In the Interest of: K.D., a Minor , 2016 Pa. Super. 162 ( 2016 )


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    2016 PA Super 162
    IN THE INTEREST OF: K.D., A MINOR             IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF
    PENNSYLVANIA
    APPEAL OF: D.S. & L.S.
    No. 1975 MDA 2015
    Appeal from the Decree entered October 14, 2015,
    in the Court of Common Pleas of Lackawanna County,
    Orphans' Court, at No(s): A77-2013.
    IN THE INTEREST OF: K.D., A MINOR             IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF
    PENNSYLVANIA
    APPEAL OF: LACKAWANNA COUNTY
    OFFICE OF YOUTH AND FAMILY
    SERVICES
    No. 1983 MDA 2015
    Appeals from the Decree entered October 14, 2015,
    in the Court of Common Pleas of Lackawanna County,
    Orphans' Court, at No(s): A77-2013.
    BEFORE: MUNDY, DUBOW, and STRASSBURGER,* JJ.
    OPINION BY DUBOW, J.:                                   FILED JULY 22, 2016
    *Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court.
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    D.S. and L.S. (“Pre-Adoptive Parents”) and the Lackawanna County
    Office of Youth and Family (“the Agency”) appeal from the Decree that the
    Orphan’s Court entered granting the Petition to Adopt K.D. (“Child”) that the
    Child’s maternal grandmother, E.D. (“Grandmother”), filed pursuant to the
    Adoption Act, 23 Pa.C.S §§ 2101-2910.1 In granting Grandmother’s petition,
    the Orphan’s Court denied the Petition to Adopt that the Pre-Adoptive
    Parents filed.
    After thorough review, we vacate the Decree granting Grandmother’s
    adoption petition and remand to the Orphans’ Court with instructions to
    grant the Petition to Adopt that Pre-Adoptive Parents filed.        We do so
    because the Orphan’s Court based its Decree solely on the Child’s biological
    connection to Grandmother. The Orphans’ Court ignored the undisputed
    evidence that the Child is traumatized by her visits with Grandmother and
    Grandmother consistently shows poor judgment when attempting to meet
    the Child’s needs. Moreover, the Child is bonded to, and is thriving in the
    care of, Pre-Adoptive Parents. The Child, who is four years old, has lived
    with Pre-Adoptive Parents for most of her life. Therefore, it is in the Child’s
    best interests for Pre-Adoptive Parents to adopt the Child.
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    On December 5, 2015, we denied Pre-Adoptive Parents’ motion for
    consolidation of these appeals. After our substantive review of the parties’
    briefs and the joint record submitted on appeal, we now sua sponte
    consolidate the Agency’s and Pre-Adoptive Parents’ appeals in the interests
    of judicial economy and for ease of disposition.
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    Factual and Procedural History
    The Child was born on December 14, 2011. On March 12, 2012, when
    she was almost three months old, the Lackawanna County Office of Youth
    and Family Services (“the Agency”) removed the Child from her mother
    because the Child, while in the mother’s care, suffered severe chemical
    burns to her eyes as a result of someone putting an alkaline cleaning
    product in her eyes. The Child spent two weeks in Wills Eye Hospital. The
    Child is legally blind and remains medically fragile. She has undergone, and
    will continue to undergo, multiple eye surgeries for which extensive post-
    operative care is required, including multiple kinds of eye drops a day and
    various eye patches.
    At the time of the injury, the Child was living with her mother, who
    was seventeen years old, and Grandmother. Following an investigation by
    the Agency, the Agency found that the injury was “non-accidental” and
    “indicated” both the mother and Grandmother as the perpetrators of the
    child abuse.
    On May 12, 2012, the court adjudicated the Child dependent and
    placed the Child with a family member. The family member, however, found
    it too stressful to meet the Child’s medical needs and deal with the mother.
    After two months, the family member asked the Agency to remove the Child
    from her care. The Agency then placed the Child with Pre-Adoptive Parents,
    who are trained to care for medically fragile children.      The Child has
    remained with Pre-Adoptive Parents for the past three and a half years. Pre-
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    Adoptive Parents have years of experience fostering medically fragile
    children and provide consistent and high quality medical care for the Child as
    well as a loving and caring home.
    In 2014, the mother voluntarily relinquished her parental rights to the
    Child.    The court then terminated the parental rights of the Child’s father
    and changed the Child’s permanency goal to adoption.
    After the court terminated the mother’s parental rights, the court
    ordered the Agency to provide Grandmother with a weekly two-hour, “line-
    of-sight” supervised visit.2
    Grandmother appealed her child abuse “indicated” status, and the
    administrative agency eventually expunged the finding. Consequently, the
    Agency arranged for the Child to have longer line-of-sight supervised visits
    with Grandmother.3 Those visits occurred once a week and lasted four hours
    each. The Agency never recommended increasing the length of the visits
    because of the Agency’s concerns expressed in visitation reports.       N.T. at
    98.
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    2
    “Line-of-sight” visits are the Agency’s most restrictive types of visits. They
    require that someone monitor the visit at all times. See Notes of Testimony
    (N.T.), 8/13/15, at 84-85.
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    Grandmother also accompanied Pre-Adoptive Parents and the Child to
    many of the Child’s medical appointments and would visit at the Pre-
    Adoptive home on major holidays.
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    On March 6, 2015, Pre-Adoptive Parents filed a Report of Intention to
    Adopt the Child in accordance with 23 Pa.C.S. §§ 2530 and 2531(c), and
    attached a pre-adoptive investigation and home study.      They then filed a
    Petition for Adoption on April 9, 2015.
    On May 5, 2015, the Agency filed a Petition to Intervene, which the
    Orphans’ Court granted. The Orphans’ Court also continued an evidentiary
    hearing on Pre-Adoptive Parents’ Adoption Petition, and directed that
    Grandmother be given notice of the petitions and the new date for the
    hearing on the Petition for Adoption of May 26, 2015.
    On May 21, 2015, Grandmother filed a response to Pre-Adoptive
    Parents’ Adoption Petition, as well a counterclaim Petition for Adoption. The
    Agency and Pre-Adoptive Parents filed preliminary objections asserting that
    Grandmother had not properly intervened and had not attached appropriate
    documentation to her counterclaim adoption petition. The trial court denied
    the preliminary objections.
    On August 13, 2015, the Honorable Thomas Munley held an
    evidentiary hearing on both Petitions to Adopt. At the hearing, Pre-Adoptive
    Parents presented the testimony of Pre-Adoptive Mother, as well as that of
    present and former Agency caseworkers, Sharon Roginski, Stephanie Herne,
    Jane Leach, and Lisa Gruszewski, who worked closely with the Child and the
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    parties, and an in-home nurse, Tammy Miller.4           Grandmother presented
    testimony from the relative with whom the Agency had initially placed the
    Child, as well as her own testimony.
    At the end of the hearing, the Child’s Guardian Ad Litem, Kevin
    O’Hara, Esq., testified that it was in the Child’s best interest to remain in the
    Pre-Adoptive parents’ home. The Orphans’ Court requested briefs from the
    parties, articulating his analysis of this case as between the Pre-Adoptive
    Parents, to whom the Child is more attached than anybody, and the
    Grandmother who is a blood relative:
    … [T]he [C]hild has been living with the [Pre-Adoptive Parents]
    for three years. And they’re doing a great job raising this child.
    I’m sure at this point the child is more attached to the [Pre-
    Adoptive Parents] than anybody. But the point is [Grandmother]
    is a blood relative. So, this is what we have to decide, amongst
    other things. But that’s a major issue here.
    N.T. at 238.
    On October 14, 2015, the Orphans’ Court granted Grandmother’s
    Petition to Adopt and entered a Decree stating that the Orphan’s Court
    “accept[ed] the Petition filed by [Grandmother] in regard to [the Child], and
    will permit her to schedule an Adoption Hearing within six months of the
    date of this Decree[.]”       Decree, 10/14/15.   In addition, the court directed
    the Agency “to facilitate the transition of [the Child] from foster placement
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    Tammy Miller, R.N., works at the pre-adoptive home 5 days a week, 8
    hours a day, to provide care for one of the other medically fragile children in
    the family.
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    to placement with [Grandmother] as the child’s adoptive resource.”         Id.
    Both Pre-Adoptive Parents5 and the Agency filed timely appeals.            The
    Orphans’ Court did not require the parties to comply with Pa.R.A.P. 1925(a).
    Issues Raised on Appeal
    Pre-Adoptive Parents raises the following issues:
    1. Did the orphans’ court err as a matter of law in denying
    [Pre-Adoptive Parents’] petition for adoption and
    accepting [Maternal Grandmother’s] petition for
    adoption when the orphans’ court did not engage in any
    analysis of [K.D.’s] best interests, did not consider [her]
    special medical needs or emotional needs, and issued a
    decision contrary to the evidence presented and the
    recommendations of the [A]gency, [K.D.’s] guardian ad
    litem and [K.D.’s] Court-Appointed Special Advocates?
    2. Did the orphans’ court err as a matter of law in
    overemphasizing [Maternal Grandmother’s] status as a
    “blood relative” of [K.D.] by making it the controlling
    factor in its decision and in minimizing [Pre-Adoptive
    Parents’] relationship to [K.D.] by treating them as
    foster parents rather than preadoptive [sic] parents?
    3. Did the orphans’ court err as a matter of law in allowing
    [Maternal Grandmother] to participate in adoption
    proceedings and in accepting [her] petition for adoption
    over [Pre-Adoptive Parents’] petition for adoption when
    [Maternal Grandmother] was not granted leave of court
    to intervene in the adoption proceedings and did not
    secure the required consent of the [A]gency to her
    proposed adoption, and accordingly lacked standing to
    adopt [K.D.]?
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    Although this ruling appears to be interlocutory and the Orphans’ Court did
    not expressly deny Pre-Adoptive Parents’ competing adoption petition, we
    conclude that Pre-Adoptive Parents’ appeal is properly before us. See
    Adoption of J.E.F., 
    864 A.2d 1207
     (Pa. Super. 1996).
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    4. Did the orphans’ court err as a matter of law in failing
    to consider whether the statements in [Maternal
    Grandmother’s] petition were true, whether the needs
    and welfare of [K.D.] will be promoted by [Maternal
    Grandmother’s] adoption, and whether [she] met the
    requirements of the Adoption Act when Section 2902 of
    the Adoption Act requires a court to make these
    findings in permitting an adoption?
    Pre-Adoptive Parents’ Brief at 4-5.
    The Agency raised the following issues:
    1. Whether the Orphans’ Court erred by allowing [E.D.] to
    participate in these adoption proceedings without a
    hearing or an order filed of record allowing intervention,
    by not dismissing the counter[-]petition [for] adoption,
    and by dismissing [Maternal Grandmother’s] petition for
    adoption for failure to have the required attachments?
    2. Whether the Orphans’ Court erred by not performing a
    best interests of the child analysis and by not
    determining if the three requirements of 23 Pa.C.S.A.
    [§] 2902 were met?
    3. Whether the Orphans’ Court erred by not considering
    the concerns about [Maternal Grandmother] raised by
    the Agency and [K.D’s court-appointed special
    advocates]      including [Maternal      Grandmother’s]
    behavior during visits with [K.D.], difficulty in
    administering medication during visits, [K.D.’s] behavior
    following visits, and whether [K.D.] has a bond with
    [Maternal Grandmother], who has not moved past line
    of sight supervision?
    4. Whether the Orphans’ Court erred by concluding that
    the Agency did not increase visitation when the
    evidence shows that [K.D.] was dependent and all
    aspects including visitation were subject to the three
    months permanency review hearings of the Juvenile
    Division of the Court of Common Pleas?
    5. Whether the Orphans’ Court erred by determining that
    [Maternal Grandmother] as an eligible foster parent was
    on an “equal footing” to the Pre-Adoptive Parents when
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    it makes clear that foster parents have a subordinate
    and temporary status[?]
    6. Whether the Orphans’ Court erred by stating that but
    for the indicated status, [Maternal Grandmother] would
    have been considered for foster care and [K.D.] placed
    with her when the undisputed evidence is that
    [Maternal Grandmother’s] home would not be approved
    for placement when [K.D.’s] mother, who was and still
    is indicated, was a member of the household?
    The Agency’s Brief at 4-5 (excess capitalization removed).
    Standard of Review
    Our paramount concern in child custody cases is to determine the best
    interests of the child.     Choplosky v. Choplosky, 
    584 A.2d 340
    , 341 (Pa.
    Super. 1990); M.A.T. v. G.S.T., 
    989 A.2d 11
    , 19 (Pa.Super. 2010). Thus,
    “our appellate function is to make an independent judgment that, based on
    the testimony and evidence before us, is in the best interest of the child.”
    
    Id. at 19
    .6
    We review a trial court’s custody determination for an abuse of
    discretion. In re B.L.L., 
    787 A.2d 1007
    , 1015 (Pa. Super. 2001). An abuse
    of discretion does not exist merely because a reviewing court would have
    reached a different conclusion. In Re Adoption of S.P., 
    47 A.3d 817
    , 826
    (Pa. 2012). Appellate courts will find a trial court abuses its discretion if, in
    reaching a conclusion, it overrides or misapplies the law, or the record shows
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    Although M.A.T is a custody case, the best interest of the child analysis
    equally applies in an adoption case.
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    that the trial court’s judgment was either manifestly unreasonable or the
    product of partiality, prejudice, bias or ill will. 
    Id.
    This Court has observed that this Court has the broadest discretion in
    reviewing appeals from Adoption Decrees:
    [A]ppellate review of child custody Orders is of the broadest
    type, McMillen v. McMillen, 
    529 Pa. 198
    , 
    602 A.2d 845
     (1992),
    and we may modify the trial court's custody determination where
    it is shown by evidence of record to be manifestly unreasonable,
    In re: David L.C., 
    376 Pa.Super. 615
    , 
    546 A.2d 694
     (1988);
    see also Robinson v. Robinson, 
    538 Pa. 52
    , 
    645 A.2d 836
    (1994) (appella[te] interference warranted where custody Order
    is manifestly unreasonable). Further, our review is not bound by
    the trial court's deductions, inferences and interpretations of
    evidence and we will exercise independent judgment to consider
    the merits of the case and to enter an Order that is correct and
    just. Bucci v. Bucci, 
    351 Pa.Super. 457
    , 
    506 A.2d 438
     (1986).
    In re Adoption of D.M.H., 
    682 A.2d 315
    , 318 (Pa. Super. 1996).
    The proceedings in an adoption hearing are unique and involve parties,
    experts, investigators, and non-parties to a greater extent than in custody
    hearings, but ultimately are subject to the same standard, ”that being the
    best interest of the child.” In re B.L.L., 
    787 A.2d at 1015
    , citing In re
    Adoption of A.S.H., 
    674 A.2d 698
     (Pa. Super. 1996). .
    Thus, where the trial court has abused its discretion and the record is
    sufficiently developed, this Court may, rather than remand the case,
    “substitute our judgment for that of the trial court and decide the case on
    the merits.” Wiseman v. Wall, 
    718 A.2d 844
    , 851 n.3 (Pa. Super. 1998).
    See also In re Michael T.L. v. Marilyn J.L., 
    525 A.2d 414
    , 421 (Pa.
    Super. 1987) (having found that the award of custody to father was
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    unsupportable by the facts of record, this Court considered the best interests
    of the child and granted custody to mother); In re Custody of Temos, 
    450 A.2d 111
    , 119 (Pa. Super. 1982) (reversing trial court order and awarding
    custody to mother based on facts of record); McAnallen v. McAnallen, 
    446 A.2d 918
    , 923 (Pa. Super. 1982) (awarding custody to mother where
    evidence indicated the best interests of the child would be served by
    awarding custody to mother); W.C.F. v. M.G., 
    115 A.3d, 323
    , 331-32
    (Pa.Super. 2015) (vacating as unreasonable the trial court’s order awarding
    the mother primary physical custody, and remanding for entry of “an order
    consistent with the trial court’s findings and this Court’s decision.”).
    In this case, the Orphans’ Court made a significant error of law and
    abused its discretion by foregoing a proper and complete analysis of the
    undisputed evidence regarding the best interests of the Child.          The court
    based its decision solely on the Child’s biological connection to Grandmother,
    rather than a reasoned review of the entire record. Since the record is
    complete, we reverse the Orphans’ Court granting Grandmother’s Petition to
    Adopt and remand for the Orphans’ Court to enter an Order granting Pre-
    Adoptive Parents’ Petition to Adopt.
    Legal Analysis
    Pre-Adoptive Parents’ third issue and the Agency’s first issue challenge
    the Orphans’ Court’s consideration of Grandmother’s and the Pre-Adoptive
    Parents’ competing adoption petitions.          They assert that because the trial
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    court did not hold a hearing on Grandmother’s Petition for Intervention prior
    to holding a hearing on the adoption petitions, this Court should reverse the
    trial court’s Order.    For the following reason, at this juncture of the
    proceedings, reversal on that basis alone would be inappropriate and not in
    the interests of judicial economy.
    After Pre-Adoptive Parents filed their adoption petition, Grandmother
    responded with an answer and a counterclaim Petition for Adoption.                 The
    Pre-Adoptive Parents and the Agency filed preliminary objections to
    Grandmother’s      Counterclaim   and     Petition    for   Adoption,   arguing    that
    Grandmother was not a party to the proceedings and had not filed a Petition
    to Intervene. They also challenged the lack of documentation supporting
    Grandmother’s counterclaim petition. Grandmother subsequently filed a
    Petition to Intervene as well as her own separate Adoption Petition.
    Although the trial court did not enter an Order that appeared on the lower
    court’s   docket   permitting   Grandmother      to    intervene,   the   trial   court
    ultimately stated that it had granted Grandmother’s request to intervene.
    See Orphans’ Court Decision and Decree, 10/14/15, at 2, citing In re
    Adoption of Hess, 
    608 A.2d 10
     (Pa. 1992).
    Although the lower court’s docket is devoid of an explicit written Order
    granting Grandmother’s Petition to Intervene, we conclude that because
    Grandmother filed a separate Petition for Adoption, the trial court’s
    consideration in one proceeding of all of the parties’ requests for relief was
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    proper. See In re J.E.F., 
    902 A.2d 402
     (Pa. 2006) (concluding that a single
    proceeding is the most expeditious way to address competing adoption
    petitions).    To do anything else at this point of the proceedings would
    elevate form over substance and serve only to delay further the Child’s
    adoption.     Accordingly, we review the remaining issues in the interests of
    judicial economy.
    We will now address the Agency’s and Pre-Adoptive Parents’ remaining
    issues together because they each pertain to the failure of the trial court to
    analyze the Petitions for Adoption according to well-established law.
    Both Pennsylvania’s Adoption Act and case law require the court
    deciding a Petition for Adoption to base its decision on the “physical, mental,
    and emotional needs and welfare of the child.” 23 Pa.C.S. § 2724(b); In Re:
    Adoption of A.S.H., supra at 700. In other words, the court must make its
    decision on a case-by-case basis after consideration of “all factors that bear
    on the child’s physical, emotional, intellectual, moral and spiritual well-
    being,” and the “best interest of the child.” Id.; In Re B.L.L., 
    787 A.2d at 1015
    . See also In re: Adoption of Hess, 
    562 A.2d 1375
    , 1378 (Pa.Super.
    1989) (observing that adoptees “have the right to have their ‘best interests’
    determined upon a consideration of all relevant facts.”).
    We are mindful that, when possible, the preservation of the family is
    the desired outcome in custody matters. However, “[t]he goal of preserving
    the family unit cannot be elevated above all other factors when considering
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    the best interests of the children, but must be weighed in conjunction with
    other factors.” In re Adoption of G.R.L., 
    26 A.3d 1124
    , 1127 (Pa. Super.
    2011) (citation omitted).
    Additionally, the Orphans’ Court has the duty to consider the
    statements and opinions of the Guardian Ad Litem when making its
    determination of which family would better serve the bests interests of the
    child. Adoption of D.M.H., 
    682 A.2d 315
    , 322 (Pa. Super 1996).
    In this case, the Orphans’ Court focused only on Grandmother’s
    interests as a “blood relative,” and the purported inaction of the Agency to
    facilitate increased contact between the Grandmother and Child. 7        See
    Decision and Decree at 9-10. In doing so, the court ignored much
    unrebutted evidence that established that it was not in the Child’s best
    interest to grant Grandmother’s Petition for Adoption.        That evidence
    includes the following:
    Child’s Negative Reaction to Visiting with Grandmother
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    The Orphans’ Court relies upon In the Interest of Tremayne Quame
    Idress R., 
    429 A.2d 40
    , 44 (Pa. Super. 1981), to support its legal
    conclusion of the primacy of blood relationship in determining the best
    interest of a child. This Court in that case discusses the importance of the
    biological relationship for a child. However, after doing a best interest
    analysis, we held that the trial court properly granted custody to the foster
    parent and not to the grandmother.
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    The trial court, without any factual basis, concludes that the Child’s
    visits with Grandmother “are reported to be enjoyable for all involved, and
    have occurred without incident.”      Decision and Decree at 2. Although the
    Child has shown no disruptive behavior during her visits with Grandmother,
    the trial court’s conclusion is contrary to the overwhelming evidence, and
    ignores     the   testimony   from   numerous      witnesses    that   the   Child   is
    traumatized by her visits with Grandmother.
    The undisputed evidence at trial indicated that both before and after
    visits     with    Grandmother,      the   Child     has       tantrums,     becomes
    uncharacteristically aggressive, is unable to sleep, and periodically will
    urinate and defecate on herself. See N.T. at 101-02, 110, 119-121, 150-
    151, 153, 177, 179-80. Even when the Child speaks to Grandmother on the
    telephone, the Child becomes aggressive after the phone call. N.T. at 153.
    It generally takes a few days for the Child’s behavior to settle down after
    these visits. N.T. at 111, 119, 151, 153, 182.
    In contrast, during the weeks that the Child does not visit with the
    Grandmother, the Child is pleasant and easy-going. Id. at 111, 153.
    Grandmother’s Inability to Provide Basic Medical Care and
    Address the Child’s Other Needs at Visits.
    The Agency worker testified that Grandmother had not been able to
    provide basic care to the Child’s eyes during the visits without reminders and
    assistance from the Agency supervisor. See N.T. at 71-72. On one occasion,
    Grandmother took off the Child’s eye patch to take a photo of the Child,
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    placed the eye patch on the floor, and almost placed the contaminated eye
    patch back on the Child’s eye. N.T. at 90-91.
    The unrebutted testimony also established that Grandmother lacked
    good judgment when engaging in activities with the Child. For instance,
    Grandmother wanted to paint the Child’s fingernails. This was a concern
    because there was a risk that, because the Child rubs her eyes frequently,
    the nail polish could get into the Child’s eyes and cause additional damage.
    (N.T. at 74, 82 158-159). In fact, the Grandmother did put glitter nail polish
    on the Child’s nails at one visit and some of the glitter ended up in one of
    the Child’s eyes.
    Additionally, the activities that Grandmother engages in with the Child
    are, at times, for the benefit only of Grandmother and not the Child. For
    instance, Grandmother would bring her dogs to her visits even though
    Grandmother knows that the Child is afraid of dogs. N.T. at 101, 104-05.
    When the Agency supervisor discussed this concern with Grandmother,
    Grandmother told the supervisor that the Child would have to get used to
    the dogs because the dogs are part of Grandmother’s life. N.T. at 101.
    Grandmother ultimately stopped bringing the dogs to the visits.
    Grandmother would also bring clothes to the visits for the Child,
    change the Child into those clothes, even though the Child had no interest in
    constantly changing her clothes, and change her back to her original clothes
    at the end of the visit. N.T. at 71.
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    Grandmother would discuss inappropriate matters with the Child, such
    as the Child’s biological mother, Grandmother’s desire to have unsupervised
    visits, or the status of the court proceedings. N.T. at 72, 93. As a result of
    Grandmother’s inappropriate activities, the caseworkers had to coach
    Grandmother on appropriate conduct at visits with a three-year-old child and
    the manner in which Grandmother should appropriately play and talk with
    the Child. N.T. at 71-73.
    Supervised Visits
    Additionally,   the   Orphans’    Court   faults   the    Agency    for     the
    Grandmother’s failure to be granted more than one, four-hour visit per week
    with    the   Child.    However,    as    discussed   below,     the   Grandmother’s
    inappropriate behavior during supervised visits and the Child’s trauma after
    the visits was the reason for Grandmother not progressing to additional
    contact with the Child.       See N.T. at 98. The Agency is responsible to the
    Child    when     making      recommendations     about    visitation    and      given
    Grandmother’s inappropriate behavior during visits and the Child’s negative
    response to the visits, the Agency properly limited Grandmother’s supervised
    visits. To blame the Agency for the limits on Grandmother’s visits, instead of
    Grandmother’s conduct during the visits, ignores much of the evidence that
    the parties presented at the hearing.
    Grandmother’s Self-Centered View of
    Her Role in the Child’s Life
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    The trial court also failed to consider the Grandmother’s self-centered
    view of her role in the Child’s life. When Grandmother’s attorney asked her
    the reasons that it is in the Child’s best interest to adopt the Child,
    Grandmother’s response was not about her desire to meet the Child’s needs,
    but about Grandmother being a good person and falling in love with the
    Child when the Child was in utero:
    I love my granddaughter with all my heart. I didn’t do anything
    wrong. I would never, ever do anything wrong. I am a good
    person. I’ve always done right. Right from the get-go, right from
    school, after school. I’ve done nothing but good things. I’ve never
    been in any kind of trouble. I have gone to all of her doctor’s
    appointment. I have fallen in love with her while she was still in
    my daughter’s stomach. I saw all of the ultrasounds. I heard the
    heartbeats. One ultrasound stood out. It was like a child pressed
    up against the screen door with the nose pressed in. And my
    daughter’s great big fat cheeks. I just so fell in love with my
    granddaughter.
    N.T. p. 203.
    Although it is important that adoptive parents love the adopted
    children, it is also important that an adoptive parent understand the daily
    work and challenges in providing stability, security and safety for a child,
    especially a medically fragile child. In this case, Grandmother loved the
    theory of having a child to love, but lacked the understanding of the daily
    and never ending commitment to meet the needs of the Child.
    Moreover, Grandmother did not offer any evidence that it would be in
    the Child’s best interests to be with her.        She did not rebut the
    overwhelming evidence presented that the Child was thriving with the Pre-
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    Adoptive Parents.    She did not rebut the evidence of the Child’s pre- and
    post-visit behavior from which it is reasonable to infer that the visits
    negatively affected the Child’s normally pleasant disposition. Although
    Grandmother’s attorney suggested in cross-examining one of the Pre-
    Adoptive   Parents   witnesses    that   it   was   not   just   before   and   after
    Grandmother’s visits that the Child acted out, Grandmother did not rebut the
    testimony provided by multiple witnesses that the Child displayed signs of
    stress and aggression before and after visits with Grandmother, and those
    behaviors would subside until the next visit or contact.         Most significantly,
    there was no evidence presented to counter the overwhelming evidence that
    the Child has a meaningful, stable, and loving bond with her Pre-Adoptive
    family with whom she has lived nearly her entire life. See N.T. at 18, 49,
    91, 113, 131, 159. See In the Interest of Tremayne Quame Idress R.,
    
    429 A.2d 40
    , 44 (Pa. Super. 1981) (holding that “where the custody dispute
    is between two third parties, one who is a relative but not a parent and one
    who is not a relative, the burden of proof should be allocated equally
    between the parties.”).
    Grandmother’s Difficulties Raising Her Own Child
    The trial court also ignored that Grandmother had difficulties raising
    her daughter, the biological mother of the Child. The Agency had to remove
    the daughter from the care of the Grandmother for a year. N.T. at 235.
    Although this factor is not dispositive in determining whether an adoptive
    parent can adopt, it is a factor that the trial court failed to consider.
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    Pre-Adoptive Parents Close Relationship with the Child
    In contrast to Grandmother, when asked if it would be in the Child’s
    best interest to remain with the Pre-Adoptive Parents, the Pre-Adoptive
    Mother’s testimony was not about herself, but about the impact removing
    the Child would have on the Child:
    Because she is stable. She’s has a mom and she has a dad. Which
    is very important in a girl’s life. She’s been there since almost day
    one. I know she was only 6-months old, but she knows her
    territory. [The Child] still has trouble seeing. I’ve watched that
    little girl crawling on the floor and bumping into cupboards. She’s
    come a long ways. We have worked very hard to get [the Child]
    where she is. And I feel like to take her away from us now,
    [Grandmother] may get what she wants, but in the end she won’t
    want what she has. Because it’s going to be devastating. And it’s
    going to do a very, very bad damage to [the Child.]
    N.T.161.
    The testimony presented at trial established that the Child has a
    meaningful and loving bond with her pre-adoptive family that has provided
    her with a safe and nurturing home. See N.T. at 13, 89, 131, 148, 150-152,
    159, 161-62. The Child stays physically close to the Pre-Adoptive Parents,
    hugging them, laughing and interacting with them. N.T. at 90, 112, 152.
    She calls her Pre-Adoptive Parents “mom” or “mommy,” and “dad.” N.T. at
    73, 152. This is not surprising because the Pre-Adoptive Parents have not
    only provided the Child with safety, security and stability for the past three
    years (nearly all her life), but have gone to great lengths to ensure that she
    receives quality medical care for her eyes.
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    Pre-Adoptive Parents have taken her to and cared for her after seven
    eye operations, and arranged for her to participate in blind therapy and then
    vision therapy. They purchased a Nook for her to help her eyes to focus and
    they, along with other caregivers in the house, do books, puzzles and other
    activities with her to help her focus her eyes. N.T. 149-50. In addition, the
    Child receives homeschooling from a teacher who comes to the house each
    day. N.T. at 167.
    Under the care of Pre-Adoptive Parents, the Child has gone from a six
    month old who was unable to see to a happy, well-adjusted, vibrant,
    precocious, smart, and funny four year old. N.T. at 109, 112, 161.
    Significantly, the trial court essentially dismissed the substantial bond
    between the Child and the Pre-Adoptive Parents with whom the Child has
    lived for all but the first six months of her life. In fact, in dismissing the
    relevance of the testimony that the Child has a meaningful and loving bond
    with the Pre-Adoptive Parents, the trial court actually faults the Pre-Adoptive
    Parents for developing a bond with the Child. See Decision and Decree at 8.
    Recommendation from the Guardian Ad Litem and CASA workers
    The trial court also, without any explanation and contrary to its
    obligation, ignored the recommendations of the Guardian Ad Litem and the
    CASA worker who worked closely with the Child, that it should be the Pre-
    Adoptive Parents who adopt the Child. See N.T. at 18, 54, 239. Adoption
    of D.M.H., 
    682 A.2d at 322
    .
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    Conclusion
    Based upon the undisputed testimony and the complete record, we
    reverse the Orphans’ Court grant of the Grandmother’s Petition to Adopt
    and order that the Orphans’ Court grant the Pre-Adoptive Parents Petition to
    Adopt.
    Order vacated.   Case remanded for proceedings consistent with this
    Opinion. Jurisdiction relinquished.
    Judgment Entered.
    Joseph D. Seletyn, Esq.
    Prothonotary
    Date: 7/22/2016
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