In re Marriage of Chandola ( 2014 )


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    IN THE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON
    In re the Marriage of:                                   NO. 89093-5
    NEHA VYAS CHANDOLA,
    ENBANC
    Respondent,
    and\,
    JUN 1 9 2014
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    MANJUL VARN CHANDOLA,
    GORDON McCLOUD, J.-This case concerns three prov1s1ons of a
    parenting plan that limits contact between the petitioner, Manjul Vam Chandola, and
    his young daughter.                  The trial court imposed those restrictions under RCW
    26.09.191 (3 )(g), which authopi'zes a court to "preclude or limit any provisions of the
    parenting plan" if necessary to protect against "adverse effect to the child's best
    interests." This case presents the question what type of"adverse effect to the child's
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    best interests" a trial court must find before imposing parenting plan restrictions
    In reMarriage of Chandola (No. 89093-5)
    under the catchall provision, RCW 26.09.191(3)(g).         We hold that restrictions
    imposed under that statute must be reasonably calculated to prevent relatively severe
    physical, mental, or emotional harm to a child. Applying that standard, we affirm
    the trial court's decision to impose two of the challenged restrictions but reverse its
    decision to impose the third.
    FACTS
    Manjul Yarn Chandola (Chandola) and Neha Vyas Chandola (Vyas) were
    married in 1998; Vyas gave birth to the couple's daughter, P.R.C., in 2008. Both
    Chandola and Vyas are attorneys, but Chandola was consistently unemployed or
    underemployed during their marriage. Accordingly, he was home with P.R.C. more
    often than Vyas was during the first two years ofP.R.C.'s life. At different intervals,
    both Vyas's mother and Chandola's parents also lived in the home.                  The
    grandparents provided a great deal of child care, and while Vyas and Chandola were
    married, P.R.C. always slept in the same room as either her parents or one of her
    grandmothers.
    Chandola's and Vyas's most serious conflicts arose after P.R.C. was born.
    Vyas accused Chandola of engaging in abusive behavior towards her-yelling at
    her, calling her names, and telling her that she was a bad mother. She felt that
    Chandola and his parents were trying to marginalize her, encouraging P.R.C. to bond
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    with Chandola and minimizing Vyas's role. Vyas also objected to Chandola's
    parenting style. Particular sources of conflict were Chandola's inability to maintain
    a consistent meal and sleep schedule for P.R.C. and his obsessive concern that
    something bad would happen to her. According to Vyas, this concern manifested in
    Chandola's holding P.R.C. excessively, discouraging her from playing with other
    children, and insisting that she be supervised by a family member at all times-even
    while she slept.
    In February 2011, Vyas filed for dissolution. She told Chandola that she was
    concerned about the possibility of sexual abuse because P.R.C. had complained of
    vaginal pain. When the couple separated in late February 2011, Chandola agreed to
    supervised visitation with P.R.C. at the advice of his attorney at the time. The
    supervised visitation was lifted in December 2011.
    The court-appointed parenting expert, Dr. Jennifer Wheeler, concluded that
    P.R.C.'s statements were not evidence of sexual abuse. In its findings of fact, the
    trial court also dismissed the allegations, concluding instead that "[Vyas] may have
    needed to precipitate a crisis in order to escape the marriage and extended family
    dynamic." Clerk's Papers (CP) at 94. In short, the sexual abuse allegations were
    unsubstantiated.
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    In the divorce proceedings, Chandola sought a 50-50 residential split. Vyas
    requested that Chandola's residential time with P.R.C. be limited under RCW
    26.09.191 (3 )(b) and (e), which allow a trial court to "preclude or limit any provisions
    of the parenting plan" upon certain findings. Subsection (3 )(b) allows restrictions
    on the basis of a parent's "long-term emotional ... impairment which interferes
    with . . . parenting functions." Subsection (3 )(e) allows restrictions on the basis of
    a parent's "abusive use of conflict ... which creates the danger of serious damage
    to the child's psychological development." 1
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    parenting plan, if any of the following factors exist:
    (a) A parent's neglect or substantial nonperformance of parenting
    functions;
    (b) A long-term emotional or physical impairment which interferes with
    the parent's performance of parenting functions as defined in RCW
    26.09.004;
    (c) A long-term impairment resulting from drug, alcohol, or other
    substance abuse that interferes with the performance of parenting functions;
    (d) The absence or substantial impairment of emotional ties between the
    parent and child;
    (e) The abusive use of conflict by the parent which creates the danger of
    serious damage to the child's psychological development;
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    Dr. Wheeler's written pretrial parenting evaluation stated that there was no
    basis on which to impose RCW 26.09.191 restrictions.             It acknowledged that
    Chandola appeared to have some problematic personality traits but concluded that
    they did not manifest frequently enough to "meet criteria for a major mental health
    or personality disorder that would support restrictions to the residential schedule
    consistent with RCW 26.09.191(3)(b)." 2 Verbatim Report of Proceedings (VRP)
    (Jan. 31, 2012) at 297.
    Nevertheless, Dr. Wheeler recommended a residential schedule that limited
    Chandola to roughly the same total amount of contact he had had with P .R.C. during
    the period of supervised visitation (before the judge rejected the abuse allegations).
    The schedule she recommended amounted to about 20 hours per week (two seven-
    hour visits per week and one overnight stay every other Saturday).              She also
    recommended a residential schedule in "phase[s]," whereby Chandola would
    progress to greater residential time with P.R.C. every few years if he successfully
    complied with certain recommendations. Id. at 235-45. These recommendations
    were fairly limited: Dr. Wheeler recommended that Chandola continue to see his
    (f) A parent has withheld from the other parent access to the child for a
    protracted period without good cause; or
    (g) Such other factors or conduct as the court expressly finds adverse to
    the best interests of the child.
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    therapist and participate in individual parent training but did not recommend any
    restrictions on Chandola's conduct or his parents' contact with P.R.C.
    At trial, Dr. Wheeler agreed that her recommendations gave Chandola time
    with P.R.C. that was "significantly more limited than what would generally be the
    norm." !d. at 305. When pressed to explain these recommendations on the witness
    stand, Dr. Wheeler disavowed her written evaluation to some extent:
    I also don't think I gave due consideration in my formulation of
    the .191 restrictions to what my concerns were and how they might play
    out in terms of abusive use of conflict. I was very focused as I read it
    here on domestic violence, sexual abuse allegations and the emotional
    impairment.
    My authority for my opinion is that the personality traits that I've
    been describing all morning in my opinion, the risk to [P.R.C.] of those
    traits is ongoing conflict that is essentially emotionally abusive to her.
    And 1 do think that until those traits are better regulated and [Chandola
    is] able to interact with [P.R.C.] in a way that does not perpetuate this
    conflict and parent in a way that does not continue to inflame this
    conflict, I do think that [the] father is vulnerable to engaging in abusive
    use of conflict. That supports generally why I am limiting his
    residential schedule relative to what you just referred to as the normal,
    typical kind of recommendation.
    !d. at 305-06.
    After six days of testimony, the trial court found that "the father's parenting
    history has had an adverse effect on the child's best interests pursuant to RCW
    26.09.191(3)(g)." CP at 80. Unlike RCW 26.09.191(3)(b) and (e)-the provisions
    that Vyas invoked in her brief to the trial court, which specifically address a parent's
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    emotional impairment and abusive use of conflict-RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) is a
    catchall provision. It allows courts to "preclude or limit any provisions of the
    parenting plan" in light of "[s]uch other factors or conduct as the court expressly
    finds adverse to the best interests of the child."      RCW 26.09.191(3)(g).      In
    accordance with its finding of adverse effect, the trial court placed several
    restrictions and conditions on Chandola's contact with P.R.C.
    Thus, the court's parenting plan provided for a residential schedule in three
    stages. The first stage, which was to last approximately two and a half years, allows
    Chandola to have P.R.C. for one seven-hour visit every Tuesday evening, one
    overnight stay every other Thursday, and one overnight stay every other weekend.
    The second stage, which is to last from August 1, 2014 until P.R.C. entered the third
    grade, increases Chandola's residential time with P.R.C. to one overnight stay per
    week and a full Friday afternoon through Sunday evening stay every other weekend.
    The third and final stage allows Chandola to have P.R.C. stay every Thursday night
    and every other weekend from Friday after school until Monday morning.
    Under the terms of this plan, each new stage commences only ifChandola has
    complied with several conditions designed to improve his parenting skills:
    The parties shall only progress to the next stage if the father has
    routinely abided by the mother's bedtime routine and time (unless
    otherwise recommended by the case manager); the child sleeps in her
    own room at the father's house (unless otherwise recommended by the
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    case manager); the father has remained compliant with counseling
    requirements; the father has successfully completed parent training; the
    father has abstained from discussing the case or any disputed
    facts/claims in the case with the child; the father has complied with the
    restrictions regarding paternal grandparent contact in Section 3.1 0; and
    the father has complied with any and all recommendations by the
    child's therapist, the parent trainer, and the case manager. If the parties
    disagree about the father's compliance with these conditions to
    progress to the next phase of residential time, the father may (within
    two months of the dates for potential progress to the next phase) bring
    a motion on the family law motions calendar with at least 14 days notice
    to the mother to resolve the disagreement.
    CP at 81. The "restrictions regarding paternal grandparent contact," id., are as
    follows:
    For Stage 1 and 2 the father shall not facilitate or allow either paternal
    grandparent to be present during the father's residential time except as
    follows: either or both paternal grandparents may be present up to 20%
    total of the father's time in any given calendar year. However the
    grandparents should not be present tor any parenting observations,
    training or coaching sessions. During the 20% time the father may
    leave the child with the grandparents i.e. he need not be present. This
    provision shall not be construed to create a right or entitlement for
    grandparent visitation but is intended to maintain the child's
    connection with her paternal grandparents while promoting direct
    parenting by the father without the presence of the grandparents. The
    father shall notify the mother and case manager in advance of any time
    his parents visit.
    CP at 84.
    Chandola appealed, arguing that his parenting behaviors did not have the kind
    of"adverse effect" on P.R.C. that the legislature required in RCW 26.09.191(3). He
    also sought attorney fees. The Court of Appeals affirmed, and Chandola petitioned
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    this court for review. In reMarriage ofChandola, noted at 
    174 Wn. App. 1073
    ,
    review granted, 
    179 Wn.2d 1008
    ,
    315 P.3d 531
     (2013). Vyas cross-petitioned this
    court for attorney fees on appeal.
    ANALYSIS
    Standard ofReview
    A trial court's parenting plan is reviewed for an abuse of discretion, which
    "occurs when a decision is manifestly unreasonable or based on untenable grounds
    or untenable reasons." In reMarriage of Katare, 
    175 Wn.2d 23
    , 35, 
    283 P.3d 546
    (2012) (citing In reMarriage of Littlefield, 
    133 Wn.2d 39
    , 46-47, 
    940 P.2d 1362
    (1997) ). The trial court's findings of fact are treated as verities on appeal, so long
    as they are supported by substantial evidence. !d. (citing Ferree v. Doric Co., 
    62 Wn.2d 561
    , 568, 
    383 P.2d 900
     (1963)). "Substantial evidence" is evidence sufficient
    to persuade a fair-minded person of the truth of the matter asserted. !d.
    While a parenting plan is reviewed for abuse of discretion, the trial court's
    discretion is cabined by several provisions in chapter 26.09 RCW, including the
    catchall provision at issue in this case: RCW 26.09.191(3)(g). !d. at 35-36. As noted
    above, RCW 26.09.191(3) bars the trial court from "preclud[ing] or limit[ing] any
    provisions of the parenting plan" (i.e., restricting parental conduct) unless the
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    evidence shows that "[a] parent's ... conduct may have an adverse effect on the
    child's best interests."
    Chandola makes two general arguments regarding the trial court's ruling and
    the Court of Appeals' decision. First, he argues that the trial court improperly relied
    on conditions that existed during the year before trial only because of Vyas's
    unfounded allegations of abuse. Second, he argues that the trial court applied an
    incorrect standard when it found an "adverse effect" justifying restrictions on parent-
    child contact. RCW 26.09.191(3).
    For the reasons given below, we disagree with Chandola's first argument-
    we find that the trial court did not rely at all on the discredited abuse allegations or
    on conditions resulting from those allegations. With regard to Chandola's second
    argument, we take this opportunity to clarify the level of "adverse effect" necessary
    to sustain parenting plan restrictions under RCW 26.09.191(3)(g)'s catchall
    provision: that adverse effect must be similar in severity to the adversity illustrated
    by that subsection's neighboring provisions, RCW 26.09.191(a)-(f).
    Applying that standard, we affirm the Court of Appeals' decision to uphold
    the restrictions on residential time and cosleeping.       With respect to the third
    restriction (the limit on grandparental contact), however, we find that the trial court
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    abused its discretion. We therefore reverse the Court of Appeals' decision to uphold
    that restriction.
    I.      The Trial Court Did Not Improperly Rely on Conditions That Resulted
    from the Unfounded Abuse Allegations
    Chandola first argues that the trial court improperly relied on the unfounded
    abuse allegations in two ways: (1) by crediting the court-appointed expert's
    relatively negative assessment, based on an in-home observation, of what Chandola
    contends was the "artificial environment" created by supervised visitation (imposed
    in the wake of the later-rejected sexual abuse allegations) and (2) by attributing
    P.R.C. 's improved social skills to her reduced contact with Chandola (and denying
    Chandola the opportunity to prove that his parenting skills had improved). Pet. for
    Review at 16-18. We are not persuaded.
    The record shows that the trial court based its decision on conditions that
    existed before the allegations, before the separation, and before the supervised
    visitation-not on conditions that existed during the parenting expert's home visits.
    See CP at 92 ("Prior to separation the father consistently engaged in a pattern of
    interaction with [P.R.C.] which ... lacked, in concerning degree, objectivity with
    respect to her healthy development."). The court did note that P.R.C.'s socialization
    had improved after her father's influence was reduced, but that is not unfair reliance
    on the conditions resulting from the unfounded abuse allegations. Rather, it is a
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    reasonable assessment of the facts that existed at trial, which is well within the
    court's discretion.
    As for Dr. Wheeler's in-home observation, it is true that she noted the "high
    energy" tenor of the observation. RP (Jan. 31, 2012) at 215-17. But this was due to
    Chandola' s own behavior, rather than any fact that resulted from supervised
    visitation itself. !d. at 215 ("there was a lot more activity, a lot more energy ... in
    part because of the number of people but also in part because father's style is very
    high energy"). Moreover, this observation does not appear to have played any
    significant role in the trial court's decision, which omitted any reference to
    Chandola's postseparation interactions with P.R.C.
    II.      Restrictions Imposed under RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) Must Be Reasonably
    Calculated To Prevent Physical, Mental, or Emotional Harm to the Child
    There is some overlap between the trial court's authority under RCW
    26.09.187, to establish the terms of the parenting plan, and its authority under RCW
    26.09.191(3), to "preclude or limit any provisions of the parenting plan." Practically
    speaking, a court can substantially restrict a parent's contact with his or her child
    simply by establishing a residential schedule pursuant to its discretion under RCW
    26.09.187.
    But that is not what the court did with the challenged restrictions here; instead,
    it proceeded under RCW 26.09.191(3).              The "limitations" in that statute are
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    fundamentally different from the provisions necessary to every parenting plan under
    RCW 26.09.187. Restrictions on a parent's geographic location, for example, are
    not authorized as typical parenting plan provisions under RCW 26.09.187. See
    Littlefield, 
    133 Wn.2d at 54-55
    ;   LAWS OF   2000, ch. 21. They are instead imposed
    under RCW 26.09.191(3). Similarly, restrictions on a parent's travel or conduct can
    be imposed only under RCW 26.09.191-not as features of the parenting plan under
    RCW 26.09.187. Katare, 175 Wn.2d at 35-37; In reMarriage ofWicklund, 
    84 Wn. App. 763
    ,770-72,
    932 P.2d 652
     (1996).
    Before imposing RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) restrictions, a trial court must find
    "'more than the normal ... hardships which predictably result from a dissolution of
    marriage."' Katare, 175 Wn.2dat36 (alteration in original) (quotingLittlefield, 
    133 Wn.2d at 55
    ). While the court "need not wait for actual harm to accrue before
    imposing restrictions," it may impose restrictions only where substantial evidence
    shows "'that a danger of ... damage exists."' Id. at 35-36 (emphasis added)
    (alteration in original) (quoting and citing In reMarriage of Burrill, 
    113 Wn. App. 863
    , 872, 
    56 P.3d 993
     (2002)).
    With respect to the level of harm required for restrictions under RCW
    26.09.191(3)(g), Chandola makes two arguments.         First, he urges this court to
    interpret RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) to impose a standard analogous to that applied in
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    nonparental custody proceedings. Under that approach, a trial court could not
    impose restrictions under RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) unless it found that a parent was
    incapable of"meet[ing] a child's basic needs" or that the restrictions were necessary
    to avoid '"actual detriment to [a] child's growth and development."' In re Custody
    ofB.M.H, 
    179 Wn.2d 224
    ,235-36,
    315 P.3d 470
     (2013) (construing chapter 26.10
    RCW, which governs nonparental actions for child custody (quoting In re Custody
    ofShields, 
    157 Wn.2d 126
    , 143, 
    136 P.3d 117
     (2006))). Second, Chandola contends
    that where the parents' "differing views can both be accommodated" without the
    imposition ofRCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions, any such restriction should be subject
    to strict scrutiny. Suppl. Br. of Pet'r at 2. Chandola contends that both of his
    arguments are compelled by the due process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment
    to the United States Constitution, which protects a parent's fundamental right to
    "autonomy in parenting." Id. at 5.
    We decline to analogize parenting plan restrictions to nonparental petitions
    for custody. The nonparental custody statutes are designed to address situations
    wholly different from a divorce. A restriction imposed under RCW 26.09.191(3)
    might be relatively minor-for instance, as here, a parent might be required to attend
    parenting classes-but the result sought in a nonparental custody petition is the
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    termination of parental custody. Thus, the legislature would likely disagree with
    Chandola's analogy.
    We also decline to subject Chandola's parenting plan to strict scrutiny. To be
    sure, the right to parental autonomy is a '"fundamental liberty interest protected by
    the Fourteenth Amendment,"' and the State may not intrude upon it absent a
    compelling interest and narrow tailoring. In re Custody of Smith, 13 
    7 Wn.2d 1
    , 14-
    15, 
    969 P.2d 21
     (1998) (quoting Santosky v. Kramer, 
    455 U.S. 745
    , 753, 
    102 S. Ct. 1388
    , 
    71 L. Ed. 2d 599
     (1982)). Strict scrutiny therefore applies to the state's
    infringement on parental autonomy in favor of a nonparent 's interest. But it does
    not apply in a proceeding characterized by the "equivalent parental positions of the
    parties." In re Parentage ofL.B., 
    155 Wn.2d 679
    , 710, 
    122 P.3d 161
     (2005). 2
    But RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) does require a particularized finding of a specific
    level of harm before restrictions may be imposed. Two principles of statutory
    interpretation compel this conclusion.
    First, the disputed catchall provision, RCW 26.09.191(3)(g), follows a list of
    specific "factors" that "may have an adverse effect on the child's best interests,"
    2
    This court has reached the same conclusion in numerous prior cases. See, e.g.,
    Katare, 175 Wn.2d at 42 (strict scrutiny has no application to parenting plan, because
    adverse parties have equivalent interests); Parentage ofL.B., 155 Wn.2d at 710 (same).
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    justifying restrictions on parent-child contact. RCW 26.09.191(3)(a)-(f). When a
    statute employs such a general catchall term in conjunction with specific terms, the
    general term is "deemed only to incorporate those things similar in nature or
    'comparable to' the specific terms." Simpson Inv. Co. v. Dep 't of Revenue, 
    141 Wn.2d 139
    ,151,
    3 P.3d 741
     (2000) (quotingJohnH Sellen Canst. Co. v. Dep'tof
    Revenue, 
    87 Wn.2d 878
    , 883-84, 
    558 P.2d 1342
     (1976)). In RCW 26.09.191(3), all
    of the factors specifically listed concern either the lack of any meaningful parent-
    child relationship whatsoever or conduct by the parent that seriously endangers the
    child's physical or emotional well-being:
    A parent's involvement or conduct may have an adverse effect on the
    child's best interests, and the court may preclude or limit any provisions
    of the parenting plan, if any of the following factors exist:
    (a) A parent's neglect or substantial nonperformance of parenting
    functions;
    (b) A long-term emotional or physical impairment which interferes
    with the parent's performance of parenting functions as defined in
    RCW 26.09.004;
    (c) A long-term impairment resulting from drug, alcohol, or other
    substance abuse that interferes with the performance of parenting
    functions;
    (d) The absence or substantial impairment of emotional ties between
    the parent and the child;
    (e) The abusive use of conflict by the parent which creates the
    danger of serious damage to the child's psychological development;
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    (f) A parent has withheld from the other parent access to the child
    for a protracted period without good cause.
    Consistent with the nature of these specific terms, trial courts typically invoke the
    catchall provision in RCW 26.09.191(3)(g) only after identifying a specific, and
    fairly severe, harm to the child. 3
    Second, statutory language is to be interpreted in context, considering
    "'related provisions, and the statutory scheme as a whole."' Lake v. Woodcreek
    Homeowners Ass 'n, 
    169 Wn.2d 516
    , 526, 
    243 P.3d 1283
     (2010) (quoting State v.
    Engel, 
    166 Wn.2d 572
    , 578, 
    210 P.3d 1007
     (2009)). Thus, RCW 26.09.191(3)(g)
    must be read in light of chapter 26.09 RCW's statement of policy, codified at RCW
    26.09.002. It provides that "the best interest of the child   i~   ordinarily served when
    the existing pattern of interaction between a parent and child is altered only to the
    extent necessitated by the changed relationship of the parents or as required to
    protect the child from physical, mental, or emotional harm." RCW 26.09.002
    (emphasis added).
    3
    E.g., Katare, 175 Wn.2d at 38 (permitting travel restrictions on the basis of
    evidence that father posed a risk of abduction). Courts have also relied on RCW
    26.09.191(3)(g) to impose visitation restrictions designed to prevent young children from
    spending large amounts of time in transit. E.g., In re Marriage of Fahey, 
    164 Wn. App. 42
    , 67-68, 
    262 P.3d 128
     (2011).
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    In light of this policy, as well as the nature of the specific grounds for
    parenting plan restrictions listed RCW 16.09.191(3)(a)-(f), we conclude that the
    legislature intended RCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions to apply only where necessary
    to "protect the child from physical, mental, or emotional harm," RCW 26.09.002,
    similar in severity to the harms posed by the "factors" specifically listed in RCW
    26.09.191 (3 )(a)-( f). A trial court abuses its discretion if it imposes a restriction that
    is not reasonably calculated to prevent such a harm.
    III.       The Trial Court Did Not Abuse Its Discretion by Limiting Chandola's
    Residential Time with P.R.C. or by Prohibiting Cosleeping; the Trial Court
    Did Abuse Its Discretion by Restricting P.R.C. 's Contact with Her Paternal
    Grandparents
    Chandola challenges three restrictions imposed by the trial court: (1) the
    limitation of his residE.mtial time with .PJ{.C. to one ovemighf stay arid one evening
    visit per week, 4 (2) the prohibition on cosleeping, and (3) the restriction on P.R.C.'s
    contact with her paternal grandparents. The trial court did not abuse its discretion
    by imposing the first two restrictions: the record shows that they were reasonably
    calculated to prevent physical, mental, or emotional harm to P.R.C. The trial court
    4
    The trial court imposed the restrictions on Chandola's residential time with P.R.C.
    under RCW 26.09.191(3)(g). See CP at 93 ("It is ... necessary to impose such restrictions
    as may best be anticipated [to] assure the mother's parenting is not diluted by the father.
    Certainly a 'fifty/fifty' parenting plan would not accomplish this." (emphasis added)).
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    did abuse its discretion, however, by restricting P.R.C.'s contact with her paternal
    grandparents.
    A. The trial court did not abuse its discretion by limiting Chandola 's
    residential time with P.R. C.
    Vyas asserts that "the trial focused [primarily] on [Chandola]'s parenting
    deficits and troubling personality traits" and that both the court-appointed expert,
    Dr. Susan Wheeler, and the father's expert witness, Dr. Marsha Hedrick, agreed that
    these deficits and traits were grounds to limit Chandola's parenting time. Resp't's
    Suppl. Br. at 2-3. There is ample support for this assertion in the record.
    The "deficits" and "traits" to which Vyas refers all involved Chandola's
    inability to provide P.R.C. with a proper diet, sleep schedule, or socialization. 
    Id.
    Vyas testified that when she was working full time, she would often arrive home in
    the evening to find that Chandola had not yet fed P.R.C. lunch, or that he had fed
    her only a cookie or donut.       She also stated that Chandola persistently and
    "randomly" woke P.R.C. up during the night to hold her, and that he would often be
    unable to eat or wash himself while Vyas was at work because he could not bring
    himself to put P.R.C. down. 3 VRP (Feb. 1, 2012) at 410-12.
    Several family friends testified to similar concerns, particularly relating to
    Chandola's constant holding of P.R.C., which prevented her from exploring and
    socializing, and to his refusal to establish a sleep or meal schedule for her. Indeed,
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    even one of Chandola's lay witnesses testified about Chandola's tendency to hold
    P.R.C. too much and to perceive himself as persecuted by friends and family who
    suggested that he alter his parenting practices. The common theme that emerged
    from the various witness' testimony was that prior to the separation (before
    Chandola's contact with P.R.C. was restricted) P.R.C. had been a fearful and sleep-
    deprived child. 5
    Dr. Wheeler testified that she believed Chandola's "obsessive compulsive,"
    overly protective parenting style appeared to be a means of "regulating his own
    anxiety versus recognizing what's really best for [P.R.C.]." 2 VRP (Jan. 31, 2012)
    at 189. She made similar comments about Chandola's habit of feeding P.R.C. milk
    -
    at night, which was contrary to both Vyas's wishes and P.R.C.'s pediatrician's
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    advice. Dr. Wheeler indicated that this was unhealthy for P.R.C. but done because
    it "felt good" to Chandola. ld. at 191.
    Ultimately, Dr. Wheeler recommended that P.R.C. have very limited
    residential time with Chandola because:
    ... I feel like the personality traits that I observed, while they didn't
    rise to the level to be consistent with .191 restrictions from the
    emotional impairment standpoint, I do have concerns that right now his
    5   One of Chandola's lay witnesses contradicted this testimony, but credibility
    determinations are for the trial court. Chatwood v. Chatwood, 
    44 Wn.2d 233
    , 240, 
    266 P.2d 782
     (1954) (trial judge better positioned than appellate court to weigh evidence and
    credibility in custody proceeding).
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    skills are not sufficient to be able to overcome some of those personality
    problems and exhibit skills where he's kind of mastered some of these
    deficits that he has right now that would bring him up to the level of
    being a good enough parent that would warrant having equivalent
    access .
    . . . So that's why I'm recommending these kind of lengthy times that
    they can spend together and have very enriched, rewarding time
    together where they can accomplish a lot of parent-child tasks to help
    foster and maintain the relationship that they already have, but without
    unduly exposing her to some of these more problematic traits until these
    can kind of be better regulated.
    
    Id. at 235-37
    . Significantly, Dr. Hedrick testified that she shared Dr. Wheeler's
    concerns about the nighttime bottle feeding, overly protective parenting, lack of
    structure, and lack of empathy.          She agreed that Chandola's "difficulties
    ·· · -understanding normal child development''-particularly his need to hold P.R.C.
    instead of letting her explore-were cause for concern. 3 VRP (Feb. 1, 2012) at
    492-93.
    Dr. Hedrick testified at length about the legitimacy of Dr. Wheeler's report
    and recommendations. She stated that she considered Dr. Wheeler's written report
    to be fundamentally sound but also thought that Dr. Wheeler should have
    recommended more visitation time for Chandola and P.R.C. Dr. Hedrick testified
    that in order to protect P.R. C.'s relationship with Chandola, the court would need to
    allow at least one overnight stay per week. The residential schedule ultimately
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    imposed by the trial court met this criterion. (Dr. Wheeler's recommended schedule
    afforded Chandola only one overnight stay every other week.)
    In light of this record, we conclude that the trial court did not abuse its
    discretion by imposing restrictions on Chandola's residential time with P.R.C.
    Contrary to Chandola's assertions, the trial court's concerns were not simply a
    matter of parenting "style."    Suppl. Br. of Pet'r at 14. Rather, they involved
    fundamental human needs: sleep, nutrition, and socialization. The trial court's
    written findings make clear that it believed P.R.C. had made substantial emotional
    and social progress since her parents' separation (which reduced her time with
    Chandola): "It is telling that subsequent to separation the child's behavior repertoire
    increased dramatically. As more than one lay witness observed since separation
    '[P.R.C.] is a changed child, more outgoing, interactive."' CP at 92-93 (citations
    omitted).
    In imposing the residential restrictions, the trial court clearly intended to
    ensure that this progress continue unhindered. There is substantial evidence in the
    record to support the conclusion that these restrictions were reasonably calculated to
    accomplish that end. We therefore affirm the Court of Appeals' decision upholding
    the parenting plan's residential schedule.
    B. The trial court did not abuse its discretion when it prohibited
    Chandola from cosleeping with P.R. C.
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    Vyas contends, and we agree, that the cosleeping restriction was imposed so
    that P .R.C. could maintain a consistent sleep schedule-and not because of any
    innate distrust of cosleeping.
    Vyas testified that Chandola's method of putting P.R.C. to bed was to show
    her YouTube videos, sometimes until one or two in the morning, and that P.R.C.
    was chronically sleep deprived as a result. She also testified that Chandola could
    not resist picking P.R.C. up in the middle of the night and that Vyas therefore
    believed that cosleeping was unhealthy for both Chandola and P.R.C. The trial court
    apparently found this testimony credible. 6
    Chandola concedes that sleep deprivation 1s a harm justifying RCW
    26.09.-191(3)(g) restrictions. He argues thatthe cosieepirigprohibition was improper
    only because it was not narrowly tailored to prevent that harm. He contends that the
    court should simply have prohibited him from picking P .R.C. up while she slept,
    instead of prohibiting co sleeping altogether. He asserts that the blanket prohibition
    "forced [him] and P.R.C. to violate the standards of their culture." Suppl. Br. of
    Pet'r at 20.
    6With respect to the cosleeping issue, Dr. Wheeler made no recommendation other
    than to "comply[] with the parent trainer recommendations versus abiding by what the
    mother wants." 2 VRP (Jan. 31, 2012) at 241.
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    In reMarriage ofChandola (No. 89093-5)
    As explained above, parenting plan provisions are not subject to strict scrutiny
    and thus need not be narrowly tailored. Instead, restrictions imposed under RCW
    26.09.191(3) need only be reasonably calculated to prevent the kind of harm
    described above. Thus, Chandola's narrow tailoring argument fails.
    Without doubt, a trial court must consider cultural factors when imposing a
    parenting plan. In re Parentage of Jannot, 
    149 Wn.2d 123
    , 127, 
    65 P.3d 664
     (2003)
    ("parenting plans are individualized decisions that depend upon a wide variety of
    factors, including 'culture, family history, the emotional stability of the parents and
    children, finances, and any of the other factors that bear upon the interests of the
    children"' (quoting In re Parentage of Jannot, 
    110 Wn. App. 16
    , 20, 
    37 P.3d 1265
    -
    (2002))). In this case, the court heard testimony from both parents regarding their
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    positive assessment of co sleeping before it prohibited Chandola from continuing that
    practice. But the court also considered testimony that P .R.C. was sleep deprived and
    only then determined that the cosleeping prohibition was necessary.                     It also
    preserved flexibility, ordering that the prohibition be enforced "unless otherwise
    recommended by the case manager." CP at 81.
    The cosleeping restriction was therefore reasonably calculated to prevent
    mental and physical harm to P.R.C. We therefore affirm the Court of Appeals'
    decision to the extent that it upholds this restriction.
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    In reMarriage ofChandola (No. 89093-5)
    C. The trial court abused its discretion when it ordered that
    Chandola 's parents be present for no more than 20 percent of
    Chandola 's residential time with P.R. C.
    Unlike the other two restrictions challenged in this case, the restriction on
    grandparental contact does not meet the RCW 26.09.191(3) standard. Vyas asserts
    that the trial court imposed this restriction because "the presence of [Chandola]'s
    parents prevented [Chandola] from developing the necessary parenting skills and
    contributed to conflict by demeaning and devaluing [Vyas]." Resp't's Suppl. Br. at
    14.
    _- · - - Ihere_is_ample_supporLin_the_record_for_the_ conclusion_thaLprior_to_the______ _
    separation, Chandola and his parents had diminished Vyas's role in the family and
    coached P.R.C. to choose her father over her mother. There is also ample support
    for the conclusion that Chandola relied on his parents to care for P.R.C. But neither
    conclusion warrants the imposition of the trial court's third restriction.
    Assuming that Chandola's parents did undermine Vyas's bond with P.R.C.,
    the severe restrictions on Chandola's parenting time are more than sufficient to
    remedy this harm. Nothing in the record suggests that Chandola and his parents
    could continue to diminish Vyas' s role after she became the primary custodial
    parent.
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    With respect to Chandola's reliance on his parents, we are unable to discern
    what harm the trial court believed this was causing P.R.C. The trial court did not
    identify any particular harm in its ruling; it opined only that Chandola-the father,
    not the child-was insufficiently independent:
    [Chandola]'s opportunities to parent and to learn from the
    opportunities must in large part be without the presence of his parents.
    The court recognizes that there are several cultural aspects to the history
    of the marriage and these may or may not include the paternal
    grandparents [sic] approach and influence. Or it may be due to
    [Chandola] being an only child, or likely a combination of both.
    Whatever the antecedents of the extended family dynamic the so called
    "team" approach at this time needs to stop. Therefore [Chandola]'s
    residential time must exclude his parents with occasional exceptions ....
    CP at 93-94.
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    This ruling is a statement of opinion. It is an opinion that a father-an "only
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    child" of Indian "cultural ... history"-relies too much on "extended family" to help
    him raise his child.                                
    Id.
           That opinion is not sufficient to support RCW
    26.09.191(3)(g) restrictions. It is not a finding that P.R.C. was at risk of a physical,
    mental, or emotional harm comparable to the harms inherent in the factors listed in
    RCW 26.09.191(3)(a)-(f).
    Indeed, the facts here compel the opposite conclusion. The record contains
    no evidence that Chandola's reliance on his parents was causing P.R.C. to go unfed,
    unwashed, or otherwise uncared for. Instead, it shows that Chandola's mother was
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    In reMarriage ofChandola (No. 89093-5)
    a doting grandmother who carefully attended to P.R.C.'s needs. 7 The restriction on
    grandparent contact thus appears calculated to increase Chandola's independence
    rather than to prevent mental, physical, or emotional harm to P .R.C. This is not
    permitted under RCW 26.09.191(3)(g).
    Any other conclusion leaves families vulnerable to a trial court's biases. By
    requiring trial courts to identify specific harms to the child before ordering parenting
    plan restrictions, RCW 26.09.191(3) prevents arbitrary imposition of the court's
    preferences.      Wicklund, 84 Wn. App. at 770-71 (distinguishing trial court's
    disapproval of homosexuality from a finding of harm sufficient to justify parenting
    plan restrictions (citing In reMarriage ofCabalquinto, 
    43 Wn. App. 518
    , 519, 718
    ___ _f.~q ?_ (}<;)~~))).   _'f~Ls__!sp~rti~lJJarly i~po~ta9:t   in_ t~e _f(lrngY l~'Y- c_o_ntext,_wher~the
    trial court is empowered to regulate intimate aspects of the parties' lives. See
    Santosky, 
    455 U.S. at 762-63
     (noting that in the family law context minority groups
    are particularly "vulnerable to judgments based on cultural or class bias[ es ]").
    We do not mean to imply that the trial court here was motivated by bias or
    cultural insensitivity; we conclude only that it did not justify the restriction on
    7 If Chandola' s basic parenting skills remained deficient after the separation, P .R.C.
    might be harmed if her grandmother were absent and Chandola could not independently
    provide for her basic needs. But the court-ordered "in-home" parent training is presumably
    sufficient to address that hypothetical harm. CP at 90. If it were not, then P.R.C. would
    certainly be harmed, rather than protected, by the restriction on grandparent contact.
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    grandparent contact with the finding of relatively severe harm required by RCW
    26.09.191(3)(g). We therefore reverse the portion ofthe Court of Appeals' decision
    that upholds the restriction on grandparent contact.
    IV.    Neither Party Is Entitled to Attorney Fees or Costs
    Both parties request attorney fees under RCW 26.09.140, which permits an
    appellate court to award costs and/or fees after "considering the financial resources
    of both parties." 8 Vyas also requests fees on the basis of Chandola's alleged
    intransigence. A party's "intransigence" is an equitable as opposed to statutory basis
    for awarding attorney fees. In reMarriage of Greenlee, 
    65 Wn. App. 703
    , 708-09,
    
    829 P.2d 1120
     (1992).         We affirm the Court of Appeals' decision denying
    Chandola's request and deny both parties' requests for attorney fees in this court.
    A. Neither party is entitled to attorney fees under RCW 26.09.140
    RCW 26.09.140 provides that "[u]pon any appeal, the appellate court may, in
    its discretion, order a party to pay for the cost to the other party of maintaining the
    appeal and attorneys' fees in addition to statutory costs." This statute applies only
    8
    Under Rules of Appellate Procedure (RAP) 18.1, a party has a right to recover
    reasonable attorney fees or expenses on review in the Supreme Court if authorized by law,
    and if the party has put the request in his or her opening brief. State ex rel. MM G. v.
    Graham, 
    159 Wn.2d 623
    , 637-38, 
    152 P.3d 1005
     (2007). Chandola did not request
    attorney fees in his briefs to this court, but under RAP 18.1 (b) "[r]equests made at the Court
    of Appeals will be considered as continuing requests at the Supreme Court .... "
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    In reMarriage ofChandola (No. 89093-5)
    to dissolution proceedings and "invest[ s] appellate courts with discretion to order a
    party to pay fees and costs to the opposing party [after] consider[ ation] of financial
    circumstances." In re Marriage of Rideout, 
    150 Wn.2d 337
    , 357, 
    77 P.3d 1174
    (2003).
    This court has awarded attorney fees under RCW 26.09.140 where the
    requesting party demonstrated "disparity in [the parties'] income." In reMarriage
    of Buecking, 
    179 Wn.2d 438
    , 455, 
    316 P.3d 999
     (2013). It has also denied fees on
    the basis that the requesting party did not "substantially prevail[] on appeal." In re
    Marriage ofMcCausland, 
    159 Wn.2d 607
    ,622, 
    152 P.3d 1013
     (2007). Here, neither
    party satisfies those requirements.
    -
    First, Chandola challenged three conditions imposed in the parenting plan and
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    prevailed as to one. Thus, neither party here has "substantially prevailed" before
    this court. See State v. Nolan, 
    141 Wn.2d 620
    , 626, 
    8 P.3d 300
     (2000) (citing RAP
    14.2 and collecting cases; noting that "when both parties prevail on major issues,
    there may be no substantially prevailing party").
    Second, the record in this case does not establish a disparity in the parties'
    income that would justify an award of fees to either party. Vyas, who is employed
    full time, receives roughly $1,000 per month in child support payments and
    preschool tuition from Chandola, who is currently seeking full time work.
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    In reMarriage ofChandola (No. 89093-5)
    The parties appear to have roughly equivalent savings. Both cite financial
    hardship. Vyas states that she is in debt for dental bills and that her mortgage
    exceeds the value of her home. Chandola points out that he has had to bear 90
    percent of the costs of the supervised visitation, has paid for counseling as a result
    of the unfounded sexual abuse allegations, and is underemployed. Both parties
    assert that the other receives substantial support from his or her parents.                     The
    financial affidavits submitted indicate that both have relied fairly heavily on support
    from family to fund this litigation.
    Based on this record, we deny both parties' requests for discretionary attorney
    fees under RCW 26.09.140.
    B. c;Jz_qn_d_Q_lq_'s_ _alleged__ "intrans_igen~e ~' d_Of!S 710t jus_t(fy _a11 cnyar_d _Qf
    fees to Vyas
    '"Awards of attorney fees based upon the intransigence of one party have been
    granted when the party engaged in "foot-dragging" and "obstruction" ... or simply
    when one party made the trial unduly difficult and increased legal costs by his or her
    actions."' J(atare, 17 5 Wn.2d at 42 (alteration in original) (quoting Greenlee, 
    65 Wn. App. at 708
    ). This court denied the mother's request for attorney fees inKatare,
    even though the petitioner in that case "repeatedly reasserted arguments that had
    been rejected" over the course of three separate appeals. !d. at 43 (Chambers, J.,
    concurring). Despite Vyas's contrary views, Chandola has not engaged in behavior
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    like that of the petitioner in Katare. His arguments to this court are less extreme and
    fewer in number than those he advanced in the Court of Appeals. Moreover, he
    prevailed on one of them. We therefore deny Vyas's request for attorney fees on the
    basis of intransigence.
    CONCLUSION
    Trial courts have broad discretion to create parenting plans tailored to the
    needs of the individuals involved in a particular dissolution.         This discretion
    promotes finality, preventing "extended litigation [that] can be harmful to children."
    Jannot, 149 Wn.2d at 127. It also vests appropriate authority in the trial court, which
    is best situated to "assign the proper weight to each of the varied factors" relevant to
    a particular case. I d. (emphasis omitted).
    But while trial courts have broad discretion in the context of a parenting plan,
    that discretion must be exercised within the bounds of the applicable statutes. Here,
    the applicable statute is RCW 26.09.191(3)(g). It permits parenting plan restrictions
    only when they are reasonably calculated to prevent relatively severe physical,
    mental, or emotional harm to the child.
    Two of the three challenged restrictions in this case satisfy that standard-the
    residential provisions and cosleeping prohibition. We therefore affirm the Court of
    Appeals' decision upholding these restrictions. The third challenged restriction-
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    In reMarriage ofChandola (No. 89093-5)
    limiting the child's contact with her paternal grandparents-does not. We therefore
    reverse the Court of Appeals' decision upholding that restriction.
    32
    Chandola v. Chandola (No. 89093-5)
    WE CONCUR:
    ~~+)g.
    33
    In re Marriage of Chandola
    No. 89093-5
    OWENS, J. (dissenting) -                             One ofthe most important and difficult
    responsibilities of our judicial system is adjudicating family law cases. This burden
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    falls heaviest on our trial court judges, who personally oversee these deeply emotional
    proceedings. The decisions they face "are difficult at best," which is why this court
    has repeatedly instructed that those decisions should "seldom be changed upon
    appeal." In reMarriage ofLandry, 
    103 Wn.2d 807
    , 809, 
    699 P.2d 214
     (1985). The
    emotional and financial interests ofthe families "are best served by finality." 
    Id.
    Therefore, when reviewing trial court decisions in family law cases, "[a]ppellate
    courts should not encourage appeals by tinkering with them." I d. (emphasis added).
    In this case, the majority oversteps its role as a reviewing court and improperly
    substitutes its judgment for that of the trial court. I respectfully dissent.
    In re Marriage of Chandola
    89093-5
    Owens, J., Dissenting
    ANALYSIS
    A trial court has wide discretion to set the terms of a parenting plan, and we
    will not reverse its decision unless we find that it abused its discretion. In re
    Marriage ofLittlefield, 
    133 Wn.2d 39
    , 46,
    940 P.2d 1362
     (1997). An abuse of
    discretion occurs when a trial court's "decision is manifestly unreasonable or based on
    untenable grounds or untenable reasons." !d. at 46-47. "A court's decision is
    manifestly unreasonable if it is outside the range of acceptable choices, given the facts
    and the applicable legal standard." Id. at 47. A court's decision "is based on
    untenable grounds if the factual findings are unsupported by the record." Id. A
    court's decision "is based on untenable reasons if it is based on an incorrect standard
    or the facts do not meet the requirements of the correct standard." !d.
    In this case, the trial judge presided over a trial that lasted more than a week
    and heard testimony from many witnesses, including family members, friends, and
    multiple parenting experts. Ultimately, the evidence showed that the father, Manjul
    Yarn Chandola, lacked necessary parenting skills and suffered from problematic
    personality traits. The trial judge expressly found that the father's conduct was
    "adverse to the best interests ofthe child." Clerk's Papers (CP) at 92. The trial judge
    found that Chandola "was unwilling or unable to establish boundaries, routines,
    schedules, and structure" and that he "discouraged exploration and independence."
    !d. The trial judge also found that Chandola was unable to recognize many of the
    2
    In re Marriage of Chandola
    89093-5
    Owens, J., Dissenting
    issues with his parenting. This was consistent with the parenting expert's finding that
    Chandola had difficulty "integrating data inconsistent with his view of reality." Id. at
    93.
    To address the issues with Chandola' s lack of parenting skills, the trial judge
    imposed "such restrictions as may best be anticipated [to] assure the mother's
    parenting is not diluted by the father." Id. The court imposed restrictions "designed
    to address increased awareness" for the father but also give him the opportunity to
    parent regularly. Id. The court expected that this would allow evaluation of"his
    judgment and reasoning with regard to parenting decisions." !d. The majority does
    not object to most of the restrictions imposed by the trial court, including requiring the
    father to:
    -     Abide by the mother's bedtime routine and time;
    -     Have his daughter sleep in her own room when at his house;
    -     Comply with counseling requirements;
    -     Complete parent training;
    -     Abstain from discussing this court case with his daughter; and
    -     Comply with any recommendations made by the child's therapist, the parent
    trainer, and the case manager.
    I agree with the majority that the trial court is allowed to impose these restrictions,
    which were designed to prevent immediate harm to Chandola's daughter and also
    improve his parenting skills so that he would be able to increase his time with her in
    the future without bringing any harm to his daughter. It was and is Chandola's lack of
    parenting skills that harms his daughter, not any malicious intent. However, the
    3
    In re Marriage of Chandola
    89093-5
    Owens, J., Dissenting
    majority singles out one restriction for reversal: the requirement that when Chandola
    spends time with his daughter, he must ensure that most of that time is spent without
    the presence of his parents so that he may gain necessary parenting skills. I see no
    basis for overturning that term of the parenting plan, which is reasonably calculated to
    prevent future harm to Chandola's daughter.
    The majority claims that "[t]he trial court did not identify any particular harm
    in its ruling" that would justify the restriction, Majority at 26, but that is untrue. The
    trial judge clearly found that Chandola' s daughter was being harmed by his parenting
    deficiencies, and created a parenting plan designed to give Chandola the opportunity
    and resources to develop needed parenting skills so that he would be able to spend
    time parenting his daughter in the future without harming her. The trial judge made a
    specific finding that Chandola needed to spend parenting time without his parents for
    the purpose of developing his parenting skills. CP at 84. Many of the other
    restrictions had the same goal, including the requirement that Chandola complete
    parent training.
    The restrictions-including the requirement that Chandola spend parenting
    time without his parents-were designed to prevent immediate harm to Chandola' s
    daughter resulting from his lack of parenting skills as well as harm over the long term.
    It is clear that the restrictions were specifically designed to improve Chandola' s
    parenting skills to avoid harm to his daughter because the restrictions were set to be
    4
    In re Jvfarriage of Chandola
    89093-5
    Owens, J., Dissenting
    implemented in stages, with Chandola scheduled to have increased time with his
    daughter after demonstrating compliance with the restrictions and presumably
    improving his parenting skills.
    The majority acknowledges that parenting plan provisions need not be
    "narrowly tailored" to prevent harm, only "reasonably calculated" to prevent harm.
    Majority at 24. Here, each of the restrictions in the parenting plan was reasonably
    calculated to either prevent immediate harm or help Chandola develop the parenting
    skills he needs to prevent harm in the long term. The judge carefully explained that
    the requirement that Chandola spend time with his daughter practicing those parenting
    skills without his parents present was for that same purpose. Notably, this restriction
    is lifted after the first two stages of the parenting plan, presumably because those
    stages are designed to ensure that Chandola will gain those needed parenting skills.
    Thus, this restriction was temporary and tailored to fit the specific needs of the
    situation.
    The majority would overturn the judge's conclusion based solely on its reading
    of the record. I disagree. The judge heard from the family members and the parenting
    experts and concluded that this temporary requirement, in combination with the other
    provisions of the parenting plan, would help Chandola develop those parenting skills
    he needs to be able to spend time with his daughter without harming her. The trial
    court's assessment of Chandola' s problematic lack of parenting skills is supported in
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    In re Marriage of Chandola
    89093-5
    Owens, J., Dissenting
    the record and confirmed by the dramatic improvement in his daughter's behavior
    after the parents separated and the daughter began living with the mother. Since the
    separation, witnesses testified that the daughter '"is a changed child, more outgoing,
    interactive."' CP at 93. The majority acknowledges that the child "made substantial
    emotional and social progress" after she began living primarily with her mother and
    that "the trial court clearly intended to ensure that [the daughter's] progress continue
    unhindered." Majority at 22. To ensure that progress continued, the trial court crafted
    a parenting plan reasonably calculated to improve Chandola's parenting skills, the
    ultimate issue causing harm to the daughter. It did not abuse its discretion in setting
    the terms of that parenting plan, so I would affirm.
    CONCLUSION
    Every family law case is unique. Each family faces different challenges, and
    trial court judges are responsible for crafting orders and plans that take those
    challenges into account. Trial judges have wide discretion in those decisions, and we
    seldom upset them on appeal. This case is no different: the trial court judge oversaw
    an extensive trial, identified Chandola' s parenting deficits as the primary cause for
    concern, and carefully designed a parenting plan to give Chandola the opportunity and
    resources to address those deficits while maintaining a relationship with his daughter.
    While some members of this court might have designed a different plan to achieve
    those goals, that is not our decision to make. We must be cautious of substituting our
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    judgment for that of the trial court judge. I agree with the Court of Appeals' holding
    that the parenting plan in this case was within the discretion of the trial court.
    I respectfully dissent.
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