourth year. Dr. Foster stated that, in her opinion, if Omar
    left his fellowship, he would not become an oncologist but that he would be able to
    apply for a general pediatric position. Dr. Foster stated that if Omar finished his
    fourth year, he could have a career in Houston.
    On cross-examination, Dr. Foster testified that Omar was on track to complete
    his third year of the fellowship in June 2020. She testified that Omar currently
    worked an average of sixty hours a week as well as some weekends and nights. She
    stated that the schedule comes out a year in advance. She testified that the second
    and third years of the fellowship consist of months that are 100% clinical work and
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    other months that are research work, which is similar to an 8-to-5 job, and that the
    fourth year of the fellowship is 25% clinical work and 75% research work.
    3.     Savini Britto
    Savini Britto met Omar and Maliha during their residency at Emory. Britto is
    a second-year pediatric gastroenterology fellow at Texas Children’s Hospital. Britto
    testified that she became good friends with Omar and was friends with Maliha.
    Britto and Omar both matched for fellowships at BCM. Britto testified that
    she and her husband shared an apartment with Omar in Houston for the first year of
    the fellowship while Maliha finished her residency in Atlanta. She testified that
    Omar’s and Maliha’s plan was that Maliha would move to Houston after she finished
    her last year of residency.
    In the fall of 2018, Maliha spoke to Britto about her job options and the areas
    in Houston she was considering. Britto testified that Maliha had a lot of job
    flexibility because she was not specializing, and that Maliha already had job
    prospects in Houston.     Britto testified that Omar and Maliha saw each other
    frequently the first year of his fellowship. Britto believed that once A.O. was born
    and Maliha finished her residency, they would come to Houston. Britto testified that
    Omar spent his free time in the first year of his fellowship scheduling house
    showings, and that he found one that Maliha loved even though it meant a commute
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    for him. Britto testified that Omar tries to do everything he can to make the people
    around him happy, especially Maliha.
    In September 2018, Britto and her husband visited Omar, Maliha, and A.O. in
    their Sugar Land home. Britto testified that all of the family’s furnishings from
    Atlanta as well as Maliha’s car were at the home. Britto did not have the impression
    that Maliha was visiting or that she was there only temporarily, but rather that Maliha
    had moved and now lived there.
    Britto testified that when Omar is with A.O., he wants to hold her rather than
    put her in a stroller and is very protective of her. Britto described Omar as a genuine,
    selfless person who is positive and optimistic with a lot of great energy. She testified
    that Omar has changed since the divorce. She testified that he is still positive but
    more cautious, and that he has become stronger.
    Britto testified that, in her opinion, Omar should be designated as primary
    parent with the exclusive right to designate A.O.’s residence. She stated that it has
    been difficult for Omar to have a relationship with A.O., and that if he were
    designated as primary parent, he would want A.O. to have a relationship with
    Maliha.
    On cross-examination, Britto testified that Maliha told Omar that he had an
    open invitation to see A.O. in Orlando whenever he wanted. Britto further testified
    that Omar did not want to do that for several reasons, one of which was that the visits
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    would take place in Maliha’s family’s home. Britto testified that Omar told her in
    November 2018 that Maliha had accepted a two weeks on/two weeks off job in
    Florida months earlier.
    On redirect, Britto testified that Omar knew that Maliha wanted to work in
    Florida and that he agreed to the arrangement to make her happy. Britto stated that
    Maliha did not return to Texas after the second two-week period in Florida. She
    testified that Maliha was supportive of Omar attending the fellowship at BCM.
    4.     Omar Shakeel1
    Omar testified that he tried to Facetime with A.O. on a daily basis but that he
    was only able to do so once or twice a week on average. Omar testified that Maliha
    is very loving and caring toward A.O., but he did not believe that she makes good
    decisions with regard to their daughter. Among other reasons, Omar cited the fact
    that Maliha took A.O. to live in Florida. He also testified that A.O. had a wonderful
    pediatrician when she lived in Texas, but when Maliha took A.O. to Florida, she
    changed healthcare providers without his knowledge. He further testified that
    although he has asked Maliha, he does not know who A.O.’s new pediatrician is.
    Omar testified that, in accordance with the trial court’s temporary orders
    issued prior to trial, Maliha indicated that she had set up a primary residence in Katy,
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    Omar resumed his testimony after Dr. Foster and Savita Britto were taken out of
    turn.
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    Texas. Omar stated that he did not believe that Maliha had done so because, with
    the exception of one occasion, each time Omar went to the Katy residence to pick
    up or drop off A.O., Maliha’s mother, not Maliha, was present. He further testified
    that there were other occasions when Maliha asked him to drop A.O. off at the airport
    or at an unknown person’s house in Sugar Land.
    Omar believed that he was permitted more access to A.O. during the
    proceedings because Maliha had new counsel, and that if it were up to Maliha, he
    would not be granted access to A.O. Omar testified that when he texted Maliha to
    ask to see A.O for a few hours, Maliha responded “stop harassing me.” When he
    requested an extra half-hour with A.O. on Father’s Day, Maliha responded, “I have
    plans. You need to drop her.”
    5.     Fauzia Shakeel
    Dr. Fauzia Shakeel is Omar’s mother and A.O.’s paternal grandmother. She
    is a neonatologist at John Hopkins Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg, Florida.
    She lives in Clearwater, Florida.
    Dr. Shakeel testified that Maliha never allowed her to pick up or drop off A.O.
    when Omar was not home. She testified that, on one occasion, Maliha refused to
    leave A.O. with her because Omar was running ten minutes late and had not yet
    arrived home from work. On another occasion when Dr. Shakeel picked them up at
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    the airport, Maliha refused to leave A.O. alone in the car with her for a few minutes
    while she and Omar went into a drugstore for diaper cream.
    Dr. Shakeel testified that, at the beginning of Omar and Maliha’s marriage,
    she loved Maliha like her own daughter. She testified that she held a wedding
    reception for more than 500 people and gave Maliha family heirlooms to welcome
    Maliha into the family. Dr. Shakeel testified that she remained at the hospital with
    Maliha for the twenty hours she was in labor.
    Dr. Shakeel testified that when Omar and Maliha called her to tell her that
    Omar had not matched with Emory, Maliha said that they had listed Houston as their
    second choice because she had family there and she loved Houston. At counsel’s
    request, Dr. Shakeel read the following paragraphs of the Petition to Establish Parent
    Responsibilities that Maliha filed in Florida court:
    The paternal grandparents are extremely strict, have a conservative
    view on how to raise children, and will intervene in the child’s life
    from the beginning as they do with their son, and will not allow the
    mother to have any input if they gain control of their child through
    their son who is extremely under their influence.
    ....
    In Pakistani culture, some mother[s]-in-law[] expect the daughter to be
    submissive in [sic] their husband and his family. This is what Mother
    is facing and now her child is being used as a pawn to teach her a lesson
    for being an independent-minded, professional woman who wishes to
    live her life and raise her child, who’s also a girl, without the backwards
    influence of her mother–in-law’s thinking.
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    Dr. Shakeel testified that she was in her mid-thirties when she came to the
    United States. Although she had already worked as a physician in Pakistan, she redid
    her board certifications in the United States and completed her residency while she
    had two young children. Dr. Shakeel stated that she was proud that her son married
    a professional woman, and that her daughter, Omar’s sister, is a first-year medical
    student.
    Dr. Shakeel testified that Omar is an amazing father and takes care of all of
    A.O.’s needs. She testified that she does not influence Omar, and that he has been
    making his own decisions since he left home at eighteen years old. She testified that
    Maliha has ridiculed Omar and put him down in private and public. Dr. Shakeel
    testified that if Omar were awarded the right to designate A.O.’s primary residence,
    he would be fair toward Maliha and share in the decision-making regarding A.O.
    She further testified that she did not believe that Maliha would make efforts to co-
    parent with Omar.
    6.     Shakeel Saleh
    Shakeel Saleh is Omar’s father and A.O.’s paternal grandfather. He was
    retired at the time of trial.
    Mr. Shakeel testified that he and Omar’s mother welcomed Maliha into their
    home as a daughter. He testified that it became evident in the first year of Omar and
    Maliha’s marriage that something was not right. He testified that neither he nor
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    Omar’s mother had an argument with Maliha or said a harsh word toward her. He
    testified that he and Omar’s mother were not involved in Omar’s and Maliha’s day-
    to-day decisions. He testified that, by the time A.O. was born, Maliha and her
    parents had already pushed Omar’s family into the background. Mr. Shakeel
    testified that he was offended when he learned that Maliha had hired a private
    investigator to watch him and Omar while they were caring for A.O.
    Mr. Shakeel testified that Omar is a very loving father who takes care of A.O.
    and makes her happy. He testified that A.O. is Omar’s entire universe and that he
    talks only about her. Mr. Shakeel stated that he could move to Houston permanently
    to help care and provide support for A.O. He testified that Omar is a very generous
    person and that, as a co-parent, he would be more than happy to accommodate
    Maliha’s needs.
    Mr. Shakeel testified that, in accordance with Pakistani culture, they tried to
    help reconcile Omar and Maliha but that they were rebuffed each time. He testified
    that a meeting was scheduled for a Friday evening with both sets of parents, Maliha’s
    aunt and uncle, and another couple who would act as neutral third parties. On Friday
    morning, Maliha called off the meeting because she wanted to be present and was
    working that evening.
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    7.      Dr. Maliha Beg
    Maliha testified that she did not have any personal issues with Omar, and that
    she was happy with him until his parents began to interfere in their lives. She
    testified that her marriage to Omar became unhealthy when he began relying on his
    parents’ opinion regarding how they should live their lives and involving them in
    the couple’s day-to-day discussions.
    Maliha testified that she only visited Texas twice, and that it was never her
    intention to move to Texas. She testified that she registered to vote in Fort Bend
    County as well as registered her car, obtained a driver’s license, and co-signed a
    lease in Fort Bend County. She acknowledged that she has not done any of those
    things in any other place she has only visited. She stated that she only applied for a
    Texas driver’s license and registered to vote in Fort Bend County because Omar
    insisted that she do so.
    Maliha testified that she moved some of her belongings to Florida after she
    began her maternity leave shortly after A.O.’s birth. She stated that she decided in
    May 2018 that she wanted to live permanently in Orlando. She applied for jobs in
    the Houston area because she was interested to see what the job market was like.
    On August 22, 2018, Maliha signed a professional services agreement with
    Inpatient Medicine Associates, LLC to work in Florida. On September 5, 2018, she
    received a verbal job offer from a Houston employer. She later emailed the Houston
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    employer to notify them that she had not received the written contract. She testified
    that she showed Omar the Houston job offer letter. Maliha testified that Omar was
    a kind and loving husband, but that he lied to her and that he mainly cared about
    himself and no one else.
    Maliha testified that she offered Omar time with A.O. in Florida but
    acknowledged that the time offered was during the workweek. She stated that she
    wanted the visits to be in Orlando so that she could be available if anything happened
    to A.O., or if A.O. needed her. Maliha stated that she did not think it would be good
    for A.O. to be away from her for multiple nights to spend time with Omar because
    A.O. had never been away from her that long. She stated that she offered Omar the
    opportunity to spend time with A.O. in December 2018 and January 2019, but he
    declined the offers. Maliha stated that Omar made the choice to not see A.O. during
    that time period.
    Maliha testified that she allowed Omar to have Facetime contact with A.O. in
    December 2018 and January 2019, and that she sent photographs of A.O. to Omar
    even after she was served with divorce papers. She stated that she invited Omar to
    A.O.’s first birthday party but that he declined when he discovered the party would
    take place in Orlando. She testified that she maintained communication with Omar
    regarding how A.O. was doing, the milestones she reached, and how she was
    sleeping.
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    Maliha testified that, in accordance with the temporary orders, she and A.O.
    moved to Texas in March 2019. She stated that she was living with her cousin with
    whom she signed a lease agreement. After the temporary orders hearing, Maliha
    took steps to apply for a Texas medical license. She stated that it would take eighteen
    to twenty-four weeks to obtain her permanent medical license, and that she would
    be unable to apply for a job before she obtained the license. Maliha acknowledged
    that, as a general practitioner, she could be as successful in Houston as in Orlando.
    Maliha testified that the plan was for Omar to complete his three-year
    fellowship in Houston, and then the family would move to Florida. She stated that
    the first time she heard Omar talk about doing a fourth year was after he filed for
    divorce.
    Maliha testified that if the judge permitted her to designate Florida as A.O.’s
    primary residence, she would keep her current job. She stated that her job is very
    flexible, and that she works 7:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. for seven days, with one day
    when she is on call until 7:00 pm., and then she has seven days off. Maliha stated
    that A.O. has a nursery in her parents’ home in Florida, and that Maliha’s room is
    next door. A.O. has a lot of toys and her uncle has a dog that she loves to play with.
    Maliha stated that she took A.O. to Disneyworld every other weekend when they
    lived in Florida.
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    Maliha denied texting Omar “stop harassing me” in response to his request
    for more time with A.O. on Father’s Day. She stated that she told him that she had
    a Father’s Day party to attend for her own father. She testified that, in response to
    his repeated requests for extra time a few days earlier, she replied, “No, let’s just
    follow the court order,” and that when he asked again, she replied “stop harassing
    me about this.”
    With regard to Omar’s testimony that he picked A.O. up at the airport, Maliha
    testified that her grandfather had passed away and that she had asked Omar to pick
    A.O. up at the airport so that she could go to Florida to be with her family. She
    stated that Omar knew that her grandfather had passed.
    Maliha testified that when she got the job in Florida, Omar told her that he
    was going to support her because he agreed that it was best for their family. She
    stated that Omar told her he was worried about what he would tell his mother, who
    was due to come to Houston in October. Maliha testified that, prior to October, she
    and Omar had agreed that A.O. would not be put in daycare, but that he changed his
    mind at the end of October. She testified that, before she began working, she was
    taking care of A.O., staying up at night with her, and doing all of the feedings
    because Omar had a full-time job and she wanted him to be well rested.
    Maliha stated that Omar’s mother was constantly interfering in their lives. She
    stated that, after A.O. was born, she took A.O. to see Omar’s parents in Clearwater
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    on a monthly basis. She stated that the visits were difficult because Omar’s family
    was never really friendly toward her. She testified that Omar, his parents, and his
    sister would take A.O. behind closed doors for hours at a time while Maliha was at
    the house. Maliha testified that Omar’s father used to respond to her calls and text
    messages, but, after 2016, he would not answer her phone calls.
    Maliha testified that she preferred that there be no geographical restriction in
    the final order because it was not clear where Omar would start his career. She
    further testified that both sets of grandparents are in Florida, and that she has a stable,
    permanent job in Florida with no night shifts. Her place of work is two miles from
    her parents’ house where she currently lives. Maliha testified that if the court placed
    a geographical restriction of Fort Bend County, then Maliha would need time to find
    a similar job to the one she has in Florida.
    8.     Azra Beg
    Azra Beg is Maliha’s mother and A.O.’s maternal grandmother. She testified
    that she has been in Fort Bend County with Maliha and A.O. since the trial court
    issued a temporary order restricting A.O.’s residence to Fort Bend County.
    Mrs. Beg testified that, prior to the divorce, Omar told her that he planned to
    apply to Nemours Children’s Hospital in Orlando, Florida, because it was his dream
    to join the faculty there. She stated that Omar also told her that he knew of a doctor
    retiring at Nemours in three years, and that he wanted to take his position. Mrs. Beg
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    testified that Omar told her that Maliha’s job in Orlando was “too good to be true,”
    and that Maliha was getting everything she wanted and would not have to work too
    much. Mrs. Beg stated that Omar never expressed anything other than excitement
    about the job Maliha had in Orlando. She testified that Omar told her during the
    second year of his fellowship that he had only one year left.
    Mrs. Beg testified that Maliha is a very loving mother and is always with her
    daughter. She stated that Maliha typically began work at 7:00 a.m. and usually
    returned home around 1:00 p.m. Mrs. Beg testified that if the court designated Fort
    Bend County as a geographical restriction for A.O., she would move to Fort Bend
    County with Maliha.
    9.     Mirza Beg
    Mirza is Maliha’s father and A.O.’s maternal grandfather.
    Mr. Beg testified that Omar told him that he planned to move to Florida once
    he completed his three-year fellowship, and that Omar expressed interest in working
    at Nemours Hospital. Mr. Beg stated that Omar never told him that his fellowship
    would last four years or that he planned to stay in Houston. He further testified that
    Omar described Maliha’s job in Florida as “too good to be true.”
    Mr. Beg testified about an incident in December 2018 when he returned home
    to find Omar holding A.O. outside, pacing in the driveway, and talking to someone
    on the phone. Mr. Beg thought he saw Omar’s father parked in a supermarket
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    parking lot across the street. When Mr. Beg approached Omar, he asked whether
    that was Omar’s father parked across the street, and Omar replied that it was not.
    According to Mr. Beg, Omar then stated, “[y]ou have to force Maliha to quit her job.
    If not, I am going to take away the 7-month old baby from her.” He told Omar that
    it was in A.O.’s best interest that Maliha worked in Florida for fourteen days and
    then return to Omar in Houston for sixteen days. Mr. Beg testified that he told Omar
    that Maliha would cook for him, take care of A.O., and earn money so they could
    take vacations. Mr. Beg stated that Omar responded that his mind was made up.
    Mr. Beg acknowledged that he became upset when Omar’s father pulled up in the
    driveway, and that he told Omar, “you don’t have the balls to tell the truth.” Mr.
    Beg testified that Omar then grabbed his genitals and began yelling. Mr. Beg left to
    go pick up Maliha from work. When they returned, Mr. Beg left Omar and Maliha
    to talk. He admitted telling Omar that he would need a lawyer if he wanted to take
    the baby.
    Mr. Beg stated that Maliha is a wonderful mother and that her life revolves
    around A.O. He believed that A.O. should live primarily with Maliha. He stated
    that he and his wife were supportive of Maliha through the divorce process but that
    they did not interfere in her life.
    Trial Court Ruling
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    On June 24, 2019, the trial court issued a written ruling, appointing Omar and
    Maliha as joint managing conservators of A.O., and awarding Omar, among other
    things, the exclusive right to establish A.O.’s primary residence within Fort Bend
    County and contiguous counties. On July 22, 2019, the trial court signed a final
    decree of divorce which reflected the June 24, 2019 ruling.
    On August 20, 2019, Maliha filed a motion for new trial and set it for hearing.
    Maliha and her counsel failed to appear at the hearing. On October 2, 2019, the trial
    court entered an order denying the motion.
    Discussion
    On appeal, Maliha contends that the trial court erred by appointing Omar as
    the conservator with the exclusive right to designate the primary residence of A.O.
    A. Standard of Review
    Trial courts have wide discretion with respect to conservatorship, control,
    possession, and visitation matters involving the child. See In re J.A.J., 
    243 S.W.3d 611
    , 616 (Tex. 2007); Compton v. Pfannenstiel, 
    428 S.W.3d 881
    , 886 (Tex. App.—
    Houston [1st Dist.] 2014, no pet.).       We review a trial court’s decision on
    conservatorship matters for an abuse of discretion and reverse the trial court’s order
    only if we determine, from reviewing the record as a whole, that the trial court’s
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    decision was arbitrary or unreasonable. Patterson v. Brist, 
    236 S.W.3d 238
    , 239–40
    (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2006, pet. dism’d) (citing Turner v. Turner, 
    47 S.W.3d 761
    , 763 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2001, no pet.)). A trial court
    abuses its discretion if it acts without reference to any guiding rules and
    principles. Downer v. Aquamarine Operators, Inc., 
    701 S.W.2d 238
    , 241–42 (Tex.
    1985). Legal and factual sufficiency are not independent grounds of error but are
    relevant factors in assessing whether the trial court abused its discretion. Townsend
    v. Vasquez, 
    569 S.W.3d 796
    , 807 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2018, pet.
    denied).
    To determine legal sufficiency of the evidence, a reviewing court determines
    whether the evidence would enable reasonable people to reach the judgment being
    reviewed. 
    Id.
     The reviewing court must consider the evidence in the light most
    favorable to the trial court’s decision and indulge every reasonable inference that
    would support it. See id.; Epps v. Deboise, 
    537 S.W.3d 238
    , 242–43 (Tex. App.—
    Houston [1st Dist.] 2017, no pet.). The reviewing court considers favorable evidence
    that a reasonable factfinder could consider and disregards contrary evidence unless
    a reasonable factfinder could not disregard it. Stamper v. Knox, 
    254 S.W.3d 537
    ,
    542 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2008, no pet.). If the evidence allows for only
    one inference, the reviewing court may not disregard it. Epps, 
    537 S.W.3d at 243
    .
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    To determine factual sufficiency, a reviewing court considers all of the
    evidence that either supports or contradicts the factfinder’s determination. 
    Id.
     The
    factfinder’s finding is set aside only if the evidence supporting it is so contrary to
    the overwhelming weight of the evidence as to be clearly wrong or unjust. See
    
    id.
     The reviewing court may not simply substitute its judgment for the factfinder’s;
    the factfinder is the sole judge of the witnesses’ credibility and the weight to be given
    their testimony. 
    Id.
     Ultimately, there is no abuse of discretion as long as some
    evidence of a substantive and probative character exists to support the trial court’s
    decision. 
    Id.
    In a bench trial, the trial court, as the trier of fact, is the sole judge of the
    witnesses’ credibility and the weight to be given their testimony. Townsend, 
    569 S.W.3d at 808
    . “The trial court is in the best position to observe the demeanor and
    personalities of the witnesses and can ‘feel’ the forces, powers, and influences that
    cannot be discerned by merely reading the record.” Bates v. Tesar, 
    81 S.W.3d 411
    ,
    424 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2002, no pet.).
    When no findings of fact or conclusions of law are requested or filed, as here,
    we imply all facts necessary to support the judgment that are supported by the
    evidence. See Worford v. Stamper, 
    801 S.W.2d 108
    , 109 (Tex. 1990). We affirm
    the trial court’s judgment if it can be upheld on any legal theory finding support in
    the evidence. 
    Id.
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    B. Applicable Law
    When a trial court appoints joint managing conservators, it must designate the
    conservator who has the exclusive right to determine the primary residence of the
    child. TEX. FAM. CODE § 153.134(b)(1). It must either establish a geographic area
    within which the conservator shall maintain the child’s primary residence or specify
    that there are no geographic restrictions. Id. “Suits affecting the parent-child
    relationship are intensely fact driven, which is why courts have developed best-
    interest tests that consider and balance numerous factors.” Lenz v. Lenz, 
    79 S.W.3d 10
    , 19 (Tex. 2002). “The best interest of the child shall always be the primary
    consideration of the court in determining the issues of conservatorship and
    possession of and access to the child.” TEX. FAM. CODE § 153.002. The trial court
    has wide latitude in determining what is in the best interest of the child. Gillespie v.
    Gillespie, 
    644 S.W.2d 449
    , 451 (Tex. 1982).
    When appointing parents as joint managing conservators and determining the
    conservator with the exclusive right to designate the child’s residence, a trial court
    must consider the following factors:
    (1) whether the physical, psychological, or emotional needs and
    development of the child will benefit from the appointment of joint
    managing conservators;
    (2) the ability of the parents to give first priority to the welfare of the
    child and reach shared decisions in the child’s best interest;
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    (3) whether each parent can encourage and accept a positive
    relationship between the child and the other parent;
    (4) whether both parents participated in child rearing before the filing
    of the suit;
    (5) the geographical proximity of the parents’ residences;
    (6) if the child is 12 years of age or older, the child’s preference, if any,
    regarding the person to have the exclusive right to designate the primary
    residence of the child;2 and
    (7) any other relevant factor.
    TEX. FAM. CODE § 153.134(a).
    C. Analysis
    Maliha contends that “[r]eviewing the record in light of the factors under
    section 153.134(a), the evidence shows that the trial court’s order appointing Omar
    as the joint managing conservator with the exclusive right to designate the child’s
    primary residence was against the great weight and preponderance of the evidence.”
    As to the first factor—the physical, psychological, and emotional needs and
    development of the child, see TEX. FAM. CODE § 153.134(a)(1)—the evidence
    presented at trial shows that Omar and Maliha are both caring and loving parents
    who are meeting the physical, psychological, and emotional needs of A.O. Dr.
    Foster testified that Omar is an incredible father who dotes on his daughter. Britto
    testified that when she observed Omar with A.O., the child appeared happy and
    2
    As A.O. is not twelve years or older, this factor is not relevant to our analysis.
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    bonded with him. Britto and Mr. Shakeel testified that Omar constantly carries A.O.,
    loves to hold her, and is very protective of her. Mr. Shakeel testified that A.O. is
    Omar’s whole universe and that he talks only about her. Dr. Shakeel testified that
    Omar is very patient and kind with A.O., and that he takes care of all of her needs.
    Maliha also testified that she believed Omar was capable of feeding, changing, and
    caring for A.O. and making good educational decisions for her, and that A.O. is safe
    with Omar.
    The evidence also showed that Maliha is a very loving mother who is devoted
    to A.O. Maliha’s parents testified that Maliha is a wonderful mother whose life
    revolves around her daughter. Omar also testified that Maliha is very loving and
    caring toward A.O., although he does not believe that she makes good decisions with
    regard to their daughter.
    The second factor considers the parents’ ability to prioritize the welfare of the
    child and reach shared decisions in the child’s best interest. See id. § 153.134(a)(2).
    Omar testified that if he were awarded the exclusive right to designate A.O.’s
    primary residence, he would encourage co-parenting with Maliha and would create
    an environment in which both parents were involved in the decision-making
    regarding A.O. He stated that he rarely got the opportunity to see A.O. when she
    was with Maliha, and he believed that Maliha did not want him to be a part of their
    child’s life. He stated that A.O. had a wonderful pediatrician when she was in Texas,
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    but when Maliha took A.O. to Florida, she changed healthcare providers without his
    knowledge. He further testified that although he has asked Maliha, he does not know
    who A.O.’s new pediatrician is.
    Britto stated that it has been difficult for Omar to have a relationship with
    A.O. since she has been in Florida, and that if Omar were designated as primary
    parent, he would want A.O. to have a relationship with Maliha. Dr. Shakeel testified
    that Omar would be fair toward Maliha and share in the decision-making regarding
    A.O. if he were awarded the right to designate A.O.’s primary residence, but she did
    not believe that Maliha would make efforts to co-parent with Omar. Mr. Shakeel
    stated that Omar is a very loving and generous person and that, as a co-parent, he
    would be more than happy to accommodate Maliha’s needs. Maliha testified that
    Omar was a kind and loving husband but that he primarily cared about himself and
    no one else. She also testified that, other than the question of where A.O. lives, she
    and Omar had not disagreed about caring for A.O.
    The third factor considers whether each parent can encourage and accept a
    positive relationship between the child and the other parent. See § 153.134(a)(3).
    Omar testified that, over his objections, Maliha decided to accept a job in Orlando
    and move to Florida and that, as a result, he was not able to see his daughter for
    extended periods of time. He testified that he begged Maliha to reconsider her
    decision but that she was adamant. Omar testified that he believed Maliha valued
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    her parents’ relationship with A.O. over his relationship with his daughter. Omar
    testified that Maliha told him that she was not returning to Texas, and that if he
    wanted to see A.O., he would need to do so in Orlando. Omar testified that the
    longest stretch during which he was able to see A.O. in December was for four or
    five hours a day during a three-day period, and he only saw her four out of seventy-
    seven days between mid-November and the end of January. Omar stated that he
    tried to Facetime with A.O. on a daily basis, but that he is only able to do so once or
    twice a week on average. Omar testified that when he texted Maliha to ask her for
    additional time with A.O, including on Father’s Day, Maliha refused and replied,
    “stop harassing me.”
    Maliha testified that Omar had an open invitation to see A.O. in Florida but
    acknowledged that the time she offered Omar was during the workweek. Maliha
    stated that she allowed Omar to have Facetime contact with A.O. in December 2018
    and January 2019, even though there was no court order requiring her to do so, and
    that she sent photographs of A.O. to Omar even after she was served with divorce
    papers. Maliha acknowledged that it is hard to keep A.O.’s attention on Facetime
    calls because, at eight months old, A.O. has a short attention span. Maliha testified
    that she invited Omar to A.O.’s first birthday party but that he declined when he
    discovered the party would take place at her family’s home in Orlando. She testified
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    that she maintained communication with Omar regarding how A.O. was doing, the
    milestones she reached, and how she was sleeping.
    Britto testified that she has observed how hard it has been for Omar to have a
    relationship with his daughter since she has been in Florida. She further testified
    that, if Omar were the primary parent, he would want A.O. to have a relationship
    with both parents.
    The fourth factor considers whether both parents participated in child rearing
    before suit was filed. See id. § 153.134(a)(4). Maliha argues that this factor is
    overwhelmingly in her favor. She contends that the undisputed evidence shows that,
    even at the time of trial, A.O. had spent more time with her than Omar. She testified
    that, both before and after she began working, she was A.O.’s primary caregiver and
    changed the majority of the diapers and took care of late-night feedings.
    At trial, Omar acknowledged that A.O. had been with Maliha more than she
    had been with him since she was born. We note, however, that the proper inquiry is
    whether both parents participated in child rearing rather than which parent did more
    of the child-rearing activities or spent more time with the child. See id. The record
    shows that Omar also participated in child-rearing activities, including changing
    A.O.’s diapers and putting her to sleep.
    As to the fifth factor—the geographical proximity of the parents’ residences,
    see id. § 153.134(a)(5)—there is a significant amount of conflicting evidence
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    regarding the parties’ intentions as to A.O.’s primary residence. Omar testified that
    the plan had always been for Maliha and A.O. to live in Texas after Maliha
    completed her residency. He stated that Maliha was supportive of his coming to
    Houston once he matched with BCM, and that she told him that she had family in
    Texas and a lot of support in Houston, and that there was a large Muslim community
    in Fort Bend. Dr. Shakeel testified that Maliha told her that Houston was a choice
    they selected together and that she loved Houston. Maliha sent a text message to
    Omar stating, “Yeehaw, ready for Texas” at the end of July 2018.
    Britto testified that she saw all of Maliha’s belongings in the Fort Bend
    County home, and she had the impression that Maliha had moved and now lived
    there rather than merely visiting. She further stated that she and Maliha talked about
    Maliha’s move to Fort Bend County and her job prospects there. The evidence also
    showed that Maliha signed a residential lease in Texas in June 2018, Maliha and
    Omar rented a moving truck and moved all of their belongings from Atlanta to Sugar
    Land, Maliha obtained a Texas driver’s license and registered her vehicle in Texas,
    and she registered to vote in Fort Bend County.
    Maliha testified that she and Omar had always planned for her to move to
    Orlando with A.O. after completing her residency, and that Omar would join her
    after he completed his fellowship. She testified that she took the Orlando job after
    consulting with Omar, and that Omar was in favor of her taking the job because it
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    was the best thing for their family. She stated that Omar was in favor of the plan
    until he changed his mind in October 2018. Maliha testified that Omar texted her
    stating that her job was “too good to be true.” Maliha’s parents also testified that
    Omar told them the same thing regarding Maliha’s job. Omar acknowledged that he
    sent the text, but he stated that he did so because he wanted to be supportive and
    wanted to keep their family together.
    Finally, Maliha asserts that her ability to provide personal care to A.O. was
    another relevant factor that the trial court should have considered in making its
    determination. See id. § 153.134(a)(7). She points to evidence showing that her job
    in Florida only required her to work five or six hours a day for approximately thirteen
    or fourteen days a month, and that her workplace was only two miles from her
    parents’ home. She stated that a family member would care for A.O. while she was
    at work, and that A.O.’s room was next door to hers.
    The record also shows that while Omar’s first year of fellowship was more
    rigorous, the remaining years were less so. Omar’s supervisor, Dr. Foster, testified
    that in the fourth year of the fellowship, Omar’s work would be 75% research work,
    which is more akin to an 8-to-5 job. Omar testified that his father had moved to Fort
    Bend County and could help him care for the child while Omar was at work. Omar
    stated that on the days he saw patients, he would be home between 4:00 and 5:00
    p.m., and that his weekends were generally free.
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    Considering all the evidence, we find that the trial court’s actions were neither
    arbitrary nor unreasonable. Therefore, we cannot conclude that the trial court abused
    its discretion in appointing Omar as the joint managing conservator with the
    exclusive right to establish A.O.’s primary residence. See Mize v. Mize, No. 2-08-
    163-CV, 
    2009 WL 279335
    , at *6 (Tex. App.—Fort Worth Feb. 5, 2009, no pet.)
    (mem. op.) (“Giving great deference to the trial court’s decision because it observed
    the witnesses and was able to assess intangibles not apparent in the written record,
    we hold that the trial court did not abuse its discretion by appointing Robin as the
    joint managing conservator with the right to establish the children’s primary
    residence.”); Swaab v. Swaab, 
    282 S.W.3d 519
    , 535–36 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th
    Dist.] 2008, pet. dism’d) (holding that trial court did not abuse its discretion by
    appointing mother as joint managing conservator with exclusive right to establish
    child’s primary residence when evidence showed that mother temporarily worked
    nights shifts during which father and babysitter helped care for child, mother moved
    to home with backyard, and father’s house was messy); Shoemake v. Shoemake, No.
    13-05-00421-CV, 
    2007 WL 1288815
    , at *6 (Tex. App.—Corpus Christi May 3,
    2007, no pet.) (mem. op.) (affirming trial court’s decision to give father right to
    determine children’s primary residence even though record contained conflicting
    evidence that both mother and father could provide stable, loving environment).
    Accordingly, we overrule Maliha’s issue.
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    Conclusion
    We affirm the trial court’s judgment.
    Russell Lloyd
    Justice
    Panel consists of Chief Justice Radack and Justices Lloyd and Kelly.
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